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I've been following this site for a long time now, and it is amazing how often the same, issues, concerns and complaints come up. Things that should be obvious often are not. I thought it might help if I compiled a summery of some of the more common concerns for the newbie section. Hopefully it will help get some of the new gents to the hobby off on the right foot. There may be some here that don't apply to all people or situations, but these are some of the more common ones I have seen over the years: 1. Do your homework first. Nobody likes to have to spend time writing out answers to questions they have already provided answers for on their website or ad. 2. Be respectful during the initial contact. Being abrupt or rude is definitely a bad start. 3. Don't be too explicit. The laws are such that everyone is restricted in what can be said. Some are more careful than others with this, but remember that you are simply compensating for her time. That's all. Asking for anything more specific will often get you no reply at all. 4. Don't haggle. This is not a flea market. Nothing kills the mood faster than telling someone that they are worth less than they think they are. If she is out of your price range, move on politely. 5. If you have to cancel, let her know ASAP. Life sometimes gets in the way of the best laid plans. Their time is their source of income and they have promised some of it to you. At least give them some notice if you won't be able to make it. If you can't give notice, consider offering to compensate her. It has already cost her the time, whether or not you were there. (E-transfers can make this super easy.) ....And just not showing up without letting her know at all is so incredibly disrespectful and uncool. (and a sure way to get yourself black listed.) Just don't do it. 6. If you are sick, cancel. Nobody wants your illness. (But see number 5) 7. Hygiene -It shocks me how often this one comes up. It is for your own benefit to not have her repulsed during your time together. Take a shower and brush your teeth as close to the appointment as possible. If you can't, then ask if she has shower facilities. Many do. (But remember it is on your time.) oh... and wear deodorant! 8. If she asks you to take a shower before hand.... take one. It means one of two things. a) She has a policy that all clients take one, or b) you smell. Either way, it is the same answer: Take the shower if she asks. 9. Respect her time. This means being on time, but not early. Not always easy to be precise, but do what you can. If you are late, don't expect that she will let you stay later to make up for it. Also, don't expect her to be ready early just because you showed up early. Remember, you have an appointment. Respecting her time also means leaving when your time is up without having to be asked over and over. 10. Have the envelope ready at the beginning of the date. Don't make her ask. It kills the mood. I just place it on the dresser or table as I walk in. They can address it or not as they see fit. Of course, all of these points can be summed up with two words: "show respect". If you use that as a guideline, you can't go wrong. I know there are some points that I have missed and some that not everyone will agree with. Remember, this isn't my list. It is a compilation of the most common concerns I have seen since I started following the site. Feel free to add to it if I have missed any.

I had the pleasure of meeting Serena a couple of weeks ago and I am looking forward to seeing her again. The ad and photos are legit and accurate. She was easy to get a hold of and, as she says in the ad, is tiny, very cute and very friendly. I really enjoyed my visit.

Hello Gentlemen, I am available Today at a private location in Ottawa (south area-15 min. from downtown) from 10am-9pm. I am an attractive elegant lady who loves her work and enjoys making new friends! Please identify yourself with your name/handle when contacting me . Blocked numbers will be ignored . Call/Text 613.809.2610 http://www.taliaciarra.com

I just got a phone call and did not answer because I am not available (in the ad I posted 2 or 3 days ago it said not available past 9pm and it is 3:30am now lol). He left me a voice mail so I listened to it and he said(in a not so nice tone of voice may I ad) 'call me back if you wanna make money'. Um, ya right. No thanks! Another thing I have been getting more of is getting asked 'what do I do for" or will I do this or that for $40-$50$60. Now I just want to say that it is perfectly fine that some ladies choose to do services for that amount! But, when it clearly says right in my ad that you must be kind and respectful when contacting me in order to see me because I am picky over whom I spend my time with, AND I give my donation rates(which I was doing lower 'special rates' which were beyond reasonable considering how amazing I am :)), it should be a clear indicator that it probably isn't a good idea to try to bargain with me. It has been discussed many times, but again, if someone doesn't have the right amount kindly say thank you for your time, or even let her know politely, and then either see her when you do or don't see her at all. I keep track of every. single. phone call. and. text. If you try and bring down my price 6 times and then contact me when you finally give in and have the right donation amount, I won't even be interested in seeing you any more because it is just disrespectful to negotiate a girls set donations and I know you will be bitter and probably feel entitled, or worse, you might show up with less than what is required and expect me to 'let it slide'. I understand to someone that is broke a girls prices may seen expensive, but there are many, many gentleman that will be MORE than happy to pay and even tip at the end. I still find it amusing how a guy with $50 thinks it is okay to contact me, a girl he found on a paid companion site, and expect to see me for 30-60mins. Being a 'hobbyist' isn't the right hobby if you can't afford it, there is POF or tinder for hook ups if that is the case. lol

