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I am not so sure that the drop off in activity here is attributable to people changing their habits because of the new law... I think the impacts of the law on this site has been more driven by how the rules around what we can or cannot say have been imposed. I totally get that at the start of all this the owners of this site needed to protect themselves so they acted to ensure their risk was managed and I assume they continue to do that and you know what that is certainly their right... I am just suggesting that these new rules have dramatically impacted the discussion here. Let face it this is a site about sex and the business of sex yet we can't actually talk about sex. This restriction on speech has made the discussion way less interesting so clients have less interest in hanging out and participating and frankly the strict application of the rules by the MOD (just doing his job) has resulted in the suspension or banning of a number of ladies who in the past tended to... lets say invigorate the discussion. So i think it's fair to suggest that the fear of the impact of being suspended has caused many to step back and if the ladies are not engaging then us guys quickly lose interest... we might come in and check the ads but we don't contribute like we used to. In regards to the way we treat each other and the impact that might be having ...I have been a member of this board for over 5 years now for most of that time I lurked in the background and listened and learned.. in fact learned a great deal. About 3 years ago I decided to become more active and up to recently I have tended to post regularly ... Now given the fact that I tend to have an opinion on everything some might suggest that I was too active and a little less opinion from Ice4Fun might be a good thing.... and that may be fair and they are certainly entitled to their opinion too. My approach has always been you post something people are free to agree or disagree ... comment on it or ignore it... kinda like if Ice4fun's posts bug you then don't read them or if you disagree with me I am fine with you telling me that publicly in the thread or in a PM if that would be more appropriate. This should be an open forum with a few restriction put in place by council and the Mod so that everyone's voice is open to be heard but perhaps we just need to hear more voices. I have found this site to be a great place to do research and to learn.. to chat .. and of course to meet amazing people and not just all the wonderful sexy ladies but people like Tom (the Liquor) who significantly impacted me with the way he approached the issues in his life. This board has been and I think still is a very valuable resource that we should all cherish and protect but we should also all realize that its open nature and welcoming atmosphere is not a given and if WE the members don't stand up for its values then it can be lost. It certainly would appear to me that since the new laws were enacted that the volume of posts have declined ... there are less unique threads and we are seeing a smaller group of voices being heard (mine certainly being one of that smaller group) and I am not sure that is a good thing. Now it might be that we still have lots of active members just more are choosing to lurk because of the new law or it could also be that many members, both new and old, have chosen not to post because they have seen how a poorly worded post or an ill-informed comment can result in their being beaten up in post after post by some members either intentionally or unintentionally and sometimes because they have a personal grudge to advance and now see an opportunity. For an industry that has amazed me by the individual tolerance levels for diversity that its members demonstrate each day I have been somewhat shocked by the lack of tolerance for diversity of opinion that we as a group often show here in our posts. I said WE because i have taken some time over the last couple of days to review a number of my posts and have seen occurrences when my eagerness to post "my opinion" has meant that I have not always considered how the wording of my comments might be perceived by other on the board with different opinions. This is something I will have to work on personally and I am certainly open to encouraging any member who takes offense to one of my posts to call me on it ... pop me a PM ..if I screwed up I will be happy to reflect and correct it. Many regular members on this board have had a good chuckle at me over the last couple of years because on a couple of occasions I have gotten frustrated by some of the drama that I see here on the site and walked away only to return a month or so later... what can I say in my real life I am not much of a quitter so why be one here but I wonder how many people have just walked away or regressed into the shadows restricting their posts to the fun and silly threads because they feel if they express a real opinion the self appointed site police come out and bully them into silence. Lets face it the ladies on this site use it to generate income so they can't afford to get into a pissing match with others members and risk being baned or suspended so I think we are seeing lots of ladies who are biting their tongue and putting up with it to avoid drama... so they just place their ads... make a few frivolous posts and stay out of the Drama... Somehow that type of atmosphere is not what I think we the members wanted or expected as this is after all the friendly community. Just my Opinion

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It's true, the walk-in traffic has been going downhill for years, and the recent construction on Queen has brought up a lot of problems with parking/access. A lot of girls have trouble earning a good amount on days they have no regular clients scheduled lately I find. More and more girls upset in the DR. The solution for many has been to either leave, or reduce the amount of days they work. Dancers don't like gambling. And you guys don't like grumpy dancers :p It's not just strip clubs though, traffic in all bars has decreased over the years, people would rather stay in and netflix seems like.

