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Just to offer the perspective of another SP, Id like to second what Grasshopper says here. If an SP doesn't have a recent ad going, its likely she is not available anymore or at the time. Esp here on lyla where payment is not necessarily needed to post ads. If an SP is working, she will definitely be advertising, since itd otherwise be impossible to work. If no recent ads are around and especially if PMs go unanswered, that indicates retirement or hiatus even further. It is up to us when we want to work, not work or retire and its uncool to try to force contact when contact is not sought via ads or an active account. Im sure the OP's intent wasn't to cross any lines and I offer benefit of doubt that he likely didn't think of it this way. But just as we should never contact a client who isn't seeking our contact, a hobbyist shouldn't try to track down the contact info(esp a phone number) of an SP who is no longer actively inviting it. Also, Im not 100% certain, but I believe its against Lyla's rules for anyone other than the SP herself to post her phone number. If a lady is available to be seen, trust me, she will (be dedicated to) make herself visible and list all means with which you may contact her. Some SPs are available but change policies, no longer using a phone, preferring to book only via her site, PMs or email. This is her prerogative. If you can't find the number, she doesn't want to be contacted that way. If she is on hiatus (as I believe was the case here) she will definitely post her availability and contact info if she is ever available again. (sometimes hiatus turns into retirement) Furthermore, some SPs choose to semi-retire, no longer posting ads or using sites like lyla and only seeing a small pool of regulars she hand-selected, who she privately invited to continue seeing her. Again, this is her prerogative. I'm sure no harm was meant, but please try to keep in mind that we are individuals with our own lives and it is solely up to us who we do and do not see, how we wish to be contacted etc.. And just as you would not want us to contact you if you stopped hobbying, SPs would like to have their decision to be unavailable respected too. This business more than any, is one that sees its members coming and going. Given society's views on the industry and its risk of effect to our personal and (career) professional lives, discretion and the respect of it, is priority #1 for both parties.. we both need to respect each other's privacy and each other's rights to bow out (even without warning) and trust each other to respect our decisions. This is in no way a rant or an attack. I'm actually glad this was brought up so that we can clarify that this (OP) goes against etiquette and to explain the rationale behind this unwritten rule for both parties. Not everyone is going to see all aspects of the whole picture, esp when blinded by lust for a gorgeous beauty such as Grasshopper :-P . Desire can cause us to act without thinking things through thoroughly so something that seems obvious to some, comes as a shock to others and a *facepalm* with 'OF COURSE' moment to others, so its good to create dialogue about it so that other's may benefit. Its all about mutual respect. xoxo

It is my belief that a transgender woman is a woman, and not a man playing dress up or pretend. Nor--and I think this is key to your question--do I think a transgender woman is being deceitful simply for presenting herself the way she is. I gather from your post the ladies you're speaking of have transitioned, and now have a body that matches their identity. I'm glad to live in a society where people can truly be themselves. And if these ladies happened to have some surgeries in the past, well then no, I don't think I as a client would have a right to that information any more than I expect any other lady I spend time with to disclose all of her medical history. I don't mean to be flippant or dismissive. I understand why you'd ask the question and why some might struggle with this topic. But when you say "many unsuspecting clients would be very upset if they found out that the person they thought was natural woman used to be man", my thought is that is their problem, not hers.

I have worked as an MA and SP. However, for the MA donations, I found that I was being asked for more and more - without the extra donation that should go along with it. In my opinion, if you want the more intimate activities - see an sp who is trained in massage. One of the main reasons I no longer advertise MA services - even though I do provide them, it seems that everyone wants the full deal without the donation. If I am going to provide a service that has any type of health risk, I expect to be paid fully for it. Kissing has some basic risks.

Sharing a number from third hand is not appreciated from all SPs. I would say some of us don't feel comfortable with that kind of request. This might also be the reason why nobody awnsers...