A fun thing to try and hey February has only 29 days. http://complaintrestraint.com/ Peace MG

Good Day, I like to start with a warm welcome, maybe a nice hot shower together, a little strip tease, next moving into a strong yet soothing massage, until you cant take it and you need me to... Oh, yes well you will have to come find out what these magic hands and mouth can do for you. You WILL leave feeling refreshed and satisfied! Call anytime for details thats only way to get my attention~613-413-9195 Donations start @80/15mins 120hh~200HR specials for the week. I am waiting for you, Vienna xo

Hope you like what you read ! http://www.chantallovewebselfnet-07.webself.net/ Welcome to your most intimate fantasy come true. I am a young exotic french lady best described as having moist lips, sensuous skin, a tantalizing figure....and oh yes... an ass to die for! My sole ambition is to make you smile and to be the best part of your day. I am drug, alcohol and tattoo free and best of all offer a slow, relaxing service. Your comfort is assured. I don't watch the clock. My hidden hideaway is in Ottawa, conveniently located only 10 minutes from Gatineau. My normal hours are Monday to Friday from 9:00 to 6;00 pm. I am also available on the occassional Saturday. Please feel free to contact me (phone or text) at 1-819-930-4158. Home 613-237-6735 Sorry that I can't guarantee that once is enough...but I can guarantee that YOUR PLEASURE IS MY PLEASURE xo I have 5 options. 1/2 h full service 1 h 1 h Royal Treat 90 min couple 1h All the special you can do it 1 time 2 time or 3 times again and again its ok you just need to stay in your time. with the + 20 you can have the first part of the service with no protection ( lips ) to go inside always protection. The Royal Treat includ a shower together + something good in the shower + a nice massage + a full service + I will play with my toy + will try to make you score again mmm. To spend time with me and be happy ! Hope to have the chance to make you fell my talent. Let me know when you will arrive so I can make your reservation. Each time you have a session with me you will have a coupon and on next monday you will see a winning # and if you have the same # you will have a free session. I think its better then a free cofee lol. see you soon xx PLEASE NO NEGOCIATION ON THE PRICES . PS: Im French. INCALL ONLY!

tongue firmly in cheek... why the over 35 crowd gets the girl.... 1. Multiple shots on goal means a three day booking 2. We are extraordinarily grateful that someone will even stay in the same room as us when we are naked. 3. Nap time is on the clock. 4. Cuddle time may just be the best we can do. 5. Less likely to stalk, we barely even remember where we live. 6. While we remember to bring the envelope, we might not remember why we came. 7. We can help with history assignments in post secondary courses. We were there when it all happened. 8. Arthritis prevents us from being too grabby.

And if all that tells you to make contact, then take the time to talk to the sp. Not endless emails or texts with long stories of what your fantasy is, but a short chat to find out a little about her personality. Takes 5 minutes of your time, and may be the difference between a good time and a mistake. Every time i have read a bad review, i would go and look at the ad (in the days of CL erotic ads) and shake my head as if to say, well, what did you really expect. If it were me, they would have lost me at the ad itself, the presentation, the spelling, the wild symbols, and text spelling, and what seems like a million other things, including one line, phone # and 5 pics being the total of the ad lol., Sps who care about their business, care about how they present themselves from the minute their title catches your eye to the end of the ad. That's why we are so miffed when people call and they didn't take the time to read all the way to the end of the ad, the part with all the important info they are now calling to ask us.

