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I'm curious...if you love camping and your wife hates it, wouldn't she be relieved if you offered to go camping on your own and let her enjoy some activities she enjoys? Um...I think the consensus answer to your question is YES PLEASE! :) I keep trying to think what my own best one would be, but there's so many fun scenarios to imagine. A vacation away with a lady (or since this is a dream fantasy perhaps two) does sound fun. Maybe a European cruise where we can explore and have some adventures in various cities...and then explore and have some adventures on ship as well! I'm sure tomorrow I'll have a different answer. Really though, if I get to spend some time with a woman who is confident, happy, and engaging, I know it's going to be a fantasy encounter.

Trump is, when you get down to it, a con-man. I don't think he's the fascist that many people make him out to be any more than he's the titan of business and champion of the downtrodden that he claims to be himself.

Alrrrright folks.. settle in for a moment.. this is going to be a good one <grin> When I was younger, I had the wonderful opportunity to be under the tutelage of a much older man...who taught me the amazing variations found in the sensual side of BDSM.... this.. is a recount of one of my absolute favorite times when living in his house: After he bathed me, brushed out my curls an powdered my body.. the blindfold in place over my eyes, lipstick applied to my mouth... he picked me up in his arms, and laid me out on the large dining table in what he always called the 'formal room'. I was left there, blind, legs spread, arms above my head, and knew enough to simply stay there....in the silence. Waiting. In short order, there were voices around me, and I could feel 'things' being placed against my skin on my body.. and figured eventually, it was food... cheeses, meat slices, fruits.. an other things I couldn't identify in the dark of the blindfold. I felt his hands in my hair, arranging the curls, knowing he was making me beautiful. He whispered I was going to make a stunning centerpiece! and then silence again. I remained as still as I could, so as not to disturb anything. Eventually, the doorbell started to ring, and guests arrived, I will cut a lot out in case this is too long.. but during the dinner, I could detect at lest 8 different voices, some male, some female.. chatting casually and all remarking on what a pretty arrangement this was, how beautiful and soft 'the' skin was.... as they removed pieces of food while they chatted... it was lovely!! I don't think I had ever felt that special (up to that point anyway hehe).... there were dips and sauces placed in various divots on my body.. and these were used with food, fingers.. tongues <grin> and was one of the most lovely nights ever... I will skip over he rest of the night <grin> an say that, when all was said and done, and he had bathed me, dried me.. and was wrapped around me in our bed... he whispered into my ear that I was he most wonderful thing he had ever found, and was so proud of me.. I fell asleep... smiling..... perrrrfectly content ;) *almost* nothing has compared since ;)

Often a throw away line. Chemistry decides most every thing. Peace MG

They say that a little knowledge is a dangerous thing. It is perhaps from that perspective that I write this and with a sense of foreboding. I hope beyond hope that I am wrong. As a very amateur historian with a strong interest in the rise of Hitler and Nazi Germany in the 1930's, I cannot help but see and feel the eerie similarities with the rise of Donald Trump who is on the verge of being elected President of the United States. It is generally accepted that there were several keys to Hitlers rise. The first was a population that was living in desperate conditions. There was poverty, mass unemployment or underemployment , the feeling of having a lack of control of their own country and there was a pervasive lack of hope. Being desperate they were ready to grasp anything or anyone that offered an alternative. For many Americans this can be argued to be true at present. Hitler used hate as a way to unite the country behind him. He gave the people someone to blame and promises of greatness. Through manipulation the people gave him absolute control, legally. We know that the holocaust and WW II resulted - and all of that from a population of people who were just like you and I. We need not listen too long or look too hard to hear the hate from Trump and the way that he is focusing that hate on certain groups. He has now proclaimed himself as the law and order candidate. Think Gestapo. I realize that this is a very bare bones and inadequate review of the rise of Fascism in Germany in the 1930's however the similarities to today are very clear, at least to me. Around the world there is a rallying cry, "Never Again." I am very fearful for a large population of people in the U.S. - Muslims, Mexicans, Latinos, LGBTQ people and anyone that does not fit Donald Trumps world. The chanting at his convention last week told a big story. I am afraid that we are living witnesses to the rise of Fascism.

