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Not to mention that it would be hard to keep this thread going if there was no Barb's :). This has always been my favourite club in Ottawa, since I first came here. It's full of great memories for me, of amazing women and fun times, of dances in the cr with spectacular beauties (sometimes more than one at a time :)), of friends to meet up with and chat with, of being greeted by gangs of hotties in the days when I went there a lot; a good place to relax and admire and be well entertained. Thinking of the duos with Ariel and Scarlette, and Ariel and Claire Heavens, and Ariel and Bridgette, and just Ariel :); sexy Josée from Montreal; Mel, Jenny, Nicole, many many more. I don't want this to sound like a dirge, and I hope that the place will thrive and be around for years to come. But I am feeling sentimental tonight, for all the good times. At Barb's. Here's to it!

I don't want this to sound like a dirge, and I hope that the place will thrive and be around for years to come. But I am feeling sentimental tonight, for all the good times. At Barb's. Here's to it! ah , yes ! the Sunday night oil wrestling , the limo rides on Monday nights and the bucket of beers on Wednesday nights . in the early 90's living just around the corner from barb's , friends and I saying we will just go for a couple to start the night off and than next thing we know the lights are on . Hmmm , good times , if I remember correctly , had a couple drinks don't you know ...... lol

I love kissing but because I advertise primarily massage, the kissing activities are kept for those I have built a rapport with in my companionship services. I have noticed a trend where men I have met for massage tend to set boundaries with intimacy..many aren't that comfortable with those activities so I prefer to build a rapport with people first and then if it happens, it happens. But I do love kissing....

I know this has been covered, but without kissing, what's really the point of all the rest. For me, this hobby is about intimacy. I realize that this is precisely why some providers would prefer not to kiss, but for me it really is crucial. Without it, no matter how great everything else might be, I'll be disappointed with the session. It doesn't rule out a repeat, as I've found with some providers kissing gets better over time, but it definitely makes it less likely.

Finally got a chance to come in this weekend and try a couples nuru massage session with Rose. That was a lot of fun... my wife really enjoyed it. I'd done a solo nuru session with Rose before this -- she's such a cutie with a devious smile and, from the right angles, a truly perfect round butt. She's also quite personable, fun to talk to, and has some pretty ambitious plans of her own. Ran into Faye briefly on the way out, who has just a hint more of the girl next door look than you'd imagine from the pictures online (in addition to being pretty darn hot). The room had a bit more decor than a couple months ago.... the club seems to be coming together. I think Jessica is building something special with Brass. From what I can tell the girls seem to genuinely enjoy working there.

so he turned to lyla's chicks for attention! (sue me.. there's 8.... but read it.. it's grrreat! oh nooo I've got rhyming disease!)

I am excited first time coming there to just relax and not anything else .. :) getting self prepared for next year's milestone lol thanks again everyone .. couldn't think of anywhere i would rather be after these really really bad months xo

In Halifax, I would recomend Mariner & Mariner Counselling, they are a couple but you can see either one of them or both. I met with Anne for a few months for some sexual issues, this was about 15 years ago but she was very kind and helpful, made me feel very comfortable discussing my issues, nice lady. They are both university educated with advanced degrees and licensed. Still in the same spot on Spring Garden Rd http://www.mariner-mariner.ca/

Reika has been on my radar for a while and I was finally able to connect. Her BP ad says she is stunning, I have to admit I am stunned. I have been with a lot of beautiful Asian women and Reika is certainly at the top of the list. She is DDG and a smoking figure to match. She is a spinner with amazing curves. That all sounds great but her personality may be her best trait. A wonderful young lady who speaks perfect english, I would suspect she was born here. We had a great conversation before during and after. She is relatively new to massage but it was extremely sensual and that's what most of us go to CMJ for. I can't say enough about how highly I regard Reika, she is a treasure. She will be leaving for school in a few months and her availability will be limited so don't dawdle if you want to see her. Warning, she is addicting. Reika easily earns the slurp seal of approval.