Hi guys has anyone seen Vanessa at CMJ she has an ad on BP her pictures look great. Looking for any recommendations before I setup a appt. Thanks http://ottawa.backpage.com/BodyRubs/fit-girls-do-look-better-naked-vanessa/34340570 Additional Comments: Hey guys want to meet with Vanessa so without much to go on I took one for the team and all I can say it WOW. She is amazing great body she was a pro fitness competitor in 2007-2008 and it shows. She has amazing muscle tone. I saw her in the east end, very private she meet me at the door. I'll keep the experience to myself but all I can say is WOW. I will be back to see her a lot. I added her newest ad below. http://ottawa.backpage.com/BodyRubs/vanessasexy-athletic-girl/35365186

It's rainy, icy, and mild outside, and my truck is covered in ice. Of course, the alley to my vehicule is even icier, if ever possible, and I don't want to spill calcium all day just to gain access to it. So, here's my first life hack... Instead of spilling salt all over the drive-way, that can damage either my parking, or my truck and make it rust, I simply break the ice with a plastic shovel and make it rough. It also provides extra grip! The best part? I need to do it only once - twice a day! More hacks to come!

Well if I worked in this industry and had pictures clients might like to see I think I would want to create traffic by releasing them a few at a time to increase traffic and interest...

Resurrecting a thread from 2011. Care to clarify your point?

A whole pile of leftovers mixed with pasta and baked in a casserole with a cheese and breadcrumb topping! I am the queen of reinventing leftovers! Lol

Hey I am hosting today today until 6pm and as well as tomorrow. I am available on the southside of Fredericton in a private location. My rates start at 140 for half hour and 200 for an hour. If you want to get in contact send me a PM or an email :)

Having my flight delayed, causing me to miss my connection and then having my replacement flight be delayed....

Duran Duran - Ordinary World Just came on the radio. Haven't heard this song in eons!

Just to prevent an eventual paranoïa or panic in our industry, I went on the Internet and got educated on the Zika virus. Some of what I found is quite reassuring. You will find a Wiki link at the bottom. Please note that this is ONLY for general population, and pregnant women should take serious actions to protect themselves. Symptoms (last 2-3 days): - Light fever; - Conjunctivitis; - Skin rash; - Headache. This can be compared to a VERY mild version of the Dengue fever, but nothing life threatning, or that last long - shorter than a flu, actually. Also, Canada is apparently WAY too cold for the ''Tiger mosquito'' transmitting it. Sure, being sick isn't fun, but no need to panic... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zika_virus

CR = Champagne Room

Happy birthday toine. I hope you have a great day!

Happy Birthday Toine!

Happy Birthday Toine!! Hope your day was awesome :)

Hi!! <3 My site under construction: http://www.vipchristina4u.com (New videos and more to come soon!) I will be available for incall and outcall from my hotel downtown Halifax Monday Feb 8 until Friday Feb 12 at noon, before making my way to New Brunswick! My schedule: Monday Feb 8 (Early evening onwards, after I check in - In/Out) Tuesday Feb 9 (Flexible Times - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) Wednesday Feb 10 (Flexible Times - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) Thursday Feb 11 (Flexible Tmes - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) Friday Feb 12 (MORNING ONLY, before I check out - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) My rates (For single dates or for couples): 120hh 200hr 300-90 min 350-2hrs (I charge for time of our date only! No "extra" fees or whatever... everything included =)) I'm 5'10, 23, in shape, very small waist and large hips - hourglass with a bit of a booty LOL. I have long platinum blonde hair, pretty face, always groomed nails and try to keep a tan on my lightly freckled body! 36DD-24-38, enhanced but told I'm very natural feeling (I was originally a full C) I'm very open-minded, happy and friendly! I enjoy playing as much as I do talking and cuddling! If things get really wild I tend to be submissive and let you drive. I guess we can't list specific things anymore, but I am open to most safe activities and willing to try a lot of things =) I have a lot of great reviews (Thank You <3 <3 <3) on here if you want to read them first. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=197925 http://lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5160 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=9828 PM me or email me [email protected] if you want to setup a date! =) <3 Kisses, Christina <3 xoxo

Happy Birthday To You !

