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I have a lot of thoughts about things said in this thread but every time I mention another board I get an infraction. I will say I am on almost every board out there and have never been turned away by a provider due to that fact. I don't hide anything and generally have a good rep. I don't do malicious posts but do tell it like it is, something that got me a few infractions here. If I do not have a good time with an SP I simply do not post about her here, but wise users will know to check elsewhere for my feelings. I do research before deciding where to spend my disposable income so I do not see many I cannot post about here. If an SP did have a policy of not seeing members of a certain board I would most likely just scratch her off my list and move on, there is no shortage of good providers in the area. I have not found this happen often, if at all. From a hobbyist's point of view I feel it important to share info as I like to be as certain as possible I am not wasting limited funds. When an SP treats me well I enjoy spreading the good news so others and the SP can benefit. But there are some SPs who put guys or their wallets in danger and there needs to be places where this can be openly discussed. A wise member can weed out the malicious posts and decipher the accurate posts as well as fakes. It's all part of this industry and you get from it what you put into it. But generalizations about almost anything are usually not a great idea. As mentioned, there is good and bad all around us and a few bad apples don't spoil the whole barrel. There are bad apples on every board, even here. Take the positives you can find wherever you can find them.

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I've been told about this site and I've asked opinions on what the difference is, they told me about it being a review board and how negative things are allowed. Negative I'm okay with as it happens, even good providers have flaws or bad days or no chemistry at all with a guest and this may be brought up and I'd be fine with that too. I would not in any circumstance or board be okay with rude, harsh and offensive comments about my appearance or personality so while I understand that as potential customers you want to read about the lady in order to make a decision and that that board allows more details but what I don't understand is how they allow so much disrespect towards LADIES, in my opinion they shouldn't allow that, honesty and bluntness is justified and even appreciated being a jerk (for lack of more appropriate term) shouldn't be and if I were a man reading those reviews I'd definitely second guess what a man who shows no respect has to say, unfortunately many don't see it from this perspective which I believe is why even ladies who DO provide a good experience may be concerned. Also, don't forget although is us providers giving a service it isn't a service as simple as fixing a car or making a pizza, in this industry it takes two to have a successful experience and the provider isn't always the one to blame when things go wrong, many times there's actually no one to blame as I said if there's no chemistry then it isn't anyone's fault.

I've always been interested in this style of massage, so have been watching the Craigslist ads advertising a for women only service since they began. Now it appears they finally have a female employee named Jennifer who can offer it to men, outcall only. http://newbrunswick.craigslist.ca/rnr/5683033922.html I am tempted, but unsure. They have a legit looking website, but I don't know if they're actually offering more and pretending not to, or if this exactly what they claim. And if it is, if the massage is worth it? Anyone booked an appointment yet, or planning to and will share? EDIT: Added the link I never bothered to. And should probably mention that I've been desperately hoping it IS just a massage, without any extras or funny business, hence my asking. I really was hoping to just experience a well-done massage. But considering that all 3 pictures they've posted so far in the CL ads have been easily proven as fakes by Google, I'm fairly confident this is just a bunch of bait and switch. Depressing. Please let me know if I'm wrong.

I have also had a very nice dance with Celeste she is extremely attractive as well. Does anyone know when Sable works?

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I met her in Feb when she was in town last. Her pics are her, she's real. Experience was nice, I would see again.

In another sp's review thread tho? I know on some of the erbs owned by the terb owner they cannot, only the sp can, and possibly only if that sp is a paid advertiser. I think most review sites allow unpaid sps to participate in the threads, if they don't have contact info or use the pms for that, if it is a paid site. I haven't heard about too many that restrict all participation, tho i do know it happens. fwiw, some of my favourite people i know because of being on review sites, including some of the ones like terb with bad reputations for having extremely hateful people on them. (I agree, the moderators need to do their job, know the laws, enforce posts that break laws at the very least, but often mods or those who can undo a mod action have zero knowledge, come from a pool of potentially sketchy members, & seem invested in following the line of 'there is no such thing as a fake bad review, but all good reviews should be challenged and discredited' I guess on the topic itself, i've heard from many sps over the years that they refuse to have anything to do with review sites, and especially the professional reviewers (guys mentioned here who simply see every sp, to rack up their review quantity count, and have little interest in finding someone who is actually a good match for them, those guys are the ones who are entitled, pushy, aggressive, and belittling more often than not). an sp having a blanket policy of not seeing a terb member? really commonplace concept. In the US, it would be TER members, and however many other sites there are lol.

