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I was thrilled to see this thread! I love to travel, and so was vaccinated against Hep A & B long ago. I expect these two to be such a non-issue now, I'm always surprised when I hear of a case (usually a contaminated water source in Mexico) or hear of people still not vaccinated. When the HPV vaccine was first introduced, I was in the "too old" category (and DEFINITELY BEYOND the "free for Grade 5 girls" hahaha) and my female family doctor dismissed the idea immediately. When I entered sex work, I began visiting clinics like Planned Parenthood for regular STI screenings, and asked a doctor there, wondering if they might have more current info as it pertained to sexually active women in their late twenties. He prescribed it without hesitation, and I decided upon all three doses of vaccination. I have no private health insurance, I also paid almost 600$ out of pocket. Here were my thoughts, which I preface with the note that my formal education is in Biochemistry: - Vaccines work prophylactically: a small, inert amount of the virus is introduced, so that your immune system can mount a defense. Then, if and when it encounters this virus again, it will be prepared to contain any infection. Had I likely been exposed to these strains in the past? Yes, absolutely: most sexually active adults have been exposed to/carry but do not exhibit symptoms of most of the circulating strains of HPV - this is where the controversy of vaccinating older women, and men, came into play. But, what if I hadn't? What if that one strain means the difference between cervical cancer and a healthy cervical future? What if I'm to meet a client infected with that very strain next month? What if? What if? - Continued evidence on the efficacy of the vaccine, including more strains, increasing the indicated groups, etc: these are all great signs in the medical community. With the recommendation up to age 45, it substantially changed the landscape of the demographic I thought I was in. - In both my personal and professional lives, I enjoy uncovered oral. Given my education and training, combined with my screening procedures and sober judgement, I decided that this is within my own comfort level. While I appreciate that this is a heavily debated topic, I maintain that each provider should be free to set her own restrictions, based on her own comfort and her own understanding of risk management. This is absolutely not the thread to rant about whether oral encounters should be covered or not, but rather I felt that, based on my own preferences, the HPV vaccine was another step I could take to minimize risk in this regard. - The more people in our community who are vaccinated, the better. As above with Hepatitis A & B, this can lead to general eradication of a virus. I wanted to be a part of that solution. In the end, I decided that my peace of mind was worth the equivalent of 2-3 hours at my standard companionship rate. As a professional, responsible provider, any steps that I can take to minimize risk - to me, and to my clients - I should take. Note - there may be an opportunity for some cost-savings - speak to your doctor about the value of the third shot. In many three-dose regimens, like Twinrix, the third injection only increases the efficacy from 99% to 100%. Yup, that's right - in some cases you just paid 150$+ for a big-ole 1%. The life-long efficacy of the HPV vaccines have not yet been established: they're just too new. But, if the third installment of the vaccine is really going to break you, speak to your doctor, and make the most informed decision you can :) Vaccines are not a replacement for regular health care: please continue your regular regimen of Pap smears and family doctor visits, and pay attention to any abnormalities. It's your body - get to know it ;) Thanks to the ladies who've contributed to this thread. I should well have expected the lovely ladies of CERB to also be health-conscious and well-informed. ;) Sorry for the ramble, my name rings true once again :) Safety first, Gabby xoxox PS - hadn't considered the medical expense as a tax deduction. Great idea - thanks!

Are you a lover of sheer clothing? Do you admire the person wearing it? Or do you enjoy wearing it to show yourself off? I am one of those person(who likes looking) and these are pictures that I like. Fishnet clothing and stockings are in the sheer category to me.

# tanlines #AW-some!!

I saw my doctor today and she told me about Gardasil 9 vaccine. it protects against 7 of the cancer causing strains and 2 of the strains that cause warts. She said i can get it even though I'm older. (on ob-gyn and pediatrics http://sogc.org/news_items/gardasil-9-hpv-vaccine-now-available-in-canada-2/ website it says it can be given to females 9-45) I'm getting it! But it cost almost 190$ per shot for 3 shots. *gasp* But I don't care. I've had all the vaccines and never had any problems. Besides, it's not just for me but to protect others too. I think of it like this: if someone has it and gives it to me, then I pass it on to someone who then takes up with a younger girl whose parents bought into that thinking about vaccines being 'bad', then I am partly responsible for protecting that girl !! These vaccines are not a swindle. They are way to protect everybody in our society (and outside of it). And i really don't believe that most people will have a problem with them. It's just a vocal few who get the 'voice to be heard' and then it's chicken little for all the 'believers'.

