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I know when I receive a recommendation I will thank the author through pm. Would it not be a lot easier for the client to just contact the sp to ask them if they provide a certain service? Sheesh! It's not exactly rocket science here now, is it? Just my 2cents, for what it's worth

Any info on this lady please? http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/come-be-pleasantly-surprised-with-the-best-prize/43018932 Thank you

No such thing as free, it's a two way street and about finding the right time and incentive, whether it's a vacation or simply taking the time to do some of the chores.

Mushrooms, tortillas, an avocado, some salsa and other assorted ingredients... I'm meeting a lovely lady tomorrow... the hotel I'm meeting her in has a kitchenette, so why not use it... so I'm making dinner for the two of us... a Mexican theme.. (I checked with her first to make sure she is ok with the ingredients) .

What a great ending to a potentially very sad story...

Meet her in new location . Great massage the rest just OK !

#boobies # abs #fripples

Trip to Russia...must go.... Additional Comments:

I saw Roxie Luxxe several weeks ago. I booked her for just a half hour, since I wanted to test her service. Booking entirely via text was easy. She has a very nicely appointed apartment just outside of downtown, with parking available on the street. She greeted me at the door with a smile and a hug. She's definitely a BBW, no question, so if that's not your thing, read no further. She has lovely smooth, chocolate skin and a pretty face. She is very personable and charming, and I felt very good about how the session would go. I was right! Everything from start to terrific finish was great! She is so sweet and charming, it's hard to believe she was a domme for many years until deciding recently to change course. I will definitely repeat soon, for a full hour. She's an absolute gem!

This is the time of year I break out my winter duvet. It is absolutely great! I am very hedonistic - I love good sensations. I love warmth and I love good, clean, cold Canadian air. With my invincible Wamsutta goose down duvet I open my bed.room window and have the best of both. I curl up warm and well and I dream of the lovely women I have been able to meet here ;) Comfort at its very best :)

She is one of the best all around girls out there ,, quality of service , price point,personality, massage skills , and stress reliever . Location is good too

Additional Comments: Additional Comments: #goddess #perfection

Dark hair taned wears glasses natural dd one of the nicess litle buble but i have seen

Had the pleasure of seing Olivia Yestherday afthernoon what a beauty and great times in the cr

She will be back on the 17th....miss her already...

If she asks you text at a certain time, text her at the exact time she asks you. I ask clients to call me 10 minutes before our appt to get logisitics and tell them if they are delayed and not at the location where I ask them to call me to let me know they are delayed. I do not like when someone texts me even if it's 5 mins earlier than I expect. Most of the time I'm trying to get ready and this makes me stressed out. There are many last minute things we have to tend to in order to set the right mood. This includes not looking stressed out. Show up at the time she asks you. Not before and not after. Call if you're delayed. It's always appreciated. As for giving up waiting for a confirmation, if I were the client, I'd wait 20 minutes max. Maybe try to follow up with her the next day asking her what happened. It could be a legitimate reason. If she doesn't get back to you, then it's probably best to move on. I've had a few run ins like getting ready and my cell phone fell into the sink where it got damaged with a lot of water or having a crappy phone charger that for some reason wouldn't charge my phone when I really needed it to charge. In this case I wasn't able to contact the client but made it up to one of them by giving them a discount. I've had a few disasters over the years including have a cell phone fall into the toilet. I'm sure in the case of the guy who I was supposed to meet and my cell phone fell into water, I'm sure he was pissed. I don't blame him but had no way of contacting him because his number was on there.

