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3 pointsCommunication is the ultimate key! Each woman is as different as each man. What gets me off may not be the same as anyone else and vice versa. That's why I hate short appointments. Let's tell each other what feels good and go for it!
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2 pointsI had the amazing opportunity to spend an hour with Andre last week. No hesitation needed. It was an amazing experience. Great location, beautiful, super friendly, open-minded and genuine. My guess would be, her partners are like minded.
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2 pointsHave to agree with Stillopensdoors here.... as a provider that sees anyone and everyone...whether transgender, lesbian, bi, straight. couples... et al... with no judgement... I like the fact that this site.. aside from the anonymity of a username.. gives one the safety to be themselves... with no worry... so there shouldn't be in disclosing anything one feels comfortable disclosing...... whether it be a kink/fetish... personal ideal... it's all lovely here... It may/not be something others share with you/your friend.. but rest assured, it will not be something anyone here would ridicule about..(yet another thing to go on the 'things I like about lyla' thread hehe) and chances are very good.. there is a provider (or a few hehe)... who would be happy to facilitate... ;) ...disclose away! <grin>
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2 pointsThat's right! I made some minor changes to my website which includes the photo calendar and a new album with selfies, I hope you'll enjoy it ;) Info About Me: I'm a well-proportioned young woman standing 5'1 tall and weighing 103 lbs. statistics that make my body well-proportioned and I'm very happy with it although one can always improve and staying healthy is very important to me so I work out, walk long distances, jog and do yoga. I have a carefree and friendly personality, I'm fun and sensual and always treat others with good manners and respect. Occupation: Companion (Among other things) Location: West End of Ottawa Schedule: My schedule is flexible so if you are interested in meeting me please send me a message with the suitable time for you. Considerations: One Hour Session: $240 One Hour and a Half Session: $340 Two Hour Session: $450 This considerations are strictly for time and companionship. Contact Information: Website: http://www.mselissamarie.com Phone Number: 613-366-7651 (please only text messages through which we can arrange for a phone call) E-Mail: [email protected] Twitter: @MsElissaMarie Instagram: MsElissaMarie Skype: ms.elissamarie Flickr: mselissamarie You are welcome to PM me here although for a faster response an e-mail or a text message is recommended. Discussion About Time With Me: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=233708 Recommendation: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=234999 Hope to meet you soon, ElissaMarie
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2 pointsHello gentlemen, I assure you I am the real deal. I am discrete, professional and love what I do. I understand that it can be hard to choose, so if you have any questions I am very happy to answer them.
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1 pointShe gave me one of the best times I've ever had, awesome no French kissing but let me kiss her, she looks exactly like she does in her pics with a nice assets http://Http://belleville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/busty-curvy-bombshell-gorgous-inside-and-out-incalls/28150375
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1 pointI also initially thought the OP was asking if hobbyists interested in seeing someone who is transgender should announce it was with the idea that doing so would help them connect with a person they'd like to see. If it is indeed instead due to the idea that he wants to know who to avoid, because of some idea that those who have been with a transgender person are at greater risk...well, that is very unfortunate to put it lightly. The idea that you're at greater risk being with a transgender person plays into outdated stereotypes and a lack of knowledge.
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1 pointA seperate comment of the OP's on TERB may offer some clarification in regards to specifically what he's asking, which, to my knowledge is whether or not people should disclose if they see T-girls because he believes it increases 'the risk'. "in an obliquely related vien .. I would want to know about hobbiests who frequent tgirls. This to my mind multiplies the risk way past my comfort level. There's a guy on the Rosie board who self identifies. I wouldn't see anyone that he has seen. jmo"
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1 pointI read this a few times to get the gist of what the OP is asking. I wouldn't be disclosing anything to anyone (whether on this site or otherwise). If a client chooses to visit a tgirl, ma or provider, that is their decision. Choice is something we have on this site. Reading posts, ads, reviews and such give a person an insight as to those choices. If the OP is asking if we as providers 'talk' to one another, then the answer can be yes. We might be asked by a provider for a reference. But I can't see any provider stating 'oh that person saw abcxyz type of person' it's more along the lines of 'he has pets so take care if allergic', 'wonderful experience would definitely see again', 'we didn't seem to have a real connection but things went well', and so on and so forth. The type of person that one chooses to see in this capacity, is purely choice. I would never ask a client if they have been with transgender/lesbian/gay/straight/poly, quite frankly, it's none of my business. Same goes to a client asking me, none of their business. It is a confusing question, I read two meanings into it, so I'm unsure of what the OP really is looking for in an answer, or opinion.
