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This is straight up wrong - kissing is low risk to no risk for most STIs. I think it's really important as both clients and service providers to accept that all activities come with some risk, and while we can do a lot to reduce and mitigate those risks, if we want to do fun things the possibility of negative consequences will exist. When it comes to STIs, it's up to each individual to decide what their personal risk tolerance is - there's no one right answer and it'll vary from person to person. Part of figuring out what activities fit into your risk tolerance is having a really clear idea of what risk factors are, how transmission works, how effective different methods of protection are and so on. There's a lot of misinformation out there, and even health care providers and sexual health educators struggle with finding ways to communicate risk in a way that people can conceptualize and position within the broader range of risks that we accept as part of life. Also, if you haven't taken a stats class, understanding the epidemiology numbers and statistics can be really challenging and counter intuitive. http://www.uptodate.com/ is a solid resource on STIs. They have a range of free patient articles, but if you want to really dig deep into these topics, buying a subscription is money well spent (these articles are written for medial professionals, so very in depth and nuanced.) Some things you can do to reduce your risk and ensure your health, though not all of these will make sense for all people: - Take care of your overall health - eat well, be active, get enough sleep, treat any health issues that come up. Inflammation increases your risk of acquiring HIV, for example. - Get screened for STIs on a regular basis - most of them are curable, all of them are treatable, so if you do get one (not the end of the world, very very common), being able to treat it early will result in better health outcomes. - Get vaccinated for HPV (Gardasil) and hepatitis A & B (Twinrix). These vaccines are usually expensive but may be available free through sexual health clinics. - Get on PrEP - pre-exposure prophylaxis for HIV prevention. Very effective, but very expensive, so really only suitable for people with a high risk. - Don't play while intoxicated or when your judgement is otherwise impaired. - Make sure you're using condoms that fit you properly, to reduce slippage or breakage. They are not one-size fits all, and should fit snugly at the base without pinching. Check the expiry date on your condoms, and make sure it hasn't been damaged (there's a pocket of air in the package if it's unopen.) - Use a female/internal condom instead of a male/external condom - they cover a lot more surface area and reduce skin-to-skin contact (which is a transmission risk for HPV, herpes and syphilis.) - Use condoms and dams for oral sex (though I think most people would rather skip oral than use a dam - they can be a little awkward and unsexy, particularly if you're not used to them.) - Use gloves. - Use lube, but avoid ones that might cause irritation (flavoured, cooling, warming.) There's some research to suggest that carrageenan lubes may be effective in reducing transmission of HPV and HSV (but not enough clinical evidence to suggest you rely on them at all.) - Pay attention for signs of STIs - unpleasant smelling discharge, blisters, lesions, etc. Many STIs have no visible symptoms, but some do. (But also be aware that some STI symptoms can look very similar to shaving irritation or other things which are completely non-contagious.) - Avoid brushing your teeth, flossing, eating sharp foods or other things that could cause small tears in your mouth for an hour before and after oral sex. Mouthwash is fine. - Wash with soap and water before and after sex (don't scrub and irritate your skin.) - Avoid irritating your skin (eg shaving) right before skin-to-skin contact. - Don't share sex toys, particularly ones that are porous and can't be sterilized (rubber, cyberskin etc). If you do share sex toys, either put a fresh condom on them when switching people, or properly clean (bleach or boiling) non-porous toys between people (silicone, glass, metal, ceramic, some stone and wood toys.) - Stick to lower risk activities - BDSM, hand stuff, covered oral etc.

Let's get to know each other or reconnect over a drink while watching beautiful dancers grace the stage at Barbarella's. Then we can get cozy in the Champagne Room. With my long auburn hair hiding us from the rest of the world, we can share a sensual escape of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. Come and play with me at 340 Queen Street on Saturday, September 23, between 2pm and 7pm. XO

I love this picture!