Happy Birthday Toine! Xoxo

Happy birthday, Sweety!

Hello gentlemen I will be hosting today in Kanata just off of eagleson From 1030-7pm I ask a donation of 80-15m 150-30 220 hour Please text or call 6138890709

What is it you are searching for in the perfect companion? Does she make your heart pound with her soft smile when she opens the door? Will her kiss make your head spin leading you down a corridor of passion? Is she someone who knows how to put you at ease before the afternoon of adventure begins? Selected for my warmth, charm, and becoming figure - I offer exclusive companionship with no messy strings attached. Excelling at exploring sinful fantasies, or enjoying an enticing moment of ecstasy - my specialty is your desire. You can be certain to enjoy your rendez-vous, leaving you with a cherished memory. Donation 30min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 180 60min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 300 90min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 400 120min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 500 180min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 700 DillanWolfe.com [email protected] 514 800 1423 (txt only)

I Am doing some lovely home renovations come take a peek ,bring the paint heh xoxo Time Spent With Me: Renovations Specials 140 /half hour, Reno Special 100/hh 200 /hour, Reno Special 180 /hour 260 /hour and half, 360 /2hours,Reno Special 340 / 2 hours Are you man looking for a mature angel faced woman to spend some time with? Someone who isn't just a woman but real Lady with soft caressing hands and deep kisses. Some wonderful conversations . A woman with deep desires and addicted to cuddles. Step out of your fast paced world and step into my slow seduction. I have warm inviting hazel eyes and curly auburn red hair that cascades around my shoulders. My classic hourglass figure has curves in all the right places. A natural 34 D and hips mmm hips that beg to be held on to. I'm NO spinner but I do so love the ride. Soft scented candles burn I am only 10 min drive away from Downtown Ottawa . I will be waiting----------. Jolie (613)266-9918 XoX

Happy Birthday toine, I hope you have an amazing day !

Happy Birthday toine! Have yourself a fantastic day!!! :D

Happy Birthday Toine I hope you have a great day

i would leave your co-worker behind. Lie if you have to but don't stay in your hotel room for 3 weeks. I do not know of any classy strip clubs in Montreal.

I'm Saddie A sexy, classy, thick, jaw dropping woman ready to take you in to a trip of pleasure. Let me put your mind at ease & leaving you feeling fantastic. My skills well make you lose your mind! I'm the woman who loves what she does ! You work hard and you deserve to indulge in a little fun. call/text me for any info (613)447-9789 East end in calls (beechwood area) don't miss the specials. Moving at the end of the month!

Hello, I'm Vicky French upscale companion from Mtl and i will be available for sensual session in Halifax Feb 9 to 12th and St-John's NL Feb 13-18th!! If you are looking for a sensual & passionate time with a sexy & smart women, i'm the one for you. I love to take my time and please others. Perfect small body, cute face and great attitude. Refreshing, playfull, bubbly and fun. Classy and good conversationalist i'm a great companion for dinnerdate or longer rendez-vous. I love fine dinning and good wine. Check out my raving reviews on Lyla's, Perb & Caf!! *You can prebook now at [email protected] Website: http://www.vicky-french.com Text only: 438-896-5022 Description: 26yrs old, light brown hair, green eyes, 5'4", 115lbs, 34b-24-34 Donation: HH/180, 1H/250, 1.5Hr/400 and 2Hrs/500 Hope to hear from you soon, Vicky French xoxo

I will speak for myself, as not everyone feels the same way. I wrote a blog once about feeling like a McDonalds drive thru. "I'd like a ... And ... And ... And ..." "Would you like to supersize your order?, drive to the first window please." The funny thing is, what they want is what I love, but I felt like I was being broken down into a sum of parts and not looking at the whole experience. So, when the laws changed, I decided to take control of how communication was done. It's not that I have an issue with LE, but I finally have the ability to determine what is and is not acceptable. Yes, I loose out on some invitations, but they are the ones I don't really want to meet. Personally, I would approach it with first asking if she would like to have a discussion about how you envision your encounter. That is completely different then someone texting me out of no where saying I want X, y, and z. It can be a bit of a shock when I'm expecting "hello, my name is ..., how are you doing", vs "I want X, y , z. So, if you open the communication first, ask if she is interested in a discussion, you will find that she might be open to the discussion. Good luck.

