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I just wanted to take a moment to formally recognize Meaghan for the wonderfully supportive woman she is. I have noticed many instances lately where she stepped up to help others, offered advice, leant an ear, offered personal support and resources and even posted to try to keep others safe. She has always been this way however, lately, she has really stepped up her efforts to reach out to those around her and really put herself into this industry. Thanks for all you do Meaghan, it does not go unnoticed!

Ladies? Maybe you have shared some of these feelings in regards to the way we are frequently spoken about.... I have been working in Ottawa since December. Previously, I had been a dancer and had not ventured often into the provider side of things (outside the club of course, I don't believe in Strip Club extras as it's unsafe and in poor taste. I go there to perform) For the most part, my 5 years as a worker of the adult industries has been a great, lifechanging experience. Where there was a lack of confidence, I grew into a strong and bold woman. Where there was a shyness, I now shine in a crowded room. Where there was anxiousness, there is now a re�������� calmness. People don't really understand what it's like to be in this industry. They don't know what it's like to be constantly judged, picked apart, mocked, looked down upon.... Actually, they probably do. But that's probably the most quizzical part of the problem. We are not as worthy because we are shameful in our choices. Do I agree with this? Absolutely not. But not everyone has lived the same path and so I understand that to some people there is no forgiveness in our liberties. Now... I would consider myself a partial libertarianist. I believe that we should be free to do with our lives what we will so long as we do not hurt others. But more importantly I'd like to add that I believe in the power of also caring for yourself, and to always seize the opportunity to better the planet whenever you can. So, now that I've introduced this... let me clarify a few points. I have overheard that I "...come across as a real hustler." If you mean that I am overly ambitious and have strategized a way to multimarket myself to broaden my overall impact on the industry? Then yes, by all means... I am the hustliest hustler ever. But I treat people very well, provide light and attentive interactions filled with laughter and sensuality. I entertain with flair. I will never stop driving towards my goals. I have overheard that I have "...some sag in (my) boobs", "...some sag in her belly as well", "...kinda floppy" ..... May I add that these were comments from people who have indeed admitted enjoying my service in the same reviews? I get it. People can be superficial. But people have also loved my breasts, despite the fact that you didn't. I am getting a breast augmentation not because I want one, but because it hurts to hear people constantly pointing out my flaws, no matter how wonderfully we have gotten along during our session. I have overheard some lovely things! From some people who have backed me up and said that I'm doing a great job and they respect me. People who have applauded my need to become an advocate for the industry. People who saw beyond a shallow misperception of who I am based on judging me by my outershell, or a small glimpse of a slightly grandiose personality via the internet. Why all the negativity? And it's not just me! People feel comfortable talking to me, which is fine. I shall never judge nor share those things... but the fact is that they tell me similar awful things about other dancers, providers, women, friends, girlfriends. I don't like it. Can we all please just try to be a little more human? And girls, stop taking advantage of, or mocking clients in the same way. We all just need a little happiness sometimes, so why not make it easier to find?

When I think of my all time favourite ladies that I've met over the years, right away five come to mind. Some are still in the business, some aren't. They have a lot in common in that they are all great in many ways, friendly, beautiful, caring - pretty much every positive trait you can think of. In my opinion they are the best I've met in this business and great people, period. The other thing they have in common is they have all been criticized at one point or another on review boards. Trust me, the problem wasn't with them, it was the guys/idiots writing the reviews. Awhile ago I was visiting a regular and she brought up a poor review she had received. I could sense she was a little pissed off. She said she tried her best with the client but he was smelly, rude and made her feel uncomfortable. From what she described, I'm surprised she even let him in her apartment but that's the type of person she is, always willing to try to please. Of course she couldn't be her best with him, the guy was a disgusting pig. Also, some losers just get off on cutting down others. They hide behind their computer screens and anonymously talk shit. I guess it makes them feel powerful but I'm sure in real life they are pathetic failures. When I read a review I take it with many grains of salt. I know there are two sides to every story and the lady doesn't get to write hers. I can understand how it must be upsetting to read negative things but please understand that just because someone writes something, definitely doesn't mean I believe it. I don't really pay attention to the content of reviews anyway. I mostly just check them as it gives me an indication that someone isn't a total fake. It's a sad fact that even the best in this business have to put up with losers writing trash about them. I think all you can do is ignore it and be confident that the good clients are ignoring it too.

