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Hs *** BREAKING NEWS*** Please be advised that a storm system has been hovering over Halifax region since Jan 16th will continue to stick around till possibly Monday as a LOW pressure from NB is stubbornly hanging on! Much snow fall is expected for SUNDAY and may cause Storm Sophia to remain in Halifax till such notice! With this storm Sophia, much precipitation is possible! Raincoats may be needed! For the following days: Wednesday till early Saturday morning, a high pressure system may be colliding causing moments of thundering bursts! If this occurs take cover under my sheets! ADDITIONAL BREAKING NEWS FRESH OFF THE PRESS!!!! THERE SEEMS TO BE 3 PRESSURE SYSTEMS THAT MAY COLLIDE ON FRIDAY TILL SATURDAY! You will need to take cover and stay somewhere warm and with all you need for an evening. AUTUMN RAINE'S, KAT-ASTROPHIC WINDS FOLLOWED BY A SOOTHING SOPHIA BREEZE! THIS EVENT LASTS FOR 90 MIN! For any concerns of upcoming weather systems, and changing winds. Please stand by for more updates! For details on precipitation amounts or storm expectations, please contact Sophia's headquarters at: 506-261-7313

If it says text only then text only. Personally I don't pick up phone calls because I don't work every day and have no idea who is calling and am not always in private where I could talk anyway. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I treated my wife, Katherine to a special plate she never had before! Stuffed turkey burgers: jalapeño, turkey bacon, chives, red onion then topped with herb cream cheese! YUM YUM...think I gained gold stars tonight. Additional Comments: I treated my wife, Katherine to a special plate she never had before! Stuffed turkey burgers: jalapeño, turkey bacon, chives, red onion then topped with herb cream cheese! YUM YUM...think I gained gold stars tonight.

Always, the sharper you dress the better you smell, the more likely you are to make a good impression beyond just your personality. Apperance DOES matter because it creates first impressions!

getting my creative side a work out - making tassels to go on a dance belt I just finished...(to match bra in recent pictures)... and laying out ideas/patterns for the next costume - in a dance show in july ACK!

To me, it's more of a mannerism thing. Menu is a list. Inquiring about what type experience the SP offers is different. When making an appointment with someone, it's all about connection. If someone says "Hi Brody, menu?' I will attempt to make conversation, about what they are looking for, rather than list anything. I then respond to them accordingly, by their response. I don't offer quick services, if I can help it. It's the whole McDonalds concept. 1.Hi, 2.Here's my list, 3.Sex, 4.Done, bye. Not for me. Robotic connections will be cancelled, during the call and will return the funds ,so they can be seen by the right girl for them. Maybe it's because I am so flighty and bubbly, but I have always preferred super relaxed and even better, longer appointments. The bigger the window, the longer I have to truly show myself, have a better time and have a better connection with someone. I'm truly a people person. Lists just make it feel robotic and short lived. How boring is that? I can understand if an appointment is a quickie. That's not the issue, as some people have busy lives. To me, it's very stressful to have to list myself, like a happy menu. Feels too robotic and inhumane. In my opinion I feel a menu is for a restaurant and not for an entirety of an experience. Now, I do realize this is not always the case, as some Hobbyists or Suitors could be shy and just want to make conversation, and don't quite know how. Some people are just awkward and want to know what I offer and aren't, quite sure how to break the ice. Although, some men see it as a doll type situation and have the mindset of " the more she does, the better she is". Everyone is different and many forget that. In terms of women denying "menu inquiries", I would say it's like how everyone is stating. It's all in how you say it. I'm not a drive thru and prefer a more descriptive introduction to better see what type of experience I can offer this person or if one is even possible. My experience is a whole and the only thing I could say is what I don't do, if I were to ever list anything. A good suggestion on what to say instead:"Hi I'm so and so, and I viewed your website. You have peaked my interest. I was wondering if there was anything you won't do." The best and simple way to get my attention, is to just be upfront and tell me what you want or what you are curious to try. My two Cents! ,Brody

Clarification. I am not saying all that use text only have handlers. So I apologize if this is how I came across. Everyone has the right to conduct their business however they choose.

My lady Sophia has cooked me meals indescribable. Tonight was the very best . Gee, how can you make turkey delicious? Yes sir, she could make a sardine delightful. Most of you know Sophia is my wife , hum, hum, hum. Am I basis? Maybe... Things I know for sure that I enjoy with my wife. Intelligent conversation, empathy, concern for others , local concern for problems local and international ? Gifts to people that need ? Sorry for the hijack but its impossible to make my post short.