I join the chorus to say that when kissing occurs it accentuates everything else that occurs physically as well as emotionally, as it feels so much more intimate. At the same time, it is for this very reason that some women may prefer not to kiss. And of course, kissing should not be expected as a given and the ���� rule applies as always as it is at the woman's discretion. I would clear it with the lady, if possible before we meet and if OK would start slowly to allow her to show her preferences as well. Found this quote below that raises some points why kissing may not always be accepted by all. One way or another there is always a reason. "Some escorts prefer to take kissing off of their services lists, because they have a partner or significant other who may feel uncomfortable with a stranger kissing his or her sweetheart. Kissing is deemed as one of the most intimate acts between two people, as it involves the mouth, tongue, breath and intense skin contact. Engaging in sexual ����������� is one thing, but kissing is something entirely different reserved strictly for intimate partners." (Skipthegames.com)

problem .. flying up .. no harley :(

A motorcycle ride up to Champlain Lookout early evening. 21 kms of nirvana. (Gatineau Park)

Was there at noon to see the beautiful sexy Avah. She was a lot of fun. You can read about her in my recommendation. Jessica was there to welcome me. She looks as beautiful and sexy as ever. The club is coming together very nicely. The girls seem to be having fun working at the club and enjoying the work environment. Club is looking great as the finishing decorative touches are added to the rooms. With the great location. happy staff. I'm sure that the Brass Club will be a great success.

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An interesting observation, pagypie. I have to say that even when I've found Barb's to be most quiet in the past (usually on a Monday or Saturday afternoon), I don't think I can recall an occasion when there was only a single dancer. My last (June) visit was on a Saturday afternoon and while it was fairly subdued, I think I noticed at least four ladies in the very short time I was there. Perhaps I'm guilty of reading some recent posts as indicating a chicken-little/sky-is-falling type of situation and I sincerely hope that there are a couple more years on the lease and Barb's is around for a while longer. Guess I just get a bit antsy about the future of 340 what with the discussion of the LRT construction, the development deal for the site and the seemingly serious (50%) drop off in turnover in recent weeks. Will try to remain optimistic for continued Jenny sightings. I do fear, however, that whatever the causes may be, an extended slowdown could have the effect of hastening the (apparently) inevitable.

i think the barbarella s champagne room need a revamp, i mean have you been to the nuden or pigale, there is no comparison. The lighting is way too bright, the dj booth attached to the champagne room is a big turn off for the customers. The costs woud be so minimal to make a big change, few couches and chairs, close that dj booth, add some curtains for intimacy , plants. It was a great club long time ago, now the ladies are seeking more comfort when they work

I have a few thoughts on this subject generally based on two themes, diversity and regular contributions. Since I'm already retired my own strategies may be a bit different. Real estate has been mentioned several times. One has to live somewhere so I think it is a great way to accumulate wealth. It is one investment which can be a buy and hold. If selective and not into speculation one of it's attractions is that one locks into regular payments, and if you have a bit of extra cash you can accelerate the payout by extra lump sums on the anniversary. I had two houses and will probably sell the second for 500k in the next few years and help fund my retirement. I no longer manage my investments but pay a percentage based of the asset value. As for diversity, my retirement income now comes from 7 different sources, don't think you will have a comfortable income retiring on the CPP. The only direct investment I do now is in equity in my TFSA. There is an old theory that goes something like you invest an equivalent percentage in relation to your age in safe fixed income and the rest in riskier equities. I am swimming against the current here as I maintain a higher risk tolerance for my age as I subscribe to the notion that I might need the extra income as our life expectancies are increasing. I guess the moral of the story is find a way to save on a regular basis as compounding over the years is your best friend.

I had the pleasure of meeting the lovely luscious Lacey on Thursday, what a beautiful lady she is. spent a wonderful hour with her, gfe service with lots of dfk. her body is amazing, great butt. will repeat again for sure. on my way in cross path with her duo partner Nally, looks beautiful and friendly might have to try a duo next time.

luscious lacey as an amazing behind

I have seen her multiple times and always enjoyed myself with her. We had good chemistry together. However I haven't seen her since she's been back. I have contacted her but I've had a hard time matching my schedule with hers.

Went to see this lovely lady a couple days ago. I'll tell you now, if you go see any girl here, Julie is a must see. Her smile is gorgeous, her body is amazing, and omg that voice of hers give me a smile every time I hear it. She is very kind, and she met my needs with ease. I'll be sure to come back soon and see her again!

I love kissing! I enjoy when a man has full soft lips with tiny nibbles! The sweetest thing ever.

Been getting PM's from members who feel the same way and were asking me to recommend who are the great kissers. It seems like the older gentlemen like to kiss and cuddle and just hold a woman. Just as much as having sex if not more. Kissing is a very intimate experience and it is nice to cuddle afterwards.

