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Ice, you and I are in a similar position (more than our mutual infatuation with CCC). I have worked nearly 40 years and most of the time in the pension plans area. I have seen to many people happily retire but not be happy in retirement. You need to keep active physically and mentally.

Speaking to my lady friend in St. John's and hearing that her new spa is a smashing success. Congratulations to you AUTUMN RAINE.

Lately I've been getting a slew of people trying to book me, but being uncomfortable provinding a phone number, a username on Lyla or other review sites, or their Twitter handle. I keep getting the vague " privacy reasons" response. Curious, if I give you my work number, and let you into my office to see me, why are you unable to provide a username from a place that allowes you to be anonymous, and is astronomically safer? As an SP I find few things more invasive than meeting someone face to face and sharing your mind, bodies and souls, so it's interesting. I'm not here to criticize, I'm genuinely wondering why, and if there is anything We SP's can do to make you more comfortable with your disclosure. All the best! -Chloe.

hahahahahahhaha <THUD! owfuck!>.......hahaha (the THUD, was me falling off my chair, btw hehe) a woman who complains about how nice it was when this man goes down on her... and stopped him.... and then complains about not cumming herself... HAHA two words for you twit...."SHADDUP!" to have the nerve to insult someone (who is *paying you*) for not engaging in 'mutually satisfying experiences'... AND actually said that it is her time.. and NOT sex.. that she is paid for.. then again, I have to say shaaaadup! he paid her, for the time... what should it matter to him whether she cums or not <insert appropriate eye roll here please>...after all, as she said, it *isn't* the sex he is paying for lol if a person is paying for a service such as this... sex/fantasy/kink/ release.... they are likely paying for the fact (at least in part), that they don't *have to care.... no 'responsibility' of a relationship (of the conventional sort).. no stress.. no expectations.. just enjoyment...to be doted on... pure and deliciously simple... I mean, really chick? pull your delusioned head out of your ass already ;) she says she will only see men who 'care' about her... so my thought, is how will she find out if they do? is there a questionaire to fill out.. does she outright ask them? do they 'date' a while first so she can see where this may/not go? lol good gawd!! and apparently won't see men who cum too fast... HA! I actually enjoyed the line about them 'taking responsibility for their erections' lol.. but when thinking about it... should she not be the one who takes responsibility for it? I mean, <grin> is that not what she should be expected to produce/ <wink> and to go as far as calling someone a loser simply because they came too fast... wow.... I think a few lessons in edging.. for her.. may be in order <wink>.. not their fault if she has no idea wtf to do with what they are allowing her to play with ;) (....and again... wonder how she finds out how 'fast' they are? does she ask? hehe) ....and mid-rant.. puts a shout out to her sister??!!! hahahaha, pardon my brashness here but.. fuuuck me! haha the only 'authority' of anything she could possibly have... would be the unbelievably huge amount of crap spewing forth from her face lol She lacks the grace, respect (for herself as well as others.), and general knowledge to be much of a success at this I think.... I am always one who certainly does appreciate self-confidence.. and a high value on one's self.. but when it only stems from a place where you have to demean/belittle or put down others.. it is just rather sad... it is not powerful... nor attractive... Speaking as one who very much enjoys all aspects of what I do.. the pro-domme work, the massages.. the 'other menu'...and one who functions as what is referred to as a switch...(equally as comfortable as a dominant, and a submissive)I look at the whole thing, really, as an honor... someone has trusted me with their body... to pamper and pleasure them...to in fact, make even just that brief period of time in their day.. all about them... which definitely feeds the submissive side of me.. catering to precisely what the person requires/desires.... while having them rather vulnerable on my table.. <grin>.. certainly goes a long ways to pleasing the Domme in me... all while a main focus is on *them*... what they are in need of....how soon they cum... how many times... irrelevant... really... it is about pleasure.. and to that note, I do ask men who see me (women too, actually) if they tend to orgasm quickly, if they can more than once..if there are things during an encounter that they enjoy or DON'T like <grin>...or puuurhaps just something they might like to try... and this conversation takes place BEFORE the appointment...and let's me know,as the provider.. how I can cater the session to best benefit *them*... not me hehe although it has happened <grin>.. a most lovely and welcomed added bonus.... but certainly not a "requirement" LOL good grief! and her drivel about how men over 40 are not 'hot enough' for her... hahaha she is going to starve with that attitude.. for sure! I think puuuurhaps.. a different career choice may be in order.. something with a small room.. no other humans.. and maybe even duct tape across that crass little mouth... might be a muuuuch more appropriate work environment for her ;) Although a sad little rant, from an unfortunately sad little woman.. I did find it entertaining.. so thank you for posting hehe I am in fact, sharing this with some domme/dom friends of mine who I also think may appreciate it's twisted humor ;) totally made my day hehe

