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Very interesting question. I have noticed lately gentlemen are less inclined to kiss especially the younger generation. I have wondered about this and thought perhaps as we all gravitate to safer activities perhaps that kissing may go with the dinosaur? That would be sad as I do like kissing a handsome, gentleman. Soon we will just drink tea and shake hands hello and good bye.:biggrin:

Yes. I must admit, I'm really enjoying the sight of the GOP descending into utter panic as they realize that they've completely lost control of the movement they've built. I really have no idea what Trump would be like as a president. Loud and obnoxious, sure, but... policies? No idea. He simply spouts whatever his audience wants to hear, with absolutely no regard for reality, and he'll probably continue to do that as he moves towards November. I can see him winning, though. He has the knack for getting people fired up and believing in him, whereas Hilary... doesn't. There's something fundamentally uninspiring and unlovable about her - possibly the fact that when it comes down to it she's just another machine politician.

As a hobbyist or Sp or MA Most of us, are living a double life. Like Superman or Spiderman. Clark Kent by day and Superman by Night Peter Parker by day and Spiderman by night. We all have our private lives that we shared with Friend, family and co-worker. And then we have this other secret life where we meet other Men and Women for a quick sexy fantasy encounter. Or for some it is their income. However, we all have our secrets that we need to keep from our friends and family. And run the fear of being caught and suffering the consequences. But this is part of the thrill of living on the edge. It's what makes this life style a bit risky and exciting. But it can be stressful as you are always afraid of getting caught or being found out. Being careful, by having second phone or forgetting to close your browser when you still have cerb or emails open or forgetting to erase your internet history. Just wanted to get your thoughts and experiences of what it is to lead this double life. Did you ever get caught and how did you explain your way out of it out, or had to suffer the consequences. Hope to hear, some of your thoughts on this subject.

