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TELL US WHAT YOU WANT! I am surly not the only escort who has had a mediocre session with someone who refused to give any clue or indication as to if they enjoyed something or not. The blank stare and "Yup" or "okay" to every question... To be honest it gives me the creeps! If you are nervous or inexperienced, let us know! I personally will slow things down a bit for a shy, nervous or inexperienced client, make them feel more comfortable and relaxed... If you look like you are in a state of silent perpetual terror it kind of ruins the mood. If I am giving verbal prompts "Do you like that" or "Want to do this instead"... I'm likely searching for a clue as to what you would like to do most... I won't be offended if a client says "I would really like to do X instead of Y" I want you to have an amazing time! Outside of that arrive clean, on time (NOT 15 early!!!) and respect the rules! Never, ever, EVER, arrive without a confirmed (discussed how long and a set time) appointment...

Up Against the church wall Someone else's bedroom In random persons garden At a fetish club In a basement In movie theatre washroom In a tent In the bare naked woods Mom's apartment In an abandoned building in Riga, Latvia On a bus. In a car At work ..... Ah wow this post makes me look like a harlot. I love it! Xox

Hi guys ;) My apologies for not having mentioned a bit of a vacation/break. I do miss hosting with you fine gentlemen and my hands are becoming restless. I plan to be back around mid September and hope to hear from you. Xoxo Ella

I am also way over 40 and for men lovers of big wide bum and lovely big breast I can be the one darling!! And it just fun to have fun with one that find you an adore you!! Then I am on complete fire!!! Bisous all over!!! Barbara xxoo

By a waterfall at night! Little splashes of water against your body and the freedom of the great outdoors... Sex outside the bedroom always provides the perfect thrill.

....There are a few of us prrrrowling around <grin>

Here is a list of pointers I have gathered from experience and from reading threads here since I have started this lifestyle. If there is a woman that interest you and she has an ad. Read the ad and follow her instructions. If there is a website listed, please go to it and read what she has written. In most cases, the website has most of the information that you need, so don't waste her time texting her for the information that is already available. When you are ready to contact her, follow her contact instructions. If you text her, don't just say 'Hey' or are you available. Introduce yourself with a full sentence. Tell her a bit about yourself and ask your questions. If you can pm or email her. Do so, you can type in a paragraph introducing yourself and ask your questions and request. After receiving her reply. If you want to book her her, make your request ask to time and confirm the rates. You may want to confirm with her what services she offers. Remember, these services are not guaranteed, YMMV. Once your apt is book. you need to follow her protocol for giving you her address. You may need to confirm your appointment, the same day or several hours before your time. She will give you the address or a location close to her incall. When you get there, you may need to call, and she will give you a buzz code and tell you her room number. Don't be late and don't be too early. Before you show up. You should check your hygiene, make sure you have taken a shower and shaved and brushed your teeth or use mouth wash. Most women do not want you to use a cologne. If you have any allergies to any products, you may want to let her know. I like to kiss, so I usually ask if she kisses, this is usually based on chemistry. Or if she does not kiss at all. When she has let you into her apartment. I usually let her make the first move as to a hug and maybe a kiss. Maybe chat for a few minutes to get comfortable. Place her donation in an envelop where she can see it. If you need a shower, you can ask her or if she ask you take a shower, do so. She has her own way and has met many men already. So I usually let her lead the way. But others may want you to lead the way. You have to adjust to the situation. Take your time to get to know each other. don't rush and don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to. Not every session may go the way you expect. May not have the chemistry or maybe a bad day for her. Nothing is guaranteed. But if you are a gentleman and show her respect, you should have a good time. But if you don't behave you may be shown the door. Remember she is a human being that is sharing a very intimate and personal time with you. Respect her limits. After your time is up. Leave, unless she has asked you to stay a bit longer, because she enjoyed herself. If you both had a good time, hopefully you leave with a nice hug and kiss and a feeling that you return. If you were happy with your session. You should also write her a nice recommendation. This helps her meet new clients and new clients can have confidence that she is the real deal. If I have missed anything, please add to this thread.

Wowza is all I can say. Roxie made me feel like a king. She is sexy and sweet and I will be seeing her again. No need to PM me guys, she comes as advertised.

Guys, look at Brooklyn's ...clearly is not Ella hehehe... As far as I know our beloved Ella has retired and moved on to new beginnings.