*Heavy Breathing*

This is one of those businesses where you have to learn to NEVER count on or rely on income until you have it in your hand. Guys cancel, things come up, etc etc. There are dry periods and tsunamis--you either learn to budget and manage your money or you will end up broke and seeing clients you'd otherwise ignore because you need money. This is why if you cancel last minute, you should pay a cancellation fee even if she doesn't ask for one--she can't fill that spot last minute. Just continue being a good client and move on when you want. You are under no obligation. As others have stated, you could also consider a retainer if you plan to continue seeing her and are still concerned about her wellbeing.

While it's nice that you are concerned.. you have absolutely zero obligation to offer any kind of severance.. neither would you with your hairdresser, massage therapist, dentist, physician.. etc.. You are a very kind person to even think this way though :) That says a lot about you! cheers!

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Ariel was delighting admirers on Thursday night!! Additional Comments: Jenny was in this afternoon (Saturday).

Depending on whether you are the client or a provider (since I can't tell from your profile), what Meghan says applies. We are not allowed to PM anyone with availability as providers, but as a potential client, you are allowed to PM a provider to ask for availability. Read the ads of the provider to see which form of communication they prefer, some will ask to PM, others will ask to call, other to email/text. Reading the ads in full are a bit of a requirement here, it is how we communicate with each other. Ads we place here have general information in them, including our websites (if we have one) so that you can see all about us. hopefully this clears things up for you :-)

Enjoying the amazing weather on the east coast....

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It appears her website is gone now and she hasn't logged onto lyla in a while. For purely selfish reasons I do hope she has not retired for good. I'll miss her.

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=227553&highlight=tatyana

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I booked a 3 hours appointment with a super hot tattooed trans man who mostly Top. Guess who just had the most amazing sex and orgasms and all the play in a while ?:D Seriously. More sex workers need to hired sex workers

And Ariel?? :)

Part of the line-up earlier today Friday: Nicole, Stacey, Layla and many others. No sign of Havana :(

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Stop by and see me in Orleans this Saturday 9 am - 8 Pm ( till 10 pm for those I have met previously) and Sunday Noon- 7 Pm with short notice at my private, discreet location. I would love to indulge you in a slow, steamy escape away from the daily stresses of life. Peruse my new pictures by clicking here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=4180 If this is your first time meeting me, please call directly. If we have met before, text is fine. No private messages for booking please as I'm not always here to answer them. Care to know more? Read on... Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be 30+. Thank-you

It's Redskin44's birthday today;so lets wish him a happy Birthday. may it it be as wonderful as you are

Happy Birthday Redskin44. I hope you have a great day!

I wish my hair grew as fast as my nails! I pay more attention to my feet as far as manicuring (I mean pedicuring goes) my finger nails just grow as I sleep and I bought one of those amope manicure things which I use on my nails. I get annoyed when they are too long and am too impatient to paint them so this invention works great for me, smooth pretty shine in minutes! I do like the look of my nails when a bit longer but they are a pain in the butt!

Hello! Shouldn't tomorrow be the day you allow yourself to be pampered and treated like a King? Allow me to introduce myself, I am Ivory. I stand at 5"6 with a spinner's body and curves in all the right places (Natural DD's). I have smooth skin, and long luscious hair. I adore massage, and love to Pamper & Pleasure. Every minute with me will be nothing short of breath taking and arousing. I love to play, just imagine my tight petite frame sliding up and down your body as I massage away any tensions from your day.... Imagine us in a steamy shower.... Oh the possibilities... My Availability this week Saturday 9:30-7pm Call to book your steamy session with Ivory 6138208887 Or PM me xo

Hi there Ladies and Gents! I know I usually don't work on weekends but why the hell not?! Let's not fret about the outside and curl up inside in marvelous memories and experiences. I will be available upon request via my website. www.brodystylesxo.com I offer the full, laid back,quirky girlfriend rendezvous, along with several types of massage . I have big blue eyes and hour glass figure, to go along with a marvelously cheeky and nerdy side! I am a nurturer and a giver and am not well suited with suitors who prefer a quick fix. I am attracted to the whole concept of intimacy and am also into several fetishes, which include feet. I definitely would have to say, that I appeal to several personalities as long as you are respectful and clean. I offer a laid back, sensual tone but also a tone of 'Let's get weird", to the appropriate occasion. I offer out and in calls. In call is offered in our Nation's Capital at a non- commercial, private residence.

my weekly treat of asiago/shallot sourdough bread from the bakery nearby

People who Do Not take the time for senior's, opening doors for the, helping with bags, do they need a hand with anything,, Just brushing them off because they do things slower! Well folks, That Will Be us somday-Just a thought

Happy Birthday Redskin44 Enjoy your special day RG

Update...I asked, she accepted, and we had a wonderful time!

