Leaderboard

There has been a lot of activity in the "turn off's" thread so to increase both the positivity and titillating factors, let's talk about what turns us on. I for one love a vocal partner. One who makes noises of pleasure, who encourages or directs with desire and who loses themselves in the moment. It is even a bigger turn on while using your name! ! What turns YOU on??

My advice is leave it on. what if it falls out of your pocket, gets lost, left behind? How to explain that ?

A genuine smile and laugh. Not much that can make me feel better than knowing I've pleased or entertained. Kissing, light kissing, more kissing, deeper kissing, lips tracing kissing, hello is that your tongue kissing, followed by...a handshake--while kissing! Tongue along my ear. Sets me right off. An enthusiastic, happy greeting. Nothing like getting off to a pleasant, friendly start. Geeky interests and fun conversation. Intellectual connections make for sparks! A partner who doesn't mind saying what she likes and enjoys. I'm not going to be having any fun if I don't think it's mutual, and nothing gives pleasure like pleasing. Finally...boobs (yup, sometimes it's just that simple).

I adore it when someone listens and takes direction. Nothing better then someone who wants to understand what I want vs what they've been doing for years, and thinks their way is the best way. Everyone is different, and what works for one person might not work for someone else. Also, I adore it when they tell me what they want - not whispering, but actually voicing their wants and desires. Whispering implies they are ashamed of what they want - I love the self confidence when someone tells me what they want.

After my wife passed I still wore my ring up until a year later. Not that any of the ladies cared if I was married or not, but I always felt the need to explain it. I don't judge men that are married and see escorts but I just wanted the women to know I wasn't cheating on my wife, for some reason that was important to me.

I think it would be very rare to find an SP who would be bothered by a ring. I do know a few gentlemen who prefer to take it off during time together. It could be stepping into a fantasy, remnants of guilt, respect for the lady or any number of other things. It would be a very personal choice to the person only. If you are not comfortable having it on, then by all means don't but as pointed out, make sure you have it securely tucked away so it doesn't get lost or misplaced. Most SP's only care about your level of comfort and do not get concerned over whether you wear a ring or not.

Ladies? Maybe you have shared some of these feelings in regards to the way we are frequently spoken about.... I have been working in Ottawa since December. Previously, I had been a dancer and had not ventured often into the provider side of things (outside the club of course, I don't believe in Strip Club extras as it's unsafe and in poor taste. I go there to perform) For the most part, my 5 years as a worker of the adult industries has been a great, lifechanging experience. Where there was a lack of confidence, I grew into a strong and bold woman. Where there was a shyness, I now shine in a crowded room. Where there was anxiousness, there is now a re�������� calmness. People don't really understand what it's like to be in this industry. They don't know what it's like to be constantly judged, picked apart, mocked, looked down upon.... Actually, they probably do. But that's probably the most quizzical part of the problem. We are not as worthy because we are shameful in our choices. Do I agree with this? Absolutely not. But not everyone has lived the same path and so I understand that to some people there is no forgiveness in our liberties. Now... I would consider myself a partial libertarianist. I believe that we should be free to do with our lives what we will so long as we do not hurt others. But more importantly I'd like to add that I believe in the power of also caring for yourself, and to always seize the opportunity to better the planet whenever you can. So, now that I've introduced this... let me clarify a few points. I have overheard that I "...come across as a real hustler." If you mean that I am overly ambitious and have strategized a way to multimarket myself to broaden my overall impact on the industry? Then yes, by all means... I am the hustliest hustler ever. But I treat people very well, provide light and attentive interactions filled with laughter and sensuality. I entertain with flair. I will never stop driving towards my goals. I have overheard that I have "...some sag in (my) boobs", "...some sag in her belly as well", "...kinda floppy" ..... May I add that these were comments from people who have indeed admitted enjoying my service in the same reviews? I get it. People can be superficial. But people have also loved my breasts, despite the fact that you didn't. I am getting a breast augmentation not because I want one, but because it hurts to hear people constantly pointing out my flaws, no matter how wonderfully we have gotten along during our session. I have overheard some lovely things! From some people who have backed me up and said that I'm doing a great job and they respect me. People who have applauded my need to become an advocate for the industry. People who saw beyond a shallow misperception of who I am based on judging me by my outershell, or a small glimpse of a slightly grandiose personality via the internet. Why all the negativity? And it's not just me! People feel comfortable talking to me, which is fine. I shall never judge nor share those things... but the fact is that they tell me similar awful things about other dancers, providers, women, friends, girlfriends. I don't like it. Can we all please just try to be a little more human? And girls, stop taking advantage of, or mocking clients in the same way. We all just need a little happiness sometimes, so why not make it easier to find?

