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I commend you for being conscientious and not wanting to contribute to an individual's exploitation. Being an ethical consumer is great. However, I think your criteria oversimplifies and doesn't really reflect reality. The vast, vast majority of sex workers don't have a pimp and aren't being coerced into working by an individual who is controlling their movement or taking their money. This does happen and is terrible, but rare. However, capitalism is inherently coercive, and there is a huge spectrum that falls between the extremes of being forced to work through threats or violence, and doing this work because you love it, and would choose it over other really fulfilling options. Almost every sex worker you meet will fall somewhere on this spectrum, and very, very few will be at one extreme or the other. Reality is that except for a very privileged few, we all have to work to pay the bills, have a place to live, and function in society. The social safety net is insufficient and so many people who need it can't access it. Minimum wage hasn't kept pace with inflation, and many full time jobs don't pay enough to live on. The requirement to work is inherently coercive, most sex workers decide for themselves that this type of work is the best option for them within an inherently coercive system (and this is true of most jobs, not just sex work.) I know plenty of sex workers who hate doing sex work but choose to, because all the other options are worse, and plenty who enjoy doing sex work but would quit in a heartbeat if they no longer needed the income from it. Neither group are coerced by an individual, but by the system we live in. I would encourage everyone to figure out for themselves what criteria feels comfortable and ethical and stick to those criteria for themselves, but also remember that most sex workers aren't being coerced or exploited by an individual, and still need good, respectful clients so they can continue making a living. For clients who are concerned about the welfare of sex workers, I would encourage you to be the best client you can be in individual interactions - show up, tip, respect boundaries and consent, respect the screening process. And more importantly, get involved with pushing for decriminalization, strengthening the social safety net, and ensuring that other jobs are a viable choice. Working to create a world where people who are being exploited can get help without fear of being arrested, deported, abused by police, or having their children seized, and where people who don't want to do sex work have a full range of other options readily available, is really the only way to ensure that the sex worker you're seeing freely and enthusiastically choose the work. Additional Comments: I would also add that having a manager, agency, booker, driver or other third party doesn't mean that someone is being exploited or coerced. Being independent is a lot of work and requires particular skills that not everyone has or has an interest in acquiring/using. It's totally fine to choose to only see independent sex workers, but there are many legitimate reasons why someone might choose to work with or for third parties.

I have a number of lovely tattoos... a matched set on my upper arms actually.. and panning for at least one more verrry lovely large piece on my back (next birthday present to myself hehe) and know a number of women who are literaly 'covered' in them... and they are not in any way being abused... that one I find a bit weird ... have to say ;) As far as talking on the phone with me.... hehe I normally do not.. I prefer to keep my phone for those who have already met me, or others that fall into different categories (family, friends, 'legit' business'... and I don't typically budge from that one... I do run an entire 'legit' clinic.. and being on the phone, potentially in front of a 'regular therapy' client while attempting to discuss parrrrrticulars of a s3xual nature... nooooot ever going to happen.... I do commend you on attempting to gain control over a sex addiction.. but I think you are putting far too much energy into figuring out who is being 'harmed' and who isn't...and not sure how that factors into your gaining control over your own situation ;) ... may sound cold but.. it really isn't your concern...(someone had to say it hehe)... more simply put.. and has been said already, by myself as well as others.. go with what you are comfortable with.. and not which you are not. ...and I really am curious as to how many providers you have encountered that approach your home (??) in a 'sketchy' black-windowed white van? ;) I once heard a saying that I think is the single most brilliant thing I have ever been told; "If you have a problem, and there *is* a solution.. then don't worry (after all, you *can* fix it).. If you have a problem... and there is... *noo* solution (as in no matter what you do/try/think/feel.. you cannot change/alter/fix) then... don't worry" ;) - Buddah I understand, I think, what you are getting at... and for some young (and I stress *young*) women, there *may* be the odd one who is in fact under the influence of some lazy @ss who figures he can use her as a meal ticket rather than be a man and get his own job <grin>.. but those, in this level of the industry from what I have seen/experienced anyway.. are thankfully few and far between....... ...and I fully agree with the recent comment as far as who made you think to post this in the first place... and why... meditate.. (it really does help) and if you still feel skittish on this person.. then don't see them :) ...as an aside.. and again, I 'get it'.. and i personally am not offended, but some women *might* be... at your comments regarding 'scoring points in some areas....' or 'qualifying' ;) may draw out some claws in some ladies - as competitive as some areas of this industry may be.. it isn't 'actually' a contest, just in your own mind ;)

