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During a certain number of year, I thought I knew it all. I thought everybody on here was looking for the same, being the same. Quick research, some interest, a phone call, and a meeting - or not. I never researched, really, where a name was coming from, as most are descriptive of the personna... What a mistake! So, who was Cato the Younger (or Cato the Stoic). This might be a little subjective... Cato (also known as the Self-Made-Man) was Julius Caesar official opposition. Nor did he had the essential qualities of a war lord, nor the man power to be heard loud and clear. He had to do with what he had, in the very heartless city of Rome. Instead, he wrote his own rules, that he would follow religiously. Cato was also the last citizen of Rome... 1. Master the power of gestures; 2. Don't compromise - EVER; 3. Fear NOTHING; 4. Use pain as a teacher; 5. Don't expect to control your legacy. If I look at the list, I can easily recognize where my friend is coming from. Here's a short description of the man, according to the ''fourhourworkweek.com'' (source): Cato didn't have Caesar military skill, or Cicero eloquence, or Pompey's boyish good looks. But he had something even more formidable: a determination to hold himself, and those around him, to an insanely high standar. He asked to be measured by a standar higher to winning or loosing in Romain politics, and that's why he still matters long after Rome went to ruins. We should remember Washington's favorite line from the Cato play at Valley Forge: Tis not in mortals to command success; but we'll do more... We'll deserve it.'' Have a nice day, Chaton!

It's even better if you're respectful not because of the rewards you expect by being so, but just because that's how we should always treat one another. So says Cato the Stoic, my inspiration, anyway :)

Hey guardian; I know it is not easy some times but after reading your experience let me share my approach to strip clubs. Go into the club with a plan and a cash limit in mind and stick to it. I try to set my own expectations by gathering intel on any ATFs that might be working (or not) that day. I only use cash and refuse to use the machine. Ok, I admit I have broken the rule but only a couple of times over the last few years. I have a couple of dancers I see regularly. One ATF I pay a fixed rate for about an hour of time that sometimes is only 55 mins but many times 10-20 mins over the hour depending upon circumstances and whether or not someone else might be waiting. The other dancer takes it for granted that I am committed to an established pattern/habit of 15 to 20 dances; which is the way more expensive way to go. She is young, and on one occasion after we shared many tequila shots she tried to take advantage of my amiable disposition to entice (almost bully) me to stay for more. This annoyed me as it dawned on me that she sees a large ��� stamped on my forehead. I got somewhat short/annoyed with her and she later apologized. We are still "friends" and I still pay lol. It is easy to forget sometimes as we tend to get lost in the moment and fall prey to our own (maybe delusional) fantasies and forget that it is "work" for the women, and although this may sound crass, many dancers use what ever tactic or approach on you to win your interest/loyalty to maximize profit. I realize this is a generalization and some do not target us for maximum profit but try to establish a "friendship" and what comes naturally usually happens over the long term. As long as we remind ourselves of this fact and keep the reins on our discretional funds that we put aside for SPs/MAs/Dancers, it is all good. If I have no intention of taking someone to the CR, or have other plans, I let them know within five minutes of conversation by either saying that "I am waiting for someone", "I have spent my quota for the evening", or "I am just enjoying a drink and I may look you up later". If an ATF (regular) is involved I tell her I don't have the time right now or I am tapped out tonight and I will likely see her the next time I am in the club. Bottom line is, you are the consumer; you have control; it is your hard earned cash and you should make the choices to ensure your time is enjoyable, fun and respectful for all parties involved.

Sabrina, you have overwhelmed me with your kindness. I'm deeply touched. I will never forget this gesture. Thank you! I am honoured. We have met only once, but it was a very special moment, where every minute is remembered and cherished. Thank you for that, and for keeping in touch with me afterwards. You are a very wonderful person.

