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I am in total agreement here. As someone that advertises on bp and in Lyla, I am appauled at the ads that appear in bp. The spelling mistakes, Ad LiNEs that look like this, or having 20 ads posted in the same section day after day by the same person, seem to be a distraction. It seems as though they don't take the time to actually piece together an ad that is enticing in any way, its just 'money walking in the door' to those that advertise this way. I have found that advertising on bp, I get the trolls that just text messages like 'rates?'. How on earth am I supposed to know who you are, when you are possibly looking for a date, and how much time you wish to spend with me? My ads have rates, pics, and a little bit about me along with my website which has a ton of information. How much more do you need than that? bp has it's bad side, but it also has a good side. Many reputable providers do advertise there, you just have to weed out the fakers (thanks to tineye, Cowboy Kenny and other apps), rip-off artists (thanks to Lyla and people outing them), and go on your gut instinct. Boards like this one, Lyla, have a better reputation, as you can see what we write, have conversations with us in pm, and can develop a rapport with us just through reading what we post. Every situation has it's ups and downs, just like every advertising spot has them. The old saying goes, if it looks to good to be true, it usually is. Look for the key words in the ads that tell you this is someone looking to 'party for a quick buck'. Do you want quality time or someone who takes everything that walks through her door? I could be on the arm of a client anywhere and in any situation, and no-one would be the wiser. I am a professional at what I do and am respectful of the client that is 'hiring' me. If shouting and weird items are in the ads, what do you think that person is going to be like in public with you?

Both have their place and both have their strengths and weaknesses, nothing is perfect. Twitter is rapidly becoming a viable alternative for lots of folks. Peace MG

I don't begrudge anyone advertising on BP. For good or ill, it's where most of the attention is and what most people have heard about, and it's the reality we have to live with. It's also why many folk try to promote boards, to try to keep the balance at least somewhat in check. But oh yes, how I find it so much more reassuring when a lady has a presence here. For one, I find chemistry ends up being better as it lets you get a better sense of the person and whether you're likely to mess. BP has many pictures (and I won't deny I like myself a lovely photo) but it just seems so...two dimensional and superficial in comparison. But mostly if a lady advertises/has a presence here, or their own website, then I'm much more confident the person is professional, safe, honest, and engaging. I do browse BP ads, but without someone at least having a couple recommendations here, but I've never met anyone from there who didn't also have a presence or at least recommendations elsewhere. BP or Boards, you ask? Let's put it this way: have you noticed that half the threads on Lyla are people asking about a BP ad seeking reassurance? On the flipside how many BP posts have you seen where someone is asking about the authenticity of a Lyla lady? I'd say that tells you all you need to know! :)

Purrrsonally, I have not advertised on bp..... but I have taken a look through it, and to me.. it seems more like a few have said here... almost like a 'conveyor belt' of sp's hehe might be right for 'right now'... but... possibly a bit sketchy. I have also found that the same provider on bp will have anywhere from 2-20 ads in a row... desperate? sketchy? or just over-achiever? <grin> I have even found cerb to be a bit strange.. despite several of us also being on there. Odd place to try and navigate.. post... 'converse'... Lyla, as most boards I've tried, does seem very much 'Ottawa-based' ...but I like it here... despite the way I found out about this place <grin>...so here I stay, prowl.. play.. curl up and purrrr comfortably ;) enjoying posting, parrrrrticipating, and getting to know people.. providers/clients/ friends alike :)

