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I have the attention span of a gnat and quite frankly just quickly gazed at the responses. My two cents....if we could all just accept that sex is sex and love is love we would all be a lot happier! To me, if an emotional attachment is created, then it's cheating. Purely physical encounters mean nothing in the grand scheme of things!

Ah I remember being a 23 year old university student who knew everything! Very sure in my knowledge and beliefs. Then actual real life taught me way more! Be strong and let experience be your actual guide!

Although at first I was the only one visiting her we do now see her (and her male partner) on a fairly regular basis. It was not part of the original plan but we both enjoy it very much. I quite enjoy seeing my husband with her and because I know the boundaries that come with seeing an escort, I'm not at all worried that this will go further. She is not a threat to my relationship with my husband because it is purely physical and not emotional. I love when he tells me how good it felt or how sexy he finds her. Keeping a sex life active and fresh after many years is one of the toughest things to do in a relationship... Seeing them actually helps us keep it fresh. It may seem odd or even completely baffling to some but I feel emotionally closer to my husband after he has been with her. You may be young but you've made me think about things ;). I've never really thought about it but I'm not sure that in all cases seeing an escort is infidelity. Some men are lazy at working on their marriage, 3 hockey leagues a week and not doing your family chores is not conducive to maintaining a healthy sex life with a tired partner. Those men may complain that "the wife" doesn't like sex or that the worse thing for a sex life is marriage when in reality they just need to step up, do their share and be there. I would have far less sympathy if that man decided to see an escort. But I also happen to believe that in a marriage there is a reasonable expectation that sex will be a part of the equation. There are many very good, loving and caring husbands out there that are not getting what they need sex wise from their wives. I know many women in their 40s and 50s that have lost interest in sex. It almost becomes a chore. It is no longer important to them. Having different sex drives is quite hard on a relationship as it can easily lead to frustration and resentment. Also, what if a man had a particular "thing" he really wants to try but knows that his wife wants nothing to do with that. He brings it up casually and quickly realizes that she thinks that it's not "normal", or it's gross. This can easily start consuming this man's thoughts. This is what was happening to me. I kept thinking about being with a woman and it was always on my mind. I'm not sure that in these cases seeing an escort is infidelity. Perhaps getting his physical needs met elsewhere makes him more happy on the home front. Sex and love are 2 very different things. You're right that human are fallible and the lines can get murky. I guess I've never really thought about it for myself. To me it is very very clear in my head. Seeing an escort is never about love. Of course because we are not emotionless robots I do care for her and I hope she is happy in her work life and personal life. I think that if a person seeing an escort develops more feelings they should probably step back and reevaluate the situation.

Love and sex are two very different things. It's easy to judge from the perspective of a single 23 year old, (trust me I was there), but until you walk a mile (or 20 plus years) in someone elses shoes, be careful with the finger pointing ;) . Needs change and so do people. We do what we have to, to get by and live a balanced life, while maintaining balance around us.

In my case it's a bit different than others on this board. I'm a woman seeing a female escort. I discovered in my 40s that I wanted to experience being with a woman. I have no desire to be in love with a woman but I wanted to experience sex with a woman. I've been with my husband for almost 30 years and I'm still very much in love with him but obviously he wasn't able to satisfy the curiosity I had to be with a woman! I tell him every time I go visit her. He is very happy that I'm fulfilling this need I have in a way that is not threatening to our relationship. He also very much enjoys when I tell him all the details after! Obviously every relationship is unique but what I do know is that every relationship is work. Work and family pressure, kids, aging parents. It all adds up. I'm pretty sure that many relationships have been saved by a man visiting an escort. Spouses can certainly remain in love and care very much for each other but have different views on the frequency or type of sex they want to have. In my view seeing an escort is better for the relationship than having an affair where emotions can develop, jealousy can cause problems. I'm not sure that the majority of women see it my way. At least not the women of my generation and older. Just my 2 cents!

My view is pretty simple if one is partnered whether married or not and their partner is unaware of them frequenting SP's it's cheating plain and simple and there is no justification. I am and I do and there is no way I can or could justify it nor would I try to..... it is what it is. Peace MG

Though this is my first post, this post caught my attention. I have been seeing Independents as I hope they are receiving the full amount i donate. In my experience, as Raven said, Do not waste their time and they do not waste yours. Show up. take care of your hygiene (shower, brush teeth, smelling fresh). Respect the amounts requested or do not contact if you do not agree to the prices. Show respect to expect respect. Much love and respect to all you beauties.