When I'm not working and/or don't want to answer even the people I am familiar with, I turn my phone off. Easy Peasy. And then I ignore the texts and VM that came in throughout the night. I am not required to answer when I am not working and I think most people understand that. They are just trying because they may be interested. If interested enough, they will try again. And what was said about 'handlers' is true. 'Reputable' providers who conduct their business in the same way a 'handler/manager' does, only proves that there are many ways to conduct your business and there is no one 'sign' to let you know who you are actually dealing with. So to always negate the reality of the business so that a certain message can be received by certain people, can get other people into trouble. So people should be aware and listen to all opinions/personal experiences, and realize that each has their reason for how/why they conduct their business in a certain way, and then use their own reasoning for themselves.

Maybe it's different in Ottawa.... Lots of independent reputable ladies do text only or email only in the GTA. I really don't have time to answer phone calls and found most that call didn't bother to read my ad saying email/text only I got way too many phone calls in the middle of the night so it's preferable for me to not have that happening Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I dont know very many that would only want communication via text. The vast majority require a voice confirmation. I'm wondering if you are referring to those that have handlers. Traditionally they only allow texting as they wish to hide behind the fact you are not actually communicating with the lady. I might be wrong. I personally prefer text initially as I am sometimes with family and cannot answer my phone discreetly. I can answer a text, but a phone call is more difficult. However, I do explain this, and let them know when I would be available to talk privately. Also, remember, get a burner phone. Very discreet, and you turn it off when not playing.

Never wear one of those 'letter' jackets. Just ewww! And they never seem to stay clean (or wearer never cleans it). This is based on a recent experience at the laundramat. Oh my! A nice shirt, some sexy jeans, clean underwear (always) and a good cologne... damn getting hot just thinking about it ;)

I would find it hard to believe, with all the different plans available now, that calling vs texting has anything to do with cost. I accept only phone calls for initial communications and I find that most calls take less than 2 minutes. The 'over communicators' will take 5 minutes or more. So you can probably imagine how much text time they would use up. I have personally never met a 'over communicator'. For me, I find texting to be too time consuming. It can take over 30 minutes to finish a text conversation vs 2 minutes (or less) for a phone call. Plus I usually need my hands to do other things in the time it takes to text for a 30 minute conversation, and that can make me late for more important things. Yes that can mean missing phone calls, but I have no patience for 30 minute text conversations that go nowhere. And sometimes, people who are persistent and patient are the ones I really enjoy most as it seems we were meant to be lol Also, like already mentioned, I can be more open in my discussions in a phone call. Texting some specifics can seem blunt and demeaning, but when communicating with a person (through voice) I can feel their intentions may not be blunt but just inquisitive.

I assume you're coming here from the States with a load of US dollars. I suggest you change those as soon as you get here since our own dollar is in freefall. Basically for you the country is on sale, so enjoy that. Why you would ever think Canadian SPs in Canada dealing mainly with Canadians would advertise their rates in US dollars is beyond me; maybe that's standard practice elsewhere but I've never heard of it here. For the local talent, everyone's got their own opinions, which are all over the board, which is quite easy to search. For the occasional and recurring travelling talent, those coming from the East (Québecoises), some indy, some with agencies, likewise searchable; and those from the Far East (Koreans and Chinese) are also favoured, VIPOTG and to a slightly lesser degree Lori's house (Lady Kangnam) being trusted and recommended A(sian)gencies. Beyond that, know that there are lions, tigers and bears in Winnipeg, especially on Backpage. Beware fake ads. Beware ads that mimic other ads, particulary ones from agencies or people we do trust and recommend. Particularly as an out-of-towner, trust no-one not reviewed, and be sure that the one you're looking up is one and the same. Backpage is the Bermuda Triangle where many floats of cash have disappeared never to be seen again.

My house painting is coming along really well. I'm even putting things back together again. I'm doing planning for an extended road trip that includes Halifax, NB and Ontario. Now to get weather to cooperate.

I think it is when UR screwing doggie style on the side of the bed and U dig your toes into the carpet so U don't slip. I think!