I write this 24 hours after my first experience to share what I went through, figure out what I went through for myself, and maybe help a few other gents along in the journey of their first time. I'm not going to name names as this is meant to be a review of my experience, not the specific girls. Stage 1: Justification This step, although it took some time, was somewhat easy for me. I was looking for a particular experience that my wife is not willing to give me. Does this make it any different than seeing an escort for any other reason? Maybe not to some, but it did the trick for me. Although justification was easy for me, it was by no means a quick process. I had done plenty of research on this topic before I was fully able to wrap my head around it and decide it was a decision I was OK with. Stage 2: Research As I just mentioned, a lot of my justification and my research happened at the same time. This is not a concept I have ever looked into before a few days ago. I'm not even 100% sure what made me decide to launch Chrome in incognito mode and type my search into Google. I also could no longer tell you what the first dozen pages I looked at were. I can say that over a few days I spent close to 20 hours getting used to the lingo (google "escort terms" if you haven't already), reading and rereading articles (both from the hobbyists as well as ASPs points of view), browsing ads (backpages and skipthegames were my two primary sources, although there were several others I went through) as well as agency websites, and finally I wound up finding this gem of a forum. I spent a lot of time googling girls' phone numbers to see what other ads they have posted over time, trying to find ones that seemed reliable. I also spent a lot of time looking at prices in the area. One tidbit of wisdom I found again and again is "you get what you pay for". While I didn't have a huge budget, I wanted to have the highest odds of getting what I was looking for out of it. I eventually found a price range I was comfortable with, both from a wallet and a quality from other reviewers standpoints. This is when everything became very real for me, and I started to wonder.. Can I get away with this? Stage 3: The Fear I was in a good position to go through with this. My wife and I were both vising our own families, in her case in a totally separate country. I was not close to home, and had no chance of her showing up to surprise me. I spent some time thinking things through: What breadcrumbs might I leave? How can I minimize them? What do I do if I miss something? Will the girl randomly call or text me someday and ruin everything? I'll admit right now, I have a fairly narcissistic personality, so my first instinct was "of course I can get away with it!" I still spent a great deal of time thinking about this part though. My final decisions to get over my fears were as follows: 1) I was doing my research on my work laptop, in incognito mode. Even if my wife found something incriminating on my laptop somehow, I've already done a ton of research so whether I go went through with it or not, the laptop is a real rislk. 2) I decided to only contact girls I could text, and I did so from my regular phone. I turned off iMessage on my iPad, and I knew it was already disabled on my Mac, so I had no worries of messages syncing. I could delete them from my phone later. 3) For every girl I would text, I would block their number at the end of this experience. This would prevent the possibility of future messages (even though, really, what are the chances of them reaching out to me unsolicited? Basically zero), and also giving me the option of finding them again through Google down the road if I so decide. If, for some odd reason, my wife is ever going through my blocked contacts list and asks why I have numbers from this particular area code blocked, my excuse is they were old annoying clients (I ran my own business) from when I used to live here. 4) I switched 'Find my friends' to track from my iPad, which I left at my hotel room while I was out, and promptly switched it back after. This gave me the excuse of "I'm going to bed early hun" and after "Can't sleep, I'm going out for a drink". With these plans in place, I send my first message.. Stage 4: Disappointment Unexpectedly to me, my first message to my first (very well reviewed) choice got a response, and after a few messages back and forth wound up in an appointment the following evening. Knowing the lingo was super important here, and I'm sure knowing what to/not to say played a huge part as well. If you haven't done it yet.. Do the research! The plan, since it was booked 24 hours in advance, was to confirm two hours before the appointment, and then she would send me the address 30 minutes beforehand (at this point I only knew the general area). Two hours before, right on time, I send her my confirmation text. A few minutes later, reply of "Can't wait!" 30 minutes to go, I hop in my rental and start heading in the general direction. 15 minutes to go, with no address, I follow up with what I was hoping was a playful text of "Did you forget about me? ;)", only to receive a "Crap omg yes, I'm so sorry! Can we meet at 8 instead?" I agree, she asks me to text her at 7:30 for her address. I kill some time, send said text, and never hear back. I briefly considered sending a second text around 7:45, but figure if she isn't responding she likely had a better opportunity come up (a regular, maybe a longer booking, who knows..), and I didn't want to start my experience by being a bother to someone else, so I left it and moved on. (Never did hear anything back). 8:30, after sitting around pondering for a while, I get back on the interwebs and start pulling up my other choices from before. Since this was now pretty much a last minute booking, I figured I would contact two at once and see what happens. One never did reply, but the other did and we quickly had an appointment set up. Stage 5: The Experience (aka Stress and Nerves) I'm going to back track for a quick second here - I mentioned before I was looking for something specific, but for the below to make sense I need to point out I very much enjoy intellectually connecting with others. I went into this with the hope that a good ASP could provide me with that experience, whether genuine on her part or not. About the exact moment I knocked on her door, all the nerves hit me at once. I knew, theoretically, how the general encounter ought to play out, and I knew how I wanted ours to. I had even thought through how to communicate this to her so that she could help make it happen that way. But from that moment on, the calm part of my brain took a vacation and I may as well have been on my first ever date with the hottest chick in the city. I decided right then to be upfront about it - Why try to hide what she was bound to figure out when she could help make it easier? She was good about it - Gave me my space to get boots and jacket off, paid no attention to the envelope I left on her table. She spent a few minutes chatting, massaging my shoulders, then quickly changed gears onto what I was looking for. Things progressed fairly quickly at this point, which I wasn't totally expecting but went along with. Got exactly what I had asked for. Then, desire and reality parted ways. I had about 20 minutes left on the clock, but in retrospect I could have just left at that point for all I got out of it. We spent about 10 minutes chatting about movies and then her tattoos, but I had the feeling she had already disconnected and had no real interest in talking. With about 10 minutes left, I thanked her, she mentioned next time I was in town, and I was on my way back to my room. Stage 6: Reflection I did my best not to analyze my entire experience right away. I got back, showered, and thought about the good half. It wasn't until this morning that I started thinking about the experience as a whole. It took me until this afternoon to realize that although she looked exactly like she did in her photos, she was not quite what I was expecting - I was aiming for petite but she was a bit ... "petite-er" than I thought she would be. I pulled up her pictures again, and perspective is everything. My reflection eventually wound up with the question, "Was I happy with what I got?" Eventually I decided, not quite. I don't regret it by any means, and if I were back I may contact her again - But maybe not as my first option, I'm honestly not sure at this point. There's something to be said for knowing what you can expect. Stage 7: What's next? Oh boy. My main issue with this question goes back to the 'Fear' stage. It's one thing to do it in a remote location not needing to worry about the wife. But the idea of back home where I need much better excuses of where I'm spending my time and money means I'll need to totally revisit that stage. I'm also almost 100% happy with my home life, so I don't feel I will have much of a desire to go through the hassle. For me, in my current life circumstances, this will most likely remain a "now and then, when I'm safely on a business trip" hobby. ... Maybe.