hello gentlemans, I am a moroccan/spanish girl born in montreal and i love to have fun. I have a very sweet and energetic personality. I like to be tender as much as i like it rugh! i like to dominate as much as i like to be dominated but always in a respectful way. I'm 5'6", 130lb., 34c, nice round bottom... Long black hair, brown eyes and a caramel skin. You can contact me by txt mess(my preference) or calling: 343-500-1287-melissa- Ps: i have a lot of nice reviews you can read here and on another board too check this out! https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=90307

As a client in this lifestyle it is in my opinion all about managing risk. The new laws have increased the risk for clients but frankly if you are smart... do your homework and stick to meeting reputable well established ladies like the wonderful women of LYLA then the risk can be managed relatively easily. I would think that the relative risks of seeing a well established reputable LYLA lady in a hotel or her home would be the same. I would say however that if it is someone you have never met and that you have little or no research on then meeting in a high end hotel might reduce the risk to some degree. Just my Opinion

A lot of this happens, sadly. It does happen to me. Clients being very nice and loving, complimenting me, then those who don't like my body, or a certain aspect. Most are in the head space of a certain level of what they aspect but really they should all aspect kindness, respect, trust, etc., back from the lady. This goes with the client side. I don't stand and judge my clients based on what, because they are uniquely different than other clients I see? Everyone is different. No one is the same. Some gentleman like a certain type of lady, that is okay. Some gentleman like ladies who are educated. Some gentleman like ladies who are "spinners" or skinny/thin, or have some curves with a little flare, or BBW. Comments based on that should be kept inside on the clients perspective but they give reviews on different boards, they talk to each other, they even tell us the truth about our flaws before they leave or some don't. For me, not everyone will like me, I understand that. Comments happen and they sometimes do hurt because it could be a flaw within myself then someone else has the same flaw, it becomes a little depressing. However, don't take anyone's comments, put them in their place make note of them, if you don't want to see them because they are disrespectful but continue to see you and disrespect you, tell them you won't see them because of their negative degrading comments. You don't need the extra stress because it gets to you, then you believe there is something wrong or you aren't good enough. Every lady is shapes uniquely and you shouldn't be pressured into surgery to change that. Deep down do you like your body, nevermind the negative degrading comments, do you like your body the way it is? Do things that you want to do or change not what someone wants you to look like or be.

In my experience, and I have been with both Gina and Vivian, it depends very much on what you're looking for. Vivian offers wonderful sensual massage - medium touch and then the most amazing light touch thing she does that I couldn't even begin to describe to you! It almost takes you to another world! Those who have had the pleasure of experiencing it know what I mean :) You owe it to yourself to feel it at least once in your lifetime :) Warning: You may become addicted, as I have. For people who know Vivian - to have the chance to caress her lovely, petite body, her velvety skin and to feel her warmth - absolutely amazing! Vivian always stays within MA rules and does not accept kissing on the lips and many other things. But she loves to look at you in the eyes and lets you caress her beautiful hair. And Vivian loves for you to look at her in her mirror and admire her, and the experience you're having as she massages you ;) Vivian is someone special - a super attractive woman! Not to be missed! Vivian is away for a few weeks now, but should be back toward the end of April. In my experience, Gina is very different. Gina offers a very intense massage and a wide range of other options. Gina has some rave reviews here, and I would encourage you to check them out. Again, it depends very much on what you're looking for. Two lovely ladies who offer very different services. I very much look forward to seeing Vivian again when she returns :)