Hi Gentleman I am available this week for dates at my Nepean location.I only see a few gentleman so it is best to schedule in advance if at all possible I can be reached at [email protected] or 6137008577 http://www.alexgrenyait.ca

I agree. I once impulsively offered to massage a wonderful and beautiful lady who was giving me a massage and she graciously accepted. I still think of that session as my best massage experience ever. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Just be your beautiful self. That's what I do - and from one curvaceous lady to another..... I do just fine on this site and have met with plenty of nice men who LOVE my shape and size. Xo

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I just basically stopped caring. Que sera, sera. When you focus on what you don`t have and the present conditions, you will get more of what you don`t want. Don`t try and fight and control your present conditions. It won`t work. Yes, this is easier said than done and I`ve had my fair share of shitty days being negative but if you trust enough to give up the control and have faith that you will get your appointments, you will. When I stopped focusing on wanting the phone to ring more and went off and took my mind off of it, is when you will get what you want. Don`t expect how you will make money or where it will be coming from or from whoever, just know that you will. I study the law of attraction in depth every single day and it`s amazing what transpires daily when you have faith and a positive attitude. It takes practice to give up control to the universe but it works all the time. The biggest key to receive more financial abundance is being grateful for what you already have. The universe will surprise you in a good way. I have a ritual of manifesting good clients that I practice every morning for a half hour. It also helps with attracting good clients instead of time wasters. Negativity equals time wasters. If you think you can`t, you won`t. The vibe you put out is the vibe you will attract back. This also applies when you are worried about money. You are the creator of your own reality. This I have definitely learned. My life has been blessed in many ways as a result in the last year and not specifically on a financial level but what I have learned has helped my business as well. For everything I have, I am grateful.

I read about this in the Metro newspaper today: https://www.cuddlery.ca/ This is a professional cuddlers firm, offering snuggling and cuddling services. They emphasize that their services are non-sexual and that both participants are clothed (no nudity). I love snuggles 'n cuddles, but I must admit, there's something I find funny about this. It almost sounds like a Saturday Night Live sketch or something. The wholesomeness of it is both humorous and sweet at the same time. Discuss.

It is such an incredible feeling of intimacy that towards the end of the lovely encounter, we held each other tight while at the same time caressing and kissing each other!

Well said. The foreplay with passionate kissing and "cuddle" play is a huge turn-on for me. Without it, I find sometimes that I even have trouble getting or maintaining an erection. With those things, I am completely turned on and more often than not, have better stamina as well. It's like you say about feeling it in all the warm places and it allows your whole body to be involved. Then afterward, being able to catch our breath while in a soft embrace and caressing her back brings it all full circle.

We are creatures that crave touch for me its all about that moment ,when you walk through my door at that moment I am your gf and I want and need the touching, kissing and feeling wanted and needed and making someone feel the same in return. Some days I wonder what happened to good old fashion foreplay that's the real ingredient that makes the magic happen. A deep sensual kiss that starts at your lips but you feel it in all the warm places it should be felt. And after the build up that you ride to a shivery end its nice to land in a warm embrace and just snuggle till your heart beat slow back down heh.

For me Kissing takes it all to the next level, being with a great kisser is what I look for in my encounters it just makes the whole experience better, getting kissed back makes me feel the lady I am with is enjoying my company as much as I am enjoying hers. I know for sure if there is no kisses there is no next time, I have being fortunate the sexy ladies that have visited Charlottetown this summer were great kissers, I want to repeat with each and everyone of them. With cuddling what is better than have a naked woman wrapped around your arms after enjoying each others company,that's what makes being it even more special.:)

This month I have been busy. Been lucky and have met many girls that enjoy kissing. This truly makes the session fun for me. Since I have posted this thread, I've had many cerb members ask me which girls like to kiss. Like me, without the kissing it's just not the same. I know for some girls Kissing is ymmv and intimate for them. And it depends on hygiene also. Just wanted to hear more feedback on how important kissing and cuddling is to you during your sessions :)

Just came back from seeing Meloide from CMJ. She provided a wonderful hour with more passionate kissing and cuddling and hugs then I am used to getting. It's a YMMV experience, we had already gotten to know each other for the last couple of months chatting in the chat room. So meeting was easy as we knew a lot about each other. There was a lot of chemistry between us and plenty of kissing made this an outstanding session. She loves kissing and is very good at it. But as always YMMV