Saw the lovely and sweet Suni recently. The name could be spelled Sunni or Shweni, but phonetically, it is more like Sue Knee, thanks Bellafan for suggesting that in this thread. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=226212&page=2 I know this thread contains a lot of useful information and good recommendations already. But I thought it would be more appropriate to start a new thread under the proper recommendation section. As most of the posts suggest, Suni is a beautiful, elegant, sweet and lovely spinner with long flowing silky black hair almost down to her upper waist. Wearing a tight fitting red dress, she looked amazingly sexy and attractive with a beautiful smile when she welcomed me in. She seemed to be thrilled and pleasantly surprised when I presented her a box of Valentine's Day chocolates from Purdy's. The passionate hugs and kisses that followed and to caress her slim and toned body were an amazing feeling. I soon found out that this beauty loved to please and be pleased, and she made every effort to make me comfortable and to enjoy my time with her. I am happy to say that her efforts were extremely successful in that I thoroughly enjoyed myself and my time with her. There's not a sliver of doubt that I'd be going back to see her! :-D

She is a BBW Massage is very good. Uses lots of oil. Deep tissue is available. Easy to book an appt. Good central Location. Hot damp towel wipe down at the end. Building was older but clean. Easy parking. Table sheets were freshly washed and very clean.

Wishing everyone a great weekend no matter how you chose to spend it. It is but one day yet love is the gift that keeps on giving and makes the world a better place. Love, like sex, is often stigmatized and some are fearful to show it. There are so many different types of love that one can have for so many people in their lives. Embrace it, show it and let it flow. Happy Valentines Day!

I am in Saint John today, Saturday February 13th . If I havent had the pleasure of meeting you yet now is our chance. I am educated, clever and love to laugh. Elegant, playful and love what I do....and yes, even more than she does ;) My touch is shivering and my eyes are seducing. I stand 5'4", with long dark brown hair, nice natural C-cup, soft skin, sweet kissable lips and a personality you will love. Lets relax, unwind and play together in a nice calm & cozy location. Step inside my world cupid and let me be your Valentine treat. Xo Ella, 506-262-8350 Posted via Mobile Device

I hope everyone (single or married or with someone), has an amazing day. Remember, this is one day of the year, show your love every day of the year.

I am at retirement age and have worked in senior management in an organization that provides me with an excellent defined benefits indexed pension so the choice to retire from a financial position will not be hard but I believe there is more to it then that. When I entered the employment world after university some 35 years ago it was with a keen interest in doing interesting work that would expand my learning and contribute meaningfully to my community while allowing me to financially secure so I could raise a family... In this regards I have been extremely luck because I have worked with amazing people and been extremely well treated by my employer. I generally still enjoy going to work each day and get great satisfaction from the fact that the work I get to do is meaningful. I guess because I enjoy what I do I don't feel any pressure to retire. In regards to feeling some social imperative to do the right thing and step aside for the next generation... no I don't see that... I do however feel an imperative to use my experience, knowledge and leadership role as a platform to encourage and develop others and I am extremely active in this. I don't think that unemployment in this country is driven up by individuals not retiring when they could or should in fact for the last few years we have had in this country a shortage of well educated workers and should have been using immigration to a greater extent. The drop in the price for oil is of course a medium term hit to our economy but in the longer focus Canada will still have serious gaps in labour availability due to lower birth rates. Bottom line form my perspective is people should be able to work as long as they want too. Just my Opinion

I hope everyone is a great Valentines weekend with lots of special time with the people you care most about in your life. I lost someone very close to me a number of years ago and miss that person pretty mush every day of my life... holidays, anniversaries and special occasions are always greeted with mixed emotions when you lose someone you love but you do your best to make it still the best you can for the people who are still with you. My wish for everyone on Valentines Day is that you take advantage of the day to tell the people you care about how you feel... they will love to hear it and frankly you never really know when that opportunity will no longer exist. Happy Valentines Day

