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I agree. I once impulsively offered to massage a wonderful and beautiful lady who was giving me a massage and she graciously accepted. I still think of that session as my best massage experience ever. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Turn off - receiving threats from a person who requests an extremely unsafe and undesirable behaviour that he expects should be offered because of my choice of income and therefore my place in this world. Threats that he will change his number and book an appt so he can get what he wants or that i deserve to be tricked into it because he just thinks it is his duty to put me in my place. (as my rejection, coming from someone like me, just shouldn't be allowed and hurt his ego i'm sure) Therefore I have to take special measures now to ensure that he doesn't cross my path. Oh yay! I'm sure he would be happy to know that he is putting me on high alert. Happy to know he had a lasting impression. That REALLY turns me off

I look at TERB on occasion, as the reviews there are sometimes a useful addition to what we have here (or more often, what we don't have here). TERB also allows discussion of services, which is useful if you want something specific and hasn't been allowed here since the laws changed. But having said that, I've never felt that it was an environment I really wanted to get involved in.

Been to the brass Club a couple of times and have to say it is the place to go. Sophia is qreat and Bethany is the same as even a great time is to be had there.

with all due respect, this is pretty self serving. Proclaiming 'I personally do not beat my wife' does not make domestic violence go away. We all, as men - and especially as clients, really ought to step up and take some responsibility for the often shameful tone of posts on these boards. Saying 'it wasn't me' isn't terribly helpful. Let's all own up a little and think hard before we press 'send'.

There was a power outage in the area today which may have caused some businesses to temporarily close.

Just be your beautiful self. That's what I do - and from one curvaceous lady to another..... I do just fine on this site and have met with plenty of nice men who LOVE my shape and size. Xo

Disrespectful dickheads unfortunately comes with the territory and for me are a minor annoyance. I have no problem telling them off and actually quite enjoy it sometimes, especially if they are extremely difficult. But for some girls who aren't as out spoken and sensitive, it affects them differently, in a negative way. We always appreciate kind and respectful clients. Communication goes a long way in this business, both ways.

Thanks for your thoughtful reply Meaghan, that makes more sense. For what it's worth, terb members will routinely call out other members for inappropriate posts, crude language, and I personally have never experienced anything violent or dangerous...but my experienece is limited to the Ottawa forums and subforums so certainly not a far reaching conclusion across the entire board.

a paradoxical combination of painful and pleasurable

I think the thought process is - if you see someone posting something that is nasty - instead of ignoring it, or worse, agreeing with it - do you say something? Do you call someone out if they have posted something that is potentially violent? Dangerous? Or, do you keep scrolling and do nothing? Again, I`m not referring to the comment `she wasn`t my cup of tea`. Its the comments like she`s a dog, she doesn`t deserve to be alive, she needs a shit kicking. I still remember a post - someone had commented on a really attractive lady who worked in a retail store. She did not work in the industry. Enough information was made available for people to figure out where she worked. Comments were being made "yes, she is really hot, I'd bone her" etc, which meant these guys were actually going to her workplace to check her out. The thread was eventually closed, and identifying information was deleted. However, I was horrified. Her safety was put in jeopardy, and of course, because she is not part of this industry, knew nothing about the increased interest in her. Of course, the ladies on the site could not comment on the thread. It was not about them, so therefore, they did not have a say in the matter. However, it did open my eyes to the ramifications of some that do not seem to understand the dangers they place others in by their inappropriate comments - and lack thereof.

Barbara, Bon fête! Je te souhaite plein de bonheur en cette journée spéciale!

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=225050&highlight=sabrina

stats so unreliable partly because : http://thetruthaboutpitbulls.blogspot.ca/2011/04/find-pit-bull.html Legislation should be aimed at punishing owners regardless of the breed.

Fargo - Movie's moral is to live life so as not to end up in a wood chipper!

starbux makes a phenomenal caramel macciato.. but their coffee always tastes burnt to me.. not a tim's fan either.. hehe preferrrrrr my coffee to taste like coffee.. not burnt.. not like warm cream (ha!) but.. if I am in the mood for a treat..... caramel macciato at star fux <grin> ;) or.. my perrrrrsonal fave... a double chocolate frappe at second cup.. ;)

Has anyone seen Lili at Brass Club? I know she is new and would be interested in knowing what she is like, personality wise. I'm thinking of seeing her as she also seems gorgeous too.

