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Well I had texted her on the Wednesday last week asking about her hours. She said till 2am, so I booked an hour with her at 1am and she confirmed. Drove out there only to sit and wait for her to reply. After a hh I left and drove back to Kingston. Next morning she called to explain what happened. Said she had fallen asleep and was very sorry. Said she would give me an hour for a hh rate the next time I book. So Monday morning she text me saying she will ve working that night. We agreed on a time but again same thing happened. Except this tine I called before leaving. Still have not heard back from the voicemail or text I had sent asking what happened. So If any of you are looking for a way to waste some gas and time , book with her . If she actually has seen someone , I hope they at least let us know if she was worth the hassle :-). Will I try again? Dont think so . There are enough real girls closer to home .

Warning about Julie from BP hot brunette in add, make up caked blond shows up, demands up front then has to pay driver..... my own stupidity

I've never used BP because I don't trust it, but I'm often tempted to because I often travel to smaller cities for work. What I don't understand is what the scam is or what the point of fake pics is. If the ad has a 25 year old, 110lbs blonde on it and I arrive to meet a 47 year old, 180 brunette, I'm turning around and walking away. What's the point of the false ads?

There is no middle ground. Some SP's won't require any information and some will and the ones that will, will give you a few different options. They are taking the biggest risk with meeting a stranger, so if you want to see that specific lady then you have to give her whatever information she requires that would make her feel the most comfortable. In my Opinion, the more comfortable they feel, the better your experience will be. If you're not comfortable divulging anything, then you just have to find a lady that doesn't require any information.

I may be wrong, but I have seen many scientfic shows that show how something like 60% of all greenhouse gas was in fact before the humans and our industrial age. Such as volcano activites and the decomposing of dinasours. On the time line of history, humans are actually a very small fraction of what has already occured. NOT SAYING that we have not contributed to this and rapidly did increase. But the facts are there was greenhouse effects, global warming which lead us into ice ages. It shows that we must maintain a balance with what we have left in our atmosphere. We are not the single cause, but a factor. And as humans we have the power to change our part. Will we? Have we? When I was a 15 yr old kid...I worked for greenpeace. My project was on this very issue! So sad it took hundreds of doors being slammed in my face, threats, and litterly chased of property to now FINALLY is a dinner table topic! OOOPSY many spelling errors...SORRY autocorrect wont work on my phone for some odd reason lol.

Fun to be with, naughty and nice, generous, down-to-Earth, and with a very twisted sense of humour... Add to that: experienced, well reviewed and recomended, young, athletic, redhead, sporty, ... I don't care about much happening around me, therefore, I have an ability to bring you out of this world... Curious? You can find the link to my recos in my signature. Have good reading! Contact: PM

Getting my proofs back from my shoot and loving them ALL....

Developing a theme... :)

Hi guys, I TOFTT last week end with Lilly from Moncton/Riverveiw. After a few tentalizing messages form Lilly, we set up an early app. for Saturday morning. The morning after, no show and no answer to my texts. Finally, she answered back a couple of hours latter saying she was sorry and that she had overslept. She offered me to come to see her at her Grand parents's place! (First clue) Suposedly they were out west and she was taking care of the house. When I got to the house, I notice a lot of shoes at the entrance! (second clue). She invited me in a small room in the basement of the house. It was full of dolls!!!! (Third clue) (WTF???) BTW, her pictures are definitly not new. She carry an extra 50 to 75 lbs over and above what she looks like on her pics!!! (forth clue) I then gave her the agreed rate and sat on the bed. She asked me if I wanted a massage and I said ok. I then proceed to take of my watch and shirt then she freaked out. She told me that she was with the police (???) and that I should leave imediatly or she would call them. She then said that she would call her boyfried. I asked for for my money back, but she refused. Not knowing if there was anybody else in the house, I was now feeling that that my security could be in jeodardy. So I left immediatly. She is a thief , a crook and a con artist! Be very carefull guys. See her add and pic below. http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/fr-ca/FemaleEscorts/love-5068711028new-pics-horni-girl-special-kisscuddle-full-sweet-deals-lilly-5068711028-23/1615660

I thought it would be great to have a place to gather all those wonderful natural cures and remedies we use and love. Perhaps we can add the Issue as the title to make it easily searchable for others? As I'm starting I can't have a title but VIRUSES WHITE TEA - is said to cure any virus within 30 minutes of ingestion. Coconut Oil is also great for fighting virus'. Drink 1 tbsp per day.