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A person's surgical and medical history is literally no one's business but their own. If you are not okay with the possibility that someone might have something in their history that makes you uncomfortable but has zero real impact on you, then you should both do some personal reflection on your internalized homophobia and find a different hobby. Trans women and sex workers, particularly trans women sex workers, are already at incredibly high risk of violence, criminalization and poverty. The idea that they owe anyone any explanations about their past and medical history is ridiculous, and increases the likelihood that some entitled person is going to be violent toward them or out them and damage their business. Trans women sex workers are extremely aware that there are people out there who would be angry if they found out that they weren't cis. The "trans panic" defence has been successfully used by men who murdered trans women, as recently as 2005, in the case of Shelby Tracy Tom (and possibly more recently.) When a trans sex worker decides to not disclose her status, she is making a strategic risk-reward evaluation and business decision. There are very specific expectations that most clients who see trans sex workers have, and that almost always includes having a penis that gets erect. Post bottom surgery, it makes pretty much no sense business-wise for a trans woman sex worker to advertise that she's trans. And for those of you who have outed trans women on this site - and I have seen it happen, stop it. Cut that shit out. You are placing the comfort of strangers on the internet over the real life safety and privacy of a vulnerable woman. That is not an okay or humane decision. Trans women are women. Full stop. No woman owes her clients information about her irrelevant medical background. dragon66_61: Have a little respect, and treat trans women like human beings instead of objects or animals. It is never appropriate to refer to someone as "it" and I can't imagine what would make you think that was okay. If you can't recognize the humanity of sex workers don't see them. Find another hobby and stick with jerking off. 500 Pound Gorilla - being trans has nothing to do with sexual orientation, nor does being a sex worker who has male clients. There's zero reason to assume that a trans woman was having sex with men prior to her transition/work.

Hey all, was a little cautious about meeting someone like this because I find it almost to good to be true... almost. I was glad I bit the bullet and seen her, absolutely amazing cute and very bubbly attitude. She strives to please and made my time very enjoyable. I was worried about being rushed and she took her time. I requested that she wear something and she did here best to please. 10/10 would recommend and more than likely be seeing here again what an amazing young girl.

Kind of the point of transitioning is that the person is now female. I can't see any legitimate interest a client has in knowing that was not true at one point. No, scratch that - I guess *maaaaybe* I could be persuaded that a client could reasonably want to know whether an SPs breasts were implants. I'm not sure I'd suggest *any* SP, cis-female or transitioned, actually has an obligation to reveal that, but I can at least see a reason a client would want to know. But used to be male? No more relevant that "used to live in BC", "used to be a conservative", "used to drive a convertible", or any other "used to".

Very interesting topic. Kissing is enjoyable when someone has a fresh breath and healthy mouth and teeth. Another thing makes it very enjoyable too: when it is delicate, done at the right moment when we feel like doing it, and not forced with the full tongue deep in the throat, and just that for a whole date. I have noticed a growing trend for a request that I would call the "Deep Diving French Kiss" which is pretty much swallowing the mouth and tongue of a lady during a whole session! Although it is understandable to want to be kissed during a session with a lady (although some gentlemen do not care about that), I find this growing trend overwhelming. Because it can also feel very mechanical for a lady to be kissed during a whole date as if you were visiting the depth of the ocean... Not that pleasant! So there are probably ladies who enjoy kissing, others that don't at all, and those in between. This has to be checked with them. As for me, it will be under the conditions I mentionned above. But it seems that the request for a Deep Fr ench K iss is becoming something else, such as something more. Never forget that the most intimate things we all share in life are our feelings... and our kisses!

Hey everyone. Went and saw Alexis from BP in Newmarket. Smoking little body on her, very comforting and easy to talk to. Will I repeat? Yes.

I would be curious, in all this blabbing and exchange of semi-insults, to know about a transgender SP. Unlikely to happen since it doesn't seem to interest them that much. This is the kind of subject everybody has an opinion on and fight over, when deeply, it doesn't even worth the shot. So here's a pretty good solution to your question: - Disclosed on ad and willing to take the shot: GO! - Disclosed on ad, but not interested anyways: DON'T! - Not disclosed on ad, and would be willing to try: NICE! - Not disclosed on ad, and not willing to try: BRUSH IT OFF. Sorry for hijacking the thread, but this is now turned to ridicule. Lesson of hobbying #1: Transgender or not, an SP is an SP, and she (or he) has the liberty to run her (or his) buisness the way she (or he) wants. Whatever you say won't change that.