Every now and then I see clients around in my area when I'm out and about and I prefer just to pretend we don't know each other especially if I'm with someone. Most I see with their wives and I act like I don't know them or go in another direction. I would never go up and talk to anyone ever. I give clients discretion and expect it in return. I do know a few clients who are for sure not attached and it's no big deal but I have known these people for a while and they are regulars. I will just wave or say "Hi" but only when I'm alone. One saw me in Ikea one day with a family member and we just smiled from afar at each other. It's funny because I did see one client and I was dressed down and they didn't recognize me. lol. Another saw me from afar at Starbucks and said I looked great wearing actual clothes other than what he was used to seeing me in which was lingerie. :)

I think one reason why sps dislike the 'your daughter' question is that it kind of presumes that as parents, sps failed the test if we say that we are OK with it. It also presumes that as sps, we are more likely to encourage our children to choose sex work. The reality, in some cases for some sps, we are simply more open minded about sexuality and sex activity choices, perhaps. So if we are OK with our female or male relatives choosing sex work over something else, it is because we know it can be done safely and healthily and by choice, so of course we would be OK with them choosing it. We know also that it is entirely possible to do this without coming to any harm, over many years, achieve one's goals in a short time period, and have fun along the way. If i wanted my daughter (or son) to be able to enjoy their live, not live pay cheque to paycheque, afford to go to university, afford to travel, and afford to pay their bills and not do a lot of struggling, then I am going to be OK with the type of (legal) activity that allows them to do this. now that's a lot of rambling. :)

And the question presupposes that there is something inherently wrong or bad with this choice of profession...and assumes that even ladies who are professional companions see this as a profession wrong for their daughters. Also the question feeds into the negative stereotype that society has of this lifestyle. Something really that someone who partakes in this lifestyle shouldn't be doing. BTW the ladies I have met are strong, independent, confident empowered women. Nothing at all like the stereotype. Personally, I have no children but if I did and had a daughter I would want her to make a career choice she wanted, not one society pigeonholed for her RG

Would you ask someone who runs a computer shop these questions? What about a restaurant owner? Hair salon? No? That's cause it's none of your business. Just like now.

Just to put a spin on it that maybe some gentlemen can appreciate. Would you guys consider going on a business trip, where your employer pays all the expenses a holiday, and if so, would you forgo your salary while on the business trip as long as expenses are covered. I think not, your salary, your income, pays your bills. It does seem forgotten by some, but that while both ladies and gentlemen are opposite sides of the same coin in this lifestyle, it is for the gentlemen an escape, for the ladies their livelihood. A livelihood that pays the lady's bills A lady that is at an encounter providing us with an escape, she is not having an escape, she is working...this is her job. Whether at a outcall hotel room on a Saturday night, being taken for dinner out, spending the night with a gentleman or a "vacation" in the sunny south, it is all her livelihood. A rambling RG