Couldn't find a thread to best accommodate this topic. I decided to just create a new one. I had booked an appoinment with someone He cancelled because of illness. Fair enough that happens. We then spoke some more, because I enjoy connecting before rendezvous and then today after a week of talking, he exclaims, That I am far too young for him. I'd like to know why people think it's okay to do this? It's like a total other person! He apologized for wasting my time, which sorta helped, not really. I suppose he wanted to try something new, but I'm all about communication. I'm offended that he couldn't communicate anything tell NOW. Sparing my feelings, or not. Dishonesty turns me off! If I am not for you please don't waste my time. geeez!

Conclusions made by scientists do turn out to be mistaken of course, and science is meant to work based on new evidence. That is, as new evidence is discovered the conclusions will change. Science is a process of discovering what is most likely the truth, but must by its own definition always be open to new evidence. That said, I can't think of any other topic where scientists have such a consensus of opinion but the general population balks at it, or clings to a very small dissenting opinion. Perhaps the only comparison I can make is the distrust people have for vaccines because they believe a few celebrities and a discredited study over a mountain of evidence and legion of scientists and doctors. Being a skeptic and a critical thinker is one thing (and a positive thing) but I think in this case the doubt people have mostly comes down to the fact they don't want to believe we're at fault or responsible.

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I got in touch with Veronica and she confirmed it is Lola. By the time we were exchanging e-mails she was still getting settled in the Kitchener area. Next time I go to that area i'll try to arrange a meeting and let everyone know

sounds like a sensitive topic... lets just assume that companionship was not rendered. That one looks TGTBT and unfortunately is

If you are looking for a lady who is more than just beautiful, but stunning and refined, one who will capture you with her charm and sensuality while engaging with intelligent and witty conversation...Then look no further. I'm Emily. I have a slender figure with long flowing red hair, sparkling green eyes and a smile that will brighten your day. I am well educated, a great conversationalist and a companion by choice. I am sincere, honest, trustworthy and loyal. Being genuine and down to earth adds to my appeal. I am well-manicured and the perfect escape for any time of the day. When you first meet me you will find the true natural beauty you have been looking for. Elegant, sexy and sophisticated on the outside; with a warm, friendly sweet sincere woman beneath. I enjoy taking my time and sharing some laughter while getting to know you. A date with me is always an unrushed and unforgettable experience. I will be visiting: Ottawa, March 22nd - 24th Encounters are possible at a private and discreet location. I am happy to arrange our encounter in advance, as short notice does not work for me. Take a moment and get to know me better on my website http://www.emilyrushton.com Wanting to make that escape a reality, I can be reached via email [email protected] I look forward to hearing from you Xoxo Emily

at the bronson exit................ i am not too far from there. allison 613 890-2641

