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As a companion who charges in the price bracket that seems to bother you, I'm going to weigh in on how absurd your thoughts sound. I have charged $350+ an hour for 5 years, I have NOT raised my rates yet real life expenses keep up going up. Airfare is at a high, advertising has gone up and all the little life expenses have increased. I offer an experience, a life escape and genuine connection with those I meet with. I open myself up and put myself in a vulnerable position letting strangers (albeit screened, yet still strangers) into my personal space and allow them to share intimacy with myself. YOU have NO right to tell any woman her donation is two high, whether she is charging $200 or $600 an hour, its not your right to complain or question it. YOU have NO idea what it is like to work a day in my shoes and to be honest I doubt you could handle what any of us do in a week let alone a day. The average NICE suite in Ottawa during the week is $250+ a night and why would one just book a normal room when they are spending a few hours with an individual? I really don't feel like fighting for the only desk chair in my room with the gent I'm spending time with. As well to be a quality upscale companion, one won't be booking at the super 8. The experience, The company and the location all weigh in on this aspect. I'd love to see the reaction of the gents I spent time with when I tell them to come see me at motel 6 :) I have had several professional photos shoots over the years, the average price being $1800 for all but one of them and even then it was over $1000 in the end. Im sorry but in business, when one is selling an elite item such as themselves, you don't settle for a $500 photoshoot. Im not calling you naive, however if a woman has invested in professional photos best to assume she's invested in herself and her donation will most likely reflect that. Its people with the thoughts and ideas such as yours that appal me, you have never been an escort, sex worker, companion or courtesan - you have an opinion and a one sided one at that. Because I charge more per hour, does not make me a "gold digger". Far from it, I am very generous with my time and with ensuring that my guests leave happy I spend hours everyday on emails, most that are just on social levels saying hi or where are you this week - and all this is unpaid - yet I would not change any of it. And yes myself like many others took offence to your first post and your second one - I can't imagine what answer it is that you are seeking?

Lemme break it down for you: Upscale incall location : $1200-1500/m (Toronto) Nice lingerie: $240 (how much the last lingerie set I bought cost) Professional photos: $350-$1000 every 4-6 months Website design: $200-$1000 Personal grooming (waxes, manicures): 1 wax every three weeks=$65; manicure: $30-60 (every two weeks) Time spent doing admin: between 10-15 hours a week--this includes updating and interacting on social media, answering emails, updating ads/website etc. Advertising: A base ad on EROS is $60; Turd charges something like $75 for three weeks. A burner phone for work: Ugh, I don't even know. MONEY. It costs MONEY. That's close to $2000 grand in expenses ON THE LOW END OF THINGS. Or did you think we all rolled out of bed perfectly coiffed, manicured, plucked, waxed with magically free incall spaces waiting for you to call us? On top of which, none of us need to justify our rates to you. Please crawl back under the rock from whence you came.

Discussing SP or MA rates in public is just rude. We do not have to justify our rates. Too expensive? Shake it off, and pass to the next.

I think you're being just a bit unfair and mean to both the men that visit BP and providers that advertise there. Some of the most respected and well reviewed women that reside on Lyla also advertise on backpage, including yourself. Men are just trying to sort through the sketchy and the fantastic. If it is so sketchy, then why are you there? Of the thousands of ads I've seen there I only recall seeing one that offered uncovered service. Portraying them all as offering dirty barebakc providers is hyperbole. My own observations tell me there most certainty has been upward movement of prices here driven by a shift in demand as hobbiests have retreated to safer dates under the new legislative regime. And yes, this is EXACTLY where we should be bringing quality providers that don't yet have a Lyla account. Some women don't want to be there because they don't want this to be their life. I talked to some that are just trying to support their families through a bad patch and then they want out. That's neither cheap or dirty. I understand there is a financial incentive to shut down discussion of off site providers. At one time there was even a rule here to ban even the mention of backpage. It was unenforceable, largely tolerated, and didn't allow for men to stay safe through sharing of experiences. In their wisdom, staff changed the rules to permit such discussions, and Lyla is stronger now as discussion has flourished (as likely ad hits have, too). Respectfully, please let us do so, as the rules permit, without attacks on anyone's character or hygiene. I would suggest if these posts bother you so much then you can choose to not click and not read them.

