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There's at least one piece of research out there that suggests that wearing socks during sex (keeping your feet warm and comfortable), increases the likelihood of the-big-o: http://www.sultrydish.com/2013/10/23/sudy-wearing-socks-sex-increases-chances-orgasm/ Something to consider - does pleasure trump style?

....preparing to have the normally quiet and serene den.. wonderfully invaded by a dozen lovely belly dancing friends ;)

I would say why you are declining to be his executor. It just might give him food for thought.

Good morning gentlemen! I have very few availability this week. I strongly suggest you to pre book as I wont be able to take last minute appt. I am available... Today until 4pm Thursday from 9am until 3pm incalls in barrhaven clise of fallowfield station MA and SP offer. dont be shy to TXT only at 613 261 4169 for more details and booking. I ALWAYS PLAY SAFE!NO EXCEPTION! a bientot! Lany

I think I get asked if I will do DFK more than anything else. It felt so strange when I was first asked as i never considered not offering that. Scientifically speaking, kissing is an amazing way to sexually bond with somebody. It releases tons of endorphins and makes the experience closer and better in most cases. Since a connection matters to me all sorts of kissing is important. We are all different though.

Thank you Ladies. And I'll thank you for us older men too. Your all lovely.

Brody Here! Back by popular demand! I offer the full, laid back,quirky girlfriend rendezvous, along with several types of massage . I have big blue eyes and hour glass figure, to go along with a marvelously cheeky and nerdy side! I am a nurturer and a giver and am not well suited with suitors who prefer a quick fix. I am attracted to the whole concept of intimacy and am also into several fetishes, which include feet. I definitely would have to say, that I appeal to several personalities as long as you are respectful and clean. I offer a laid back, sensual tone but also a tone of 'Let's get weird", to the appropriate occasion. I offer out and in calls. In call is offered in our Nation's Capital at a non- commercial, private residence.

The first thing to do is communicate well during the appointment. Maybe she's forgotten some of your favourite details. No problem; bring up the topic of the missing bits with a smile and a laugh, and guide her and the session on the course you had discussed. If you haven't established friendly, positive back-and-forth communication with your provider, then that's your first problem right there. Then again maybe there's some reason why, now that the moment is upon you both, she doesn't really feel comfortable following through. Again, communication during the session is key. Raise the subject in a friendly way to make sure she hasn't forgotten, and if she's not comfortable with X, work together to find another way to have fun that works for both of you. But ultimately, if all of your discussions to resolve the problem fail, then you need to remember that the contract between the client and provider is solely for time spent together in which things will probably happen, but there's never a guarantee. She's a human being, not a vending machine; your money gives you no claim over her body. So all of those details you discussed are requests, but there's never an ironclad guarantee they'll be fulfilled. If you ultimately aren't satisfied with a session, and your conversation with the provider hasn't resolved that to your satisfaction, then just don't go back. Chasing after your money with "but you didn't do X! Give me Y dollars back!" is crass and fruitless. And, last of all: don't compare sex work to other industries. The comparison is always misleading when it comes to these types of up-close human interactions. Your SP is not your mechanic.

I have had to delete two threads in the past 24 hours of people using cerb to vent about things that I like to refer to as AIRING OUT YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY that is not the purpose of CERB and I must delete these posts and give out warnings for such things. For example... calling out a guy who is stalking you in hopes that he reads your thread about him on cerb (THIS WOULD NOT BE ALLOWED!). If you have a stalker CALL THE POLICE do not bring these problems (or encourage these people) to/on cerb. If it is a cerb member REPORT him/her to me and CALL the police. Posting about someone in public who is obviously unstable and harassing you will only make things worse and could encourage that person to escalate his/her attempts to harass you. If you have a TIFF with someone, keep it off cerb please. For example #2... If you work in a massage spa and as an escort on the site and you want to complain in public that guys are coming to see you in the massage spa and talking about your escorting (or looking for "extra's at the spa")... this is something you need to deal with privately not complaining on cerb about it. The point I am getting at here is cerb is NOT to be used as a place to vent, a place to call out other people or air out your dirty laundry. Some things are better dealt with in private or by the proper authorities.