79 - support given and received. I have grown both as a provider and a woman because of this.

I kinda feel it's fine to keep sentimental objects if you have the space for them... they may not actually get your attention all that often but they have an amazing power to transport you to other times that contain powerful memories for you. I have learned in the last few years that things that were simple silly sentimental trinkets can become the lasting connection that you can have with people who are no longer in your life... I have things from my daughter that just the very sight of can help me get through the day. So hey if you want them keep them.

I wonder if everyone has their own little slice of heaven? For me here in rural PEI I know that I do. It's pretty crazy now that my kids have all left home for other provinces and my wife has passed away that I keep this property. I have the pretty stereotypical PEI home - a huge old farmhouse that I constantly renovate, 15 acres that a neighbor uses to plant in grain or soybeans, a lovely garden plot, a huge perennial bed, strawberries, raspberries and blueberries, and big old shade trees that are pretty handy in summer weather. Hummingbirds have adopted my place as well and I have the biggest bonfires without worrying about regulations. The list can go on and on. I'm not going anywhere. If you want to stop in for a visit, just ask. :) What's your piece of heaven?

80. Definitely agree with Meaghan! and, as much as I find the 'censoring' annoying.. <grin> I have been able to be myself <almost> entirely here... wonderful feeling and opportunity :)

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All of Lany's photo albums are set to "Private", so only people on her friend list cans see them.

Just catching up on some older posts and came across a few of yours and all I can suggest in reply to your question about what's up and a lack of receiving good information is the fact that people generally don't reply to specific requests about a lady for two reasons... they have not seen the lady and therefore have no info to add or they have seen the lady and do not recommend her so they respect the site rules and don't post or reply with anything negative. Also keep in mind the NL participation on this board is pretty small so your post can go unnoticed if people are not on regularly... I just caught up on posts from the last 2 months because I have not been on as often as usual.

I've watched Mad Max and was really impressed with the movie! It is almost a masterpiece in my view. Definitely a great pick if you're looking for an absolutely insane action film that will blo* you away :)

77. The confidence it gives me that the lady is legit

Stuff like that is good to hold on to even if you don't use or look at them everyday. Its nostalgia and some day you'll want to see that stuff and reminisce. That kind of stuff is also good for further generations to see. Maybe find it another spot for it or put in storage.

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Maybe try a Thursday or Friday night. Find a place at the bar near the draft beer taps. The girls always walk by eventually - just catch their eye. Some hang out on the stools near the water jugs. Start up a conversation with one who strikes your fancy. Let us know when you give Barb's another chance. Good luck.

Hey all, I just wanted to share my interactions with mystique over the last few days. I contacted via text early in the afternoon on Friday about having an hour of cosplay fun, we eventually decided on Harley Quinn a character from Batman. We exchanged about a dozen texts over the day about other requests, she just wanted to make sure that we were on the same page. During our texts I was unable to nail down an exact time I would be free in the evening and wanted to make sure she had atleast three hours notice. Unfortunately i had a business billing issue that evening with a client and I was unable to give the notice I wanted and it put me a really bad mood. So I ask to move the appointment tomorrow evening instead and she was totally fine with it, this decision was made at dinner time on Friday. Saturday morning comes around and I text about nine about a 7:30 pm appointment we exchange a couple of texts over the morning just basic small talk. At 2 o'clock she texted me saying that she had to cancel she had a very reasonable excuse (life just got in the way). We spoke on the phone and we are going to try for later in the week. Her handling of the interactions were very accommodating and professional, she gave 5 hours notice to find a plan B if I wanted, we texted more then one probably should've, and she offered to make it worth my wild for canceling which was totally unnecessary. Based on our interactions I decided to go for a three hour appointment which I will give atleast 24 hours notice. So in the end more money will be made and more fun will be had be all. Even though we didn't end up getting together it was a very refreshing experience. It did leave me wondering in this day of age when comic book movies our the big blockbusters why aren't more laddies offering cosplay? Posted via Mobile Device

I believe as a result of the new laws and the restrictions of what we can discuss here put a damper on things. Also it seems some long time regular posters fell of the grid and there has been a lack of stimulating discussion. I am glad to see mrrnice steering the boat to get us back on track. Now if only we can get Old Dog, Phaedrus, Lee Richards et al to bring back some humour like the Fat Bastards thread, I think that would be awesome.