I'm going to keep this brief as I'm on the way to the gym... But a friend has informed me that they are doing an interview with sex workers (funded by the government) to ask about how the new law is impacting our lives!!! And they pay you $50 for your time. Please if you can find the time, participate. It's so important for workers everywhere...especially thise currently slipping between the cracks :( and just imagine what we could change if we were given more say in governing something the government clearly is lacking in direct knowledge about. I'm just waiting to find out the details on where to contact them. I'm literally so excited right now!!!!!

In any service-oriented business, reviews/referrals do make a major difference. I really love seeing ladies who I've had a great time with getting positive reviews from others. They pour so much physical generosity into their work that it deserves to be recognized and shared with others. And although every interaction is subjective and personal, there really is such a variation between experiences on offer, ranging from the uncomfortable and unfortunate to the mechanical to experiences that leave you with a glow for days afterwards that it's worth sharing those blissful experiences so that others may experience them too.

I agree with what Blacklabdog said about the provision of sexual services to be a profession. And these lovely women put up with enough BS by society and governments without having to deal with cheap clients looking to save a few bucks. As I normally go for an hour, I have found the average rates to be between $180 to 250. Those who charge more must be able to find clients who find those rates a good value for the experience provided. I would be wary, however, of any offers under this range and believe lower rates by some do devalue the profession. Women in this profession, provide the most intimate of experiences to the mostly men they accept to meet. They deserve our support, respect and appreciation including for the fees they charge. Any bargainers and cheapskates should be kicked to the curb.

I see where you are coming from, and I'm not trying to criticize, but for me, fake pics are an unforgivable transgression. No grey area at all. You only have a bit of information about the person on the other end of that ad, and to find out that most of it is a lie? For me, that's step one in my "ad filter" process. If pics are stolen, move on. Don't look back. I understand why someone would not want a face pic posted. So don't post one then. It isn't a requirement and most do not choose to post one. I know that there are other reasons a "legit" girl might choose to misrepresent herself, and that it doesn't necessarily mean that it is really a dude with a gun waiting to take my wallet and kidney at the in call location, instead of someone who inexplicably looks like Jessica Alba, (some humor there to make a point;) ), but since the photos that caught my eye in the first place are a lie, then I'm moving on. I now know only one thing for sure about this person, and that is that they are not who they are claiming to be. I've also never heard of a case where someone used photos of someone LESS attractive then they are out of fear that they were too intimidatingly beautiful. I suppose it's possible but is unlikely to be the case. ;) Again, just my opinion and my own screening process, but it has worked well for me so far. I would rather over-screen and miss someone good, than under-screen a face the consequences of that. Stay safe and enjoy! Mikey

I do! You, and I getting loss with each other..... Our possibilities are endless...... I'm here waiting for you. I will be in Halifax today, and tomorrow. I can't wait to be in your arms :) [email protected] http://Www.carleychase.com I'll be looking forward to seeing you soon! Lots of love, and hugs Carley xox

From the details you have mentioned, it sounds like you are referring to POWER's research. There is a thread about the research here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=758444#post758444 POWER is a sex worker led organization, that advocates for sex workers' rights. I have done some work with them in the past and they are good shit. I encourage those interested to participate. They are non-judgemental and your anonymity is assured. Here is the poster with more info about how to participate in the research:

...It is most certainly a good place to get opinions.. especially 'unfiltered' ones (both the good and the bad I find, are always best)... :) and yet again... as has been mentioned tons of times on here... going with what *you* feel comfortable with...following gut... doing homework... NOT only basing whether you deal with someone as to whether they have a tattoo of a name - could be their much-loved grandmother's name *I* have one on the small of my back.. a heart with a banner that turns into an arrow, pointing down my @ss <grin>.. and the 'name'on the banner.....is 'HIS' hehe love it as do people lucky enough to have seen it hehe :) ....or whether they pick up the phone asap when you call... leave a detailed msg (clients are baaaad for that!....).... as chances are good that most of us are busy, with this work, or other.. or life in general hehe and don't always rush to pick up the phone.... *that* to me also.. would scream desperation.... Nobody can tell outright and definitively whether someone is doing whatever they are doing because they 'truly' want to... although those of us ladies on here... rest assured.. are here because we love what we do ;) BP and other places.. again, can't say without an absolute doubt.... but that is where your own thoughts/feelings/gut/instincts come into play..... and nobody can do that for you, except you :) I'm not intending to come off as harsh.. but I do have a very blunt nature... hehe usually good-natured... so please don't take offence.. it's just one of those 'it is what it is' sort of scenarios and you take from i twhat you want/need... and don't worry about the rest.. **Of course, if you are ever in a situation with a woman where she appears to be 'recently' injured... frightened... or 'something' is just 'off'..... perhaps she is in need of help....and I would hope someone would ask/offer..... but I wouldn't suggest going looking for it <sketchiness>....where it isn't there <hugs>

I've actually read an article about this with an accompanying video. The interviewers are not so nice about it. If you are strong willed and know how to speak your mind with ignorant people, go on forward! I sure am prepared to be a part of this as I'm ready to break the stigma!

It's not rocket science and red flags are readily apparent if you pay attention. As with any thing in life common sense..... is just that common sense. I have a strict criteria I developed for me through trial and error of course and I stick to and its serves me well. I can tell almost instantly whether to delve further into something or not. Peace MG

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You can charge whatever you want. If you are provide good service and have happy clients that return on a regular basis, then you are charging what the market will bear. But if you are charging more then the market and not attracting new clients or retaining old clients, then you are either charging too much. Or not providing service that the clients value at that rate. To complete you may need to compete. These day's there seem to be a multitude of beautiful new girls that have lower rates. Thee girls may make more in the long run , by having a larger volume. But compare to a regular minimum wage job. These girls are still making way more then they could doing something else. So adjust your rate to where you can afford to live comfortably. Remember customer service is of utmost importance. It is easier to retain a customer that you made happy then to attract a new one. If the service is below par, news will spread quickly.

You might want to consider other possibilities such as Brass Club where the well-known and well-respected nuru expert Jessica, formerly of CMJ, has trained many of their hostesses in nuru massage. I'm quite sure that four hands/duo nuru massage is a possibility at Brass Club. They may give you what you're looking for after a hard week's work ;)

I completely agree with Meaghan - all these ratings just don't have any sense, it is too personal. I never write this sort of reviews with ratings or too explicit details. I write recommendations not often, only when I had really good and distinguished experience. I understand, it is just my personal opinion. And in my recommendation, I try to express the general feeling about this date, give some ideas about Lady's personality, describe what impressed me the most. From my recent observations, writing good recommendation can have interesting side effects: - A couple of PMs from Ladies offering some discount if I turn to be in their area. And no strings attached - I don't need to write recommendation. - Was asked after the date if I am still seeing that girl (I wrote recommendation for). Positive aspect here - the Lady has taken some efforts to know me, have read my recommendations/ posts. But definitely some comparison was expected in my answer - positive of course, I am here and not there. - One young Lady asked me after the date to give her some suggestions regarding improving her service and mentioned my recommendation as a target. It looks like posting recommendations can lead to interesting experience :-)

Soft lips, she has got to have soft lips! There is something special about a woman with soft lips that when she kisses you, you just melt inside a bit!