I might just be speaking for myself, but I don't believe women to be quite as visual as men. I look for a mental, intellectual connection be it over having the same sense of humour, enjoying the same activities or having traveled to the same places... That's what the question "tell me a little about yourself" refers to... We share quite a bit about ourselves on our websites as judo pointed out so it's thoughtful to tell us a bit about you :)

For those of you who don't know me, I am a mature, sensual, elegant and sassy lady who will lead you astray with all the experience that only maturity brings. I bring an intelligent yet exciting approach to our time together but can also turn up the heat when the moment arises! From soft and sensuous to mildly wild and uninhibited, I am a woman who likes our encounter to escalate to wonderful heights! My schedule (unless otherwise advertised) Monday to Friday - 9am until 5pm Evening appointments and encounters at downtown hotels are possible but only if pre-booked. Check out the about me tab on my profile page for more info! (ie donation requirements etc...) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=27470 Kisses, Meg Please note that I only answer the phone when expecting a call and therefore request that you either text me at 613-282-1560 or email me at [email protected] in order to get the ball rolling.

A man with a plan.

Good morning to you! I am available this morning until 10am then 3pm for max 1hr then after 9pm until 12am I offer sensual session as ma or sp in my private residence near fallowfield station access.to shower no door fee clean 100% independant come see why I am one of Ottawas favorite... you are welcome to txt me at 613 261 4169 or pm A bientot! Lany xoxox

A well-dressed man that smells good is all I need ;)

Leave it on. Believe me we wouldn't be judging you. Most of us probably don't even notice.

Asking a question is one thing. Its when the whole "this is what I want, play by play" scenario that gets old. Some start out with a basic question - I reply, "yes, I enjoy that", and then 3 pages of texts, emails etc start. A brief description is generally sufficient - I personally do not enjoy it when the details start. If I'm into the scenario - then lets get together. You can give me the details when we meet. However, there are so many out there that like to waste time and get off on telling us what they want, but never actually book. However, if it is something I do not enjoy, I tell them right away, so they can keep looking. I have on occasion requested a payment upfront first, then we can go through some of the details. This way, I don't feel like I am wasting my time with someone who just wants to play and not pay for my time.

Maybe this sounds strange, but attention to me as a person. When Lady makes me believe that she is happy to see specifically me by some small signs of caring and attention. For instance, I did not ask for specific outfit but mentioned in the conversation she looks fantastic on that photo - and next time she reproduced it exactly for me. Or I told her about something important for me - and next time I am asked how did situation developed. Small signs but they mean a lot...

613-716-3504 Rosie Meoow

Don't EVER stop being yourself and keep on your path. We only have the present moment to live in. I always live by the rule that it's none of my business what people think of me and with age and maturity, I have really grasped that concept and apply it. You can't control what others will say and do but you can control how you feel and react to it. Those are the most important things I've learned during my time in this business. That and learning to have a VERY thick skin. You get used to it after a while and what people say will usually run off of you like water from a duck's back once you actually give up the control and throw caution to the wind when you stop caring what people think. As for trashing people in the industry, I've seen my fair share of it all around whether it's men or women. There are people out there who don't like me..men and women in this business because they think I'm a bitch, I've been of accused of being an "elitist" and for saying what's on my mind too much. I don't mince words but they don't really know me and they don't need to. If a person wants to judge an SP, let them go ahead because when you really think about it, they don't know you personally unless they take the time and even then they still don't completely know you so does it really matter? Others have judged me for whatever reason but who are they to me at the end of the day? I don't know them and they are not my friends so what they really think of me has no bearing on me. They can all f*ck off for lack of better words. After all, is a belief really a fact just because one person has said or even a few? It's their opinion, it's all subjective and to me, one size doesn't fit all whether it has to do with opinions, looks, service or personality. Yes, Nicki is my alter ego and she is feisty, sexy, sweet, thoughtful, kind, says what's on her mind and the real me is the exact same person. I will never apologize for who I am. I am genuine and authentic and you should never have to pretend to be "everybody's everybody" as I like to put it. I've been told I'm too fat, blah, blah, blah. Just more superficiality bullshit from people with a chip on their shoulder for whatever is going on in their life where they have to take it out on someone else. Once you stop caring about this, you will attract the clients and other people in the business that like you and appreciate you for you. I've heard it all but I actually stopped giving a damn and I'm very much like celebrities in the sense that I don't listen to what people are saying about me. I've just stopped caring and live my life. In this business with the hating and the drama, ignorance really is bliss! I've learned to attract the clients I want through a positive mindset and it really has worked. Forget the haters because you will only attract more. The vibe you put out is what you will get back. Remove yourself from the drama of this industry and live your life according to your rules and trust me, you will only then find inner peace. I no longer associate myself with many others in the business because I don't want the drama. Don't fight it, just leave it.

