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Hey guys!, I saw a lot of info requests lately. Eventhough we are a community and we exchange info regarding fakes and flakes, we are NOT babysitters. You have a s**tload of tools to verify one's background and reputation. WE do not have to provide you with the info, nor work for you, out of our time spent toghetter. Don't bash on me telling me that if I don't want to get involved, not to reply. It's become to a point of harrassement and lazyness, and you are brigning down our ads with stupid questions. Here are the tools I'm aware of as being reliable, so please use them BEFORE asking for info. If you don't find what you need, THEN ask questions. BEFORE, NOT AFTER. I hope this will help you stay safe: - LYLA: Search thread: Ladie's name: Advance search: (Your city)Recommendations - Google image search: Copy URL of image in search. Hits=the number of times this picture got use on the Internet. - Tineye.com: Same as Google search, but friendlier. - A certain diary that's a wonderful weekly reading, with pics and phone numbers of scammers (PM for link) There's no reasons we should HAVE to inform you of ALL that's going on on Internet, and our clients don't have to be harrased by info requests when it's all there...

There are probably a lot of answers to this problem on here already, but I thought I would bring this up in a new thread. Some people do not know the lengths that providers go through to make themselves available for you. 1. we have a profile and/or a website that requires maintenance to keep up to date, taking up some of our time. 2. we have ads that we place elsewhere so that we have a variety of avenues in which you can communicate with us, which also require maintenance. 3. we spend many hours of a week just answering texts, phone calls and emails to your inquiries. 4. we keep ourselves fit, meaning we are spending time working out, whether that be at home, or going to a gym. 5. beauty is not instant, so we take the time to have manicured nails, hairstyles, spending time shopping for just the right products and articles of clothing. 6. maintenance of our locations, whether they be where we live or a place we rent just for these occasions. (cleaning services are not free, or we do it ourselves, meaning more hours in a week dedicated to what we provide) 7. we purchase professional photography so that we have nice pictures to display for your pleasure. 8. we ask for a little bit of notice to prepare for your date, as we all have a life outside of this. 9. communication and understanding on our part for discretion is very important to both gentlemen and the provider. 10. we have almost zero information about you coming to us, but we are expected to reveal all about ourselves. So why in the hell is it so difficult to let us know when you can't make it to a booking? We provide you with our addresses, our time and our efforts to be able to entertain you at your request. I have noticed over the last several months that more and more bookings are no more than a ploy to gain access to our whereabouts and have nothing to do with actually wanting to see us. Why is that? Do guys take pleasure in making us run around so that we can accommodate you when you have no intention of showing up? Is it a thrill that you get from the fact that we are getting ready for you and you are just sitting back at home kicking back on the sofa watching tv? I don't know about other providers, but I spend an average of 12 hours a week just answering twitter and emails. I go to the gym everyday for an hour at least. I spend to keep my appearance up. I provide a nice place to entertain you (at a cost). I take the time to confirm and/or reschedule so that it can fit into your schedule (with no regard to my own schedule). So why can't you follow through if you have made a commitment to see me? I find it very inconsiderate and disrespectful when someone makes a booking and then just doesn't bother to show up or let me know they can't make it. All it takes is a little effort on the guys part to do this. Just look at the efforts that the girls are putting out there. When a booking is made and confirmed, we do not book another person for that time. It is made for you. Not for a bunch of guys and going to whatever one shows up first. I do know that perhaps traffic can be bad, accidents, s/o suddenly appears, but you can always go to a bathroom/hallway/garage and let us know you can't make it. Guys make a big stink when providers don't show up, sometimes it is for the same reasons above, bad traffic, stuck somewhere, meetings that go over time at work, but we take the time to let you know we are running late, why can't you show us the same courtesy? For some providers, this is their livelihood, it is how they survive. For others it is a fun side business, but nonetheless, would it kill you to let us know? There is nothing more frustrating to me than to go to a restaurant somewhere and find that I can't get in, it's why I make a reservation! If you are going to make a reservation with us, please have the courtesy to let us know asap if you are not able to make it. We spend hours to prepare for you, take a minute to tell us. I have had some wonderful encounters from the gentlemen on Lyla, and from other sites, but also some frustrating ones that pull this crap. Be courteous to us, we are to you. My rant after a very frustrating 2 weeks.