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1 pointI am going to be available later Friday night until Sunday evening for appointments in the West end of Ottawa. I am into fetish, role play, toys, and anything else you can think of :) I provide appointments in a clean/safe environment with the upmost discretion. Think of something you've always wanted to try and shoot me a text...maybe I can make your wildest dreams come true! -Shower available -AMAZING massage -Highly reviewed -Outcalls available for longer appointments only -Toys -I am a non smoker -Independent 150lbs - 36DD - 5"4 Green eyes & long brown hair Smooth skin and a soft round booty My skills are to impress, my service is top notch Always non rush - MY PHOTOS ARE REAL Text is best 613-917-9752 100/hh 180/h 250/1.5h 320/2h
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1 point.....and again, am in full agreement.. things/people are what they are.. no crap.. no contest.... h3ll, if we all were what we once were.. we'd all still be in kindergarten ;) but I believe what he was asking was if the person (hobbiest/client) who is *interested* in tgirls should disclose that... and yeah.. whatever floats your boat.. is whatever floats your boat.... nobody need worry about judgement in this purrrrticular arena ;)
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1 pointThis discussion has happened many times. The reality is - if someone has gone through gender reassignment surgery, they are now in their right gender. Prior to the surgery, they were living in a body that was not theirs. However, I have a real issue with those that choose to publicly disclose the birth gender of someone who has gone through a reassignment. It puts them at risk. I don't like that. If they have gone through the reassignment, and you are attracted to them - what is the issue? If you are someone that has a real issue with this - ask in advance. If in doubt, move on. I wish society was much more open to everyone. Whether they are gay, straight, bi, trans, cross over, kink whatever - let them be who they are. The comments of "dude, you know she has a d i c k" or "Hell, look at that adams apple", or even the most popular - "her hands are man hands." Some of my closest friends have features of male and female. They have never had reassignment surgery, not are they interested in it. However, they do cry a little when someone says something that is cruel. Not everyone is a Barbie Doll or a Ken Doll. However, as a society, I wish everyone could truthfully disclose without fear of crime or assault.
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1 pointCarley Chase also visits Sydney from time to time and is one of my favourite companions. She will rock your world !
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1 pointeasiest thing... be smart... be safe... It isn't *just* the parties involved in the act.. it is anyone they may come in contact with before/after.... unaware wives, boyfriends/husbands being the most prevalent ....common sense should prevail here :) I once had a partner who was rather insistent about me going down on them... but absolutely refused (as in vehemently and almost rude!) ... until *I* got tested... LOL seriously? if it's ok to have my mouth on you... (now, stay with me here folks).... it's the same thing as if your mouth was on me.. for the most part...(and yes, I am fully aware there are things that may/not be transferred orally...but..)... so.. if it's not something you would be willing to do.. there should not be an expectation for things to work differently if spun around <ha! see what I did there...?> ,,and for the record, I sent him home immediately... ignored his messages for a few days, until I calmed down... then I answered his message with questioning when *he* was going for tests... haha he asked why would *he* get tested...?? HA! ...did I bother to explain...? hehe no....... buh-bye!! I think, this twit is a fine example of why over the years, I think I preferrrr hobbiests .. they aren't your 'garden-variety @sshole ;)
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1 pointLove the article! and yeah.. as one who used to work in the medical field.. far too many people are made to think they have a 'problem'.. and they inevitably become overpowered by that, instead of learning there are far more things/ways to enjoy eachother... sex.. than the actual act of 'envelopment' (hehe made me chuckle, so had to use it again hehe)... And definitely agree that other factors may well contribute.. the only women I have *ever* heard complain like that, in all honesty, were complete and utter biatches.. so one can only assume...<grin>.....'cause & effect' right? hehe remove the pressure, rephrase..for cripes' sake. stop 'blaming'... and hey.. whaddya know.. muuuuch more fun! Purrrfect, I would think ;) Thanks for the great and informative read ;)
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1 pointAfter a long week wouldn't it be nice to get a little relief and ease into the weekend with a smile? For the next two days, July 22nd & 23rd, I am offering a HH WORSHIP special at $20 off my normal rate. A great way to release some of your tension and get on with your weekend. For those LYLA members I have not met, if you have a posting history and a reference from a reputable lady, my daytime summer availability will be open to you. See my website for more details http://rawr4u.com/rates-contact/ Hope to make you smile soon!