I'm going to keep this brief as I'm on the way to the gym... But a friend has informed me that they are doing an interview with sex workers (funded by the government) to ask about how the new law is impacting our lives!!! And they pay you $50 for your time. Please if you can find the time, participate. It's so important for workers everywhere...especially thise currently slipping between the cracks :( and just imagine what we could change if we were given more say in governing something the government clearly is lacking in direct knowledge about. I'm just waiting to find out the details on where to contact them. I'm literally so excited right now!!!!!

<insert emphatic eye roll here please>... I am *really* tiring of this one..... When you message a provider, on *any* forum...asking if they have a opening relatively soon, and they pleasantly surprise you by immediately replying back that yes, they do.. and they give you times to choose from.. you reply back.. choosing one AND complimenting the provider on how fast the reply was <grin>, clarifying the session details... Provider (me) immediately replies back on the clarification.. and sets about preparations so things are purrrrfect upon your arrival........ ....show the h3ll up..... or at least let provider know you have, for whatever reason, changed your mind.... soooo not cool gents.... not at all (perrrrson in question is *still* logged in here.... very much a p1ss off, I have to say.....) as it very rarely happens with people from here... but there is very little else I hate more than someone wasting time.. mine or theirs.. what's the point..?

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Some of us have spouses that are okay with what we're doing (for me, massage-wise anyway, provided certain limits aren't crossed), provided we let them know in advance. It's probably hard for you to understand this kind of thing at 23, unless you're on the kinkier side, but in some ways it's helpful to the overall relationship. And sometimes we do couples' massage together. I will say this though, if you're not honest with what you're doing, the likelihood that something will go wrong and she'll find out is almost a certitude in the long run. It can get addictive and there are too many things to cover up, bank withdrawls, massage oil residue/smells, missed phone calls, unexplained absences, and the risk of certain STIs even if you're playing safe or intend to play safe.

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Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

It was so easy to park in the giant underground garage at the CD Howe building in downtown Ottawa and to nip across the street to visit The Brass Club. I had an appointment with Rose. Actually, she calls herself "Mistress Rose" and I found her to be the ultimate spinner. Her red hair and freckles along with her east coast accent brings Ann of Green Gables jumping into my mind. We slid around on a double massage table lubricated with Nuru solution, and it was such a blast, but what too away my breath was watching her pour it on herself because even though tiny, she is perfectly proportioned with sensational boobs. It was sooo hot. I earnestly recommend The Brass Club and especially little Mistress Rose.

Without dialogue how can there ever be intamacy?

I'm with Mr. Green on this. I don't justify my behavior nor do I ask my wife, whom I love, to explain our complete lack of intimacy.

The passionate "I may die if I don't have sex with you right now" early phase of a relationship is wonderful but not sustainable. Later It becomes the " I'm tired and not necessarily horny but grandma took the kids to lunch at McDonald's" phase and that is where couples need to make decisions about their sex life. If too many small opportunities are not use to have sex it may be hard to get that back with time. Just my 2 cents!

I am very comfortable with my husband seeing an SP precisely because rules are in place and emotional attachment is not involved. We currently go see an escort together but I have no problems with him seeing her, or even someone else, without me. It's sex not love! He tells me that right now he doesn't want to but that may change in the future and if it does it's ok!

Myself, I have been in relationships where the person was mentally/emotionally *actually* not even there... but the sex was fun... and the other way around.. and would opt for the emotional/house/mental support over the sex any day of the week. Polyamory... the word itself.. implies an emotional connection as well as a physical one.. a loving relationship.. and for the most part.. although a certain level of friendship develops between a client and who they see.. it is not the same as with one who shares your life... so polyamory doesn't really fit in this scenario.. but.. that's just me being picky <grin> If two people have found a way to make things work, and wish, for their own reasons, to be together...then they should be.. if it's 'above-board' and honest, even better. I know several people who would be much more comfortable if their partner chose to spend time with an SP/MP.. even on a regular basis, rather than cheat... and from what they say, it is much more to do with the fear of them developing an emotional relationship with someone else... with a 'professional'.. you don't get that.. at least, not at that same level...