I think there's a big difference between special needs/special requests versus rude menu inquiry. SP's that clearly state they don't offer menu's and don't like being asked won't like the following inquiries: "Hey babe what's on your menu?" "Rates/restrictions?" "What do I get in a session with you?" "Hey baby do you x, cuz if not that's a deal breaker" "So is it safe to assume you offer x,y,z?" A better approach would be: "Hi Bailey, I was really intrigued by your pictures on your website and I was hoping to find out if my request would be appropriate and amenable to you. You see I am unable to do x, and while I enjoy the company of a woman, my fetish leans more to the Y side and I wanted to ask in advance if this is something you would be comfortable with." Or "Hi Janice Perhaps I have an unusual request for you, and I absolutely respect your preference for not being asked about your menu. The problem for me is that I have x limitation, and I have a particular fetish. I was wondering if I would be able to inquire if my fetish is something that you would be open to? It's in regards to z. Thank you" Generally Sp's are not heartless creatures, and we do understand some guys see ladies for alternative or limited interaction sessions. But it depends on how you approach them and come across. Making a simple polite request with a brief explanation as to why you are limited and looking for something you are unsure of them being comfortable with is different than just asking for a menu and likely ignoring them when they do bother to respond to you. Some ladies do not want to discuss a list of services because of the new law, and others don't want to list out services to be reduced to a menu card, because generally guys asking are really asking for WIDE OPEN MENUS and sometimes unsafe services, and regardless of what we respond they either don't reply or can push "well if you don't offer x then i'll go somewhere else" I'm pretty sure you're not acting like that, so just be honest and use a polite approach and describe what the issue is and what your fetish is as best you can. If however it's something like you can only "finish" in a certain way with a porn star type of act, then you may put off some providers in the end, but based on what you've said i'm not entirely sure what it is you are looking for.

Castle, the questions in your post cover several aspects when communicating with ladies, as mentioned by other members in this thread. Here is my point of view about a few things, and it is only my point of view: - I don't like when someone asks for "my menu". I have a big issue with this expression. I am extremely picky with communication and words. A menu for me is about food. I am not a meal or a piece of meat, therefore anybody who will ask for "my menu" might get no answer from me, or a short/cold answer, depending on my mood. I know that some people do not use this expression with a bad intention, but I do hate it. - Because of Bill C-36 there is not much room left to discuss the details of private encounters. But I agree with you and other members that it is best to know what to expect on both sides. Therefore... - We can all find our own ways to discuss these details like adults using nice words and subtle ways... A phone conversation might be better than texts or emails in this case?

I will speak for myself, as not everyone feels the same way. I wrote a blog once about feeling like a McDonalds drive thru. "I'd like a ... And ... And ... And ..." "Would you like to supersize your order?, drive to the first window please." The funny thing is, what they want is what I love, but I felt like I was being broken down into a sum of parts and not looking at the whole experience. So, when the laws changed, I decided to take control of how communication was done. It's not that I have an issue with LE, but I finally have the ability to determine what is and is not acceptable. Yes, I loose out on some invitations, but they are the ones I don't really want to meet. Personally, I would approach it with first asking if she would like to have a discussion about how you envision your encounter. That is completely different then someone texting me out of no where saying I want X, y, and z. It can be a bit of a shock when I'm expecting "hello, my name is ..., how are you doing", vs "I want X, y , z. So, if you open the communication first, ask if she is interested in a discussion, you will find that she might be open to the discussion. Good luck.

Like this picture? Want to see it in person? I'd be happy to perform for you, but please no tickling. This requires extreme concentration and if I fell on you then you'd have to deal with me lying on top of you in nothing but a...oh wait. I understand your motive now. Naughty Natalie here, an ultra petite young woman who loves good vinyl, climbing ropes and dangling upside down from them, singing along to Bowie in the car, blinding men with my beauty and being humble. I'm 27, 5ft, 100lbs, size 5 feet, red hair, green eyes, big smile and a rockin butt. Want a chance to effortlessly throw me up against a wall with one arm? My availability this week is as follows: Tuesday: 11:30 - 2 Wednesday: 11-2 Thursday: 9-11 To arrange a time, please contact me through email at [email protected] along with your Lyla handle. I prefer email as it helps me stay organized and allows us to speak more...candidly. Wink wink. All you need to bring when you arrive is a dashing smile (don't worry, I won't judge you on your level of dashing, just try your best) and $250 for an hour of play time. Also, please let me know if you have any requests for outfits. I love rising to a challenge, whether it be a super hero costume, dinosaur onesie, 80's aerobic instructor or fancy cocktail dress and nylons. And because I'm so humble I will let you know that I'm very well reviewed here and elsewhere so feel free to do some research! Tech skills impress me.