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1 pointMuch like dancing each partner is different so good communication, taking ones time and paying attention is key for me. What worked well with some one may not work well at all with some one else. Even day to day there can be different wants and needs. Being "married" (pun) to a certain style can counterproductive, switching it up can be a good thing. Reading female erotica has been helpful for me as well. If you're doing it "right" .......you'll know and vice versa. I saw some one regularly who would leave a pillow for me to kneel on at the foot of the bed and it was the first thing on the agenda each visit. I guess in this case I was doing it "right". Peace MG
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1 pointDear gentlemen's, I'm Angela French a sexy, classy & delicate companion that offer upscale experience and i'm visiting New-Brunswick again!! (incall/outcall) 10am to midnight. Fredericton july 28-29 Moncton july 30-1st PEI, Charlottetown august 2-3th Imagine being completely pampered, all your worries being left far behind... Yourself having an indulgence relaxation massage & sensual session with a warm & passionate woman. I will charm you with my deep blue eyes and seduce you with my petite & fit body. I want to bring you to my world of fantasy and sensuality. I set relaxing ambiance and pay attention to every details. I'm also a great companion for dinnerdate! Service: Sensual & passionate session and profesional massage include Stats: Quebecoise 25yrs old Petite & fit body. (Spinner) 32B-22-32 5'4" 110lbs Long black hair Bleu eyes Donation: Hh/160 1Hr/260 1.5Hr/400 2Hrs/500 Special 4hrs dinnerdate 750 You can preboook now at [email protected] text only 514-416-4991 Website:http://www.angela-french.com Hope to hear from you soon xoxoxo
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1 pointThank you so much for taking the time to look at my page and finding more about me. I am an Ottawa based high end provider. I put in a lot of effort and care in the experience you will have with me. You'll find I'm very educated, well spoken, and well traveled. I am down to earth and easy to converse with. I also have a great sense of humour. I love taking the time to get to know my clients. I value and treasure all of our experiences. I hope we will soon meet. I stand 5'5", 115 lbs with curves in the right places: 34D natural and a nice round bottom. I have long platinum blonde hair and a soft light complexion. I speak both French and English. I never disappoint and your time with me will be one that you won't soon forget! Feel free to check out my reviews on this board xo Text only at 613-282-8916 Feel free to check out my website brookesummers.ca
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1 pointHi! We are Sweet Emily J & Robin Drake, a passionate real life couple who have mega hot chemistry together! We ooze passion for each other and love to share it with company! My partner Robin Drake and I offer professional escort services together to fulfill your secret salacious desires! We love to show off, share, and engage with others! From sweet & sensual to kinky & intense! We like to spend time with men, women, and other couples too. Robin is a warm and friendly, attractive and mature experienced bisexual man. Standing 6 feet tall, he is lean & slender, with dark hair and classic masculine features. He is a versatile companion with broad tastes and easily switches between dominant and submissive roles, enjoying both equally. I am Emily, a sweet & sensual bisexual woman. I am the insatiable girl-next-door, with an all natural, low-maintenance appearance and soft, plush womanly figure. I enjoy casual, unpretentious and playful encounters, varying from soft & cuddly affection, to the more kinky fantasy fun. Together we provide engaging sensual companionship duos, and a variety of kinky fantasy scenarios! We're open-minded, and offer a pleasing balance of naughty & nice. Perfect for curious men looking to dip their toe in and finally explore their secret desires in a safe & non-judgemental environment, or adventurous couples who like to keep it fresh! Intimate male & female duo companionship & kink not available anywhere else in Ottawa. Step out of your comfort zone and come fulfill your secret fantasies with a beautiful and passionate couple! Check out recommendations from adventurous folks who have enjoyed our company! Visit My Website To see lots more sexy photos of Robin & I, and to find our rates & booking info, e-mail me for the link to my extremely sexy website! (it's too hot to link to on Lyla!) [email protected]