Phew! For the benefit of others who don't especially want to read through 30 pages to see what questions have been asked, I've done the work and here's the list so far. ;) Some of these are verbatim; others I've edited down to something brief. The originals may contain additional nuances. I thought this might help get some buried or missed questions answered anew, and possibly prevent duplicate questions going forward. This is now one of my favourite threads by the way! 1. Why did you get into escorting in the first place? (Bmoc68 ) 2. What is the best thing about being an SP? (PisaqLove) 3. How do you react when a client says he loves you? (jafo105) 4. What do you like least about being an escort? (Ice4fun) 5. How do you shield yourself from emotional attachments? (curiousm7) 6. Do you ever want to take a client relationship further? (muncher459) 7. How did you feel after y our fist time as an SP? (PisaqLove) 8. After a while seeing the same person, do you prefer not to see that same person and move on? (frank97500) 9. Has it been important to have friends, confidants, mentors in the business? (Winnipegcub) 10. What would you say to a guy that would love to visit an SP but feels very intimidated and doesn't think he is good enough? (frank97500) 11. Have you ever had a "date" that was so hot that it eclipsed your best experience in your civilian life? (PisaqLove) 12. What do SP's do to mentally prepare themselves for a session? (Jay67) 13. Why have I been asked if I was a former male SP? (frenchbrute) 14. What advice would you give a lady just starting out? What's one thing you wish you had known. (Cute0aza0Button) 15. What can a gentlemen do to make an encounter an enjoyable time for both him and her? (roamingguy) 16. How do you deal with a client you don't want to see again? (jg24) 17. If a potential client is interested in knowing if you enjoy/offer a given activity, is there a "best" way to ask? (Brad) 18. Have you even been recognized on the street? (ottawascout) 19. Do your line of work mean that lack health or dental insurance? Have you no income without work? How do you handle this? (Ice4fun) 20. How long do you plan on being an SP/MA/Dancer? (PisaqLove) 21. How do you determine which of your bedroom activities are YMMV? (curiousm7) 22. How are (some of) you able to make a guy feel you truly desire him every time you see him? (nlwoodchuck) 23. Do you all go to sexual skills university? Or are you all just naturally gifted? Does practice truly make perfect or do you need to study and learn specific techniques? Do you have a sexual move or technique that you tend to go with as your finishing move (emiafish) 24. How do I find out what really pleases a lady and what she actually likes or dislikes? How do I find out what I'm doing right, and more importantly, wrong? (qwertyaccount) 25. Have you ever had a bad encounter that made you question your occupation? (PisaqLove) 26. Has a client ever used a heretofore unknown technique that has rocked your world, and if so then can you share it with the rest of us? (emiafish) 27. How do you treat no-shows? (curiousm7) 28. How do you deal with a bad review? (nlwoodchuck) 29. Do you prefer a man's junk shaved or hairy? (defensedave) 30. Have you ever been turned off by a hobbyist look, attitude, and behaviour? And if so, how did you pull through the time with that person? (frank97500) 31. If you offer duos is it because you like them and are a little bi, or is it just part of the job? (Ice4fun) 32. What do you think has made you different that you can sustain a longer career in what can be a very tough business? (OutForFun) 33. How often do you get requests for costumes or roleplaying? (emiafish) 34. What has been the most surprising thing you've learned or done after being an SP? (piano8950) 35. How common is it, after a client leaves, to think "wow, that was someone I could see myself going out to dinner with."? (curiousm7) 36. What makes a pleasant review for you? (Magician) 37. What does it mean when after a session an SP asks "Can I put your number in my phone"? (qwertyaccount) 38. Is assuring a lady that I've just come out of the shower as good as actually taking a shower right there? (Gentleman11) 39. What is your preference in call, out call client hotel. Are client residences out-of-bounds? (Gentleman11) 40. What advice would you give to a client who is a virgin? And If you meet a client who is a virgin, how would you go about relaxing him? (Jay67) 41. For a paid encounter would you be open to going out to dinner or a movie, holding hands, or walking arm in arm? OR do you prefer keeping things completely private? (jafo105) 42. How important are recommendations to a lady's business? (roamingguy) 43. Is it fun when a man cums on your face? Do you have any private pictures with your face covered in cum? (Ice4fun) 44. Why do most ladies ads list all their physical stats (height, age, weight, measurements, eye color, etc.) but others are silent on most or all of this? (qwertyaccount) 45. What types of gifts do you normally receive and what would you like to receive? (Ice4fun) 46. If you show your face in your pictues here, why did you decide to 'out' your face? Did it result in any change? (piano8950) 47. What jobs/careers that guys have do you find turn-ons and turn-offs? (qwertyaccount) 48. Do you have clients that you are more excited to see than others? (PisaqLove) 49. If a client gives you a gift, is cash a good alternative to a gift card? (Luckyme) 50. What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? (PisaqLove) 51. Do you ever get tired of dealing with people? (frank97500) 52. Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them? (Empty83) 53. Is there a kind of sex work you haven't done but would like to try? (dancer, Domme, escort, massage)? If so, why haven't you? 54. What's the strangest outfit/costume you've been asked to wear? (qwertyaccount) 55. What's the weirdest role-play you've been asked to do? (qwertyaccount) 56. Would it be fun to arrive at a date and be confronted with buckets of oysters? No, c'mon, seriously! (LeeRichards) 57. Do certain times of day attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference? (Empty83) 58. If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate? (Jay67) 59. At what point in a new relationship do you let a guy know your line of work and how do you deal with the worry that he may judge you? (curiousm7) 60. If a new guy in your life tells you he likes to see escorts, what is your reaction? (roamingguy) 61. Is it okay to contact you on days you don't advertise? (Empty83) 62. Do you prefer the first contact be discrete, or straight to the point? (Empty83) 63. Are sincere compliments on appearance acceptable? What such comments are unacceptable? (igab) 64. Are the apt descriptors "prostitue" and "john" inherently shameful? (mrgreen760) 65. Is writing a recommendation the ultimate compliment you can give a lady? (roamingguy) 66. What would be the circumstances of your retirement from this business? (OutForFun) 67. If a regular client and a CERB menber you've never seen both want to book you at the same time, who gets preference? (Luckyme) 68. What is the most memorable thing a client has done for/with you? (PisaqLove) 69. Have you ever had a client do something sweet/kind/nice that it made you cry? (PisaqLove) 70. What questions can I ask to get a sense of how affectionate an SP is likely to be during an encounter? (Rob360) 71. Would you have any issues with your own parner seeing an MA/SP? (JohnnyCanuck) 72. How many times have you fallen for a client? (Daniel Boone) 73 a, b, c, d.... How do I become the ideal kind of client? Do you generally like regulars more or new clients? What's your definition of a regular client? How long a session do you prefer? Is it cool for clients to contact you to say happy birthdays/merry Christmas etc.? How do you feel about a client sending you a brief thank you note after the appointment? If you contact a client between bookings, is that an open invitation to keep in touch between appointments? (A1B2C3D4E5) 74. What are some of the funniest or strangest text messages you've received? (qwertyaccount) 75. If there's something you offer as stated on your ads and/or website does it necessarily mean that you like to offer that service? Or does it only mean that you're able to tolerate it? If it's the later, why offer something you don't particularly like doing? (A1B2C3D4E5) 76. What unwelcome questions do clients commonly ask? (Darr) 77. Is there a good texting format for same evening booking request? (Darr) 78. Would you ever consider going on an all expense paid vacation to some exotic location, with no sex on the table, just as a companion for no other compensation? (gc1968 )