I like your post. Many times I have read unneeded words written that hurt. I think to myself does the writter know or care the effect their opinion has on the person, their feelings & possibly damaging their reputation. We are all unique & beautiful in different ways. As service providers in an adult industry we are judged in every way. I urge you you not to make decisions that will effect your future based on the words of other people but how & what you feel in your heart that is best for you. In the end you are the only person you have to make happy. How you feel about yourself is what matters. I wish you well Selena

I recently discovered what turned out to be a real gem. I met Kelsey at Vibe recently, for the very first time. From the moment I walked in, I was immediately attracted to this young beauty. Her pictures are authentic and she has a very attractive face. No extensions on this girl, she has long beautiful blonde hair. Her massage technique and body slides were simply amazing. She's new, but you'd think she's been doing this for a very long time. After she took care of my needs, I returned the favor. She's a very thin girl, just as I like. I particularly enjoyed massaging her from head to toe. I just could'nt keep my hands off of this perfect specimen. She makes you at ease from the moment you walk in. A very bright and well grounded girl. She has this infectious cutest little laugh. I thoroughly enjoyed my time spent with her and I highly recommend her, even if this means she will be extremely busy and hard to book from now on. Hopefully she'll be well taken care of, as I'm hoping to repeat with this girl as often as I can.

Hey boys I'm available in Kanata this evening till 815 then I'll be heading to the playmate on Montreal road from 9pm-1am Specials on HH apt I'll also be available early tomorrow am until 1 pm 6138890709

There are a group of these ladies who seem to be working together under the "French" moniker. I can vouch for Angela French (great experience) but have not yet met Lorena. I suspect that they are all legit though. Someone suggested that they had some ties to the former MGF agency that no longer seems to be operating. (They were a legit upscale agency who used to send girls here from time to time.) Not sure if this is true. Either way, give her a try. She looks fantastic. I look forward to hearing your report. ;)

After about 18 years my Electric Range conked out and finally went for a Gas one, what I always wanted. First Culinary Dish I prepared... Grilled Cheese :)

Hi darling, I am sorry this happened to you. Personally I don't find this lady's behavior professional at all. She should have let you know in advance she just needed way more time. Then again that was a planned appt. so she knew better. Myself I am, most of the times, ready at least 15 minutes before the appt. because I just need to sit back and relax a little after I get ready so I don't feel rushed or won't rush you when you come in. It is just pure respect to be ON time. Bisous Barbara xxoo

I think 20 minutes is way to long to wait for a lady. If a gentleman is taking time out of his day to make a quick lunch time frame making him wait 20 minutes takes about half of his appointment time. He may have booked in advance and is expecting his full time . If I make him wait he has to go back to work with half the time promised. I don't think that is cool or respectful, if you book a firm time it should be just that . Even emergencies such as illness can usually be texted in advance.

Today's Schedule Alisonxox 9-4, Aprilxoxxo 9-4, Angela 9-11, Sakuraxx 4-11 Located at 155 1/2 Bank Street, call 613-321-0676 to book a session with one of our lovely attendants Feel free to PM Alison, April or Sakura on their cerb handles for more information on their services! Happy Wednesday, See you soon xxo

I find I get better service/experience with the ring on. Maybe married men make the best clients.

grey and white lace Victoria Secret briefs

Hi gentlemen I'm Megan in town for a short stay. I'm new in town and would love to see what the gentlemen of Ottawa have to offer!! I'm clean, professional and extremely friendly. Please check my personal page for photos and message me for additional information :) Can't wait to meet xoMegan

Because of my Italian roots I made an amazing pasta dish tonight with my secret sauce and recipe.....the best !