Looking like they are pleased to see me,and looking comfortable in her own skin... rather than obviously play acting. Its all play acting of course, but for me girl-friend (as opposed to girlfriend), and natural. Naughty SG once was fun but a more than a little tainted by creeps who look 'that way' at actual SG's. Anthing too 'porn star' kills the fantasy for me... I know its a job, but lets pretend that it isn't for my hour...

Pretty sure that image does not belong to her; see tin eye :-)

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I am officially in the EAST after all my years in the west or downtown I made the move to the EAST and I must admit.....im a westend kinda girl and I highly doubt I'll stay in the east forever! But for now.....I share Canotek rd with Many other people/places it would seem ;-)

I have a box specifically for stuff like this. I don't plan on ever throwing it out. Good memories don't have a best-before date on them. They'll never expire. Now, if I could just get rid of the boxes of meaningless junk that I haven't even unpacked since I last moved...

I've seen Sarah a couple of times. Great SP. Well recommended. Pictures are 100% accurate.

Posted before, but this being such a great image, it should be reposted at least every six months... Gorgeous boobies, too!

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Voice is definitely a component of attractiveness. If you have any doubt, I leave you with this:

Wearing a smile always works for me.

I am posting on this thread against my gut feeling....allow me to explain why. I have been an active poster for many years, ( sadly lost 1000 post somewhere along the way). Seems that year by year, we have actually less and less tolerance for other peoples points of view or simply jump on one another for either simple ignorance or even as silly as misspellings! I have witnessed an increased amount of " slamming" or belittling over simple mistakes. Trying to be smarter, wiser or more ethical than the last poster. Even right now.... I was going to post from my phone, but for whatever reason my phone will not show autocorrect, so I am using my laptop. Not that I am stupid or anything but with this post I have learned that if my spelling or grammar is not 100% perfect people will always point out any small mistake I may make! I had not realized that I was supposed to have an English major to post. I find this is unethical, and very distracting to the points I am trying to get across. Seeing backlash for simple errors is not lighting the room in a happy glow. Also, I have witnessed many new Gent's and Ladies who are just trying to learn the ropes, only to get slammed by senior posters that it is a " dumb" question, or what not. These poor souls end up slinking back and afraid to post again for fear of being judged. I have many GF's that feel this way about Lyla ( CERB). And is sad to hear that as this site was always a great way to feel like we belong and not isolated. I feel there is new era, " Dog Eat Dog" as the saying goes, where once we stood together. A person tries to post their views only to be told by a gang of people how stupid they are! I have seen some who have long term memberships say very extreme bulling statements here and yet no one stands against them , it is not reported or challenged cause well it was so and so and anyone who opposes them will get the wrath! This only creates an unhealthy balance of equality for a community such as ours! Where some can get away with what ever they wish as long as it is sugar coated and fluffed with big words , and the straight up comments not nearly as vicious seem to get the wrath. I agree fully that all posts and discussions should be performed in good taste and conscience, and when I see some who are obviously " baiting" another into an argument that can be seen as "hostile" that does not seem fair. It is our human nature to try to defend ourselves when so wrongly misquoted. For these reasons, I simply do not post in any hot topics. We have lost the ability to speak with grace and understanding. Until we do, this site will only continue to become barren:( I do not agree that our new laws are to blame. Who is to say that your not simply posting on your own " date life experience" ? I mean it is not like we ever stated... " when I spend an hour with....and I was unhappy" NO...our ADULT CONVERSATIONS always have been in GENRAL. Advice, topics, questions, have no identity as to whom or when or where. Anyhow, thought I would speak up on this post for this time. But refuse to be "baited" inot yet another drama thread lol.

