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I recently ran into a now retired SP at the grocery store of all places, someone I hadn't seen in few years. She walked over and said 'Hi' then engaged in the normal small talk before asking me if i wanted to join her for coffee at the local starbucks. She was genuinely excited to see me, pleasent conversation was had, we exchanged numbers. I'm looking forward to seeing her again in a strictly platonic manner. I basiclly made a new friend with an old aquintance.

Remember the bolded part? It means that all of those clients are good clients. end of story. you miss the point if you think that sps cannot care for or appreciate anyone other than a happy young goodlooking guy. or that they have no interest in providing services that they know will make a much bigger impact on the lives of all those client#2s than they will for all those client #1s. YOu cannot imagine the sincere satisfaction or good feelings that come when you have someone who is painfully shy react to the care and attention provided in our encounters. Or the gratitude of a much older man who has been neglected for decades. versus a young guy who is 'dateable", there is no contest. and it is yet another reminder that we don't advertise for dateables, but for clients, and nothing makes a work day end well than knowing you've made a difference in someone else's life. i had a client come to me for the first time, kind of seemed like client #2 in case number 2. but at the door, on the way out, gives me a big smile and asks can he come back to see me again. turns out the guy is hard of hearing, so he actually enjoying himself but not communicating since he can't really hear well enough to carry on a conversations. repeated (ideal client style) many times over several years.

Do not adjust your screen, she is doing a hand stand !

And if your password is the same anywhere else (especially your email) change it quick too.

I think the 'ideal' client, at least for ME, would be similar to the ideals of a sugar daddy relationship. I'm an old romantic at heart, I suppose, and I love sweet and intimate gestures... like flowers, well thought out gifts, even poetry. I really enjoy dates where it feels like two old lovers reconnecting, as I find that's half the fun of this- the fact that I get to have such deep relationships, on multiple levels, with varying people. I find it all so interesting, like I'm getting snippets of stories from all my clients... and so the ones that cater to my preferences i.e; clients looking for an experience and not a menu, are ideal. So yes, my ideal client would be something akin to a "secret lover", who was affectionate and understanding (and allowed me to be the same!), rarely booked last minute ( ;) ), was courteous in our conversations, loved to plan trips/thoughtful dates/give considerate gifts... etc. But, this would just be my ideal. I'm sure the opposite could easily be true for someone else- so to speak, a man who wastes no time over frivolties, gets his menu, is courteous but he pays and goes. Wham, bam, thank you ma'am. I suppose it all depends. :)

I think there is a misunderstanding where guys in this hobby think we want to date them and only the good looking ones such as the client #1 would be considered suitable as the ideal man in real life. Sure they were good looking but a few in that category turned out to be full of themselves and trying to score a f**k buddy. If I want that, it won't be with a client. Sometimes I feel as though we can't win either because some men out there have low self esteem and when trying to give them a compliment, I get the "Harhahrhar I bet you say that to all the guys" which I find to be very insulting and clearly makes the SP feel as though she is a bullshitter. Those are the onesie have found in my experience who are more likely to assume that we will only enjoy our job with the likes of client #1 and they have a really skewed outlook of who we spend time with as an SP. Sorry guys but you truly have no idea. Some of the best times I've had weren't with client #1 and there are also nice guys who happen to fall into the category of client #1 but I wouldn't call them an ideal guy I'd date in real life. One can't pin down a "type" because there are s many different combinations when it comes to men. I have so many great special relationships with regular clients and each one of them are nice in their own way. And I repeat, they are not client #1 I say this because most assume we want to be with client #1. A lot of women are not as shallow as you think. Well at least not me anyways. I tend to steer towards men in their early to mid 50's as someone I would consider dating. This leads me to believe that a lot of men I've personally noticed think we're just in it for the money period and if we get young hot men as clients who are well hung then we REALLY enjoy it and that we just put us with those are older or not in shape etc strictly for the money. Sigh..... Sure there are men out there who aren't Adonises but does that mean they're not worth spending time with whether as clients or personally? Does it not mean that they have other desirable qualities that can attribute to a great encounter? Does vanity now equal self worth? No! I'm in no way skinny Barbie myself physically speaking but I do have great clients who do find me very attractive and there is a connection there. They like me for me. They can see beyond someone's physique because it's not the be all or end all. The same applies to clients. I think this thread should be renamed to "Who is Your Dream Guy in Your Personal Life". I don't think you would get the answer to that. Client #1 does not exist in the way one would assume.

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good to remember, if you did put in login and password info to that pop up window, when site is back up make sure the first thing you do is change your password.

What can I say? She is the absolute best experience I have ever had. The best body. I plan on making her my only choice. She is sweet, she is beautiful (her pics are ALL real). She is also very talented. I was not rushed at all. Looks: 10/10 Personality: 10/10 Skills: 100/10!!! She is going to be the only SP I plan on seeing for a very long time. Treat her well and she will give you a great time. I cannot recommend her enough!!

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The poll unfortunately will not give you the right answer as you are really only asking the people who like the site and use it right now. I know a lot of people who used to participate here who have stopped coming here for a bunch of reasons. Most of those reasons are related to the "no-review" policy and the atmosphere it encourages. I don't think that policy makes it any more a nicer or welcoming place then the review sites. Just different. I have seen providers, clients etc ganged up on by others because they offer a different less popular viewpoint on issues. I have witnessed a lot of "group think" here and that is just as unhealthy an atmosphere as a free for all. There has to be a happy medium. I am not sure if you will find it.

