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As said previously by everybody, as far as you do not cross any boundary, all is fine. Because think of this: if you enjoy so much this lady's company, wanting more could ruin everything to the point that you could not see her anymore, whether it being your decision, hers, or both yours. Sometimes it does happen, and it is sad. I call it "the painful paradox" when we, ladies, have to stop a lady-gentleman relationship because we have been good at it! In a way, it does not make sense, right? But we are human, and this is a very special business, so sometimes territories can seem blurry. So the strong advice is to stay on the fun and plesant side of it ;-)

Don't ever forget that you're buying a DREAM. If you're feeling that way about your SP, it's because she skillfully and brilliantly fulfilled her part of the deal. Be thankful for that and graceful enough not to ruin a good thing. Enjoy your relationship to the fullest, let your SP know how much you ''appreciate'' her, but don't ever cross the line between fantasy life and real life. Nobody wins when that happens.

Short answer: as long as you're both enjoying it. Long answer: as long as you're both really enjoying it.

I actually canceled an appointment with a very lovely lady and donated that money to the cause. I would like to thank her for being very understanding. Something to consider maybe.

For those of you who don't know me, I am a mature, sensual, elegant and sassy lady who will lead you astray with all the experience that only maturity brings. I bring an intelligent yet exciting approach to our time together but can also turn up the heat when the moment arises! From soft and sensuous to mildly wild and uninhibited, I am a woman who likes our encounter to escalate to wonderful heights! My schedule (unless otherwise advertised) Monday to Friday - 9am until 5pm Evening appointments and encounters at downtown hotels are possible but only if pre-booked. Check out the about me tab on my profile page for more info! (ie donation requirements etc...) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=27470 Kisses, Meg Please note that I only answer the phone when expecting a call and therefore request that you either text me at 613-282-1560 or email me at [email protected] in order to get the ball rolling.

Pretty normal I'd say, especially early on. Good providers can make one feel like they are the centre of the universe which can be confusing. Sort of like people who have affairs and ultimately end up together often find the stolen moments and special times are very different than a 24-7 365 routine and the fantasy quickly wears off and they flare out. Balance is the key. Peace MG

was at pigales today for supper. lots of beautiful ladys Sable, skyla, gabrielle, trinity, champagne, Olivia and many more. there was about 25 girls at supper time. My 2 favorites are Sable and Skyla.

April is tall, strong and super sexy! A soft woman, who loves to please and be pleased ;) April is the woman she is - she doesn't mess around! Her smile, her hair, her bum, and her lips - pure delight! If you want her, she will know that, and she will respond. And you will be a very happy guy;) April is a special woman - worthy of desire and the greatest respect!

Yes, actually the whole thing is quite clever and it deserves description here - in case others are in the same boat. The add uses my name (there are as far as my research thus far indicates - no other providers in Ottawa who uses this name). It includes details that make the add believable in that it includes reference to my sensual massages, my openness towards men and women alike, the type of location etc. Curiously, it also describes activities that I have engaged in previously, in my own private life, fairly accurately. The picture though, is stolen from another girl who shares many of my physical features (and who as far as I am aware does not herself advertise thusly) - and this is the kicker because... it prevents me from claiming that my image was used without my consent and in an inappropriate (and illegal!) fashion. This leaves me with no recourse. I filled out the "contact form" on the site - which always results in an error message preventing me from proceeding (lending further support for this being an entirely fake add). The concerning aspect of this add however, is that it indicates that I am willing to engage in any sexual activity with anyone ...at any time and any place. Indeed, given that the add is open to the public and graphically describes sexual activities for sale means, under the current legislation, that the poster could be prosecuted (under current procurement laws) and the site administrators could be as well (according to recent legislation - December 2014). That is, they could if the add was for a real person... And yes, the review was "positive" in that the writer seemed to have had a good time with this fictional character...but the end result could be incredibly negative for me. So..all this to say... I advise others in the adult industry to google their name and look carefully at the content that comes up. Document everything (as I do - screenshots etc) Better to be aware of these things right away and take the necessary steps to protect yourself. Happy weekend everyone K Additional Comments: as soon as I said procurement...it was gone. I have the picture that was (presumably) used without her consent though. Anyone know her so she can be warned?

