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This is a beautiful thread i will get back to when I can read all the contributions on a bigger screen than my iPhone but one thing I always say to people who sacrifice themselves for their kids or their loved ones: be happy. Do everything in your power to do the things that make you happy. We do not always "feel " happy but if we think we are and make it our project to think that we are and find ways to nurture it. This is important because we are better spouses or parents when we are happy. We teach our kids to love themselves in a non egoistic way when we truly are happy. A big element that brings happiness is growing. In your actual situation, you feel stuck. So you don't feel progress, growth. Your wife certainly can feel that you lost your sparkle. She seems a beautiful and intuitive being. Her "permission" to you is the only way she can feel that she's giving you of herself on that plane. If you don't make it your point to be happy, she wont feel she can make you happy and it will damper her own sense of accomplishment and growth. My happiness project by Gretchen Rubin is a great essay full of facts, research and common sense about becoming skilled at being happy.

First of all, is Ariel back at Barbs? Secondly, Guardian, you may have just described how I'd spend my last night on earth. Great story - like an article in a Hustler mag... like once all the pictures are stuck together, you have this shriveled little book of fiction. Thanks for sharing! Finally, I've been overcharged. I've been undercharged. I've passed out in the champagne room. I've had long, priceless conversations with some amazing women. I think it's a wash in the end, and if it's not, it's only money, and it's only enjoyable when you spend it.

I recently had some play time with some regulars of mine that I hadn't seen for a while. With these girls I have strong chemistry with and really enjoy being with. I just noticed that with certain girls when we say bye, We just hug for a few minutes and end it with some nice long passionate kisses. This too me shows that they genuine like me and enjoyed our times together. Thinking back over my many sessions. Some ended with just a quick hug and quick kiss, but the most enjoyable sessions ended with a nice hug and kiss. I'm starting to find the good bye kiss and hug important to me now. As with some girls, you never know if this is the last time you will see them or not. Due to them retiring or not travelling girls not coming back, or other personal reasons. Or the fact that I may give the hobby also. So with girls that truly mean something to me or have had a great time with. The final hug and kiss good bye shows me if there is some sort of connection between us and means something to me, just in case I never see them again :( I wonder if the SP's/MA's or hobbyist feel the same way.

After being on Cerb for over 3 years now. I've met many women from Cerb, of all sizes and races and ages. I've become on-line friends with many of them thou chat and PM's. I've also read most of the threads here and have come to the conclusion that the women that are the most successful and that I have had the best sessions with are women who truly love their work. I've learnt that some of these women started being an SP or MA due to personal circumstances. But have learnt that they actually enjoy doing this type of work and planned on doing it for as long as they can. These women enjoy giving and receiving pleasure and companionship. And as long as you are a gentleman and have good hygiene they welcome with you with open arms. And for the allocated time, they focus their attention on giving you companionship and pleasure. And if the chemistry is there and connection made. a friendship may be form where repeat encounters may occur with each one getting better and better as the comfort level and trust level form between two consenting adults. I have been lucky and have many encounters with kind loving women that I have continued contact with. Like any other job. If you truly love your work, and are good at it, success will come to you. This is a job where you can offer companionship and pleasure to men that are lonely or just lack the physical intimacy that humans need due to unfortunate circumstances. I am truly grateful to have met so many women that love their work and hope to meet many more. It really has changed my life. xoxoxox to all of you.

I feel your pain, backrubman, and I must say that I admire your desire to be fair and good to the woman you love and for this hypothetical 'girlfriend' who would not get to have enough of you. Your wish of staying on the right side of the law, however misguided we may think it is, is also commendable, and as you note, the consequences of getting caught straying on the wrong side could be harsher for some. I wish I could provide advice and guidance, but I have none to offer. best, toine

Such lovely and wise words! I wouldn't continue had I not enjoyed myself with the lovely people who have entered my life. At the start of my SW ventures I learnt a lot from my guests and still to this day try to take away something positive from each and every experience. Life is a gift when you are surrounded by good people and like to ensure I make others lives better.

Trust me. I know what I'm talking about.

I am very adamant about having a wandering goodbye. It's last and first impression that are important to me and with that in mind, chemistry is almost required. I'm in no rush to get anyone out of my home and like to be your special person during our time together. I had one guest who rejected my hug goodbye and didn't even want me to touch him and knowing he was probably just ashamed, it still stung. I like to enjoy my time with my friends and guests just as much as they'd like to . ;)

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Had the pleasure of meeting with Roxie yesterday, everything posted above is 100% on the money. Really sweet girl, great massage, far and away above anything available at any MP I've been to in the past. Highly recommend!