I believe that ''evil'' aswell as its opposite, are creation of the human mind. Sure, we learn at a very young age the difference between good and bad, but my good and my bad are probably not the same as yours, at one point. Does a thief steeling to feed his family is bad? I believe all is in the intentions, and the way they are perceived. I've never seen an animal being evil, and I believe all creatures being equal, so NO, I don't believe in the existense of Evil, although I've been qualified so a couple of times. ;-)

I will follow up with a few thoughts about retirement. Canada Pension should only be regarded as very basic income so it is really incumbent for people to save additionally if they want to have a comfortable retirement, and yes there are many retirees who find it necessary to soldier on into old age by necessity. The present government is running into head winds trying to update the pension plan, by conservative thinking that catheterize this as a payroll tax, go figure. We live in a society that must be regulated by our chosen representatives, and how we direct policy on labour and retirement laws is fair. With better care we are living longer, but many of our youth are under employed or unemployed so we must encourage policies that rectify this problem, they are indeed the future. This new generation and immigrants will inevitably have to shoulder the responsibility for an aging population.

I feel like this is the real "problem". University is overrated in the sense that there are so many people applying for jobs that they are not qualified for, because it is easy on the internet. Employers adapt by asking for unnecessary qualifications like a University degree and experience in x y and z as a way cut down on the number of applicants regardless of whether or not those are actual requirements for the job. It is gross that students are expected to bear the debt of unspecific training via education when the grunt of that expense used to be carried by the employer. When I first went to school, I thought it was to get a job and have a career, so I went to a college. But then I realized that is gross, I love school, I want to learn for the sake of learning, not to profit a big corporate employer like I was being trained to do, so I went to a university to study in the same field. I came out the other end much more skilled and with more of a narrow focus than when I started, but not in a way that is meant to be appealing to employers. I also came out a lot more socially conscious, open minded and politically engaged. Universities do provide great networking opportunities and support for starting out in a career, but it's up to the student to take them. Too many students start their education believing the piece of paper is the outcome, and forget to take advantage of the opportunities that are available to them outside the curriculum. University also isn't for everyone, I am all for pushing people to take on a trade if that's more suited to their personality and desired lifestyle. I have family members who are tradesmen and make more money than I ever will, though I do worry about the toll it will take on their bodies and the physical danger they are exposed to in their work. In all, I think universities are "overrated" in the sense that people have unrealistic expectations in terms of what the result of that kind of education should be, and I think many high school graduates are being guided in the wrong direction in the name of profit for institutions, and there are many alternatives that are far more suitable for different individuals. But a university education definitely still has a great deal of value.

This is not even a remotely accurate statement.

#athletic #hottie #redhead #athletic #hottie #redhead

As a companion who charges in the price bracket that seems to bother you, I'm going to weigh in on how absurd your thoughts sound. I have charged $350+ an hour for 5 years, I have NOT raised my rates yet real life expenses keep up going up. Airfare is at a high, advertising has gone up and all the little life expenses have increased. I offer an experience, a life escape and genuine connection with those I meet with. I open myself up and put myself in a vulnerable position letting strangers (albeit screened, yet still strangers) into my personal space and allow them to share intimacy with myself. YOU have NO right to tell any woman her donation is two high, whether she is charging $200 or $600 an hour, its not your right to complain or question it. YOU have NO idea what it is like to work a day in my shoes and to be honest I doubt you could handle what any of us do in a week let alone a day. The average NICE suite in Ottawa during the week is $250+ a night and why would one just book a normal room when they are spending a few hours with an individual? I really don't feel like fighting for the only desk chair in my room with the gent I'm spending time with. As well to be a quality upscale companion, one won't be booking at the super 8. The experience, The company and the location all weigh in on this aspect. I'd love to see the reaction of the gents I spent time with when I tell them to come see me at motel 6 :) I have had several professional photos shoots over the years, the average price being $1800 for all but one of them and even then it was over $1000 in the end. Im sorry but in business, when one is selling an elite item such as themselves, you don't settle for a $500 photoshoot. Im not calling you naive, however if a woman has invested in professional photos best to assume she's invested in herself and her donation will most likely reflect that. Its people with the thoughts and ideas such as yours that appal me, you have never been an escort, sex worker, companion or courtesan - you have an opinion and a one sided one at that. Because I charge more per hour, does not make me a "gold digger". Far from it, I am very generous with my time and with ensuring that my guests leave happy I spend hours everyday on emails, most that are just on social levels saying hi or where are you this week - and all this is unpaid - yet I would not change any of it. And yes myself like many others took offence to your first post and your second one - I can't imagine what answer it is that you are seeking?