Donald Trump appeals to a large swathe of conservative white Americans who feel angry and marginalized due to social, political, and global changes that have eroded their once-unassailable privilege. His appeal is purely emotional, build entirely on resentment. It's funny because the Republicans have stoked those flames for 30 years, convinced they would harvest all the votes it brought to the polls. But they've been outflanked by an egotistical showman who pursued the same cause, but abandoned any restraint. Still, it could be worse. Trump (Drumpf?) is loud and obnoxious, but I think he's less stupid (but no less egotistical) than he appears and we might glimpse a new variant after the primaries are over. Ted Cruz, on the other hand, is more like Damien running for President.

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This is a very interesting topic, i've been leading this double life for 5 years now give or take and its not always been positive. I was caught a few years ago by my wife, who is still with me thankfully, but it cause a lot of pain for everyone obviously. At that point I thought ok I cannot do this anymore but the truth is I don't want to stop. So now I lead not only a separate life but separate bank accounts and CC's with my paycheck being split from the get go. This gives me total separation and I now know how to handle it better mentally. In the end I get what I need from these minimal encounters and it in turn helps me with my marriage and mental state. I never thought I would be this person but now I wonder how I wasn't before.

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Packing for Central America. Yeh some rum, cigars and heat. But only a week. It's gonna go fast.

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Breakfast - Eggs Benedict with a few tasty cups of coffee at a neighbourhood restaurant where the staff and regular customers chat...great way to start the day

I feel their south location is very safe and I always prefer it even though it is much farther for me. It says Winnipeg south for her I have not seen her but I have never had a negative experience with that agency Their consistency is absolutely unmatched in Winnipeg If you ask questions they do their best to answer I don't like downtown because I often have stuff in my car and have had break ins on my vehicles over te years So if I do go to their downtown location and have stuff in my car I spring for an indoor parade close by. Easier to enjoy session while not worrying about ones car But the south location for Na na is close to the u of M and the set up seems to work well for getting in and out of the building easily

Compartmentalization isn't my thing but I don't judge others who have to lead a double life for various reasons. What I don't understand is why some people can be judgmental when you tell them that the people in your life know what you do. It's almost as if they just can't believe it. They decide they can judge me based on those around me know what I do. I find that a bit hypocritical esp when clients say it. I always steer away from those conversations because my family life isn't anyone else's business to begin with unless I'm willing to share it with them.

It can get very stressful leading two lives, I have to constantly watch what I say and do, especially being in a small city. I can not come out and say what I do to anyone here, as they just wouldn't understand-If I were asked, by family or close friends, I would also tell the truth, just as Cristy would. I love what I do, Not just for financial reasons, but for the lasting friendships I have made! So, yes a double life can lead to early grey hair-but I would NOT change my profession for anything!!!

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Happy Birthday Spud, I hope you had a Fantastic day! Kisses xoxo