It totally depends on the level of service from the individual itself. I can easily take your number and make calls with it. Its not safe, another layer of security might need to be added to your pre-screens if that's the case. As for your questions, it would be a totally different number than your existing cell/data package. Voip is more for poeple who do not have cells and only use devices that are wireless capable. Or someone looking to save a huge amount of money off of a cell plan. Voip is 40% cheaper almost accross the board.

I think the Asian girl you refer to is Celeste She's got a tight body but last nights performance she seems not really interested in being there.

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I notice that Erin has not had a recommendation posted for a while. I know why too! All of her men want to keep her to themselves. But I the interest of fair play, and those Cerbies who have given great direction to other lovely ladies here are my thoughts on Sensous Erin. I have seen Erin three times now over the past three months. She is the first independent MA that I have visited. The first visit to any MA is for me is alway filled with a little anxiety and excitement. Never knowing what the lady is really like, and are the surroundings clean and comfortable. Well when Erin opened the door and welcomed me into her apartment with a quick welcome hug and smile , the anxiety quickly faded away. To say the very least Erin is a beautiful woman. She was dressed is a lovely summer dress, her hair was pinned up in a loose French braid , which highlighted and framed her lovely eyes and face. Her looks and style reminded me of that a sexy librarian. She then asked me to follow her, which I happily did, all the while watching her walk in a very graceful manner, hinting to me that she was a real lady. Once in her private room, which is very clean and tastefully decorated, I noticed a full bed. How nice I thought, no worries about anyone falling off a narrow massage table. Erin must have realized I was a little shy, because that is when she moved closer to me and wrapped her arms around me for a nice hug, lasting long enough for her arms to start slowly rubbing my back, and tight enough to have "uplifting" effect on me. Now the next part is a little tricky, I should say, that prior to arriving for any massage, I take pains to brush my teeth, use lots of mouthwash, and avoid any smelly foods. I do this because you never know if the MA will allow kissing. In previous post about Erin there were some references that she did not. Well I can't speak for other gentlemen , but I guess I passed the smell and good breath test, because for the next few minutes, Erin and I embraced in a manner that left both my lips and tougue tired from a lovely and very passionate kiss. Sensing that I was not going to be the one to stop she did hint that it was time to have a quick shower as she started to undress me. Well of course while she did that for me I did the same for her. Once naked, I took time to admire this soft, sensuous lady, who looks to be in her mid twenties, and is very desirable. We then kissed again, then off to the shower. In the shower more kisses and lots of soap, fun and frolic. A quick dry off, and then face down (ouch) on the bed. At this time I discovered Erin's massages are great. Body slides, ear whispers and kisses, and lots more. Time was flying by and already it was time for the flip. She touched me in a the right places and looked deeply into my eyes as I reached the moment of truth. Words cannot describe how wonderful she treated me. What was really nice is that she lingered for awhile and while we exchanged thoughts. This proved to me that she really does take an interest in the people she meets, and that to me is a big turn on. My next visit was 90 minutes, and was even better. I know that I have found the perfect MA for me, and I will be returning for many more visits. Erin's great and I cannot give her a better recommendation.

Precious was there tonight. Additional Comments: It was standing room only in there as well. Can't remember the last time it was that busy.

One of the issues about the ERB boards, is unless the lady is a paid advertiser, she really has no say. She can't reply to a thread about her, can't reply to a thread about another lady, can only reply on threads in the Lounge and she makes sure she is not advertising herself. The old saying "shut up bitch and knit my sock", is apparent unless she is a paid advertiser. Thats why I love Lyla.

I agree, most of the reviews on TERB are respectful, but they do have a different character... I posted a review on TERB that I had also posted on LYLA (back when it was CERB), but a couple of the respondents wanted more details and I was asked additional questions by PM and in replies to most post about other positions and activities that I had not mentioned... I also saw a positive review of a lady that was followed up by a question if the reviewer works for the company... I've only seen one really really nasty review on TERB... (of a lady who I rather enjoyed). The girl quit a few months later -- don't know if that was the reason though.