I enjoy the experience of getting to know a guest prior to a meeting, the exchange builds anticipation and gives me some excellent insight into who's going to walk thru my door. But it's important to realize that it's preferred after a date and time has been set. A few brief exchanges after doing ones research should allow a guest to have enough information to set up a play date, then the flirtation that ensues can flow. The key to remember is that the combined communications from many individuals can become a vortex of time consumption, given the number of people contacting a provider. I recently had to explain to a potential guest it was time to put some skin in the game; either with an in person visit or set up a monthly ecomm/video package as he had taken up just over 15 hours of my focus in less than a month. I normally limit such interactions but this gentleman and I have some chemistry and I decided to see where it went. So far he hasn't booked; if he doesn't book with me by weeks end, he will be listed as a WOT and I won't respond further. I sell my attention, the services are a bonus and I prefer to communicate with people who are genuine potentials and trusted guests because I give my undivided attention when communicating with someone. Just be mindful that it's fun but if you don't intend to book, you're just wasting a persons most valuable asset, time... smiles, cat

When the girls notice you got a haircut ... you're a regular. Additional Comments: On another note, it was made more than plain to me today that a description that I posted previously was offensive, and noted. I thought it might be offensive at the time, but it's what an ex used to say about herself as a joke. So, I'm not apologizing for what I said, but I will say it in a different and heartfelt way. The club was jumping this afternoon, with lots of girls I hadn't seen before, but were all very attractive. The lovely Jenny was there, her ample and attractive bosom taking the stage in a completely dark set. No lights on the stage, which was a bit odd. I spent some time with Sarah and will definitely be back for more. She's shy. Kind of.

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Kayleelove is awesome :) She is hot, very yummy, just like her pictures, but boobies are bigger in person :) Her service was amazing, Her personality made it all perfect. Treat her well and she will make you very happy .. I am so planning on being her regular now! WOW

You've got to be careful not to waste their time, and you have to know where to draw the line, but one thing I really enjoy on here is the introductory, get-to-know-you flirtations that some of our women members indulge in before the first meeting, and after. It's fun, and it's good to have a sense of the other person before you actually meet. It makes those initial encounters much more comfortable, and even more exciting. I know not everyone has the time or inclination to do this, but when there's a fun exchange of pm's with an about-to-be new friend, it makes the experience way better, I find. So a special thanks to my pm partners in flirtation. I appreciate your time and effort.

Well I am on a roll this week and dropped in again this afternoon around 4:30 pm to see Jenny. Looking good in her black one piece with the shear top. Good chat bar-side and some enjoyable time in the CR. About four or five other dancers in the house including Sarah and Leah.

Had an amazing time with this girl! She exudes confidence, has a great bubbly personality, absolutely gorgeous, very willing, very sexy, sweet, nice laugh, I could go on and on!! Her pictures are not nearly as good as she actually is ( especially in the buff) Go see her...you won't be disappointed! Am I going to see her again? For sure!!!!

Miracles do happen! Welcome back Vitto

Sadly Emerald no longer dances. :(

It's a response to something objectively wrong. Fortunately, Regent put in the effort to do the hand-holding and explanation that I didn't have the energy for at the time, so now I don't have to :)

I would suggest trying to find a regular lady to see. As she gets to know you, she will likely be more willing to accept last minute appointments or schedule you at short notice.

here is another link. https://smartsexresource.com/about-stis/know-your-chances-0

....hehe.. so true ;) ...hahahahahahahaha!<THUD! OWF*CK!>hahahahahahaha I *wish* the coffee shops I went to had something like this hahaha way too awesome!

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I do enjoy the convo. It does build up anticipation. My first client wanted more of a gfe then a massage, by a fun compassionate chatter between the first failed attempt for a meeting and the time we actually met, it created that anticipation that made my first MA/gfe experience a very enjoyed one for both people involved. Kissing at the door a perfect stranger could be awkward; but such banter effectivelly removes that distance. I also ask (not require) my clients that are comfortable to do so to send me a pic so that i can anticipate and fantasize.