I was perusing a thread requesting spinner recos and spud271 mentioned a lovely young lady I hadn't visited and hadn't come to my notice..... that put me on third base.... and then this lady's colleague, gwengrail, chimed in and knocked it out of the park for me: in fact, such a spectacular homer that I made it to home and went around the bases again. I saw Lacy on Wed. evening and had a very sensuous and sexy visit. She is a gorgeous, slim, young blonde with absolutely spectacular itty bitties and sexy, perky nipples. I was in heaven from the moment she first greeted me! Started off with a lovely soapy shower, then on to the table for the massage and bodyslides - oh! oh! oh! wow! oh! oh! omg... where was I? OH yes.... a most pleasant sharing ...... we eventually retired to the shower for clean up - I don't know what happened during the second shower.... I was somewhere in heaven..... Lacy can also rock the very sexy librarian glasses though she hardly needs them - her sexiness hardly needs any boost! I'm, of course, looking forward to my next visit! She is on the schedule this Sunday at CMJ West (I'm busy) but I suggest that kind and respectful gentlemen start the line-up - once I've won the lottery on Monday no one else need apply - I'll have her fully booked.

Ladies? Maybe you have shared some of these feelings in regards to the way we are frequently spoken about.... I have been working in Ottawa since December. Previously, I had been a dancer and had not ventured often into the provider side of things (outside the club of course, I don't believe in Strip Club extras as it's unsafe and in poor taste. I go there to perform) For the most part, my 5 years as a worker of the adult industries has been a great, lifechanging experience. Where there was a lack of confidence, I grew into a strong and bold woman. Where there was a shyness, I now shine in a crowded room. Where there was anxiousness, there is now a re�������� calmness. People don't really understand what it's like to be in this industry. They don't know what it's like to be constantly judged, picked apart, mocked, looked down upon.... Actually, they probably do. But that's probably the most quizzical part of the problem. We are not as worthy because we are shameful in our choices. Do I agree with this? Absolutely not. But not everyone has lived the same path and so I understand that to some people there is no forgiveness in our liberties. Now... I would consider myself a partial libertarianist. I believe that we should be free to do with our lives what we will so long as we do not hurt others. But more importantly I'd like to add that I believe in the power of also caring for yourself, and to always seize the opportunity to better the planet whenever you can. So, now that I've introduced this... let me clarify a few points. I have overheard that I "...come across as a real hustler." If you mean that I am overly ambitious and have strategized a way to multimarket myself to broaden my overall impact on the industry? Then yes, by all means... I am the hustliest hustler ever. But I treat people very well, provide light and attentive interactions filled with laughter and sensuality. I entertain with flair. I will never stop driving towards my goals. I have overheard that I have "...some sag in (my) boobs", "...some sag in her belly as well", "...kinda floppy" ..... May I add that these were comments from people who have indeed admitted enjoying my service in the same reviews? I get it. People can be superficial. But people have also loved my breasts, despite the fact that you didn't. I am getting a breast augmentation not because I want one, but because it hurts to hear people constantly pointing out my flaws, no matter how wonderfully we have gotten along during our session. I have overheard some lovely things! From some people who have backed me up and said that I'm doing a great job and they respect me. People who have applauded my need to become an advocate for the industry. People who saw beyond a shallow misperception of who I am based on judging me by my outershell, or a small glimpse of a slightly grandiose personality via the internet. Why all the negativity? And it's not just me! People feel comfortable talking to me, which is fine. I shall never judge nor share those things... but the fact is that they tell me similar awful things about other dancers, providers, women, friends, girlfriends. I don't like it. Can we all please just try to be a little more human? And girls, stop taking advantage of, or mocking clients in the same way. We all just need a little happiness sometimes, so why not make it easier to find?