I am pleased to be offering a new experience! A soapy bubble bath . I will wash and pamper you, relax, lay back , I will take care of you. Perhaps even dip in with you. Then allow me to dry you off in a warm towel and take you to my massage room heated and ready for you to relax in bliss. Many of you have experienced my skilled hands and loving touch. In this room many options can be explored. Everything is up to you, how hot do you want it? Our time may end here after you are happy, happy!! OR... Then at your choice you may again take my hand and make those few steps to the next room . The door closes behind us. Why anything can happen now. This is now your time , a bath , a massage and me. PM or text for details. 902 456 8694 Lyla Members please let me know who you are. Katherine

Your original post clearly indicated that based on your opinion paying more than $240/$260 for a hour with a lady in this industry was not good value for YOUR money ... fine you are entitled to your opinion but let's face it your approach to expressing that opinion clearly took a swipe at ladies who charge more and frankly that undertone is clearly articulated in your "golddigger" comment... no wonder you place such a low value on spending time with these ladies you have such a low opinion of their character. You may not agree with their business approach and you may think that they are not worth the money they are charging but how about at least showing some respect for them as people... they like you and I are going about their lives trying to support themselves and their families. What's the outcome you are looking for from your post??... it appears you have a very strong opinion about what ladies should charge... what their expenses should be... and every other facet of THEIR business. Perhaps you want the job as customer ombudsman for the Sex Industry the guy who will stand up for all us poor little guys who are getting taken advantage of by the big bad ladies in this industry... Let's get real the majority of the ladies in this industry work extremely hard to make a living... you have heard several of the ladies outline their expenses and frankly very few leave this industry rich... sure it pays for school or supports their family or allows them some extras that their regular job does not allow for. The professional ladies in this business have made a choice to take control of their own employment... to decide for themselves how they work and when they work... they offer a very personal and intimate service to us men so of course they should be free to decide what they want to charge you or I or any other guy for that matter does not have to agree with that price... they can make a different choice that reflects their personal situation. Just my Opinion

Everyone is different. Some do same day-last minute bookings. Some require advance notice. Most will advertise this information on their ad or website. If the lady is someone who accepts last minute bookings, and she does not answer right away, it could be she is in a call and does not answer the phone while on an encounter. If texting, let her know if she can text back (i.e. If you get this text before xpm, feel free to reply). Some won`t reply if more then an amount of time has gone by for discretion. If leaving a voice mail, let her know she can call back by xpm. I always hesitate to reply to text messages if its much later, unless they specifically indicated it is ok to reply later. If sending an email for someone who pre-books, and if she has not replied within a 24 hour period, feel free to re-send your email. Technology sometimes messes up and emails, texts and voice mails get missed or erased. The only issue I ever have is if someone sends me a text every 5 minutes for 2 hours. Starts out Hi, then Hey, then working? then the question marks start. Especially at 2 am. Those I will never reply to and will most likely block, so I don`t even get the texts or phone calls in the future. Or if someone has been rude, crass, asked for unsafe activities, or ignored my instructions posted on my website. I agree the lady who replied it was rude to waste her time when she took so long to get back to you, and wanted you to be there in 30 minutes, is unfortunate. I'm a believer that if its meant to be, it will happen. Sorry this happened. I'm a firm believer in pre-screening your ladies. Contact them in advance to confirm their booking protocols. Introduce yourself, let her know that there are times you have a short window of opportunity, and is she interested in you contacting her if you are both available. This helps to find out in advance if you are both compatible, what her rates/protocols are. Obviously, you don't want to utilize a lot of her time, but this helps to narrow down your options for when you have time to play. If done respectfully, it helps.