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Seriously??? The first time I do this and I get the letter 'X' ???? Le Sigh... lets see.... I was trying to find something other than X-Men as I'm certain its been used each and every time but... I haven't seen X Games so... X-Men III

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Popped in yesterday for a quick beer at lunch. Only a few ladies working (and they were busy), so I headed out. Sarah has gone totally blonde, which looks amazing against her dark chocolate skin. New red bustier with a side zipper (thank god), red shoes, new music ... almost a whole new girl!

A hot looking redhead...

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As a dancer I do offer prepaid sessions with my gents, I.E. Give me x amount I will stay in the champagne room with you for x time. This is because the club I started out dancing back in the day was a room for rent type deal. The guys had to rent their own champagne rooms , they were about the size of a living room with couches and they had one way glass, so you could see outside the room but people outside couldn't see in . The rooms were rented nightly (meaning the room was yours until the club closed at 4 am) and all your booze was included in the purchase. Gents would come in and rent their rooms, you could either go up and say hi, or a bouncer would come find you and tell you so-and-so is waiting for you in room x. I'd always charge them a flat rate, as it was easier to just to get a lump sum at the beginning and focus on the fun , much like escorting. Then we could drink and play and wouldnt have to worry about finding cash and credit cards when my gent is not in the proper state to search for such things. They liked it too because they weren't being charged by the song, and could relax and enjoy me. Im sure I lost a bit of $ doing this, but the time was much more enjoyable this way for both of us, and we didn't have to worry about keeping track of where we were dance wise. That being said, I'd never expect payment upfront for nothing and i certainly would never bully someone into giving it to me. There was the guy who handed me 200$ at the bar just being "the most beautiful woman I've ever seen", and when I asked him to go for dances, he winked , lifted his shot and with his New Jersey accent said " here's looking at you sweetheart" took the shot turned and left. I loved that club. I still offer this service while dancing, guys seem genuinely surprised as in Ottawa this seems to be an unheard of practice. As a client though, this is the only way I could see prepaying work, or if for example shes your regular lady, giving her a gift or saying "this is for next time". I have gents who do this, and they definitely get special treatment ( extra dances just slip in ;) and priority over others. They built a rep with me and I know they are looking out for me and my well-being therefore I make they are rewarded accordingly for their generosity. This lady, unless she's a total scammer, will remember what you did and you are probably on her "golden list" now. She probably wanted to dance for YOU specifically (yes we have favourites) that's why she was waiting for you and turning away other guests. Not saying what she did is right, or necessarily wrong, just uncommon practice. Certain gents get offers that others don't, they just have prove they are in that league. She gave you that opportunity, and you obliged. See how it pans out, you might be genuinely surprised...

Hi guys , I've also replied to her posts and have never gotten a response back . It's too bad , I'd really love to meet her .

I certainly didn't intend to belittle that end of it in any way, and I'm very sorry if it came off that way. I understand the implications as well as any. (Even more than many.) I was merely stating my own choice of the only available options as I see them. I often find when you break things down into a list of the only available options, the choice becomes clearer. As with most crossroads in life, most of the options have a negative side. It's up to each of us to decide which road is best for us, and which we can or can not live with. Again, my best wishes backrubman. I hope you find some happiness again.

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Why let Stephen Harper and Peter Mackay who created these contradictory laws rule your life and your happiness? You have nothing to feel bad about. As most men who are members here, they look for the most reputable ladies and at the very least try to find legitimate intel on new ones. As long as no one is getting hurt or doing anything against their will, that's all that matters. Yes, the law is the law but bill C-36 is backwards in so many ways and just because a law is passed and registered on the books, it's between two consenting adults. It is gentlemen such as yourself that are actually doing a favor by seeing reputable and established ladies because we lost many of you fine gentlemen when this bill came into effect. Personally I have many great clients but many left the hobby for fear of a criminal record and didn't wait to stick around to see what would transpire in the early days of C-36. Perhaps leave your hobbying for when you travel and keep a safe distance when at home.

Update, I still love massages but prefer, if they are offered, to have them at the end of the session. Oftentimes, clients run their fingers from the neck down, stop at my butt and then proceed to stick their fingers in places that don't belong, without asking.

my warm embrace.. I will be available at my Orleans location Sunday November from 11 am - 3 Pm. I can be available on short notice with at least 30-45 minutes provided I can entertain your request. Please call or text. Texting apps or VOIP numbers will be ignored and I consistently check for them. Discretion is assured when booking with me. Should I miss your call or if I am in a session, I do not call back for your discretion so please try again. I will not text back after the 20 minute mark has passed. I see limited gentlemen on a low volume basis so please plan accordingly. About Me I am a voluptuous lady with proportioned hourglass figure, round behind and creamy soft skin with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals. My beautiful baby face has been blessed with full sensuous lips and seductive blue eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I am perfect for those who enjoy "thicker ladies". I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older looking to spend a relaxing time with a nice lady. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My Location My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unhurried, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 -45 mins $200 -1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. I only offer in hosting visits and do not visit hotels or residences. CONTACT My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. No emails/blocked calls/texting apps accepted. If we've met each other previously, please let me know.