I offer a highly interactive male/female rendevous with my male business partner.. Also I believe Katherine and Lexy Grace of Halifax also offer m/f services... Look around & enjoy!

Years ago (pre-Lyla for me) I phoned an SP and booked an appointment, and towards the end she said something like "I should tell you, I'm black, does that make any difference?" I immediately assured her that it didn't - as, in fact, it didn't. But when we hung up I was sad for her that she felt she had to ask that, and slightly depressed to live in a world where she was probably right. This thread is full of sincere people doing their best to try to create a world where this is a non-issue, and that's great, but it's a disheartening state of affairs nonetheless.

Yes! Yay! :D I've had many hot MMF theesomes, both professionally and personally. I love them. So many fun options! I provide MMF escort encounters with my partner Robin, but it's not something that I personally would offer with two clients and myself. Just my personal comfort level. And I like sharing the chemistry that my partner and I have together with our client, and being able to spoil him/her/them. Since my partner and I jive together so well, it's often very easy to incorporate a third. These encounters all play out a little bit differently. A few of them without any male/male contact and in that case it's based around the two men attending to me and I am the centre of attention, or I am attending to both of them. But most people are keen to have full interaction between all three of us, and quite eager to explore this part of it, even if they just want to dip a toe in and try a few new things. This dynamic provides the most uninhibited experience and leaves the most options for fun activities. We get the honour to be many gentlemen's first bi experience and it's very exciting. It often opens up a whole new world for them and gets their mind wandering to what other fun stuff could be out there to explore. Plus I just love seeing two men together. So much naughty hot fun! So, YAY for MMF! :D

I myself used to be a bad nail biter! This wasn't something that I wanted to continue doing and tried everything possible to stop. I finally gave acrylic nails a shot. Bit them off. My friend who prefers extra long nails, suggested I use a shellac polish over regular to make the nail thicker and tougher to get at. I now haven't bitten my nails in months and id say after adjusting sizes I prefer medium long.

I think I saw her banner ad on lyla.com recently. I do know that she gave up her in-service location in St. John's this past summer but I've definitely seen her ads since then. I hope she is still around ... she's awesome! Have you tried contacting her via [email protected]? Or her website http://www.savannahlane.ca?

Did you receive a PM asking for your email and the email asking for HELP MONEY? We have some reports that men on the site have received PM's stated in a urgent nature asking for a personal EMAIL address then you receive a email with a sob story asking for HELP in the form of financial assistance (Personal donation). If you had this happen (even by a reputable sp) please PM me the name of the provider who did this. It is NOT acceptable and it is ABUSE of the PM system and the council here has been made aware of it and we are not happy. I know ONE lady who is doing this but I want to know if more then one is doing this and also how many people this lady is doing this to.

backrubman, i understand that a very few clients prefer to preserve the illusion. that is fine, but never forget, it is NOT a vacation to the sp. A vacation is just that, time away from work. Time with clients, paid time with clients as you have just said is what you provide, is actually work. am i just talking to the air here, is there some kinds of jobs out there where going away to work is considered not work? when your company sends you to Bangkok to go to a conference, pays the entire trip and meals, & you are getting your salary is it not still considered work? It is warm there, and you could take an afternoon off to go ride elephants, but to the company, and you, you are getting paid to go to Bangkok to present at a conference. And I bet, that very few people who get sent to Bangkok by their company, with all expenses paid, are unable to enjoy the fact they are in Bangkok, riding elephants during their downtime, and eating exotic foods in the sunshine. They likely enjoy their coworkers, the people who are also getting paid to be presenters at this sunshiney conference. The people who sell the elephant rides may find it hard to imagine you see this trip as 'work' too, but that doesn't take away from the fact when the ride is over, you return to the reason you are there in the first place: work. It ain't a vacation unless you are taking the time off, away from work, i.e. away from clients, and spending your own money on yourself. I'm sure there is a wiki definition of 'vacation' that does not include getting paid by your companion to spend time with them &/or sexual services, in Jamaica Additional Comments: well said