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Have to jump on the Felina bandwagon as well, she would be your best choice!

Doesn't bother me either way (some people suffer from cold feet) but I don't want dirty socks all over my bed Mmm tough question lol

Don't mean to brag but I am amazing at what I do :) I like to start off with a relaxing massage and great conversation. I never get tired, and I hope you don't either. Let's have some fun on this wet, cold day. Let's warm each other up. I love regular visits, so I always try my best to make sure your time is well spent My basic rates are: 100/hh 180/h 240/1.5 I love to also go out and have fun! Open to dinner dates or drinks! Want to just relax? Stop by my west end location and receive my 5 star treatment! No blocked calls/I prefer texts/I don't like to send nudes 613-917-9572

Add to that the Felina's now advertising duos with Lisa (Curvy Woman). I mean, phwoah, talk about a dream team of voluptuousness. I think I'm going to have to save up my sheckles.

Hi all, She's posted before on BP. does anyone have any info. http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/80hhr-special-available-wed-fri-w-et-n-wild-petite-and-fun/1786602 Thanks in advance.

I always have to chuckle at the vehemence most people have towards this, usually the "off" side. You rarely hear from anyone on the "on" side. I for one don't care; it doesn't impact my arousal level at all unless of course they are dirty or smelly and that is a different story. For me it's personal preference for the gent. I know some who have circulation issues and without socks their feet end up freezing which detracts from the pleasure of the moment. Some see them as a security thing. Either way, I'm more about the person being comfortable and focused on either me or what I'm doing to them. As to the whole "graceful" thing, don't worry about it. Socks are one of those things we all deal with and neither putting them on or taking them off is a graceful thing for most people. Whip em off, fall over, have a laugh and then get to the good stuff lol.

Only women could pull off wearing socks and it would be sexy. Guys, no. It's like the equivalent of wearing socks and sandals...you just don't do it RG

Very sorry Guys We are doing certain changes on the site right now, which is why we havent made the big announcement yet,we had problem with our old server, our gallery and schedules will be now posted here: http://WWW.BLE-LIST.com We are improving our mailing list and putting our main focus on our regular clientele, so feel free to join the mailing list for a VIP experience and exclusive offers :)

Luckyme hit all the right notes in his recommendation. It was my pleasure to spend some quality time with the lovely Yuna today, and it was a very, very enjoyable time with a beautiful, petite, awesome lady. I have now seen Sara, Joy, and Yuna, and they are all excellent providers. Thank you Asian Passion for providing such wonderful women!

I met Selena last night. Gorgeous. Hot little thing, better looking in person. Great personality - cute and bubbly. Definitely worth a visit gentlemen! Downtown location was great.

A gentleman who will accept a compliment from a lady saying "Thanks" instead of saying "I bet you say that to everyone."

These types of incidents are known to happen at pretty much any night club (stripclub or otherwise) on peak nights (Friday and Saturday). That being said, I've been a pretty regular visitor of Barefax for years now and I've never heard of this type of thing happening on a Wednesday, let alone as early as 6:30pm. If I had to guess I'd say this was a fluke occurrence, and would have been just as likely to happen at any club. Even Playmate had to eject some people after a fight broke out at their Christmas party this year. And back when I was a frequent visitor of Barb's I saw similar incidents go down at night time. It shouldn't be seen as a reflection of Barefax or its staff IMO. You get enough drunk people together in any enclosed location, these things will occasionally happen. I think you can still go to Barefax on a weekday day time or early evening and not worry about getting shot or stabbed, at least no more than at any other day time stripclub.

Greet me with a Smile, enjoy Kissing and my biggest turn on is when the lady I am with shows me she enjoys the moments as much as me.

Naughty nooners can make you nostalgic for nooky with naked nuts and nips!

