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I am dropping by tonight to get and give some last minute Christmas cheer. As r__d indicated, Jenny did not make it in today but told me she is in three days next week (Tues, Thurs and Fri). Just a heads up, Fri (30 Dec), from what I understand, will be Jenny's last official day at Barbs. She is one of my favourites, a real sweetheart and I have known her for years. I will be there to see her off.

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because life should be full of both especially at Christmas. Wishing everyone joy and happiness in the season and the love of friends, family and certain special people. May your smile be wide and your heart full and may 2017 be the most EPIC year ever! Thank you to everyone who has made me smile this year especially during the time it was really needed. Happy Holiday, Merry Christmas, Feliz Navidad, Happy Kwanza, Happy Hanukkah but most of all be happy!

Very interesting read. As a dancer, what gets my attention is eye contact and a smile. I will usually scan the room, and two or three gents will make eye contact. I will pick the one who look most inviting and go over. What makes a gent most inviting? One who looks happy to see me, a smiling and inviting demeanour. I will go sit down and chat, and can usually tell in the first five-seven minutes if he is receptive and wants to dance. He is smiling, engaged and flirty. A bit of small talk, then he usually asks me. If he asks me over then is faced away, or acting like he's doing me a favour by having me at the table, or acting like i need to impress/ convince him for a dance I simply get up and move on. I am paying to be at this club and have limited time, plus no one likes dealing with someone who is condescending, so I'd rather spend time with gentlemen who appreciate my efforts and want to enjoy me, not someone some power trip or make me "prove" myself to them... If someone has a bad attitude, its simply not worth the headache and they can keep their money for someone who's willing to play games. After all, the clubs are quite busy and there's lots of great gents who are more than happy and appreciative to enjoy my time and body! The palm wave I read in earlier post works well too, tipping her on stage and simply approaching her are all great ways to let her know your interested, very good suggestions...

With workplace parties in full swing, amidst the hustle and bustle of everyone searching for that special present for a certain someone on their list, and the traditional gatherings among family and friends, I'd like to wish each of you a safe, joyous and peaceful holiday season!

As I was entering 340 at about 1:30 today (12/23) a gentleman held the door as I passed and uttered "Welcome to Paradise". The scene was fairly busy and quite noisy as I settled in at a fave table and noticed a good number of patrons availing themselves of the free buffet. A number of the regulars were observed on stage and off - Bridgette, Claire, Sarah, Juicy, Harley, Maggie or possibly Maddy (?). Didn't notice any kilts, but an earlier post suggests that at least one of the kilt-wearers had taken his leave. (Guess neither of us is going to win the TV.) Said hello to a long-time poster on these boards after he enthusiastically greeted Bridgette. An ATF had told me that she would be in on Fridays for the rest of the month and as there are only two left (23/30), I was anticipating a sighting. However, unless one of her many fans had her engaged in an CR encounter of relatively "epic duration", she did not appear to be present. I lingered for about 90 minutes as I know she can be in the CR for an hour or so on many occasions, but by 3:00 I figured she was not present on this day. (Or were you engaging her attentions, Reddog01?) The atmosphere calmed down a bit after the buffet was cleared, but it was still fairly active as I left a bit after 3:00. A fun afternoon at Barb's, but not quite "Paradise" - especially with Jenny not in. Should I try again tomorrow afternoon? Will the club even be open on the afternoon of the 24th? If I'm in the area, maybe I'll see what's up.

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Free lunch today and tomorrow as well. I loaded up on the fried bologna. Yummy! Right now, Claire, Serenity, Harley, Jenny, and Delicious. A good-sized lunch crowd. Jenny and I have the same leg warmers. #twinsies Every beverage gets a ticket for a tv draw after 4:30. Additional Comments: Okay, I'd never spent time with Harley before. A sweet Russian girl with a great, muscular stage show. Impressive. Additional Comments: Made a new buddy in Redskin44! Woo hoo!

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Believe it or not, it can be nerve wracking for a stripper to walk up to a man, offer a dance only to get turned down. Especially if she sees other dancers approach a customer and being turned down. Perhaps that dancer thinks the first girl that was turned out is more attractive then her. I find that being away from the "pervert stage" as well as letting them approach you from behind helps. So, when picking a seat, try to pick one that is away from the center stage and that also allows the dancers to approach you from any direction (side, front, back). It also helps alot when you are in a high traffic area! lol my 2 cents

I find if you treat the dancer with respect you get more mileage out of them. I also find giving them a true compliment usually works also. Don't be phony. If yr not interested tell them no thank you.

At Pigale normally I have a big selection of girls to choose from. Within the first 20 mins or so my eyes wander and scan the floor to make a mental list of those that match my selection criteria (friendly, gnd type and most importantly naturally busty). I also take height into consideration as I am of average height (5.7") and most girls will tower over me with their high heels. Next I try to make eye contact with them and smile. If someone is too far away, I wait and if she comes within a reasonable range I do a gentle wave of fingers, palm and smile. She gets the message and stops by my table more or less immediately. And I proceed from there. If someone is too far away and I have waited for a long while, I simply walk up to her, smile and politely ask her if she will be free for a dance. I used to be shy the first couple of times I went there but have learnt that the best course of action for me is to try the modus operandi outlined above. It has always worked. Simply be polite and smile for that is the key. If you don't like a girl who has come to your table, simply smile and politely say that you are waiting for someone else. Ignore her responses, expressions and let it not ruin your fun time. Get negative reactions out of your mind immediately and focus on the list of girls that you think will give you a good time in the CR and smile at them and be polite. This has worked very well for me even though I am an OK looking, middle aged uncle type guy. ;-) Also you can ask a girl to remove her shoes in the CR if she towers way above you with those ridiculous shoes that they wear. Some will comply. Bottomline: Just appear pleasant, jolly, happy, respectful and most importantly horny. And have a good time.;-)

1. go up to dancer 2. say this: "hi, I would love to get a dance from you, but can we chat first?" 3. smile 4. ??? 5. Profit

There is no real magic in this. Make eye contact with the girl you are interested in and 9 times out of 10 she will come and see you. They are as interested in meeting people who want to meet them as you are in meeting them. It is in their financial interest. If that doesn't work walk up and talk to her. Say Hi. Pretty simple. How to avoid being bothered by ladies you are not interested in is more difficult.

I saw an extreme example of this one evening. I was sitting by the stage and a couple of guys come in and order a 26er of vodka and red Bull. Every girl who came on the stage was offered a shot. some took it and the guys friend was pretty busy with the ladies. He told me this is the best way to play the game. While I was there they ordered 2 more bottles and continued to dol it out. It was entertaining to watch, but I had to leave. It seemed to me to be a pretty expensive way to get noticed but they were very popular while I was there.

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