Mi I have men fall in love with me all the time but they are falling in love, not with me but the fantasy or the idea of me. While there are qualities that I bring to the table as an SP are the same as my private life, being an SP is just an extension of me. Not completely who I am. Dont get creepy or become a stalker and you will be fine. Let her know how you feel but never expect anything in return. It's a real big turn off for someone to say this and then feel put upon. My turn off is what we call "Captain save-a-ho". This is what we do for a living and by most accounts speaking for myself or other ladies I know, we are not damsels in distress looking for someone to save them. Many men like to try to fall into that role and when I witness that, I let them go as a client and run for the hills. While this is mostly isolated incident on the whole, some men do overstep their boundaries and ruin a good thing. When clients fall for SPs, it means she is offering the best experience but never have real life expectations . Behind closed doors, fantasy never mirrors reality. All you can do is enjoy the moment. Like Meg said below, if you knew the real me... Not so much nice fantasy anymore. Hehe. Enjoy me as an SP, not the real me! Ask one of my sugar daddies..lol.

Tell me it's normal... to fall for your first sp. I know I should perhaps broaden my experiences but the few times I've seen her she's been all I need. Just another stupid old man I guess.

Here in PEI it's almost time and I can almost set my calendar with their arrival. May 15th is the date although last year they arrived two days early. Today I put out my ten feeders so I am ready to welcome the little guys.

I have already sent money , I encourage everyone on here to help Fort Mac, Fort Mac is the reason Halifax, and Nova Scotia exist in the form they do today because of the good jobs from Alberta, I am thankful and all of the Maritimes should be as I don't think we would exist if it wasn't for all the good years of good jobs in Alberta. Please help the people of Fort Mac many of them from Atlantic Canada .

They don't even leave Victoria. The feeders are left up year round here.

I have mine up since about a couple of weeks ago. Guess I am too eager and an optimist! So far I have no sighting to report yet...but I am waiting.. patiently ..for my friends, and they have never failed me! :)

I think the biggest turn off is when the person won't take the time to actually get to know me and prefer I be a one stop shop with a menu and rate list ready. I like fun, laid back and genuine experiences.

I am getting so frustrated with people being afraid to come see me because I am in the north end of Halifax...I really wish people would stop discriminating people and places...you will find good and bad people everywhere in the city...i would never invite someone to my in call location if I felt you were in danger in any way..I have a clean comfortable location and I always go out of my way to make sure you are comfortable and feel relaxed .. read my reviews .. thank you that is my rant for the day! Have a good one

She also posts on Craig's list under therapeutics services...her ads are up every day monday thrue Saturday...treat her with respect, she is wonderful and contrary to what someone said...she is not skinny...just perfectly built (in my opinion) ... https://ottawa.craigslist.ca/ths/5486309617.html Additional Comments: Definitely but she works with these limits and that is perfectly fine with me...you can just dream about more and what's wrong with that...the world is made up from dreams

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=235941 Posted today a short while ago. Glad to respond to your first post since joining the board years ago!

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... Click the image to open in full size.I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm

I happen to be around London at the time and decided to txt her. She was very easy to communicate with and when we met, she was stunning! The moment i walked into that room... Phenomenal!! I still cant stop thinking about what happened! She is amazing and knows what she's doing. I highly recommend her. Totally on another level!! Definately a repeat if i ever find a chance to meet her again! :)

Thanks - she certainly is a gem but I guess they all are :) And I certainly hope I don't come off as creepy and clingy - I realize what her end of the deal is.