I agree, leave it on. The mark where your ring was, will show even more. You're only fooling yourself. I knew someone who gave his wedding ring to a stripper, while at the club for a stag. That was a short wedding!

hahahahaha

...Although Sated, I Want You Aching" Experience The Passion, Feel The Sexuality, Smell The Desire, See The Sensuality, Taste The Pleasure... Pre bookings are more guaranteed. Mondays 2pm - 10pm, Tuesdays 10 am - 3pm Wednesdays 10am - 3pm Thursdays 10am - 10pm Fridays 4pm- 10pm Saturdays and Sundays 3pm - 10pm XO

Hello Gentlemen, My name is Talia. I will fulfill your wildest fantasies. Bring you to a place of pure bliss, Leave you craving for more.. I look forward to meeting with you! I am available today until 5pm! Please identify yourself with your name/handle when contacting me Please note that I do not except calls from blocked numbers or phone apps. Donation: $160hh/$260H Schedule: Today: Available until 5pm Wed. April 6th ~ 10am-9pm Thurs. April 7th ~ 10am-5pm 613.809.2610 http://www.taliaciarra.com

And I completely agree. I know which clients i do and don't click with and am more than willing to wait for them. I wrote this post not to bash those who had written those things, but because to me as a humanitarian, I think that calling out someone's flaws is a very inhumane way to treat others. I am very confident in myself and will never adhere to societal norms just to appease people who don't understand me. I am getting the augmentation for myself but that doesn't mean I'm not upset that it's considered a necessity for women. People are comfortable telling me i "need" surgery to be a successful escort... and that needs to stop. No sp "needs to be anything but themselves. I will never agree with the practice of saying irrelevant things about a provider. Did i treat you well? Did you enjoy our time? Did i do anything that was rude or uncouthe? Those are the important matters. But detailing our personal interactions via the internet where anyone can see them is rude. Just because I was comfortable with that person does not entitle said person to speak of what transpired within our time together. I am so glad for Cerbs ruling on positive feedback only because at the end of the day. Positive interaction should be the most important part of every meeting. We all have flaws, but that doesn't make us less. What makes us less as people, in my opinion,is being that person who only regards someone by their physical representation. i don't want clients who see me just as a shell. I want people who treat me as i would treat them. Anything beyond that seems futile. Additional Comments: This is a problem as well... I have had similar experiences with clients at clubs who have tried to say that I treated them poorly in the VIP, but neglect to mention their treatment of me or unwillingness to accept that i am not willing to perform the acts in which they (usually rudely) demanded. Sometimes it isnt the girl.

Those interested should check out http://www.sexpillguru.com It's a website where Ron Jeremy reviews the pills at the top of the line used by men in the industry. Pretty informative.

To the OP - congratulations for having the courage to not only post your thoughts (in a VERY constructive way), but also having such a positive outlook on life in general. By no means is the verbal/written abuse you see/overhear limited to those in your profession. I am overweight (due to a number of unfortunate circumstances, but I'm getting healthier day-by-day), and in MY profession, I rear remarks such as "He's just a fat f$%^"; not even considering my knowledge, skill, experience, etc. You mentioned augmentation surgery. You also mentioned that you are having it to please YOU - not anybody else. That, IMHO, is the best reason do undergo such a procedure. I wish you the best of luck both now, and in the future.

A lot of this happens, sadly. It does happen to me. Clients being very nice and loving, complimenting me, then those who don't like my body, or a certain aspect. Most are in the head space of a certain level of what they aspect but really they should all aspect kindness, respect, trust, etc., back from the lady. This goes with the client side. I don't stand and judge my clients based on what, because they are uniquely different than other clients I see? Everyone is different. No one is the same. Some gentleman like a certain type of lady, that is okay. Some gentleman like ladies who are educated. Some gentleman like ladies who are "spinners" or skinny/thin, or have some curves with a little flare, or BBW. Comments based on that should be kept inside on the clients perspective but they give reviews on different boards, they talk to each other, they even tell us the truth about our flaws before they leave or some don't. For me, not everyone will like me, I understand that. Comments happen and they sometimes do hurt because it could be a flaw within myself then someone else has the same flaw, it becomes a little depressing. However, don't take anyone's comments, put them in their place make note of them, if you don't want to see them because they are disrespectful but continue to see you and disrespect you, tell them you won't see them because of their negative degrading comments. You don't need the extra stress because it gets to you, then you believe there is something wrong or you aren't good enough. Every lady is shapes uniquely and you shouldn't be pressured into surgery to change that. Deep down do you like your body, nevermind the negative degrading comments, do you like your body the way it is? Do things that you want to do or change not what someone wants you to look like or be.

