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I feel like this is the real "problem". University is overrated in the sense that there are so many people applying for jobs that they are not qualified for, because it is easy on the internet. Employers adapt by asking for unnecessary qualifications like a University degree and experience in x y and z as a way cut down on the number of applicants regardless of whether or not those are actual requirements for the job. It is gross that students are expected to bear the debt of unspecific training via education when the grunt of that expense used to be carried by the employer. When I first went to school, I thought it was to get a job and have a career, so I went to a college. But then I realized that is gross, I love school, I want to learn for the sake of learning, not to profit a big corporate employer like I was being trained to do, so I went to a university to study in the same field. I came out the other end much more skilled and with more of a narrow focus than when I started, but not in a way that is meant to be appealing to employers. I also came out a lot more socially conscious, open minded and politically engaged. Universities do provide great networking opportunities and support for starting out in a career, but it's up to the student to take them. Too many students start their education believing the piece of paper is the outcome, and forget to take advantage of the opportunities that are available to them outside the curriculum. University also isn't for everyone, I am all for pushing people to take on a trade if that's more suited to their personality and desired lifestyle. I have family members who are tradesmen and make more money than I ever will, though I do worry about the toll it will take on their bodies and the physical danger they are exposed to in their work. In all, I think universities are "overrated" in the sense that people have unrealistic expectations in terms of what the result of that kind of education should be, and I think many high school graduates are being guided in the wrong direction in the name of profit for institutions, and there are many alternatives that are far more suitable for different individuals. But a university education definitely still has a great deal of value.

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Gia Wren Marlowe, Katheryn Bardor and Emily J are well know to be good with newbies and gentle.

Life is funny at best. Some of us plan things - education, courting, marriage, kids, mortgage, career.. and then, ahh.. retirement. We work and work to provide for ourselves and family. Most of us plan to retire from work and start striking off bucket list items (travel, hobbies, etc). For many of us, life doesn't turn out as we "planned". Far from a straight line, our tapestry ends up looking like a figure-8. Then there is the old "live life to the fullest everyday" motto - again, for some of us, we're just trying to survive the day and start new the next day. There's the conundrum. Youth brings with it the health required for travel and other hobbies, but little in resources to execute. Age brings knowledge and wisdom (maybe) and perhaps more resources, but then our health begins to decline. At 47, I was forced into retirement (cutbacks from a previous federal government). But I was fortunate - still fairly healthy and had a few coins in the pocket.. no pension, but a few loonies in my RRSP. As with many things, I saw a silver lining. I get to sleep in until 7am on most days, I get to set my own schedule on most days. I volunteer with various organizations, so my mind and body are active. And the roof is still overhead and there's a table to put food on. While I can't afford to dine at Beckta every night, I can indulge in Swiss Chalet now and then.. and I go canoeing on the Ottawa River instead of taking cruises on the Mediterranean :-) I think the notion of "freedom 55" is outdated in 2016. But our western society depends on "older" folks to retire so that employable youth get a chance to start their adventures. Is it a social duty - yes, I think so - but 'mandatory' retirement by a certain age is becoming a dream for too many honest, hard-working folks. I'll be "retired" for three years next month. If I am careful with the finances, I should be ok. Fewer Starbucks lattés and more homemade coffee in a travel mug! Perhaps the "live life to the fullest" has more to do with attitude than the activity... CM

Happy birthday Cato. I hope you have a great day.

I will follow up with a few thoughts about retirement. Canada Pension should only be regarded as very basic income so it is really incumbent for people to save additionally if they want to have a comfortable retirement, and yes there are many retirees who find it necessary to soldier on into old age by necessity. The present government is running into head winds trying to update the pension plan, by conservative thinking that catheterize this as a payroll tax, go figure. We live in a society that must be regulated by our chosen representatives, and how we direct policy on labour and retirement laws is fair. With better care we are living longer, but many of our youth are under employed or unemployed so we must encourage policies that rectify this problem, they are indeed the future. This new generation and immigrants will inevitably have to shoulder the responsibility for an aging population.

I have seen in a Dollarama and a McDonald's employees who were in their mid 70ies. I really don't know what to think about this because I did this kind of job in my 20ies when I was a student, and these are certainly not the best jobs to get. I felt bad to see people in their mid 70ies working there but at the same time if they do need the money, what choice do they have? But still, I find it very disturbing and sad that some people in their mid 70ies have to work in such places because their pension is not enough.

