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I don't justify it, I believe it's wrong and that it will hurt my spouse immensely if she finds out. I do it because, although I love my wife and want to spend the rest of my life with her, we are no longer compatible in bed. After 20 years of marriage she no longer needs it in her life. I, on the other hand need it regularly still. I tried going solo for a few years but it was not satisfying so eventually had to decide between an affair or a SP. With a SP, there was no commitment and not emotional. That was about 11-12 years ago and we still have a happy marriage, it's not perfect in the traditional sense but so far it's worked for me.

It was so easy to park in the giant underground garage at the CD Howe building in downtown Ottawa and to nip across the street to visit The Brass Club. I had an appointment with Rose. Actually, she calls herself "Mistress Rose" and I found her to be the ultimate spinner. Her red hair and freckles along with her east coast accent brings Ann of Green Gables jumping into my mind. We slid around on a double massage table lubricated with Nuru solution, and it was such a blast, but what too away my breath was watching her pour it on herself because even though tiny, she is perfectly proportioned with sensational boobs. It was sooo hot. I earnestly recommend The Brass Club and especially little Mistress Rose.

As the great Canadian, Maritimer poet, Ernest Buckler, noted: If you stay celibate It's like hell a bit If you mind the pope and never ball It's robbing Peter to pay Paul :)

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I believe that sex is a need not a want. In a very basic way we need sex to survive as a species, we all come from sex. It is a need just like breathing and eating, granted we can survive way longer without sex than oxygen. You may not die from not having sex but I think that for many people not having sexual release or intimate physical contact with another person would negatively affect them. Celibacy is not a natural state for humans. Catholic priest have struggled with this. I'm pretty sure that all priests that have had sex with young boys knew very well that what they were doing was wrong at many levels but the urges were too strong. I know that we are talking about sex not masturbation here but I sometimes read the no fapping thread on Reddit. I can't understand why (mostly) young men would take on the challenge to not masturbate. For many they can do it for 6-7 days then can't take it anymore and feel awful that they have failed. Start again and fail again. Not sure how good that it for self esteem. Of course you'd be horny even if there were no women in the world. Heterosexual men in prisons have no contact with women and engage in sex with other inmates. They probably would never have considered sex with a man in the outside world but prison doesn't take away the need for sex or physical contact. So if no women were around men would never wake up with "morning wood"? That would be sad! ;) On a side note, you make many reference to men, I get it, you're a guy but don't forget that women are sexual too. :) We get horny, we masturbate and we want sex because we are human.

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I would encourage anyone who works in Ottawa to participate. This kind of research is so important, and POWER will use the research to advocate for sex workers' rights locally and at a national level. :) Thanks for sharing is Emily!

I had the opportunity to meet this stunningly beautiful woman yesterday afternoon and I am so happy I did. She is quite tall, and being tall myself, I was in heaven. She has a beautiful face, amazing body, soft smooth skin, and legs for days. At first, she seems to have a sweet innocence about her, but don't let it fool you. She has a naughty side that will make you melt. She has a charming personality and is quite easy to talk to. She very quickly put me at ease, and before long, I was completely lost in her beauty. Time flew by far too quickly. She is only in town a short time, so if you can, treat yourself. You definitely won't regret it. Thank you Chrystal for an amazing afternoon. Until we meet again ;) Mikey

Had a great and wild time with Abby @ CMJ. She's a GND but very libidinous and sexual. My gf and I tried our first experience with a MA and Abby was recommended as being very receptive to couples. The shower session got everything wet and hot. Very quickly it was a blur of writhing bodies and shrieks of delight/pleasure. The massage portion was a slippery volcanic session with a tangle of bodies and oil flying everywhere! Needless to say the chemistry was there and all three of us had a very satisfying time! If you looking for a cute slim MA for couples then Abby is a great choice! We will be repeating soon...

Please click the image below to see if you are eligible to participate in this research study. An honorarium of $50 is provided to research participants. The goal of the research is to understand how the new laws are impacting workers in Ottawa. POWER is worker-led organization that advocates for the rights of all people working in this industry.

