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I agree. including the remarks about the clients. In addition, i don't get all judgy about advertising sites. We've posted ads in the past on CL, when they had erotic services section, and all of the complaints about the sps and the clients of CL have now just gravitated over to bp. What was wrong with bp prior to CL shutting down? apparently nothing because no one had a thing to say about it before. It's a paid site, so right there you know that the sps, whether they are short term, one day at random times, or 24/7 days a week, are paying for their ads. To me, compared again to CL, PAYMENT denotes serious intentions, and professionalism. Regardless if some people find the ad titles and content immature or badly spelled, use that then as your personal red flag. As sps, use that to make sure that your ads are always 'normal', well written, and nicely laid out. Use caps where they are needed, and don't use them where they are not. bp requires no graphic images and no graphic language. consider that a good thing, it means the majority of the ads are going to at least appear tasteful Remember as well many clients outside of your city use bp, meaning when they are visiting your city, they are going to look at bp. When CL was up, Vancouver had maybe a total of 30 ads per day put up on bp. which meant if you were one of the 30, chances were you'd get calls from the out of towners. Googling key words like escort ads vancouver and bp will always come up first. i've had many calls from guys who are obviously viewing a bp ad, but they don't even know they are on that site, they said all they did was 'google'. I always do a sponser ad, maybe one ad per week, the sponser stays up. I personally consider that even if you don't work 5 days a week, the ad stays up, you can take the number out, and just take the email queries. mention your schedule in the ad, will get the better results. it's a minimal outlay for a good result. i have never found it beneficial to post multiple ads per day. i have always found it beneficial to do the sponser. you will get tire kickers, hagglers, no shows. just part of doing business. you may also get long time regulars, and first timers. advertising is good, dealing with all types of people makes you a better screener, and better at setting up booking policies that won't waste your time, lol

How about something like: "Based on my experience I find that I am more comfortable with older men and have therefore chosen to limit my services to men over the age of 28."

Providers always have ample condoms on hand. I bet that no provider would trust using a condom provided by a client.

To my dear friends and all the special people I have come to know and appreciate and developed a sincere bond and comfort with. I am taking the time today to officially announce that I will be retiring my business as of December 16th 2016. This decision was one of the hardest decisions I have had to make however I knew there would be a time in my life that I would have to say goodbye. Life has offered me a direct path to a new future I simply am unable to pass by. I cannot just leave without having to formally announce and allowing an opportunity to say goodbye to everyone I have met and learned to know and grew an overwhelming sense of adoration for.. Whether it be through a PM or text or in person I want to be able to say goodbye in our own personal way. Anyone of you who knows me and knows what I am about you know this is the way I am. Moving forward I want to say this chapter in my book of life has been one of the best chapters ever wrote so far.. This business has surpassed what I ever thought and has given me a chance to shape and mould into the person I am today. I still remember the first time I ever saw my first client lol.. I was nervous and shy and naive.. But instinct kicked in and I grew into what I do and who I am today.. Strong, independent beautiful and I believe in myself. The gratitude I have for anyone who has taken part in my evolution of my being is beyond what I ever could say in words. I want you to all know though that even though this chapter will be soon over and closed this will always be a piece of me that will always be apart of me. I want to thank you again for everything any of you that have come to know me for all you have done for me and from the bottom of my heart you will all be missed and will forever hold a special piece of me within my heart and soul... Yours Very Truly Malena Parisi

I once tried to push someone onto a foot fetish service (because they want cheap) for the 40$ he was offering. (One day I searched one because of all the requests I was getting.) And then I had to deal with his texts all day about how there was a door fee, b&s and this and that. Only to find out he only wanted to pay 40$ to someone who would take it (not a professional foot fetish provider) even though he knew it was a ridiculous request and he was aware he was taking advantage. So no thank you to recommending. It's just another way to waste my time. PS: I don't know a soul in this business. I work alone and have never been with an agency. I was a stripper for most of my adult life. This is new. And besides, do I really want to direct someone who I find not so appealing onto some other random girl? That's not very nice

Hi thought that I would start this tread as we have a "Ask a Escort" and "Ask a Hobbiest" thread. Since a MA and SP provides a different type of service then an Escort. And there are always questions from newbies about getting a massage. I thought I could start this thread so that all the questions and answers would be in one place. I've been getting massages for almost 6 years now. And have found most of the massages quite enjoyable. Most MA's are beautiful sexy women. Most offer begin and ending showers which sometimes can be a lot of fun. I have many happy memories of shower time. Then there is the massage itself. It can be theraputic, or sensual. It's great if the MA knows how to give a RMT type massage. Enjoyed the body slides also. Then there is the finish. The girls have there own style of finishing you off :) The best time's I've had is when there is connection and chemistry and the woman enjoys kissing and cuddling. I am sure there will be a lot of question and answers here. Such as Spa's vs Indy's and people are interested in rates and tips. So looking forwards to seeing some conversations here :)