I am wondering if you are able to tell that they are newbies and possibly have little experience, or maybe no board handle, or if they sound like they know what they are doing but are being secretive and evasive and that's why they refuse to give it. I find there's those 2 types, those with no real handle to give, or if they have one they don't post and it tells you nothing about them and is kind of useless as a screening method. And the other type is the well seasoned hobbyist who takes reviewing and his anonymous freedoms very seriously online, and either thinks if he tells you his handle you will be able to tell other ladies, or you will know when he reviews you and say something if you don't like his critique or if something was untrue. It's kind of weird, most guys don't trash ladies in reviews or do anything in session to warrant warning others, but there's a few who are overly paranoid about their online persona and freedoms, and others that really do have bad behaviour online to hide that won't make them the most desirable client to you.

Sweet Emily J is the perfect answer to this question. Close to Westboro, very sensual and I am certain she will take the time to ensure you are comfortable. The only disappointment I had was I didn't go see her sooner.

There are a myriad of things to learn, experience and enjoy at University and lots of unanticipated learning too. The only loss I suffered in going to University was my virginity! Of course I'm not interested in getting it back.

This is not even a remotely accurate statement.

Lately I've been getting a slew of people trying to book me, but being uncomfortable provinding a phone number, a username on Lyla or other review sites, or their Twitter handle. I keep getting the vague " privacy reasons" response. Curious, if I give you my work number, and let you into my office to see me, why are you unable to provide a username from a place that allowes you to be anonymous, and is astronomically safer? As an SP I find few things more invasive than meeting someone face to face and sharing your mind, bodies and souls, so it's interesting. I'm not here to criticize, I'm genuinely wondering why, and if there is anything We SP's can do to make you more comfortable with your disclosure. All the best! -Chloe.

Happy birthday Cato, Wish you a wonderful day :)

I got rid of all my CDs but still love all my books. A kindle reader just isn't my thing.

Wishing you a great birthday, Sir Cato!

I would agree whole heartily that it is unfortunate when anyone has to work late into their life just to make ends meet and I am fully supportive of public policy that improves public pension plans and income for seniors. That said not everyone over the age of 50 or 55 is working because of financial necessity so do it because they enjoy their career or for social connection reasons.... I am old enough to retire and may choose to leave my existing employment at anytime but I doubt as long as I have good health I will "retire".

Happy B-Day Cato! Hope you celebrate appropriately!

Karma I believe has retired.

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Happy birthday, Cato. And a lot of beautiful adventures for this coming year.

Happy happy happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday Cato; always appreciate so much your work here

Happy birthday Cato! Have a great one today... Cheers. Sent from my Nexus 5 using Tapatalk

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Happy Birthday Cato! Enjoy your very special day!

Happy Birthday Cato! Have a fantastic day :)

Happy Birthday Cato I hope you enjoy your day !

Have a great birthday, Cato! ...(insert "light your candle" joke)...

regarding a new unknown unreviewed sp doing this. I think it is pretty rare, to be asked, and i think the reason (if the sp is legit, and not just some 14 yr old boys playing games) is for the potential client to feel flattered. Chances are very high the sp still sees everyone who contacts her, but now he is lifted up thinking he passed the test, she finds him attractive, he feels kind of special to be picked, and so on and on and on. There would also be a very very much smaller chance that she is amatuer, new to biz, and seriously has no clue about discretion, safety and protocols. I think in a way she would be a very dangerous person to see, due to that lack of respect for privacy, potential lack of respect for discretion. She is treating it like casual encounters dating, she uses the protocols for that (face pic, more info) to set up a paid date, but it doesn't work that way. I know when i did see reviews of one sp who did do this, she was attractive, and the guys who got 'picked' felt that they had achieved something 'ordinary and unattractive' guys would never get to experience. in which case, as a marketing scheme, it really works.

Hi! I'm happy to say I'm planning an early-week visit like the good ole days! lol I'll be available near downtown from the late-afternoon of Tuesday (16th) until 10am on Friday (19th). As always, I'll be in a discreet, smoke-free location with ample street & lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking only) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed, unless PJs, bleary eyes and a teddy bear being dragged by his paw is your thing) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who are more daring... the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a slim & athletic but curvy 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with very long (real) dark hair and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones! Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste 613-793-4183

Nothing! But I am still wearing my jammies. Who knows if I will get dressed today? My jammies today are pink and yellow shorts. Maybe if I dress like it's not -20 out I will fool the weather into warming up?