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1 pointI don't fake it because I don't want to give the impression that I'm enjoying something if it's not quite right or reinforce bad techniques. Most of the gents that like daty know what they're doing. But I've noticed from talking with and working with other girls that I am not the Norm. And I have been chastised for not faking it (going against the grain and not following along) and now I know why so many guys wonder why it takes me 10-20 min to finish when they claim every other girl they see is under 5 min or seemingly as soon as they start touching her. (Unrealistic! It takes us time to get turned on) Well... Now you know. I've also seen ladies fake it in sessions. She just says oh you made me come and she has no contractions or sensitivity or anything. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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1 pointI saw Savannah a few months ago at Angel's Touch. She is a very friendly young girl, with an amzing body. She gave a great massage and really seemed to enjoy what she does, I would recommend for sure.
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1 pointHi! My name is Saoirse! A natural 42DD voluptuous lady, and have a figure made for lots of tender loving care! Let me help soothe the stresses of the week away! Let's play! Rates For My Time 240 / 90 minutes 360 / 3 hours 240 / 90 minutes (kink) 400 / 2.5 hours (kink) [email protected]
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1 pointI wish I had more women as clients! I can't offer client perspective, but I can offer encouragement. I love working with women.
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1 pointI have had a few experience with tgirls and I find it was from one extreme to the other. Let me explain what I mean, some where affectionate and gave me a true Girlfriend experience and others where simply not. I found that the ones that were not had false advertising and I just got suckered in their ads. I consider myself straight and have no attraction to any men. The last tgirl I have seen in Montreal had pictures of her in beautiful lingerie showing all of her and that is what I was expecting to see, when I arrived she was hesitant in removing her bottom and would keep her legs closed and only show me her back side. When she finally did either it was fake pictures or she had the operation. Either way she was anxious for me to leave and it showed so I was in and out in less then 20 minutes and I paid for the hour.
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1 pointWhile I have never had any experience either way, I am highly interested in experimenting with a tgirl. Unfortunately, I have never been able to find a time when (a) someone who looks reputable is in town (because there are a lot of sketchy looking SPs out there); and (b) finances/time allow it match up. Eventually...eventually.
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1 pointI've changed my number to ( 438 )274-3853 Hi! I'll be in Ottawa today (Wed 20th) in the late-afternoon and will be available until early Sat morning (23rd). I'll be staying at the foot of downtown and as always, it is a discreet, smoke-free location with ample street and lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking only, unless we already know each other.) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed (1hr if very early), unless PJs, bleary eyes and a teddy bear being dragged by his paw is your thing) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who wish to explore; the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a slim & athletic but curvy 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with long dark hair (Pls note my hair is now shorter than in the photos, although still long. The price of natural hair is it needs to be cut occasionally. New pix coming soon) and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones again! You can also view my new website http://www.JessyCeleste.weebly.com Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi: $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste ( 438 ) 274-3853 Twitter: @JessyCeleste1
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1 pointNelly Furtado - "Maneater" (Avoided "New York Dolls" in deference to Jenny's declared preference against "s"...lol)
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1 pointFinally got a chance to come in this weekend and try a couples nuru massage session with Rose. That was a lot of fun... my wife really enjoyed it. I'd done a solo nuru session with Rose before this -- she's such a cutie with a devious smile and, from the right angles, a truly perfect round butt. She's also quite personable, fun to talk to, and has some pretty ambitious plans of her own. Ran into Faye briefly on the way out, who has just a hint more of the girl next door look than you'd imagine from the pictures online (in addition to being pretty darn hot). The room had a bit more decor than a couple months ago.... the club seems to be coming together. I think Jessica is building something special with Brass. From what I can tell the girls seem to genuinely enjoy working there.
