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It's not usual to wish a happy birthday to members who are not currently active on here, but then Claire Heavens isn't your usual member. She has more recommendations than anybody else, about 200 of them, more hits on her page than almost anyone, more friends...She is a genuine personality and a great beauty, and Jan. 13 is her birthday. So I wish Claire all the best on her day and throughout the coming year, and I know I'm not alone in hoping to see her again here with us. Happy Birthday, Claire!

Hello Everyone! I'm Mia! Your Hot & Sexy New Latina Sensation In Ottawa East! I'm a 29yr old Latin/Italian Mix of Sensuality & Fun! I stand 5'4, I'm 135lbs, 36C with Dark Brown Hair & Eyes & I'm Very Open-Minded & Eagar To Please! You can find me at Vibe! TODAY from 1:45pm until 4pm!! Also This Weekend On: Saturday from 10am until 4pm & Sunday from 4pm until 10pm too!! Please Call 613 680 8059 To Reserve Our Time Together! xoxo MIA

Quite a M.I.L.F., but not yet a Cougar; Small breast, perfect buns; No tan, very fair complexion; Dark short hair, but definetly a redhead; Not a spinner, but athletic; Couple of strechmarks, but still a size 6. Not enough for you? What about a little trip to my reco? I am definetly a head spinner, an athlete, down to Earth, a little sarcastic, with a GREAT sense of humour. Ready to host you in my home, you'll have to make the trip. If you do, I will make it worth your while. Located in the Lower-Laurantians, I, for now, preffer to gather to my OTT fans. Available from now to the end of the week. Want to bring your favorite friend? Sure! Drop me a line!

As noted by many already I can imagine that some clients might use the promise of a review as a way to attempt to influence the "quality" of the encounter... I would guess if this was the case the client would have to raise the prospect of the "positive Review" either before or during the actual service portion of the encounter which to me would be a bit of a red light for the lady. Frankly I find it kind of silly to think that the quality of the service a lady would provide would change based on the prospect of a review... Now if the client was to take the approach that they would threaten a negative review unless they received a specific service I would suggest that the lady discontinue the service and ask the guy to leave... if the jerk posts a negative review somewhere just keep in mind that a guy who would try something like that has most likely already been pegged as a Jerk by others and the review would be treated accordingly. As for guys saying the will post a review and never actually following through... in most cases I would chalk that simply up to the guy having an honest intention at the time that that not matched by their actions on the sexy lady is no longer in front of them.... Lol... now if I was a SP and I had discussed with the client his posting of a review I would probably pop him a message to ask what happened to the review.... so ladies if I ever tell you I will post a review and then don't follow through its just my lousy time management so feel free to ask me about it. My approach to reviews has always been to only discuss the issue with the lady at the conclusion of the session... I can't say I do it at the end because I don't want it to impact the session because frankly up till now that never really occurred to me... I have usually raised the issue at the end or by a post encounter message only because I will never post a review without the approval of the lady and in fact I send them the draft prior to posting the review not necessarily for their review but certainly to provide them with an opportunity to point out any concerns they may have. In my experience more and more ladies are expressing a lack of interest in any form of review. Just my Opinion

Yeah... some of those guys are just intentional time-wasters. But there are other reasons possible, too. I suspect a lot of guys like the excitement of planning and communicating, dipping their toes in the fantasy... but balk whenever it comes time to act. They'll talk and talk, but never book. It's not exactly malicious... but it's inconsiderate, no matter what the reason behind it. Also consider that people just have different states of mind at different times. What seems to a client like a great idea and an exciting adventure for a while, might eventually crash against the rocky shores of simple fear, a case of a suddenly cold heart, or just a bad day. It's an especially pronounced hazard for providers in an industry that centers around the kind of impulses, desires, and fantasies whose strength varies from one day to the next. Lots of people aren't very capable, or consistent, when dealing with those.

