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Here is a list of pointers I have gathered from experience and from reading threads here since I have started this lifestyle. If there is a woman that interest you and she has an ad. Read the ad and follow her instructions. If there is a website listed, please go to it and read what she has written. In most cases, the website has most of the information that you need, so don't waste her time texting her for the information that is already available. When you are ready to contact her, follow her contact instructions. If you text her, don't just say 'Hey' or are you available. Introduce yourself with a full sentence. Tell her a bit about yourself and ask your questions. If you can pm or email her. Do so, you can type in a paragraph introducing yourself and ask your questions and request. After receiving her reply. If you want to book her her, make your request ask to time and confirm the rates. You may want to confirm with her what services she offers. Remember, these services are not guaranteed, YMMV. Once your apt is book. you need to follow her protocol for giving you her address. You may need to confirm your appointment, the same day or several hours before your time. She will give you the address or a location close to her incall. When you get there, you may need to call, and she will give you a buzz code and tell you her room number. Don't be late and don't be too early. Before you show up. You should check your hygiene, make sure you have taken a shower and shaved and brushed your teeth or use mouth wash. Most women do not want you to use a cologne. If you have any allergies to any products, you may want to let her know. I like to kiss, so I usually ask if she kisses, this is usually based on chemistry. Or if she does not kiss at all. When she has let you into her apartment. I usually let her make the first move as to a hug and maybe a kiss. Maybe chat for a few minutes to get comfortable. Place her donation in an envelop where she can see it. If you need a shower, you can ask her or if she ask you take a shower, do so. She has her own way and has met many men already. So I usually let her lead the way. But others may want you to lead the way. You have to adjust to the situation. Take your time to get to know each other. don't rush and don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to. Not every session may go the way you expect. May not have the chemistry or maybe a bad day for her. Nothing is guaranteed. But if you are a gentleman and show her respect, you should have a good time. But if you don't behave you may be shown the door. Remember she is a human being that is sharing a very intimate and personal time with you. Respect her limits. After your time is up. Leave, unless she has asked you to stay a bit longer, because she enjoyed herself. If you both had a good time, hopefully you leave with a nice hug and kiss and a feeling that you return. If you were happy with your session. You should also write her a nice recommendation. This helps her meet new clients and new clients can have confidence that she is the real deal. If I have missed anything, please add to this thread.

absolutely... I think that we hobbyists have to keep in mind that the ladies who make us happy are in a much more vulnerable condition than we hobbyists are...

Those quoted rates sound too low esp for an SP here. Can't comment on BP. I'd ignore guys who question what you charge. Its your choice afterall. From my end, I have an arbitrary budget limit and those providers who fall within that range are those who I contact. Never occurred to me to try to get a deal the way I might for buying a car . To me its more like contacting a lawyer or other professional I guess

Asking for services before booking a session is touchy... I personally, find it a little bit tacky. I prefer that a session feel more organic: for example if I kiss you passionately, it is safe to say that I enjoy doing so. YMMV is definitely something to appreciate: everyone's boundaries are different with each gentleman: please ask before trying anything that I have not explicitly invited you to do. I am a clear communicator, and expect the same from my clients. If a woman says don't do X, then don't do it. There is not such thing as an accident or misunderstanding in this case. You are sexually abusing her, plain and simple.vFor example, I once told a client, "Id love for you to X, but not Y". He went ahead and did Y anyhow. In that case, I no longer allowed him to even do X. Those are the consequences. Makes me VERY uncomfortable and upset. I consider myself to be socially graceful, but it leaves an elephant in the room for the rest of the session. Experiences like this make me appreciate my respectful clients even more so than I already do :). In conclusion, communication and respect are key!!

Hi, i am a former stripper from Montreal ill try to help you with this. If you are looking for a stripclub with extras (more loose on the policy), there are good chances you wont find that on the island of Montreal (its too risky for the owners of the bar). I can suggest 2 of the best stripclub in Montreal: Chez Parée (no extra) -Downtown -Hottest girls in montreal , good ambiance and crowd, good looking place. -A little more expensive and upscale/classy -They are more strict about the way the girls dances in private booth. Amazone (no extra) -10min away from dtown (on saint-jacques) -Hot girls for all tastes, very good ambiance, nice looking place very big. -Way less expensive than downtown stripclub (like half the price) -More like a party place with open minded girls In both those clubs you can find the hottest stripper in Montreal and some who will accept to go out with you after 3am. Chez parée will be really upscale girls that may cost you more but worth it for their beauty. At amazones its a fun time for sure and more girl are open to the idea of doing overtime after 3am and theres also a nice hotel right in front of the club. If you really looking to do extras insidethe club, the only one i can suggest you is in Marieville (about 30-45 min from downtown on the south shore) its called "Auberge Marieville". I recommend this one because i know for a fact that girls are pretty over there ;). I hope this helps! PM me if you want me to organize sonething for you with the girls i know in Montreal, i have alot of open minded stripper friends (for party, bachelor, entertainment, etc.)