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm

Hello Gentlemen, My Name Is Jody Wild Aka J.W. Thanks For Stopping In & Taking The Time Out Of Your Day To Look At My Ad! I Hope You Like What You See! Are You Looking To Get Away, Take A Break From Life, Work Or Errands? To Be Able To Just Take A Load Off? Maybe Have Some One To Talk To, Get A Friendly Hug? Look No Further I'm Your Girl. Come Escape & Enjoy A Sensual Appointment Rush Free With Me! I Am A Very Nice, Sweet, Fun, Free Spirited, Youthful, Outgoing, Sexy, Respectful 27Yr. Old Independent, Passionate Lady! Who Really Enjoys What I Do & Is Very Discreet! Discretion Is As Important To Me As It Is To You! I Love Knowing You Leave Me Happy, Satisfied & With A Smile! Please Mention Your Name, How Long You Would Like & Where You Seen My Ad. Contact Me By Pm, E-Mail,Text Or Call [email protected] (Text Only) ~ (289)-272-2694 My Recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=J&t=8756. Please E-mail Me For My Webite If You Would Like It Thank-You. Any Money Being Exchanged Is Strictly For My Time & Companionship Only! Anything Else That May Occur Is A Matter Of Two Consenting Adults Of Legal Age. Longer Appointments Available As Well, Just Please Request For It. My Schedule For The Week! Wed,Mar,2nd: 9:30am - 3pm ~ 6pm - 12am Thurs,Mar,3rd: 9:30am - 3pm ~ 6pm - 12am Fri,Mar,4th: 9:30am - 2am Sat,Mar,5th: 9:30am - 2am Sun,Mar,6th: 9:30am - 2am Mon,Mar,7th: 9:30am - 3pm ~ 6pm - 12am Tues,Mar,8th: 9:30am - 3pm ~ 6pm - 12am Inclusive Rates: $80/15MIN $100/30MIN $150/45MIN $200/60MIN

I have changed my sleep schedule entirely to better adjust my lifestyle and am hoping to stick to it. It will continue to be Monday to Friday but will start doing mornings. Starting at 7 am today! I miss all my early bloomers,. The bright conversation the soft embraces and magical wake ups that occur. Why not start your day with a frisky alternative red head!! Can't wait to meet all you morning people!!! ,Brody Styles Fast and easy bookings: www.brodystylesxo.com Have your secret desire, satisfied.The soft, sweet,quirky lady, you can't help but crave. My world is, your world.With warm embraces. Welcome to a world where,you can be yourself. Relax and enjoy an intimate experience with me. Soft skin wanting to be touched. I'm not fake nor do I know how to be. I offer a non-rushed experience with a real person. I don't bite unless you want me to! ;) I offer the full, laid back rendezvous along, with several types of massage . I have big blue eyes and hour glass figure, to go along with a marvelously cheeky and nerdy side! I am a nurturer and a giver. I am an intimate person. I definitely would have to say, that I appeal to several personalities as long as you are respectful and clean. I offer a laid back tone but also a tone of 'Let's get weird", to the appropriate occasion. I offer out and in calls. In call is offered in our Nation's Capital at a non- commercial, private residence.

finally arriving home.. (despite taking an 'honest' sick day)... after running around, replacing locks (found out my office got broken into)... errands, and a workshop this eveing...<whew>.. all with an exploding head..... ....and enjoying the absolute *bliss*.... of a boiling hot bath full of epson salts and bubbles... TWO fingers of scotch on one ice cube... and then..... just breathing.... lovely highlight to a way too long a day.......

B - Best.. to have a life filled with a propensity to sexual enjoyment and to love <grin>

Is she the broke college student?

I can equally think of amazing things I can do with heavy leather strips :)

Logged on to see two private messages asking me for my experiences. While we must be restrictive in our details, it's nice to share our experiences with those asking. Ya damn right talking about massage is highlight of day :)

early still, took the day off due to a head cold....but have a lot accomplished already. Figured out some more things with twitter.... built a website.. <grin> enjoying a second wonderfully strong coffee... arranged a meeting with a lawyer... tackled a strategy of attack on an unsuspecting poor soul trying to use my business name for themselves<grin>... and have yet to even dress! .....puuuuuurfect day so far ;) Additional Comments: early still, took the day off due to a head cold....but have a lot accomplished already. Figured out some more things with twitter.... built a website.. <grin> enjoying a second wonderfully strong coffee... arranged a meeting with a lawyer... tackled a strategy of attack on an unsuspecting poor soul trying to use my business name for themselves<grin>... and have yet to even dress! .....puuuuuurfect day so far ;)

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See you guys in 2 weeks ;) More talented gems will come ;) Have a good day, and thanks for the support :)

I like cutoffs... :) And this is a good way to drink champagne! Additional Comments:

Everest; I rarely watch a movie twice (except for my favourite 5) but I want to see this one again.