I get your question.. because you have a perceived.. 'going rate' going on in your head.. likely based on the experience you've had that the sp's you've seen offer that rate.. I did when I started.. BUT I've now got 25+ years of experience.. plus I'm well known (high exposure) so I have 'fans' that book me...so I increased my rates a bit more.. And my regulars still book me at my 'post-porn' rates You'd think that would result in fewer bookings.. but what it does in fact is allow me to be more choosy in who I see.. Clients who respect my rate.. usually respect me.. no matter what I charge. Clients (or rather prospective clients) who try to tell me I'm charging too much don't get very far. In fact I had one that sounded about 24 on the phone try to explain to me 'the going rate'.. so I laughed at him.. and said.. I've literally been at this longer than you've been alive and you think you can tell me 'the going rate'? Be serious! We didn't meet that day.. but eventually he'll either decide to book me respectfully at my rate or see someone else.. Either way it makes no difference to me. I can't please everyone. But while he's wistfully hoping I'll let him book me at his requested rate.. there's another absolutely lovely client not only paying my rate but tipping me after the fun session we've just had.. You do the math :) I don't think it's fair as some have suggested that ladies who charge $200/hr are running an assembly line. I know for a fact several ladies who charge much less and see way fewer clients than I do.. and some who charge more see way more clients! When I started in 1990 the rates were all over the map as well.. nothing has changed. We are not in a union after all :P

While it's nice that you are concerned.. you have absolutely zero obligation to offer any kind of severance.. neither would you with your hairdresser, massage therapist, dentist, physician.. etc.. You are a very kind person to even think this way though :) That says a lot about you! cheers!

I am so so so tempted to add this today: For f-ck sake, for once that ladies can have THE job in the world where they will ALWAYS be paid MORE THAN MEN, knowing all the unbalanced/unfair salaries out there between men and women, and a man still wants to complain about it?! Yeah, our price is our price. But if we want to be very practical about it and cut it down to how much it would cost minimally in an hour, why not trying this exercise? I am sure we will go OVER 300$/hour very quickly. Alright, here it goes: - A regular massage by a registered therapist or in a beauty spa by a non registered therapist, nothing else, is between 75 to 125$/hour and more. - The cost of paying personal company for people who need it (for example seniors or disabled people whose family pay for individuals to provide them with company, meaning talking with them only, not offering any care, just checking if they are OK): minimum of 15$/hour in Ontario. - The cost of education that distinguishes a lady (I tend to think that we are not stupid, whether we have diplomas or not. Intelligence and an elegant attitude, as well as having the ability to entertain guests is not related to studies we might have done or not, but if we have, it is another cost that can be considered in trying to "making the price right"). Most of us have degrees or are studying. So the cost of having stimulating conversations with a lady thanks to education (sometimes compared by some gentlemen as talking to a therapist): minimum of 120$/hr - The cost of location: MINIMUM 200$/night. Minimum. If we talk about upscale location, it goes up fast. - The cost of personal care: although we are beautiful, we do not wake up with our hair, make up, nails, skin looking nice and smelling good. We need to take care of that. Hair dresser, nail salon, tanning salon, beauty spa, products, perfume etc... Name it. These services/items are very expensive. Let's say: 200$/month minimum - The cost of clothes and shoes and lingerie, bags (you do not want us to wear plastic bags, don't you?) very expensive. You don't want to see us with the same outfits all the time? No: minimum of 200$/month to renew wardrobe and lingerie. Just one piece of lingerie can cost 200$ ! - The cost of a gym membership (we have to take care of our body!): let's keep it simple, if we go to the YMCA: minimum 55$/month - The cost of special toys, accessories, anything related to play and protection: these stuff are expensive, especially if we specialize the type of games and toys: another 200$ minimum /month (my personal minimum expenses in this category) - Cost of hygiene products at your disposal, laundry to offer you fresh and clean towels, bed sheets, and buy new ones if needed etc...: 80$/month (my personal minimum expenses in this category). - Drinks or appetizers that can be offered by ladies to gentlemen in some meetings: I sometimes offer crackers, cookies, drinks. Let's keep it minimal with non alcoholic drinks: 30$/month (my personal minimum expenses in this category). - The cost of professional photo shoots if a lady does so: the average cost for such a photo shoot session ("package") is 1200$ (I have looked on a few websites, this is the average cost I noticed, it can be more or less, of course) - The cost of advertising: a minimum of 50$/month. It can go over 200$/month and much more depending on when, how, where the lady advertises, and the frequency/numbers of ads purchased. - The cost of travels, to go to you in the same city, or if a lady is touring. Between plane and train tickets, or gas, it can go up very quickly: varies a lot from a lady to another, obviously. From her rent cost if she hosts only, to several thousands of dollars in a month if she travels all the time. - The cost of communication tools and time involved in communication with you (not only "you", of course...): monthly phone package, website, internet etc... Hard to put a price on this as it can vary a lot but, it is more money again. My minimum cost: around 115$/month, not counting the time put into communicating with gentlemen. I must be forgetting some other costs here for sure! Add all these costs, and you will understand that it is not only about getting up in the morning, putting panties on, and posting an ad randomly somewhere and voilà! Nope. It does not work this way. So, yes, how surprising that it takes money to make money! But most most most of all: what is the real cost of one hour spent with someone who will take care of you wonderfully and make you feel special? How much for this? We give the most precious of ourselves at many levels. Breaking it down to money only does not even cover it all! And about expressing an opinion: it is not about the fact that the OP expressed an opinion in the first place. It is about HOW the OP expressed this opinion. Very different! Having a degree in communication, and being proud of it, I believe that it makes a huge difference when considering discussing such matters.

