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I was introduced to this term "sapiosexual" by one Lady on this board (thank you, Talia). The meaning of it: " finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing" or in more remarkable words "seduce my mind and you can have my body" Does this type of attraction play any significant role in escort business on both sides? Can "sapiosexual" attractiveness prevail over the physical one? Does it work for the short escort session or it works in the long run only? Is it one of the factors which makes regular client? What is your opinion?

Most definitely! I've been with those who, at first glance, are a 10.. just stunningly attractive- and then they start talking and it all disappears, (almost as if their lack of inner beauty shows through.) And the opposite is true.. I've been with those who wouldn't be considered 'hot', just to find them become so as they talk. While intelligence certainly plays a role, I think how it's presented (attitude) has a lot more to do with how well it's perceived. ;)

I am definately a sapiosexual.. I truly think that attraction is not something only physical, but also intellectual .. Someone that stimulates my brains will also stimulates my libido .. Intelligent people are also very curious by nature and curiosity leads to many possibilities in bed so of course it will be better in every ways possible ..

In my opinion, in this business I find it very applicable... I am, and I find most women in this business are; highly intelligent and don't fit into the proverbial "box" societal norms have laid out for us, thats why we became ladies of leisure to begin with. This business comes with very unique challenges in both professional and civilian life, and over the years i've come to find that the majority of established ladies in this lifestyle are above average intelligence, witty, fun and outgoing...all skills you need to be successful. From my own experience and observations, intelligent people like to spend time with other intelligent people, and they like to be stimulated mentally ( being able to converse at their own level, not having to dumb down coversations or get blank stares when they bring up a topic other than current events) and its a real turn off when your sexual partner won't or can't meet you on that level intellectually. Although we've evolved tremendously as a species, many human primal instincts remain including the fact that men are aroused visually, while women are more cerebral , i.e. talking and non verbal communications such as gestures to show interest and affection... if you are a sapiosexual and in this business, it can be difficult at times to find genuine connections as many potential clients simply don't understand this... (That is why you see a plethora of ladies complaining about short,curt or explicit communication... they aren't trying to be difficult, its simply a turn off... ) For myself, I've found that my best frolics are with those I've built real connections with; the gents who have taken the time to converse with me and are genuinely interested in spending quality time with me...those who actually want to get to know me as a person, and this is because I want to know them... Theres nothing I enjoy more then spending a few hours naked chatting about someones hopes,dreams, fears, family, pets, vacations, shows, songs, theories about whatever, problems and joys... Thats why I love this industry so much... it allows me to connect with people at a level that is hidden from most around them, a side they genuinely want to show however cannot due family and societal expectations and the roles that men especially must play. Actually communicating ( not just listening, but really hearing and engaging ) has enabled me to not only build lasting relationships that I value but also to learn from all these different experiences and outlooks which has given me such a widened perspective on life. As a sapiosexual , the knowledge and wisdom I've gained as a result are my most valued possessions, gems of insight if you will..in my eyes it is truly priceless and except for a select chosen few is virtually unattainable... I love that I'm an entrusted friend and confidant, and that my career is making people happy and fulfilled...the physical is just the icing on the cake compared to how I can literally blow your mind... I satisfy, mentally AND physically, which is what it's all about... "Great minds fuck each other"- "Sapiosexual" by ABSOUL

This is indeed a tendency for some and I include myself. Frankly we all know how to self pleasure but seek more. So for me it is an interaction with a whole woman that is of interest. Intelligent conversation and intelectual curiosity in a woman makes me feel more comfortable and compatible; like we are jointly exploring rather than me simply self-indulging. That offers a much more satisfying experience. I am also more comfortable with the ethics and discretion of intelligent women, although I may to be justified in that. I highly recommend the memoirs of Casanova which are available in English translations on the internet. Women liked and bedded him because he loved and respected the company of women. I believe he was sapiosexual. These quotes may explain: Henriette could not open her lips without my discovering some fresh perfection, for her wit delighted me even more than her beauty. .. The happiness which filled me, if I can express it in that manner, was much greater when I conversed with her even than when I held her in my arms. She had read much, she had great tact, and her taste was naturally excellent; her judgment was sane, and, without being learned, she could argue like a mathematician, easily and without pretension, and in everything she had that natural grace which is so charming. She never tried to be witty when she said something of importance, but accompanied her words with a smile which imparted to them an appearance of trifling, and brought them within the understanding of all. In that way she would give intelligence even to those who had none, and she won every heart. Beauty without wit offers love nothing but the material enjoyment of its physical charms, whilst witty ugliness captivates by the charms of the mind, and at last fulfils all the desires of the man it has captivated.