Been seeing Jenna for a while now, and thought that it would be a great idea to give this beauty a sweet review. Right from the get go, you feel right at home and comfortable with her. She's a gorgeous girl with a beautiful face, awesome body and even awesomer smile. She's really down to earth and makes you feel relaxed and welcomed from the get go. She offers a great massage and relaxes you from start to finish. I can guarantee that one visit with her, and you'll be wanting to see her more and more. If you ever have the chance, don't miss it, cause she's awesome.

I am Roksi, an authentic Irish ��������� who has crossed land and sea to make you feel like a king! Picture a raven-haired beauty with the body of a petite Victoria Secret model, the face of an angel and the chest of Kate Upton. My personality is bubbly, my manner impish, my humour biting, my desires carnal. ....and I'm just plain hot and wet! As I open my door I arouse you with impeccable grooming, skimpy lingerie, a passionate full kiss......and melt you with a sexy Irish accent. You embrace me to feel my lithe frame and firm heart-shaped ass. Contact Victoria to book 403 383 4554 Read all my reviews on http://www.roksi.��������files.com Available September 6th & 7th http://a66.tinypic.com/2mxjwwn.jpg

I am Roksi, an authentic Irish ��������� who has crossed land and sea to make you feel like a king! Picture a raven-haired beauty with the body of a petite Victoria Secret model, the face of an angel and the chest of Kate Upton. My personality is bubbly, my manner impish, my humour biting, my desires carnal. ....and I'm just plain hot and wet! As I open my door I arouse you with impeccable grooming, skimpy lingerie, a passionate full kiss......and melt you with a sexy Irish accent. You embrace me to feel my lithe frame and firm heart-shaped ass. Contact Victoria to book 403 383 4554 Available August 22nd, 23rd & 24th Read all my reviews on http://www.roksi.��������files.com http://a66.tinypic.com/35k7p09.jpg http://a66.tinypic.com/2mxjwwn.jpg

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Burning all 4 fingers on my left hand! But, an application of honey then wrapped in seranwrap and pain is almost gone! Thanks Hankmed! (Tv show Royal Pains)

the difficulty is its her only source of income... she's a student... so she's worried about her loss of income

Unless there is a *need* to disclose that.... why would she? don't ask.. don't tell.. works just fine I would think. In an autopac claim, I wouldn't think that would have to come into play anyway. If she's asked about her source of income, be smart.. just mention the legit one..... <shrug>.. or is she looking at suing the driver of the car she was a passenger in..? assuming they know of her 'other' job.... that may put a bit of a not-so-nice kink in the works..... and *if* they know... are they a client? <grin>.... if so hehe I wouldn't think there is a worry that her 'other' source of income would come out... as most clients, in my experience anyway.. are either married or otherwise partnered so... ;)

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Id like to know too. So many fakes and junkies. Its hard to find a good girl lately

Maybe it would help if we'd say what we find apposite in terms of recommendations... Here are my thoughts about it: If it is after another poster has asked a question about a lady then answer the question from your perspective. Eg: "I" love sweet but bratty ladies, I find xyz just kills me with kindness yet manage to keep me on my toes. "I'm a shy guy, abc was wonderful at putting me at ease from the get go as she had a great smile and no rush attitude." Unless you have repeatedly been seing a lady, remember to anchor your comment in time: She had a great smile, she took the time to... Rather than She is a lot of fun, she's insatiable. You do not know if what you are bringing up is a constant. Regardless of it being a positive or negative element, you do not know if it is a trait. You can only comment on YOUR experience. If it is to contribute to the community and thank the lady after you had a lovely time with her then here are some pointers: Keep it short Focus on one or two elements that stood out for you and briefly puttin it in context: "I was having a bad day she made me feel like an old friend I could talk to. She managed to lift my spirits and send me off ready to face it all." "It was my second time with her. I believe I mentionned I craved gummy bears the first time we met. When I walked into the room after my shower, she was lying in bed sprinkled with gummy bears!" Life is full of unforseen situations or obstacles; how was one of those handled? We all have different perceptions on what is ponctual, clean, safe, comfortable so unless you can describe those objectively (within 5 min of apt, freshly showered, well-lit parking, firm yet plush mattress, etc) its better not to mention them. Finally, tell if "I would go again" or "if so and so is something you enjoy, I recommand this lady".