I'm of the opinion you only live once and have a right to act in such a way as makes you happy (provided you're not causing any direct harm to others, of course). I'm only 36 but would be happy to have retired five years ago if I had the means. I have plenty of other aspects to my life I'd rather spend my time on, and I though I don't hate my job or coworkers or anything like that, I don't see it as an important part of my identity. But for other people it's what gives them self-worth, contentment, and so forth. And just because you may be on in years doesn't mean you don't have every bit of a right to that as a younger person. Sure, there are other things out there that you or I might take satisfaction in. But if for others it's their work, then who am I to say otherwise? Indeed, there's so many things in this life that diminish if as you age, and so few advantages people have. If holding onto your job makes you happy, then go for it. I totally get your point of view, but I think I find the idea that people have an expiry date or have to make way a little sad. On a purely economic slant, you're right that the world is different in some ways than decades ago, but that works both ways. In a lot of area the older population is such a large part of the demographic that it would actually be a strain on the system if they all retired.

Having to nursemaid my sister in law this weekend because her looser husband can't get his shite together. Messed up my plans in a big way. The worst part is both of them brought this on themselves. Long, boring and sadly trite story, that does not bear repeating. But I just can't stand having others irresponsibilities impact my life. So like a grownup I will set aside my carefully laid plans and support my wife and her family. But I don't have to like it. There! Rant all done. I now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

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Can we PLEASE stop comparing SPs to restaurants or retail stores? We're not. We're people offering a service. If you're going to use comparisons, then look at the variance in personal services such as life coaches, personal trainers, or hair dressers -- unregulated personal services. Differences in prices don't necessarily relate to differences in appearances, or services, or whatnot. There are a variety of factors involved in why someone structures their rates the way they do.

Well I really did not have a highlight of the day until a minute ago when I saw the new pictures posted in Jocelyn Ardenne's Profile Album... Now I seem to have one... well several actually

Well, I took the plunge with this 40-something MIL* (Note: she doesn't provide the F part :lol:). (The $#@%^& censorship robot had to be circumvented). She provided me with a very detailed message describing her services, and I booked her for the most basic offering, just in case. I needn't have worried. She proved to be very friendly and highly skilled at her craft. I thoroughly enjoyed the build-up and the finale, which left me very happy. I will definitely repeat. Please note that she operates a legit studio in a multi-business building on a busy street a little outside of downtown, and she does not wish any info posted that could possibly identify her. Please be very circumspect on the public board, and very careful when sharing her info in private. I normally provide as much public detail as discretion allows, but in this case, I will err on the side of caution. I will not share details via PM either. There's no need for me to describe the session, since C provides all the info you need to know to book her, and she will deliver. Start by PMing her, and go from there. I'm sure you'll be happy you did.

Wishing a Happy Valentine's Day to all my special lady friends on this board, the ones who give me pleasure and happiness with their company and their conversation, the ones I've met, and the ones I'm going to meet! I just want to acknowledge how much I appreciate you, your beauty, and your friendship. Valentine's Day is a great opportunity to celebrate joy, passion, and togetherness. Happy Valentine's, and thank you!

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Having a day at home of doing nothing.....

yeah, just wanted an update. hope she is doing well.

...Although Sated, I Want You Aching" Madame De Loup Experience The Passion, Feel The Sexuality, Smell The Desire, See The Sensuality, Taste The Pleasure... 10am - 3pm 7 days a week. Prebookings are more guaranteed. XO

Contacted one of the ads [email protected] was the email they used to reply back. A few things are fitting into place on who this person could be.

Good morning :) I am available today until early afternoon. I am starting this morning at 10 am. I am offering a special to celebrate Valentine's :) If you wanted to get together shoot me a PM or an email :) at [email protected]

Yes Sir MG, time and space is only an illusion . Of course everything is an illusion but another topic for another day.....

For any lyla ladies I wouldn't hesitate to provide a pic (never a dic pic!) but I seriously doubt I would be asked.... but if it were a BP/craigslist/Kijiji advertiser I might send an early 70's Burt Reynolds pic to balance out the fake pic roster! I would like to acknowledge the incredible trust and confidence that the many lovely Lyla ladies offer us gentlemen - they are awesome people!