I thought of this topic because just before I had a session with this woman,I was on twitter with her having a chat. I told her that I was 4 ft 9 inches, 300 lbs, hairy and had size 13 feet :). She said that she did not judge and that if there was minimum of respect, anyone can have fun. I asked if she kissed and she said maybe if I was kind. Another time I had a similar discussion with another woman. She said that she did not discriminate on race, color, size, but as long as I was a gentleman and clean. When I arrived at the spa and was shown a room. I waited patiently. Then the door opened and stepped in a beautiful woman. She looked at me with a sigh of relief and immediately knew that I had lied. I was not hairy lol. Thus began a great session which we both enjoyed and had a laugh about. Moral of the story. Be kind, be respectful. As like like a gentleman and be clean. And don't lie about being hairy. And have great sense of humour :) Got to love the women of Lyla. So accepting of us men of all size, shape and nationality :)

I feel your pain, backrubman, and I must say that I admire your desire to be fair and good to the woman you love and for this hypothetical 'girlfriend' who would not get to have enough of you. Your wish of staying on the right side of the law, however misguided we may think it is, is also commendable, and as you note, the consequences of getting caught straying on the wrong side could be harsher for some. I wish I could provide advice and guidance, but I have none to offer. best, toine

When developed it was Time Out Flotation (owned by Cal it was initially a dry cleaners) which featured sensory deprivation flotation tanks which were the rage in the mid-80's after a movie called Altered States featured them. At one point there were 50 or so tanks in operation at a variety of facilities in the city. Once the craze passed it was converted to a separate space like EB, then became combined. The tanks were pretty cool. Peace MG

I love strip clubs. I find them a lot of fun. I enjoy spending time with a pretty girl, getting to know her in a completely fake environment that favours me, the stage show, the back room, all of it. Okay, maybe not the overpriced drinks. One thing that I really find fun is the stage dance participation. How about a discussion on how to handle this? Tips. Tricks. Warnings. I usually try to arrange this beforehand so the lady has some idea and isn't surprised. One of my regulars had never done it before, so we chatted about different things she could try and how to practice at home. There aren't a lot of Youtube videos about how to grind on a stage. I made sure to do it when there was nobody else in the club one Monday at noon. She did a pretty good job and accepted criticism well. Hey, it's her job. Right? Without feedback, how can you improve? Doing your job better means getting paid better, hopefully. I like to see the dancers as people who are doing a job and interact with them a bit. I'm not at a vending machine. Tipping amount. I used to see $5 tips, but now I spend at least $10. Tipping location. Rolling the bill up lengthwise and putting it in your mouth is just rude. Also, possibly, painful. Don't do it. Certainly feel free to grasp one edge of the bill in your mouth to hold it there, against your lower lip and chin. I find the best place is in your belt. She's going to shake her goodies in your face regardless, so don't put anything in the way. If you want her to put on a show, put the bills where it will give you the most action for your buck. If she has long hair, you may be in for a surprise treat. General advice. Don't be a dick. You've gotten her attention. With any luck, she'll remember you and come visit. Don't forget to smile. This is supposed to be fun. Ask her to let you know when she's finished. When she says you're done, you're done. Get off the stage. She's the one putting on the show. Let her do her job. She's advertising for the back room. This is not the champagne room. No touching (on your part). Keep your hands/noses/tongues to yourself. If she pulls your kilt up and exposes you to the room, just go with it. Hopefully, nobody faints this time. Getting onto the stage. Some guys throw themselves on stage before the dancer even sees them approach. They'll come up over the seats and just lay down anywhere. I've also seen girls trip over a guy when she didn't see him there. I always approach slowly and catch her eye, then wave the money as I approach the steps. It gives her a chance to prepare her wardrobe appropriately before you get there. I walk up the steps slowly and use the pole to lower myself to the floor gently. I find that being near the pole is good because it gives the girl support to bounce on you or do a pole spin onto you (DANGER!). Getting off of the stage. Be graceful. Don't stomp around like a bear. Roll over onto your hands and knees and push up. Don't fall. If there is a pole or railing, use it. You're not insured up there. Take a bow or give a quick wave to anyone cheering. The show aside, behave like you're a gentleman and the woman who just shook her jigglies in your face is a lady. Again, if you arrange it in advance it is fun to bow and kiss her hand. Maybe that's just me. The Face Trick. This is getting more popular. She takes your bill and creases it lengthwise, then tents it over your nose and mouth. She sits completely on your face and her natural moistness sticks the bill to her when she comes up. The problem now is with our new money. It is so light that the slightest breath, movement or breeze will send it off target. No need to ask me how I know this. I think we may have come up with an ingenious workaround for this problem. Put your regular donation in a more secure location (belt, sticking out of a front pocket, etc.) and use a 10¢ Canadian Tire bill for the trick! I mean, what were you saving that for anyway? I now have a few that I'm going to keep in my wallet. ($1 CT money? Oo! Big spender!) Bouncing. If she sits astride you and bounces in place, that's part of the show for the other patrons. It won't likely do anything for you at all. Be honoured to be included in her performance. Keep your hands on her knees (if facing), ankles (if not), or out to the side. You can add wild gesticulation if the latter. The crowd loves that. She may grind on you. That can work. The Pole Drop Trick. If you're very lucky, you'll get to experience this. If you're beside the pole, hips just north of center, a talented dancer can do a pole trick and land on you at the bottom. It's a great vantage point to see the trick from, but it can be painful if done incorrectly. A controlled descent is important. A SPINNING controlled descent is amazing when done correctly. Let her position you and don't move. Again, this is more of a performance piece than an act of carnal savagery. The Hidden B J. If she has long hair, she may shield your crotch from the crowd with it and shake her head back and forth vigorously or up and down in a visual mockery of the much beloved 'B J'. Note: she is not actually giving you a B J. She is NEVER GOING to give you a B J. It can be a bit of fun, but is mostly for the show. Enjoy it for what it is. There may be some ancillary contact. Don't read anything into it. The Prom. She takes you by the hand and puts the other on your shoulder. You do the same, but put your hand on her waist. Keeping a good 6" between you, you dance awkwardly for 3 minutes and leave the stage frustrated and alone.

