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It's not usual to wish a happy birthday to members who are not currently active on here, but then Claire Heavens isn't your usual member. She has more recommendations than anybody else, about 200 of them, more hits on her page than almost anyone, more friends...She is a genuine personality and a great beauty, and Jan. 13 is her birthday. So I wish Claire all the best on her day and throughout the coming year, and I know I'm not alone in hoping to see her again here with us. Happy Birthday, Claire!

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Quite a M.I.L.F., but not yet a Cougar; Small breast, perfect buns; No tan, very fair complexion; Dark short hair, but definetly a redhead; Not a spinner, but athletic; Couple of strechmarks, but still a size 6. Not enough for you? What about a little trip to my reco? I am definetly a head spinner, an athlete, down to Earth, a little sarcastic, with a GREAT sense of humour. Ready to host you in my home, you'll have to make the trip. If you do, I will make it worth your while. Located in the Lower-Laurantians, I, for now, preffer to gather to my OTT fans. Available from now to the end of the week. Want to bring your favorite friend? Sure! Drop me a line!

As noted by many already I can imagine that some clients might use the promise of a review as a way to attempt to influence the "quality" of the encounter... I would guess if this was the case the client would have to raise the prospect of the "positive Review" either before or during the actual service portion of the encounter which to me would be a bit of a red light for the lady. Frankly I find it kind of silly to think that the quality of the service a lady would provide would change based on the prospect of a review... Now if the client was to take the approach that they would threaten a negative review unless they received a specific service I would suggest that the lady discontinue the service and ask the guy to leave... if the jerk posts a negative review somewhere just keep in mind that a guy who would try something like that has most likely already been pegged as a Jerk by others and the review would be treated accordingly. As for guys saying the will post a review and never actually following through... in most cases I would chalk that simply up to the guy having an honest intention at the time that that not matched by their actions on the sexy lady is no longer in front of them.... Lol... now if I was a SP and I had discussed with the client his posting of a review I would probably pop him a message to ask what happened to the review.... so ladies if I ever tell you I will post a review and then don't follow through its just my lousy time management so feel free to ask me about it. My approach to reviews has always been to only discuss the issue with the lady at the conclusion of the session... I can't say I do it at the end because I don't want it to impact the session because frankly up till now that never really occurred to me... I have usually raised the issue at the end or by a post encounter message only because I will never post a review without the approval of the lady and in fact I send them the draft prior to posting the review not necessarily for their review but certainly to provide them with an opportunity to point out any concerns they may have. In my experience more and more ladies are expressing a lack of interest in any form of review. Just my Opinion

Yeah... some of those guys are just intentional time-wasters. But there are other reasons possible, too. I suspect a lot of guys like the excitement of planning and communicating, dipping their toes in the fantasy... but balk whenever it comes time to act. They'll talk and talk, but never book. It's not exactly malicious... but it's inconsiderate, no matter what the reason behind it. Also consider that people just have different states of mind at different times. What seems to a client like a great idea and an exciting adventure for a while, might eventually crash against the rocky shores of simple fear, a case of a suddenly cold heart, or just a bad day. It's an especially pronounced hazard for providers in an industry that centers around the kind of impulses, desires, and fantasies whose strength varies from one day to the next. Lots of people aren't very capable, or consistent, when dealing with those.

Yeah, over the years here I've seen SPs make a few references to clients who will say "if you will do X, I'll give you a good recommendation." Or worse: "if you don't do X, I'll write a bad review." And here X is usually a discount, but sometimes it's something else... Happily that's always been in references to clients from other boards. A "bad review" won't be an issue here; although a PM whispering campaign might be, I suppose. I suppose clients might make repeated and enthusiastic promises of a good recommendation in the hopes of getting some kind of extra service during the session. They may have never intended to write one, they were just looking for that bonus they were imagining. Finally, there's just the possibility that the clients were being genuine and friendly at the time. But once away from the session their enthusiasm waned, and then they just wilted at the prospect of doing actual work and writing that review they'd promised.