Stevemcqueen, I don't think you're asking unreasonable questions, and I do agree it's generally healthy not to take things at face value. You certainly seem to have given it thought rather than just a knee-jerk reaction one way or another. However, I don't think that because scientists have got it wrong in the past is necessarily a great reason not to act based on the current consensus. Science as a process is always questioning and examining and seeking more evidence to strive towards knowledge. And sure, I can't claim it's not possible that it will turn out to be wrong in regard to the current understanding of climate change, but (in my view) a rationale person goes based off the best evidence currently available. The overwhelming consensus and current evidence is that human activity is the driving force behind the current climate change. True, there are papers and individuals and Internet articles to the contrary, but they are given a disproportionate amount of attention by outlets with a specific agenda, which make the general population more doubtful than is warranted. I don't know enough about cars to speak in detail about why my breaks might not be working. But if 99% of mechanics who have spent their lives training and studying the matter all agree on what the cause is, I'm going to act under their guidance, even if it's tempting to go with the 1% who says everything is actually fine and I should just keep coasting downhill (or claim even if there is something wrong with them it's out of my control so I shouldn't let it inconvenience me...) Basically, I grant our current understanding (of all things!) is constantly evolving and being refined or corrected, but the only thing a rational person or species can do is act based on the best evidence they have at the time. I suppose we may disagree on what the best evidence is in fact pointing to. It's my belief people give disproportionate weight to arguments against human-driven climate change because (consciously or unconsciously) we don't want to think it's our fault or that we have to make meaningful changes to fix things. I do like some of your other points. It makes me think it's worth asking what's to lose by assuming it's human-led and seeking solutions to limit our pollution... If climate change is as drastically dangerous and human-led as the consensus of scientists agree, then we may just save our planet and species. If climate change is in fact going to be minimal or isn't human-caused, then we may put ourselves through some needless economic woes trying to curtail it, but will still have a healthier, cleaner environment. Purely from a risk-management standpoint, it seems worth taking it seriously. Anyway, I agree with you I think our best chances will be technology led (interesting we have faith in that science! :)).

I realize that most people don't have a lot of extra money lying around so everyone in the house can have their own computer but accessing Lyla from the same computer system your spouse routinely uses seems dangerous. I agree, private or incognito browsing is a big help. You mentioned that DuckDuckGo (which doesn't keep a record of your searches) has trouble finding Lyla, the fact that you wouldn't just go and type the URL in directly in the location bar instead of having to use a search engine to find it indicates that you probably aren't the world's most computer literate guy which is clearly the case for many people. You definitely want to be careful here as it is easy to leave evidence when you didn't mean to. Maybe she gets suspicious one day and has one of her friends help her install a program of the type often used to monitor children's computer use that silently takes a snap shot of the screen and stores it for later review every time it changes significantly. Once you are caught red handed there is no undoing it.

It's Kelly at CMJ. I have not seen her but pics look fantastic

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Happy Birthday spud271, hope you have a great day !

Happy belated Birthday Spud271.... I hope your day was delightful....

Happy birthday Spud! I hope your day was filled with joy, and love. I hope you have the best year yet! Sending you big birthday hugs, and lots of love. Xoxox

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Have a great one!

My very best wishes on your birthday, spud271!

As long as you feel the same age, this Bday is just another to keep in the memory bank ;p Xoxo. Enjoy it lovey!

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I specifically state in my ads that I ONLY am receiving in coming calls, and I get texts over and over saying sorry I know it says call but I want to text and when I don't respond I get asked why am ignoring them and can I please text back. It is really irritating to have someone ques tion my decisions and asking why I want to do something a certain way. If I am not texting you back, is it really so hard to pick up the phone and give me a quick call asking for info and availability? I also got a text from someone I saw before and I text back telling him to please call me and he responded by saying 'that bored huh?' I simply prefer call over text because texting back and forth non stop takes up a lot of time and calling is much better for me that way I am able to hear the person and get to know them a bit better from speaking to them and I am able to answer all questions at once, rather than texting so much here and there. I will not have someone over to my in call if I have not spoked to them, I have had people who flat out refused to call me and say no I'm shy or I'm around my wife etc, if you are to shy to call then you may be too shy to come see me, and if your wife is around then wait until you are alone or 'go to the store' or something so you are able to call. If you really want to see me then pick up the phone and call me, there is absolutely no need to be scared, I am a very sweet and friendly young lady, I promise!! :D

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Wish you a lot of *kisses* and *licks* on this special day!..

Happy birthday. I hope you have a great day.

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I have one client I have seen a few times when he visits Halifax. It is always for the whole evening. Dinner and a really pleasant time. However I do not know his name and I never will. He came to me with a very strong reference from a lady I know personally and she guaranteed his good character . There is not one fault I can find with this man. He just has this policy he won't give his name and well lady's can either choose to see him or not. He even shields the dinner bill when he signs off . Once in awhile it bothers me that he will never trust me but it something for me to deal with. At the end if the day it doesn't matter, we have a nice evening and part company until he comes back again. He even has me call or text to ensure I arrive back home safely.

