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2015 was a pretty good year for me. My biggest highlight is that my youngest son and his girlfriend finally moved to Montreal. Now I have my 3 sons all living near by. So happy.

My 2015 highlight was the Federal election result.... for the first time I participated as a volunteer for my liberal candidate! I couldn't be happier having Harperman gone! And I'm feeling quite hopeful with the initial progress of our new government. If they will take the time and effort to chuck C-36 and make things safer for sex workers I'll be over the moon.

I think one thing being missed here, is that you cannot advertise on bp as underage. You must put a minimum age of 18. So, they are posting pictures of girls who are obviously underage, but listed as 18. Before c-36, the stings were for street workers. Now they are going after clients from backpage. Things to keep in mind. The pictures are of young girls They are always incall to the hotel They want specific discussions of sexual services for money Do your homework. View their recommendations, view their websites, ask your fellow pooners. If the ad says "barely legal, young, etc" and new with no background, stay clear. They haven't stopped, and are just beginning their sweeps. Ladies who are obviously over 18 are getting visits to make sure we arn't exploited. So stay safe everyone.

Hi guys! As I mentioned in my previous post, I will be collecting items for donation and offering a reduced rate for anyone who brings one or more of these items when visiting me. For the months of January and February I will be collecting items for the Ottawa Humane Society. They are currently in need of the following items : -Kong toys -Six-fot nylon leashes -Soft treats for training -Bottles of bubbles to blow -Bird seed for budgies, finches etc. -Pine shavings for small animals -Interactive cat toys A full list can be found on their website http://www.ottawahumane.ca Please PM, text or email me for more info. 613 219 6386 [email protected] http://www.moniquematheson.com Thanks! Monique xoxxo

Wow, a musician ! So many beautiful pieces to pay . I appreciate this. :))) I took lessons for 10 years and I still suck!

Trying to get it on with an underage escort was totally illegal before C36 became law, and will undoubtedly remain so as and when the current laws get revisited. I'm not sure quite why they're trying to spin the story so that it looks like the new laws had something to do with it.

Moved across country to start my new life. Just moved into a new place, with a yard for my dog. Met some great ladies I call my close friends. Met some great gents I also call friends. 2016 is looking great!

May this year of 2016 be, A year of health and happiness A year of wealth and wisdom A year of peace and prosperity A year of glee and glow And also a year of love and laughter Happy New Year to all.

So sorry to hear this. :(((( Additional Comments: Sadness never prevails . We all paint out own ticket and I'm a huge believer in this . When I am unhappy or sad there is a good reason as a rule . This may not apply to you so please only listen to my universal truths. I'm going basic here and if you ever wish to chat I am here. I believe heavily in Karma. Ie: when I make a mistake or treat someone unfairly or perhaps have a slight mis understanding it kills , ( Me) When I am not right with a friend , colleague or client it comes back to me and I suffer the consequences hugely . I don't know your particular circumstances ice but I ALWAYS look to myself when things don't go my way. Usually if I examine my self closely, I can fix perceived awful situations that are entirely my fault . I hope I am not digging to deep here and I speak only for my life. I can say with absolutely certainty when things go a muck its my fault. Universal Truth, our thoughts , ideas and actions create our present reality . If we want change we must look way within , the answers are there for us to discover . Respect and love to you Ice!

unfortunately some people need to also be educated on the laws and post all sorts of things here that thanks to the last government are illegal so the censors (as annoying as they are for all of us including me) were a necessity (at least for the last year as we educated people about the new laws and what they can and can not post)... yes lawyers can easily knock down all sorts of stuff BUT that costs money as lawyers are not free (at least good ones are not)... so we will evolve (council has actually been discussing censors for a few months now) and we are taking it slow. Now if you wish to fully remove the censors here PM me, I am sure we could work out a deal where you pay the retainer fee to a lawyer and we could probably get rid of them off the site all together? 30-50grand should do it.

Forgive me for lowering the tone, but the star, Daisy Ridley, is a hot athletic spinner! :) Kind of a more robust Keira Knightley.

She's great looking, with the sun hitting her just perfectly!

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Brad is 100% correct.... if you are looking for a wonderful lady in Halifax who is a "Bodacious Worship Queen" a "Voracious Sensualist" and a "Full figured Independent" who provides a wonderful level of service then you are looking for Midnite-Energies.... You will never be disappointed.

Some postable pics from our AW social group. Pm me for an invitation. It's hot!!!