I think I get what she's saying, and most of that doesn't take place here on Lyla as far as I can tell, it's more on other boards. Bullying does happen over there, but it's done in ways not so obvious, but really just reading the posts you can tell. Many of the reviewers won't write reviews for plenty of ladies they've seen, even if they had an amazing time, because they don't fit a certain criteria, and you'll notice occasionally those that may decide to brave it out and write a review or inquire about someone who's outside the "norm" for the boards, they'll get made fun of or similar ridiculous reactions. Also at times, if a certain provider is consistently well-reviewed and someone posts a negative review, even if that person's experiences are legitimate, the poster will often get heckled for it. Same goes for a provider who's consistently badly-reviewed and they get a good one, they'll think it's a shill. The bullying happens on boards, it's just not done in the same way we picture bullying in everyday life. Posted via Mobile Device

Been getting news, of people uppercutting other hobbyists, to get them to only review on girls they like. A bunch of other drama going on, that I don't understand, as I myself aren't writing the reviews. I have encountered regulars who (without my coaxing) went on and on about how they would love to review me, which is fine. I don't care, if they didn't. But they made it a point, to tell me this, so when they don't write a review it confused me. I've heard things like oh, they are lazy, if they were lazy, I don't think they would mention reviewing me. I sought out advice and heard a lot of responses involving Review Board Bullies. Would somebody elaborate on this more, so I can better understand this? I'd also like to make it stop, as writing a good review shouldn't have to be a stressful thing. I always considered Lyla to be the most reputable and most respectful review boards and it boggles me that such things are happening. Pm's welcome for discretionary reasoning

Good evening, It seems the time has come and I'll be making my way to Fredericton and Saint John next week! I'll be arriving in Fredericton on Monday, January 18th and arriving in Saint John on Tuesday the 19th. I know one thing, I can't wait to see you! If I am so lucky and our schedules coordinate you can email me at [email protected] If you would like to learn a little bit more about me please feel free to take a peak at my website http://www.carleychase.com If we have not yet had the pleasure of getting acquainted, my name is Carley Chase. I'm an independent, part time, high end companion. I'm extremely open minded and I like to throughly enjoy or time together. I will take you to places you never thought possible. You and I will explore things that you have only ever dreamt about. I will be your dream girl. Do you like to be in charge? Do you like a woman in charge? All you need to do is tell me and I'll make it all come true. I will be waiting for you. Sweet dreams Carley xox

Proving once again that rape is not about sex -- it's about power. I'm very sorry to hear you had to endure this, brodystyles.

ocean blue boxers with orange clown fish on them aka my lucky 'finding nookie' shorts :-) heh

I agree with MightyPen: some people will make just any kind of promises hopping to get free rides or extras. Don't take it personally... I'm pretty sure this is not the kind of clientele you wanna keep around ;)

on another note, I have visited MsManda couple times and she really is quite the experience :-) Very pleased!

My Personal Highlights of 2015 I moved to St John's and decided to join Lyla and work with amazing people within the province and visitors :) I met a FUNtastic lady who has started out to be a workmate and playmate but has turned into an amazing friend and work sister :) And Bought a HARLEY TRI-GLIDE :)

I can't imagine how review board bullying would even work. I've been here a while, I have often posted recommendations, and I have occasionally taken part in discussions like this. I've occasionally had people in discussions say things that seemed to me to be rude, but much less so than in other online forums. Really, I can't see how anyone could influence me to post or not post a recommendation. The Mod might remove an inappropriate post, but as far as I know the hobbyists on this site don't interact other than in the posts on this site (other than the very rare "socials") or by pm. If I were planning to post a recommendation, it seems to me extraordinarily unlikely any other member would know that until after I had posted it. I'm not meaning to criticize you, Brody, just trying to put your mind at rest that it is unlikely there is such a problem.

With the end of summer, :-(, marks the end of short skirts, summer dresses, short shorts, tight jeans, t-shirts, and wonderful people suntanning in the parks and at the beach. And the end of natural tan lines. Tan lines are they a turn on for you ? Do you find them sexy and appealing or... But these are a turn on for me: And for you, Tan lines: In or out ? But this is not bad either...

I often get asked about how to post pics in threads. This is how. You find an image from a site like tumblr, right click it, left click "copy image location," then go to the place you want to post. Above the box where you type, there's this icon Click on it, and paste the url that you've copied into the box that opens. Click OK, and that's it! tumblr is a good source, because unlike some other sites, its pictures don't seem to be the disappearing kind. Important reminder: cerb rules forbid posting pics that show genitals or pubic hair. Please remember this.

Good afternoon, Thank you for a great time back in St. John's. It was lovely to enjoy the island hospitality. I hope to see you again soon. xoxo Emily

I would love it in that location so I am interested in what you find out.

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I think you may be reading her actions wrong. I've been to spas and received an RMT massage with such events but I would say nothing more than the positions required to provide a good massage. My opinion !!

Medium (question and answer reminiscent of Goldilocks and the three bears!) Boiled Eggs: Hard or Soft?

I believe I saw her the other day. And that's why I am here now. Her add said 26 but she was much older. I would not recommend anything else you need you can pm me

good on ya for caring to share :-)

Have reached the time of day where the question becomes moot...

