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To some, this IS a hobby. Ladies are tried on and discarded in favor of the next "new and greatest". Know what, that's okay because there are those who are into that and ladies who fit the bill. There are those who want something more, a connection but not quite more. Who wants a great experience regularly and consistently but within the boundaries they set. Perfect, there are ladies to fill this. There are those who are looking for a friendship or connection who enjoy the extras that familiarity affords and the fantasy and reality combining.Awesome, because there are those who fit here too. Sometimes holes are filled with things and experiences and sometimes holes go a little deeper and become a need for something more real and authentic. Life and people change. Things and needs and wants evolve and sometimes what worked at one point, doesn't work at another. When you approach things openly and honestly and are looking for a honest connection to whatever it is and are willing to give of yourself, magic happens. If you limit yourself to what 'should" be or to borders and boundaries, eventually you hit a wall and need to re-evaluate where you are. if you approach anything with passion and love, it never gets old or boring. It's when you limit your passion or love that things get messed up. When you think too much and feel too little. When you're not aware of your true needs but are working from "mental" needs versus emotional ones. We are human and thus need emotions and feelings and the mess that comes along with that. If we exclude all that, we end up feeling "without". Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt, had the wine....and now I share!

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I have a friend, who is really into cars. It's so much more than just a passing avocation for him. His life is wrapped around them. It's his escape from the dry tedium of his day job, his world of spreadsheets, forecasts, and endless emails. I can always count on him to have something new that's he's either driving or fixing up. His tastes run to German sports coupes and every once in a while he's kind enough to let me drive one of his cars. He's a good person to know. But I've noticed a change in my friend, lately. He doesn't seem to talk about his cars as much as he used to. That's okay, we've always talked about our other shared interests too. I razz him about the Jays, in a long running ritual for us. We endlessly debate the merits of craft beers. He helps me when I struggle with my phone, and I help him with his renovations. I asked him about his cars one day. He said he hadn't driven or worked on one of them in weeks. I did notice he was driving his Toyota today, the truck that he used to haul his parts around in. The one that was always running and could be counted on to be reliable, no matter how much abuse he piled on to it. I asked him what was the matter. He just shook his head, took a sip of his pale ale. They just weren't interesting him right now. He was tired of coming home to a dark house, with greasy parts soaking in a black pool of parts cleaner. He was tired of his needy 'children', who always seemed to be needing something, and in some cases, many things. Baby always needs new shoes, don't you know. He said that he was getting tired of spending more money to go a little faster, to go around corners a little quicker. I listened as he talked on and I soon realized why he felt this ennui. The cars filled a hole in his life. But it was a bottomless hole that could never be filled by them, no matter how rare, how powerful, how exotic they were. They were great fun and a marvelous distraction, but there was one huge shortcoming to even the best of them. They could never love him back. He and I are great friends, and have been for years. But I've never told him about this one particular hobby of mine. One that ranged to collecting experiences with the beautiful, the witty, the utterly charming. I enjoy those sorties greatly. But like him, I too had stepped back a little bit. He lived for the ripping-silk snarl of the exhaust, the shove in the small of his back as the cars launched themselves from a standing start. I long for a skilled tongue in my mouth, a gentle touch, smooth taut skin under my fingers as we pant, eyes closed. But if there's one thing our hobbies have in common, it's that once he steps out of the car, once I leave her bed to get dressed, our times are over. All we're left with is the memories. One last look back, and we're out the door. The garage door for him, the bed room door for me. At one time, too, I tried to fill a hole in my life with my hobby. And like he will come to discover, I found that that hole couldn't be filled that way. I came to learn that you can buy someone's attention, you can pay someone to do things with you and to you. But you can't buy someone's respect. You can't pay anyone to truly love you, and for that reason, those things are truly priceless. I've found that the emptiness was best filled with friends, with family. With new experiences. With travel. Because the life that is lived best is the one that is lived well. I listened as he talked about his car fatigue. I changed the subject, or so he thought. The Vikings were going to be playing the Bears in Minneapolis. Why don't we take a road trip? We could pay too much for scalped tickets. We could eat some wonderful, awful greasy food. And afterwards, we could either celebrate or drown our sorrows at our favorite bar on Nicollet Mall. His eyes lit up. He thought he could take the time off of work. We made plans. The road waits for us, sinuously, black, stretching off to the horizon. The road, like life, is best traveled when you're on it, fence posts whizzing past. It's such a cliche, but it's so true. Life is most enjoyed when it's seen as journey, not a destination.