I also started without ref... its not the end of the world. Most guys on here have it, be normal and communicate expectations. It always works out in your favour, the girls on here are amazing :)

I started out with.....no reference. If you're a normal human being, the ladies on here will soon pick up on that fact and will find a way to accommodate you. Talk to them without wasting their time and you'll be okay.

Dropped off 100 pairs of mens winter socks to an ottawa shelter. Then felt so good I went and bought another 200 pairs and 83 toques to give to another one of the shelters in Ottawa. And this time will bring a 50lb pail of honey with me. Buckwheat honey that is good for coughs. Its better and more effective and more natural then cough medicine. I am sure they will put it to good use.

Sending best wishes to all my friends here, for a rewarding, healthy, prosperous New Year! To pleasure, success, and friendship in 2016!

Her pics are amazing. .. Anybody have any Intel? http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/back-for-the-demand-diamond-nym-pho-quuen-butt-play-avail/2673366

I don't know if this is the place to post this but I have started a group on Sugar Dating. It is where there is a mutually benificial relationship between a Sugar Daddy ( or Mommy) and a Sugar Baby, usually female but sometimes male as well. It is a cross between the hobby we all enjoy so much and regular dating. Open to all so anyone with some experence is welcome to share oit or anyone courious about this is welcome to learn or ask questions. Happy humping Mb

I've been a Sugar Baby before. There is a lot of ladies who seek this out because they are in College or University and paying for expenses are high. Typically, Sugar Daddies are businessmen who don't have time to have a real relationship because they are consumed in work. They usually want to spoil someone cause they have a lot of money. They usually request, how many meetings per month and then an allowance. It's not called anything else but allowance. The Sugar Daddy offers to pay for phone bills, rent, shopping sprees, travel, etc., you name it. Most of them are married, widowed, divorced, or separated. Some are true bachelors. It all depends on who the Sugar Daddy is and what they are willing to pay the Sugar Baby per date/gathering, weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly. It's also a mutual agreement. Some will have weekly allowances despite them having a meeting with the Sugar Baby. It's borderline Service Provider service only difference is the Sugar Daddy decides what to pay her and what the perks would be. I've had a few Sugar Daddies in the past and quite enjoyed the experience. It is very different from Service Provider to Sugar Baby and some confuse them. A Service Provider can't be like, "each meeting it's X per hour" it doesn't work that way. You meet, if you think it's a match then allowances are discussed. If the Sugar Daddy wants to meet twice a week and pays you bi-weekly of a lump sum, then that is it, even if you met once that week, it's the same amount of allowance. Everyone is different and if they want to spoil her or not or have a set allowance each week, bi-weekly, monthly; is talked about in the first meeting. Usually the Sugar Daddy asks roughly what she is looking for or wants from a Sugar Daddy. One of the hardest things to do is have that first meeting. You need to set aside everything and be open and honest. If you want X amount range per month, or weekly, address that with him. If you want clothing allowance, or something else, express it. Sometimes the Sugar Daddy is open and upfront with what they will offer you. Not everyone will match well with a Sugar Daddy or you won't match well with a Sugar Baby. It's all about preference and connection. Communication and honesty. I do miss that aspect of life. It was very interesting.

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I agree that asking specifically about who someone's employer is on a first meeting is probably not a great way to start off... it might be the result of nervousness by the lady... it's her 1st meeting two or it might be that she has family or friends in the same industry and is concerned her business life and personal life may collide... I treat this question like all others I am asked I am in control of the answer which is my personal information so I can assess the situation and decide to share or not... I have in the past politely told a lady that did not think that was something I could share till I knew her better. Both clients and ladies are trying to rush along a social interaction that normally takes more time... we are searching for words to share that makes the other feel welcome and safe... and guess what that standard is different for everyone of us... sometimes it's perfect and sometimes not so much... I just try to give the benefit of the doubt like I hope she will. In my experience it works out fine more times then it doesn't. Just my Opinion

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For me the term seems fairly accurate. It's not a lifestyle. It's just something I do for fun occasionally and most terms and descriptions of 'us' are pretty negative and derogatory. Hobbyist seems fairly innocuous and I think if you were to look back you'd see that it arose precisely to have a term to call ourselves that doesn't make us sound like like criminal perverts. As has been said above, you're welcome to come up with a better term but I, for one, prefer having a little code that we use here that won't be part of the general vernacular.