Over time I've seen a few posts, tweets, etc from different ladies essentially stating "If you ask me for a menu, you won't be spending time with me." Here's my thing....without going into details I have a physical restriction which prevents me from engaging in all the activities one normally comes to expect from seeing an escort. And it limits me to only participating in certain activities. Rest assured they are considered "safe" activities by most SP's, but not all SP's provide them. Also, a big reason I participate in this lifestyle is to live out certain fantasies and fetishes I have that a lot of "civilian" girlfriends may not go for. Again, they are "safe" fetishes and fantasies, I'm pretty vanilla lol, but still not things that every single escort provides. Hence, if I need to I will inquire beforehand if those services and/or activities are available. I do respect a lady's right to personal boundaries...which is why I ask beforehand....but given my own restrictions and fantasies, if I show up without first inquiring only to find out that what I had in mind is not available, not only will I have wasted my own time but the lady's as well. Often times a lady's ad and/or photos will grab my attention but then a disclaimer of "don't ask me for menu items" prevents me from contacting them. So to the ladies who have issues with being asked for menus, I pose this question to you: Is there a difference between "asking for a menu" and inquiring about a specific service or services? I understand that inquiring in a rude or disrespectful manner is one thing...but if I inquire in a respectful and polite manner (which I like to think I do) if X or Y service is available, will that also automatically get me blacklisted as someone who "asks for a menu"? I totally respect a woman's right to determine how she is approached or contacted, but I guess I'm just looking for clarification on what is considered "asking for a menu". The language used in this lifestyle is often open to interpretation.

Received a massage from Ashley at the route 90 location she use to only work the front desk at their old locations on main st & Henderson, she is young & very gorgeous! Her massage was perfect & the ending was even better I highly recommend her, you can find the link of the location under health & beauty on kijiji and under body rubs on bp

Everyday the outraged look for something to be outraged about. Even if everything is good in their lives, they feel free to be outraged on behalf of others. Outrage is the new black. Peace MG

What not to wear? Spandex - unless meeting at the beach, just don't. Painters or construction work clothes - love a workin man, but if I feel you are going to be bringing in asbestos to my place, change before coming to see me. If you are wearing coveralls, as long as they are clean, it's ok. Your golfing shorts - you know what I mean, those plaid shorts. Anything that is crocheted. Just because it can be crocheted, doesn't mean it should be. Xo

If you are looking for a lady who is more than just beautiful, but stunning and refined, one who will capture you with her charm and sensuality while engaging with intelligent and witty conversation...Then look no further. I'm Emily. I have a slender figure with long flowing red hair, sparkling green eyes and a smile that will brighten your day. I am well educated, a great conversationalist and a companion by choice. I am sincere, honest, trustworthy and loyal. Being genuine and down to earth adds to my appeal. I am well-manicured and the perfect escape for any time of the day. When you first meet me you will find the true natural beauty you have been looking for. Elegant, sexy and sophisticated on the outside; with a warm, friendly sweet sincere woman beneath. I enjoy taking my time and sharing some laughter while getting to know you. A date with me is always an unrushed and unforgettable experience. I will be visiting: Moncton, January 26th & 27th Encounters are possible at a private and discreet location. I am happy to arrange our encounter in advance, as short notice does not work for me. Take a moment and get to know me better on my website http://www.emilyrushton.com Wanting to make that escape a reality, I can be reached via email [email protected] I look forward to hearing from you Xoxo Emily

Good morning, Thank you for a delightful time in London, it was great to be back even if the weather was cold. I look forward to seeing you again soon. xoxo Emily

I said that sarcastically, don't you worry :P

Most certainly, and waterat makes a valid argument as well. I was simply referring to Meaghan's point that texts do leave a trail, which may be a bit unnerving for some hobbyists. Is there a way to mitigate the risk?

As a seldom cell phone user with no plan for my hobby phone I had assumed, probably erroneously, that it was requested to keep the cost of calls to a minimum. It is reported that some gentlemen, and I use the term loosely, waaaay over communicate and without text the loss of minutes could become prohibitive. I never bother pestering a lady about a 'menu' - you can usually tell from her posts and ads. Not everything I would enjoy sharing is always available but I simply act respectfully, have a great session and have never been disappointed with the results.