_______________ ......beautifully written sir.... just have to say :) makes me think quite fondly of a few people I know <grin> .. some I miss because they don't live here <wink to those>.... some I still see.. but you are absolutely correct in your interpretation.. the sensations shared.. the connections.. same for me whether a provider or.. on the rare occasion.. a receiver...nothing finer in the universe.. true story ;) ______________________________

I did have an appointment with this person last week. She is a very friendly person and easy to talk with. She is busy and has a number of activities she does and says she is going taking RMT training. Massage was light and more relaxing then a traditional RMT. Was a friendly conversation with a little teasing and left unhappy. Again ����

I personally am no longer a member of terb but I wouldn't exclude someone from because they belonged to a specific board. I no longer read the comments over there because it really is none if my business what people think of me. I'm aware that some of them over there aren't fond of me because I tend to speak my mind and some of them think women should be seen and not heard. Who cares...i will continue to be me. I will continue to be a reputable SP as well. That's all that matters. Some men are members there and use it as a resource. I can respect that. However, if I researched a guy's handle and he was writing something as though it was really crude and graphic, I would definitely think twice about seeing him. The same applies for the big mouth types who will reveal certain details that could be detrimental to SPs and their privacy. I will give potential clients a chance even if I were researching their handles but there would be certain people who post who I would never want to meet based on the tone of their posts if they were mostly negative to begin with. I don't want that energy around me.

Claire Heavens has an amazing bum.

Cujo - A dog movie for cat lovers?

Let me start off by saying WOW!. I did my due diligence searching LYLA to find a reputable SP. No Back Pages for me. All of Talia's previous reviews were great so I was comfortable in contacting her. Once we made contact via texts the set up was easy, a date and time to meet was agreed upon. When I arrived I was greeted by a stunning young woman. An unbelievable body, exactly like her pictures. From there things only got better. Her set up is clean, private and convenient . I was super nervous as this was my first trip down this road. In addition I'm an older guy, 60+. I was so pleased at how easily we connected and how comfortable and relaxed she made me feel. Thanks Talia❤️ http://taliaciarra.com Would I repeat? Absolutely!

There have been some great replies from people above. I, for one, enjoy giving massage to woman. I think it is so fulfilling to treat the women with tender love and caress them. It is a matter of perspective really where you draw the pleasure from while giving a massage. Is it the arousal one gets by touching naked bodies, or from the deep appreciation of how they are no less than a piece of art. I derive pleasure from the later. When I give massage to a woman, I feel that the whole existence is confined in the touch of the tips of my fingers. It's a whole new experience. I feel much more manly when I am able to please a woman in ways. Nothing arouses more than they enjoying the overall experience with you. Resonance. Transcendental experience.

I am one who tries to do my homework, and I must say that my experiences have been outstanding. I study both of these review boards and sometimes Cerb and Merb. I have enormous respect and appreciation for the ladies who provide these services and I think that shows when I'm together with them. I keep my reviews on every board very positive because there's always something-or many things-to celebrate in every date. Yes, I've had some disappointments, but nobody gets this right 100% of the time. That would include SPs who at times must be very surprised and disappointed with a guy that they thought would be really great. I want to say a special thanks to all who provide reviews that enable need to make good choices. And again, I would like to express my appreciation to the beautiful women-- you are amazing and I am thankful!

When someone judges me based on location even though I have 30+ recos...I absolutely hate that! I personally wouldn't invite you to my in call location if I felt you would have any problems...sorry not my character I go out of my way to make you feel relaxed and always leave happy and humble But hey to each their own...your loss

what the whole story is.... https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=237953 Their absence on lyla has been noted.... Anyone have more intel?

they post on backpage....they've had Sara and Bambi on last 2 weeks of so..give them a call...

Adele Gall, April and Cassie of CMJ have my votes. They are really amazing and have beautiful appearance and personalities.