If a woman is willing to get intimate with me, without even knowing me, I think the very least I could do is give her my Lyla Handle :)

I think it is fair to ask for the board handle OR/AND references when meeting with a new client... I don't see any privacy issue! If the client resists, then IMHO it is a red flag, he has something to hide. Cheers GM

I would have to agree that age was not the 'real' issue.. Nicolette is right (as usual).. usually time wasters whether nervous guys who will eventually book or are just lonely guys who will never book are in my opinion not worth the investment or waste of your own precious time... because many other clients are ready to book and will pay for your time to 'get to know you'. I have for some time now offered cam sessions for just that reason... and some book me for cam several times and still admit they'll never get up the nerve to book in person.. so they will still pay for me time but keep a safe comfortable distance to communicate with me and enjoy a 'session'. This works for me.. put your money where your mouth is.. it's a much smaller donation and some book right after one cam (or phone if they're even too shy for that) and some don't.. but either way I don't feel my time or energy is taken advantage of.. I get that you're more hurt by the feeling of connection you felt and being lied to.. but that's a part of life.. not just from clients.. and it sucks.. don't waste time on energy suckers.. just shake the dust off your feet and move on with integrity knowing you didn't lie :)

You're right, it doesn't make sense given he used the excuse that you were not age appropriate by his standards. Another b.s. excuse. He should have known your age by reading your ad. Don't waste time with the time wasters anymore. If they are serious about booking an appointment, an initial conversation shouldn't take no longer than 10 minutes to get an idea of who you are and covering the basics and what you feel comfortable in letting them know the type of service you offer. You can always tell by a brief phone conversation and if the client will want to meet you or if you will want to entertain their request just by how they speak to you and the questions they ask and vice versa. If they insist on talking more in depth before the appointment after everything has been covered completely during the initial phone conversation, my red flags go up. This tells me they are not serious and perhaps could be lonely but do not want to pay for my companionship. Remember we are running a service and I know myself that I provide excellent companionship but I am not a chat line. I let them know nicely that if they wish to speak to me more, they need to come and see me. I do not have time to speak to people for a casual conversation with the promise of booking an appointment. Strangers who I have never met are not my friends either so why would I give them all my time to speak to them on the phone without a guarantee of anything but their word? While I enjoy what I do and who I meet, I have established clients that I dedicate my time to as well as new potential clients who have done their homework. Talking to a client for more than a week indicates to me that they aren't serious about booking an appointment. Again, this isn't a dating service or a chat line. A person does not need to speak to you for a week before they meet you and we are not hand holders either. Good potential clients will have always researched you beforehand, will have read your website or even may have looked you up on this type of site to find out what you're about by reading your posts. Then they make their decision before contacting the provider. There is no time for hand holders or babysitting the unusually cautious, sometimes even paranoid men because it usually never works out as they were not that serious to begin with. Don't get taken by them. There is a difference in being patient and understanding when meeting with clients as opposed to the ones who want you to be patient and caring but never ever booking an appointment and never meeting the provider in person. That is completely taking advantage of a person's time. One doesn't have time to wait around to see if they will be ever be a client when there are good clients waiting in the wings who actually want to meet. One phone conversation is sufficient enough to give someone a fair chance.

I know some rescues that leave their doors open partially for this stray cats to keep warm. So, it's in essence a cat house.