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I will be available Friday sept 23rd 6pm til Saturday sept 24th 11am. I do not check on here often so if you could call or txt 902-789-6980 to get in contact with me. if there is no answer you can listen to the message for my next availability. ALSO starting after 01 Nov I will be coming back a couple days through the week along with my current schedule Friday til Saturday. :) Thanx Karlie xoxo

I saw her a year ago in Clayton park area. Real pics real hot not G F E

purrrrsonally, I very much enjoy the chatting, banter, flirting.. and no doubt.. some 'eye-brow-raising comments' I also enjoy delivering in an email game of cat & mouse ;) I had a very long and interesting exchange with someone who I had not thought I would actually meet.. but had the amazing opportunity to do so.. and the connection.. already having been made online.. was so much the sweeter for it..... and even moreso now they have gone home :( I get flak for posting all over the place, for messaging, chatting... but.... hehe I enjoy it.. enjoy the brain-game.. the excitement.. (build up definitely does go both ways guys)the eagerness to check for new messages/emails.. most times, makes my day :) *and if it is an issue.... I would think a lady (or gent, for that matter) would say they are not into constant messaging..... no harm, no foul right..? :)

You should really do a little more basic research.

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It's always good to keep in mind that there's no sti your dick can get that your mouth can't.

Are you looking for MAs or SPs? If you're looking for MAs, you should probably check out Brass Club. It sounds like you're downtown, in which case they'd probably be the most convenient option for you. You can book online at short notice. Yes, you have to join, but that's not a big deal. There's also Club Harmony, which seems pretty new and quite similar, and also downtown - although I have no personal experience there. If you have a car, then also check out CMJ, ALO, Vibe and Paradise/Angels (they all advertize here). Even if they ask you to book in advance, that can be as simple as calling to check availability a few minutes before you get there. If you're looking for escorts... well, that's a bit harder; I can only recommend looking at the independent ladies that are around. And as a general thing: why not get a burner cellphone? Then you can call people, which is much better for last-minute stuff as you get a definite yes/no very quickly, or you can just move on if you get no answer. I find that a lot better than not knowing how long to wait before you decide that an email or PM isn't going anywhere.

I personally have had reactions to some products used, mostly baby oil for some reason. I break out in a rash, especially on my back but also elsewhere!! Baby Oil is a last resort and if I visit an MA who uses it I request that she only use a bit if nothing else is available and would bring some proper massage oil on any subsequent visit. Massage oils are readily available in small and large quantities in Ottawa and I really wish MAs would save the Baby Oil for babies and use massage oils for massage. I wouldn't be surprised if this turned out to be a reaction to the oils used. Am anxious to read a follow-up!

Just having that experience again of the initial playful interaction with a potential new contact. I like the excitement, the tingling, the anticipation, the wondering. It's great when it happens, that hot exchange of pm's, and it makes the actual meeting a lot more enjoyable, because you've been building up to it. I love reconnecting with old friends, too, and deepening the connection with them; but there's something about that first approach to someone new; and when they respond, it's electric!

Perving naughty photos on naughty websites of naught girls and the men who love them, and reporting it here, when I should be packing for my trip. lol

Just adding my 2 cents worth of recommendation to this lovely little lady. Tiny sized pleasure in all ways. She definitely looks young than the are in her ad, but that's where the innocence ends. Talented in all areas and takes great direction. Definite repeat and I hope she visits often.

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Good afternoon, I have wonderful news, I am going to be downtown this Thursday, and Friday! Nothing would make me happier than having the pleasure of your company during my stay :-) If our schedules happen to coordinate them please email me at [email protected] I would absolutely adore spending some time with you :) To learn a little bit more about me please feel free to take a peek at my website, or simply send me an email and I will be happy to answer any questions you may have! http://Www.carleychase.com Enjoy your lazy Sunday, and I will be looking forward to hearing from you soon! Sending you lots of love, and hugs Carley xox

On her, not you. I think she is pretty open if you call and ask her.