Hello fellow Lyla Members After being here for five years, making my 1000 post yesterday plus seeing a little negativity lately I feel it is a good time to share my more than amazing experiences since 2010. If your a new member I will be giving some tips for having some fun visits, most of them have being written here many times. Before I met anyone I always tried to learn as much about them as possible, I read their bio's here on Lyla then check to see if they had a website. In my first letter I always tried to be as polite as possible giving the Lady as much information as possible at the beginning then more afterwards if a visit got booked. I never questioned her rate for companionship and if possible I brought along a small gift if it was possible. If the time I visiting someone was around a special time I always tried to be prepared for that like a Birthday, Valentine's Day or Christmas. My heading "Expectations" can be an elephant in any room. One of the biggest reasons I feel I had amazing experiences pretty well each and every time after doing my homework was I always brought the biggest smile with me and then go with the flow. In life everyone wants to be greeted with a smile, our ladies here on Lyla are no different. My second tip is respect, my parents drilled this into me, there comment was, respect is a two way street you give and you get it back, I have always treasured this with the ladies I have had the privilege to visit here on Lyla. The two simple words smile and respect can make any visit spectacular. Going back to the word expectations, I guess what I am trying to say I never really had any, I was indeed a very curious man and in thinking back if I have had any they were surpassed a hundred fold. At this time I would like to thank a few ladies that have being more than kind to me since I joined here. I will mention mostly ladies in my area that I have visited a couple of times plus a traveling lady I seemed to connect with a little more than others. Two of the Ladies I got to visit early in my adventures were Emily Rushton and Cara Silver, these two ladies gave me the confidence to enjoy my future visits, thank you ladies. Other ladies I am so grateful to are Katherine, Lady Sophia, Jocelyn Ardenne, Jordan Munroe, my visting Lady from Montreal Gabriella and last but not least Miss Carley Chase. At present I have made the personal decision to be quiet in visiting with one exception. I know the problem of mentioning names is someone could get offended, if I had the pleasure to meet you and not mentioned your name I do remember pretty well every one I have had the pleasure to meet so thank you for visiting PEI. The sole purpose of this post was thank all the ladies I have had the supreme pleasure to meet since joining plus try to give out a few hints/tips on why I feel I had nothing but a splendiferous time over the last five years, ladies thank you immensely. In closing gentleman, smile, be respectful, try not to get great expectations in your head and go with the flow, when you then look back at your visit I am sure you will be more than happy plus pass any expectations. Triple HHH