I have visited the Cougar a few times and will DEFINITELY visit again. And the massage is really go too.

....do bubbles count as a color.... or.. as underwear? <grin>

What a great topic. Mark Twain once wrote, "I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." Indeed, education and schooling are two different things, but they do paths cross on occasion. An engineer by trade, university was a requirement for me. But learning the four laws of thermodynamics did nothing for me when it came to changing a soiled diaper, or putting my daughter's hair in a bun for her ballet classes, or making homemade soup. My daughter just started on her post-secondary education adventure. We had long discussions on whether university or college or a vocational institution was "best" for her. Academically strong, my daughter also has a passion for the arts (ballet, piano, drawing). In the end, she decided on college - which I supported wholeheartedly. She's following a passion in a field that requires strong math and science, while encourages imagination and artistic values. I on the other hand, stuck with something I was good at, not necessarily what I had a passion for. Our society is made up of many individuals with different tastes, different strengths, different comfort zones. Risk takers often do best running their own business, whereas those who need structure tend to do better in a "9 to 5" type of job. In the end, most of us find our comfort zone... and formal schooling and "school of life" are pieces of the puzzle to finding that happy place. A university education may not guarantee you a job/career at the end. But the continuous education from the "school of life" will help prepare you for most situations as we continue our journeys on this planet... CM

I do not think universities are overrated or will be going away but think that they need to adapt more from the current focus of theoretical and research related activities into a blend of theory and practical with research as a secondary focus. Knowing (as I work in admin at a university) that research is really what drives and in some cases funds university activities and allows for students that may be a hard change but in the long run would have more benefit for students. Most employers now want people who are ready and able to work in their fields when hired and only want to train in the how our company does things not the full thing as was the case when I graduated when it was understood that the first 1-4 months would really be training on how to do the job period, with the how our company does it a secondary part of that. Now I find college more beneficial as a starting point as it provides the practical primarily with a bit of theoretical and allows people to be work ready to a greater degree. In many cases many colleges are twinned with a university so if after you get the college diploma you can transfer to the university with a strong advanced standing to continue the education if desired and can be working at the same time.

RCAF blue (still feeling blue...)

I understand what you are saying and while I do not know your specific industry I will say there are very few that you can compare to this one, it simply is not the same. Escorting is an unregulated industry, and a questionably legal one at that. This makes a huge difference in your contract and how people approach it. When I have booked an appointment a client agrees to meet, this is not a sales meeting but rather they have booked a service. Like many other businesses I have a cancellation policy; my Dentist, my spa, even the hotels I stay at do not allow cancellations with less than 24hrs notice, some request additional notice. If I fail to show up at my appointment my credit card which has been put on file in order to reserve the service will be charged a certain percentage that I agreed to when making the reservation. If I do not pay the business has the option to take me to court or send the bill to collections. When you work as an escort your options are limited. Your clients enter into a contract, agree to the cancellation policy, however in general there are not a lot of available options should you wish to pursue a dispute if the client violates that agreement. Even if I chose to go to small claims/collections, if I were to submit every client that ever cancelled last minute on me, I would not only tarnish my reputation (she is not discreet!) but find myself in a quasi-legal dispute where both my client and I would have some 'splainin to do. A deposit is asked for when there are significant upfront costs that I am going to bear and a risk that the client may cancel. This is not a sales call, the client has already made a reservation, and as long as they intend to keep it there should be no issue. There are in fact many industries where clients pay a deposit after the contract is signed. Lawyers get a retainer, contractors get a deposit, even a number of graphic designers will get a partial payment upfront and the balance upon completion of a long project. All of these industries have a number of resources available to them should a client fail to pay upon completion of that project, for the people that work as professional escorts those options are limited.

She is a BBW Massage is very good. Uses lots of oil. Deep tissue is available. Easy to book an appt. Good central Location. Hot damp towel wipe down at the end. Building was older but clean. Easy parking. Table sheets were freshly washed and very clean.