I'm going to keep this thread a little less confrontational than my last one, I'll refrain from being argumentative. On the topic, I am not a married man. I am 23 years old and marriage has almost become a taboo for the modern culture. There are so many other interesting things to do these days that I couldn't personally imagine tying myself down to one woman for the rest of my days. I can see how it was a very tempting proposition in the past, particularly back when it was a pretty good deal for men. The main topic here though is how do you married guys justify seeing escorts to yourselves? Marriage is of course a part of the christian faith, and has a certain set of rules to follow if you wish to adhere to that faith. So it seems like seeing escorts could technically be infidelity? Of course I can understand if some married guys view tying the knot as a naive mistake from their past, it could become very complicated to correct this mistake if you are 20-30 years into a loving, committed relationship and/or raising kids. Happy to hear your thoughts, and I promise I will keep an open mind this time ;)

OK. Since I particularly like coconut oil as lube, I wanted to do my own resistence test. I'm allergic to latex so here are the three contenders chosen: latex, Durex Aventi Bare (very old expiring in November 2016) isopropylene Durex Real Feel (Bare just to confuse everyone!) polyurethane Trojan Supra non latex Unfortunately I was out of Skyn and Lambskin but since they are way more expensive and, in the case of Lambskin, do not protect against HIV, this will have to do. So here is the Test protocol. 1) I unrolled the condom and sucked on them (a-to add saliva enzymes to mimic real life agressors b-because I was trying to figure which one to use for BJ.) Except for the latex one obviously. 2) I put an ounce of coconut oil inside the condom and did not tie the top First test will be to see if oil seeps through. I will conduct that one for 3 hours. Second test, I will tie the survivors and then roll them round and round inside a melon I guess, or maybe the salad spiner... Still got time to think about this... Note that the pics need to be moderated so that may not show right away. So I started the test at 14:07. At 14:48, I checked on my test subjects. There was some seeping on the latex and even more on the polyurethane one. I decided to give them the benefit of the doubt and gently pat dried the receptacle, thinking it may have been some from when I filled them, or lub gravitating down from the heat. latex one polyisoprene one polyurethane one Will update later....

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I realise being a provider and posting in here I may get flak... but I'm ok with that hehe *if* a person is post op.. and physically *is* female (or other way around I suppose) what is there to 'disclose'? If they have not got the surgery then h3ll yes they should hehe ...could easily cater to an entire clientele who are actually interested in seeing someone who is 'both' s3xes (at least anatomically hehe.....unless they don't actually plan on meeting anyone ;) *to avoid getting flagged... they could just use acronyms or something.. but I found (used to advertise on CL myself) *any* ad of that nature.. mine included... were flagged/removed all the time..a few times a day *sigh* likely from other providers who didn't want the competition ;)

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celebacy is certainly *not* a 'natural' state.. not for any creature/mammal actually. And it is a long-proven medical fact that sex/sexual release is a 'need' and not always a 'want'.... the build-up of tension, stress et al... is physically/mentally, emotionally draining.. and with the release.. comes the euphoria and relaxation that is also a *need* in order to function properly. There is a massive chemical release/change when one either has s3x or masturbates.. and acts as literally a 'reset button' for your whole being....that is helpful physically as well as an incredible amount of other things.... so even if there were no more women on the planet.. yes, my dear boy...<grin> you would in fact, become h0rny again.. and again......<grin>.. and again.. you'd just handle it differently hehe As far as the priests.. yeah.. I have long been of the opinion that forcing someone into celibacy is yet another form of instilling guilt...(no offence of course)... because you are definitely going to fail.... no matter how you chose to deal with it... being human, it is almost impossible to go your entire life without any form of that sort of release. .....even if you are not conscious of it... you actually *have* 0rgasmed in your sleep.. several times before the age of 10... again.. it's a form of release that is muchly needed. And when you think about all the things a body/mind/psych goes through from age 0 to 10.. hehe it's no wonder we need some help lol Although not many mammals have s3x purely for the sake of enjoyment.... as it is largely for procreation.. it will always be a 'need' in some form or another. Quite frankly, I myself go sort of batsh1t crazy if I go a few days with no sort of release. If a person can't sleep, or is feeling particularly stressed/tense... chances are, a little 'solo time' can relieve that... as can a lovely session with a parrrtner <wink> hehe whether 'married' or not ;) ... 'marriage' to me, has been turned into something so commercial (much like almost everything else unfortunately..*sigh*....) I have never required a piece of paper to validate a relationship.... and still find it humorous/sad that *one* religion made that soooo important.. when, if they were to *actually* read the bible...(old testament) it says (and I cannot recall the chapter/verse) "...and he took her into his cave.. and made her his wife".... hehe wonder what they were doing in there? signing legally-binding marriage documents...? playing a rousing game of Parcheesi perrrrhaps...? naaah.. they were having seeeex! ;)

- addressing emails/twitters/requests - tackling 'pre-bookings' for my return from whiteshell (leaving monday!!) - enjoying coffee & lovely music - uploading new bra pictures (had fun in a change room again hehe) - cleaning my office so I have a nice tidy den when I return and of course.. as always.. perrrrving this place ;) Additional Comments: ...a mere few hours later... I am now being pleasantly shocked... the pictures I uploaded during the last post.. are already apprrrrroved! kuddos to the mod :)

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Was at a clothing optional beach and was surrounded by three groups of young ladies, each in varying degrees of undress. It was a big CFNM thrill.