I've been thinking about how tricky the seemingly simple activity of conversation can be in our lifestyle. When on a date I like having some time to chat and make a connection, which means hopefully discussing more than the weather or how we're feeling that day. But of course some questions can be too prying or even go past inappropriate into offensive. Let's face it, when visiting an alluring woman you've been anticipating the pleasure of spending time with, especially if it's the first time meeting them, words don't necessarily come easily. Nerves can either make you seem boring or intrusive. I imagine ladies also find breaking the ice and getting more than two-word mumbled answers out of a gent is sometimes an issue. I thought it would be helpful to try a thread where we mention questions that should be avoided, but even more useful perhaps share some topics of conversation that can be meaningful and fun. Good topics/questions/ice breakers: --Do you like to travel? Where would most love to visit? (can often lead to amusing stories, shared interests, discussion of future, etc) --A lot of ladies will post some of their interests on their website (which I appreciate). Take a peek, and maybe you'll notice a sports team, author, movie, etc that you both like. It can be a good ice-breaker and easy connection. --Any specialty cooking dishes/favourite meal? (or odd foods you hate). When I admit I don't like any kind of cheese that always gets a reaction! --Do you have any pets (some of my biggest laughs with a date are sharing and one-upping each other with stories about the crazy antics of our pets. I think I disappointed one lady when I had to admit the scratches down my back were not a sign of my sexual prowess but rather a sneaky cat who used me as climbing pole to get up on a shelf). --Are you a salty snack person or a chocolate person? Seriously, this is vital insight into a person. Not quite as much as asking whether they believe toilet paper should be hung over or under...but that's a second date question ;) Questions to avoid: --Have you been busy? (anything that makes it sound like you're prying into how many people a lady has seen) --How often do you get tested? --Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife Obviously personal tastes will play a part, but I'd love to hear any others people have to add, especially those questions/topics that fall on the good side and can lead to a real conversation without seeming like you're prying.

Have seen a few ladies over the last couple years but never had such an experience as tonight. The ladies I have seen before in Belleville/Kingston/Peterborough make the situation less of an experience to enjoy and more like a service (more like waiting for an oil change than enjoying the fun of a test drive) which don't get me wrong, we all know what the true situation is. Khloe completely changed that for me tonight, not a clock watcher for sure, after the first round, she offered me a massage then we laid and talked for a bit (as it turns out we know a few of the same people.) Once we had begun the second round, it was at the end of the hour (I would recommend spending any time with her but an hour is great) but she didn't stop or ask for more money just seemed to genuinely care about my experience. Truly shows passion for what she does. Have never had such an experience before and enjoyed so much that I had to leave a tip and felt it deserved a review, which I've never done. Nice clean, discrete, hotel room. Offered me to shower there before leaving (I don't have anyone to hide my adventures from, but the gesture was nice compared to being kicked out faster than you can get dressed. Without a doubt I would repeat, in fact might only see her going forward.

Personally, I am an open book. I do not mind saying that I have a kid, that I sometime have a day job and that I have a university degree, that I lived in France for quite a while so with some gentlemen we have nice conversations of countries they went, etc. I understand Peachy saying she doesn't ask questions about wife or kids but I do, not to be intrusive at all but just so we can share advices and nice stories on our kids. But also when they are back I ask them how are the kids doing? Most of the time, they go 'Wow you remember that?!' I have my own way of remembering my clients and it's not to use it against them but just so they feel they are just not a number as I like the same when they return a question I ask them. I also remember their job and ask about that also. When I ask questions and I see the gentleman doesn't feel comfortable I back off and tell them I am sorry but just wanted to know them a little bit more and that I am VERY discrete but I respect they don't want to answer. Should I have ever been too intrusive with a client from LYLA please accept my most sincere apologies. Bisous Barbara xxoo