"Is BP good or bad?" It seems that question itself is wrong. It is not bad or good, it just exists, it is reality which we need to accept, like a weather. Weather may be different, we just need to be prepared: if it is rainy - we need an umbrella, if it is cold - we need to be dressed accordingly, if it is sunny - we need sun glasses. The same with BP: going to such commercial website client must be aware of possible scam, B&S, fake photos; SP should be ready to deal with some jerks and time wasters. We have to face the reality that nowadays this industry cannot survive without sites like BP. Business cannot be done based just on personal website and place like Lyla (there are exceptions of course). Who goes to Lyla? It is mostly registered members of this community, we have about 38,000 of them and many are not active. Toronto BP has much more hits every day. It speaks for itself. In particular, the Ladies who travel regularly usually advertize on BP because there are just no other options. There is always one-two guys who are interested in this particular provider and knows her schedule from personal website. But 10 other guys will just go to BP to find out who is available today or tomorrow. And many of them are good clients. Business cannot be based on those 1-2 well informed guys, the other 10 should be taken into consideration. There are different types of advertising targeting different types of clients. On Eros for example, client finds the provider he likes and then plans the rendezvous according to her schedule and usually books in advance. It is sort of advanced client. BP gives the information about providers available today, at this moment. BP's target is occasional same date client, it is a different and probably bigger category. In general, client from Lyla will be probably the guy who is interested in this particular Lady, "knows" her from her posts, plans to meet her. Client from BP will be mostly the guy who has time at this moment and just wants some SP from the area who looks more or less suitable. So, different advertising will bring you different clients.

Hello Peachy, I am a gentleman in my late 40s. I have been on Cerb for several years. I am not sure if my opinion counts as I stopped hobbying when Harper changed the rules. That said, I still like to peruse the adds on a few sites. I personally do not like backpage and think it is a disgrace. What is with all those emojis, SHOUTING and spelling mistakes. To me that equals cheep party girls. Which may be fine for some if you are just looking for a meaningless backroom quicky. I am also not very impressed with the other boards. For various reasons. I find the ladies here on Lyla/Cerb to be the most interesting, respectable and mature. I would be proud to be seen in public with any of them on a date or even consider them a special friend. You may have an added bonus here on Lyla/Cerb. With some clients, not all. You can get a feel for your prospective client though their positive contributions in the forums. You also have the Escort Only section for client review by other ladies. Even though we have never met. I have always liked you from afar. I know I would be sad to see you leave Lyla/Cerb.

Experiencing the 'wrath' of an individual who is wanting to have a realatioinship with me.. and is actually *threatening* to 'expose' my side-business...(the fun stuff) because I told him I am not interested in him in any way, shape or form..... He is a fairly unstable individual.. something I have no need/interest in having in my life.. but I am worried he may be just unstable enough to carry out his threat.... ..........definitely something that sucks! (I'm not particularly worried at the building owner *believing* him.. I have scores of emails and things from this individual hounding me, harassing me... and now threatening.. so.... I do have some ammunition... but wow.... freaky little man!)

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Asking for services before booking a session is touchy... I personally, find it a little bit tacky. I prefer that a session feel more organic: for example if I kiss you passionately, it is safe to say that I enjoy doing so. YMMV is definitely something to appreciate: everyone's boundaries are different with each gentleman: please ask before trying anything that I have not explicitly invited you to do. I am a clear communicator, and expect the same from my clients. If a woman says don't do X, then don't do it. There is not such thing as an accident or misunderstanding in this case. You are sexually abusing her, plain and simple.vFor example, I once told a client, "Id love for you to X, but not Y". He went ahead and did Y anyhow. In that case, I no longer allowed him to even do X. Those are the consequences. Makes me VERY uncomfortable and upset. I consider myself to be socially graceful, but it leaves an elephant in the room for the rest of the session. Experiences like this make me appreciate my respectful clients even more so than I already do :). In conclusion, communication and respect are key!!

Went to the cab last night. The place was dead for a Friday night. Belleville there are some great ladies, get out and spend some money. Met Tigress and Erin. They are a blast. Took Tigress for a number of dances and she put on a great show. If you like a killer body and a quick wit spend some time with Tigress. My buddy took Erin for some dances and thoroughly enjoyed her dances too. Both ladies are local but they spent plenty of time with us. A great night.

Thanks, NJ. Here's another one of her. :) Australia rules!! Additional Comments: And look what I found! :) Here she is again.

Often a throw away line. Chemistry decides most every thing. Peace MG

For a woman you will be hanging out with, what is it you like about them? Like cleanliness. We all like cleanliness but to what extent do you prefer? Are you a slight germ-a-phobe? OCD? Just like clean and fresh, as everyone does? This includes surroundings. Do you appreciate or ignore surroundings? Do you like the girl next door? Or a girly-girl? A Tom-boy who can talk cars with you? Or just a well put together, down-to-earth, natural girl? Remember this is not about finding a wife or a girlfriend, just a woman you like to hang with. Feel free to go off topic and talk about things I have not thought of.

