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I'm with status4 where it feels like she may be a user. I also agree with Genevieve that she may not be a user but in either case to just saying "420 friendly" is a don't call/text or make any contact with that lady simply because of the smell I might bring back with me to my wife. I have seen a lady once who did smoke but she went outside of the hotel room to do so, the smell was on her when she returned. I know this because she took my coat to cover her body while I was in the shower washing myself.

Have you ever rolled the dice in any serious way? If so, how did it turn out? I have decided to do a roll of the dice in a medical sense. My choice is to lose my leg above the knee or a surgery that will prevent that but with the down side being to lose the one leg above the knee and the other below. The safer bet is to sacrifice the one leg. I have chosen to roll the dice though the risk of a bad outcome is medically significant. Surgery Friday and then we shall see over the next few weeks how it turns out. For the last while I have been pretty upset about what to do. Now I am content with my decision, no matter how it turns out.

As my title implies, I'm completely new to the hobbyist scene and LYLA and thought I would ask a few questions that maybe members or moderators might be able to give me a hand on. I'm from Midwestern Ontario, a small rural community with not a heck of a whole lot to do and sometimes the gaps between getting lucky with a lady are longer than I would care for. I have tried other websites but I always felt sketched out about meeting somebody from them because, as they say, "if it looks too good to be true" always jumped to the front of my mind. I don't feel like getting rolled, arrested or scammed so I began searching for a website that let members discuss SP's to let others know it was safe. And Lo, Did I see it descend from upon lofty heights, With script white and short, upon whose name was LYLA.com Hallelujah! I'm no longer a moderated member, I have scanned over the Rules & FAQs a few times now to make myself familiar with how everything works and I feel ready to start the pursuit to meeting the right lady that meets my needs. Unfortunately, I noticed that my area of the province doesn't have it's own category, hm. I'm not sure if areas are added very often, if because it's just logical that most SP's would work in larger urban areas I can definitely understand. But I'm sure if there was an area for Midwestern Ontario (Owen Sound, Collingwood, Kincardine, Wiarton or even for the Grey-Bruce-Simcoe counties) it might give people like me more of an idea of what's in the area. I'm not against travel, but I feel like getting an SP to travel over two hours away to me might not be plausible. Once again, I'm happy I found LYLA and I hope to get to know the ropes from what seems like a very reputable website! Sincerely, The Pantless King

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Harley looks a bit intimidating, with tattoos and numerous peicings, and a pretty intense athletic dance style. But she is great company - very sweet, gentle and intelligent, and well travelled. And drop dead gorgeous. Highly recommended.

For myself, when a person contacts me (as either a SP or MP), I very much appreciate details.. a preferred day/time you would like to be seen, and of course, what it is you are hoping to experience with me.. helps with booking .. and should be rather obvious.. but sadly is not hehe Once I reply back, I can do so with the requested time et al.. and can then get into some details about things you would enjoy having done during the session ;) ...this form of approach goes much better for someone other than simply saying 'hi' and nothing else hehe As for your other situation, you were indeed being propositioned to purchase it for her... and no, you were not wrong to break off contact with her if this is not something you feel comfortable with doing/being involved in. as you said, you did not approach her as a client for an SP.. and although I would advise in the future, if this happens again, and is not something you are looking for... simply let them know you are not a p4p kind of guy ;) As a provider of several different lovely things <grin>.. I have had clients offer to purchase things for me in lieu of the donation.. and sometimes I am in agreement.. sometimes I am not.. hehe it is largely how I came about my lovely corset and toy collection <grin>... but either way, in my case, the person I am speaking with is fully aware of the situation we are both in.... I have also been in situations where I 'met' someone online.. NOT in the context of being a provider... and I am up front with them, telling them what I do for a living... but also that being how I came across them, I am not looking to them as a client.... which is what she should have done... unless of course, she was being deceitful and trying to 'rope' you into being one... unfortunately, it happens a lot from what I have heard/seen...so gain, highly advise you to let them know (if it is a case of another forum where they have *not* advertised themselves as an SP).. you are not looking to p4p....(pay for play/purchase)

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I thought I would weigh in by offering some catharsis to your story, because being the glass half-full kind of guy that I am I wanted to share a story that sucked for someone else. One of my good friend's uncle was this salt of the earth kind of guy, he had worked his ass off for years in factories and did some backyard mechanic work on the side. He got married when he was in his early twenties and has been married for over forty years, has five kids and helped them with everything growing up and even for college tuitions. Much like how you were saying, since he was a young man he always wanted a cottage on the water where he would spend his retirement years. As luck would have it, he found his perfect cottage and it was within walking distance from a lake with a private boat launch. He buys it for a song and cannot wait to start working on it, as it was a bit of a fixer-upper it was still a ways off from being retirement worthy. This was back in the early 90s, so his two youngest boys ask him the second summer after buying it if they can take a few friends to the cottage for the weekend. He lets them. He told me he got the call from the police around 3 in the morning on the Sunday who explained that his dream cottage had caught on fire and that the fire department was still trying to extinguish the inferno. It only took 20 minutes for his dream to turn into a pile of smouldering ash. Aside from that, nobody was hurt. Food for thought! P.S: He owned a mint '67 Chevelle which his first son crashed it in a ditch and almost killed it.