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had a great time with her. young and beautiful. worth a visit.

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Chrystal is a fabulous SP. Aside from all of her obvious physical attributes, she has a great fun-loving yet very sexy personality. I have seen her a number of times in various cities, both by herself and in duos, and she has never come close to disappoint me. You picked a perfect companion for your first experience.

Thanks for the useful info, Genevieve! This will definitely help.

This past week I was fortunate to spend the afternoon in the company of not one beautiful curvy woman but two beautiful, sexy, curvy women. I had an afternoon duo date with Camille Haring and Evelina Lowell, who were both visiting from Montreal. Camille and I had been communicating for almost two months to try and get our schedules aligned, and finally the big day came last week. But a day before, in one of my "is everything still good for our date" emails, I noted that she was travelling with a companion, and Camille replied "would you like for her to join us?" It took me all of five minutes to say "yes". The day arrived and off I went and met them at their hotel room, and we proceeded to get acquainted over a bottle of wine. If you have read my recommendations before, my typical dates tend to last a long time and if the chemistry exists between my date myself, we soon get into a routine of talking and flirting, followed by kissing and making out, then some really hot fun, and final some cuddling and more talking. This routine is repeated as often as we can fit it into our time together. Well, when there are three on a date, and everyone is feeling the chemistry amongst us, then the afternoon quickly became one long session - - we started off with talking an flirting over a shared glass of wine (and I mean shared as we only had two glasses for the three of us), - we then moved into some kissing and making out - it was then that i found out that Camille and Evelina had a thing for each other - a really hot, hot, hot fun time - lots of ganging up with two pleasing one and finally, - cuddling and talking - but this only occurred for about the last 15 minutes of our date What I really noticed was that as the fun time went on and on and on, as one person got tired, they "tagged out for a break" and the other two continued - the chemistry between the three of us was there for the entire afternoon. Needless to say, I left the hotel after one of my best dates ever and I was one very tired but happy Sluggo - and i am looking forward to my next "experience" with these two lovely and beautiful women again.

I would recommend Gina

There are several Winnipeg ladies that advertise on BP that are well known and respected to make the assumption that all adds on it are sketchy is foolish. Like every other transaction caveat emptor!

Although I do not wish to be associate in any ways with that website, I can give it what its worth. There's a lot of wonderful SPs advertising on there. Some dont even know of LYLA and E-C. Also, some SPs on here are using it as a complement to their marketing. But all the ''fakes and flakes'' (to cite CK) are burrying them under their crap. That's the exact definition of diamond in the rough. Do your homeworks properly (I can provide a list of well known and reliable tools), do not rely to much on mouth-to-ear or rumours (a hobbiest opinion can always be bias or shill), see if she has a reco. Then, ask for inputs to reliable members, if you still not sure. First and foremost, FOLLOW YOUR GUTS (not your d***). Stay safe, and have a nice day!..

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I totally agree with Emily, just add the fact that I want to avoid meeting someone in my circle connection, clients who are 37+ is preferred ago for me. And yes, I have similar experience with young gents. Someone emailed me "I have 60 bucks, European, super handsome you would f*** me for free" or "Today is my 20th birthday and I would like to loose my virginity to you, can you see me for free"...

I just got back from visiting my son and his wife in Alberta. This girl kind of stole my heart, she does not know it yet but she will be calling me grandpa. Yes that's right they had a gorgeous little girl and she is so pretty. I'm a proud grandfather now.

If she has fully transitioned, and physically is a woman, I see no need to disclose at all. The customer is getting exactly what they expected. Time with the woman they booked with. If the individual has not fully transitioned, then yes, disclosure is required.