Yeah, over the years here I've seen SPs make a few references to clients who will say "if you will do X, I'll give you a good recommendation." Or worse: "if you don't do X, I'll write a bad review." And here X is usually a discount, but sometimes it's something else... Happily that's always been in references to clients from other boards. A "bad review" won't be an issue here; although a PM whispering campaign might be, I suppose. I suppose clients might make repeated and enthusiastic promises of a good recommendation in the hopes of getting some kind of extra service during the session. They may have never intended to write one, they were just looking for that bonus they were imagining. Finally, there's just the possibility that the clients were being genuine and friendly at the time. But once away from the session their enthusiasm waned, and then they just wilted at the prospect of doing actual work and writing that review they'd promised.

I think I get what she's saying, and most of that doesn't take place here on Lyla as far as I can tell, it's more on other boards. Bullying does happen over there, but it's done in ways not so obvious, but really just reading the posts you can tell. Many of the reviewers won't write reviews for plenty of ladies they've seen, even if they had an amazing time, because they don't fit a certain criteria, and you'll notice occasionally those that may decide to brave it out and write a review or inquire about someone who's outside the "norm" for the boards, they'll get made fun of or similar ridiculous reactions. Also at times, if a certain provider is consistently well-reviewed and someone posts a negative review, even if that person's experiences are legitimate, the poster will often get heckled for it. Same goes for a provider who's consistently badly-reviewed and they get a good one, they'll think it's a shill. The bullying happens on boards, it's just not done in the same way we picture bullying in everyday life. Posted via Mobile Device

Been getting news, of people uppercutting other hobbyists, to get them to only review on girls they like. A bunch of other drama going on, that I don't understand, as I myself aren't writing the reviews. I have encountered regulars who (without my coaxing) went on and on about how they would love to review me, which is fine. I don't care, if they didn't. But they made it a point, to tell me this, so when they don't write a review it confused me. I've heard things like oh, they are lazy, if they were lazy, I don't think they would mention reviewing me. I sought out advice and heard a lot of responses involving Review Board Bullies. Would somebody elaborate on this more, so I can better understand this? I'd also like to make it stop, as writing a good review shouldn't have to be a stressful thing. I always considered Lyla to be the most reputable and most respectful review boards and it boggles me that such things are happening. Pm's welcome for discretionary reasoning

Good evening, It seems the time has come and I'll be making my way to Fredericton and Saint John next week! I'll be arriving in Fredericton on Monday, January 18th and arriving in Saint John on Tuesday the 19th. I know one thing, I can't wait to see you! If I am so lucky and our schedules coordinate you can email me at [email protected] If you would like to learn a little bit more about me please feel free to take a peak at my website http://www.carleychase.com If we have not yet had the pleasure of getting acquainted, my name is Carley Chase. I'm an independent, part time, high end companion. I'm extremely open minded and I like to throughly enjoy or time together. I will take you to places you never thought possible. You and I will explore things that you have only ever dreamt about. I will be your dream girl. Do you like to be in charge? Do you like a woman in charge? All you need to do is tell me and I'll make it all come true. I will be waiting for you. Sweet dreams Carley xox

Proving once again that rape is not about sex -- it's about power. I'm very sorry to hear you had to endure this, brodystyles.

ocean blue boxers with orange clown fish on them aka my lucky 'finding nookie' shorts :-) heh

I agree with MightyPen: some people will make just any kind of promises hopping to get free rides or extras. Don't take it personally... I'm pretty sure this is not the kind of clientele you wanna keep around ;)

on another note, I have visited MsManda couple times and she really is quite the experience :-) Very pleased!

My Personal Highlights of 2015 I moved to St John's and decided to join Lyla and work with amazing people within the province and visitors :) I met a FUNtastic lady who has started out to be a workmate and playmate but has turned into an amazing friend and work sister :) And Bought a HARLEY TRI-GLIDE :)

I can't imagine how review board bullying would even work. I've been here a while, I have often posted recommendations, and I have occasionally taken part in discussions like this. I've occasionally had people in discussions say things that seemed to me to be rude, but much less so than in other online forums. Really, I can't see how anyone could influence me to post or not post a recommendation. The Mod might remove an inappropriate post, but as far as I know the hobbyists on this site don't interact other than in the posts on this site (other than the very rare "socials") or by pm. If I were planning to post a recommendation, it seems to me extraordinarily unlikely any other member would know that until after I had posted it. I'm not meaning to criticize you, Brody, just trying to put your mind at rest that it is unlikely there is such a problem.