Pet peeves, I have many: Inconsiderate smokers. Guys wearing hats or sunglasses indoors. People talking or texting on their cell phone and not watching where they are going. People using their cell phone in an elevator or on a bus. Cab drivers talking on their cell phone while driving. People that are Pokemon hunting and not watching where they are going. People riding their bike on the sidewalk. Telemarketers who are pushy and aggressive. People talking on their cell phone in a restaurant or store and not paying attention to their surroundings.. Rude people and people lacking in common courtesy. People who use profanity in every sentence. But my biggest pet peeve are: When a woman farts while I am going down on her. When a (non-escort) woman says, "Are you done yet?" (I am just getting started, dear!) A woman talking or texting on her phone during a date. People calling or texting me on my cellphone when they know I am at home. People sending me emails with texting and internet slang, or not using spell check.

I am almost 50. I find myself looking back on my life and wonder where did I go wrong? I will skip the gritty details of my abusive childhood in the 70s. The important thing is that I survived. When I was a young man (1987) just starting out in life I had hopes and dreams. Like most people I wanted it all. I wanted: a career; a house; a car; a loving wife; children; a cabin by a lake; etc... I knew at a very young age, that it would take a lot of hard work and discipline, to get from where I was, to where I wanted to be. So I did whatever I had to. I took some courses. I worked overtime almost every week. I advanced up the management ladder with every company I worked for. I even did four years in the military. None of those jobs ever paid well. Not even the military. But I gave them my very best each and every day. I even did volunteer work for many years. I dated when ever I could. But nothing ever led to a meaningful relationship and nothing ever lasted more than four months. Some of those ladies remained friends even today. I never smoked, used drugs or gambled. But I did drink socially. I tried to be a good person. I treated everyone with courtesy, dignity and respect. Helped others when I could. I even went to church if I didn't have work demands. In 2002, I started having a lot of health problems. In 2009, my doctors decided it would be better to put me on permanent disability. With a great deal of reluctance, I gave in. When you stop working for health reasons your circle of friends shrinks dramatically. Faster than you can make new ones. Family was practically non existent. Dating becomes even more difficult than it already was. In 2010, I could not take it any more. I broke down and cried. I had not touched or held a woman in my arms since 2001. Not even a hug. I decided to take a chance and try an escort for the first time in my life. The lady I met was wonderful. She liked long hugs. A lot of our dates were spent drinking tea, chatting and lots of laughs. There was some physical intimacy and that was great as well. That was the best relationship I ever had with a woman to this day. She retired from escorting a couple of years later. Got married, had children and open her own business. Then Harper poked his nose in to people's bedroom fun. So I stopped hobbying. Then the cost of rent, electricity, and groceries went up. Actually they did not just go up... They skyrocketed!!! Every month is a struggle to make ends meet. Now I find myself sitting here today thinking. My life is half over and I have nothing to show for it. I have no career; I never married; I have no children; I don't care that I never owned a car or house -- they are just money pits; I am also the last person to carry the family name. -- My grandparents would be pissed! Then I realize that there is a bright side. Albeit very a very small one. I have no children out there wondering who the heck their father is; My debts are all paid off; I still have my best friend, ok so he is a cat. I am still actively searching for a lady to share my life with. I know that I am probably wasting my time especially if I am having problems make ends meet. But no one deserves to grow old alone. But the biggest thing that sucks, is knowing that I will never retire to that cabin by a lake.

Hey, thanks for the reply darling, yeah I get that part, I just figure if they've got no problem with it good chance they have no issue partaking themselves either. Much like regular cigarette smokers, most weed smokers think nobody can smell the stuff afterwards either. I smoked cigarettes for years and quit finally for good in 2004, I'm deathly allergic now, I can smell cigarette smoke 7 miles away and 3 days later. :icon_smile:

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Good luck my friend, hope it all goes well for you, and you have a comfortable recovery and the best possible outcome. Everyone is pulling for you.

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"Is BP good or bad?" It seems that question itself is wrong. It is not bad or good, it just exists, it is reality which we need to accept, like a weather. Weather may be different, we just need to be prepared: if it is rainy - we need an umbrella, if it is cold - we need to be dressed accordingly, if it is sunny - we need sun glasses. The same with BP: going to such commercial website client must be aware of possible scam, B&S, fake photos; SP should be ready to deal with some jerks and time wasters. We have to face the reality that nowadays this industry cannot survive without sites like BP. Business cannot be done based just on personal website and place like Lyla (there are exceptions of course). Who goes to Lyla? It is mostly registered members of this community, we have about 38,000 of them and many are not active. Toronto BP has much more hits every day. It speaks for itself. In particular, the Ladies who travel regularly usually advertize on BP because there are just no other options. There is always one-two guys who are interested in this particular provider and knows her schedule from personal website. But 10 other guys will just go to BP to find out who is available today or tomorrow. And many of them are good clients. Business cannot be based on those 1-2 well informed guys, the other 10 should be taken into consideration. There are different types of advertising targeting different types of clients. On Eros for example, client finds the provider he likes and then plans the rendezvous according to her schedule and usually books in advance. It is sort of advanced client. BP gives the information about providers available today, at this moment. BP's target is occasional same date client, it is a different and probably bigger category. In general, client from Lyla will be probably the guy who is interested in this particular Lady, "knows" her from her posts, plans to meet her. Client from BP will be mostly the guy who has time at this moment and just wants some SP from the area who looks more or less suitable. So, different advertising will bring you different clients.

I saw her recently. She is cute, friendly and talkative. I had no problems making an appointment to see her and she was a great hostess. She is a tiny lady (4'10"). I am over 18" taller than her.

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Well sheesh, I've lived in Ontario for three years now and I have yet to see anyone take advantage of the infamous topless laws. That's it, I'm opening my own topless hair salon. Posted via Mobile Device