I love lingerie, all colors and styles. I even have a naughty Santa outfit with mistletoe topped stockings! Fishnets, garters and corsets are my go to lingerie!

Layah Lee LeRoux Fun-Sized Temporary Girlfriend Bookings available any time day or night, 7 days a week WARNING: Contact with Layah can be habit forming!!! Summer has ended and the cold weather has begun to creep in but you needn't worry about freezing with me around. I have several ways to warm you up all fall and winter long. My specialized skills and talents are designed to help you: ~ Relieve Stress ~ Improve your mood ~ Remedy loneliness ~ Remind you of how special you are etc.... Allow me to use everything I have at my disposal to cure what ails you and put a smile on your face. Words can't describe what you're in for so just come and experience it for yourself. As a well recommended and verified temporary girlfriend, I offer companionship as well as a wide range of relaxing and stimulating girlfriend-type activities such as massage, private dances, going on outings, cuddling up for a movie, etc. Have your cake and eat it too by enjoying the many advantages of having a girlfriend without the strings or commitment. See what your fellow hobbyists have said about their encounters with me here. Because I know that most men are visual creatures, I encourage you to take a look at my photo albums here. If your interest is piqued or you are interested in getting together some time, Please contact me by text 226-315-2349 at least 45 minutes to an hour in advance for same day bookings. Email [email protected] is acceptable if booking 24 hours or more in advance. PMs may not be read/replied to in time so please use this as a last resort. Please Note: Private calls will not be answered

Anybody have any information on this ad. Located on Quinpool rd Halifax? She goes by the name of Lily.

Hello Gentlemen Of Kingston, I Am EXCITED To Announce My Return To Kingston & Surrounding Areas. I have a New Number 613~707~9226 I am currently available for out call's In Kingston & the surrounding area I do intend to once again offer an In Call Location later in the week, near highway 401 For those of you who do not know me, I am a professional service provider, with positive recommendations I am a Sensual,vibrant,free spirited woman. Very Friendly with an out going bubbly personality. Standing 5'8 with leg's for day's, Bright natural blue eyes, Long multi colored hair; a beautiful mix of red, brown & blonde. Slim figure with gorgeous curves.

I once met a gentleman who was having a great time but got interrupted and had to go back to work in the middle of the hour. When he was leaving, I gave him such a steamy hug and goodbye kiss that he said "Forget it, I don't care if I'm late" and he ripped his trench coat off in such a fury. I'll never forget it. lol.

Therapeutic Relaxation Massage I'm a petite, mature (56) Masseuse, with 10+ years of experience providing therapeutic relaxation massage. Dim lighting, soft music, laughter and light conversation enable deep relaxation, with relief from pain and stress through my intuitive healing touch. Relaxation Therapy: Massage is an effective therapy for dealing with stress and will help improve circulation, produce endorphins (natural pain killers), relax tired, injured muscles, and lower diastolic blood pressure. Prolonged chronic stress increases the risk of health issues such as: anxiety, depression, digestive problems, heart disease, high blood pressure, sleep problems, weakening of the immune system making you more susceptible to disease, skin problems such as acne, psoriasis and eczema, weight gain, and impaired memory and concentration. Therapy for ED (Erectile Dysfunction): I also provide Therapy for ED if you're interested. Common causes of ED include aging, surgery, chemo, health problems, medications, relationship issues, obesity, porn and stress. We'll discuss any issues while you're enjoying a relaxing massage, and I'll teach you about techniques to help with maintaining an erection, premature ejaculation, etc. I combine counseling with the massage session as most men find it easier to discuss their issues while relaxed on the table. (I do not provide sexual services.) Professional Massage Table Shower Available Non-scented Oil Located near Victoria Hospital in London Exit 186 off Hwy 401 On Bus Route Free Parking Regular Rates: 1/2 hr Massage ~ $60, 1 hr Massage ~ $100 Senior Rates: 1/2 hr Massage ~ $50, 1 hr Massage ~ $80 View http://www.escapefromstressmassage.com, email [email protected] for more info, and call 519-932-0800 when you'd like to make an appointment, as I only accept new clients by phone. Advance booking is recommended and appreciated, as I'm usually not available on short notice. Lori :)