Her boobs are real she says. But to be honest they could be either. If that makes sense. They aren't the typical pornstar supper perky firm. But they aren't really soft either. Super full firm and amazing. She has definately had work on them but may have been reduction surgery. PM me with other questions if you like :) V.

music..... sometimes I wish life came with an automatic sound track....but I suppose it's a good thing we can choose our own :) Sun does wonderful things physically most certainly... good ol vitamin D.. but music.... the appropriate song and the most random (or appropriate time... ) is such an amazing thing! turns a mundane activity like dishes into a fun impromptu solo karaoke session.... a walk in a park a fairytale adventure.. a sudden and perrrhaps much-need (as in 'where-the h3ll is this coming from?) healing crying session on a couch....or a quiet time by a river people-watching into a solo dance perrrrrformance... so lovely a thing is music :)

No one else with anything to add?

and if you really want to be nice you could refer them to someone else (or to an agency)

Fresh oysters with Chablis. Home Made club sandwich with sour dough bread chicken with melted smoked applewood cheese, pancetta, fresh garden tomatoes. Good Local peaches for dessert. Yummy

Asking for services before booking a session is touchy... I personally, find it a little bit tacky. I prefer that a session feel more organic: for example if I kiss you passionately, it is safe to say that I enjoy doing so. YMMV is definitely something to appreciate: everyone's boundaries are different with each gentleman: please ask before trying anything that I have not explicitly invited you to do. I am a clear communicator, and expect the same from my clients. If a woman says don't do X, then don't do it. There is not such thing as an accident or misunderstanding in this case. You are sexually abusing her, plain and simple.vFor example, I once told a client, "Id love for you to X, but not Y". He went ahead and did Y anyhow. In that case, I no longer allowed him to even do X. Those are the consequences. Makes me VERY uncomfortable and upset. I consider myself to be socially graceful, but it leaves an elephant in the room for the rest of the session. Experiences like this make me appreciate my respectful clients even more so than I already do :). In conclusion, communication and respect are key!!

Philadelphia Jalapeno cream cheese and strawberry jam with slices of cheese sandwiched between two sides of a whole wheat bagel....hmmm.. yumm!

You are more then welcome to start a closed group. You can invite in those that are interested. However, remember, the same rules of the board apply. If you have nothing nice to say..... This board is different and popular for a reason. If you have a legitimate concern about a provider (she robbed you, was bait and switch, dangerous etc), you are welcome to post that information in the appropriate section. However, if you want to post that someone "wasn't your cup of tea", this site is not for you. There are more then enough of them out there.

Not what I am saying or trying to accomplish at all. I have been on boards long before this one existed, the board some here are leary of used to be the only one for Ottawa and hobbyists & SPs got along fine. It had the same rules then as it does now. I met lots of great SPs on there and see some of them to this day. I am simply saying if a provider blacklisted all members because of a few members I wouldn't care and would move on. It would be their loss as most of the more active hobbyists belong to both boards and more. Just as I said wise users can determine what posts are useful or not, so can wise providers. If they would decide not to see all members because they didn't like what a few members said, I wouldn't call that a wise business decision, but they are free to do that. It's their decision and in this highly personal hobby they really do not need to explain their reasons. I personally have never had a provider turn me away for being a member of any board but as the OP says some have done it to others. To me I would not worry about an SP who did that, nor would I want to see her. Like we all agree, everyone is free to set their boundaries and comfort level, both clients and providers. If an SP decided not to see me because of actions of others I would figure I was better off not seeing her. Right or wrong, my decision and no one can fault me for it just as no one can fault the SP. I have had providers tell me they have met bad clients from this board just as they have from the other boards. There is this odd "us vs them" mentality and it goes both ways. The general consensus is that this board caters to providers while the other caters to clients. I find that was more true in the past but does have some merit still. My experience goes way back before this board existed and we all got along fine and had good times. I have had equally good times since this board came along. I expect if any boards cease to exist in the future I will still have good times. There is good information everywhere, you need to learn where it is and how to use it.