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1 pointHello there! I have been a bad girl this weekend - care to teach me a lesson? Submission starts at 160... GFE starts at 120... Website: http://mortmesne.wix.com/surrealsaoirse
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1 pointEverything have been said... She's very close from 417, receive in her home Not very cute, fat but still not ugly she use lots of oil, massage is good, lots of teasing, only one option. Use hot towels at the end but you still need a shower when you arrive home.. Dammage very reasonnable. http://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beauty/ottawa/relaxation-massage-home-spa/1170693872?enableSearchNavigationFlag=true Mark
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1 point@horndog: nope. The 'natural' simply indicates not implants. So what if hormone treatments generated them. She feels those hormones are her 'natural' hormones. It's her business not ours.
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1 pointThis is an incredibly complicated question that depends on a lot of individual factors, as well as what we believe it means to be "physically a woman." If you're asking if it's possible for a trans woman to be consistently read as cis (identifying with the gender they were assigned at birth), even by people who are physically intimate with her, then the answer is yes, absolutely. This isn't true for all trans women, and not all trans women care about or want to be read as cis. Not all trans women are interested in bottom surgery. But it is definitely possible for some trans women. Hormones can have a very dramatic effect on the texture of skin, distribution of body fat, body smells etc. Vaginoplasty and labiaplasty surgical techniques can construct genitals that self-lubricate, are orgasmic, and that you could not tell by look or feel were surgically constructed (and keep in mind that there's a lot of variation in the way that vulvas and vaginas look and feel.) Things like genetics also play a huge role in how hormones influence the expression of typically male or female traits. There are plenty of people who naturally look very androgynous, have very little body and facial hair, fine bone structure, high voices etc. And for people who figure out that they're trans very young, puberty blockers can completely prevent the "wrong" secondary sex characteristics from developing. I think in discussions like these we also need to think very critically about our assumptions about what makes a person a man or a woman. Culturally and socially there are a whole lot of assumptions about these categories - assumptions about biology, never mind things like social roles and expectations - that are just plain inaccurate, and fail to account for normal human variation. Biologically, females produce eggs, males produce sperm. That's it - that's the criteria for an individual being biologically male or female. Things like hormones, secondary sex characteristics, genitals, and even chromosomes do not define our biological sex. While we can say that certain characteristics typically go together, we all fall on a bell curve, and those tail ends of the bell curve are still part of normal human variation. So a few examples: Androgen insensitivity syndrome can result in someone who is genetically XY to develop phenotypically female. They may be assigned female at birth, identify as a woman and never even know that they are XY. Poly cystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) is very common among women and one of the symptoms for many people is growth of facial and body hair that is coarser and darker than is typical for women. While most people will have either XX or XY sex chromosomes, some people are also only born with a single sex chromosome (X or Y) or three or more sex chromosomes (polysomies - for example XXY, XXX, XXXY, XXXXY etc). At birth babies are typically assigned a gender based on the appearance of their genitals, however, a small percentage of people will have ambiguous genitalia at birth. They may have their genitals surgically altered shortly after birth - usually to resemble a typical vulva (not best practice, and often considered a human rights violation), or may grow up with genitals that don't resemble a typical penis or vulva. They may or may not opt for surgical reconstruction as adults and the gender they were assigned at birth may or may not fit their actual gender identity. Beyond biology, we also should think about how the ways we are socialized influence our ideas of who is a man or woman, and what is feminine. Largely, western ideas of femininity and beauty are strongly constructed around white European phenotypes, cultures, and beliefs about class. It's not just trans women whose womanhood and femininity is constantly challenged, but also women of colour, most notably black women (see all of the awful comments about the Williams sisters' bodies as a prominent example.) These messages about what constitutes valid and real femininity are everywhere and deeply ingrained in our cultures. We are not at fault for internalizing them but I do believe it behooves us to look critically about how these ideas are influenced by things like racism and classism, how they are built on false beliefs about biology, and how these ideas harm and constrain us all. Trans women often bear the most severe consequences - discrimination and violence - of these narrow definitions of who is a man or woman, and what is acceptable femininity, but all women and men are impacted negatively by them. If you've ever felt insecure about your masculinity it's these very ideas at play, and you too would benefit from us collectively reexamining them.