Flicking the bean is an art and best accompanied by a friend ;)

From the viewpoint of not only a MP/SPAM but also as a legitimate therapist of a number of.modalities...and as a person with a lot of years of medical background.....I have a few questions that came.to mind rather quickly... - how soon after seeing this person did you experience any symptoms...? - is it an 'actual' sti? (As in..has a doctor.told.you) - what type.of oils were used during the session? Most sti's take a number of days to show.symptoms A doctor run test also typically takes a few days for definitive results... And a number of things that can 'seem' like an sti....are simply a reaction to a product used...or an ingredient in them.....yeast infection and/or a uti being the most common body reaction...and neither is an sti :) I have also seen a number of your posts and you do seem to be a bit.more than slightly frightened of far too many things...even before they happen....can't be fun ;) Purrrhaps taking the advice of those others who have also commented...and stay well within your comfort.zone...an MP who stays clothed.... might be just the thing. .... Myself - and this is just my two cents...and again...just from the viewpoint of an MP/SP.....just from your.posts and the reactions they cause....you would not be one I would likely agree to see.... (makes no difference as I'm not in Ottawa hehe but far too much 'fallout' seems.to occur with some of your visits. ....just my humble - yet blunt...opinion) ;) Additional Comments: (I know I have already posted but this really has my claws out!) .....I am rather disappointed that someone would basically accuse someone of giving them an sti when they don't even know it is one! Most providers do this type of work as a main source of income... and rely on having clients... your fear-filled posts can ruin someone without having first armed yourself with the proper knowledge.... quite unacceptable from any viewpoint really, to go off half-c0cked and scare everyone here. No client on here.... (or provider for that matter) needs to be subjected to the paranoia and possible loss of business these sorts of things can and do cause. And again, in my typical blunt fashion.... think man! ;) there is no place on this, or any other board for this type of hype.... freaks out potential clients.... loses business for providers, tarnishes the reputation of the provider/spa/business they are out of.... and with nothing concrete to back it up..... puuuuursonally, my money's on a yeast infection.... and I still would be interested (as a professional therapist/health provider.. let alone the MP/SP aspect) in your answers to my questions .. feel free to PM me....

After looking into you posts statistics, I see much of your posts are fear based and much confusion about who does what etc....as example this thread... which is titled " Bodyslide...Safe??". http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=214052 I am thinking perhaps you should only stay in the confinement's of your own comfort level. Personal health is everybody's OWN responsibilities, and we all must be fully aware and informed on our statist on a currant bases!

I offer it often and it is many time accepted and appreciated even to sp's. It is also fun for us man to give back to any lady what they offer to us plus we get to feel the places that gives you pleasure. We know because we can see your body move around, like when your bum goes up or your arms move back etc...

I find that giving a massage is just as enjoyable as receiving one; I'd certainly prefer to give a massage prior to receiving one if given the choice.

Did you receive a PM asking for your email and the email asking for HELP MONEY? We have some reports that men on the site have received PM's stated in a urgent nature asking for a personal EMAIL address then you receive a email with a sob story asking for HELP in the form of financial assistance (Personal donation). If you had this happen (even by a reputable sp) please PM me the name of the provider who did this. It is NOT acceptable and it is ABUSE of the PM system and the council here has been made aware of it and we are not happy. I know ONE lady who is doing this but I want to know if more then one is doing this and also how many people this lady is doing this to.

I believe it is a huge part of the atmosphere of becoming friendly, comfortable for both parties. My example would be flirting back and forth with a certain redhead from Montreal for quite awhile before we finally met. When we did meet it was like we already had multiple visits. I think it helps the SP get to know you which can help develop a trust between the two parties. For my favourites here in the Maritimes bantering is a great way to keep in contact, I enjoy flirting with my special ladies. In thinking about this it is a very important reason why I am here, thanks ladies.