It is not my encounters that are unpalatable, because every encounter I have is great. I only see nice and kind gentlemen, in fact I have had to turn down some would-be encounters because I was 'just not into it' etc. The part that ruined it for me, were the guys that book with no intention of showing up because when it happens so many times, it eventually made me think that being an SP part time is not worth it any more. Now I do it more 'for fun' and as an extra income. This has been discussed many, many times here but when you move plans back and go out of your way to be at your in call, maybe even paying for a hotel room and you get ready etc and the person does not show up, you are out money, and out of the time wasted and even turned down a regular or someone who would have turned up because you thought you were seeing someone. When I see reviews of new girls or whatever girl double booking and or a client waiting because a girl is still on a call, I really do understand why those girls do that. As mentioned previously, this is seriously the only form of income for some girls(for whatever reason)so she cannot afford to turn down anyone because you never know who may or may not show up. That is a thing to take in consideration when a girl is double booking. Of course that is not a smart business move but again, it is impossible to guarantee someone will show up. More times than I can remember I have had seemingly genuine and sincere polite gentlemen call and introduce themselves and book in advance and even confirm and then call 'when they are here' and nadda. Very strange but true!

We are only human. I had to say "give me 5" once as I lost my favourite lipstick. If you are a girl, you'd understand. I wanted to look exactly right for the occasion. He responded with "thanks for wasting my time" and left. He didn't give me the time of day, even though I spent over an hour preparing for his visit. If you can't wait a whole 5 minutes, to me that just says you are in a rush and I don't rush appointments, so why are you rushing me? If you need to 'go to the store" then please indicate this and I won't go to such extremities to get ready. I would understand if it was a long wait or if the SP said to wait every time. I believe strongly in communication. I am laid back and have no reason to show off and make it "to a T" at a certain time, as I'm not a robot. A perfect example of this whole aspect of time... I have this doctor who takes her time with each and every patient, which is not common in the medical field. I have waited hours with an appointment, not a walk in. This happens because she is so meticulous and thorough. I believe that us ladies, at least most are the same way. If you have a busy schedule I could understand and ask that you simply re book a time, more convenient for yourself. There is a difference between a girl just hopping around, trying to balance 10 calls in a day, and someone who is generally making a great deal of effort to impress you. See it as a date. With a regular personal date. Us as people, will take time and extreme effort to groom ourselves and find the perfect outfit and accessory, and what not, to make it just right for that occasion. I spent at least 20 minutes on a stupid eyebrow just because it kept looking not good enough for myself. I just like things to be perfect for the occasion. Yes, sometimes it gets a bit over the top but not to a degree where I am well passed you waiting 10 minutes. I feel it is unfair to just drive off and not explain yourself. If you are too impatient why did you bother to come by? Book a time that is realistic and reasonable. THIS is why we hate time wasters. We aren't sitting around picking our bums and waiting on suitors in fancy negligees, just waiting for THAT GUY. We have lives maybe we get hungry... get over it.