I may be in the minority here but I don't offer a shower for two. I think the biggest part is I take time to do my hair and makeup and have had a few fiascos where I had to basically take off all my makeup and redo my hair due to those pesky and at time uncontrollable shower heads. However, I do offer a bath tub experience for two on my hour massage appointments in a big roman bath that I have. It's great on a cold winter's day and really nice to relax in. Ultimately I don't get wet above my chest. lol.

I once met a gentleman who was having a great time but got interrupted and had to go back to work in the middle of the hour. When he was leaving, I gave him such a steamy hug and goodbye kiss that he said "Forget it, I don't care if I'm late" and he ripped his trench coat off in such a fury. I'll never forget it. lol.

She lies tantalizingly on her stomach, and wiggles her ass for attention, turning her head, smiling sweetly, to invite and tease me. I kiss her gently all the way down her back, and for the first time my mouth slides between her ass cheeks, kissing and licking. Contact. Engagement. Excitement. I gasp with the pleasure of it, and of what's to come. My tongue and lips start to probe slowly, and then I encounter the spot I've been seeking. She moans, and thrusts in greeting and acceptance. What happens next is a dance of ecstasy. I feel united with this beauty, and I lose myself in the lust she awakens in me. She bucks and thrusts against my mouth, my tongue, as I explore lovingly all around her. My hands grasp her, and spread her wider. She begins to finger herself, with more and more intensity, and then the thrusting becomes frenzied and passion overtakes us both. Time to roll over, I say. We laugh together, and she turns.....

Purpose This Howto describes how to post pictures into an album. Prerequisite There are certain prerequisites that you should be aware of before posting your album. There is a file size of 97.7KB per picture. The maximum dimensions is 600 pixels width and 600 pixels height. Note that pictures from a digital camera would far exceed this limit. Although the system will attempt to resize any pictures to fit these criteria it might be best to manually do this for better results. Description Pictures represent one of the frequently requested items from a Service Provider. Also pictures in the album cycle through the Front page under the Random Album Pictures section. From the Front Page click on your name above the Status Information. This will bring you to your profile. Click on the Add Albums marked (1) in the screenshot above. With a new album there are several fields you will need to fill in. 1. Title. Set a title for this album. Since you may have multiple albums a meaningful title helps. Public titles will appear in the Random Album Pictures. 2. Description. A description for this album. This field is optional and can be left blank. 3. Album type. There are 3 album types. A public album is viewable by everyone and will appear in the Random Album Pictures. This is the most common Service Provider album type. Hobbiest may not have public albums. Private album is viewable only by contacts and mod. A Service Provider may choose to set some or all their albums to private for privacy sake. Profile album stores pictures that can later be use to modify or augment your profile. Once you have filled in the various information above click the button, marked (4) to create the new album. EmmaA has graciously allowed to use her album as an example of how the Title and Description would appear in the finish album. This example is shown below. Now you are ready to upload your pictures. 5. Upload Pictures. Clicking on any of these links will start the process for uploading your pictures.

Purpose This Howto describes how to send a Private Message aka PM. Description There are three locations for sending a Private Message. While reading a thread or post While browsing a user's profile From the User Control Panel 1. Reading thread or post While reading a thread or post you can send the author a PM by left-clicking on the author's name as shown below. The second option marked (1) would bring you to the PM Editor. 2. Browsing user profile While browsing a user profile, which you can use the Active User lists for, left-click on Send Message just below the user's handle. The second option marked (1) would bring you to the PM Editor. 3. User Control Panel This might be the most common means of sending a PM. From the Front Page enter the Control Panel by clicking on User CP. The option marked (1) would bring you to the PM Editor.

After hearing so many great things, I decided to venture down to The Brass Club to see for myself what all it has to offer. Jessica was a great help sending me on the right track to exactly what I was looking for. Being it my first visit, there was of course the first visit gitters. Thankfully, Madison made me feel comfortable instantly. Her smile, beautiful eyes and general charm are quite contagious, getting lost inside her gaze will give you goosebumps. Madison is through and through a true girl next door, unmatched beauty, down to earth, a real head on her shoulders. Chemistry is something very important to me during a visit and there was no lack at all. Time spent with this amazing beauty will drive you to visit more and more. After a massage with Madison, you will be on another world. A true sensual touch with just the right amount of pressure for those problem areas. She may be new to this but you would never know. Thank you for a spectacular time Madison

Cleopatra is pretty hit and miss but it is a lot of fun and also cheapter with its $10 dancers. Get the right girl and you can have a great time. I like the relaxed neighborhood feel to it.