To my dear friends and all the special people I have come to know and appreciate and developed a sincere bond and comfort with. I am taking the time today to officially announce that I will be retiring my business as of December 16th 2016. This decision was one of the hardest decisions I have had to make however I knew there would be a time in my life that I would have to say goodbye. Life has offered me a direct path to a new future I simply am unable to pass by. I cannot just leave without having to formally announce and allowing an opportunity to say goodbye to everyone I have met and learned to know and grew an overwhelming sense of adoration for.. Whether it be through a PM or text or in person I want to be able to say goodbye in our own personal way. Anyone of you who knows me and knows what I am about you know this is the way I am. Moving forward I want to say this chapter in my book of life has been one of the best chapters ever wrote so far.. This business has surpassed what I ever thought and has given me a chance to shape and mould into the person I am today. I still remember the first time I ever saw my first client lol.. I was nervous and shy and naive.. But instinct kicked in and I grew into what I do and who I am today.. Strong, independent beautiful and I believe in myself. The gratitude I have for anyone who has taken part in my evolution of my being is beyond what I ever could say in words. I want you to all know though that even though this chapter will be soon over and closed this will always be a piece of me that will always be apart of me. I want to thank you again for everything any of you that have come to know me for all you have done for me and from the bottom of my heart you will all be missed and will forever hold a special piece of me within my heart and soul... Yours Very Truly Malena Parisi

curious if anyone has feedback on her ? haven't managed to meet yet, she was out of town and moving. she was at Jade i think and maybe elsewhere now?

I agree with oldcowboy2008. I stopped going there some months ago. There are so many other, better places to go.

I believe they post fake photos now. I stopped going there since couple months ago.

Saw her yesterday, great attitude and good English. Knowns how to use her mouth. L: 8, A: 10, S: 9.

I have been reminded of the 'curse' that is this board. I completely and totally understand the girl referred to in original post. Once again, I am fully aware of her need to avoid certain persons. Discretion is an issue there. That's obvious by the explicit reviews (as discretion apparently is not practiced there, and that seems to be a common consensus). But the discretion i am talking about is keeping the girls' location on the downlow. It seems in their zealousness to be in the loop, and on the top of the info, they talk too much about the specifics of locations and processes that a girl might have. I know this because it has happened yet again. They are using the same landmarks and points that I use to get people here, to my location. I am more than ticked off at this. Email will not be answered and post cannot be changed so there is the info for all the world to see. As a result I had to change info on my website in an attempt to minimize the damage. Don't know if it will help though. But their choice to chat about me when they apparently saw me when I first started (practically 2yrs ago) and haven't seen me since, makes me wonder why they brought me up in the first place. It was unnecessary. Also this little stunt with bringing me up again has resulted in some 'difficulties' that I had after the original post was made. Deja vu going back to when they originally mentioned me (practically 2 yrs ago) and none of it is good. I am mad and disheartened. This could explain the abusive calls i was getting long weekend. Taunting and challenging from what sounded like grown men. The exact same thing happened the first time. It was not fun. So I have my mind made up about that people on that board too. I don't blame her Additional Comments: Note: Since my last post, I have realized there is at least 2 really nice (and helpful and concerned) members on that board.