For me, being respectful is a requirement. Nobody deserves respect. It should always be granted. Being kind gets you "much" bonus points...

I'll be away from work until Jan. 3rd. I will be back at that date. Kylie xox As I take some time off over the hollidays I would like to thank all the wonderful people I have met in 2016, you are and were all amazing. When I started on my own I was very unsure what would be in store and what kind of people I would meet. Well it all went very well, learned so much and experienced so many different people, and enjoyed each and every one of you in your own way. I have had some ups and downs, but mostly ups and loved all the experiences no matter. I will have new pics in 2017 to start another amazing year, also somewhat new other things hehe. So I wish all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year and cannot wait to be seeing my dedicated and new people in 2017. Thank you all, Kylie Jane xo

Love the positivity! I reflected on some life changes and embraced them today. It was difficult in acceptance but moving forward is always progress! Stay lifted <3

This British lady is everything I wanted in one. Bookings is easy, her text messages might fool u into thinking she is cold and has an attitude, which I did, but when I finally saw her today, I found her to be a very friendly and sincere lady. The way she threw her heels on the floor made me feel like being in a movie, seductive and natural. Speaking of which she definitely has a movie star character, gorgeous face, and the smile. She also threw her panties later which was another sexy move. Her body is smooth, soft, and in great shape, a few delicate tattoos. I'm a feet guy and she definitely has a pair of cute and sexy feet, it's hard to find a perfect pair of feet like that. I can't emphasize enough on how natural our time was, she meant everything she did and I enjoyed everything she did. Soft tongue, soft lips, with a side of willingness, dangerous combination. The rest can be summed up in: ultimate gfe. I'm always cautious about the time cuz I don't want stay longer than the set time. When we are done I said "I wish we didn't go over time", she said no way with a big smile, but then we saw it was literally right on time. I don't think anything speaks louder of "no clock watching" than that, she enjoys the time with you, which honestly is the reason why we do this and ultimately that's the hardest thing to get. Hugs and goodbyes, until next time, Charlotte Quinn.

Why let Stephen Harper and Peter Mackay who created these contradictory laws rule your life and your happiness? You have nothing to feel bad about. As most men who are members here, they look for the most reputable ladies and at the very least try to find legitimate intel on new ones. As long as no one is getting hurt or doing anything against their will, that's all that matters. Yes, the law is the law but bill C-36 is backwards in so many ways and just because a law is passed and registered on the books, it's between two consenting adults. It is gentlemen such as yourself that are actually doing a favor by seeing reputable and established ladies because we lost many of you fine gentlemen when this bill came into effect. Personally I have many great clients but many left the hobby for fear of a criminal record and didn't wait to stick around to see what would transpire in the early days of C-36. Perhaps leave your hobbying for when you travel and keep a safe distance when at home.