If you prefer a massage that is more firm, something like a real RMT, I would suggest seeking another MA. There was no doubt that she is attractive and beautiful, but the massage is not therapeutic. I play lots of hockey and i like leaving with all my muscles relaxed, not just "the one". However, if you fancy a very light touch non therapeutic, then by all means she is your girl. I agree with the previous post, door fee normal, tips were pricey. No repeat for me.

I actually used my BBQ last night! What a changeup. A couple of potatoes and a red onion sliced medium-thick with lots of butter and s/p in tin foil on the grill for 20 minutes until done. A nice, big rib steak seared on my soapstone grill plate. A couple of fresh tomatoes cut up into thick slices with some Maldon salt on top. A fine bottle of Valpolicella. I cut the steak in two: one for me, one for my girl. She digs the bone.

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I do believe a moderate level of masturbation improves your fertility because it keeps the pipes clear. Personally I do it every couple of days... Best cure for insomnia... best cure for an aching heart... lol... best cure for boredom. If my wife is snoring, I can do it without waking her, lol. I'm usually doing it thinking about my most recent date with an SP... sometimes while looking at her advertising pictures (but not when I'm in bed with snoring wife)... It used to be masturbate before a date with an SP so that I wouldn't come too fast but I don't have that problem anymore... Instead my new rule these days is I don't masturbate for 2 days before a date because it maximizes my pleasure.

I've got a birthday this weekend so I'm going to buy something nice for myself but not sure just yet.

Something sweet with liquor involved. Out I go!

Have a read of the Cabaret and GoGo discussion in this same section. I agree with lake ranger, it is hit and miss. I was at Cabaret in August and Tigress is a whole lot of fun. Treat her well and you will enjoy the show.

I've seen both Maria & Barbie and have to agree with Leviathan that, while Maria is great, Barbie is a much better choice.

whole-heartedly agree... definitely fun/interesting to hear of fond memories.. but firmly believe their current whereabouts/job/perrrsonal lives should not enter into the conversation... they retire for a number of reasons.... and should be 'left in peace' so to speak ;)

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It must be very nice to have good memories with ladies who are no longer working and to have a space to share them however, I don't see the point on giving information (whether of its confirmed or speculations) on what they do now, if they left town and personal things such as them becoming mothers when they may have shared that in confidence expecting for it to remain that way.

I saw her when she worked at EB. Had a good time

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I've seen both Maria and Barbie. Although Maria is a sweet girl (very pretty face), her pics are somewhat generous. For the extra 5-7 minute drive, Barbie is a much better choice..... :) http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/addictivebarbie-xo-everymans-w-tdream-c-u-m-true-lets-make-fantasy-a-reality-daddy-100-realandhorny/2571560

Ok. Do you have a link to her ad. Also is there anyone else. Even in the Bedford area?

Saw her last week at Pigale during the day !! Hot Body :-)

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From the details you have mentioned, it sounds like you are referring to POWER's research. There is a thread about the research here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=758444#post758444 POWER is a sex worker led organization, that advocates for sex workers' rights. I have done some work with them in the past and they are good shit. I encourage those interested to participate. They are non-judgemental and your anonymity is assured. Here is the poster with more info about how to participate in the research:

Hi wondering if anyone has any info? pm would be appreciated. http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/curvy-cougar-dd38-new-to-new-brunswick/2094067

She does incall in an upscale apartment complex. Parking is on the street if the building's visitor area is empty. Nice girl in her late twenties. Clean place, no pets. I'd recommend texting her and introducing your self, and then call her up. Better to book a day in advance.

I saw Tamika in Halifax last week. Mature woman , great massage and incredible skills . I really enjoyed all she offers and wants to pleasure you in many different ways. Her pics of her do hide the fact that she's a bbw , in the best sense of the acronym. If you are into that you will enjoy her and then some. If not just lay back and enjoy her exceptional skills.

$20 per song but you won't find much action in that area. Whiskey Go-Go is your closet spot but there is door fee and a coat check fee. Best strip joint is in the Sauga/ Brampton area. Atlantis, Million Dollar or Pavillion

One minor exception to OD's post is timing, nothing wrong with 5 miniutes prior - must be the military in me many years ago.....

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