Midnite Energies is a bodacious and friendly lady, with many well-deserved recommendations. She's easy to get along with and it's a safe bet that any respectable gents who have spent time with her have considered themselves lucky to have done so. Her website: http://rawr4u.com/

We all have to start somewhere so not having a reference is not always a deal breaker. RM is correct the best approach is to contact the lady you want to meet and respectfully explain your situation... many ladies who include references in their screening process also have alternatives they will use provided you are willing to be upfront with some verifiable information for them... just remember if your dealing with established reputable LYLA Ladies they will have already established their reputation for confidentiality and security so you will not be at any risk in providing them some personal information....their only interest in your information is so that they can effectively screen and ensure their safety. I think it's also fair to suggest that an established longer term presence here on this board can also be helpful to the process... while you have been a member of the board for almost a year you only have 2 posts so that will not tell them too much about you. We all started with no references so it's a normal position for all of us in this lifestyle. Just My Opinion

Happy New Year! The very best to all :)

I just want to thank everyone who donated toys for my Christmas toy drive. It was such a success, so many generous and thoughtful gifts. You guys are the best! It got me thinking , why stop after Christmas? So I've decided to do this year round. I will choose a new organization/cause every month and will post a list of items they are in need of. If you bring one or more of these with you when you come to visit me you will receive my special rate. Stay tuned for details for January donations. Happy Holidays to you all! Hope to see you soon Thanks again Monique xoxo http://www.moniquematheson.com [email protected] 613 219 6386

If you want to ask question, first you can't be shy or the lady can't make you feel uncomfortable. Most of us will make our research on the lady we want to visit so men being very visual people will look at pictures of the said lady. I will give you many examples of what you see and can talk about. 1) She post pictures of toys(dildos, whips, swings etc...) talk about those things. 2) She is well manicured/pedicured so tell her and talk about it (ladies love when a man appreciates those things). 3) She post pictures of her delicious bum or legs or breasts, compliment her on it and ask if she works out. 4) Her pictures were taken outside and you can see that they may not be professional but good nonetheless, compliment her(she will love that). 5) She took pictures with another lady, inquire and tell her it could be fun to have them both together one day(it's every man fantasy). 6) If it's not the first time that you see this lady because you enjoyed your first visit you can ask her if she has a new hair do/color etc... 7) Again not your first visit? Were you a good listener? You can ask her about her kid that was going through hard times at school/job etc... I am a shy person but will lose my shyness quickly if I feel comfortable with any lady and I have a good memory and sometime will see a lady 1-2 years later and ask her about something she said back then and she will be impressed. The main thing when asking any question is to show that you are interested and not asking because you want to make small talk.

My story isn't as spectacular..... It was 1999 and I was young and hadn't seen action in a year, came across some ads in the back of a newspaper by accident and got pretty excited at the thought of having someone I didn't know come by for a little "in and out". Worked up the nerve, called and before I knew it there was a knock at the door. The lady standing there was much older than I expected, probably twice my age at the time, I wanted to send her away but I figured it had got this far and may as well take it all the way. While getting things started enjoyed as CBJ and exploded within a couple minutes. Changed to a new rain jacket and couldn't get it up.... that pretty much ended the night - embarrassed and underwhelmed

I truly hope all of my friends have had a joyus and peaceful Christmas this year. Forgive me for not being in touch with you since I left for Cuba. Upon my return I was knocked out with bad pneumonia and sadly it took 3 Doctors to finally get the right meds! For this reason it has taken much longer than usuale to get better. I am not out of the woods yet. And may require time to get back my healthy glow and in shape. Plan on being tip top shape for my 41st Birthday on Jan 8:) Not long after that I will be having a pro photoshoot. So till then, stay happy and healthy and dont forget who loves ya babe!

Dear Winnipeg, I've been receiving lots of emails & texts from some of you guys asking when I'd return... It's been way too long indeed!!! I have to say, my new career kept me quite busy lately. Good news is, I'll be visiting you very soon in January! Keep an eye open, I'll post new dates soon. In the meantime, enjoy new pics on my page Warmest thoughts and best wishes for a wonderful holiday and a very happy & peaceful new year. How to have an awesome holiday season! 1. Give into Temptation 2. Cherish your loved ones (& send your best wishes to that old friend of yours) 3. Live in the moment 4. Unwrap, Taste & Experience ALL your gifts 5. Don't forget dessert :wink: Btw, I AM NOW ON TWITTER ! I just created a new account on Twitter (finally, I know). Take a second to Follow me (EvaLaperleVIP) & for a sneak peek of my next adventures, candid pictures & sexy teasers Truth is, you'll find not a dirty mind but a sexy imagination & distracting pictures like this one Remember, I don't bite, I kiss ! Happy holidays once again, and don't forget dessert ;) Warmly, Eva L.