With the end of summer, :-(, marks the end of short skirts, summer dresses, short shorts, tight jeans, t-shirts, and wonderful people suntanning in the parks and at the beach. And the end of natural tan lines. Tan lines are they a turn on for you ? Do you find them sexy and appealing or... But these are a turn on for me: And for you, Tan lines: In or out ? But this is not bad either...

Good afternoon, Thank you for a great time back in St. John's. It was lovely to enjoy the island hospitality. I hope to see you again soon. xoxo Emily

The massage being offered in Sydney "Vickieshands" is legit and no sting operation. Lilly offers a great experience Posted via Mobile Device

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IBM grey - perfect for a mid-week work day with little to no chance jockey shorts will be seen by anyone but myself - sigh...

Does anyone know what happened to Kandice or where she went after early May 2015? That is when she appears to have dropped off the ALO schedule and her Lyla account went inactive.

Hello Gentlemen of Ottawa, If you are seeking for a genuine , easy going High Class Companionship, with top-notch service who carry herself with elegance and charm. Well allow me to introduce myself. My name is kathy and It is my second time touring ottawa.I am glad to say that i will be visiting you until the 16th of january. Come treat yourself to an experience that will awaken all your senses! I'm sensual,sexy and seductive with just the right amount of naughtiness to take all your stress away. I take pride in maintaining myself,features will impress you .I have an angel face that matches my beautiful personality. Its often say that i have a sweet kind soul and i'm positive you'll get the chance to notice it first hand. I love the company of a men who knows how to treat a Woman the way she deserves to be treated.I take pleasure in learning from others and engaging in intellectual conversations. I am a sincere listener. I don't smoke but can enjoy an occasional glass of wine with a respectful polished gentlemen.Also i'm touring with my girl Mia, that makes double the fun. Hope we meet soon for a adventurous moment together ! As I am only visiting for a short time, pre-booking is always welcomed to ensure we will be able to spend time together. Text or call : 613-853-2165 Email: [email protected]

I only met with Cristy Curves and couple times with MsManda and was never disappointed.

Let's get to know each other or reconnect over a drink while watching beautiful dancers grace the stage at Barbarella's. Then we can get cozy in the Champagne Room. With my long auburn hair hiding us from the rest of the world, we can share a sensual escape of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. Let me warm you up from the cold at 340 Queen Street on Saturday, January 16, 2-7pm. I'll also be in on Friday, January 22nd, 1-6pm. Starting February, I'll only be at Barb's one Saturday a month. XO

strange post. Why not ask your friend?

Can't go wrong with her.

That's exactly what I have been hearing about.

Gents, I have decided to visit your fine city .. I am tentatively looking at staying a week .. I will be coming there with Sensual Katherine and hopefully it will be the first of many trips to come in the future .. I am the Mystery Lady your heart has always searched for .. and the Playful Kitten who is both seductive and sultry your dreams have woke you up about .. and the One and Only True Desire you Need to Fulfill Your Fantasies with .. I guarantee the next time you see the Autumn Leaves flowing in the Wind or rain dripping down your window pane you will think of me .. of us !! If you are interested in meeting me and would like to book an appointment please either PM directly on here or text / call 902-702-2330. I look forward in making memories with you to last a lifetime or until our next encounter Wink Breast Wishes, Autumn xo

2015 was a very good year for me. Bought a fabulous place to live, and found 2 family members I never knew I had! Hopefully 2016 will be great for everyone. And, as Katherine said, I too believe in karma. Whatever you put out there in the universe comes back to you ten fold. If you give bad, you get bad. I try to surround myself with positivity.

i must say, barbs has many attractive women. unfortunately i have moved out of ottawa but i admit i come down all the way from toronto just to get a dosage of my favourite girls. Phoenix is a stunner a walking doll, montana fairly new but super sweet. Jenny is my daytime fun. Thank you barbarellas for having such great women!