The art of advertising effectively, is to ensure that your niche is realized. Not everyone is willing to see clients late at night or early in the morning. Not everyone feels comfortable with same day or last minute encounters. So, if you find a niche that works for you, go for it. So, the issue is how to advertise this effectively. Obviously saying I am available anytime is not an effective method. Clients will think they can treat you as a walk in space, which is not the type of client you would want to seek. You still want to ensure those that you have a connection with, or seek to connect with, understand you are flexible in your schedule. That is a prize in this industry. Not everyone can do that. So, advertising flexibility, within your parameters is what you want to attract. One of the reasons some guys go to agencies is because they like the flexibility of being able to book when they have time. They get frustrated with independents who are on a specific schedule, and will not see others outside of that schedule. So, they go with agencies, who generally have someone available for a wide time frame. They don't always get to see who they want, but someone is available for them. So, advertise your schedule is flexible within the parameters you create. Just be cautious about seeing clients at times others will not, as the possible issues of dangerous clients increases during certain hours. I personally don't see clients after a certain time of night, as my personal experience indicates the likelyhood of overly intoxicated, drugged and aggressive clients increases. However, that is me, it does not need to be your experience. Good luck!

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Oops. I meant vocal minority above. Best times I've had so far came from Lyla ladies. But I've avoided numerous issues by reading terb and even participating. There are merits to both because they serve different purposes. Ignore the bluster and male chest pounding and you should be fine.

" Look in the mirror and be grateful. And then walk a mile in their shoes." For sure... I appreciate every minute a lady spends with me and I try to make her time as pleasant for her as it is for me. I like the LYLA approach because its friendly and respectful. I've seen a nasty review of a lady who I saw. It was just plain mean.

Everyone has their own story, so I'll share mine. In grade 6, I tested with a high IQ and was offered to be put into the gifted program. The teacher's screener question was "Are you bored a lot in class?". Obviously, it's class!!! Off I went to the gifted program to do.... the exact same thing that's in the general curriculum. The only difference is that gifted students ask fewer questions(whether they understand or not), so we can cover material a bit faster and have time to do homework in class. End result: gifted students do less homework. I don't see that as an advantage. It breeds laziness. By grade 11, I resented being with the same 25 students all day long. I wanted the variety of random students that the other classes had. I asked to opt out of the 'douance' program. The counsellor asked if I understood my diploma wouldn't say gifted on it. I said that's fine. She refused to do it. From that point on, I realized that we were there to be schooled instead of educated. I got ahead and only needed two classes for my OAC year(grade 13 for us pre-2000 high school grads). Only two classes to take and here I am with a schedule conflict! lol. So I fill up my schedule with elective grade 11 classes and skip them. The school expelled me and suggested I finish at adult high school. Two months later, I've got my diploma but my friends still have 4 months before they graduate. So I get a job, and the next thing you know, I'm juggling bills while my friends are talking about prom. I have no yearbook, no prom, nothing. I was called into the principal's office and after that I'm a ghost to most high school class mates. One day I was with all my friends, the next day I was on my own. I worked for a bit because school was expensive. I wanted to be an electrical engineer. Tuition and books for engineering is a business I need to get into to. What a cash cow! With my dad's help, I went off to get that piece of paper. I was doing it because that's what I was supposed to be doing. No one wants to let down their parents. Fast forward two years, and I'm passing all my classes but still not studying or caring. I dropped out because the thought of tracing out circuits for a living depressed me. I worked for about 6 years, and then realized that working 9-5 pays the bills, but leaves the soul unfulfilled. I had some cash saved up, so I decided to go back to school. Now I wanted to be there. I was learning something I enjoyed, but still challenged me. Fast forward another 4 years, and now I've got my physics degree. I got straight A's not because I'm smart, I got the grades because I worked my ass off. While a student, I worked as a researcher and teaching assistant, it was amazing to see the attitude difference between students that put in the hours, and the ones that just want to see 100% everywhere because it looks good. On my journey to get 'that piece of paper', I learned one very valuable lesson. If you do something because you want to do it, then it doesn't matter how hard it is, you can do it. If you do something because you're supposed to do it, even the simplest of tasks can frustrate. Don't let yourself get frustrated because someone else is frustrated. It turns out I'm also in a field full of false sophistication. It doesn't take long to weed through the ones that are smart and the ones that want to look smart.