When I want to keep a psychological distance with someone, espescially from the opposite sex, I keep a physical distance (of about half my arm) with that person. This way, the non-verbal is pretty clear, and no unecessary harm is done...

I don't do this a lot this is only my second thread but I thought I would ask who is into sexy cosplay? I know for me I'd like a girl to dress up as my favourite female comic character's like for example Harley Quinn from Batman or anime characters. I know I'm not the only one but I might be the only one on here, so I hope you don't think I'm to weird lol and I'm interested to see what people say.

To all those that get dragged through the mud - I'm sending out a big hug. I love lyla as it is a positive board. I'm seeing some ladies on the other boards getting dragged through the mud - I don't think they deserve it, and even though they are not on this site, I wanted to send them a hug.

make up for things you 'lack'? yikes....who says you're 'lacking'? ;) I am a bit bigger than I'd like.. but am prone to saying I still have an hourglass... just have a bit more sand hehe... ;) and yes.. if a person judges you on your weight alone.... before even seeing/meeting you.. yeah...keep looking ;)

Do I miss my ex? With every bullet... Guess I'm enjoying being single.

I just wanted to take a moment to formally recognize Meaghan for the wonderfully supportive woman she is. I have noticed many instances lately where she stepped up to help others, offered advice, leant an ear, offered personal support and resources and even posted to try to keep others safe. She has always been this way however, lately, she has really stepped up her efforts to reach out to those around her and really put herself into this industry. Thanks for all you do Meaghan, it does not go unnoticed!

Same crew that used to work at Studio 2000 in Ottawa, Chantal, Marianne and Angie. Sadly no Anne or Marie-Josee came along. Plenty of descriptions on the boards during their time there. Everyone seems to be obsessed with Marianne's bush. I don't like the lack of a shower. I was hoping Chantal could move upstairs into Maureen's old digs. They were pretty nice with the laundry right on site as well as a shower big enough for 2.

Great butt. Looks interesting.

So you TOFTT. Nothing wrong there. Any comment on her menu options ?

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Women get a lot of heat from society. Especially in terms of makeup. If you don't paint your face in a world full of women who do, then you are lazy, ugly, disgusting, whatever. If you do paint your face then you're a slut, you're lying (seriously, it's depressing how many people say this), etc. You can't please some people because they will always look for a reason to hurl an insult - especially at a woman. And this isn't just men, this is women, too. Women are misogynists, too. Stop and think about that for a minute. Next time you roll your eyes at what someone is wearing, don't. Next time you or a friend makes a snarky comment about someone's clothing or make-up, call them out on it. Tell them to shut up. Next time you catch yourself or a friend sniping on a woman like that, you need to check yourself because you are part of the problem. Find something more constructive to do with your time than make harsh comments. And if you absolutely can't help yourself, at least phrase your criticism constructively and give them some positive with the negative. http://www.sunnyskyz.com/happy-videos/2660/She-Started-Posting-Pictures-Of-Herself-Without-Makeup-These-Are-The-Real-Comments-People-Left-Her#3XPFgvWfJCiYfdxa.01

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors and races. Men come also come in all shapes, sizes, colors and races. Women accept us and marry us because of who we are are on the inside. And we should also accept the women for who they are on the inside. These women come from all sort of backgrounds, some abused, some are single mother, and some from backgrounds that you could not even imagine. Some do this job out of the joy of sex, and some do it out of necessity. Scars, stretch marks are just battle scars of life that they should wear with honor. Women love their men and children, no matter what they have done or will do in their lifes. Most men are kind in nature, but many men are inconsiderate and treat women badly. These women share their most intimate moments with us, and for a moment we feel loved and needed. We should respect these women for what they do for us and the kindness and love some of them demonstrate to us. All they want is respect and to be treated with kindness in return. Treat them like ladies and you will be treated like a king. Having a gorgeous sp, does not insure that you will have a great time. People have to look at the inner beautify of the person to truly enjoy the person. That's all I have to say on this matter. Thank you to all the women of Cerb who treat all us men like kings, regardless of our race and color and size and shape.