That sounded rough. And I've had days like that where I pop in to a bar on a day and time when none of my "girlfriends" should be working, but then of course, they all are. On the prepaid angle, well... honestly. You didn't promise her ahead of time and she made the choice to pass up opportunities. In a situation like that, I'd offer her a shot and a promise of "next time". If by some twist of fate, I felt generous enough to hit the machine for her, why wait? You're already giving her money - you might as well have her give ya a dance for it. They're at work, and like any other 'retail' business, just because you're in the store doesn't necessarily mean you're there to buy something. You can window shop. You're allowed. Sent from my SGH-I747M using Tapatalk

Freshly prepared tournedos from the butcher, with aspergus from a local grower, and maybe stoghannof pastas on the side...

congrats on the 9000 posts well done

TO stands for Time Out which existed when Cal operated the downstairs and the upstairs under different names. A few years ago he dropped the TO business and operates just under Executive Bath but uses rooms on both floors. When both operations existed there was a different group of ladies on each floor and a receptionist on each floor. I assume he also paid for 2 licenses to operate both. Others may have more detailed info.

Update, I still love massages but prefer, if they are offered, to have them at the end of the session. Oftentimes, clients run their fingers from the neck down, stop at my butt and then proceed to stick their fingers in places that don't belong, without asking.

In any commercial relationship, and I deliberately use the term relationship as opposed to transaction, people with positive reputations can generally be trusted! This provides the foundation for a safe and happy set of experiences. Good luck!!

Yeah, you can just drop those anywhere.

Amazing 9000 post, congrats and keep them coming Nicolette !

Congratulations Nicolette! Well done! Thanks for your contributions.

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YES!!!! I love this! Absolutely love this post! I really like this because some people are not very nice, and have zero respect for other humans. Respectfulness and kindness 100, 100% of the time%! It's important to be the change we want to see in this world and community and to treat others in accordance with that too. We can't always be attracted to one another, but it sure helps if a client is clean and is a gentleman. I appreciate these types and am happy to see a male encourage other males on Lyla to be kind and respectful to women. In addition, I believe you need to be nominated for this post as you are being the change you want to see and demonstrated it here. Thanks so much for the good laugh too. It's men like you that make ladies like myself happy in their workplace(s) and headspaces. Cheers, and I nominate this post by someguy!

my warm embrace.. I will be available at my Orleans location Sunday November from 11 am - 3 Pm. I can be available on short notice with at least 30-45 minutes provided I can entertain your request. Please call or text. Texting apps or VOIP numbers will be ignored and I consistently check for them. Discretion is assured when booking with me. Should I miss your call or if I am in a session, I do not call back for your discretion so please try again. I will not text back after the 20 minute mark has passed. I see limited gentlemen on a low volume basis so please plan accordingly. About Me I am a voluptuous lady with proportioned hourglass figure, round behind and creamy soft skin with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals. My beautiful baby face has been blessed with full sensuous lips and seductive blue eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I am perfect for those who enjoy "thicker ladies". I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older looking to spend a relaxing time with a nice lady. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My Location My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unhurried, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 -45 mins $200 -1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. I only offer in hosting visits and do not visit hotels or residences. CONTACT My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. No emails/blocked calls/texting apps accepted. If we've met each other previously, please let me know.

I have been to the original location but not the new one. For those wondering about service fees, from my experience you'll end up paying at least double at toc compared to a BP visit. Prior to paying for a room, you'll get to see a selection of who's working at that time, then choose who you'd like to see and for how long.

Yes. In my experience, the goodbye hug and kiss is the key to see if you had a good connection. Sometime, its difficult to judge whether the provider had a good time with you, unless she spends sometime with you at the door when you are on your way out.

Hi Everyone! My name is Sadie (fka Skylar Heart)! I'm a petite beauty with booty here to take all your tension & stiffness away. I strive to provide the best experience possible for those who enjoy the finer things in life. I have experience as an exotic dancer and some of you may recognize me from a few of your favourite stripclubs in the Ottawa/Gatineau area!? I'm open-minded, sweet & fun and I love being in the massage industry! I am looking forward to getting you alone & relaxed very soon! I'm Available: ***NEXT ON TUESDAY*** Currently from 10am until 4pm! ************ I'm Also Available This Week On: Friday from 10am until 5pm too!! ******************** Please call Vibe at 613 680 8059 to reserve your precious time with me! :icon_smile: ********** You can visit my Cerb Profile & see more pictures: HERE! & Check Out My New Recommendations: HERE! & My DUO Recommendation: HERE! xoxo Sadie

Agreed; showing respect, being considerate (kind) and showing a genuine acknowledgment of the person you are seeing is a good recipe for a mutually enjoyable session.

Cool examples of some of Harry Martin's work.