I just wanted to take a moment to formally recognize Meaghan for the wonderfully supportive woman she is. I have noticed many instances lately where she stepped up to help others, offered advice, leant an ear, offered personal support and resources and even posted to try to keep others safe. She has always been this way however, lately, she has really stepped up her efforts to reach out to those around her and really put herself into this industry. Thanks for all you do Meaghan, it does not go unnoticed!

Well said. I like to push the boundries in my massages with eroticism and sensuality but if I get a "Uh, uh, owwww" then I back off. If however she responds that's she's really enjoying it then I keep going. MA's must meet a lot of disrespectful dickheads all the time so in some ways I like to think of my massages as a bit of a treat for them in place of the usual. One of my fave MA's actually said "no one has ever offered that before". Needless to say we had a great time and I saw her many times since. Sadly now retired from the business.

# waiting # in position

When you wish upon Ms.Star your dreams come true. If you are looking for a magical, stress relieving massage, I am here to serve you. Strong hands, voluptuous curves and long sculpted legs. Come and joint me for a sensual, sexy, seductive massage. @ Spalon (http://www.Spalon.ca) 613-266-1631 text only please [email protected] I look forward to meeting you this evening, xo Ms.Star

Lucy's last night tonight. It was fun while it lasted. Lots of fun. She'll be missed by many.

You are already at a huge disadvantage since people can post whatever they want on there. I just did a random check of the last 10 people to post on BP under escorts and at least 5 of them use photos that are found in many other locations online, and I seriously doubt that a white super model from south africa is currently offering services in Winnipeg via BP ad. If you use Google Chrome as your browser, it's super easy, just right-click on the image and select "Search Google for this Image", this will make it easier on you then making a post on these forums asking..... "has anyone seen this lady on BP"... chances are the entire world has seen her because she's a movie star, model, or actress, possibly in some foreign country. Or even do a search using "Tiny-Eye". So PLEASE! Do yourself a favour spend a few seconds, do some quick homework..... then just come on here, look in the recommendation section or the schedules and announcements section, or even the escort and massage discussion sections, and it will make your life a whole lot easier..... AND more pleasant. Because after all, unlike the magazines, you are not on these forums, "for the articles".

A sweet, hot breakfast in bed! Just the ticket on these cold, winter mornings :-) Let me warm you up with a delicious, sweet, hot breakfast ;-) Available made to order, ready in one hour or two, just for you :-) Let me take your order, now, for a sweet, hot breakfast in bed, today. Available from 9am-12 noon daily, and limited dinner appointments to suit your taste. See my availability here, and make your appointment today for a delicious treat.

Do you love big bouncy perky breasts? Long slender legs? A pretty face? A fit toned body? Do you love to be pampered and spoiled? Want to relax without the pressures of time? Then allow me the pleasure of your company, I'd love to cuddle, kiss and soothe away all your troubles. All you have to do is be clean, respectful and call 902-453-6323-NO TEXTS

LOOKING FOR A LUXURY COMPANION?look no further.. :whipping: Click this bar to view the full image. You may reach me @613-820-8887 :quicky: or you can email me directly @ [email protected] Click this bar to view the full image. Join me for a sensual massage session at our elite upscale location .. .We have a gorgeous hot tub, showers in every room.. and a two person rainfall shower.. that is sure to please.. My no -rush service is sure to leave you feeling pleased and relaxed.. I love reverse massages as well and truly enjoy making my clients happy.. I take extreme pride in my appearance and am always impeccably groomed. You will find me rare unique blend of class, beauty and femininity .I believe in getting to know each one of my clients personally to create a tailored experience.I do my very best to unsure your session is discreet and handled with care. I aim to please!!! I am a passionate woman with incredible sex appeal who enjoys making you the center my world for each of our visits.I am charismatic,sensual and easy going , I believe that possessing these qualities makes me a rare gem!! I strive to leave my clients feeling relaxed and wanting more. My service is for the distinguished ,affluent gentlemen who enjoys the company of an effervescent lady. Lets get to know each other?? :shehot: JAN 14TH 3:30-9PM Height:5'7 Bust:36b Eyes:green Hair: brown RECOMMENDATION: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=N&t=142241 Nationality: French/Spanish

I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.