FREE PARKING - yes HOURS 3p.m - 1a.m 20off for 1st time visits Sensual Krissy, Rendezvous (Ottawa, West) 613-315-3225 Good day ladies and Gents, krissy here. I am at my Westboro location today. I start with a full body massage from top to bottom, as well as a sensual girl friend experience. We start off with hot shower together, while we soap up lather each other, we start off with mutual massage. Than I lead you to my candle lit room where we continue what we started. Im late 30's, blond blue eyed dd34 (busty) with a tiny waist, just like barbie. Feel free to call me at my motel at 613-722-6591 room number 28 xxkrissy My sessions are all inclusive, meaning there is no hidden costs or fees. I am not a clock watcher so if our sessions last a little longer than time stated there is no worries or extra fees, although if you are interested in a 2 hour session or more please let me know in the beginning so that I can work through my appointments accordingly and fairly. Thank you xx 1 hour 180 30 min. 100 613-315-3225

This entire thread reminds me of the scene in Airplane when the passengers line up to take turns putting a beating on the hysterical lady passenger. Classic. Of course the movie was released I would think around 1980 so i am showing my age :)

I think that the best professionals to awnser any of your questions regarding a certain type of medication is your pharmacist. Not only they are aware of all undesired effects of your meds, but cannot be bias because they are not the ones to prescribe. It's easy to set-up an appointment, free, and they might be able to point out any eventual problems you may have quitting it to quickly. There are undesired effects to either take OR get off meds. I suggest you go to your regular one, as he knows if you have other meds that interacts with Lipitor. And it's a well known fact (in Qué.) that doctors and pharmaceutical companies are walking toghetter. Talk about it to your doctor, and I'm sure he'll find the proper treatment for your condition. And last and foremost, nothing replaces at least 30 mins of smooth exercise and good nutrition. Eventhough you're under treatment, those should be mandatory, espescially with high cholesterol.

Just see someone that fits in your budget ;) ;) ;)

Umm, please DO NOT convince Phoenix to leave. Thanks!

You think 350 is lots, lol, but again that is here in Canada. Guess you might think I'm crazy than, seeing a Companion in the USA and her rates are 600.00 an hour, I booked her, but not for an hour but a overnight together. (Her longer bookings is less than a her hourly rate) Can you imagine with the CDN AND USD exchange rate what that might of been? OMG...horrible isn't it < sarcasm ;) You see, its really not about the rate, (well for me anyways), it is about maturity,communication,timing and when I simply want to indulge. For those that use comparisons to cars,restaurants etc etc, in this thread, really should not do that. The ladies at either 200-240-300-350-600 rates are human beings they fulfill their life style, by their rate for service provided. We as gentlemen, should either except, or move on what is within our budget means. To those bashing the thread starter, I think he just asked a question, why different rates, if you read his last sentence. The answer is quite easy : BECAUSE THEY CAN :) it is their choice, their business. I've also met many ladies (MA's or SP's) and there was/is always a variance in rates, but that is choice, and we as gents have a choice, just make yours a wise choice that is within your monetary and budget. Oh and has nothing to do with if she thinks she is worth more at a higher rate, it is her CHOICE. ;) She may want to only see gents for longer engagements or only one to two gents a day, so rates are a little higher. I like the ladies that stay away from drama,they are the ladies that just might have higher rates, and are not constant complainers, on how telling us gents through media,boards constantly how we should behave for appointments. When I see that much negativity coming from same group of ladies, I just don't communicate with them. Life is suppose to be positive, and upbeat, not negative and constant lecturing, I'm an older guy and I prefer the ladies that act positive, upbeat and keep me smiling. I'm also much more selective at my older age, and I have been around long enough to know how to exactly conduct myself in this business. Peace out!

One of the great things about wild threads like this is that you get to see the providers with the most intelligent answers. Intelligence is a turn-on, and helps narrow down the providers you would see. :icon_twisted:

Wow! You said you've been on Cerb for six years now? Did you think all expenses were going to stay the same? Come on now! 150/200hr doesn't pay for hotel room, let alone all other expenses we have to cater to our beloved friends. So ask yourself, six yrs ago were you making the same wages you are now? I highly doubt it. Lol.

