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I never heard of this mysogynistic group until I read this article. Very disturbing. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/return-of-kings-rallies-cancelled-1.3432969?__vfz=tc%3D3p5eNoJKY2d

I've been following this site for a long time now, and it is amazing how often the same, issues, concerns and complaints come up. Things that should be obvious often are not. I thought it might help if I compiled a summery of some of the more common concerns for the newbie section. Hopefully it will help get some of the new gents to the hobby off on the right foot. There may be some here that don't apply to all people or situations, but these are some of the more common ones I have seen over the years: 1. Do your homework first. Nobody likes to have to spend time writing out answers to questions they have already provided answers for on their website or ad. 2. Be respectful during the initial contact. Being abrupt or rude is definitely a bad start. 3. Don't be too explicit. The laws are such that everyone is restricted in what can be said. Some are more careful than others with this, but remember that you are simply compensating for her time. That's all. Asking for anything more specific will often get you no reply at all. 4. Don't haggle. This is not a flea market. Nothing kills the mood faster than telling someone that they are worth less than they think they are. If she is out of your price range, move on politely. 5. If you have to cancel, let her know ASAP. Life sometimes gets in the way of the best laid plans. Their time is their source of income and they have promised some of it to you. At least give them some notice if you won't be able to make it. If you can't give notice, consider offering to compensate her. It has already cost her the time, whether or not you were there. (E-transfers can make this super easy.) ....And just not showing up without letting her know at all is so incredibly disrespectful and uncool. (and a sure way to get yourself black listed.) Just don't do it. 6. If you are sick, cancel. Nobody wants your illness. (But see number 5) 7. Hygiene -It shocks me how often this one comes up. It is for your own benefit to not have her repulsed during your time together. Take a shower and brush your teeth as close to the appointment as possible. If you can't, then ask if she has shower facilities. Many do. (But remember it is on your time.) oh... and wear deodorant! 8. If she asks you to take a shower before hand.... take one. It means one of two things. a) She has a policy that all clients take one, or b) you smell. Either way, it is the same answer: Take the shower if she asks. 9. Respect her time. This means being on time, but not early. Not always easy to be precise, but do what you can. If you are late, don't expect that she will let you stay later to make up for it. Also, don't expect her to be ready early just because you showed up early. Remember, you have an appointment. Respecting her time also means leaving when your time is up without having to be asked over and over. 10. Have the envelope ready at the beginning of the date. Don't make her ask. It kills the mood. I just place it on the dresser or table as I walk in. They can address it or not as they see fit. Of course, all of these points can be summed up with two words: "show respect". If you use that as a guideline, you can't go wrong. I know there are some points that I have missed and some that not everyone will agree with. Remember, this isn't my list. It is a compilation of the most common concerns I have seen since I started following the site. Feel free to add to it if I have missed any.

I first have that initial first meeting of greeting someone new! That wonderful sensation that comes with that electric first time. I'm available most days between 9am-10pm for sensational, fun, and wonderful adult companion time. I've always been a big fan of sensual massage to heat things up. Most definitely huggable & kissable. I consider myself an open mined individual, with a very romantic, yet passionate side. In lieu of consideration for my unique adult companion time together: 100 HH 130/45 mins. 180/very full h Seek and you shall find... You can reach me @613-404-7437 Thank you and have a wonderful day.

Hello Gents, Hope everyone is having a wonderful start to the day! I am Saddie a tall 5'8 blonde, and some soft all natural 38D breasts. Soft, smooth skin at first touch. Let me melt away all your day to day stress! I am relocated in Alymer my avail time is 11am to 2:30pm for In Calls And I also offer Out Calls as well now anytime of the day. So let get a little wild and make some magic happen. New and improved! Best way to contact me is threw text. No blocked callers please and thank you! 613.447.9789 Check out my reviews! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=227667

Years ago (pre-Lyla for me) I phoned an SP and booked an appointment, and towards the end she said something like "I should tell you, I'm black, does that make any difference?" I immediately assured her that it didn't - as, in fact, it didn't. But when we hung up I was sad for her that she felt she had to ask that, and slightly depressed to live in a world where she was probably right. This thread is full of sincere people doing their best to try to create a world where this is a non-issue, and that's great, but it's a disheartening state of affairs nonetheless.