The real question seems to be "What is the purpose of these boards?" Do they exist solely as a place to research, through reviews, the safety and service of a particular provider? Are they a place to seek and obtain peer acceptance? Are they a place to rant about all that angers you in day about our society and the people/politics in it? Are they a good place to find support (of any kind) for your positions or travails? Are they solely advertising platforms? I find they are all of those things. But should they be? How much of each other do we really want to know about a person who may only be in our lives a short time? About you: If she looked you up on that other board, did she read something that may have given her pause? About your personal beliefs or something that she may have perceived as a danger or a future conflict if she dealt with you? Or was she looking for some reassurance that you, even though you are a member there, are different than what the overall mood of that board would suggest? Not about you: Why wouldn't she point out reviews about herself? Who cares where it came from. Doesn't mean she is trying to attract other members of that board. It could be used as a means to prove herself as an established sp who has been in the biz for awhile and is safe to see as she is real and serious about that biz. And not some fly-by-night, or b&s etc. Good or bad reviews can establish that much anyways. It also doesn't mean she doesn't appreciate the effort and time that went into them. If she is like me, her main concern is the overall mood and message of that board. And it's an angry, nasty one. If you are a man with your own mind, who can distinguish lies from truth and ignore perhaps 'locker room' embellishments and judgements, then you are a worthy and smart man who may not adopt the mindset in an environment like that. Therefore should be safe to invite for a visit. But not all men are like that. They are like sponges who absorb all the views and feelings voiced there and act according to the collective conclusions reached by other members. (they may be newbies to the boards or young men, or even just men made bitter by their own experiences in life) I have heard that before in my life, said right to my face. But i knew what it meant, in what context, and have used it to my advantage (if you want to call it that). On the other hand it could also be used to describe a new employee approaching the end of their probation period. Or by a teacher who is trying to convey that this is a good student. Either way we all know it is condescending. But that is part of the mindset of these boards. They are set up to allow one person's judgement of other people (mostly girls) to be made public to anyone who is interested. The rest is a domino effect. Limited only by what a person is willing/not willing to say/participate in. Some people have no filters, some people have no limits. Some just have a darn bad view of life and others that it influences those limits profoundly. Terb specifically seems to 'produce' members that are disrespectful (not only of sps but of women AND people of other cultures/races AND people's place in this world). These feelings and judgements can appear in the personal dealings with a member (who is influenced by the collective mindset apparent there) when they are invited for a visit, and subsequently carry on, off-board but in person for provider. These subsequent communications can be a nuisance or a clear threat to personal safety based solely on the fact that she didn't perform or adhere to the 'standards and practices' set out by the (established) users and mindsets of that board. When experiences like that out-number the good experiences that seem to involve a certain group (like terb members) then of course, for peace of mind, safety and other things that keep providers sane and able to work at their best, the only natural conclusion is to refuse to see that group! PS - Maybe the question should be why does a board that mainly services Toronto have a cloud of nastiness hanging over it? Why do the members there (the ones that feel comfortable) feel it's ok to think the way they do..and worse... feel the need to share it? (and this goes for the lounge area also as a general discussion can contain insights not found anywhere else. Except a lot of the insights found specifically on that board are ones that show a dark side to people not found usually unless you specifically go looking for it..beyond 'locker room' talk, i mean)

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It's good to hear about people that use their head and comprehend that most encounters are not a promise. I think it's very ironic that slobbyists make "white knight" such a title of disinterest. They pride themselves in being entitled when seeing a women is not a privilege and seeing a client is not a privilege but an experience. Nothing more. Nothing less. Too much venom is being used on the site especially from the ones who are reputable. It's appalling! Life could never be simple can it?? "Hey, I felt chemistry was off due to minimal things to talk about." "She seemed to be having a bad day and am hesitant to see her again." "BUT she seems like a cool chick and you can decide for yourself" I myself worked agency work before and due to the fact that I preferred taking my time, I struggled to manage my time between encounters and have some off reviews but lucky for me the reviewer was smart and stated that "it was probably because of the situation I was in and from what he has seen, from my reviews on the rosie board and how I promote myself, I would ask that you not let that stop you from seeing her. People do change." Which was fair. Like I said good, honest communication is key. Calling out a girl for not being comfortable is BS. I even explained to him that my time was limited with him and I was overly concerned with upsetting the agency and am not one to dislike my profession but I told him mindless pumping isn't my thing hence why the experience wasn't enjoyable. He wasn't my cup of tea and yeah, I'm human. I don't fake it. If you're lame in bed and decline any offers of something more fun I will be bored out of my freaking mind. If I was independent then I would have given him half the donation and told him I wasn't the girl for him. He did seem to be the "see every girl to legit review them" so I not much of a loss. I understand the point of a paying customer but to be fair I never really belonged in the agency based atmosphere. I'm far too unique. hence why he probably felt ripped off. I noticed many on TERB are cocky so, I myself would avoid the board and tread lightly when a TERBIE would contact me but never refuse unless they were disrespectful when communicating with me (which has happened). I've been harassed by TERBIES on my phone at all hours and put down so badly due to reviews that I have had to take weeks off at a time to snap myself out of it. It's disgusting. So, my reviews are seen here and on my website to avoid drama. I myself tell clients before meeting that I do not make promises. I state that my experience consists of communication, respect and cleanliness. I state that everything is in the accordance to the individual and even request directly on my site to leave the donation in clear view and don't touch it until communication is established. If it turns into the case where either of us are not comfortable with continuing I give the client the option to grab the donation and state that this will not work for them and I would do the same, if I'm not comfortable with continuing and hand them the donation back and state that I felt that they would be better off with a different experience. (neither has happened so far). Communication is important, especially when you are to be intimate with someone and some people are legit uneducated to such a degree that they think us girls are to do JUST as they imagined without even telling us what experience is for them. This also gives an option to decline if she feels she can't offer what he requires. People are legit stupid on there.