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In a rock pier at night during a firework display, in a University classroom and in a public swimming pool. I miss the youthful carefree days.

I'm with Mr. Green on this. I don't justify my behavior nor do I ask my wife, whom I love, to explain our complete lack of intimacy.

My view is pretty simple if one is partnered whether married or not and their partner is unaware of them frequenting SP's it's cheating plain and simple and there is no justification. I am and I do and there is no way I can or could justify it nor would I try to..... it is what it is. Peace MG

There is a thread on NL in the recommendation section.

I'm going to keep this brief as I'm on the way to the gym... But a friend has informed me that they are doing an interview with sex workers (funded by the government) to ask about how the new law is impacting our lives!!! And they pay you $50 for your time. Please if you can find the time, participate. It's so important for workers everywhere...especially thise currently slipping between the cracks :( and just imagine what we could change if we were given more say in governing something the government clearly is lacking in direct knowledge about. I'm just waiting to find out the details on where to contact them. I'm literally so excited right now!!!!!

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I am very comfortable with my husband seeing an SP precisely because rules are in place and emotional attachment is not involved. We currently go see an escort together but I have no problems with him seeing her, or even someone else, without me. It's sex not love! He tells me that right now he doesn't want to but that may change in the future and if it does it's ok!

Although at first I was the only one visiting her we do now see her (and her male partner) on a fairly regular basis. It was not part of the original plan but we both enjoy it very much. I quite enjoy seeing my husband with her and because I know the boundaries that come with seeing an escort, I'm not at all worried that this will go further. She is not a threat to my relationship with my husband because it is purely physical and not emotional. I love when he tells me how good it felt or how sexy he finds her. Keeping a sex life active and fresh after many years is one of the toughest things to do in a relationship... Seeing them actually helps us keep it fresh. It may seem odd or even completely baffling to some but I feel emotionally closer to my husband after he has been with her. You may be young but you've made me think about things ;). I've never really thought about it but I'm not sure that in all cases seeing an escort is infidelity. Some men are lazy at working on their marriage, 3 hockey leagues a week and not doing your family chores is not conducive to maintaining a healthy sex life with a tired partner. Those men may complain that "the wife" doesn't like sex or that the worse thing for a sex life is marriage when in reality they just need to step up, do their share and be there. I would have far less sympathy if that man decided to see an escort. But I also happen to believe that in a marriage there is a reasonable expectation that sex will be a part of the equation. There are many very good, loving and caring husbands out there that are not getting what they need sex wise from their wives. I know many women in their 40s and 50s that have lost interest in sex. It almost becomes a chore. It is no longer important to them. Having different sex drives is quite hard on a relationship as it can easily lead to frustration and resentment. Also, what if a man had a particular "thing" he really wants to try but knows that his wife wants nothing to do with that. He brings it up casually and quickly realizes that she thinks that it's not "normal", or it's gross. This can easily start consuming this man's thoughts. This is what was happening to me. I kept thinking about being with a woman and it was always on my mind. I'm not sure that in these cases seeing an escort is infidelity. Perhaps getting his physical needs met elsewhere makes him more happy on the home front. Sex and love are 2 very different things. You're right that human are fallible and the lines can get murky. I guess I've never really thought about it for myself. To me it is very very clear in my head. Seeing an escort is never about love. Of course because we are not emotionless robots I do care for her and I hope she is happy in her work life and personal life. I think that if a person seeing an escort develops more feelings they should probably step back and reevaluate the situation.

I've got a birthday this weekend so I'm going to buy something nice for myself but not sure just yet.