The initial welcome is very important, it sets the stage for the rest of the evening. Nothing says welcome more than a bright and warm smile. A gentle hug, a smooth transition inside my home and some interactive small talk. This gets the mood flowing, and gives each other a chance to get to know each other a little better, if it is a first encounter. Regulars are treated with the same welcome, but conversation can be a bit more casual. I offer refreshments and massage to everyone that visits me, it is a great way to set the mood, and gives each other a chance to explore each other. I really dislike the 'in and out' quickie, it is very mechanical and rushed. I like my guest to feel as though they are the most important person to me at that moment.

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

Any have info on this provider. Pic passes tineye. http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-asain-in-town-for-short-timetrying-this-out-for-the-first-time/2733353

Hi there, I'm new here and as a person in a wheelchair, I'm wondering if anyone knows of any escort services who specialize or have experience in helping those in the disabled community? Thanks!

looking for a killer bum to cater to yoga pant/ legging fetish :D

I will second the warning on Nadia... She would have looked like her pictures at some point but not anymore... Shame

The PM has hired Dan Gardner as a senior adviser. https://ipolitics.ca/2016/02/03/auth...enior-adviser/ http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/...ticle28549451/ If you weren't aware of where Dan Gardner stands, these should give you some idea. http://dangardner.ca/we-cant-keep-ig...g-sex-workers/ http://dangardner.ca/misdirected-moral-righteousness/

I have seen clients with differing abilities. My place is very accessible as well

Greetings, Do you fancy a fun and sexy escapade which captures the true essence of sensual relaxation? Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is Erin, and I'm your delightful distraction that is sure to add a perfectly warm and naughty touch to your greyest winters day. Will you allow yourself to melt under my roaming hands and soft body? I take pride in the little details that lead to wonderful moments. I maintain a fit body accompanied by a sultry presence and unique touch. I must confess to having a consistent desire for embracing in sumptuous relaxation..;) My schedule this week: Today: 2:00-7pm. Friday 10:30am-7:00pm Advanced bookings are always welcome Independently located in a comfortable and upscale location in the west end. I enjoy meeting new people as well as reconnecting with old friends. My recommendations. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=43994&highlight=sensual+erin Please feel free to pm or introduce yourself by email, [email protected]. I look forward to hearing from you! Yours, xoxo

Hello gentlemen I will be hosting today in Kanata just off of eagleson From 10am to midnight I ask a donation of 80-15m 150-30 220 hour To book please call or text 6138890709

Hi darling, Well it finally looks like I am back babe until further notice!! So if today you are in a boring meeting or you would like to come over for an extended lunch or coffee break I will be so glad to see you chéri !! And you will find it very practical to find out that there are LOTS of FREE parking up by my place hun! I am available today, Thursday, February 4th and tomorrow Friday, February 5th from 8:30 to 4 pm. I am Barbara, the 'original plus size beauty' with a genuine and vibrant personality, pretty with mid long curly flamboyant red hair, sexy green doe eyes and natural 38D. Beginners welcome! To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Thanks darling! Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !

Navy blue - feeling 'wave'y

Normally International... but lately I have been wanting to go to Winnipeg so I choose Domestic... Rental car or Taxi? Additional Comments: Normally International... but lately I have been wanting to go to Winnipeg so I choose Domestic... Rental car or Taxi?

A whole pile of leftovers mixed with pasta and baked in a casserole with a cheese and breadcrumb topping! I am the queen of reinventing leftovers! Lol

Good morning! I'm available Downtown for you at an upscale private condo today. Lets play.. ;) Out visits are also available. Please text or call me directly at 613-255-5904 5'7 25 y.o 150LBS BLONDE HAIR GREEN EYES 36C 613-255-5904 Have a great week gentlemen xo

My guess is she requires a photo so she can make sure she does not know the person trying to book personally, or maybe a bad situation has happened to her during an appointment so she now needs a photo as a safety precaution in case something goes wrong? A lot of ladies require personal information like real full name etc for their screening purposes, so if the lady is legit and nothing goes wrong during a session then everything you provide will stay between you and her. Or, maybe she is just picky in whom she sees and wants the person to be attractive to her, who knows! :P

If you are looking for an SP in Halifax I think you will find a plethora of wonderful ladies who it would be a pleasure to pass some time with. I certainly could recommend the following: Midnight Energies http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=77835 http://rawr4u.com/ MsManda http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=75468 Www.MsManda.com Katherine http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=29603 http://www.sensualkatherine.net/ Jocelyn Ardenne(In Truro but travels to Halifax) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 http://www.jocelynardenne.com Sierra http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=24762 http://sierra-halifaxescort.com/ But hey the board is full of amazing Halifax ladies Just my Opinion