You're right, it doesn't make sense given he used the excuse that you were not age appropriate by his standards. Another b.s. excuse. He should have known your age by reading your ad. Don't waste time with the time wasters anymore. If they are serious about booking an appointment, an initial conversation shouldn't take no longer than 10 minutes to get an idea of who you are and covering the basics and what you feel comfortable in letting them know the type of service you offer. You can always tell by a brief phone conversation and if the client will want to meet you or if you will want to entertain their request just by how they speak to you and the questions they ask and vice versa. If they insist on talking more in depth before the appointment after everything has been covered completely during the initial phone conversation, my red flags go up. This tells me they are not serious and perhaps could be lonely but do not want to pay for my companionship. Remember we are running a service and I know myself that I provide excellent companionship but I am not a chat line. I let them know nicely that if they wish to speak to me more, they need to come and see me. I do not have time to speak to people for a casual conversation with the promise of booking an appointment. Strangers who I have never met are not my friends either so why would I give them all my time to speak to them on the phone without a guarantee of anything but their word? While I enjoy what I do and who I meet, I have established clients that I dedicate my time to as well as new potential clients who have done their homework. Talking to a client for more than a week indicates to me that they aren't serious about booking an appointment. Again, this isn't a dating service or a chat line. A person does not need to speak to you for a week before they meet you and we are not hand holders either. Good potential clients will have always researched you beforehand, will have read your website or even may have looked you up on this type of site to find out what you're about by reading your posts. Then they make their decision before contacting the provider. There is no time for hand holders or babysitting the unusually cautious, sometimes even paranoid men because it usually never works out as they were not that serious to begin with. Don't get taken by them. There is a difference in being patient and understanding when meeting with clients as opposed to the ones who want you to be patient and caring but never ever booking an appointment and never meeting the provider in person. That is completely taking advantage of a person's time. One doesn't have time to wait around to see if they will be ever be a client when there are good clients waiting in the wings who actually want to meet. One phone conversation is sufficient enough to give someone a fair chance.

for those a little afraid of the 'handcuff' experience, I suggest silk scarves. These can be just as tight, but without the person having the fear of 'what if they get stuck, or lose the key'. For first timers with me that want that experience, I use the silk scarves. just as easy to tie you to my table/bed/chair ;-)

when you have 166 hits on just one pic in the ad, and each of them is under a different name and country, makes you wonder, doesn't it? check things out, but I find most of those ads with the weird lettering (mostly misspelled) are usually pimped out or scams. Due diligence in checking will make things easier, same goes for the extremely low rates, it usually ends up being a lot more when you add in all the 'extras' they consider. legit girls have one rate, not a host of 'extras' to add to the base rate. my pics are in several different sites, but each of them has EXACTLY the same info on them, all legit girls do that

I would have to agree that age was not the 'real' issue.. Nicolette is right (as usual).. usually time wasters whether nervous guys who will eventually book or are just lonely guys who will never book are in my opinion not worth the investment or waste of your own precious time... because many other clients are ready to book and will pay for your time to 'get to know you'. I have for some time now offered cam sessions for just that reason... and some book me for cam several times and still admit they'll never get up the nerve to book in person.. so they will still pay for me time but keep a safe comfortable distance to communicate with me and enjoy a 'session'. This works for me.. put your money where your mouth is.. it's a much smaller donation and some book right after one cam (or phone if they're even too shy for that) and some don't.. but either way I don't feel my time or energy is taken advantage of.. I get that you're more hurt by the feeling of connection you felt and being lied to.. but that's a part of life.. not just from clients.. and it sucks.. don't waste time on energy suckers.. just shake the dust off your feet and move on with integrity knowing you didn't lie :)

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I don't get it. :confused: Why these BP ads have to be so colorful, hard to read. Too many things going on there. Do they really think guys love all these crazy color and confusing mix of upper and lower case?

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I think his point is every one is getting tired of the Back Page BS. It is not good for the industry!!

Just for discussion. I've noticed sometimes at a few MA's and SP's that I've seen that they have handcuffs hanging on the bed headboard, usually they are pink padded ones :) Has anyone been handcuffed or the SP let them be handcuff. I would assumed that this would not happen on the first session. And only after there is trust built between the two participants. I assume that these are not real handcuffs and that they can easily be taken off if necessary. I guess it could be very erotic if the woman or man could tease the other person while they were handcuffed to the headboard. I am just curious to hear about any experience you've had with handcuffs or being tied up. I would be afraid if the sp would just leave me naked, handcuffed to the bed for the maid to discover. lol

I have met the lady on a number of occasions and can confirm she is a very reputable person. Feel free to PM me if you have any specific questions.