I think these two should be 1 and 2, not because I am arrogant, has nothing to do with me, I just feel these two are the most important and are the two things I feel most grateful for. The third is also great. 104. Mod was mentioned but I wish to elaborate. For making this site and the INSANE amount of work he does to keep this place legit, clean, respectful, respectable and safe. For all the crap he has to eat daily from dumb-dumbs and the fact that he doesn't just say, 'F-it!' and tear it down. Any time I write to mod (which I try to avoid, given how busy he is) I always sign off with a 'thank you for everything you do'. I really think all of us should take a moment every now and then to show Mod how much we appreciate him and all he does. 105. For keeping us all (Hobbyists and SPs alike) SAFE! This site is an incredible resource for both sides of the industry. I'm not going to list how, we all know. The safety this site offers us via Mod's maintenance and constant vigilance and the info we can all exchange, is INVALUABLE! 106. Offering EVERYONE, SPs and Hobbyists alike, this amazing resource for FREE. If that weren't enough, there are options for indie SPs to advertise for free if they choose! I've been here a while but... it still boggles my mind. Free options dont have to exist. The norm is, you pay for everything.... yet none-the-less, Mod maintains this option. Thank you for everything you do Mod! Have a great day everyone! xoxo

Fake! she or he used to post as Anastasia

Sounds exactly like Harley. She was dancing in that sports bra (and little else) about half an hour ago. Lots of lovelies at Barb's this afternoon, and they'll be keen for your attention (not so many punters). Jenny, Maria, Sammi, Siya, Harley, Havana, Jade, Serena, and maybe a few more.

So sad...I am so sorry for your loss sending you all prayers Spread love not hate No more violence Love is the only way God bless you all

'tis a rare pleasure indeed.. but on the occasions where it was offered.. it was most certainly .. and thoroughly enjoyed ;) <...stretches... curls soft tail around muscled legs.. puuuuring contentedly......>

I too love giving massages and always offer it at the end of a good appointment.... I've been told by one girl I'm better than the massages than those people working at Nordic Spa. I have been reading up and practicing (on a pillow) the art of sensual massage and ancient indian karma sutra massage tecniques. Unfortunately to date, only 3 girls (sp's or otherwise) that i have been with has taken me up on my offer. With sp's though I always offer it at the end and usually its close to the end of session. So a massage would constitute more time, in a more "no rush" sort of timing. Maybe that is why? As for non-sp's, I'm at a loss for an explanation.

I have had the opportunity to give many massages over the years. I have found that looking after the girls and relaxing them, elevated the whole massage experience for both of us. In my experience it requires you listen to their bodies and noticie the subtle movements of their wonderful bodies. Doing that will help to not go beyond their boundaries. Then there's others who aren't that subtle, they tell you what they want or just direct your hands to the area that requires attention. Being respectful to them puts them at ease with you, they always want to be with someone they can trust. I have had the privilege of some of the regulars that I see, call me for a massage. Bottom line is yes I love giving the girls massages, a woman's body deserves to be softly caressed and relaxed, cause they work hard also.

Reverse massage is an option where I am but to be honest it's rarely offered and most of the time I politely decline if it is. In my experience, the clients I've seen take that option the wrong way and assume its an invitation to stick fingers and hands where they don't belong. I'm not opposed to such things, but I would have to get to know someone over a few sessions before being comfortable with that. Asking permission is always appreciated as well. Seems sometimes people forget common manners. If you're offering a massage, give a massage, plain and simple. If I want other things, I'm not shy and will tell you. Otherwise, be respectful.

Funny you post that today because yesterday I had a quite "interesting" (maybe should say weird) offer. Someone (so-called massage therapist that I have never met) offer me to massage me before our appointment and he would not charge me but I could tip him if I was satisfy. I tried to explain him that my donation was for our time together.. So he told me "so I have to pay you to massage you?" I was so pissed! I looove to receive massage (who doesnt?), and it happens quite often to receive some (maybe not always full massage but some rubs, as it turn me on as well) BUT I prefer to receive a massage from someone who "wants" to massage me, not as he is doing it expecting something more in return.. Like a tips for example or as a trade Sorry, someguy, I didnt want to hijack your thread ;)