Dude ... you are gonna get eaten alive in this thread. Why does anyone in any trade charge more than anyone else?(hows that for a wordy question?) If the market will bear your prices... why not? Some girls really are THAT hawt and THAT good.... dudes will pay it.

I've seen many posts from gentleman saying they've had bad experiences, because it sounds like Winnipeg is not doing so well. I feel really bad reading it all here, because that shouldn't be happening, but it does. If I were to travel to Winnipeg, in your opinion would there be a positive outcome? (both gentleman's and ladies opinions) Would you recommend a hotel? (location, safety, close to things, parking, etc.) One of my goals this year is to travel places, this might be a city I might travel to at some point, but nothing is set in stone. I would like opinions from the gentleman's perspective and ladies. It just saddens me that everyone is having a rough time, that shouldn't be the case. Gentleman I have a few questions for you: Would you pay in advance? or would you feel more comfortable paying a small deposit, then rest at the appointment? (taking into consideration the cost to travel) What would be the ideal hotel location for you? Would you avoid any hotels altogether? How long would you like a lady to stay in your city? 4 days a week, longer. How long would you schedule a rendezvous? 1hr, 90min, 3hr, longer? Would you want a 30 minute rendezvous? (which would fit you're budget and paying full in advance, where if their was a cancellation there wouldn't be any refund) Thank you and stay safe. Warm hugs, Amanda-Lee

#babeballcap #twinzies

I drove through Canada last summer. Winnipeg is a mid way point, so planned to stop a couple of days to recharge and if I could see some people, that would be a bonus. I booked a hotel by the airport (was travelling with my dog, so I needed a place that was dog friendly). I only advertised here - no bp or the pacific board. I had some great encounters. They recharged me, invigorated me and left me feeling refreshed to move on. I stayed 2 days, and ended up with a bonus date in Brandon on a fluke as I happened to be in the town when he contacted me. So, for me it was successful (and satisfying). However, I was not depending on making dates, as I was there to recharge and rest. Unfortunately, Winnipeg has a reputation for being an Eco-Pooner city. Seems that there are some who want the cheapest option and will do what they can to negotiate. I ignored the few who tried this. As I said, I didn't have to actually see anyone, so the pressure was not there. I doubt anyone would send a deposit, but there are some great guys there that would send a deposit to secure their time with you. So, just because the vocal say they would not, they don't speak for everyone. If I had used the other sites to advertise, I suspect the negotiating requests would have been greater. It is a city I will return to, but I will only pre-book those that I have seen already, or have great references, and if I can see others, then its a bonus. Travelling is never a guarantee of actually making money. Some just break even, and lots loose money. So, if you are interested in travelling there, start advertising dates, see if you can get some solid pre-bookings and go from there. Reach out to the travelling ladies to see if they can give you some pointers. Back east in New Brunswick is a great alternative IMO. Not the same amount of issues Winnipeg has. If you need help with information there, let me know. Good luck! Additional Comments: Don't do that - its against the rules of the board. Unless someone specifically mentions that they want unsolicitated PM's, just don't.

I am going to be visiting Fredericton, and Saint John next week. I'll be in Fredericton on Monday, February 15th, and Saint John on February 16th-17th. I couldn't possibly think of a better way to spend it then with you! One thing I would like to mention firstly is, if you have any special requests please don't be shy to ask. I want our time together to be something you will never forget, and if there is a way to make it even more special I would be more then happy to accommodate, if possible. These are some thing we could do today....... Trying new things, teaching you new things and you teaching me new things. Role play, submissive, dominant....... all things that I love. I am sensual, and seductive; but I know when it's time to get a little naughty, and rough. I will give you everything. Even a very passionate head to toe rub. What could make this any better you ask?...... Well, maybe it's the way I make you fell sooooo comfortable from the moment we meet. It will be like we have known each other for years, or maybe it's that my personality will leave you amazed. You'll know that I'm honest, sincere, and that you have never met anyone like me before. You'll never want to leave. I'm staying downtown at an upscale and discrete location. To arrange a date please email me at [email protected] To learn more about me please either ask me, or check out my website http://www.carleychase.com I hope your day is wonderful, and looking forward to seeing you! Lots of love always Carley xox