I'm back in Ottawa Monday :)

I had the pleasure of seeing this Lebanese lady yesterday. Her ad and photos are all legit. With my regular becoming unresponsive (maybe moving on), I wanted to create new options. Setup was smooth over texting and once I reached, I had to wait 10 minutes - no biggy. As I was parked on the street, a car pulled up in front of me and a beautiful lady stepped out. I had no idea that she is my date arriving for this rendezvous I reached the room and it was a pleasant surprise seeing the same lady welcoming me with a smile (she had also seen me earlier in my car). I was thanking my luck for being with such a young exotic beauty. Light kissing started as she was shy but then she had no hesitation in DFK - lot of it to my liking. Uncovered suck was on offer but I only like everything covered. Then, a couple of positions followed and due to my excitement junior was quick to fire. After this we layed side by side kissing and feeling her awesome body. Soon junior was hard and looking for more action which she fully complied. This time around, course went better. Spent full half hour with her, never felt rushed. She is new to the scene and tight (takes directions quite well) - In my research, I could see her ads starting 2-3 months back in Montreal. She is a student and lives in Montreal - speaks French, not much English. But in love, is language ever a barrier? She is not Indy but I guess she needs to learn before becoming Indy. Guys, treat her nice and be rewarded. I don't negotiate, paid what was asked.

I wonder if there is any difference in the type of CLIENTS that tend to use BP more vs the boards ?

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The best answer I can give is just be honest and direct to the point. They have lots of options, so I don't see them suffering.

This brings back some fond memories of a duo I had with an MA and SP. They are both ladies I knew fairly well so when I proposed the idea to them they were both "keen" to participate. "A pleasant time was guaranteed for all " to quote some fella

assorted groceries for the prrrrivate den.. and cat toys, in an effort to save my eyelashes.. fingertips and earlobes from continual attack <grin>

Yes I had a duo last month with a MA and her regular and they booked me for an outcall. There wasn't any massaging going on lol. But still fun. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I just tell them-sorry i don't see anyone under 35.

Regrettably , the majority of men will take this as a cue to try to push the envelope well past the provider's advertised services. Men are from Mars women are from Venus. It's really in your best interest not to use the phrase.

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The dictionary definition of open-minded refers to receptivity to new ideas and not judging others for those ideas. So it is clear that being open to consider an activity does not necessarily mean the willingness to carry out that activity. It is always the provider's call as to what she is comfortable with doing with her own body. The use of the term "open-minded", in the context of ads for sensual or sexual services can lead to confusion between the provider and the client as to what is being offered, and in my view and should be avoided, just like the term "limited restrictions".

What I like depends on my mood. I always enjoy conversations with intelligent ladies. I like art and paint so a woman that expresses an interest in art is always a plus. If so she is likely to treated to a series of pictures of my paintings on my phone. And if I see her often enough, I give her a picture or two. Sometimes in the past I have the felt need to be with someone I don't know just for the anonymity... other times, I enjoy spending time with a lady who I've seen many times before. I love hair... I'm sure I have a hair fetish... I usually I prefer long dark brown hair but sometimes have looked for a lady with black hair, or blonde hair, or red hair... and have booked ladies precisely because of their hair. I love gently running my hands through a ladies hair or feeling her hair tickling my chest or being enveloped by her hair while we kiss. Being able to play with her hair is a big issue to me in whether I repeat or not. But I might be unique in that respect, lol. One lady was quite amused that it was her hair and not her other features (beautiful natural breasts) that attracted me... I've been seeing her off and on now for 4 years and I still love her hair. Other things hummm. I've booked ladies for the fantasy about dreaming they were someone I knew... a friend, or an x-lover, or a childhood sweetheart. I don't like smoke so I prefer a non-smoker. I'm not crazy about perfume, but my current favourite SP has a scent that I find very pleasing. I like our physical time together to be slow and gentle. Some ladies seem to be in a rush. I much prefer natural breasts. But mostly I enjoy spending time with a beautiful, fun and interesting companion.

Valerie at CMJ is not a spinner, but looks gorgeous and sexy. Her size is my perfect fit. She is very playful and fun to be with, and she is a very honest person. We chatted like we have known each other for years. She liked to please and be pleased. I found one of the best features of Valeria are her eyes that mesmerized me , and I found myself totally lost in them. The one hour went by so quick and enjoyable I just wished I had booked a longer session. Valeria, I want to be your bad boy again and will come to see you soon.

She use to work in Winnipeg

I wonder if Michelle Jenneke(Australia) will be there this year(she was in 2012) and gives us a nice view of her pre hurdle run dance like in Barcelona. You did not see that, here is your chance to see it.