Works for me :icon_biggrin: "Give me a deep conversation or a passionate debate over brainless beauty any day. Someone who makes me reconsider my long-held beliefs and challenges my mind is a person I can easily fall for. There is no doubt that I'm a sapiosexual."

I love the term, and find it, and the woman it's applied to, very appealing! :)

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Cato: Fantastic photo, thanks!

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It's still there. It's a decent local dive bar where there's usually a couple of girls to entertain you. The girls are very diverse there so don't judge the place on one visit. The VIP booths are disgusting. Last time I was there one of the two VIP booths was lined with buckets to catch water from a leaking roof. Not very appealing for the girls or customers. Seriously, it would take less than $500 to upgrade the quality of the VIP area for the benefit of the dancers and customers both. Happy dancers make happy customers that spend money.

Been PM'ing with a MA that is going Indy and she is the midst of moving. I told her that she will be sore and would probably need a massage, jokingly :) And she replied that it was rare for a client to massage the woman. I was surprised at that, and often I would offer to massage the woman at the beginning of the session or at the end if time allows. Depending on chemistry, I love being able to massage and explore a woman's body. Giving is more fun then receiving. The experience should be about her too :). But some women do not like being massaged I guess? Question to the MA's, do you like being massaged also. I know that some guys may be a bit rough as they do not know how to massage properly. But I have had enough massages that I have been told that I am pretty good. I think I put a couple of the girls to sleep :) I do offer the BFE experience :) Question to the Guy's. Have you offered to give the girl a massage? Are you too shy to ask or you did not know if you could. Would you like to massage the woman. It's nice to be able to massage a woman, rubbing her body with oil and begin able to return the pleasure she gave to you. If you massage her first and she enjoys it. The massage she gives you may be better as she may want to return the favour. What is your opinion on this subject ?

I'm not saying she no longer loves to play with a girl or two (or three!) from time to time; I expect she does. But no more curly hair - she's gone for the Cleopatra look!

I just heard one that seems designed for the SC: Guys My Age, by Hey Violet. An image of one of my favs doing her pole routine instantly came into my head, so I texted her the info. I guess we'll see if it worked or not. "Guys My Age" I haven't seen my ex since we broke up Probably 'cause he didn't wanna grow up Now I'm out and wearing something low-cut 'Bout to get attention from a grown up 'Cause you hold me like a woman In a way I've never felt before And it makes me wanna hold on And it makes me wanna be all yours Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good All he ever wanted was to go down What we supposed to do with all his friends around, yeah Smoking weed, he'd never wanna leave the house Got an empty cushion on that sofa now Told him, "Good luck with the next one." Maybe she'll be just as immature Gotta thank him, he's the reason That I know now what I'm looking for Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back No, I'm never going back Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to please me Don't know how to read me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to tease me Don't know how to leave me Don't know how to need me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back Don't know, don't know, don't know No, I'm never going back Don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back No, I'm never going back

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I know it's a typo BUT... "one of the pictures is flake", I chuckled

If you could change just one thing about the world of escorting, hobbying (or whichever term you prefer for this lifestyle) what would it be? Any wish or answer is fair, don't feel like you need to be realistic. Would it be that everyone would have impeccable hygiene? No fake pictures or bait 'n switch's? (Cato, you can even say more red hair if you want. :) ) I think for me my own wish would be for fair laws, ones that recognize escorting as a profession allowing for consenting adults to act like, well, consenting adults (while still keeping those laws that protect against abuse, trafficking, etc of course).