I am sorry you feel that the only way a paid companion/escort can prove herself is by not taking her work, being a paid companion, seriously enough to actually call it work when she is fulfilling your needs in her capacity as a paid companion. EVEN when that means that she agrees to go on a vacation date with a client. You call it vacation, any escort calls it work, bottom line. the way escorts make money is to be paid for accompanying or spending time with you, it isn't how many hjs or bjs you get at the end of that time. The 10k a week, well if anyone did just a 10 hour overnight with someone for 1000-2500, wouldn't it automatically be a discounted very good deal to only spend 10k for 7 full days and nights? the difference is, instead of periods of time 24 hr or 72 hrs here and there, in this case it is worked out for the whole week. In fact, it is just under 60 bucks an hour. Pretty cheap if you ask me, and a fair compensation for the fact that she is not making an income while with you and for her this is work, not a vacation. You can spin it any direction you wish, but it will never be just a vacay for any paid companion going on any kind of trip with any kind of client. At the end of the day, you have to look at it from a business perspective because the ONLY reason you even know this person is because she put up ads and she provides services in exchange for monetary compensation. And the things she needs to pay for don't go away just because she happens to like you and agree to go on a vacation date with you, she still needs her compensation for potential and lost income that she incurs simply because she is spending her time with you, and not with people paying full rate. And not with people who are her actual family and friends. Don't you think that, in all seriousness, if she wanted a vacation to a sunny place, she would rather be with her SO, or children, or sisters, or mom & dad instead of a business acquaintence? But this time 'being pampered', is time away from her family, friends, and pets. If she lives alone, her pets need to be cared for, which will either inconvenience a friend or she will be paying someone to come in to look after her place while she is away. She will be informing potential clients of her inavailability, clients who may only be infrequent visitors and she will never be able to recoup that visit. She may end up turning away multiple people, only to find out 1 week before the vacation is to take place, her vacay client cancels, gets sick or otherwise bails on her. at this point, it is possible she has had no deposit, and she has turned away appts, so now it isn't just the lost income for being away, it is now costing her money to have agreed to go on a vacay play time pampering she is supposed to be grateful for. Let's just say i am not a fan of the expectations of clients for what they believe these vacation plans should be, on the part of the professional paid companion. somehow the word vacation seems to be applied to the person they want to hire to spend that time with them, and no real understanding that the very word 'hire' is a contradiction to that word vacation. these are not vacations for paid companions.

I went to Mexico this winter for a week with a lady. We had a terrific time, maybe the best week of my life to be honest. We knew each other very well and had been seeing each other for years beforehand. Being with someone for a week is a whole lot different than a few hours. Make sure you are compatible in every way possible. If you are sixty and want to spend most of your time relaxing do not take a twenty year old hottie who wants to party, jet ski and parasail. How much do you each plan on drinking? All inclusives bring out the booze hound in some people. Do you know her real name and details? Mexican customs or the hotel staff may ask the two of you questions, not likely but it happens. Mexico can be very conservative in some parts. Some resorts are party central and others, especially five star ones are definitely not. The place we were in ejected a couple of French tourists who kept swimming in the pool topless or even naked.

I have been lucky enough to experience this on a few occasions and wrote a story about it for my blog as well. It is definitely a shift in dynamic from a one on one experience and with the right mix of people involved can be amazingly erotic and pleasurable. As has been mentioned, you should always feel comfortable with those you play with no matter what the circumstance or number. As Cristy said, there are so many combinations and even more depending on the men involved. Definitely an experience I recommend if the situation arises. As with most things in life, I believe we should sample as much as we can!

I love this and have done it personally and professionally. You do have to feel very safe and comfortable with whom you play, lets face it two men one women, the woman could be at risk. So please always play safe. In my threesomes I'd be giving head to one man while the other was behind-doggy;) Or one would be jerking off while he watched the two of us pleasure each other. So many ways to play in MMF, yummy!!