Time? A complicated and multi-layered question for sure. http://www.space.com/29859-the-illusion-of-time.html Peace MG

Back when I worked I wouldn't give my office number (and where I worked I'll wager if a companion called there she might get a heart attack...but I digress) I fully gave all other screening information Name, board handle confirmed by PM, phone (including cell phone carrier company) email, and reference and in all cases but one was that acceptable for screening The reason I didn't like giving my work number out is first I worked in LE (no not police) and second the office I worked in was small and shared with two other people...there was no privacy if I got a phone call One lady I wanted to see didn't care about all other screening info, she just wanted my work number. I found this strange, and I didn't book her All that said, when a prospective client won't trust you with his personal information, why should he expect you to trust him to be alone with him intimately? One is a matter of privacy, one is a matter of safety and security. And a lady's safety and security trump a man's privacy every time A rambling RG

I have one client I have seen a few times when he visits Halifax. It is always for the whole evening. Dinner and a really pleasant time. However I do not know his name and I never will. He came to me with a very strong reference from a lady I know personally and she guaranteed his good character . There is not one fault I can find with this man. He just has this policy he won't give his name and well lady's can either choose to see him or not. He even shields the dinner bill when he signs off . Once in awhile it bothers me that he will never trust me but it something for me to deal with. At the end if the day it doesn't matter, we have a nice evening and part company until he comes back again. He even has me call or text to ensure I arrive back home safely.

I think it is fair to ask for the board handle OR/AND references when meeting with a new client... I don't see any privacy issue! If the client resists, then IMHO it is a red flag, he has something to hide. Cheers GM

I am semi-retired in that I work part-time out of boredom not necessity. I held management positions for most of my career and while not provided with a pension I built my own and well not wealthy by any means I have enough to see me through. My issue is boredom, I have no kids and no real hobbies and my reason for living is a decade younger and not ready to retire so I need to fill time. I work 10-15 hours a week at a minimum wage gig and work with about 20 or so others in a similar situation so it's more social than financial. I do know some folks, teachers and some Feds and other Govt types who have taken their full pensions or even early pensions and then substitute or take on contracts which I'm not sure is fair in that they do potentially block others from "getting in" particularly new grads. I don't feel doing my gig does this. The baby boomers have changed the face of what retirement is for sure and for some it is working for survival and others it clearly isn't. The boomers will also likely draw pensions for more years than previous generations. Interesting question though. Peace MG

I must say no, I wouldn't. I'm comfortable being screened but I fail to see the need to provide a picture to a prospective companion And many companions don't have face pictures of themselves Now I have given a couple pics to a lady that I know One we were talking about fishing and I sent her a photo of me holding a fish I caught The other, I wanted her opinion (a trusted opinion btw) of me with a beard. I'm now clean shaven LOL But I fail to see the need to give a lady I don't know a photo of myself A rambling RG

I understand she has well above average naturals, massage is ok

today is someone's favourite colour on me all light Blue Calvin Klien Briefs.

I don't think a University Degree ever guaranteed anyone a job... if you are an untrustworthy lazy bum then the degree would not change that. I think what a formal education always did and still does today is get you in the door for the interview it reduced the chance that you would be screened out in the application process. What has changed over the years is that the number of people with formal education has increased dramatically due to the fact that access to education has greatly increased. Forty years ago you generally only got a university education if you came from a financially advantaged family now with student loans and grants and generally much lower tuition rates (ie tuition rates as a % of family income) and the increased availability of scholarships a formal education is possible for many more people. Overall I would still recommend a formal education to anyone regardless of their age.

There is different ways to look at this. Mostly, you will be turned away. I've gotten texts saying, "you should be paying me for the massage." Well, sorry but where is your ad again? If someone was willing to pay everything, drivers test, drivers school, a new/used car, I would barter. Those things aren't cheap to do. If someone was willing to pay for courses at the College for me and text books, I would barter. Also known as a Sugar Daddy. If someone wanted to see me X amount of times during the month and offered to pay my rent at the beginning of the month and all my other bills, I would consider bartering. But that would depend. Also known as a Sugar Daddy. It honestly depends. Bartering for a massage because you do them, doesn't get you anywhere. You can be posting ads and making a profit if you want that so why would you be contacting SPs? I find it annoying that those drivers and massage people contact me, as if I would reply. If I needed a driver I would find one myself, if I needed a Professional Massage I will go get it done professionally. Another thing to consider, if you are licensed and get caught doing sexual services your license will be revoked and there goes your license. Why risk that only to be with SPs? In the realm of my work, if a barter was brought to the table it better be a damn good barter.