Tasha, Eva, Selina, Maya, Kelly, Cabria, Melina, Trinity, Paradis, Sara.

Nelly: a movie about Nelly Arcand, one of the best Canadian writer who was also a Montreal escort. It will be presented at the TIFF 2016. It looks incredibly good! Trailer:

The massage was great. Hard and well done. The finish was alright. One option and very methodical. Not bad price for the service. Also good location for me as I live/work around the market. Iv would go back even just for the massage

I don't find this odd at all. In other words, why on earth would 'paying customers' need to join a review site in order to have private areas at all? We've discussed how many sites do not allow anyone other than the sp being reviewed to comment in a review, which gives her the chance to dispute someone's review. All clients should see that as a good thing, since taking only one person's word for how an encounter went down is not enough. Even if it is for a good review. If the sp doesn't come in and verify and confirm that she did in fact see the guy, how do you know for sure that he did? If he didn't see her, and she can provide evidence that it is a faked up review, wouldn't you like to know that? she can't do that if the review is posted in a private area. Review sites are already designed for the 'paying customers', so not sure what else one would need to post other than a 'warning' type of review. Contact info for any sp is already public, so there would be no legal reason to not allow it to be put up publicly. The same cannot be said for putting up all contact info or descriptions of a client, for any reason. Especially if it means the sp herself is publicly putting up the warning, in full view of this potentially dangerous individual. You can't see a reason to keep warnings about predators, thieves or violent people private, in order to protect the person reporting them, so that he (they) can't see that she was the one (her, with all her contact info and location details out front and centre, just waiting for him to come and take his revenge out on her?) if you can't see the difference, then i am a bit worried about why not. Warnings about sketchy sps can be done in the appropriate section here, and as advertisers, sps contact info is public. If an sp is dangerous, that info can be shown publicly. Guys on review sites posting with anonymous handles, not with their full name, address and phone numbers. There would be very little reason for anyone putting up info about a sketchy sp to be concerned about their personal safety (or lives) for doing that. there is legit past evidence and cases for sps to be concerned about reporting on a blacklist area, let alone reporting to the l a w.

What I would consider a regular is someone who comes to see me at least once or twice a month and is ongoing. I also have what I call semi regulars who visit once every couple of months. I still call them regulars because they've had repeat visits as often as they can and I've been seeing them for a few years. However, a regular could be someone who has visited more than once because they've had a repeat session. I appreciate them all!

This week's safety word is MORE! ;-) It has been brought to my poor attention that I may or may not have indulged in behavior that is rather unbecoming of a lady and need to be trained in proper etiquette. You may punish me if my grades do not stand up to the required level of a professional service provider....... I'm ALL about redemption. SPANK ME, HARD. Hear me RRRROAR! I'm back and my insatiable needs to satisfy YOU are stronger than ever..... pleeeease let me play hard! RATES are ALL INCLUSIVE No Matter What 140 - 30 mins, 180 / 45mins & 220 / 60mins. I'm currently located in the EAST end and FULLY INDEPENDENT. Generally available Monday (<-7PM) through Friday 10-5. For descriptive details and potential appointments, As Well As for the fastest response time Please TEXT. 613-899-5879 Or Email ME at [email protected] Thankya Much in advance for your interest in me and your messages, I'll respond to everyone as quickly as possible or not at all- especially if you forewarn me of response time restrictions. Giddy Up! ;-)

In addition to some of the qualities already stated I'll highlight a couple for me. - Generally Positive. We all have 'down' days and need to bitch/complain to close friends once in awhile. But I do find some people I've met just see the negative in everything. - Diverse I like people who are open of different cultures, race, religion, and experiences. It is important that they're not only respectful of differences but see the value and are open to learn. - Kind People who have a good heart and just so nice to be with. - Confident Women who have it together very much catch my attention. But in a quiet kind of way. The woman who is self assured but expresses it in a very subtle way. Cub

There is nothing like being alone on a Sunday morning and having some "time" to yourself. A little urge that suddenly turned into something so much more when all of a sudden that wetness almost gave me a face wash while that quivering took my breath away. Incredible! I'm ready to start my day now...relaxed more than ever.