I don't see this as a double life, but rather an extension of who I am. Keeping it a secret from those that I know has never been an issue, unless someone was to actually come straight out and ask me if I did this, I wouldn't volunteer the info. This is only part of me, a very small part of me. It doesn't define who I am. I have a career, a business and I have this. The fact that I love doing this more than I do the other parts of my life says something about me. It is exciting to see new guests, a thrill everytime. Always butterflies before I open the door, even after 12 years of offering this. So I don't see it as a double life, just a very unique part of me that enjoys what I do very much.

I was with Nina Amour two nights ago. What a fantastic experience! I was easy to set up an appointment, call first and then deal with details on email. Nina responds promptly to phones and email and does not just give three word answers but gives proper messages. I opted for the 90 minutes PSE .... really that is the way to go. Nina asked me what kind of attire she should wear to at my hotel ... I opted for business sexy, with very sexy underneath. Wow! When she entered the room I could not help but getting hard. She showed me a selection of outfits for the session while being able to caress her super sexy ass. After selections, lighting candles and pouring wine we chatted a bit while doing some mutual caressing. She is a very good conversationalist, is very smart and knows what is going on in the world. Did I also mention she is super sexy? After that it is a bit of a blur with slow and intimate and then high energy dirty talk BBBJ with COF, we then did massage both ways (try doing a hump between her ass cheeks...wow!), fucked in various positions, followed by greek....again spectacular! Although Nina's pictures do not show her boobs, they also are really good and bigger than you might guess. I am naturally a boob man but might be an ass man after spending time with Nina. She is a total package and treat her with respect for the amazing woman that she is. To Nina I say "the blue man is still happy". I will see her again.

I am not really comfortable with stating that I live a double life with regards to Cerb. My involvement is certainly not something that I publicize, but that is due to the stigma and stereotypes that are prevalent in general society, and perhaps that may be true even more so in insular PEI - I wonder if that is true? The fact that I don't advertise my participation probably could or should be interpreted as hiding or leading a double life, but I am very content that should I be "discovered," then I have no issue with that at all, in any way. I am widowed, I am totally alone, and I have no rational reason to feel guilty about what is now my very minimal involvement. I hated, absolutely and irrevocably hated, that in the beginning I lied to my children about where I was at various times when I was travelling. It's a long and roundabout and interesting story about why they now know, but they know that I have seen sex workers. They were all perfectly okay with that. It has led to some pretty good discussions about stereotypes and it's most curious that they were worried about me being taken advantage of, whereas from my perspective I always worried about me taking advantage of a woman in an unfortunate situation. My kids are pretty awesome. :) Everyone has things that to them are private and of no concern to anyone else and if involvement with sex workers is included in that then so be it. It does not mean that there is a right or a wrong involved. Your little voice will tell you that.

I saw Nina this week and I just want to say that she is a great girl. She is very friendly and very pretty. I would recommend her.

I too wish my mom was like Michaella's. Wouldn't it be nice if all parent s were that non-judgemental and accepting:) But like many I hide what I do from family and some friends, my closest friends know. Doing so does cause some discord in my life.As it's never easy to lie to loved ones, but when you know you'll be judged and probably rejected, what other choice does one have? Some may say if someone doesn't like what I do then they don't belong in my life, but that can be easier said than done. We all have choices to make and although I choose to lead a double life I'd also come clean if I were questioned, only then and accept the consequences. I do envy those who can live openly and proudly doing this, someday maybe:)

I don't really think of hobbying as a double life...my actual life is already one!!! It really doesn't bother me anymore who knows about what I do on my personal time. If they don't like it, than they do not have to associate with me. Though my experience has been they almost always come back to you over time. As for my real life, those I have told the truth to I trust them never to mention it to anyone. So for those of you I have told, you mean enough to me to know the truth! :D

For me I miss the most is SP : Nyomi Blu

one lady i wanted to meet was brooke, she used to work in Orleans.