True but not all the questions are actually directed to the ladies... this a community that includes everyone interested in the industry...

Spent a fair share of money over the years, but have read some questionable comments, so has things changed there or is it back to the way it was a few years back?

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=229871

It is not something I would get done to me in the SP world, but I would not mind doing it to a client. But in my 'real life' with a partner...Oh yaa! Me getting hand cuffed is hot as fuck. I can't think about that right now or I will be bad. lol I don't really care for him getting handcuffed though because it really turns me on when he touches me and grabs my hips, butt, boobs etc while we're having sex, but I am open to everything. I have the Velcro kind, they are leopard print and the Velcro is actually very strong.

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If you are requesting a certain scenario, then it's absolutely appropriate to come dressed that. I meant the guys that ask me to dress in nice lingerie and dress to take me out and just show up in dirty jeans, runners and a t-shirt with way too many holes in it, lol Where on earth are you planning on taking me, and how do you think it is going to look if I am dressed like I'm on a date and you look like you just rolled out of bed? Imagine the faces in a fine restaurant? Discretion works both ways, and yes, people do look.

see the reply on bdn post

if you have to 'muster up enough gumption' just to make the call, DONT! Guys who do this have zero intention of follow-thru, because if you have to muster up courage just to call, then you have zero ability to come to my door. and for those guys that call upon 3-4 girls, THEN decide which one to see, (without notifying the others of cancellation) that's being an asshole! (sorry to say)

She is most likely TGBT. Check an image search.

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Instead of complaining about it, why aren't you simply reporting those ads if they are fake? Also, if the title has those weird letters and colour stars, why are you clicking on it? Doesn't make sense... Click on a normal title, maybe you will actually find something that is less hurtful for your eyes and you will be more happier in the end.

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Are you talking about contacting ladies you know and have seen and just saying hello. Or are you talking about contacting ladies out of the blue saying hello Most if not all ladies will tell you being contacted out of the blue for just a hello is for them, a time waster, and a turn off And if it is a lady you do know, and have an existing for lack of better word "relationship" well she would let you know boundaries and if contacting her with a hello is OK RG

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Yes!!! I have had it more times where I can count!! Sometimes the person was as much as 40min-1 hour early! I wasn't even there yet! And every single time they act as if I was late for the appointment when they were the ones who were early. I had it where the guy was 25 min early and I told him to give me a few minutes because I just walked in the door and need to change. He literally texted and called me at least 4 times to ask if I was ready yet. What a turn off!

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I get a text from a man asking me the rates. I respond very politely telling him my rates, which are very reasonable (120/160/200) for a nice girl such a myself who is very kind and treats everyone special, as well as my location and asked him to please call me if he is interested in setting up a date and time to get together as I prefer to speak to the person on the phone before meeting. He texts me back a HUGE novel, telling me how he is DISGUSTED and thinking of never see a provider ever again(good for you?!) and how 20 years ago you can pay very little and not just hand over the cash and get quickly rushed out the door. He told me no one will ever come see me(um...ok) because they can't even buy groceries or pay rent and then I expect him to pay me my asking rate. He said 'we' have no personality, affection, or attentiveness. Wow lol. I usually ignore these sorts of texts but I just responded 'Actually, I am far from what you described and just because you have been treated badly in the past and rushed out the door etc, you shouldn't assume I am like that. Take care" Again, if you cannot afford to buy food or even pay your damn rent...WHY on earth are you contacting an SP? Not to sound cocky, but I know I am worth the rates and triple that, so don't try to lecture me when it's my right to do what I want, it's not my fault you can't afford my rates. lol