I met her over a year ago. Pics were accurate then, communication was good with easy set up. I remember I enjoyed the visit but it was nothing beyond a standard 1st meeting. Nothing particularly memorable stands out. I do recall thinking I would repeat, but she wouldn't take a top spot over some of the other reputable providers that frequent the area. Hope that helps.

Limo ride from Kingston to Toronto On the dock In the hot tub

A strip club sounds like what you are looking for ......

Don't review the same lady over and over and over again. It doesn't contribute anything other than to place the poster squarely into the creepy/ocd category.

Back seat of cab with a new and lovely.friend ;) Stared at driver....grinning my grin...the whole.time...well...*most* of it anyway hehe

I've never heard of 80-100/h nor have I noticed a decreasing trend in the rates. The norm that I get is 120-140/hh and 180-200/h. There are those 60-80 deals for quickies I beleive but I cannot comment on those. As mentioned above, I do get some outliers 180-200/hh or 250-300/h, but I cannot comment on those either lol. I stick to the norm ;)

We were in the park in the daytime by the water. That was FUN. It was a good time to get out of the kayak!

On the penthouse patio, drunk on life and a little bit of excellent wine, in a deluge of warm summer rain, the 3 of us howling and screaming like mad animals. The rain eventually stopped, but we just got hotter. Whew. I need to go lie down just thinking about it.

The donation you ask for is in accordance to what YOU are happy with at the end of the day... Do you enjoy the dates you see? Are you living financially secured? I myself weigh in on what type of people I want to cater to. People who respect you and respect your rates are the people you want to accommodate to. I could not be in this business if I could not enjoy myself. This "average" scale pisses me off tbh. We are ALL individual providers and dance to different rhythms. None of us are the same so why should our rates be? No body can direct how you run YOUR business. Any one who does is not worth your time, dear. Same thing with what type of experience you offer. Do you. If buddy wants something else, he can see someone else. It's vacation season and the amount of drama I have encounters on twitter is astonishing. Girls... DO YOU. That is all.

Does masterbatoring count as sex? If so, at the reception desk of my highschool (nuns) where I worked week-ends. Floatation tank, barrel spa in Monterrey no wait that was actually me doing hubby during honeymoon...

office of a doctor I used to work with..... and no, not the doctor ;) although he did happen to walk in just as I was rearranging my clothes hehe totally knew what just happened.. but was dirty-minded, just like me.. just grinned.. said nothing ;)

The term ���� comes to mind it works both ways for both the hobbiest and SP. I clearly stated that I thought I knew what I was looking which is why I booked the time I did. There was an assumption made by someone that a connection wasn't made, no homework was completed, and that I was looking for a quicky. For me none of those were true, I did my homework, I made what I thought was the best connection possible before meeting her (if you are yourself when conversing with her and you are genuine) then you can put two and two together and conclude that this lovely lady is definitely someone you want to meet in person. If that's not what your looking for then I would agree that a 30 minute session is right for you as some people want the wham bam experience, probably 15 would even work for some people. In my case I wanted/needed the connection to appear as real as possible just to settle my mind and enjoy the whole experience! Plus is was alot of fun getting to know someone! Everyone is different and to each their own, if your smart then you should get out of this exactly what you want to put into it.

Do ducks fly? Although after wanking thinking of my fav lady I'm a little sad, she should have been there so we both could be pleasures.

Yesterday I took a ME day. Started the morning with a drive to Ottawa in my 1963 hot rod pickup. Then had some fun with a lovely lady. Then chicken wings and beer for lunch and a lot more just driving around. :) then home to have a nap lol

it's for safety reasons to protect each other from things such as being ripped off raped or beat up. Just saying. TERB also,has this section for ladies.

Hi guys ;) My apologies for not having mentioned a bit of a vacation/break. I do miss hosting with you fine gentlemen and my hands are becoming restless. I plan to be back around mid September and hope to hear from you. Xoxo Ella

Would suggest a google image search on the pictures.