Because you CAN share, privately, in PM's, through email etc. Girls need a common place to share because this is a very isolating profession. We can't just hang out and speak in public because our incomes may be affected. And we may have to share trade secrets (like how to launder sheets for best hygiene), or helpful hints. And we are woman who have to remain mysterious. You don't want to know what kind of tampons we use, or nailpolish I'm sure. And you don't want hear our venting (which is what woman do to deal and sort things out) in public. It's not all bad dates. Geez we're girls, we talk about girly things. And because of the nature of the biz girls can't share email addy's and stuff or personal numbers or anything like that. These ladies can't be letting everyone and his mother knowing more than she sees is safe, even other providers. And PM"s are only so helpful if you seek a large range of ideas or opinions for a problem you may be having. Like how to handle 50 texts at one time etc. So having a common place to go is actually very giving of the people who provide it. So please don't bring up that argument 'oh but what about us...'. You have your's. You just don't need to demand a private locker room to talk on these boards because you can choose at anytime to not partake in hobby. And the girls most likely don't have that choice and need a safe and private place to connect, again, because this a very isolating profession, not hobby/playtime. ETA : oh and also you are not a paying customer of the board. you are only a paying a customer of the girls who pay the board (mostly). If you don't buy a coffee at tim horton's they prefer you don't use their washrooms. If you do buy a coffee then feel free to sit down and drink it, and relieve yourself after.

Possible future law change in Norway? http://sputniknews.com/art_living/20160713/1042885861/norway-prostitution-brothels-abuse.html

I have stood up for one SP in particular on the other board whom need not be named and who visits here from time to time. The contention was that she had refused to provide some of the services that were laid out while texting. The man felt he had been short-changed, left after 15-20 when he had paid for 2 hrs. She had refused to do some services (not all) because she felt her health and safety at risk as the gentleman was apparently not fully hygienic....he claimed otherwise so it's difficult to say who was right or wrong...still i defended her choice because i believe that SP's have every right to bail out of a session and/or not provide some of the services offered if they feel their health or safety is at risk....i have never met her nor do i know the member who was adamant about being wronged. Nevertheless, i stood by her as i felt that the provider has every privilege to do what they feel is right for their well-being. Men in general feel entitled because they pay. Expectations are high and when things don't turn out they way they like, they sometimes voice their displeasure in a way that is not appropriate. So, yeah i was her 'White Knight' of the day but no one took it out on me, i clearly explained why and put no fault on either one. Guess i earned a little brownie point since she promised to contact me when she would be back because she wants to meet her defender...haha... Still one must consider that as a paying customer, you expect a minimum. Chemistry is a word often used to legitimize whether a service is provided on par or not. I think that SP's should expect that they won't get 'chemistry' with every client, maybe even very few clients will have chemistry but it should change nothing in they way the SP provide their services. Should you decide to not live up to your commitments because you feel no 'chemistry' even if the man is a complete gentleman, clean as a whistle and respectful? You are either in it or not, you offer a service and get paid...the game plays both ways and it's not always the men's fault. Many providers are for a lack of a better word, frauds in disguise using B&S, making promises they never deliver on and in some distinct cases, are just out to take the money and run, hence the usefulness of both board...yes TERB is more liberal, some members do get banned at times for crossing the line, still a paying customer should have every right to voice is displeasure when he feels cheated as long as it's within an acceptable limit. It is difficult to do this here as the line is very thin, TERB allows that. Granted that some people go overboard, it is to be expected when the rules are more liberal...while i understand that Lyla is more of a recommendation platform, it should allow for some critical comments. My disclaimer: i take no sides, some clients i'm sure are as horrible as Attila's while others are complete gentlemen, some providers are just BS and others are simply amazing, charming, sweet women who have dreams and aspirations like everyone else. I'll always show my respect to them because i can't begin to imagine how hard it must be at times. If i were a woman, i'm not sure i could do it quite frankly...it takes a lot of guts but i guess you get desensitized after a while Do i make any sense here?....

When my four year old son comes to wake me up for the day at 5:00 am on a weekend and my response is typically the same when this happens "go to the couch daddy will be there in a minute". On the rarest of occasions he will go downstairs curl up on the couch and sleep for another hour or two. Then I get to sleep on the lazy boy beside him may not sound like much but an extra hour or two are just priceless. Posted via Mobile Device

I returned to school to pursue full-time graduate work a few years ago. I'm still around, just not in the same capacity as when I was a part-time undergraduate student. A PhD is quite demanding, but one still needs time to play. I love what I do, and will probably be around for many years to come!

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I have to add something as well. I love being a birthday gift or treat for a "friend" of any gender. It becomes a ritual and is very special. I haven't jumped out of a cake in many years but I always do something extra special for that friend on their birthday.