First of all - welcome. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. It is the beauty within that set everyone apart. Not everyone has the same likes or dislikes, so a size 2 might set some over the edge, others might say they enjoy a fuller figure. Some enjoy someone who is in their early 20's while others enjoy a more mature woman. So, don't ever look at yourself and compare yourself to the "traditonal mainstream" look. That is not what makes someone beautiful - it is their ability to see their own natural beauty and emphasize that. As for "breaking the law", I'm not really sure what you are referring to. Unless you are underaged, being forced by someone else, involved in drugs - you are not breaking the law. So, you might want to do some research on this industry, find out what the actual law says, and go from there. One thing I might suggest is to either work with a mentor or a cooperative to help you find your niche. I started in this industry through an agency, so was able to gain some valuable insight into it. I was lucky in that I found someone who was able to help mentor me and give me valuable knowledge and education. I'm still learning. Look into organizations like POWER - they are set up to help providers. Harm reduction, education, knowledge. Everything you need to understand. If you have any questions, don't ever hesitate to send me a pm. I feel that it is important to pay it forward the guidance I received to those that are starting out. Good luck!

For some reason, I think I prefer a home visit instead of a hotel. I think I get more nervous at a hotel. A home, a quiet location, a welcome space that the person I'm visiting is most comfortable in, those are important. MS

I had heard about Gina, an Asian MP in ottawa for a while but had not had the opportunity to visit her until recently. Let me just say that she is amazing at what she does, kind, courteous and oh so generous. If you are looking for someone who can give you an amazing and very deep massage, and then offer some delightful extras I would highly recommend giving Gina a call.

I love entertaining in the comfort of my home while in Halifax. My place is simple, clean and very inviting. Weather we wish to visit on the couch enjoying a drink or having dinner in my dining room, I love to be home. This is a luxury I don't always have in a hotel and my guests appreciate all the extra's a home visit allows.

I recently discovered what turned out to be a real gem. I met Kelsey at Vibe recently, for the very first time. From the moment I walked in, I was immediately attracted to this young beauty. Her pictures are authentic and she has a very attractive face. No extensions on this girl, she has long beautiful blonde hair. Her massage technique and body slides were simply amazing. She's new, but you'd think she's been doing this for a very long time. After she took care of my needs, I returned the favor. She's a very thin girl, just as I like. I particularly enjoyed massaging her from head to toe. I just could'nt keep my hands off of this perfect specimen. She makes you at ease from the moment you walk in. A very bright and well grounded girl. She has this infectious cutest little laugh. I thoroughly enjoyed my time spent with her and I highly recommend her, even if this means she will be extremely busy and hard to book from now on. Hopefully she'll be well taken care of, as I'm hoping to repeat with this girl as often as I can.

Another shot at my favorite ... the black dress . Well those who wear it...

Third time around with this SP gets better every time. All the things we seem to look for with no nonsense I highly recommend .

After reading the threads below and similar threads elsewhere, Yuna has piqued my interest since. This past week, I had a chance to see her to satisfy my curiosity. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=218659&highlight=yuna Yuna is a very sweet young lady. The pictures in the AP ad. are of her probably with some light touch up. She is friendly and is very service-oriented - trying her uttermost to please and to satisfy her clients. After sampling the chocolate I brought, which apparently she liked and appreciated, we headed to the shower. On exiting, the fun began with lots of passionate kisses and caressing. She's a very good kisser, her lips were soft and tender, and her skin was smooth and wonderful to the touch. It felt so good to caress her. Then I realized this young lady really loved to be kissed, caressed and pampered. Fortunately, that's what I love to do to ladies as well.:wink: The end result was - we lost track of the time...the pampering seemed to go on and on. Obviously, this sweet young lady loves what she's doing and, this is why the time spent with her was so wonderful and satisfying! I have no hesitation to recommend her and to visit her again.

I have being allowed to give a few massages, two were on massage tables while others were on a bed, I always accepted guidance as my sole purpose was to have my company as happy as I was. It's one of the pleasures I enjoy when I have an extended visit.

Good evening gentlemen! i am available tonight for fun times until midnite. sp or ma, i will bring you to heaven! come see for yourself why i am one of ottawas favorite. private location near fallowfield station access to shower no door fee parking also available for outcalls ****specials for the hungry ones in a rush**** ****I always play safe NO EXCEPTION!**** you are welcome to txt me at 613 261 4169 a bientot xxx Lany

Who is nala and where can I find her?