This site was created to share experiences with Sp's and to write reviews to show that this person is who she says she is and what she is about. I work hard to maintain my blog, website, twitter and pay to post my ads all over ,to show that I am who I say I am and not to mention paying for my hotel room daily when I tour. I have even included a page on my website where I put all of my reviews, recos and even kind little ditties that people have written about or for me. To be quite honest , from my experience in booking with a SW myself, working with an agency for 3 years or more before I became independent and offering services on my own, is that you will never TRULY know without somebody else saying otherwise. A lot of new SP's depend on sites like this to show who they are and what they are about. A lot of girls are not comfortable with dancing in front of a cam and there is no proof that she will be the one at your door. Talk to the lady. If she can communicate well and get a good conversation going then, yes give it a shot. A lot of this hobbyist and SP situation is hit or miss. There's nasty people everywhere and there is no exception when it comes to SP's or Hobbyists. You need to inform yourself and do your research. Yes, that might be a PITA but you aren't going to invest in someone you won't take the effort to inform yourself on. Hobbyists need to understand that some of us don't want to show our face as we don't want extra attention turn into drama.We require discretion and it can be overwhelming when people are harassing you to send them pictures to their phone or email. Maybe when you arrive at the ladies place of work and see that it's not her, I don't know... LEAVE?? If you are unsure about a lady or fear the pimp ordeal, google it, ask around. It's insulting to be expected to do even more than we already do. Us ladies have to deal with time wasters ALL the time and it's exhausting. It's a constant battle of trying to prove ourselves so that you will even consider seeing us as we "may be a bait and switch". Maybe you need to try to book differently. My two cents

The young attractive Asian girl that people are speaking of is Shweni (not sure about the spelling). She has a beautiful face and a super hot tight body with curves in all the right places, which is not very common among Asians. She is very friendly. As a Mandarin speaker, I chatted with her for a bit after our wonderful session. I've learned a lot about her. This girl is off the charts. She is friendly, sexy, smart and has integrity.

It was so Hot in St John's today that I had to check the calendar tonight to be certain it was in fact actually February and the middle of winter... but I guess I could be excused for being confused about the season because I had the pleasure of spending the afternoon Autumn Raine who on her very own could raise temperatures in St. John's but when paired up with the Sensual Katherine from Halifax who will shower you with attention it means a sexual heat wave hit this outpost in the middle of the North Atlantic. I contacted Autum this morning and as usual she was amazingly accommodating in setting up last minute meeting Katherine, me and her. And before you know it I was in the truck on my way to Autumn great incall location in Downtown St. John's. On my way to see them I picked up a bottle of "Fat Bastard" Red wine as a welcome to Newfoundland treat for Katherine and some Newfoundland Chocolate Truffles for Autumn. Now for those of you who have met me you will quickly appreciate my wine choice for Katherine. Prior to the introduction of the new laws in Canada back in December of 2014 I had participated in a few duo sessions with some amazing ladies and of course they were always exceptionally hot with what would now be considered very inappropriate activities. Now that the new laws are in place my expectations for spending a few hours in the company of two beautiful sexy amazing ladies like Autumn and Katherine have changed it could not be expected to be nonstop sex and debauchery like in the past we are now civilized... we are comforted by a great game of tiddlewinks. Now over the years I have had the great pleasure of playing tiddlewinks with some amazing Lyla ladies and while I am of course a great l*over of the two person version of the game I had never played three person tiddlewinks so I was somewhat apprehensive about how the afternoon would go... Well let me just say that that you really have not played 3 person tiddlewinks correctly until you have played it with these to ladies... they know all the angles... they exactly what to do to get that tiddlewink exactly to where it needs to go for the afternoon to be fun and frankly these two ladies are not willing to give up on the game until it has been completely played out ... in fact I am not sure you can meet two ladies who have more of an appetite for tiddlewinks. During a fast paced game of two handed tiddlewinks it is not unusual for both game players to work up quite a sweat but I came to understand this afternoon just how much more energy is used in a three handed game...and when you play such a game with two experts like Katherine and Autumn who of course come with all the appropriate game paraphernalia then it is frankly at another level... There were times when I felt like these two ladies thought it would have been appropriate to just handcuff me on one side of the playing surface so that they could just play on by themselves. Anyway this is just my round about way of telling all of you that I had an amazing afternoon today playing tiddlewinks with these two ladies and I would highly recommend that if you are in St. John's this week or in Ottawa in a few weeks that you look up these two ladies and let them show you exactly how tiddlewinks should be played. Autumn Raine http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=110704 Sensual Katherine of Halifax http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=29603

I like boobies, each one is unique and should be loved:

I'd like info too! Seems like a great girl - hopefully she is real.