Been through the same thing, probably the same agency. They fired me for being a safe girl. I then found 613Girls and stuck to that agency for a while.I truly learnt a lot about myself as, Tracey is like having a second mom and helped me grow a back bone and now I am on my own and have my head on right.

Let's get to know each other or reconnect over a drink while watching beautiful dancers grace the stage at Barbarella's. Then we can get cozy in the Champagne Room. With my long auburn hair hiding us from the rest of the world, we can share a sensual escape of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. Let me warm you up from the cold at 340 Queen Street on Saturday, January 16, 2-7pm. I'll also be in on Friday, January 22nd, 1-6pm. Starting February, I'll only be at Barb's one Saturday a month. XO

Thank you Brody Styles! I agree with you 100%! I have sadly had to ask several men to leave during my time as an SP for very good(well in this case very bad lol) and justified reasons and unfortunately some/most of them did not take it very well at all and a couple even got physical, which was shocking because I would never ask rudely, I asked very nicely and calmly. I'm sorry to hear about the client who did that to you Brody, it's sad to say but among the very nice and kind men in the industry, there are some not so kind men that will try to manipulate and take advantage. I have had a couple times when I first started when I was really shy and new some men would try to do certain things and yes, even try to slip it off without me noticing(I did thank goodness) and I was working with an agency in Ottawa that didn't treat the ladies to nicely and would get mad if we asked clients to leave etc but luckily I have matured A LOT since then and am definitely not afraid to to let certain people know I AM the boss! ;)

Yesterday (Monday) evening at Playmate, the club was relatively quiet: Kim, Chanel, Ashley, Savannah, Ruby, Molly, Candy and another girl unknown to me.

As OC Transpo says: Respect & Courtesy are a 2-way Street! :-P Unfortunately, this type of immature, deceitful and pathetic communication you describe is not only the hallmark of an un-professional failure of a person, but is all too common with people on but sides of the hobbying fence (hobbyists and providers alike; and of course, this is not restricted to just to the hobbying business). Too many examples to possibly give - but imho opinion it's best Not to try and stop such behaviour (as you never will), rather learn how to quickly deal with such losers, cut them off, and move on to better things and people on life :-) Through the weeds you will find gems, as us hobbyists also do when exploring the landscape of lust we love to play in :-D Gems do shine... and then they get glowing Recos ;-) This all leads me to think of the phrase in French: C'est la vie! All the Best in 2016!

2015 was a very good year for me. Bought a fabulous place to live, and found 2 family members I never knew I had! Hopefully 2016 will be great for everyone. And, as Katherine said, I too believe in karma. Whatever you put out there in the universe comes back to you ten fold. If you give bad, you get bad. I try to surround myself with positivity.

Black Thongs with white polka dots lol

Going through my closet and drawers to see what i can donate .. its a selfish act .. the more i give away the more room for new :)

I'm not into the drama, stuff, that said, there was new member that attempted to use the handle pistol pete...(space in between), on this board. That said, he has (handle) been removed from members list.I also received a email from a provider that told me if I changed my email addy, which I have NOT. If a lady is contacted by ME, and those ladies that know myself, I will introduce myself through a PM or DM (Twitter) or email, once communication is set up, I will give my contact number, and THEN send same (contact number) back to them through PM,DM email to confirm it is ME. Your safety and mine is paramount to take these necessary steps to enjoy a successful,mutual enjoyment together. Thanks, and be safe ladies. ;)

I wouldn't even bat a lash. I'd get up and tell him to leave immediately as I would be appalled and wouldn't wish to see him further. I have had many encounters, with clients who were "in the zone" and would never try to manipulate me into going bare, and go against what my restrictions are, to better suit them. If someone sends me a message that's demeaning or disrespectful, I ignore them and block them on my phone or email. Nobody deserves to be talked to like a show dog or be expected to do anything on their command just because they are paying for your time. That shit pisses me right off. I used to be a pushover and give chances in those instances. I ended up with a client who would sneak the condom off and I didn't know until it was too late. This resulted in him gloating about getting what he wanted. I asked him to leave immediately and and I yelled and got my message across quickly. I ended up with a saddening and heartbreaking situation, months later which involved me going on deperovera. I definitely don't regret this form of birth control. This is why I screen people and talk thoroughly, before booking. Some one who isn't willing to get to know me better, is probably someone just looking for a penis hole. I'd also like to add that rape and abuse is common in this industry and a lot of men are not aware of that and seem to think we have to be SUPER "come do me" when speaking to them, even though I am human and need to get to know a person before flirting heavily. A lot of men seem to think this behavior is okay simply because of the profession itself. When a girl says no its no. Get off your high horse! Sorry for the rant that triggered some next level anger lol

I'd like to hope it's just a rumour.