I remember people saying they would never need a cell phone, they would never shop online, and that internet matchmaking is only for losers. Actually, people said the whole internet was only for nerds. Technology advances to new frontiers pretty fast. Do you still rent your videos from a store, or have you switched to streaming? Do you still go into a bank and talk to a teller to do your banking, or do you do it all online? From my experience, two things will always win out: ease and reliability. I would tend to think most of the men who turned to escorting had conventional dating methods available to them. But they probably started seeing escorts for reasons that relate to ease and reliability. It's easier and they consistently get a better result. People all say they like the personal touch, but from my experience, their actions indicate the opposite. They ditch the smaller ma and pa independent shops in favour of the faceless less personal big box stores; and then they ditch the big box stores in favour of online shopping so they don't have to look at other people at all.

All these points are valid, and definitely understandable.. from both sides...(SP/MP/client)... and I usually will ask, when I send my initial information out to an inquiry.. whether a person has particular things they like/don''t like being done to them during a session.. whether they can 0rgasm more than once... as well as certain things they may have always thought about, but had never the opportunity to experience.. as these things can make the session even more pleasurable... be it a MP, Ds, or a SP scenario.. to me that just makes sense... and asking for this information has turned most of the sessions into something amazing...(one man came 3 times hehe... some simply enjoy being held at that looovely razor's edge the entire time ;) As for knowing what the person I am going to see looks like.. hehe I have found that just through a few emails they do tend to divulge at least the basics.. and in all my years, I have only ever had one person that I would just really rather not have on my table again.. and that was mainly due to hygiene... or a lack thereof..... I used to post a bit of a restriction but removed that once finding out my table can easily handle 700+lbs ;) If I am meeting with someone in a public place, pictures are usually exchanged (even my face! (hehe) other than that.. I have had very young to very old clients.. some of which I was more attracted to than others.. which is just a given as we are human ;) but for me, as I believe it was said already, it is much more a mental connection, and/or the simple fact that I have been trusted by someone to have them put themselves in a rather vulnerable position and *that* is what I appreciate and enjoy most... puuurfectly lovely on all counts ;)

This, as well as what have been mentioned, passionate kissing, good hygiene, a friendly, respectful and good attitude, and last but not least, an occasional " miss you.." and "can't wait..." phrase -- will do it for me.

Where oh where has Skylar Heart, the drop dead gorgeous, thin beautiful playful, experienced professional to die for with a world class #$%@^A disapeared too???? Anybody...

And I completely agree. I know which clients i do and don't click with and am more than willing to wait for them. I wrote this post not to bash those who had written those things, but because to me as a humanitarian, I think that calling out someone's flaws is a very inhumane way to treat others. I am very confident in myself and will never adhere to societal norms just to appease people who don't understand me. I am getting the augmentation for myself but that doesn't mean I'm not upset that it's considered a necessity for women. People are comfortable telling me i "need" surgery to be a successful escort... and that needs to stop. No sp "needs to be anything but themselves. I will never agree with the practice of saying irrelevant things about a provider. Did i treat you well? Did you enjoy our time? Did i do anything that was rude or uncouthe? Those are the important matters. But detailing our personal interactions via the internet where anyone can see them is rude. Just because I was comfortable with that person does not entitle said person to speak of what transpired within our time together. I am so glad for Cerbs ruling on positive feedback only because at the end of the day. Positive interaction should be the most important part of every meeting. We all have flaws, but that doesn't make us less. What makes us less as people, in my opinion,is being that person who only regards someone by their physical representation. i don't want clients who see me just as a shell. I want people who treat me as i would treat them. Anything beyond that seems futile. Additional Comments: This is a problem as well... I have had similar experiences with clients at clubs who have tried to say that I treated them poorly in the VIP, but neglect to mention their treatment of me or unwillingness to accept that i am not willing to perform the acts in which they (usually rudely) demanded. Sometimes it isnt the girl.