I have organized these type of dates. One of the biggest issues I found - lots of interest, but then when it comes time to play, people back out. So, I always get a deposit - not the full amount, but an amount that proves they are serious in their decision to play. I also host coffee dates with those that feel more comfortable knowing who they are going to play with. As well, those that want to play, must have a go ahead from another provider. Nothing worse then one person who is so off that it changes the dynamics of the date. Good luck - they are a lot of fun - a lot of work to organize, but a lot of fun!

Considerate, caring cunnilingus can cause considerable consensual coitus!

In my experience you have nothing to worry about in disclosing some personal, verifiable information to a reputable lady from this board. The ladies understand that not everyone will have a reference. In some instances it is because it is your first time, or it may be because ladies you might have called on have retired. In any event, there are other ways of providing verification. Just ask.

Sorry I haven't replied to the PMs about the Cab and GoGo. Just got confirmed a few days ago and didn't want any more false BS spread. No Name will be given. The GoGo (Nothing to do with the GoGo or staff at the GoGo) Dimes for donuts. Not safe after closing, Happened 2 times (non-regulars) If you partake in coffee after closing go to your own not theirs. (hasn't been a issue the past 2 weeks, No reports) I believe they went home, Opening weekend. Be extra careful, they might have returned. The Cab (Nothing to do with The Cab or staff at The Cab) Out of towner bad at math, Keep missing by 2 - 5 (depending on amount of water consumed) Out of towner personal security Avoid going for coffee at there place. (Might be related to above issues unconfirmed) After club participation. After working at the club you have gone with your new friend for participation, personal discussions. The information you received from the lady has been verified as positive participation. Go have your participation, personal discussions verified. This can cause your future discussions and participation to be uncomfortable if not verified quickly.

didn't occur to me...done

You don't have to feel ashamed of falling for your first SP. Be careful, tho. Is your service provider aware of what you feel for her? If so, what does she thinks about it? Maybe a little chat with her, sharing how you feel for her, and see how she feels about it would be your next step... We are sure courtiseanes, but also great councellors... P.S.: To echo what Peachy said, respecting her bounderies is mandatory. You wouldn't want to scare her off, or put her in an akward situation...

It's only normal if you are human. ;) We experience incredible closeness and intimacy with some of these ladies. It is only natural to develop feelings. In fact, the ladies who's company I have enjoyed most are the ones that connect with you beyond the physical. Just try to keep it all in context in your mind. Enjoy your time with her, but see others as well. Enjoy the fantasy that makes these relationships so special. Just make sure to respect the boundaries of the relationship. If you start getting 'creepy', you may end up putting an end to a good thing. Most of the ladies are pretty good at separating their private from professional lives and will do what it takes to guard that division. Otherwise enjoy yourself. It sounds like you have found a gem.

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I love this club, even when its slow they keep the continuous dances going, the atmosphere is friendly and relaxed, shout out to the staff,a few have been there more than 20 years. I met Molly, a young, very cute blonde Gatino girl with a baby-voice and a golden brown tan on her totally bangin' body. Ruby, the tattooed ebony Rhianna lookalike has long hair now, looking good. Sophia is looking hotter than ever, ����� (?) spinner , sexy tats Serenity, still hot with her pale blue eyes and black hair like a Celtic Queen. Eva, the burlesque girl from the Fax, always keeping it fresh, love that girl. Naomi, East African model looks like Iman, hot ! Chelsea, petite ebony, I miss her blonde hair, but she's still beautiful and very sweet. And many more, may God bless them !

Wearing a smile always works for me.

Yes. She is fantastic! Friendly, pretty, talented. And sweet.

I agree, it' a turn off if there is no clear initiative in the gentleman's initial contact. However I love it if the gentleman takes the time to write something about himself, beyond a physical description... Hobbies, whatever he may be passionate about... Then we have things to talk about!!

Too cute Don't mess with me!

I have had the pleasure also visiting Vivian. Her magical teasing,touching and massage was fantastic. This lady is friendly,gorgeous,and has one helluva sexy body. Repeat? Yes I will. The nice thing about visiting her it was not far from work for me. ;)