As planned I did stop by late Friday afternoon and caught Jenny dressed in black. Had a couple of drinks and a great respite from reality in the CR. After seeing her off from her day shift I managed to connect with Stacy who was very Christmasy in a red ensemble complete with garters and stockings. Just had to unwrap that package over an extended session ...it was a special Christmas eve:) Happy Holidays to all.

If you're looking for a ''peripatetitian'', I'm in! I am not a therapist. I consider myself as a sex-pert. Lot of imagination to deal with any kind of situations, new games, soft bdsm, temptation plays, hot to cold or texture experimentation, toy unboxing, party organization, ... As for ''solving an issue that is not an issue'' is right, I believe. We all come to a point where sex become more an experience than an obligation. It may help (may not), but on longer session, I like laying down in front of a football or hockey game, sitting in angle of the TV, and just play with myself, as inviting as I can be. Having extra toys, feathers, ICE (as for why, this is my dirty secret) and a lot of lub on hand is mandatory! Also, going for shopping with your s.o. in sex shop can give a lot of ideas! Ask questions to those working there, as they would know how use them (WickedWanda's my best for customer service). And last, there is nothing to be ashamed about sex and fantasies, whatever they are. Finally, explore, drop the taboos, and have fun! I'm just a PM away!

And Amberleigh West, again :)

interestingly enough, there has been a long history of the Liberals attempting to do harm reduction legislation in regards to sex work, and the Cons coming along as the next government and undoing it all before it can be put in place. http://policyoptions.irpp.org/issues/november-2015/thirtyyearsoffailure/

On the same theme... Additional Comments:

I gave someone a warning for posting negative comments about a lady, they replied by PM with the following (I removed the persons name to keep them anonymous). My Reply to this person... The internet is so anonymous, it makes it easy to exploit/abuse. I don't know if your being honest when posting negative comments or malicious and trying to discredit someone so here on this site we do not say negative things. PERIOD Anyone who does not agree with this policy I tell to go find another discussion site that is more fitting for them to call home. This community was and will continue to be built on POSITIVE comments and people! It shocks me that people still tell me we are doing things wrong by not allowing negative comments here. This site has been running for a LONG time now and has a good community who embraces that core rule. New members continue to join and try to tell me that this is not the way we should do things. Some even go as far as saying they have some sort of right of freedom of speech to say what they want here in our members only website.... i politely tell them to go review the laws and when they educate themselves come back and apologize for the ignorance. Some stats to share and prove our policies work... Cerb/Lyla Purges some old posts each year (a few thousand) but currently we have 525,041 posts We have over 55,600 registered members We have over 9400 members who post and contribute (Active Members) On average we have 1100 people on the site at ANY given time We have OVER 60000 unique visitors a month to the site We have OVER 200000 visits to the site per month On average the site serves 190GB of data per month! ... and that accounts for over 15 MILLION hits! Being positive, being nice to people, focusing on the good! ... IT WORKS!

Back in 1995 I was in Montreal on business. After a particularly draining day, I decided to indulge in a little company. Now remember, this was before internet, so the "search" consisted of looking at the ads in the local newspapers. One ad caught my eye. Blonde quebecoise, 21yrs old, blue eyes. Sounded good. I called the number and arranged for a one-hour date. "Kim" arrives at my hotel room. Yup, she was gorgeous, but something was adrift. She walks in, calls the agency and the date begins. She undresses and lays on the bed. I was massaging her back when it hit me.. she fell asleep!! Wow, someone else had a worse day than me! Then the snoring started. Wonderful. I tried to shake her a bit to wake her up, but she was sound asleep. A bit of panic set in. I didn't know what to do. I am still dressed, so I decide to sit on the chair and have a smoke. Kim was on her stomach, naked and sound asleep, in a pose that reminded me of Jill Masterson covered in gold in the James Bond movie "Goldfinger". After about an hour, a woman calls the hotel room, says she is calling for Kim. I explained the situation and the woman on the phone yells out "merde!". Another 15-20 minutes go by and there's a knock on my door. The person identifies herself as the woman from the agency. She enters and proceeds to wake up Kim. Kim is groggy but starts to put her clothes on. The other woman checks Kim's purse and makes sure she is dressed ok. The woman returns my envelope and apologizes. Both women left my room a few moments later. Thus ended my first experience. It would be another two years before I even thought of entertaining another encounter. CM

And having a CERB lady come visit YOU is completely legal in every way (in Canada) as long as she is of or beyond the age of consent :)