Don't EVER stop being yourself and keep on your path. We only have the present moment to live in. I always live by the rule that it's none of my business what people think of me and with age and maturity, I have really grasped that concept and apply it. You can't control what others will say and do but you can control how you feel and react to it. Those are the most important things I've learned during my time in this business. That and learning to have a VERY thick skin. You get used to it after a while and what people say will usually run off of you like water from a duck's back once you actually give up the control and throw caution to the wind when you stop caring what people think. As for trashing people in the industry, I've seen my fair share of it all around whether it's men or women. There are people out there who don't like me..men and women in this business because they think I'm a bitch, I've been of accused of being an "elitist" and for saying what's on my mind too much. I don't mince words but they don't really know me and they don't need to. If a person wants to judge an SP, let them go ahead because when you really think about it, they don't know you personally unless they take the time and even then they still don't completely know you so does it really matter? Others have judged me for whatever reason but who are they to me at the end of the day? I don't know them and they are not my friends so what they really think of me has no bearing on me. They can all f*ck off for lack of better words. After all, is a belief really a fact just because one person has said or even a few? It's their opinion, it's all subjective and to me, one size doesn't fit all whether it has to do with opinions, looks, service or personality. Yes, Nicki is my alter ego and she is feisty, sexy, sweet, thoughtful, kind, says what's on her mind and the real me is the exact same person. I will never apologize for who I am. I am genuine and authentic and you should never have to pretend to be "everybody's everybody" as I like to put it. I've been told I'm too fat, blah, blah, blah. Just more superficiality bullshit from people with a chip on their shoulder for whatever is going on in their life where they have to take it out on someone else. Once you stop caring about this, you will attract the clients and other people in the business that like you and appreciate you for you. I've heard it all but I actually stopped giving a damn and I'm very much like celebrities in the sense that I don't listen to what people are saying about me. I've just stopped caring and live my life. In this business with the hating and the drama, ignorance really is bliss! I've learned to attract the clients I want through a positive mindset and it really has worked. Forget the haters because you will only attract more. The vibe you put out is what you will get back. Remove yourself from the drama of this industry and live your life according to your rules and trust me, you will only then find inner peace. I no longer associate myself with many others in the business because I don't want the drama. Don't fight it, just leave it.

A lot of this happens, sadly. It does happen to me. Clients being very nice and loving, complimenting me, then those who don't like my body, or a certain aspect. Most are in the head space of a certain level of what they aspect but really they should all aspect kindness, respect, trust, etc., back from the lady. This goes with the client side. I don't stand and judge my clients based on what, because they are uniquely different than other clients I see? Everyone is different. No one is the same. Some gentleman like a certain type of lady, that is okay. Some gentleman like ladies who are educated. Some gentleman like ladies who are "spinners" or skinny/thin, or have some curves with a little flare, or BBW. Comments based on that should be kept inside on the clients perspective but they give reviews on different boards, they talk to each other, they even tell us the truth about our flaws before they leave or some don't. For me, not everyone will like me, I understand that. Comments happen and they sometimes do hurt because it could be a flaw within myself then someone else has the same flaw, it becomes a little depressing. However, don't take anyone's comments, put them in their place make note of them, if you don't want to see them because they are disrespectful but continue to see you and disrespect you, tell them you won't see them because of their negative degrading comments. You don't need the extra stress because it gets to you, then you believe there is something wrong or you aren't good enough. Every lady is shapes uniquely and you shouldn't be pressured into surgery to change that. Deep down do you like your body, nevermind the negative degrading comments, do you like your body the way it is? Do things that you want to do or change not what someone wants you to look like or be.

For those that may not have made the connection. I posted this in the Winnipeg Massage Discussion Section. This is very specific, as this area seems to have issues with being discrete. Stating graphic services in a public forum. Saying "hey does Sally give oxo?" - this is what I am talking about. Why would anyone post publicly that they are seeking a service that is no longer legal - and why would someone post that they purchased illegal services. If you would like to discuss other issues, fine, start a new thread - however, I would like to keep this particular thread simple to the issue of discussing services via a public forum. It is not allowed on this site, so please, just don't do it.