I agree with what's been said here. This kind of behavior is definitely a turn off, really. I think generally speaking, don't act weird before, during or after the date. Keep in mind that us companion, put ourselves in very vulnerable situations & will always think of our safety first. So don't raise suspicion in any way. So this kind of behavior (referring to Emily's post) will most likely make a lady really uncomfortable and unable to provide you with the experience you're looking for. I'm sorry you experienced this Emily and I agree with you asking him to leave. Weird behaviors always raise concerns & suspicion for me. I might think that either you're hiding something or I should not trust you. Then I become concerned for my safety. Maybe it's all in our heads you may think, but why act creepy or weird if you are just a nice guy? No need to make the lady uncomfortable... I understand nervousness and shyness in the beginning of a date from experience & I usually make people comfortable in my company quite easily. If you need help to relax & get in the mood, simply let the lady break the ice, enjoy some small talk, a drink, maybe a nice massage or soapy kinky shower to get things started. Anything, really. Just let her take care of you and "go with the sensual flow "... Otherwise, be kind enough to simply walk away without causing hassle or concerns for the lady. And do leave compensation for her time in most cases. That's simply mho. All the best :smile:

To clarify a few things, anyone I end up having a date with has had at least 5-10 emails in exchange with me - so we can get to know one another (nothing was off on his communication and he was forth coming via email). When one is nervous they usually are non-forth coming in emails as well as in person. I asked him the questions I ask anyone (not like i asked of this address and SIN number) and have for almost all my time in this business. Ive dealt with nervous people in the past and non have ever pulled this type of BS behaviour. He knew all too well where my hotel was as when we confirmed on the phone I made sure he knew where I was, where to park and where the entrance is. There is only one of the chain brand of hotel I was staying at and the only one at the intersection - so I'm sorry I don't buy I'm lost when he texted ( 15mins early and when I asked where he was parked it was a 5mins walk (even if he had to walk up the stairs, 8min max) As for the housekeeper, she was 3 doors down and in her own world, he claims because she went from her cart into the room (the one she was cleaning) that is must be a sting. Im sorry you watch way to much A & E. People come and go into hotel hallways and rooms all day long, no one pays attention to much unless you bring it on yourself. Im clear on my site and in my ads that we will be communicating before and during our date (after is up to you). Considering what i ask to screen is more invasive than what i ask in person, I don't buy nerves with this guy. (plus the first time I've had someone say my questions were too personal) Someone who goes through as much communication with a companion as he did, should have some butterflies as we all do on a first date. Once inside the suite that is well lit with open doors and the person they booked standing in front of them after they are hugged should in most cases be able to breathe a sigh of relief. I even offered for him to look in the close or dresser if that would he help him relax to show I was "alone" and not part of a sting. From my time in this biz, newbies have a way they act and this guy was no newbie he played my screening to be a douche. Im willing to bet that every SP he has booked he has played the same stunt with - after much thought I know when I have been played. I get nerves and respect they do happen, but people serious about a date generally relax at some point, laugh and have fun. This was not the case.

I feel so old right now but can anyone explain this bitcoin thing. I have read so many different websites, forums and blogs and NOTHING makes sense. I apparently have a "wallet" on my tablet but have zero idea how to add money to it, I feel like every time I make progress I find something telling me the exact opposite. I would prefer to send money from my PayPal or even a prepaid visa vanilla card but.... Maybe could we star a basic "How To" guide for bitcoins before I rip out all my hair? Lol

There was an app before that is similar to a "little black book" allowed you to keep all thee information about a person you could want to and it would link with google calendar for the appointments side of it. I have never used it but a friend did. The reason she used it was that it was an encrypted app, all data stored in it was separate from the rest of the contacts and such. And it required a password/code to access it. I am sure that it or something similar would still be available, I know that she had to pay for it but it was only a couple bucks. Try searching for little black book and you might find something.