I did a tineye search on her and it pulled out a model named Alexandra Wonderland. I doubted it was her but naive me decided it was a good idea to give her a shot after being promised she wasn't a fake. She felt like I was onto her and by the time I arrived at her hotel (which was about 5 minutes late) my phone was nearly dead. I asked her to give me the room number and I'd come up in 10 to give her a second to tidy up - because the phone was going to die I asked for the room number a second time to receive replies saying "no wait, just wait a second... etc." I told her my phone wouldn't make it longer than a few more minutes and sure enough, it died about 15 minutes after I was supposed to be in the hotel with her. 5 minutes after this (while my phone was dead) she said "come up". I feel like she thought I was onto her and when she had a good excuse to get out of servicing me she took it without question. Also as I'm not from the area, getting out of downtown without a GPS is a bit of a stressful event. It took me an hour to get to the west-end.

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Personally I find it most convenient when a provider posts an ad on backpage (where I can find it easily) with the information that I generally want to know like services offered and donation. Alternately if there's a website linked to the BP ad that has that information that's also fairly convenient. I don't enjoy the hassle of having to contact someone to ask for rates and extras, I think it cheapens the overall experience for both parties involved. But maybe that's just me.

Available in SJ Only Hey Gents ! Im a little lady but im loads of fun ! Im an all natural fiery redhead with an appetite for excitement. Im 5'3 115 pounds. Long hair that almost touched my beautiful behind and gorgeous green eyes ;) PM for availability and contact info Ashley xoxxxox

Had the pleasure of seeing this lovely lady again yesterday. Our time was even better than the last time. She is bubbly and fun and sh^ws she loves what she does I say again ����.

She's been there since early summer, for sure. We got together last night and she told me that she had always wanted to give me a spin, but I was always otherwise occupied. Well, she can cross me off her bucket list now. Very nice dance.

I saw her couple a monthe ago it was a great moment, I still impress by her eyes contact !

I saw an Amy at that same number. And will now continue to follow the rules of this board.

I adore women in pantyhose/stockings. I don't have much experience in exploring my fetish but I would want to worship a well dressed woman!

where to begin.... 1) hey/hi/hello without a follow up of requesting an appointment 2) declining a shower when a man clearly needs one... 3)one thing I see ALL THE TIME, I am massaging a man who is laying on his stomach and there is plenty of lint between his butt cheeks!!!! It also smells like he hasn't brought his soapy hands there for months.. Worse yet, I had a client who left a (very large and noticeable) skid mark on my towel recently... gentlemen: you DO need to touch and wash your butt crack in the shower. 4) When the end of a session is near, or already there, and I, diplomatically, mention that we need to wrap up, and he says, "Oh! Do you have another client?" - would you ask this to any other professional? Your lawyer? Your RMT? Your piano teacher etc? No, you wouldn't. So why is it ok to ask your ma/sp? Whether or not I have another client is completely irrelevant - you have paid for X amount of time and that time is up. If I get labelled as a "clock watcher", so be it. I am VERY generous with my time to my regular clients who have demonstrated that they respect the time I am sharing with them. For the few gentlemen whom I share a mutually genuine connection with, this my way of giving back. My best regulars are never the ones who take advantage of me, nor my time in any way. I am a professional and will be treated as such.

I love to masterbate! 5x a day at least!

Im a 33 yr old female who has found the fine art of multiple orgasims only in the last 4 months or so, this being said i now masterbate daily as well as enjoy work more as play then work And i was scared of being 30 lol now im greatful