Lisa is a perky English blonde with a firm lovely bum and a wicked sense of humour. She reminds me of the girls I used to enjoy meeting in England, back in the day. I like her sense of fun and adventure, her wit and her conversation. Pretty good massage skills, too. :) Attractive, easygoing, and fully into her work, she promised to put a smile on my face, and she succeeded. Admirably. In fact I'm still smiling, days later.

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Nobody asks you to protect anybody, which is not the original purpose of your thread anyway. Your original post is about establishing criteria to determine if a service provider is independent or not, according to you. Your last comment is less confrontational than it is redundant in its nonsense. There are already many threads on this website that cover this topic of feeling assured that you meet with a real SP anyway. By the way, a lot of ladies are "verified" on this site, did you notice? Which does not mean that the ones who are not are not independent. So what more do you want? A stamp on a thigh that says "100% approved independent"? If you really want to meet with a lady after you have checked all the criteria you mentioned, and if she does not answer the phone, then you decide to call someone else, only because she did not pick up the phone? You can call whoever you want whenever you want, but please, don't make this a solid criteria to declare someone as independent or not. What you describe is this situation: "I want to meet someone NOW, so if this one does not answer the phone, next!". So what if the next lady does not answer the phone either? Please, be logical with your own process.

Open....yum! I had an everything bagel with Chive cream cheese and turkey bacon! Lol

I'd be very cautious if a companion charged less than $150 an hour.

I met Irina a while ago. Her pics are accurate. She is not a spinner type, but not quite a BBW. She's a friendly girl and is legit.

*IF* a lady is okay with you giving her name/contact info out to others... pleeeeease tell the person who you give the info to... that it's ok to also use YOUR name (or at least your username)... I just spent the last 45 minutes of a lovely sunny day.. trying to extract basic information from a an who claims a 'friend' gave him my email.... but was unaware of all i offer, or my website...(sketchy...) I asked the friends name.. he wouldn't give it.... I explained why I want that name.... he wouldn't give it.... several emails back and forth later.. all I get is 'Joe'..... and the man msging me still hasn't offered me *his* name... which I had asked a few times already..... (what day/time/type of session are you looking for... what is your name, and how did you come by my info... pretty basic stuff I'd think) may not agree to see him... as I pride myself on discretion and am verrrrry careful as to who has my contact info, and how they get it... so fellas.... as a favor to not only us.. but to anyone you may refer.... tell them to offer a lady your username if you aren't comfy giving your real one... 'so and so from lyla' works amazingly well ;) I do have many other fun ways to spend my day rather than pulling teeth out of rock ;) couldn't decide whether this should go in turn offs for a lady, or how to be a decent client but hehe ;)

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very true.. minuteman <grin> Although most times, being it is in a 'clinic' setting, most are a bit shy about the hello hug... I typically do enjoy one afterward... absolutely lovely, that is.. because you are right, it doesn't feel like a good-bye.. but more a 'until next time' hehe who wouldn't enjoy that? ;)