Myself, I actually ask outright. ..for information on things a perrrrson likes/dislikes....and in a manner that keeps things relaxed and comfortable...usually via emails when we start communicating. I've found.that most people, even if nervous....are considerably more.confident with a.screen between us <gein> I fancy myself a 'fantasy facilitator'...have been called that so <grin>...but if I don't get into those lovely little secret corners of your brain....hard.to 'facilitate' what I don't know ;) I'm fairly certain that most of us, given our chosen professions <grin> are fairly comfortable talking about anything....mundane or taboo <grin>...and I at least would.hope that whoever chosen to communicate with me.would feel secure.enough to really talk to me ;) .......so far...so good <wink>....with purrrrhaps one exception. ..but the individual in question has still chosen to communicate with me...and admitted that it may have been better had he.simply opened up to me :) ...and now both of us are looking forward to getting together again on a much clearer.playing field ;)

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I am one of these gems :-) and I have a thing for men your age...

Public pool showers

On a Sea-Doo In the boat Tail gate of a pick-up All Good!

BBQing in the rain - not too cold - not too wet

I met with an SP who was '420 friendly'. We hotboxed the bathroom, and left our clothes outside. I had an epic time, everything to do with my sense of touch felt immensely pleasurable. I really don't get the judgements from some people here. Would it bother someone if SPs say they are open to having a drink during the session? Or that they drink at all? Both the SP and I only did it because we both knew we had no intentions of operating a vehicle for the rest of that day, just like I'd hope anyone who drinks would do.

Lol Summer. Yup I too am still over 40 and loving it!

By the window in the second floor suites of the Renaissance Hotel.

open deck of my boat floating down the st.Lawrence river....got a few horn honks

At the Beach, daylight and by a bonfire

I've changed my number to ( 438 )274-3853 Hi! I'll be back in Ottawa tomorrow (Wed 17th) until 11am Friday (19th). I'll also be back next week from Wed-Sat morning ;-) I'll be staying at the foot of downtown and as always, it is a discreet, smoke-free location with ample street and lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking only, unless we already know each other.) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed (1hr if very early), unless PJs, bleary eyes and a teddy bear being dragged by his paw is your thing) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who wish to explore; the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a slim & athletic but curvy 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with long dark hair (Pls note my hair is now shorter than in the photos, although still long. The price of natural hair is it needs to be cut occasionally. New pix coming soon) and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones again! You can also view my new website http://www.JessyCeleste.weebly.com Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi: $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste ( 438 ) 274-3853 (Now, finally on Twitter) @JessyCeleste1

SELENA RED Visiting St-Johns August 22-23-24-25-26th Upscale Location by the airport Ins & Outs available. A1 service & attitude, FULL menu, truly addictive ! Mailing list Special at all time for Lyla members: 260H, 200hh, 500 for 2Hrs 20yrs old French & Irish Bombshell Student, New to the business and willing to learn a lot of sexy new things Long red hair, Blue eyes, 5''7 , 130lbs , redhead with green eyes Long & sexy legs, Exotic Dancer, curvy & fit, athletic, tight body, tanned skin all natural 34D , Hourglass Figure, small waist & Beautiful Flawless face and of course, an unforgettable heart shaped booty ! Pictures dont do me justice, come see for yourself !!! 514-758-5630 [email protected]

Reading through these, it is indeed a bit 'sad' that this *needs* to be here... but.. humans are what we are, so... Aside from some of us slightly promoting ourselves on this thread about the type of sessions we enjoy/offer...<grin>... (something which I am not going to do....) it should be a relative no-brainer that if you are seeking out a provider, you are wanting to experience something fun, relaxing.. and discrete...outside your 'normal' life/relationship... and have expectations that we will automatically respect your privacy, boundaries, wishes.. et al.... so... in having that expectation as a client.. why should it be a difficult stretch to expect that we as providers, also have boundaries, expectations.. limits.. et al...? In general, I would think that the client has the advantage.. after all, *you* are privy to all our information before you even make contact.. all the things you need to decide whether or not to proceed and contact. As far as I am concerned.. *if* you actually have rad my information (or that of another provider)... then b contacting me, that tells me, you are fine with my requests/expectations and all I offer.... so I would not ever expect someone to 'argue', badger or haggle... tsk tsk gents ;) Over the course of my long and lovely career.. I have seen many provider's websites.. blogs.. posts, ads.. and they are all extremely clear.. detailed... and for the most part, very well written, explaining etiquette, fees/donations.. all that... so it again, should be so simple it's almost redundant... read.... read... and read again.... (and please... show up as clean as possible.. from mouth to toes ;) ..stale beer, coffee... in the face, strong body odor.. or 'surprises' in intimate areas....are a sure-fire wet blanket to any scenario ;) It is supposed to be all about fun.... if a woman has gone to the trouble of creating a site where you can find all her info... do both of you a favor, and read it.. do NOT ever haggle... (whining is a MAJOR turn-off, in any situation hehe)...and if requested/required, ask/answer questions clearly and to your/her satisfaction...as should the provider if you have any yourself...... so much nicer when that happens ;) Demanding that someone bend their rules/expectations to suit you simply due to the fact that they have chosen to do this type of thing for a living... is never acceptable.... talking, inquiring, asking.. is *usually* fine, especially with those providers that just list hourly donation rates. If she says yes, then.. lovely.. if she says no.. then.. just as lovely... :) **Responding in a timely fashion is also super-high on my list of wonderful ways to be a 'good client'... if you ask for a session at a specific time...same day or whatever...keep an eye on you remail.. and when the woman replies back.. reply to her... if the time she gives is not one that works for you.. don't simply leave the message 'hanging'.. reply, letting her know it doesn't work.. that way the session isn't tentatively held for you... (happens far too often and is super annoying!)