Hey Gents I will be returning to good ole St John's on the 28th until Feb 6th .. and I will not be alone Sensual Katherine is coming back with me .. soo you know things will be heated up .. for 9 nights and 10 days the games will be on in full force .. do you wanta play with us?? Alone with me or doubling your pleasure .. the possibilities are .. well endless and so join in the fun .. you know you wanta .. 709-701-9251 or PM me i am filling up our booking schedule as we speak .. dont miss out xox

I don't know if there is any SPs from your area, but I would check there... Here's the link: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=44 There's a Soleil Sublime from Winnipeg in the group. Don't know if she's the same...

I am new at this site but excited to learn how to navigate on it better! I'm from the fredericton area. I am a very positive and gorgeous girl. just saying hi to everyone on my first post.

I'm not into the drama, stuff, that said, there was new member that attempted to use the handle pistol pete...(space in between), on this board. That said, he has (handle) been removed from members list.I also received a email from a provider that told me if I changed my email addy, which I have NOT. If a lady is contacted by ME, and those ladies that know myself, I will introduce myself through a PM or DM (Twitter) or email, once communication is set up, I will give my contact number, and THEN send same (contact number) back to them through PM,DM email to confirm it is ME. Your safety and mine is paramount to take these necessary steps to enjoy a successful,mutual enjoyment together. Thanks, and be safe ladies. ;)

I tend to go about it in a friendly manner. I LOVE intimacy, but would like to chit chat get to know a bit about each other. I offer Massages first before kissing or hugging as I know how scary it may be seeing an escort. Regulars get tackled to the floor in kisses, nothing more, nothing less. Additional Comments: That's a good way to look at it. Smart cookie over here!

Recently I met this MA who kissed me when she met me. She led me to the Massage room. closed the door and then really gave me some passionate kisses. Then she directed me to the couch and then sat on my lap and continued to kiss me really passionately. Soon it was getting too hot so we had to take a quick shower, where the kissing continued. Oh this is one of my favorite sessions to date :)

Not really on topic, but one of the things I miss the most in my marriage is a nearly complete lack of kissing and its the kissing as much as the... hummm.... how can I say this... "other" activities... that I hobby for. Its been over a year and a half since I saw a girl for the first time... the one girl I've been repeating with lately we have a friendship and she greets me with a very warm hug and passionate kiss. I do agree that a warm passionate kiss really does set a great mood.

Many women I find hide behind the door till you get into the room. Then she closes the door and reveals herself to you in a sexy attire. Any sexy or strange welcome stories to tell us :)

was on BP the other day, apparently only in town for a week or so....

Thanks all for taking the time to provide your own perspective on this, some very interesting reads in this thread. I hadn't even thought of the "younger brother" reason which makes a heckuva lot of sense :)

tongue firmly in cheek... why the over 35 crowd gets the girl.... 1. Multiple shots on goal means a three day booking 2. We are extraordinarily grateful that someone will even stay in the same room as us when we are naked. 3. Nap time is on the clock. 4. Cuddle time may just be the best we can do. 5. Less likely to stalk, we barely even remember where we live. 6. While we remember to bring the envelope, we might not remember why we came. 7. We can help with history assignments in post secondary courses. We were there when it all happened. 8. Arthritis prevents us from being too grabby.

I agree with that Meg . Age has never been a issue with me either way . I understand that some girls wont want to see someone in the age group because they may run into people they know .

I connect better with men 35+, but I will consider seeing someone younger depending on how they interact with me. As for how young? Well, I'm 26 and I'm sure how I'd feel seeing someone younger than me.

I do believe that it's most younger men do not always have the income to actually afford our rates and (no it isn't everyone) but people seem to bargain a bit more for rates and ask for discount because they are young and "good looking", but after 30+ most men are a bit more establish in their financial situation