As a practitioner of many lovely things.... <grin> I find so many uses for coconut oil that it's 'almost' limitless... you can cook with/in it... use it to clean your mouth/teeth (not whiten, as some would say.. but it does 'pull' bacteria and tartar out of your teeth/gums).. a base for medicines/balms/salves... lipcare and a host of other things... but... as is what I can safely assume everyone's purrrrrsonal favorites in this thread...<grin>.. massage/perrrsonal lubricants ;) Unlike many petrolium-based things (which are horrible for your body as it leaves a very long-lasting 'film' on body tissue and can cause more issues than they are worth)... coconut oil tends to absorbed into the skin.. 'feeding' it moisture/vitamins and much more.... **And for females who suffer from yeast issues (men can too, but predominantly females) coconut oil actually can 'help' take care of those things....as it literally KILLS candida cells....(so anyone currently dealing with candida overgrowth of any kind..... (and there's an easy test to do to see if you are.... it isn't just about females hehe) it's also the *least* 'harmful' to condoms..toys and other fun things that can come into play during play ;) I dug up a wonderful article that not only goes into the benefits of this amazing substance <grin> but others as well... from the point of view of using it for s3x/activity.......take a peek.. if you are so inclined ;) http://dirtyorganics.com/personal-lubricants-guide-with-a-coconut-oil-focus/ There is so much information out there.. easily accessible.... and one should *always* arm themselves with as much as possible.... with the ease of finding out information.. whether through internet, a doctor... a practitioner of natural health modalities like myself.. or my favorrrite standby.. *actual* books <grin>.... it's silly to *not* ask/learn about things that can have an immediate effect on you ;) Like the old adage says; 'the only 'dumb' question, is the one not asked' ;)

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Soon to open in a beautiful new modern home, is Sophia's Vibe and Vitality Spa! Equipped with a high end professional Shitasu massage recliner that vibrates, kneads, squeezes and rolls from top to bottom! Sit in this for 15 min before we begin your body to body massage! Hot hand wax kit, feels amazing on over worked hands. warmth to sooth you and leaves skin soft! Hot Towel warmer to set your massage! Hot stone massage: the best way to get deep into the layers of tension and stress. Brand new queen size bed to get cozy together in a loving embrace. We will cuddle and frolic enjoy the warmth of the real fireplace stove. This baby is what luxury feels like!! ****DATES NOT YET FIRM, BUT MY GOAL IS TO OPEN FOR MID-SEPTMEMBER**** A very big and sincere thank you to all those in Fredericton for all your support over the years, but I have sold my house and so now officially closed in Fredericton:( I do hope if you are passing threw Moncton or Saint John you would like to stop in!

I've never heard of 80-100/h nor have I noticed a decreasing trend in the rates. The norm that I get is 120-140/hh and 180-200/h. There are those 60-80 deals for quickies I beleive but I cannot comment on those. As mentioned above, I do get some outliers 180-200/hh or 250-300/h, but I cannot comment on those either lol. I stick to the norm ;)

I haven't noticed a trend of lowering rates. I would say rates have been fairly consistent for awhile. I would say it is not at all accurate that a majority of providers are charging 80-100 per hour. I have never seen that and if I did, I would probably assume it was some type of scam. I would say the most common hour rates are in the area of 160-200. I have seen as low as 120 and as high as 400 but those are extremes and very rare. It's difficult to compare rates because there are a lot of factors that affect rates such as: Services - ladies who offer less options generally charge less Experience - it seems to me the most popular providers are the ones who are un-rushed, friendly, and go out of their way to create a fun experience for their clients Attractiveness - I think the truth is that guys will pay more to spend time with a lady who is DDG, for ex. Willingness to travel - ladies who travel frequently can often charge more because their pool of clients is larger (that's my theory anyway) Repeat customers - it's quite common that ladies offer lower rates to their regulars Location - I think clients generally expect better quality incall locations with providers who charge higher rates, also rates are often a bit lower outside the downtown core or on the Quebec side There are probably other factors I'm not thinking of right now as well. I would say that providers who are strong in these areas aren't lowering their rates. My guess would be that if someone keeps dropping their rates it's because they aren't offering sessions that clients want to pay for because they are lacking in one or more of the areas listed above. Hope that helps

The donation you ask for is in accordance to what YOU are happy with at the end of the day... Do you enjoy the dates you see? Are you living financially secured? I myself weigh in on what type of people I want to cater to. People who respect you and respect your rates are the people you want to accommodate to. I could not be in this business if I could not enjoy myself. This "average" scale pisses me off tbh. We are ALL individual providers and dance to different rhythms. None of us are the same so why should our rates be? No body can direct how you run YOUR business. Any one who does is not worth your time, dear. Same thing with what type of experience you offer. Do you. If buddy wants something else, he can see someone else. It's vacation season and the amount of drama I have encounters on twitter is astonishing. Girls... DO YOU. That is all.