We are not a fucking restaurant. Stop comparing us to it. Some people really love mcdonalds, not because their price because of the juicy burger they get while other prefer the kegs. There is some WELL reviewed SP here that charge between 180-400/hr and some of them have dozen of pages of reviews. It doesn't make the lower end rates less worth it or less "upscale" than the ladies that charge 400

Hello fellow Lyla Members After being here for five years, making my 1000 post yesterday plus seeing a little negativity lately I feel it is a good time to share my more than amazing experiences since 2010. If your a new member I will be giving some tips for having some fun visits, most of them have being written here many times. Before I met anyone I always tried to learn as much about them as possible, I read their bio's here on Lyla then check to see if they had a website. In my first letter I always tried to be as polite as possible giving the Lady as much information as possible at the beginning then more afterwards if a visit got booked. I never questioned her rate for companionship and if possible I brought along a small gift if it was possible. If the time I visiting someone was around a special time I always tried to be prepared for that like a Birthday, Valentine's Day or Christmas. My heading "Expectations" can be an elephant in any room. One of the biggest reasons I feel I had amazing experiences pretty well each and every time after doing my homework was I always brought the biggest smile with me and then go with the flow. In life everyone wants to be greeted with a smile, our ladies here on Lyla are no different. My second tip is respect, my parents drilled this into me, there comment was, respect is a two way street you give and you get it back, I have always treasured this with the ladies I have had the privilege to visit here on Lyla. The two simple words smile and respect can make any visit spectacular. Going back to the word expectations, I guess what I am trying to say I never really had any, I was indeed a very curious man and in thinking back if I have had any they were surpassed a hundred fold. At this time I would like to thank a few ladies that have being more than kind to me since I joined here. I will mention mostly ladies in my area that I have visited a couple of times plus a traveling lady I seemed to connect with a little more than others. Two of the Ladies I got to visit early in my adventures were Emily Rushton and Cara Silver, these two ladies gave me the confidence to enjoy my future visits, thank you ladies. Other ladies I am so grateful to are Katherine, Lady Sophia, Jocelyn Ardenne, Jordan Munroe, my visting Lady from Montreal Gabriella and last but not least Miss Carley Chase. At present I have made the personal decision to be quiet in visiting with one exception. I know the problem of mentioning names is someone could get offended, if I had the pleasure to meet you and not mentioned your name I do remember pretty well every one I have had the pleasure to meet so thank you for visiting PEI. The sole purpose of this post was thank all the ladies I have had the supreme pleasure to meet since joining plus try to give out a few hints/tips on why I feel I had nothing but a splendiferous time over the last five years, ladies thank you immensely. In closing gentleman, smile, be respectful, try not to get great expectations in your head and go with the flow, when you then look back at your visit I am sure you will be more than happy plus pass any expectations. Triple HHH

I have seen suni (spelling?) a couple of times now and can confirm her English is very limited - so conversations are are pretty basic. But service more than makes up for it - hence my repeat. And she is a real sweetheart - not to mention super hot. I may try Tina next given she also gets positive feedback. Variety is the spice of life - as they say. Posted via Mobile Device

Most times it is mentioned in the ad...and if not then I would assume race wouldn't be an issue...I myself love all races but I do have an age requirement which I do post I think the 'no black gentlemen' has been something of he norm lately so I would understand if you as a black/brown man would mention it or ask me would I mind seeing you .... just to make sure ... nothing wrong with that...better to know than not know Then that way you know your time will.not be wasted Good luck sweetheart and have lots of fun with it

The young attractive Asian girl that people are speaking of is Shweni (not sure about the spelling). She has a beautiful face and a super hot tight body with curves in all the right places, which is not very common among Asians. She is very friendly. As a Mandarin speaker, I chatted with her for a bit after our wonderful session. I've learned a lot about her. This girl is off the charts. She is friendly, sexy, smart and has integrity.