Hmmm... maybe. One of the girls I didn't know seems to meet your description of Fanny. Short, mature and I heard her speak French to Delicious. Does she have straight dirty blonde hair?

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Summarizing these remarkable comments, I would say that client - provider relationships can be much more stable than average marriage :icon_lol:

i think they know, they simply want to dismiss/silence those who are consenting adults and claim that those are the minority. (in fact they do this repeatedly) the latest in the attack against sex workers of course is coopting language to reinvent sex work as sex trafficking. This implies that there is no sex work, there is no consenting adults, every single ad on any single site represent 'trafficking' victims, forced, isolated, kidnaped, and typically, under 16. The fact that no investigating (as in police stings & cross country ops) supports this reinvention is irrelevant in their propaganda. they've even got what should be legit media outlets calling sex work all trafficking and escort ads trafficking ads and escorts are all victims. And if they don't shut up about it, then they call them pimps OR they say that obviously the people speaking up for sex workers rights are promoting child exploitation. like in this story, the Senator is literally clutching her pearls when she tells two reporters questioning the senate's tactics

I suspect that she is no longer in business. She posts no more ads and she does not reply to e-mails that I have sent to her.

OMFG

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There are other options certainly, but women living on a tight budget and not sadly being introduced to any other form of site to advertise were put in a very difficult place- as many of the other advertising options would take a few days and/or money to register for them, and then re-building a client base and getting immediate business is a bit more difficult on other sites than it is backpage. It'll likely also be difficult for casual backpage gents to learn and trust other place to advertise, as backpage was quite well known for being an easy place to find and sell those services. So that's my concern, that women/gents casually invested in the hobby may feel there's no other option than streetwalkinng, which is incredibly dangerous and susceptible to LE intervention. /: I believe backpage shutting down may turn out okay but it's going to hurt a lot of workers in the process.

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A Google Image search of one of the photos ( the first black and white on the left) turns up a set of photos which obviously belong to at least two persons and with another name of Lana. It also turns up ads appearing in London, Windsor, Ottawa etc.. The ages range from 24 to 28. Proceed with caution is what I'd suggest.

Remember the good old days when the cool guys used to wear pants and the girls would set up to actually take pictures IN the club? This was taken at Bare Fax around 20 years ago.

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I think a good condo is better

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I'm not even surprise to recognize the names in this thread. You guys sure know how to treat a lady... What tickles me about receiving a massage is the lenght of the session requested. It is hard to include a reverse massage in a 30 or 60 minutes session. But receiving a massage is the only reason I would be happy to be waken up in the middle of the night!

I love being offered a massage!! Especially if a it is a good massage. Many client don't focus on releasing tension in my muscles, they just skip right to the good stuff. Which is fine too! It just makes a good massage that much more special (and a turn on).

I absolutely love massaging a woman while doing very intimate stuff at the same time. Had sessions with SPs and dancers where its all that went on. I'm paying for her time and if she's ok with how I use that time and enjoys herself, its a win win.

Funny you post that today because yesterday I had a quite "interesting" (maybe should say weird) offer. Someone (so-called massage therapist that I have never met) offer me to massage me before our appointment and he would not charge me but I could tip him if I was satisfy. I tried to explain him that my donation was for our time together.. So he told me "so I have to pay you to massage you?" I was so pissed! I looove to receive massage (who doesnt?), and it happens quite often to receive some (maybe not always full massage but some rubs, as it turn me on as well) BUT I prefer to receive a massage from someone who "wants" to massage me, not as he is doing it expecting something more in return.. Like a tips for example or as a trade Sorry, someguy, I didnt want to hijack your thread ;)

Reverse massage is ALWAYS appreciated in my books. :)

I find that giving a massage is just as enjoyable as receiving one; I'd certainly prefer to give a massage prior to receiving one if given the choice.

I know a few women that I've got to know who enjoy nice massage, usually independents. It's only natural that over the years you get to know what techniques to use.