I'm a member of both boards under the same handle butI'm way more active on hear and more of a lurker on terb. I do like more the vibe on hear it's more friendly and able to have discussion on various subjects in a civile manner. yes guys go way to far on terb when describing some stuff and I'm often angry by the way some members talks about sp's. the reason I look at terb is lately there is more info on lovely ladys there they are here, especially woman on bp. I know you will all say to stick with ladys on here but there is some wonderful gem who advertise only on bp and do not want to use lyla or terb. all I know is that us man are lucky and privileged to be able to spend intimate moments with you lovely ladys and should always be treated with respect either in person or on a review board. this is the way I always handled myself in this wonderful hobby on only wich I would not be refused a rendez vous because I'm a member of a board. no every members of terb are are rude and macho.

I feel like TERB is the Donald Trump of Boards... Having said that, I do not discriminate gentlemen - the lurker type of users - who use this tool to do their homework. As for those who participate and won't hesitate to step up for the ladies when things get out of proportion, even though they will most likely be shamed with the "white knight" tag: you guys are exceptional and ladies positively notice you <3 To the slobbyists: if you are against the White Knight in the story, you are most likely the villain. Who wins the attention of the Princess? ;b

I think the thought process is - if you see someone posting something that is nasty - instead of ignoring it, or worse, agreeing with it - do you say something? Do you call someone out if they have posted something that is potentially violent? Dangerous? Or, do you keep scrolling and do nothing? Again, I`m not referring to the comment `she wasn`t my cup of tea`. Its the comments like she`s a dog, she doesn`t deserve to be alive, she needs a shit kicking. I still remember a post - someone had commented on a really attractive lady who worked in a retail store. She did not work in the industry. Enough information was made available for people to figure out where she worked. Comments were being made "yes, she is really hot, I'd bone her" etc, which meant these guys were actually going to her workplace to check her out. The thread was eventually closed, and identifying information was deleted. However, I was horrified. Her safety was put in jeopardy, and of course, because she is not part of this industry, knew nothing about the increased interest in her. Of course, the ladies on the site could not comment on the thread. It was not about them, so therefore, they did not have a say in the matter. However, it did open my eyes to the ramifications of some that do not seem to understand the dangers they place others in by their inappropriate comments - and lack thereof.

I personally am no longer a member of terb but I wouldn't exclude someone from because they belonged to a specific board. I no longer read the comments over there because it really is none if my business what people think of me. I'm aware that some of them over there aren't fond of me because I tend to speak my mind and some of them think women should be seen and not heard. Who cares...i will continue to be me. I will continue to be a reputable SP as well. That's all that matters. Some men are members there and use it as a resource. I can respect that. However, if I researched a guy's handle and he was writing something as though it was really crude and graphic, I would definitely think twice about seeing him. The same applies for the big mouth types who will reveal certain details that could be detrimental to SPs and their privacy. I will give potential clients a chance even if I were researching their handles but there would be certain people who post who I would never want to meet based on the tone of their posts if they were mostly negative to begin with. I don't want that energy around me.