NEW RULES ADDED Bumping Threads and Recommendations What is bumping? Please do not BUMP threads. Bumming is when you post a comment on a thread to BUMP it back to the top of the "New Threads" or the first page of that thread index. BUMPING RECOMMENDATIONS I have been ignoring thank you's posted on peoples recommendations where the thank you is placed within 24 hours of the post. Because this is too hard to police and explain to people I must ask that NO thank you's are posted on recommendations (As some people are abusing this and others see people post thank you's that were done within 24 hours and think it is ok to do). If you wish to thank someone for posting a recommendation that you started or that is about you please PM them a thank you (OR) you can post a thank you on the persons guestbook (Profile) but please DO NOT advertise on peoples guestbooks. BUMPING THREADS If you post something and do not get a reply DO NOT bump the thread to get it more attention or re-post it. Use the search feature as you will probably find the info you are looking for already covered. If it has been 6 months and no one replied you can post a NEW thread asking the same info (If no one replies again consider it a dead subject that no one has interest in discussing on the site. BUMPING ADVERTISEMENTS Q: Sometimes I bump my ads so I don't have to start a new thread. Is this okay? A: That is fine as long as you are following the "Only one advertisement post per 24 hour period" rule. Bumping a previous ad with updated information would be considered a advertisement post for that day. That is a good question so I will add it to the RULE. Guys are NOT permitted to ask the ladies to contact them! Guys. You can ask your fellow cerb members for advise such as "Does anyone know any 7 foot tall women in moncton?" but you can not post "Any ladies 7 feet tall in the moncton area please contact me" (This is considered advertising for ladies to contact you - and is not only lazy it is unacceptable). You can not post stuff like .... "I will be in town for tonight only can any lady who is available tonight email or pm me" (NOT ACCEPTABLE) "If anyone offers BBBJ in this city can you PM me to set up an appointment" (NOT ACCEPTABLE) etc.. etc.. Please DO NOT hijack threads! Hijack threads means you post a completely OFF TOPIC post and take control of the conversation that someone else started. Instead open a NEW thread and NEW TOPIC yourself. This includes posting on someone's ADVERTISING thread. If you are a competitor and you place a comment on someone's advertising thread that would be considered HIJACKING a thread.... and if you advertised yourself on someone else's advertising thread I am sure you will not make any friends. Q: I've commented on occasion on creative ads. I've never seen this as hijacking or bumping is it? A: It's more BUMPING then a Hijacking unless you are including an ADVERTISEMENT of your own (This includes your Signature). ** At this time that has not been a problem. Unless I get valid complaints about such things I will continue to allow that. If you were doing this to "Help" your friend out by bumping her ad to the top others will complain. Posting short comments to boost your post count Posting short comments such as "I didn't know that" and "wow, that is great" and "thanks, I like that" on threads when you are in the moderation period will clearly tip me off as to what your intentions are! Yes, this happens a lot and I catch them! I know these people are posting like this in order to get out of the moderation period (Either to look more creditable or maybe to post recommendations or some other slanderous thing - trying to get it to slip by) This does get noticed by me! I will then put these people on to my WATCH list as I suspect as soon as the moderation period is over they will post a SHILL recommendations or something bad on the site (Slanderous) Just want you all to know I watch for this and if you do this I will PULL your recommendation or posts that you make once out of the moderation period and I will remove the account (but also search the IP to see if I can pinpoint who is doing this) WHY NEW RULES?? I think we are all adults and can distinguish between right and wrong and fair and unfair. I only make rules when people abuse the site and when people bring valid complaints to me.

For me is the freedom I have. I have had other jobs, been self-employed in other facets, but this one I excel in:) I am able to be creative, be the " sensual giver" I am naturally. I care about my business, the industry and my clients! I have had a great day when I know I have boosted someone's self esteem, confidence and they leave feeling happy!

The "L" word!! I smile and continue whatever may be going on. I find it is usually a slip of the tongue and they either continue or apologize and that is that. I will see them again. In the case of someone saying the "L" word and becomes stalkerish, infactuated and crosses the boundries, I will decline any further contact and encounters with them.

First-thank you Summer such a great thread:) I got into escorting because I wanted to do what some had accused me of doing,(which I wasn't at the time) because it was said to be wrong/taboo( I am a rebel) and I also wanted a quick way to earn some quick cash-at that time. Now I do it because it's fun, I truly enjoy the freedoms it has allowed me, the confidence it has taught me, the inner strength I have gained from it's ups and downs and I like dating without commitment and having great sex often;) It's also a good source of extra income. Win win.

Reputation takes time to build.. most people get into this business with no long term goals in mind (Thinking they will do it for a while and get out) and want to make the most money possible as quick as possible... and therefore building a reputation is often not even a thought. Cerb is more for the seasoned ladies and the ladies who really like working in this business. Ladies who feel that reputation is important and want to build a safe long term business (and remain ethical and have integrity). This is where reputation counts. This is something that is often needed to be learned and many of the ladies jump into this business with no goals but find they like the business and choose to stay... so the ladies who try to short cut and spam market may realize that they do not need to do this (With the help of cerb and sites like escorts-canada.com) .... so lets not be too hard on them... Lets show them that a better alternative exists, lead by example... and show them that the effort is well worth it.