:icon_razz: I've fallen into that age old trap, posting my age when trying to start a discussion. Yes, I understand that life experience does exist, but I would appreciate if we can not assume that I don't know certain things and dismiss my thoughts out of hand. I'm sure there is much that I don't know, and I'm always interested in learning more, that's why I started this discussion after all. I do understand that love and sex are 2 different things, I've sidestepped university in favor of IT technical certifications, and I understand that people change. I'm just trying to dig a little deeper here. While I understand that people change and needs change, do others my age not understand this? Is this why there are so many failed marriages, affairs, escort visits etc? Why agree to a clearly defined set of rules if you have an understanding that you may not be the same person many years down the line? Or perhaps there is justification for infidelity in marriage, perhaps seeing escorts isn't infidelity at all? Please understand that I start a discussion of this sort to learn more. Respectfully, pointing out my age and suggesting that I just need to walk another 20 or so years to learn life's lessons the good ol' hard way isn't really helping me to be less young and naive :) There are some young people who have amassed an incredible amount of knowledge in life, and some older people who can barely tie their own shoes. Age is a factor in life experience, but some people are perfectly capable of learning life's lessons at a faster pace. We also can't ignore the progress of technology and the internet. There is an unprecedented amount of information available to younger generations that wasn't available not to long ago. It may not be a substitute for life experience, but I like to believe it is supplemental. I remember a time not to long ago in my childhood wherein if I had a question, the only source of knowledge I had was mom or dad :) Additional Comments: Fair enough. I take an interest in Christian marriages specifically because the Christian faith isn't very accepting of polyamory. This doesn't mean that I look down on the practice personally. It wouldn't make much sense to ask how people justify seeing escorts in a marriage if their particular faith has no qualms about the practice. I'm sure there are other faiths that also take issue with polyamory, but I am unfortunately only familiar with my own personal religious indoctrination ;) Additional Comments: That certainly is a unique situation. Is it mutual, does he also have desires fulfilled in this way? I know some couples find there is an imbalance in this sort of a setup, I don't want to pry, but if your okay with talking more about it I'd be interested in learning more about how you've managed to maintain a balance. On the topic of relationships saved by men visiting escorts, I think this might depend on the situation and whether the lines of communication are open. If a man sees an escort and his wife is in the know, then I certainly don't see an issue with it, although I would still wonder how they overcame the demands of their marriage vows, if polyamory wasn't a part of the deal. Of course it is an entirely different story when the lines of communication are not open, when it is kept a secret, does this save the relationship, or perhaps it changes the nature of their relationship? Forfeiture of honesty and trust, might be a hefty price to pay for sexual release? I do agree that escorts can be a much less demanding, more casual relationship, though there is always the possibility of emotions and jealousy developing. Humans are fallible of course, sometimes it goes beyond the business transaction, and it is a murky line between friendship and romantic love.

In my case it's a bit different than others on this board. I'm a woman seeing a female escort. I discovered in my 40s that I wanted to experience being with a woman. I have no desire to be in love with a woman but I wanted to experience sex with a woman. I've been with my husband for almost 30 years and I'm still very much in love with him but obviously he wasn't able to satisfy the curiosity I had to be with a woman! I tell him every time I go visit her. He is very happy that I'm fulfilling this need I have in a way that is not threatening to our relationship. He also very much enjoys when I tell him all the details after! Obviously every relationship is unique but what I do know is that every relationship is work. Work and family pressure, kids, aging parents. It all adds up. I'm pretty sure that many relationships have been saved by a man visiting an escort. Spouses can certainly remain in love and care very much for each other but have different views on the frequency or type of sex they want to have. In my view seeing an escort is better for the relationship than having an affair where emotions can develop, jealousy can cause problems. I'm not sure that the majority of women see it my way. At least not the women of my generation and older. Just my 2 cents!

Some of us have spouses that are okay with what we're doing (for me, massage-wise anyway, provided certain limits aren't crossed), provided we let them know in advance. It's probably hard for you to understand this kind of thing at 23, unless you're on the kinkier side, but in some ways it's helpful to the overall relationship. And sometimes we do couples' massage together. I will say this though, if you're not honest with what you're doing, the likelihood that something will go wrong and she'll find out is almost a certitude in the long run. It can get addictive and there are too many things to cover up, bank withdrawls, massage oil residue/smells, missed phone calls, unexplained absences, and the risk of certain STIs even if you're playing safe or intend to play safe.

It must be very nice to have good memories with ladies who are no longer working and to have a space to share them however, I don't see the point on giving information (whether of its confirmed or speculations) on what they do now, if they left town and personal things such as them becoming mothers when they may have shared that in confidence expecting for it to remain that way.

People who are never grateful or satisfied.

SHE: That's 200 for the hour. HE: Great, but I only brought 100. SHE: Hey, this isn't Kijiji!