Let's get to know each other or reconnect over a drink while watching beautiful dancers grace the stage at Barbarella's. Then we can get cozy in the Champagne Room. With my long auburn hair hiding us from the rest of the world, we can share a sensual escape of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. Let me warm you up from the cold at 340 Queen Street this Friday, January 22nd, 1-6pm. Starting February, I'll only be at Barb's one Saturday a month, so this is your last chance to see me during the week. XO

Welcome to my world of pure sensual delight! My name is Sierra and I am so flattered to have caught your attention. If you are a true gentleman searching for that special lady to create and share intimate connections with.... I invite you get to know me a little better. My personality is best described as flirty, playful and affectionate. As a former exotic dancer I am schooled in the art of seduction... a trait that now serves me well as an exclusive companion. You will love the way I move! Physically I am tall -5'8, busty(36DD) with long blonde hair and ocean blue eyes. My soft kissable lips and silky skin adores the attention of a man's touch and my extensive collection of beautiful lingerie will surely put a smile on your face. I provide a relaxed atmosphere at my private upscale location to select company or perhaps you would prefer I join you at your hotel? Regardless of where we are, our time together promises to be unrushed and fulfilling. If you can see yourself being spoiled please refer to my website to learn more sierra-halifaxescort.com or feel free to email [email protected] with any questions you may have. Discretion is assured and your need for confidentiality will be highly respected - I only ask the same in return. Truly Yours, Sierra xoxo . Check out my Lyla recommendations below :icon_biggrin:

Costumes on Mtl rd detonates as much as coverall at Indigo. (And I have to say: I hate the new Vneck trend...)

I'm a youthful 22 y.o., I stand 4'10" with a curvy figure with lightened freckles and a fair complexion. I've been told my eyes are captivating and very attractive and unique. During our rendezvous I will show you my passionate and down-to-earth personality. Allow me to fall into your arms, together we can create warmth 2016 Schedule and Select Times: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-8pm Friday - 10am-9pm Saturday - 10am-9pm January Schedule 19-31: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-11pm Thursday - 5pm-8pm Friday - 10am-12am Saturday - 10am-12am Screening Options: Lyla Handle (for discount) P411 Reference *unable to provide a reference or P411, I will be happy to accommodate. *Lyla members if you don't give your handle the discount doesn't apply when you arrive. *Mouth wash is available *Shower is available, I always have fresh towels Preferred411 ID: P208023 Find me on Twitter: @XoxAmandaLeeXox Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

Thanks Torvaald - I appreciate having the name correct! You're closing in on 10 years on the board and your first post is a contribution. Makes we wonder what else we've been missing out on from you! 'Welcome' and thanks. So as not to hijack: Glenn Frey will be sorely missed - thank goodness he left us with so much fantastic music. Peaceful Easy Feeling was my university days make-out music.

I was shocked when I heard the news last night. I am not one for favorites but the Eagless are my favorite...and his music..........well............you may note my signature slogan .......

His name was Glenn Frey.

Definitely some major losses this month. I always would have thought that Joe Walsh would have been the first of the Eagles to go, but that goes to show you that you never know when your time is up.

Don't you dare. My poor phone is so sad.

Some big names this month, really is sad Sent from my Nexus 5 using Tapatalk

Some of my favourite things are groups. Whether thats MMF, FFM, MFMF, and so on and so on. I just love the excitement of it, all the interaction, the options, and the fact that some see it as taboo.

27 feet of jute rope....(learned how to do a Shibari corset tonight.. and yes... relax...pictures will follow as soon as I am pleased with the look/colors) ;) .....and a gargantuan bowl of really good Hot & Sour soup & dumplings

You were looking for the ladies to reply but here's my two cents... it's all in the way you ask... if you have special needs or considerations and you discuss this with a lady respectfully then in my experience there is normally not a problem. That said you do need to keep in mind that with the new laws since Dec 2014 many ladies have adopted an approach of not discussing services at all prior to the meeting... you are purchasing time everything else is between two consenting adults at the time of the date. While this can be more of an issue now it can usually be managed.

Homemade Lasagna with a Greek salad...

Home made sausages

Hi guys! As I mentioned in my previous post, I will be collecting items for donation and offering a reduced rate for anyone who brings one or more of these items when visiting me. For the months of January and February I will be collecting items for the Ottawa Humane Society. They are currently in need of the following items : -Kong toys -Six-fot nylon leashes -Soft treats for training -Bottles of bubbles to blow -Bird seed for budgies, finches etc. -Pine shavings for small animals -Interactive cat toys A full list can be found on their website http://www.ottawahumane.ca Please PM, text or email me for more info. 613 219 6386 [email protected] http://www.moniquematheson.com Thanks! Monique xoxxo