They most certainly could and probably have had during one of Lyla's few incarnations. The wonderful thing is that there are always new comers and the questions are always relevant to someone. It's good to see it revived blacklabdog... smiles, cat

I am a 20-year old University student currently residing in Toronto, ON but do travel to other Canadian cities occasionally. Studying the business of fashion and marketing; school is among my top priorities in life, as well as my animals. My other hobbies and interests include art, modelling, writing, and trying new restaurants. Formerly a competitive figure skater and track runner I take very good care of myself physically and am always in good health and shape. I make it among my top priorities to look and feel my best at all times. I love to go out for dinner and drinks, to a nice lounge, explore an art gallery or have an intimate night at home with a glass of wine and chocolate truffles. I provide a true, sensual, unrushed girlfriend experience that is always to satisfaction for both (or more!) of us. I make it an effort to establish a true connection through conversation and physically that we can both enjoy. I am very passionate and always open to try new things as I have a very adventurous personality. Contact and photos found at www.carlywilde.com or (647) 497-9439 Xo. Carly

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I watched The Apprentice. Every season. He was condescending, patronizing and it was very obvious. Every time a woman wanted to raise a point he would interrupt her with how she looked that night. Or how pretty, comment on her dress or her trying to be serious, or something that would say "shut up now and just look pretty. I don't want to hear about that." He always did that. And he was patronizing to Dennis Rodman, and Arsenio all the time. And other black men who where on the show. 'I love this guy' he would say. He is a misogynist and a condescending racist. Maybe truisms in business, but life? uh uh. Unless you are a big phoney who really only sees others as a tool in your toolbox. Can't convince me otherwise. And just because he knows how to run a business doesn't mean he can run a country. 2 different things. (and he hasn't run his business without mistakes, like bankruptcy. And he has his hand in so many cookie jars as to be desperate. Bottled water to hotels. Like all celebrities looking to stay relevent) And he is just simply too old. His mindset and beliefs have gone the way of the dinosaur, doesn't matter how many people 'support' him. It's a re-run. In black and white, with a grainy image

I've never really paid much attention to "open minded". I figured if she works in this field, she's pretty open minded... but I suppose that it means she will listen to you and try to please you in the way you want her to treat you, rather then just mechanically doing her thing. One of my big preference is I love to gently run my hands through a woman hair, especially while kissing or in cowgirl (not unrelatedly I also particularly like long hair). I guess I have a hair fetish. Her willingness to let me gently play with her hair has a huge impact on if I repeat or not. So I always hope she open minded about her hair, lol. As for Girl Friend Experience. I do think that does mean something as I've been with ladies in Austria who made no attempt to engage in conversation, or was not affectionate or friendly during the session... and only partly because of the language barrier... I do enjoy the GFE but some lady's create the illusion better then others. and of course after a few repeats and a genuine connection is formed... its not really an illusion.

I live in the US and I am a citizen (and dearly miss my trips to Ottawa which was the basis for me joining this board many years ago). I think comparisons to Hitler, Nazis, etc., rarely convince anyone of anything. I think a more apt analogy to what Trump does on occasion, as do many politicians of both parties do on a daily basis (Obama is an expert when he's not busy talking about himself) is the "straw horse" argument: where one asserts a familiar, but weaker, factually incorrect version of an argument their opponent is making, and then they easily tear down that argument (hence the reference to "straw horse"). They all do it, but its rare for a Republican to go on the offensive the way Trump is ... he is shifting paradigms which is mostly what has so many people worked up. And I do not think that is a bad thing. Sorry but no Nazis running for Prez. I think the reporting on Trump is grossly exaggerated because of the mostly liberal press in the United States. i think he is a respected leader in the business world and frankly anyone who watched even a few episodes of The Apprentice will recognize that many of the points he raises in that show are truisms in business and life. I respectfully assert that's not a bad thing and many people will identify with those. I think its fair to say his public persona does not reflect the person he is and that he is very much a people person. Also he is an effective communicator whether you like his message or not. I think the debates in the fall will be very important for both Trump and Clinton.