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Guys, a heads up that Gina is going on a vacation in about a month so if you have her on your TDL keep it in mind. I stick with my previous comment that her massage is the best I've ever had, at least for my liking. I like a good hard massage and she delivers in spades. And the rest keeps getting better and better ..... Gina is my go to girl for many reasons! When I left yesterday all my aches were gone, can't say enough good things about this sweetheart.

To the OP - congratulations for having the courage to not only post your thoughts (in a VERY constructive way), but also having such a positive outlook on life in general. By no means is the verbal/written abuse you see/overhear limited to those in your profession. I am overweight (due to a number of unfortunate circumstances, but I'm getting healthier day-by-day), and in MY profession, I rear remarks such as "He's just a fat f$%^"; not even considering my knowledge, skill, experience, etc. You mentioned augmentation surgery. You also mentioned that you are having it to please YOU - not anybody else. That, IMHO, is the best reason do undergo such a procedure. I wish you the best of luck both now, and in the future.

I like your post. Many times I have read unneeded words written that hurt. I think to myself does the writter know or care the effect their opinion has on the person, their feelings & possibly damaging their reputation. We are all unique & beautiful in different ways. As service providers in an adult industry we are judged in every way. I urge you you not to make decisions that will effect your future based on the words of other people but how & what you feel in your heart that is best for you. In the end you are the only person you have to make happy. How you feel about yourself is what matters. I wish you well Selena

Personally I would limit hashtags to those that either directly hit industry folks or hobbyists or at least the people who are open and into the same sort of interests (IE: bigbooty, datass etc.) especially as you stated you wnat to be discrete. To my thinking, if you do a lot of outcalls and show your face, creating a broad hashtag for your city has the potential to open some not so good doors. I know from working in hotels that they have people flagged with pictures to keep an eye out so anyone hashtagging certain locations or cities could unknowingly put themselves on the "aware" list. This doesn't mean they can't follow an escort hashtag but it does limit exposure. At least you're limiting where you might get re-tweeted to. There are those who are very open and have weighed the risks for themselves personally, and it is a personal choice. Good luck!!

Never met her myself as she didn't respond the one time I tried to contact her, but I do know that her pictures have been getting used for at least 3 years. Beyond that though, I have no idea what she's like

Reverse massage is an option where I am but to be honest it's rarely offered and most of the time I politely decline if it is. In my experience, the clients I've seen take that option the wrong way and assume its an invitation to stick fingers and hands where they don't belong. I'm not opposed to such things, but I would have to get to know someone over a few sessions before being comfortable with that. Asking permission is always appreciated as well. Seems sometimes people forget common manners. If you're offering a massage, give a massage, plain and simple. If I want other things, I'm not shy and will tell you. Otherwise, be respectful.

PARKING - yes E 20off for 1st time visits Sensual Krissy, Rendezvous (Ottawa, West) 613-315-3225 Good day ladies and Gents, krissy here. I am at my Westboro location today. I start with a full body massage from top to bottom, as well as a sensual girl friend experience. We start off with hot shower together, while we soap up lather each other, we start off with mutual massage. Than I lead you to my candle lit room where we continue what we started. Im late 30's, blond blue eyed dd34 (busty) with a tiny waist, just like barbie. My sessions are all inclusive, meaning there is no hidden costs or fees. I am not a clock watcher so if our sessions last a little longer than time stated there is no worries or extra fees, although if you are interested in a 2 hour session or more please let me know in the beginning so that work trough my appointments accordingly and fairly. Thank you xx 1 hour 180 30 min. 100 613-315-3225

I have seen Trinity and the experience was amazing. The pictures are accurate and she greeted me at the door with a friendly smile and attitude. Loved every minute with her. I will repeat again! The location is discreet. If you want more information then PM me.

The only people on my twitter account are those in the industry somehow. However, I do get followers that I do not know - so I do not follow them, until I get a sense of who they are. I don't know the answer though to hashtags. Hopefully someone will chime in.

Voluptuous women with all the curves in the right places possess a universal beauty. Just be yourself and enjoy the ride. You'll be fine.