She made Cowboy's Diary: http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?attachment_id=11104

Go, have coffee. Be somewhere public. See what happens. She may just want to talk with a friend who has been supportive. If she suggests anything else (takes your hand,etc.) just be polite and explain your situation and that you really value and want to continue being her friend. If you go straight to "i don't want you to think this is a date" she might actually be offended that you misinterpreted her intentions.

I have been to DC many times and I would say it is a safe place to hobby, as long as you stay away from the type girls who only advertise on BP, the ones who have no website or any sort of online presence. You will have plenty of reliable ladies to choose from on Eros, Slixa, P411 and Date-check. Ladies also fear LE, so be prepared to provide screening information such as strong references, proof of employment and potentially a deposit.

Personally, I prefer booking in advance one day as this is not my only job and I am not living at my incall location. I also need time to get ready (yea, we are women!) and go there (both incall & outcall). Besides, I take screening seriously (please understand, it is for my safety) so one day in advance is enough to exchange the information and confirm booking. As your question, I usually respond within 30 mins to the first email but to meet you in 30 mins/1hr is impossible for me. To me, a proper booking email will make it much easier for both the lady and the gent! I prefer it should be: Hello "lady", My name is "...", short description about yourself. I saw your ad on "..." and interested in booking an appointment with you on (date, time, lenght). These are my references (contact info of the ladies you met)

I'm new here too but have been on other boards. The ads here on Lyla seem pretty legit, I would avoid Backpage ads mostly because I think thats where you'll find a lot of bait & switch etc. I suggest using the recommendations here as a guide and also the girls announcements. Also, if a girl has a website that's a good sign that she is legit.

I met Selena last night. Gorgeous. Hot little thing, better looking in person. Great personality - cute and bubbly. Definitely worth a visit gentlemen! Downtown location was great.

Back when I was a dancer, I learned quick to look for the ring indentation and/or tan line. I never understood why men would come in and lie about their status. Personally, I don't care at all if you're wearing a ring or not, as a dancer back then, or an escort now, as long as, like others mentioned, it doesn't get in the way. If it were me in that situation, I'd be so scared of losing it, I'd be paying more attention to it's safety in my pocket versus if it were on my hand as usual where I wouldn't think twice about it.

I, too, like both professional and selfie photos. I do this on purpose. Professionally done photos are beautiful and the angle is perfect and everything is just right, and that's great. But, there's a fine line between tweaking a photo to make it look better, and full on photoshopping it to make yourself look different. Ok, maybe it's not that fine of a line. But still. In any sense, I throw in some selfies and the like, to prove that I look like this no matter who's behind the camera. Works for me. :)

Seems inconsostent. I went to see "Tiff" yesterday and I'm fairly sure she's not the same person in the pictures. The Tiff i saw had some minor tattoos that should be visible in the photos above and is a bit on the healthy side and in her late 20s but definitely not below 25. The phone numbers are the same - unless I was a victim of bait and switch. The Tiff I saw is nice though but I don't see myself coming back.

I don't answer phone calls either. I used to, but found I was getting all sorts of pests who just wanted to ask questions, entertain themselves, and waste my time. I deal with much less BS now that I'm email/text only. Everything begins with me via email. As for how to approach me in those emails, I think it's attractive when a gent words things in a classy and creative manner when asking about something specific that he is looking for, or needs, in a date. As others have mentioned, asking questions is not off the table...but it's all in the approach.

I used to book only via phone call. But I quickly realized how much I hated talking on the phone. Plus, I was getting a lot of spontaneous people that others mentioned, who would book the same day, but not show. Then I switched to email, and it's made things much easier. Now, new friends are to book ONLY by email. Phone calls don't get answered and texts get a "please review my website" auto response. To avoid time wasters, I won't book a date without a cell number, and on the morning of our date, I insist on a text message from that number. If it doesn't happen, we don't have a date. It's filtered out a lot of BS for me. Some prefer to actually speak to the client/provider before agreeing to a date. Whatever works for you and you are comfortable with, then THAT is the right answer. :)

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