Black Thongs with white polka dots lol

Hi!!! I'm excited to say I'll be available downtown from the late afternoon of Wed (13th) until tomorrow noon Friday (15th) (possibly Saturday with advance booking). As always, I'll be in a discreet, smoke-free location with ample street & lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking only) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed, unless PJs, bleary eyes and a teddy bear being dragged by his paw is your thing) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who are more daring... the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a slim & athletic but curvy 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with very long (real) dark hair and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones! Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste 613-793-4183

I have been here for a few years now, and I've written a fair number of reviews. I can promise you that not once have I ever been bullied into writing them by anyone. If it happens, and the mod is made aware of it, this bullying will be taken care of in no time. I don't write a review of every visit I make. When I enjoy the time I've spent with a lady, I always offer to her and to get her blessing first before I write one . There are some established ladies who prefer not to receive one and I am fine with that. I am sure in your case, Brody, the gentlemen who have promised and not delivered, must have been side-tracked by other things in their lives. Given some time, they might still deliver. Don't forget it does take some time to write a trustworthy and decent review.

In reading your original post I got to think about "why" someone would try to use a review to bully? As I see it then the reasons might be- 1. He hopes that it will intimidate you into giving him a free ride 2. He is pissed at something you may have said in text or on a post 3. He is trying to 'clear the field' for another SP in your area 3. He has psychological issues of being in inadequate 4. He is just a self-righteous bully and it's the only way he relates to other people I suggest you put him in the jerk category and try to ignore him and move on unless it feels it may threaten your safety

Hello Gentlemen, Its been a long time but I'm happy to be returning to your arms once again. I will arrive tomorrow evening and be there until Wednesday. I am your very friendly , down to earth sort of lady and I love to laugh and have fun. I work keenly with your mind, body and spirit and no two encounters are the same. I am there for you 100 percent. Come in , sit down and relax. Then take my hand, I know exactly what you need and I promise you an experience you have not had before. I also will be available with your own Lady Sophia. We have many ways in which we can delight you. Together we create explosive energy. Would you like 4 hands and 2 sexy lady's pampering you? Perhaps something more adventurous? So many decisions to make. Please PM either of us for further details and times available. :) Katherine www.sensualkatherine.net

I've been an atheist my entire life. I was kind of obnoxious about it when I was young; but I'm more mellow now, having seen much more about people and their behaviour. These days, I think that overall religion does much more good than harm. But it certainly does it share of harm, and some of that is horrendous. Religion's role is mostly social cohesion: it provides a community to which people can belong, and that helps them feel connected to something bigger than themselves. Human beings are herd creatures, so this satisfies an important psychological need for most people. It also offers a sense of meaning and order to the world ("don't worry, someone's in charge, and it all makes sense even if we can' see how"). And yes, it encourages conformity to the religion's moral system with the promise/threat of a supernatural monitor. For 90% of people this all has a good result; folks maybe go to a church or equivalent, meet their neighbours regularly, try to be good people and good members of their community, and draw comfort when things go badly. Communities that happen to be religious can organize to do a lot of good. Now, that said... there's also that last 10% who take elements of religion, and seize upon them with their own pathology or just jerk-ness. People use religion to justify being judgmental (that's not religion; that's just people), authoritarian (people again), violent (people again), and ridiculously clannish about who is in their club and who is out (people again). But it's only people who are already inclined this way who turn to extremes; and sure, while religion serves their miserable psychology well, they'd have found something else to work with if religion hadn't been handy. (Yes, I'm looking at YOU, UK football hooligans. Point for point.) It's true that in its reliance on absolute and unquestionable authority, religion has the potential to hold back other ways of understanding the world (like scientific inquiry). But most people aren't absolute, and don't hold slavishly to either a religious or scientific view. For the most part, smart and healthy people can take the best from both and live their lives happily and constructively.