I don't think in a young boys mind it's putting down motherhood or womanhood (our brains don't go that deep when we are younger...come to think of it when we get older either lol!) It's just a mother that they find hot. I agree with you when you say they shouldn't expect a woman to be flattered by that comment, it something you just go out and say "Man, You're such a MILF" lacks a bit of tact and refinement. When I find out someone is a mother I'm actually more drawn to them (not that I would do anything with a married woman that's just asking for trouble), Obviously single mothers do it even more for me because they're not married (No it's not a fetish and I don't seek them out). It doesn't necessarily have to do anything with having kids either. I think it's just the feeling like they've got their sh*t together and they know what they want and when you're a parent yourself you can kind of relate to them as well. That term has been around for a while but I think the movie "American Pie" really popularized it.

This is a very interesting thread. Although a "Devout Atheist", I have always maintained an "each to their own" philosophy on the subject of religion. That you can have your beliefs, I'll have mine. Although historically, much evil and oppression was committed in the name of religion, that today it is quite benign. I believed that religion was basically harmless and that people were too 'civilized' to allow it to be used against them in this day and age. I've been forced to reevaluate that philosophy however, over the last decade in light of world events. I'm not just talking about the results of Muslim extremists who come to power (although they are a good example). I'm also referring to the Harper Reign of imposing his religion based morals on us in our own "free" country. I'm talking about the power the right wing Christian Fundamentalists have within the government in the US. How some states still require equal teaching of creationism to evolution in schools. The short answer is yes, I feel it is holding us back. There doesn't seem to be a way to truly sever the relationship between church and state under most systems of government. Until that time, religion will be a hindrance to us as a species IMHO.

Interesting you should say that: I've always though precisely the opposite. Science has been up its fair share of blind alleys, to be sure, but it's I've always seen it as happy to say, "We don't understand this, but we're working on it," and - crucially - not being afraid to say this. Faith and religion, by contrast, seem to me to consist largely of inventing gods and demons to explain away the things we don't understand: why the sun rises, why the rain falls (or not), why people are amazing or awful or just plain strange. In many of these cases, science has taken over the explanations, and in the others... the God of the Gaps is ever-diminishing.

I've seen Anne a few times now and most recently I was her last appointment of the day around 5:30. No one was leaving this time and no double booked guy coming at same time which was a great start. Nice hug hello, quick shower where she gave me a bit of a rub down w soap before leaving me to finish. Personally I enjoy her massage, the bonus of getting my hands on that ass of hers while she's at my head is always appreciated. Flip over, solid finish that caught her a bit off guard (it had been a few days so almost got her) followed my a relaxing foot massage. Would love to have more with her as she has one of the better body's on an Asian woman I have enjoyed.

Setting up a meeting with her is beyond frustrating, due to her substance-related time management deficiencies.

If Spraycan didn't get any, you can best be sure no one else did.

saw her recently , very good massage, nice incall studio , very quiet and no disturbance although she said has a roommate but i never saw her roomate. I will repeat, even just for the massage. Im curious has anyone going to her place ever got anything more ....

I agree how you greet each other sets the tone for the rest of your time together. Priming is the word used, I believe. I have a couple elegant, sexy and very ladylike dresses I wear to greet clients in. They are classy, cocktail style dresses which suit my personal style very well (I just can't pull off the stripper dresses and tawdry look .. it's so not Kate but others can pull off the more modern styles beautifully). My lingerie is on underneath. I greet clients this way because on the off-chance a neighbor is in the hallway and sees us, I look like I'm ready to go out on a date or a nice dinner out. Also because it helps set the tone of "I am a woman, not a sex doll", which is important to me. And getting a client to unzip my dress is a fun way to help create the "girlfriend" atmosphere, at least insofar as my personal way of doing things goes. Depending on nerves and "feel" I either hug them right away or show them in and then hug them or move in to rub their shoulders. Sometimes I kiss right away, sometimes I don't. I go by feel and sometimes a client seems nervous so I slow down the physical connection a bit and ease them into things. Very rarely I get a bit flustered from attraction to a client and forget to be "Kate" and revert to my awkward, overly chatty self, completely forgetting that I'm supposed to be a seductive woman and not this dorky girl. So if I'm awkwardly blathering on during our session and making really lame jokes it's actually a good thing. I don't really have a set way that I greet clients. Maybe I should kiss them sooner. I will try kissing my clients when I greet them for the next week and see if I like the results.