It's definitely all in the tone of the conversation as well. If I feel comfortable with someone and there is a connection, I have no problem discussing certain things but if it's done in a way that is unnerving and feeling much like the Spanish inquisition, I will shut down and steer things in another direction. Asking how many kids she has or how old they are out of the blue is downright creepy and not conducive to an intimate encounter. If she casually mentions it, go with it but dont pry. I had one person one time ask me questions and it was comparable to a line of questioning you would see on t.v. from a police officer or a psychologist. Just point blank questions out of the blue asking where my parents lived, if I had any children. I had to shut him down telling him his questions were very intrusive considering he just met me 5 minutes ago. Children, boyfriends etc are a delicate subject. I've had people insist I MUST have a boyfriend because I'm not someone who should be single for various reasons. Then they make the suicidal mistake of saying they should be my boyfriend. lol. How uncomfortable is that? Whether or not I have a boyfriend is really no one's business and if I did, why would I make that known to every single client I cross paths with? It's really not that important. And no, I do not have a bf who is going to walk in the door at any moment. Those kinds of statements from clients really bother me. Most likely I will not book an appointment with a person again if I felt I was put on the spot even if they want to see me again. If a lady opens up to you about her personal life, its because she feels comfortable in doing so. Let her do it but in the meantime, talk about the many general things that have been listed her for starters. If a relationship is established over time, conversations may get more personal as long as there is an established trust there.

Something I've found to be quite useful is to say something like, "Do you mind if I ask <insert question here>". If she's OK with the subject then she can answer the question, but you've also given her an obvious and non-awkward way to just say, "Sorry, I prefer not to talk about that."

I've met Chloe before and the pics are her, she's a very pretty friendly girl and I enjoyed my time, will repeat after I check a few more off my list. If anyone is looking n wondering I would add her pics are her but older I'd say cause she's a bit bigger in person but by no means big, just bigger than her pics but she is a very nice polite fun girl

Ok this is going to sound disgusting but pin worms are very easy to get from certain activities from mouth contact in the very low nether regions and then if you kiss the person. These worms lay their eggs in that area and people get very itchy ass at night. I always discourage anything to do with that area esp if kissing is involved. Posted via Mobile Device

You should not brush or floss your teeth shortly before having sex. Instead use a mouthwash, breath mint or gum. Brushing or flossing your teeth can cause small amounts of bleeding on the gums. Since blood is a bodily fluid, this increases the risk to your partner. Simultaneously, it presents a risk to you since you now have an opening in the mucous membrane of your mouth through which infection can enter. Most sources I've read suggest a minimum of 30 minutes between brushing or flossing and having sex. This particular source is more conservative and recommends 2 hours. I should add that the risk of HIV transmission from oral sex is very low. In addition, there doesn't appear to be any certainty around the number of infections in which teeth brushing/flossing was the sole risk factor. Having said that it's an easy risk factor to eliminate simply by using mouthwash etc. I've attached a fact sheet on HIV and factors affecting HIV transmission. Here's a few essential quotes relevant to teeth brushing/flossing. HIV can get into the blood through breaks in the skin (for example, wounds or open sores) or by passing through a mucous membrane. Mucous membranes are tissues that line the surfaces of body cavities, such as the nostrils, mouth, throat, vagina, urethra, anus and rectum. Brushing or flossing teeth can cause minor cuts, abrasions and inflammation, which can increase the risk of HIV infection. It is advisable to avoid performing oral sex for up to two hours after brushing or flossing so the gums have a chance to heal. http://www.catie.ca/en/fact-sheets/prevention/hiv-transmission-overview

I brush my teeth at the beginning and end of each day and mouthwash before and after each client visits... Not brushing immediately before or after lowers your risk of infection and HIV transmission is what I was told by the health unit staff. All new tattoos, piercings and body mods should be covered for the first 10days during an encounter. After that avoid direct contact with bodily fluids. I always have a shower before a client and make sure to wash afterwards as well. Do not use regular soap on your genitals however. This can lead to a PH imbalance, BV and yeast infections. I like to go with the intimate wash from Summer's Eve (I get it at shoppers) Also use one hand on you and one hand on them I never apply lube to me with the same hand I applied to them. This helps prevent the spread of bacteria and sti's. Super easy steps that I have seen a lot of people miss. I also ask clients to avoid touching my intimate areas if they have touched themselves. Put out some sanitizer! I didn't do this for the first year I worked as an SP and was constantly getting sick. Colds, flu, viruses, strep... Bleh. Put out a bottle of hand sanitizer and boom! No more sick Kate! Saved me tonnes of time off and lots of money on prescriptions.