I have been looking for weeks to find any info on this one. Another forum said she was involved in shady business..

This is an interesting thread - thanks for sharing, everyone. In a way, the hobby helps me explore a different persona. I'm pretty shy with women in the real world (when dealing with intimacy or flirtation), so meeting up with friendly and professional SPs helps me relax that tendency a little. Still pretty shy on the date, but definitely less so!

Made an impromptu visit to Barb's on Tues. evening and WOW did I ever have fun! Managed to connect with a spectacularly gorgeous ebony lady, Jewels. This girl knows how to dance and get the party rockin' - her stage show was special! Was on a limited timeline but had a wonderful duo in the CR with her and her friend Desiree.......I'm smitten! Met another couple of pretty blondes - only name I can remember is Nicole... There were plenty of lovely women and too few clients. I think Jewels generally dances on Tuesdays. You won't need to keep your eyes peeled for her - if she's there you'll know!!!

I think it's all about the Lady. As long as you're meeting someone reputable, I don't see why their home would be any less safe. I've enjoyed very enjoyable visits with ladies who have invited me into their home. Actually, I generally find that setting more comfortable and a nicer atmosphere than a hotel.

Found that I had couple of hours of free time and decided last minute to go get a massage, as I had just come from the gym, and had worked out hard as I had not had time to go during the cold spell. I have been admiring picture of Kristie for some time as Vibe had started to give us a preview about their latest MA. There is not much on her, but what I could find was that she gave a great massage and were several members favourite. She was being compared to Gina, who is one of my favourites. So I took a chance and called and found that she just had a cancellation and I had the time slot. So fate must have been on my side. This is the first time I have seen someone without any previous Emails, PM's or chats. So I was hoping that made the right choice. When I arrived at Vibe, she was at the reception waiting for me. A beautiful girl that had her hair in tight braids, up in a bun. She wore a bra and panties and high heels that made her seem tall. She gave me a hug and brought me in to the room and started the shower. We took off our clothes, and when she removed her High heels, she was then shorter to me :). She is a spinner, slim, perfect bum and perfect breast, and tanned. She was very beautiful and sexy. Has great sexy eyes also. We begin with a shower, and those that know me, know I enjoy showers. And Kristie was a lot of fun in the shower, she has such a perfect body, and she rubbed it up against me and made sure my whole body was clean, and then again made sure it was clean. The shower was fun :). Then on to the table, where she gave me a really good massage, that was hard and light at times. She is good at teasing and can actually do a massage, which I do enjoy and need :). Body slides felt great, then comes the flip, where she was very erotic. She did things on the table, that I had not seen before in a MA session. She massaged me with her amazing oiled breasts. She was so sexy and erotic, that I did not last as long as I usually do. She cleaned me up and massaged me a bit more. Then invited me to the shower for another hot fun soapy time. Congratulations to Vibe Urban Spa. I think that Kristie will be great addition to the team. Guy's I think you will like her, I certainly did. :) She is Beautiful, Sexy and brings a few different techniques to her massage, that I am sure you will enjoy.

Having your family, friends, and community find out about my " work " while on vacation and email me everyday religious quotes .. 142 of them ;(

Hmmmmm... the black dress, on a gorgeous lady! My favorite and delicious Peach!

I am fond of black dress too except may be this case. The Snow White princess in the movie Mirror Mirror (she reminds me so much of another cerbite Snow White Princess, Georgiana Sweet!!).

I very much like the casual look.....especially on a first meeting.....just seems to create a relaxed atmosphere for me. Jeans and a T or Tank :) But this look would most certainly get the blood flowing immediately in one direction for me ;) Thx Cleo

Different fashions, different sexiness... The black dress A cocktail dress, mmm White dress or camisole A bustier Happy New Year !!

The little black dress is a must in every women's wardrobe! This one is my favorite :) I love to wear it on a date! Perfectly hugging my curves, this black lace dress contrasting with my porcelain skin is perfect to wear with a sexy corset under, a garter belt and stockings. I love to a woman! :D

wearing a blue jean is part of something that could be sexy, don't you think so ?

Evening Gowns ... long, flowing, backless, lots of leg.