If a woman is willing to get intimate with me, without even knowing me, I think the very least I could do is give her my Lyla Handle :)

good morning gentlemen I am available today for hot and sensual sexy times.... I am located in barrhaven. private discreet clean specials on 15 min session recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=37195 you are welcome to pm me or txt at 613 261 4169 xoxoxo lany

If I am booking with a lady than the probability is that I have done my homework and confirmed that she is an established and reliable and as such I normally don't have any real concern with providing her with my information including phone number, name, Lyla profile info etc. I have never felt it was necessary to share my profession information or work phone number with a lady. If I have a problem with providing verifiable information that the lady can use in her screening process then maybe I should not be booking. In my experience if you can provide references from other established ladies and you share your profile info from here on Lyla many ladies don't ask for anything more then a phone number and hey communication is kinda important. I would kind of have to agree if someone does not want to share their lyla profile info then there is something not quite right with the situation. Just my Opinion

I think it is fair to ask for the board handle OR/AND references when meeting with a new client... I don't see any privacy issue! If the client resists, then IMHO it is a red flag, he has something to hide. Cheers GM

She seems quite selfish. It's as if the world revolves around her.

I've been following this site for a long time now, and it is amazing how often the same, issues, concerns and complaints come up. Things that should be obvious often are not. I thought it might help if I compiled a summery of some of the more common concerns for the newbie section. Hopefully it will help get some of the new gents to the hobby off on the right foot. There may be some here that don't apply to all people or situations, but these are some of the more common ones I have seen over the years: 1. Do your homework first. Nobody likes to have to spend time writing out answers to questions they have already provided answers for on their website or ad. 2. Be respectful during the initial contact. Being abrupt or rude is definitely a bad start. 3. Don't be too explicit. The laws are such that everyone is restricted in what can be said. Some are more careful than others with this, but remember that you are simply compensating for her time. That's all. Asking for anything more specific will often get you no reply at all. 4. Don't haggle. This is not a flea market. Nothing kills the mood faster than telling someone that they are worth less than they think they are. If she is out of your price range, move on politely. 5. If you have to cancel, let her know ASAP. Life sometimes gets in the way of the best laid plans. Their time is their source of income and they have promised some of it to you. At least give them some notice if you won't be able to make it. If you can't give notice, consider offering to compensate her. It has already cost her the time, whether or not you were there. (E-transfers can make this super easy.) ....And just not showing up without letting her know at all is so incredibly disrespectful and uncool. (and a sure way to get yourself black listed.) Just don't do it. 6. If you are sick, cancel. Nobody wants your illness. (But see number 5) 7. Hygiene -It shocks me how often this one comes up. It is for your own benefit to not have her repulsed during your time together. Take a shower and brush your teeth as close to the appointment as possible. If you can't, then ask if she has shower facilities. Many do. (But remember it is on your time.) oh... and wear deodorant! 8. If she asks you to take a shower before hand.... take one. It means one of two things. a) She has a policy that all clients take one, or b) you smell. Either way, it is the same answer: Take the shower if she asks. 9. Respect her time. This means being on time, but not early. Not always easy to be precise, but do what you can. If you are late, don't expect that she will let you stay later to make up for it. Also, don't expect her to be ready early just because you showed up early. Remember, you have an appointment. Respecting her time also means leaving when your time is up without having to be asked over and over. 10. Have the envelope ready at the beginning of the date. Don't make her ask. It kills the mood. I just place it on the dresser or table as I walk in. They can address it or not as they see fit. Of course, all of these points can be summed up with two words: "show respect". If you use that as a guideline, you can't go wrong. I know there are some points that I have missed and some that not everyone will agree with. Remember, this isn't my list. It is a compilation of the most common concerns I have seen since I started following the site. Feel free to add to it if I have missed any.

Just see an ad on bp Yellowknife of Candal Vixen. Is it legit ?

I don't normally post reviews, especially given the current legal climate, however when asked by such a wonderful woman I'm happy to oblige. Booking was straightforward, no mind games here - started with a simple email with a little back and forth and the appt was setup nice and easy. Like others have commented this girl's positive attitude and personality definitely stand out as above-average, she's very friendly/funny, and she seems like a real ez-going kinda gal. Like with all humans beauty is subjective but if you're into curvy EI women with humongous assets this girl will not disappoint - I found it hard not to stare especially with that tight little black dress she had on - it certainly got my attention right from introductions. Had a glass of wine together, discussed expectations/desires, a quick freshen-up in the washroom, and the rest of the play by play I won't get into because if you've read any previous reviews you probably have a good idea of what to expect. She's quite pretty but again that's subjective and to each their own. Very energetic, enthusiastic, passionate, and really seemed to enjoy herself throughout but like with all experiences I'm sure its ���� - we seemed to have really great chemistry and I had a great time. Would absolutely repeat and plan on booking with her again next time she's in town or I'm in Ottawa. https://twitter.com/delilahrose__