I decided after much consideration to book Carmen Rose for a visit. I must say that I could have instantly rebooked as soon as we were finished. I was even tempted to offer but wasn't sure I could perform not her! She was extremely sweet, real and comforting. We talked for a while to get the nerves out of the way. She was quite skilled in all aspects of our meeting from conversation to departure. I would not hesitate to book with Carmen Rose and will now be my go to girl 100% of the time! Additional Comments: I can't believe that I forgot to link her post... http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-carmen-rose-in-saint-john/2063990... She is in here as Carmen Rise as well

There's something about Eva3340 that's caught my attention... :) Posted here with her permission. Thanks, Eva.

This is one of those businesses where you have to learn to NEVER count on or rely on income until you have it in your hand. Guys cancel, things come up, etc etc. There are dry periods and tsunamis--you either learn to budget and manage your money or you will end up broke and seeing clients you'd otherwise ignore because you need money. This is why if you cancel last minute, you should pay a cancellation fee even if she doesn't ask for one--she can't fill that spot last minute. Just continue being a good client and move on when you want. You are under no obligation. As others have stated, you could also consider a retainer if you plan to continue seeing her and are still concerned about her wellbeing.

I agree with Grass_Hopper the more information you give the lady in your opening request the smoother the conversation will go... if your request is last minute and time sensitive then tell her and that way if she is busy or not working the day of your request she will realize this when she does read your text and act accordingly.. ladies tend to get lots and lots of messages and only a small portion turn into bookings so keep that in mind. And you know sometimes even the most amazing lady can be having a bad day and may reply inappropriately lol let's face it we have all been there. Just my Opinion

My last purchase was groceries this afternoon... just the basic stuff but with one great addition... Girl Guide Cookies that were being sold by some kids at the exit... so last purchase but snack for tonight.

A baguette and camembert to eat with slices of it

I don't see why this discussion about rates could be rude and inappropriate. Nobody can be hurt or offended until it is not about some particular person. It is business, money is involved and can be discussed as any other aspect. Regarding the rates, everyone agrees that it is market and really competitive market. And rates are justified by this market - if clients are willing to pay, that rate is right, otherwise it will be changed - not much to discuss here. Yet in contrary to the car sales for example, this business is much more personal. 95% people will agree that Mercedes 500 is better that Toyota Corolla (other 5% just don't know the difference). And we pay not just for mechanical of feature difference but for brand, image, prestige. In escorting, higher rate does not always guaranty better experience - it is very personal, you can "click" or not, be attracted or not. But in general, I expect better service conducting from the provider with higher rate - website, better quality photos, all required information, clear and responsive communication, up-scale location... $300+ provider without a website looks like nonsense to me. PS. It looks like questions like this should be posted from time to time - it leads at least to the active discussion with different opinions. Otherwise, life on Lyla becomes boring :-)

In my opinion the best way to fix those problems is through whole foods. We shouldn't be putting foreign substances in us that address the symptom and not the problem. Some can help but should be used along with whole foods to address the problem.

So basically you're saying people should just keep their opinions to themselves? Funny, you seem to have an opinion about everything.

The question is not why, it's why not? Why should the escort discussion board not be "taken over" by discussion of escorts? The most valuable asset that this board provides is sharing of information that can keep us safe. Communication is critical for that. If there was already a recommendation thread on a BP provider then we wouldn't need to ask. In the absence of that resume it can help hobbiests to ask if other members have any experience with a specific lady. Just a guess, but my thoughts are that backpage has between 5 to 10 times the number of providers that lyla has in the run of a month. There's plenty of nice lyla exclusive ladies, but there's plenty of non-lyla ladies equally nice to those that reside here. They just require more research to uncover. Also unscientific, but my own observations tell me there has been two big price shifts since the new legislation took effect. First, verified ladies raised prices by as much as half a C note. Second, unverified ladies have faced lower prices as there business has declined. Higher price does not always translate to better service. Increasingly is just means more well known. This question keeps coming up again and again, and I find it a head scratcher every time. Is it really such bother? We're so fortunate to have such a great place for discussions like this. We should be encouraging more discussions of local unknown ladies, not keeping that information private.