Either is fine but ask the lady which she would prefer. The donation would be the same either way. 300 =300 in American or Canadian we don't do exchange rates. ;)

Perspective....

http://backpage.com.halifax.listcrawler.com/post/17383646/Candii# Her duo partner, Bambi, is in the room the whole time. After the sex, she invites you to use the bathroom to clean up. The she stands in the bathroom door chatting you up while Bambi goes through your pockets. Fortunately, they only got the $20 I was going to giver her as a tip. This SP has two different ads. In one ad the pictures are clearly fake. Her breasts are not that large. But the ad where she wears red underwear are accurate.

"Is BP good or bad?" It seems that question itself is wrong. It is not bad or good, it just exists, it is reality which we need to accept, like a weather. Weather may be different, we just need to be prepared: if it is rainy - we need an umbrella, if it is cold - we need to be dressed accordingly, if it is sunny - we need sun glasses. The same with BP: going to such commercial website client must be aware of possible scam, B&S, fake photos; SP should be ready to deal with some jerks and time wasters. We have to face the reality that nowadays this industry cannot survive without sites like BP. Business cannot be done based just on personal website and place like Lyla (there are exceptions of course). Who goes to Lyla? It is mostly registered members of this community, we have about 38,000 of them and many are not active. Toronto BP has much more hits every day. It speaks for itself. In particular, the Ladies who travel regularly usually advertize on BP because there are just no other options. There is always one-two guys who are interested in this particular provider and knows her schedule from personal website. But 10 other guys will just go to BP to find out who is available today or tomorrow. And many of them are good clients. Business cannot be based on those 1-2 well informed guys, the other 10 should be taken into consideration. There are different types of advertising targeting different types of clients. On Eros for example, client finds the provider he likes and then plans the rendezvous according to her schedule and usually books in advance. It is sort of advanced client. BP gives the information about providers available today, at this moment. BP's target is occasional same date client, it is a different and probably bigger category. In general, client from Lyla will be probably the guy who is interested in this particular Lady, "knows" her from her posts, plans to meet her. Client from BP will be mostly the guy who has time at this moment and just wants some SP from the area who looks more or less suitable. So, different advertising will bring you different clients.

Try to keep looking in her eyes.....I can't myself !

That doesn't mean you didn't set yourself up for a lesser experience than you could have had. ;) Maybe not, but it's the type of thing you can never know. A little courtesy will certainly never hurt you, and might possibly even improve your experience. The fact that even some find this approach offensive (and this thread is filled with those who agree if you read through it) is enough of a reason to put in a bit of extra effort for me anyway. Certainly nothing to lose by it.

Well were do I start....this must be one of the sweetest girls I've yet to meet gourgeous view from back actually from annywere treat this girl right and trust me u will b in heaven

Mature women are the best! Knowledgeable and experience yay!!!!!

Personally I prefer a mature lady, they are very sensual, more laid back and can show you plenty of interesting bedroom skills. They are not to be missed. Trust me on this.

When I first embarked on this adventure, I thought I was too old. A friend reminded me that the hottest, most successful female actors are in their forties and up. Now, granted a lot of them have had a bit of "help", who can deny the ultimate sexiness that a sexually confident mature lady exudes. There comes a time when a woman embraces her strengths and ignores her perceived short comings. With age comes acceptance. I feel that I am beautiful and therefore act as such. I remember my late teens and early twenties, I wouldn't leave the house (even to run for milk) without fully styled hair and makeup. I covered my freckles, I tamed my curls, I accented my invisible lashes and plumped my skinny lips. Now I embrace what I used to think of as flaws and rejoice in my incredible sexual appetite; another great milestone to the aging process. As a younger women, I was so preoccupied by what I should look like and do that sex was almost a chore and not an enjoyment. Now....while I love to please, I can finally allow myself to be pleased. Errr....forgot the topic of the thread, went off on a tangent lol.

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