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Don't fall for this. It is definite manipulation and too convenient. A professional in this business would never insist that you put her number in your phone and would NEVER solicit your number unannounced or without your permission. If it truly was a case of being in distress and needing help, that's what personal friends and family are for. Personal and professional relationships should always be clear cut and well defined. It is not a person's job to be generous to a fault. This is earned through trust and consideration from the other person. You saw her as a professional and you are under no obligation to go beyond the call of duty outside of those professional parameters.

No worries Stevie. I know we are on opposite ends of the spectrum but I love ya anyway! You ARE indeed paying for time but the rest, well the rest is the individual provider and client. You always get what you want but not always what you need! That's the way it works. There is a whole world to this industry, some outside the individual perception, some inside. Every experience is unique and in some cases complex. One persons experience is not anothers and that can make all the difference. It is what is is...and in many cases more. It is what it isn't, and in many cases less. You get what you put in and what you seek. Individuals...unique and amazing. This industry is made up of them and ain't that bloody grand!! Woot!

Years ago, I developed a 'business friendship' with a lady... saw her outside of the agency and sometimes she would call me, but it was ok since I was single at the time. She was a really nice girl, and once even offered me a freebie to make up for the fact that she was two and a half hours late for her appointment (she was partying at a club with friends who didn't know she was an escort). I appreciated the gesture, but declined just the same, as I understood. After all, it was the thought that counts. One day, she called and wanted to know if I could help her out with a car payment. While I would have liked to help her out, I had to say no since things were starting to cross the line and become blurred. I liked her, but at the same time wanted to stick to our original arrangement... a lot less complicated that way.

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Having just got back from the gym, I peeled off my clothes, put on some good music and am having a no pants dance party to rev up my morning!

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Dropped in before and after the Sens game last night. Damn, I wished I had won the 50/50 draw at the CTC and i would have shared and had a lot more fun. Having said that i saw Jenny briefly and enjoyed reconnecting with Stacy after the game. Not to crowded tonight but a good turnout.

I wouldn't say I'm gullible - just like to give people the benefit of the doubt and see the best first So far I haven't been burned but time will tell if I do in the future

Are you speaking hypothetically or is this a real sitation? It seems like some extreme caution is needed here. I can't really give advice without knowing the specifics of what is being asked of you, but something does seem a little fishy to me. The odd behavior of the phone number being added to the phone seems a little premeditated to me. I am cautious by nature, but it has always served me well. While I'm all for helping out a friend in need, don't let yourself get played. This is someone you have met only once. Some people are naturally good at getting people to let their guard down and have made careers out of it. Use your upper head on this one.

I have found that it takes a special, confident woman to ask for help with a zipper. Not long ago I attended an exhibit at the Musée des Arts décoratifs decimated to the button. I learned that moving buttons from the back of a dress to the front was a major liberating experience for women as they no longer required a servant to act as a "dresser". Perhaps we find a long zip at the back to be so sexually charged because it signals a need for (male) assistance (or contortion). Whatever the reason, I have found that many women do not want help "I can do it myself". What they fail to understand is the sensuality involved and the pleasure of the kiss at the nape of the neck that should accompany the up or down of the zip. In the case of the latter the kiss should not be singular, it should be one of many ending at "la chute des reins". Which may lead to an even more pleasurable evening.