TELL US WHAT YOU WANT! I am surly not the only escort who has had a mediocre session with someone who refused to give any clue or indication as to if they enjoyed something or not. The blank stare and "Yup" or "okay" to every question... To be honest it gives me the creeps! If you are nervous or inexperienced, let us know! I personally will slow things down a bit for a shy, nervous or inexperienced client, make them feel more comfortable and relaxed... If you look like you are in a state of silent perpetual terror it kind of ruins the mood. If I am giving verbal prompts "Do you like that" or "Want to do this instead"... I'm likely searching for a clue as to what you would like to do most... I won't be offended if a client says "I would really like to do X instead of Y" I want you to have an amazing time! Outside of that arrive clean, on time (NOT 15 early!!!) and respect the rules! Never, ever, EVER, arrive without a confirmed (discussed how long and a set time) appointment...

It all boils down to respect. Respect others, as you would like them to respect you.

want to be a good client? Read the information in the ads/website etc. I am not a provider that runs 8-10 clients through here in a day, I take on 3-4 a week, it depends on if I feel like doing this. I am very low volume as I like clients to feel as though they are the only person that sees me. I take the time to make a special effort to make you feel welcome and invited to my home. It is clean and fresh, and has a great ambient feel to it. You are never rushed when you are here, and you will find difficulty in finding a clock in my place. It doesn't really matter where you found me. It can be an ad on another site, it could be here on Lyla, you may have ran across my website. I will always be courteous when answering inquiries (unless they are totally rude which just gets an automatic ban with no reply at all from me). If you have curiosity about me and wish to communicate, please do so, respectfully. Upon receiving enough information from my website and with talking to me to satisfy you enough to make a booking, be sure that what you are asking for in the initial booking is what you are expecting in the session, nothing more. In other words, don't book a 30 minute MA session expecting to stay an hour with additional activities for the same rate! I just had communications, over several days, in which I thought I was perfectly clear in having this person understand what he was getting into. I directed him to my website and he booked directly from that, so I had him quote my cancellation policy to me. This was done. He shows up, at the appointed time, for a 3 hour session. Unfortunately, the fee he brought was not what was discussed (and is perfectly clear in my website) and he decided that he only 'needed a half hour'. So he brought enough to cover something from a completely different ad I am running, which is 10% of the cost of what he booked (and doesn't even begin to cover my cancellation fee)! Meanwhile, I didn't take on other clients that could have been here. So, if you want to be a good client, communicate well with the providers. We answer all polite requests, and supply you will all the information you need to make an informed decision on whether we are right for you, and if you can afford our time. Please don't waste our time, we don't waste yours.

receiving messages such as: "way too much for me" (in response to an ad that has the rates directly in it!) absolutely boggles my mind! If you are looking at an ad that has rates in it, and you cannot afford it, DON'T message the girl! Requests for reductions is rude and is done by those that feel entitled. I get tired of requests such as this. Save your money until you have the amount requested, THEN contact the person of your choice, it has a much better correspondence return. When a 'special' rate is advertised, and you say its too much, then you cant afford me! You are not a client I want to see.

As someone very new to this hobby, I can't imagine being in the game without the shared recos from those in the know. It would scare me off. I truly appreciate the time and effort that hobbyists make to help me make informed choices. It means that when I make a visit I go with anticipation rather than trepidation. Thanks to all.

Loosly translated, it means that I may or may not be interested in maybe seeing you at some point, yet I'm too lazy to ask a specific question or even properly introduce myself so I will let you do all of the work. The expected response is for you to go out of your way to convince me that you are worth my time. The correct response is to ignore them until they learn some manners. ;)

Well I just posted my first reco based on my first experience. I think I was sensitive, thoughtful, and discreet. I really hope it doesn't have any negative connotations. It was a great first experience and I'd like to share in case it encourages others who may be intimidated or reluctant to initiate a first encounter.

I normally try to post reccos when I have enjoyed myself. I feel it is my way to help the lady out with her business when deserving, as well as to give back to the other gents, and to this site for all of the helpful information I have been given over the years. Communities like this are give and take. It's only right that I give back when I can. If everyone was here simply to get information and not share their own experiences, it wouldn't be much of a site. Nobody would win.

I attempt to post reco's a couple of days before a lady is advertising that she has availability. Reco's, just like all other posts, tend to get bumped down the list so I have to guess that a current reco is most helpful to the lady when she is currently available. Ladies?

As a sp I also find it benefits the gentlemen as well. Often when I am considering meeting a gentlemen it can make me feel safer about meeting with him. It is very common that I check if the gentlemen has made any recommendation to reputable ladies. I feel much more comfortable seeing a lyla gentlemen that has some history on here ;).