Yes, but do keep in mind that some "reviewers" have a slobbyist outlook and have accused women of poor service due to bad chemistry or the women not being a certain way and/or expecting her of being obedient like a dog. Some ladies prefer not to be compared to a piece of meat or a hole in the wall. Reviews are great to keep away the lady cons from hobbyists but in my opinion some use TERB to express negative reviews due to ignorance or having a head full of air. I find lyla is set as a reco board to prevent shaming and negative outlets to show a woman's worth rather than immature setbacks due to her not giving you the "yes sir whatever you want" experience. Women have the right to be people and enjoy their job. If I am unable to enjoy my profession than I wouldn't be here. I see people who comprehend that everyone is an individual. Everyone has their own protocol and people need to respect this and not be so full of themselves. I myself insist that people review on Lyla and directly on my website. I have no issue with people reviewing on TERB but most don't, due to a few distasteful and immature reviews about myself, again no thanks to poor chemistry and ignorant men assuming I must run my protocol THEIR way. I offer amazing experience with service and see no reason for my bad reviews. Explain how that is acceptable. When I hear TERB, I hear "drama". That being said I see all people no matter where they review. If you aren't an asshole it should be no problem to see a TERBIE.

with all due respect, this is pretty self serving. Proclaiming 'I personally do not beat my wife' does not make domestic violence go away. We all, as men - and especially as clients, really ought to step up and take some responsibility for the often shameful tone of posts on these boards. Saying 'it wasn't me' isn't terribly helpful. Let's all own up a little and think hard before we press 'send'.

For me, it's not where you're a member but what kind of member you are. Posting history can say a lot. If someone posts in a crude descriptive way not only is it crass it's potentially dangerous with laws the way they are. Second, the assumption can be made that if they were to see you and choose to review, the same style would be used. I can understand why someone would choose not to put themselves in that position. Some don't care and figure all reviews are good reviews but for those who raise their own bar for what they provide and want to have an experience with some as opposed to being a "living toy" I can see how they would screen out these members. The comment was made about being members on both boards and they're good on one but not the other and that is simply rules and permissions. What one does without rules is generally closer to character as they define character as what you do when no one is looking (or there are no rules in place). To be on LYLA, you have to play by the rules or lose access. I will admit I have found it difficult at times to determine whether I want to see someone because their posts leave me cold and turned off.

I think TERB is not SP friendly at all, unless you are a paying member. Bashing is allowed, aswell as false reviews and drama. Also, MOD here is strict. Sometimes, it can be very frustrating, but he's out there, watching over us. On TERB, if you are not an advertising SP, good luck to have support. The level of politeness and respect is not even comparable. For the three times I've been on there since 2009, it always have been a bad experience. And last, the requests that make me the most uncormfortable (and believe me, there are not much), are all coming from there. Most banned members from here are ending on there. Says a lot. LYLA (CERB) or its affiliates are really the only ressources I feel cormfortable with...

I didn't read in original post that she was getting bad reviews. I read that she has had it with ppl who frequent that board. Crude or not, my experience with terb guys is they carry that 'attitude' and hateful opinions outside of board matters in other words in their personal dealings with girls. I have been thinking about advertising there but their absolute hatred of all girls independent is almost scary. Would I be opening a whole new can of worms by putting myself back on their radar? Or can I hope to attract lurkers only? (I don't care about reviews but personal safety issues are my concern when it comes to that board) So making assumptions is never the answer. Everybody has their own reasons. Assumptions have a habit of becoming 'fact' and if you know not of what you speak, you mess it up for the ppl who the assumptions are about

The Erb boards are geared towards the hobbyists - they can pretty much say whatever they want. The ladies are not allowed to reply in most cases unless it is specifically about them AND they are a paying member. If not a paying member, they are not allowed to post - even if to clarify something. I've even seen it go as far as some guys telling ladies to go back to sucking someones ... and to shut their mouth. So, it can get pretty heated, and often its the lady who gets the infraction - even if last month she was a paying member, this month she isn't, so she has no say. So, for me, if I'm going to use the sites, its to post ads, and thats about it. They are not a fun place to be around, and I'm not much into the negative feeling on them. As far as whether I would screen someone out simply because they were a member on the site - I'd have to look at their posting history. I see some on the other boards as being quite crude, but over here, can be decent. So, I would made a decision on what they actually posted on the other board. If I even saw one posting where they bashed another lady - whether it is warranted or not - I doubt I would choose to see them. Sorry, but thats my take on it. Its one thing to say "didn't enjoy myself" vs "she's a skank that doesn't deserve to live". Paraphrasing of course, but thats the gist.

My guess is that the graphic and often lurid details of encounters commonly posted on terb are offensive and disrespectful to many service providers.

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