Absolutely and without hesitation... NO. I have extended times on my website, including a week, and might I remind you that upscale escorts, the likes of which you'll find here on CERB, don't charge for "services". We charge for our time which is valuable. It's time we are taking away from our family, our friends, OUR lives and that comes at a price. For myself, I have a set price for extended amounts of time. This is purely for my time only. I also require that ALL of my travel expenses are covered (meals, flight, accommodations). In addition, I ALWAYS negotiate an agreed upon amount of alone time for extended dates. I need time to myself as does the person I'm traveling with. Regarding chemistry, I wouldn't consider a weeks vacation with a client I hadn't established some connection with already. That means we've talked, we've had dates already, we've gotten to know each other and established ahead of time that we enjoy each other's company, sexual or otherwise. Hope this helps your friend :) xo

One thing I forgot to add. An extended time together with a lady, be it an overnight, a weekend sleepover or longer, would be IMHO better with a lady you know and she knows you. Any time beyond a couple hours, well what if you and the lady have no chemistry, she doesn't click with you, you don't click with her. Just on that basis alone, a extended "vacation" could be the trip from hell for both of you, and she more than deserves her time compensated for. Longer encounters, like overnights or longer should be done with a lady you know. I highly doubt a lady will "vacation" with a stranger BTW as for sex, I have had a couple memorable encounters, where there was no sex, but physically intimate in that we held on another, kissed, cuddled. And every bit as satisfying (in some ways more, a real connection was made) as encounters where there was sex. There is no way these encounters should be discounted because of lack of sex, these ladies provided an even more intimate encounter. In the same vein, whether there is sex or no sex on this "vacation" is immaterial, you are compensating her for her time. A rambling RG