The USA is infinitely better off than Germany was. Nazis really came into power in the twenties. There were many competing armed groups on the right and left. Hitler was able to unite enough of the right wing Freikorps under his banner to become the most powerful man in Germany. Remember Hitler had already tried to seize power in Bavaria in the 1923 putsch. By the end of the decade his SA was millions strong. Imagine mobs of armed right wing veterans shooting it out with communists. America may have violent crime but it is nothing like that. America has a social safety net unlike twenties Germany. Germany was still ruined from WW1, and paying reparations. They had lost valuable territory including industrial areas in the Ruhr. America is nowhere near that badly off. There is parallel though. Hitler and Goring did manufacture a crisis over the burning of the Reichstag and the murder of a German diplomat in Paris. Hitler presented himself as the only one who could handle those. Similar to how Trump promotes fear and himself as saviour. Americans are far too individualistic and love their Bill of Rights to become wiling subjects of a fascist state. Hitler argued that individuals were like property of the state and should make any sacrifice demanded of them. The Germans also liked authority wheras Americans reject it. The two viewpoints could not be more different.

Today was left over chili on a tortilla topped with creamy Italian dressing and shredded old cheddar put under the broiler.

Pauline (of Michelle's Massage) had the unique idea of offering massages at her home but outside beside her pool. As soon as I saw the ad, I thought, what a great idea and a very special opportunity. Saw her today and yes, the experience is rather magical. You can't do this in December. She's a long way out (10Km past Wakefield) so plan accordingly. I highly recommend the experience. And, I needed some special attention and I knew Pauline could deliver and boy did she ever.

Yup. I don't think Trump himself is hateful; he's just the opportunist he's always been, and he's riding a useful wave of hate. He's an advocate of naked prejudice ("All Muslims keep out!"), an advocate of war crimes ("We've got to go after their families!", and his waterboarding thumb-up), and now he has solicited domestic espionage from a foreign power to topple his political opponent ("But I was just being sarcastic!"). Trump's rise represents the desperate, primal scream of the terrified white conservatives who cannot believe or accept that their traditional monopoly on social postures has eroded. You're far from the only one to see the similarities with 1930s Germany. The fellow conservatives who supported Hitler's rise to legitimate political power thought he, too, would be "not so bad" and that they could control him once he was in charge. But it turned out he actually meant what he'd said. No reason it can't happen again, if people let it.

I didn't ask for a deep tissue so I can't speak to that. The massage I received was light to medium pressure and relaxing. You should google what a tantric massage is and watch some videos and that will steer you into what a my session was like. I go for regular therapeutic deep tissue massages all the time and this is a different massage experience completely. I'd say if you have some extra cash to burn give this a shot you might like or hate it but won't know until you go for yourself.

As with a lot of things.. in this business, and with life in general I think <grin>... I seem to have a different take on this as well.... To me, being 'open-minded' isn't solely relating to sex... but to keep it in properrr context for here.... To me, being a sexually open-minded person simply means I inquire listen, discuss anything you wish, with no judgement, ridicule... embarrassment... and yes, decide for myself if it something I am willing to engage in. If I enjoy it.. I not only continue, but will certainly repeat.. if not, then I simply don't... or find an eloquent way to change the activity ;) and not bother repeating that activity <grin> And I cannot believe someone (provider) would say they were 'open-minded'.. and then have a mile-long list of *don'ts* and NOT discuss them beforehand..... parrrrdon my characteristic bluntness here, but.... that's a bit f*cked up and cannot be good for business ;) My own thirst for new experiences makes me one is is most definitely open-minded...free-spirited no matter the context....sex and sensuality is just another way to explore/enjoy it ;)

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Tonight , one of my clients have inspired me what I am going to write. For a matter of privacy , I will name him Jo. I've been in this industry for a long time now and I noticed that like a lot of woman , a lot of men doesn't like their body. However , the medias and society are focusing on woman's issues with their self estime. We seems to forget that mens are also sensitive about how they look .. I feel that I should share my way to think about the subject .. A very wise person told me once that a body is like a book.. It tells a story. Every scars , every wrinkles are a part of your history. Stretch marks are a miracle because you created life , wrinkles are all the smiles and laught that you shared with precious people, lousse skin is a feat because you won the battle agains weight , surgery scars are a proof that you went trought sickness or an accident and survived .. Your body is the story of your own life and nobody should be ashame of it. Quite the contrary , be proud of it .. I told that to Jo tonight and I meant it with all my heart .. He seems to feel better about himself and he should because he's incredible and look absolutely awesome. Anyways , everybody will get older , get wrinkles , get all gelly and will have dark spots .. Then you will think "Omg I was so good looking 20 years ago " In fact , who's more comfy about his body ? The girls that put make up with a roll , has fake boobs , fake nails , fake hair and look absolutely fantastic ? The guy that spent his entire day at the gym , taned in a can and shaved his chest ? This is all superficial .. Yes they might look fantastic but under this cover and mask , are they happyer with their body ? I don't know .. The moral of this long message is LOVE YOURSELF .. You deserve it and absolutely nobody in the world can tell you that you are not looking good .. P.s. Sorry for the spelling , I am french ;) I am sure that you understood what I was trying to say between all my mistakes .. Luv you guys ! Pps. Jo , You look perfect to me .. Xx Ali