I regularly use restraints on my clients, though I don't currently have handcuffs in my gear, and they're not a high priority to add to my collection, as they can be uncomfortable and leave bruises easily. For people who do wish to play with handcuffs, you are better off getting a real set rather than the novelty furry sex cuffs. Real cuffs will be made with smooth edges, a high quality locking mechanism, and perhaps most importantly, will double-lock (which prevents the cuffs from tightening any further.) All cuffs of the same brand will use the same key (and all cuffs have a fairly standard key design, so many, if not most can be used across brands.) Novelty handcuffs may have sharp edges, locking mechanisms that stick, non-standard keys, or may not have a double-locking mechanism to prevent over-tightening. You can get a nice pair of real Smith & Wesson cuffs for around $20 online. Soft velcro or buckle cuffs are also a great alternative.

I am not From Winnipeg but as I read this thread I am struck by the fact that the situation is probably not that much different here in St. John's.... I think the local market here has been flooded with reduced service level BP ads where providers are competing based upon cost and as a result making it harder for more reputable local and touring ladies who may charge more but provide an extremely better experience that in my opinion is actually cheaper if all factors are taken into account. Many BP ads quote rates that are designed to attract our eye but in fact are not the actual cost of the actual services we are looking for... everything is an extra... ie. yeah I do that but it's more. Many BP ads are for ladies whose actual in call location is nothing like the high end hotels in their pictures and as we all know too well the their pictures even when actual pictures of them are not truly representative of their current appearance. There is good reasons why Lyla ladies and other professionals in this business charge more it's because to operate professionally in this industry they have to invest in themselves... photos... gym... healthy eating.... periods away from work for rejuvenation to say nothing of the cost associated for travel... incall locations etc. Guys... we get what we pay for... if we pass up on the wonderful Lyla lady for the $80 hh special then we should not be surprised if the local lady moves along and the touring gems stop including our smaller market cities in their schedule. Now before I get called on for beating up on BP let me just just that it can be a great advertising location...an is used by many many very reputable high end providers I'm just saying the onus is on us clients to do the homework... verify the ads... share our experience and not look to always get a deal that all to often is not really a deal at all..... if you pay $80 for hh instead of $300 for an hour but actually only stay $15 minutes and leave without even your $80 expectations met have you really saved any money? Just my Opinion

Well I can only speak on my behalf...and like i said life happens and if a gentlemen felt he couldnt wait 5 minutes then sorry for wasting his time...sometimes this can't be helped that's why I don't mind an extra 5-10 minutes when I have a booking I know shit happens but that's just me The only advice I can give you would be to not book with those ladies again if 5 minutes was out of your way I do understand some of us are on a tight schedule

I am not surprised that she is not at EB anymore..seemed to be on the outs for a while but wish had seen her 1 more time..as Jackson999 said I consider her 1 of the best to work there,ever...most sessions with her were so much better than anyone else's..it's no wonder she was on the way out,too much fun and boy could she ever talk..sure hope she goes independent as I want more of that Trinidadian..

Kuddos to you RG. There have been many posts regarding how often SP's get tested but yet I can't remember any about hobbiests. It is each person's personal obligation to be safe and to be in control of their sexual health!

I think it's as much a matter of your personal comfort as it is about your level of risk. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't know of any widely accepted scientific formula for determining the exact frequency of testing necessary for any individual. It helps to have an understanding of how different STIs are transmitted (different STIs can be transmitted in different ways), the level of risk for transmission in your own sex life, and also your own body and what 'normal' looks like for you. To make a decision that is right for you, I would encourage researching STIs, their risk factors and treatments. It helps to take the mystery out of things. The HIV virus won't actually show up on tests until about three months after transmission. Certainly the sooner any STI is caught the sooner and often more effectively it can be treated. And often there's no way of knowing if you have an STI unless you get tested- it could lie dormant for a while, and show no symptoms. It sounds to me like you're keeping a good check on your health, but it all comes down to you.