She's wonderful. You will enjoy time spent with Alison @ Bliss...or any ALO location.

Stevemcqueen said: mrrnice2 said: A little research is needed before making such statements. The U.S. constitution has changed in the history since its inception in 1789. The constitution has been amended twenty-seven (27) times, the last being in 1992. The original section, The Bill of Rights, are there to protect the individual's rights and liberties, and places restrictions on what the government can do. The remaining 17 amendments expand on individual civil liberties. As the times changed, so did the government's views on a person's rights and changes were made to the constitution. For example, abolishing slavery, prohibit the government from allowing women to vote, and the age at which someone can vote. These changes came a century after the Constitution was enacted. There has only been one amendment that has been repealed, and that was the eighteenth amendment; prohibiting the making, transporting, and selling of alcohol. At the turn of the last century, the government felt the need to prohibit alcohol. Then 13 years later, they repealed that amendment. Times changed and the Constitution changed with it. The issue seems, at least in my opinion, to be with how the laws are interpreted. Especially with the Second amendment, the right to keep and bear arms. Therefore, making statements that the Constitution hasn't changed, or cannot be changed are completely false.

What I like depends on my mood. I always enjoy conversations with intelligent ladies. I like art and paint so a woman that expresses an interest in art is always a plus. If so she is likely to treated to a series of pictures of my paintings on my phone. And if I see her often enough, I give her a picture or two. Sometimes in the past I have the felt need to be with someone I don't know just for the anonymity... other times, I enjoy spending time with a lady who I've seen many times before. I love hair... I'm sure I have a hair fetish... I usually I prefer long dark brown hair but sometimes have looked for a lady with black hair, or blonde hair, or red hair... and have booked ladies precisely because of their hair. I love gently running my hands through a ladies hair or feeling her hair tickling my chest or being enveloped by her hair while we kiss. Being able to play with her hair is a big issue to me in whether I repeat or not. But I might be unique in that respect, lol. One lady was quite amused that it was her hair and not her other features (beautiful natural breasts) that attracted me... I've been seeing her off and on now for 4 years and I still love her hair. Other things hummm. I've booked ladies for the fantasy about dreaming they were someone I knew... a friend, or an x-lover, or a childhood sweetheart. I don't like smoke so I prefer a non-smoker. I'm not crazy about perfume, but my current favourite SP has a scent that I find very pleasing. I like our physical time together to be slow and gentle. Some ladies seem to be in a rush. I much prefer natural breasts. But mostly I enjoy spending time with a beautiful, fun and interesting companion.

Yes, I love a goodbye kiss... and its so true that it could be the last time. One never knows. One of my favourites disappeared a while back (hopefully she graduated with her degree); we joked once or twice about the awkward possibility we might meet in a professional context someday... I hope so :) (possible, but very unlikely). a couple times I've left the room at the same time as the SP and we parted on the street... due to the need for discretion there was no kiss on the street, and goodbye hug was not as long as I would have liked, but the affection was still there.

I had a similar epiphany. I'm nowhere near as experienced as some of the people on this board, but I work an extremely high-stress job, started developing lower back pain, and started going to MAs occasionally as a way to help cope. Then one MA just voluntarily gave me a bodyslide (I didn't ask for it, it was just a nice extra), and at that moment I felt like I was 16 again. It sounds a little corny/lame, but it made a huge, huge difference in my mental state to have someone voluntarily touch me like that. I think we underestimate the importance of touch.

Hey everyone ! :) I'm not too sure if this is the right section to post this, if not my apologies but I got a request for the spinners social group and I have no idea how to accept it! lol So if anyone would be kind enough to help me that would be greatly appreciated! hugs & kisses to all you sexy ladies and kind gentlemen xoxo