Shortandsweet, Send me a text and I will be glad to help you out. It's really not complicated at all. The biggest hurdle is finding a seller and I can put you in touch with one. I can guide you step by step over the phone.

disposable dixie cups for mouthwash are great too and no clean up afterwards ;) And because it's summer, unscented anti-perspirant (spray type of course) Also I wish everyone found bar soap disgusting like you do, roamingguy, as I find a few will still use my bar soap that i use for my body, instead of the many bottles of body wash i have supplied specifically for use by many different persons (I even have signs posted lol) And I even wash the bottles daily. I'm kinda uptight that way

A positive friendly attitude! Baby wipes/fresh linen to freshen up before and after

Adora in Thursday looking stunning as usual. Met a new girl, Julia, very slim, petite blonde and gorgeous by my eyes.

Very interesting thread. I believe that hobbyists and providers have this thing in common, we have that side of our life that not all people know about... (I mean not everybody can't openly talk about the way they live their sexuality if you know what I mean). From my experience, it's not always easy managing 2 lives, especially when you know you can tell others because of the consequences that comes with it. In another hand, people don't always need to know lol. As of matter of fact, everybody has secrets anyways and most people lead a "double life in a way or another". As long as one's happy with the choices he/she made and it's not harming anybody than I think it's fine. @ Michaella, I wish I had a family that was open minded and understanding like your Mom. You are lucky and I'm happy for you. :)

Avoiding the WOTs and tirekickers is why I'm email only. I'm going to start answering blocked calls whispering... "It's done but there's blood everywhere and there's a dog, what should I do with the dog?" My calls don't come from clients but telemarketers so it should be fun... cat

It's simple. Most SP's advertise. Most SP's (although not all) fall into a specific cost category. Most SP's have pics and info either here or on their website. Reading this info can go a long way to answering your questions. And most SP's will not answer blocked numbers including myself. It is a safety factor but it is also a "oooo theres one of my favourite dates calling" thing. In my experience blocked numbers are a waste of my time and I suspect most other SP's as well. Safety is truly an aspect, perhaps the main one, that we don't answer blocked. We have only so many places to reference a prospective playdate. And yes most SP's keep a log of "their dates". Whether they're a waste of time by booking and not cancelling, no chemistry, rude, drunk, obnoxious, unhygienic. Whatever. It is too easy for our information to be out there, but I see no purpose for yours to be hidden. It's not like we are a bunch of women waiting to ruin your lives by hounding you, calling you up for a chat, or "telling" on you. That is like shooting yourself in the foot business wise. I am very surprised to hear that some will answer blocked calls and suspect these are few and far between. No SP worth her salt would do this. And if you do, you're asking for the lowest common denominator in clients. Obviously desperate for money for some reason or other that does the rest of us no favours.

Ladies, do you need a URL to advertise in the newspapers or on other sites? We have just the thing you need!! You may have notices this new ICON on the main page When you click it it will take you to a page where you can register a FREE cerb.ca url that you can use in newspaper ads and on other sites! No need for a expensive website! You can even link this to your escorts-canada ad or your yahoo page if you wish!! Special thanks to dreamer8 for the suggestion and the team here for helping me code the page to make this all work! If you register a domain and make a mistake you will need to PM me to help fix it. The feature does not have the ability to EDIT the domain or URL (at least not yet). I would manually need to edit this for you so please be careful. NEW MEMBERS: You will not be able to register domains until you are out of the moderation queue. You must be a member for 30 days and post at least 10 posts before this feature will be unlocked to you. Please: Only ONE domain per person please, if you need more than one you will need to PM me first and ask permission. Do not ABUSE this, when you register a domain it will send me a notification. If you put a link to something that is not appropriate I will need to remove it (and you).