Interesting you should say that: I've always though precisely the opposite. Science has been up its fair share of blind alleys, to be sure, but it's I've always seen it as happy to say, "We don't understand this, but we're working on it," and - crucially - not being afraid to say this. Faith and religion, by contrast, seem to me to consist largely of inventing gods and demons to explain away the things we don't understand: why the sun rises, why the rain falls (or not), why people are amazing or awful or just plain strange. In many of these cases, science has taken over the explanations, and in the others... the God of the Gaps is ever-diminishing.

Google search on one of the pictures comes back to a lady in Los Angeles and other US cities. Some of the other pictures show up for that lady as well, however don't come up in a google search by themselves.

You should go thru a sex workers organization located in the city first, I know of one called S.H.O.P tho i only really know it exists, nothing much else about it.

Hello Gentlemen, Its been a long time but I'm happy to be returning to your arms once again. I will arrive tomorrow evening and be there until Wednesday. I am your very friendly , down to earth sort of lady and I love to laugh and have fun. I work keenly with your mind, body and spirit and no two encounters are the same. I am there for you 100 percent. Come in , sit down and relax. Then take my hand, I know exactly what you need and I promise you an experience you have not had before. I also will be available with your own Lady Sophia. We have many ways in which we can delight you. Together we create explosive energy. Would you like 4 hands and 2 sexy lady's pampering you? Perhaps something more adventurous? So many decisions to make. Please PM either of us for further details and times available. :) Katherine www.sensualkatherine.net

I've been an atheist my entire life. I was kind of obnoxious about it when I was young; but I'm more mellow now, having seen much more about people and their behaviour. These days, I think that overall religion does much more good than harm. But it certainly does it share of harm, and some of that is horrendous. Religion's role is mostly social cohesion: it provides a community to which people can belong, and that helps them feel connected to something bigger than themselves. Human beings are herd creatures, so this satisfies an important psychological need for most people. It also offers a sense of meaning and order to the world ("don't worry, someone's in charge, and it all makes sense even if we can' see how"). And yes, it encourages conformity to the religion's moral system with the promise/threat of a supernatural monitor. For 90% of people this all has a good result; folks maybe go to a church or equivalent, meet their neighbours regularly, try to be good people and good members of their community, and draw comfort when things go badly. Communities that happen to be religious can organize to do a lot of good. Now, that said... there's also that last 10% who take elements of religion, and seize upon them with their own pathology or just jerk-ness. People use religion to justify being judgmental (that's not religion; that's just people), authoritarian (people again), violent (people again), and ridiculously clannish about who is in their club and who is out (people again). But it's only people who are already inclined this way who turn to extremes; and sure, while religion serves their miserable psychology well, they'd have found something else to work with if religion hadn't been handy. (Yes, I'm looking at YOU, UK football hooligans. Point for point.) It's true that in its reliance on absolute and unquestionable authority, religion has the potential to hold back other ways of understanding the world (like scientific inquiry). But most people aren't absolute, and don't hold slavishly to either a religious or scientific view. For the most part, smart and healthy people can take the best from both and live their lives happily and constructively.

As a SPs point of view who has seen a few religious clients, they address their concern to me about it. I remember one said that in his religion being intimate is healthy and it's encouraged (I really don't remember the name of the religion) others were concerned that they had done something terrible and scared their partner would find out, some believed in parts of it and were fine. Everyone is different. Some religions they practice intimate encounters differently, which I was honored to experience. It's not just religion it can also be culture and how they grew up, without having to do with religion at all.

It might be helpful for Lyla members to let us know your background as an author, what books you've written etc. I know why we (ladies and gentlemen) use handles in this lifestyle...it is a very closed lifestyle to the outside world due to the legal, social and other implications if "civilian" people discovered what we do. And keep in mind, from my understanding (I live in Ontario) St John's is a relatively small city which may also hinder getting people to open up to you But an author writing a book doesn't share those same concerns about being anonymous. So a little bit of information about you might be helpful before any Lyla member opens up to you. A rambling RG

Happy Belated Birthday huni xox

Is it specific to St Johns, or are you looking for material from people everywhere?

From Winnipeg: If you like BBWs then Winnipeg has them. But I just can't find an SP with a truly killer body that isn't a BBW. I like smaller women and there don't seem to be any around. The other thing is, have you guys found that the ladies don't rely on email as much as they used to? That's my preferred method of communication but it seems today's SPs prefer phone calls.

very good massage, well worth it, all above board