ALWAYS find out the beautiful ladies donation rates FIRST! A lot of men don't seem to realize that the hotel ALONE costs at least 200!! If she is in her private residence she does a lot to make it nice, she also buys nice lingerie often, heels, perhaps protection, massage oil etc etc... expenses ADD UP. To you, she is just a girl you are seeing because you're horny, to her this might be her 'job' and she needs to spend money to make money! I would also like to add that if she is in her private residence, she may be extremely picky over whom she has over, resulting in her maybe charging a bit more so she can see a limited amount of clients or whatever. This is a very private and intimate 'service' that girls are providing, whether it is an SP or MA! Yes, some charge more than others for various reasons, but at the end of the day something that some do not understand: There is ALWAYS gentlemen that are MORE than happy to pay the ladies rate! Don't complain, simply find someone you can afford! If I am in a hotel, I will always charge a bit more for obvious reasons. I have to see at least 2 gentlemen JUST to pay for the room if I am not in my city! If you want cheap, then don't complain when she isn't 'cheap'. There are girls that have specials, look for them! :) Still, it does not matter if she is profiting 100%. This is her body! She can charge $50, she can charge $300! Sorry that your attempt to rate-shame did not work...

Why? Why not. Why did you choose 300$ + ? Why didn't you start, let's say, at 500$ + ? You are not to ignore that in some "high spheres of society" some people would smile at your question. For some people, 100$ is a lot. For other people 5000$ is nothing. This is relative. Does a higher price guarantee that you will have a "better service"? No. And what does "better service" mean to you? If what a lady charges is too much for your budget, as suggested by previous members, move on or wait until you can afford a visit. If all communication is done politely with respect on both sides, nobody will be hurt in the process. And by the way, about the ladies who have a website, they usually have information and rates on it. So, it could avoid you some surprises, wouldn't it? So, tell us, Dear OP, what was the real point of your thread? Fun provocation, just curious and amused to see our reactions, or you woke up with a really bad mood because sometimes the world does not make sense to you? No offense...

I do NOT feel I have to justify myself to you or anyone however since you have decided to open Pandora box publicly then i will do the same ... Do you honestly believe your lower rated ladies have accomplished a fraction of the industry highest awards since as other have?? Can you please tell me have as these women been in Magazines such as I?? Have they been Miss Canada competitors such as I?? Have you or the rest the world been able to track and follow their lives such as mine?? If you can answer YES to any or all of these questions then she is un-charging by a lot and please give them my name and number and i will gladly build them a proper website for free and new rate chart .. since obviously they have NO idea their own self worth .. Breast Wishes, Autumn Raine xo

that's like asking why one car manufacturer charges $35,000 for a vehicle and another charges $350,000 for a vehicle. The answer is (drum roll please, lol) because each is different in their own unique way. There are many factors to consider when looking at someone's rates. Location, desirability, looks, experiences, and much much more. What our rates are is up to us to have, and generally speaking, most of us are in the same range. If you are looking for a luxury experience, then you are going to be looking at luxury rates. Just like as in a $35,000 vehicle isn't going to have the same features as the $350,000 one, you get what you pay for.

To the OP, bear in mind, a lady has the right to choose whatever rate she wishes - it's her body, her time, her choice. If you don't like it you have two options: 1) Save up until you can afford her rate 2) Find someone who is in your price range However, please don't complain; it's just bad form.

Hi darling, Well it finally looks like I am back babe until further notice!! So if today you are in a boring meeting or you would like to come over for an extended lunch or coffee break I will be so glad to see you chéri !! And you will find it very practical to find out that there are LOTS of FREE parking up by my place hun! I am available today, Thursday, February 4th and tomorrow Friday, February 5th from 8:30 to 4 pm. I am Barbara, the 'original plus size beauty' with a genuine and vibrant personality, pretty with mid long curly flamboyant red hair, sexy green doe eyes and natural 38D. Beginners welcome! To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Thanks darling! Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !

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