I'm afraid I am guilty on occasion of the short notice request. My job is of the sort where occasionally I wind up with a free afternoon without any advance notice. I'm always careful to phrase it as a non presumptuous request. I'll usually even start with something like "Sorry for the short notice but by any chance....". I've always felt that it was better to ask politely than to assume a no. She may in fact actually be available. So my question is, in light of the preceding posts, is this wrong? Is it still offensive to some or should I continue to ask politely? I know in many situations in life, it is not that you asked but how you asked. Is this one of those cases?

Unfortunately, Trish has left SACA and will no longer be able to be a point of contact for us. (I don't know where she is going or what she will be doing, just that she is still with OPS, but I hope this is a positive for her.) Here is her replacement's information: Sergeant Alison Cookson Sexual Assault and Child Abuse 613-236-1222 ext 5463 [email protected]

Actually i'm watching the voice

I drove from Moncton to Truro to see her and I will many more times. She is great.

I would try it, at least once. Sex is viewed differently by a lot of people. That's just my opinion.

Does not sound like something that I would be interested in... Just my Opinion

She's amazing, nothing bad to say. Great location, unbelievable skills. Extremely easy to talk to

I've seen Tammy in Truro. Lovely lady. Curvy. (A bit more than photos show) . Very nice and great massage and other skills. I would definitely repeat!

Interestingly enough, Donald Trump's presence, and domination of other GOP possibles, almost assures that Hillary Clinton will become the first female American President. I think this is a good thing in many ways. I'm not so keen about the "stand by your man" martyr bit she played regarding her husband Bill, who, regardless of how charming, thought he could lie and BS his way with the American people, and who has pretty much succeeded in doing that. In truth, Hillary probably had her own ambitions in mind all along. And maybe that's ok. So the Trump will continue to make loud noises. And we shall see...

It is a strange state of affairs that needs to search for police that will help SP's. The average police officer should protect and serve sex workers. That should be the standard.

I ended up dealing with Trish again over the recent robbery. She was very helpful in explaining how to proceed and what information I need to provide and what information I did NOT need to provide.

It is a very fine line and one that must always be re-defined and re-established. For myself personally, I prefer to get to know my clients on a deeper level. I encourage conversation and sharing prior to appointments and continued communication after the fact. For me, this deeper connection improves the time we spend together for me as much as for them. As humans, we have emotions. And I have learned over the years that human connection and emotions are something that I require. I have also learned not to let emotions control me. I feel what I feel, but I always keep things in perspective. This is just what works for me :)

Mighty Pen's words speak truth. There are times a provider hasn't prepared for the appointment by keeping track of requests. That would require keeping records and that is something quite discouraged by hobbyists. I don't provide a menu or promise a single service when I book my appointments for this reason. If a guest has a check list of activities that must take place during the playdate, I'm not the provider for him and I'm clear about this upfront. If a guest let's me run the session the way my intuition tells me he will leave smiling and completely satisfied. Walk thru my door with specific services demanded and you will be shown the door but I don't keep the envelop. I think it's dirty money at that point and brings no good to my life from a karmic level. A good provider trusts her instincts and if her spidey sense is tingling, the agreed upon services are at her discretion. She needs to be honest about why she won't provide the agreed upon services if she wants to make the appointment work. Won't kiss? Probably a hygiene issue at hand. No shower? She has probably booked appointments after you that weren't on the books when you set up your appointment and won't have time to redo her hair after you leave; or she feels it's a bad judgement call from a safety perspective. There are a 100 reasons the menu will change. Has the contract been broken? Yes. Is she required to give you a refund of some sort? No but if she's smart she will make it right. It's good business to be honest and keep clients happy. This business is only viable if you can build repeat business and violating the agreement doesn't accomplish that... cat