BP has a feature called auto post. You can determine to post "after" a certain time. Sometimes it is within 10 minutes of this time, sometimes longer. When posting a new ad, it generally posts about 15 minutes later. Sometimes we do our administrative work at a time we are not seeing guys, so that might explain the difference.

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Were any other regulars in attendance today?

I believe she is on the do not fly list - but maybe I'm wrong on that one

Clubs don't usually have 2 girls with same name working at same time. Suggest tall Maya w/blonde hair is very much a regular day time girl whereas 5'3" spinner Maya might be a night time girl.

A section exists for bait and switch but anyone can post a shill (it could be a girls boyfriend thinking he has a great idea to boost her business, or any number of other reasons it happens). We don't need it... if you are going to believe a post or a recommendation from some new member with less then 20 good posts then your going to find yourself disappointed. Long term members and recommendations with lots of other members agreeing are the ones that hold the value here. Shill posts are not that hard to spot.... when we do catch them with the SAME IP ad the agency I will bad the agency, close the thread and leave a comment about this... would that be good?

Unfortunately this business attracts people who want to make money as fast as possible and at any opportunity and they often never consider tomorrow (it's all about today and never consider tomorrow). Most of these people have no formal business training or experience. Unlike mainstream business where it costs thousands (sometimes hundreds of thousands and even millions) to fix a bad corporate image or try to start over... the escort agency business is completely different. It's easily exploited and with little or no consequence. Some things to consider as to why this happens - They easily just shut down the phone for the one agency, change names (It's not like they apply for a legit business license or anything) and away they go again. New cell phone number, new fake photos and new ads... and everyone gets conned again. - only a SMALL portion of the internet users follow the discussion boards - if the agency sends a bait and switch girl out the customer usually only sends the girl away 1 out of every 20 times or so. because of this bait and switch is very profitable - just not for return clients. ...and a big reason I think as to why it is happening more and more every day now is because of the internet. If a legit agency tries to do things right many of the guys online slam them every chance they get. Guys expect the agencies to control the ladies and enforce the ladies to perform flawlessly with every client. This is unreal but when a agency is dealing with multiple ladies all getting a few negative reviews a week it just slams the agency. A agency who posts real photos, legit info and deals with complaints should be praised but instead that is often not good enough as people demand much more (unrealistic demands and expect that the customer is always right should be the way things are done... we all know that is not realistic and those people should be grateful that the agency is posting real info and photos and running a good agency as opposed to taking the easy route and bait and switching. Legit agencies with long term goals trying to build a good reputation have a uphill battle and that is mostly because of the forums these days. It may actually be easier and more profitable to just shut down the tarnished agency and open under a new name. The agencies can not please everyone and the ladies can not please everyone and often when the agency ladies do not perform well the finger points to the agency and the agency has to go on the defensive. It's a catch 22 issue and the internet is so new still to this world that it is really changing the way things are done. That is why a new approach was needed... and why I feel a recommendation board (with respected members) is so important in this day and age. Guy's will always post when they are not happy to warn everyone else but they will not go out of their way to post about a good visit unless they feel the lady deserves some recognition so when someone is worth taking time to recommend it adds so much more value to the post. That is my theory on this and why we run this board this way... we will see in another 10 years if I was right or wrong.... I have a feeling that most guys will get sick of sifting through 100's of negative posts to find a someone to visit with. Even the ladies who are highly recommended here could have an off day and get a negative review... could be some drunken client who she refused, someone with poor hygiene or someone who has anger issues... who knows... but when 10+ guys take the time to comment about how much they enjoy a lady it adds so much more value to her reputation. I know many of you guys like the thrill of the hunt (finding the next best escort and being the first to tell everyone) and I see why you like CL for this and other places as when a girl just starts out she does not have money for the big advertising sites... but remember that when you TOFTT you will probably be bait and switched or scammed more often then not as all the bait and switch agencies will also be exploiting these sites. They will also be here and on other forums as new members on sites posting shill posts and fake photos.