This is her profile: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=108719

Bacon, lettuce and tomato sandwich toasted with a healthy dollop of peanut butter. Microwave popcorn with melted old cheddar cheese and chocolate chips. Pickled octopus tidbits in plain Greek yogurt with garlic mayo, all washed down with a frothy egg cream. Cow tongue and sliced red onions on Texas toast with Thousand Island dressing. White chocolate dipped artichokes, served chilled. Just kidding on that last one! I hate cold artichokes!

As someone very new to this hobby, I can't imagine being in the game without the shared recos from those in the know. It would scare me off. I truly appreciate the time and effort that hobbyists make to help me make informed choices. It means that when I make a visit I go with anticipation rather than trepidation. Thanks to all.

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just get the bjs using condoms. I think it is only the reverse that guys might have trouble getting, as in someone only provides cbjs is going to get asked to give a bbbj, or pressured to do. If someone is doing the bbbj and you don't want one, just put a cover on it. Not many sps will refuse to give you that option considering it is much safer for them, and you. if your concern is you like to do other things (kissing, etc) and don't want to do that with a bbbj provider, then another suggestiion is when you find the cbj only provider, that you continue to repeat with her, which is also a way to reward the cbj providers by repeating with them, :)

So I booked an appointment on the weekend but with a lady I had forgot to ad to the list of possibles. I met with Leia ... http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/leia-is-back/2493125 She was great. Absolutely will repeat. She has three pics on her ad. The face pic is not her. But the body shots are for sure. I understand not wanting a headshot online. I just wish SPs wouldn't put up fake ones. She is beautiful tho. 140 - hh Incall was what I met her for. Really nice new clean condo downtown Halifax. She was sweet and charming. Lot of great conversation. Then lots of foreplay. And really sensual and naughty fun for the entree. Not a clock watcher at all. Pm me if you have any other questions.

Sounds to me like he's asking if we as hobbiests should be obligated to identify ourselves if we have seen tgirls. That way he can avoid any sp's we've been with. Sounds like a lot of presumption, misconception and prejudgement to me. Not to mention the fact that if knowing your partners full history is your idea of risk management, than you are in the wrong hobby. It isn't likely to happen here. Nor should it. Discresion is the cornerstone to the hobby.

I also initially thought the OP was asking if hobbyists interested in seeing someone who is transgender should announce it was with the idea that doing so would help them connect with a person they'd like to see. If it is indeed instead due to the idea that he wants to know who to avoid, because of some idea that those who have been with a transgender person are at greater risk...well, that is very unfortunate to put it lightly. The idea that you're at greater risk being with a transgender person plays into outdated stereotypes and a lack of knowledge.

This discussion has happened many times. The reality is - if someone has gone through gender reassignment surgery, they are now in their right gender. Prior to the surgery, they were living in a body that was not theirs. However, I have a real issue with those that choose to publicly disclose the birth gender of someone who has gone through a reassignment. It puts them at risk. I don't like that. If they have gone through the reassignment, and you are attracted to them - what is the issue? If you are someone that has a real issue with this - ask in advance. If in doubt, move on. I wish society was much more open to everyone. Whether they are gay, straight, bi, trans, cross over, kink whatever - let them be who they are. The comments of "dude, you know she has a d i c k" or "Hell, look at that adams apple", or even the most popular - "her hands are man hands." Some of my closest friends have features of male and female. They have never had reassignment surgery, not are they interested in it. However, they do cry a little when someone says something that is cruel. Not everyone is a Barbie Doll or a Ken Doll. However, as a society, I wish everyone could truthfully disclose without fear of crime or assault.