If I am following the context of your post then my answer is, "YES," religion is holding us back. I am looking at it with a historical view, a world view, and a current view, and things do not seem to have changed much over time. One only need look at the Crusades with Christians vs Muslims. Northern Ireland, Protestant vs Catholic. In Canadian history we think of Britain vs France but in reality that was also a conflict based on religion with Protestant vs Catholic again. In the 21st Century it looks like now it's Muslims, or at least their skewed version of it, vs Christians. Global conflict is keeping us back, and much of it was and continues to be based on religion. Just imagine the society we could be without the massive funds set aside for the military and anti-terrorism things. The saddest part and most ironic is that the common denominator of all religions is peace. Thanks Steve for starting this thread. MN2

I went to see her a few weeks ago. Her massage is great. I find her attractive and sexy. She did teasing moves such as standing above my head and leaning forward to massage from my chest down to my tummy. My nose was pressing on the material of her tank top between her breasts. She also leans her hips against your arm and hand when she is massaging. No teasing of the boys or anything like that. From the other reviews in this thread, I'll assume that she was doing this for extra tips.

As a SPs point of view who has seen a few religious clients, they address their concern to me about it. I remember one said that in his religion being intimate is healthy and it's encouraged (I really don't remember the name of the religion) others were concerned that they had done something terrible and scared their partner would find out, some believed in parts of it and were fine. Everyone is different. Some religions they practice intimate encounters differently, which I was honored to experience. It's not just religion it can also be culture and how they grew up, without having to do with religion at all.

I have seen her. She is legit and requires transportation usually so outcalls for the most part. She is fun and open minded however she may be a few pounds larger than her pics. I would repeat!

I often get asked about this so here it is again :)

Hi to you! We all have jitters, ladies and gents. Its quite natural and I am always a little excited/ nervous meeting for the first time. Best advice for a great time is contact a lady you are interested in meeting . Introduce yourself , be polite and if you feel the connection is there you will have no issues with a Lyla lady . Be kind, courteous and follow her booking instructions and I am sure she will do her absolute best to make you feel at home and like old friends. Good luck and make that plunge! :icon_smile:

We all have to start somewhere so not having a reference is not always a deal breaker. RM is correct the best approach is to contact the lady you want to meet and respectfully explain your situation... many ladies who include references in their screening process also have alternatives they will use provided you are willing to be upfront with some verifiable information for them... just remember if your dealing with established reputable LYLA Ladies they will have already established their reputation for confidentiality and security so you will not be at any risk in providing them some personal information....their only interest in your information is so that they can effectively screen and ensure their safety. I think it's also fair to suggest that an established longer term presence here on this board can also be helpful to the process... while you have been a member of the board for almost a year you only have 2 posts so that will not tell them too much about you. We all started with no references so it's a normal position for all of us in this lifestyle. Just My Opinion

Nerd - let's just say it's a very reliable source and I'm obviously not at liberty to reveal personal information on a public forum regarding this. All I'm saying is be careful as this residence is now being watched - what you do with that information is entirely up to you.

Yes have to agree! I was shopping in that part of town and thought I would try out the new location. I have been a fan for years for some of the ALO ladies (Gina, Vitto and a few others from years and years ago) so I took a chance. The rooms are huge, nicely decorated and in a discrete part of the business park. Highly recommend that location if you have a favorite ALO lady to play with. Merry Christmas everyone

I have seen her a few times. Uber safe, great dancer, absolutely stunning! I would recommend if you want style over substance.

Never had a reason To go to Winnipeg til NOW, Giddy up Camsterxx!!! :-)

very good massage, well worth it, all above board

Hi - tx for letting me know -I figured as much -but a good massage and price and east end, so still can't go wrong -cheers!