I think the "I don't want to know..." sentiment is completely legitimate. To open up a conversation about what you are doing, and why, could potentially result in a conversation your significant other is simply not ready to have yet. Ignorance is blissful, to a certain extent, and sometimes the status quo is preferable to change. For a lot of clients in the industry, there are financial dynamics between their significant others' and themselves, children, a property or multiple properties... I'm sure I don't need to tell you how complicated all of that is. Even if there's a glimmer of suspicion, I can totally see why someone would decide not to address it until they are ready (or they have to because it's overt). I guess the thing I like the least, to be honest, is when someone is 'almost caught' and/or 'caught' but feels like they've dodged a bullet and then proceeds to tell me about it. As a service provider and as a woman, I don't actually want to know when some of the clients I've met have dodged their own bullets, or the reasons they give their SOs to come and see me. There are some things about the lives of my clients that I simply don't want to know. I think that's valid. I have great (and I mean great) respect for clients who speak to me of their significant others with respect, and with a nuanced understanding of lives and how complicated they can be. The double life is a difficult one to lead, but I don't necessarily want to be privy to all of the details... I'm really sorry Someguy, but I don't want to hear about the moments where people have almost been caught, or been caught, and what their significant others think of that. It feels really personal and could (potentially) be disrespectful too, no?

Extremely important. In fact that is what motivated me to seek out a SP the very first time. I was craving a hug and no one would indulge me. :( I had not received a hug in 11 long years. Not since my last relationship in 2000. As for the kissing and cuddling, that is an extra bonus. Now, that is what I ask for up front when arranging to see a SP. Without those three things, the sexy frisky part just isn't worth it. IMHO.

So far in 2014, I've met many new women and have repeated with some my favourite girls. Two of the new girls did not kiss, still enjoyed my massage and ending, but it's the same without kissing and cuddling. But with some of the other girls that I have seen several times, the sessions get better and better. Lot's of passionate kissing and cuddles and hugs. It makes the session more intimate. And nothing is better then a passionate kiss and hug good bye. Makes me already looking to seeing her again :) For some girls kissing is more intimate then sex, which I can understand. But to me and many others on the board, the kissing and cuddling is more important then the sex.

Great conversation, cuddles, kissing and hugs are the best part -- without them I may as well stay home and toss in a video.

I'm with Porthos. I'd take (and have taken) a passionate session of body to body contact with lots of kissing, tenderness and holding over "just sex" any day. To me it's a critical component of a great experience. Just as an aside, with a lady that I happen to have really great chemistry with I've chosen to have a passionate kissing, cuddling only session with intentional denial of sex on my part. Honestly, it was so hot and intense that we were both left raging with a pent up lust and an ache for the inevitable conclusion. The next 24 hours were excruciatingly painful waiting for the minutes to pass (for her too apparently) until we saw each other again. Seriously, the second I burst through the door the next day it was like a frantic inferno. Fuck that was hot!

Kissing, cuddling, hugging, to me that's what makes an encounter have real intimacy, and that's what I enjoy. Sex is enjoyable, but without intimacy, and speaking for me, pretty empty without intimacy. Sex alone and again, speaking only for me, is more about release, but sex with intimacy (including kissing, cuddling, hugging) that adds a connection you make with a lady. So very important to have kissing, cuddling, hugging, it creates a connection between you and the lady, and my memorable encounters have had that connection A early morning rambling RG

If I can't cuddle and kiss you I don't want to see you. Love my cuddles and kisses!

What? I thought cuddles, kissing and hugs were what I was paying for and all the rest was just add-ons! (Tongue firmly in cheek)

Indeed, I could not have said it better... but I would not go as far as saying the climax is secondary though, the glide back down to earth WITH the hugs and cuddling is the total package.. my 2c..

On this question, I don't seem to be any different than most here, as I consider cuddling and kissing to be very important in a GFE encounter. It adds so much to the experience that I just wouldn't book anyone that I knew that didn't offer it. The ones that don't have their good reasons and I respect that, but for me it's nothing short of a deal-breaker to not be able to feel the closeness, body heat, and intimacy these activities offer (although of necessity within time and other limits). I always cherish those make-out moments among the most. And so far I've not fallen deeply yet, as I know to separate the worlds. FR

Just adding to the consensus here. I'm thrilled when kissing and cuddling take place, and it can make an already stupendous encounter stupendoser (I'm declaring that a word!). But I also respect and understand that it isn't always offered, even with GFE.

I like to take things slow and kiss 'n cuddle lots both before and after.

How important? On a scale of 1-10, 11.