On Backpage the rates are between 180 and 220 for the hour that gives an average of 200 per hour it is very rare that im quoted a price out of that range

Personally i think they are seeing the half hour rate or a bng rate, and either not realizing the low rate they saw wasn't for an hour, or are being deliberately misleading you. There is a type who do that, shame the escort for their rates, and actually lie about what everyone else is charging. For an hourly, the only reason someone might post a 100/hr rate is that they are not doing F S for that, or that everything is added on, or that it isn't actually a hour rate, it is their half hour.

My decision is always made based on if I see something in the photo or description that makes me sit up and take notice. Cute, eccentric, different or whatever catches my eye. Rate takes a back seat to that. Obviously, I know what I can afford but its not an negotiation. If someone questions your rate I think is in bad taste and certainly wont contribute anything to a session. I do think there is a line I wont go under. I once went to someone who offered a lower rate than I am used to. I figured, she is cute and looks kinda fun. Totally uninterested in making even an effort for a connection. So Mechanical would not even make eye contact. In and out in half the time! I would not care what price was offered I would not go back! If you like this work and its not about going through the motions then your worth it :)

I think average rate on BP now is $240/hr. The more you charge, the better clients you will cater. From my experience, most clients who are willing to pay above the average rate are sweet and nice people. The barely ask about your service or try to negotiate with you. What they are looking for is companionship and sex is just 1/3 of the time they book. No matter what those guys comment about your rates, they are not worth your time !

@Seaniew3 ... I'm specifically discussing Ottawa. But the rates fiffer city to city based on costs to travel/and or live in them.

From the details you have mentioned, it sounds like you are referring to POWER's research. There is a thread about the research here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=758444#post758444 POWER is a sex worker led organization, that advocates for sex workers' rights. I have done some work with them in the past and they are good shit. I encourage those interested to participate. They are non-judgemental and your anonymity is assured. Here is the poster with more info about how to participate in the research:

You can charge whatever you want. If you are provide good service and have happy clients that return on a regular basis, then you are charging what the market will bear. But if you are charging more then the market and not attracting new clients or retaining old clients, then you are either charging too much. Or not providing service that the clients value at that rate. To complete you may need to compete. These day's there seem to be a multitude of beautiful new girls that have lower rates. Thee girls may make more in the long run , by having a larger volume. But compare to a regular minimum wage job. These girls are still making way more then they could doing something else. So adjust your rate to where you can afford to live comfortably. Remember customer service is of utmost importance. It is easier to retain a customer that you made happy then to attract a new one. If the service is below par, news will spread quickly.

Everyone is going to have different feelings on what risks are acceptable to take and which aren't. Others can tell you what the generally accepted recommendations are, but whether it's worth it to you to wait or avoid certain activities is a very personal decision. The recommended schedule for maximum immunity for both Gardisil (HPV) and Twinrix (HAV & HBV) are three shots over the course of six months. Ideally you should complete the vaccination schedule before becoming sexually active. These are preventable infections. But as humans we very often decide that taking on a bit more risk is worth the benefits, and that's a very normal and okay decision to make. I can tell you that your risk of contracting HIV through kissing is non-existent, and the risk from unprotected oral sex is low. Realistically your risks from kissing are HPV and HSV (herpes, which there's a very good chance you already have, as many people get cold sores from casual contact as children), and other stuff that isn't generally considered an STI, like mono and colds. Your risk from unprotected oral sex is primarily around HPV, HSV, syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia. Even "safe" stuff like massage carries some small risk of transmission of STIs like HSV, HPV and syphilis, which are all transmitted through skin to skin contact. Basically, if you're going to be sexually active in any way with another human being (sex workers or non-sex workers), you have to accept that there will be some risk, but this is true of all things in life. The best you can do is educate yourself about the risks and then make an informed decision about how to mitigate your risks and what is acceptable for you for the trade off, which is the fun, pleasure and connection of being sexual with another person. http://www.uptodate.com/home has lots of good information that is aimed at both lay persons and health care provider. Follow through with seeing someone when you feel confident that you understand what your level of risk is and feel okay with that. No one else can tell you exactly where on the spectrum of risk you will fall, but I think that we can all say that you'll have a lot more fun and feel far better about your encounter if you sort out your anxiety about STI transmission before you book. Good luck!

Someone is spreading a rumor about Lyla so I am just posting this here to reassure everyone that the rumor is not true. Male members are NOT going to require paid accounts and we have NO INTENTION of every doing that! It may be some other site and they are just confused with the name but I can assure you that Lyla has no intention of that.