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1 pointIt's quite obvious from your post that it's not about their safety or anyone else's but YOUR COMFORT, so I fixed your post for you. And before you get all riled up about the insinuation that you'd cause violence, well, no offense, but men who are "upset" by "scars where their dick used to be" are usually the ones who get violent. A transitioned trans woman, or a trans woman who has had top and bottom surgery is under no obligation to disclose to you. If you are so insecure about your own masculinity that you need to know if someone used to have a penis, you need to deal with that shit yourself.
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1 pointA person's surgical and medical history is literally no one's business but their own. If you are not okay with the possibility that someone might have something in their history that makes you uncomfortable but has zero real impact on you, then you should both do some personal reflection on your internalized homophobia and find a different hobby. Trans women and sex workers, particularly trans women sex workers, are already at incredibly high risk of violence, criminalization and poverty. The idea that they owe anyone any explanations about their past and medical history is ridiculous, and increases the likelihood that some entitled person is going to be violent toward them or out them and damage their business. Trans women sex workers are extremely aware that there are people out there who would be angry if they found out that they weren't cis. The "trans panic" defence has been successfully used by men who murdered trans women, as recently as 2005, in the case of Shelby Tracy Tom (and possibly more recently.) When a trans sex worker decides to not disclose her status, she is making a strategic risk-reward evaluation and business decision. There are very specific expectations that most clients who see trans sex workers have, and that almost always includes having a penis that gets erect. Post bottom surgery, it makes pretty much no sense business-wise for a trans woman sex worker to advertise that she's trans. And for those of you who have outed trans women on this site - and I have seen it happen, stop it. Cut that shit out. You are placing the comfort of strangers on the internet over the real life safety and privacy of a vulnerable woman. That is not an okay or humane decision. Trans women are women. Full stop. No woman owes her clients information about her irrelevant medical background. dragon66_61: Have a little respect, and treat trans women like human beings instead of objects or animals. It is never appropriate to refer to someone as "it" and I can't imagine what would make you think that was okay. If you can't recognize the humanity of sex workers don't see them. Find another hobby and stick with jerking off. 500 Pound Gorilla - being trans has nothing to do with sexual orientation, nor does being a sex worker who has male clients. There's zero reason to assume that a trans woman was having sex with men prior to her transition/work.
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1 point"It"? Wow. Here's a thought for you. If you suspect an SP is trans, and you are worried about the idea of sticking your dick into an attractive female that used to be the same gender as you, ask. While a trans person may not wander around proclaiming their genetic makeup, when asked, I'm pretty sure they aren't going to lie about it. If she has transitioned completely, and can function in all ways physically as a woman, then I can't see the problem. If anything, if she matches her pictures, and you are attracted to those, where is the problem? And, with her background, she may have some interesting insights for your session. My only problem would be if the pictures have been stolen or photoshopped, and she is not as promised. But that would apply to any SP. There are some absolutely stunning transitioned females out there, who can finally live their lives as their brains are wired. Holding a cruel joke of birth genetics against them is very small minded.
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1 pointIt is my belief that a transgender woman is a woman, and not a man playing dress up or pretend. Nor--and I think this is key to your question--do I think a transgender woman is being deceitful simply for presenting herself the way she is. I gather from your post the ladies you're speaking of have transitioned, and now have a body that matches their identity. I'm glad to live in a society where people can truly be themselves. And if these ladies happened to have some surgeries in the past, well then no, I don't think I as a client would have a right to that information any more than I expect any other lady I spend time with to disclose all of her medical history. I don't mean to be flippant or dismissive. I understand why you'd ask the question and why some might struggle with this topic. But when you say "many unsuspecting clients would be very upset if they found out that the person they thought was natural woman used to be man", my thought is that is their problem, not hers.
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