Howdy ladies and gents. I guess I didn't do a good enough job promoting the return of the diary. I simply jumped on the thread that had 3,600 views stating that the diary was down, and changed the link in my signature along with a few discrete ads on CL. In the last few days I've received numerous PMs and emails from folks that didn't know about the new diary's return and new address. Guess I should give myself a failing grade on marketing the return of the cowboy's diary. It was down for a number of weeks due to some apparent issues with the terms of service, but after all the kind support and encouragement from the many readers here from cerb and other venues I decided to setup shop at a new home on the internet... if you haven't been there yet, check it out and bookmark http://www.cowboysdiary.info, be sure to tell your friends and family too. (ok maybe not your family) pardon me for this shameless plug :)

Work is rather quiet these days, which allows me to go and explore the finest aspects of the region. So I recently had the pleasure of dropping by CMJ for a rare daytime escapade. That is how I met the beautiful Pipes, and boy am I happy I got to live that moment. Pipes is the definition of a spinner. She is also blonde, with some body artwork, and some piercings. For such a small woman, she sure can apply a good dose of pressure when required, and the knots I constantly feel between my shoulder blades certainly needed that kind of steady pressure.... As I am the quiet type, I did not have much of a conversation with Pipes, but the little we had lead me to think she can easily sustain any conversation with her guests. After a very satisfactory massage, I flipped, waiting to see what would come next. And I was floored! Her skills are on par with the amazing and legendary Jude! I could not believe it, closing my eyes, I thought that I was in the presence of Jude! That phase of the encounter lasted a long time, reminding me of Jude again, and then came shower time. toine left the building searching for words, but with one mental note written in bold: I gotta see Pipes again!

OK I'll admit I'm an infrequent SC attendee... 'Creep factor', what is this creep factor? I don't appreciate some clown handing me a slice of paper towel and expecting a tip...

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With other boards there is advertising but there the US v.s Them mentality where SPs are to be only seen and not heard. I advertise my escorting services here but do not on BP because of the b.s. I will only advertise massage there since I don't have to deal with people asking for unsafe services and I like doing massage. I have met very nice clients from here for escorting and don't mind paying for advertising as long as there is traffic brought back to the board. The censorship that is in place right now is one of the reasons why a few clients have told me they left. If recommendations weren't censored, the new owners may see an increased amount of membership. There has to be an incentive both both clients and SPs to be here. I like the fact that I don't deal with tire kickers here while on BP you have to weed through calls and texts to find a decent client. I would pay for advertising to not have to deal with things I've had to deal with on BP (Wots, pimps making fake appts etc). However there had to be a reason for men to come to this board. They want specific details when looking at recommendations. I've had many men also tell me they are getting fed up with BP as there are many fake pictures and scams on there with people who aren't established. Notice they always come here to check to see if someone is legit? Without sites like this to double check, a lot of people would be taking risks when visiting new ladies so there is a reason to keep a site like this going. If there is good numbers in membership here, why not charge for advertising? If an SP can get nice clients here instead of dealing with b.s , I'm sure they would consider paying in addition to BP but the men need to be here to make it worthwhile. As someone else mentioned, each site has its own unique brand. Lyla may be known as "the rose colored glasses board" for its positive recommendations only but it also hasn't stopped members of other sites coming here either. Many use both but censorship is a big issue whereas other boards have less rules where censorship is concerned. I don't fully believe that the laws themselves have stopped men from hobbying. The more they have to make decisions on whether or not to see someone is key. This is why many have left.

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At the very top of the Ottawa Recommendations section there's a 'Read this before posting' from the Mod which references the DNR list.

She is on the DNR (do not review) list.

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There is not enough of a return here for me to justify paying for advertising. I barely advertise here as it is. IMO, you would lose a number of independents if you changed this.

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This could be a case of "your mileage may vary" depending on her texting conversations with you. Then again, I'm not a mind reader and only a proposed scenario. Some SPs may feel pressured for whatever reason but contradicts what she previously stated which can confuse a potential client. In my personal experience, when I state a restriction, it's something I won't do -period...even with regulars because I'm not into it. If asked at a later date, I tell them it's not my thing. They can either accept it or go see someone else. Boundaries are in place for a reason and money or losing a client is not a factor in changing my mind. No one should feel coerced into doing something they don't like. Im not saying this was happening in the OP's situation but saying no to a certain activity (provided it's not something detrimental to their health and safety), this can be harder for newer SPs to deal with. They may want to avoid the feeling of being uncomfortable after saying no. This could also be another factor. They may feel they are losing out on something which is simply not true or may fear some sort of negative feedback/fallout with men who write comments on review boards especially when they are trying to establish clientele. They also may be struggling and feel they can't afford to say no. That truly is a personal decision when placed in that position so I can't comment nor am I in a position to judge. Some new SPs can be impressionable not realizing that enforcing a restriction by stating "no" doesn't necessarily mean there will be a negative impact on her. And if someone does give an SP a hard time on those boards ( I've seen it happen) after she has said no and he feels it's his duty to make this known in a disparaging tone then that shows who they are. I once had a new client for massage and he said he wanted to take a shower with me. I have a rule where I will only shower with long term regulars. This is something I'm willing to offer at a later date when someone becomes a regular with me but I also have restrictions where it's the same for everyone where it's something I'm not willing to negotiate ever. I have my reasons for not showering with new clients and told this person upfront on the phone. I said if it was a deal breaker then it's best to find someone else because I wouldn't want to damper the mood. He still chose to visit me and it was one of the worst dates from hell. I had never walked away from an appointment feeling so mentally drained like I did that day. He complained about everything from the coconut oil I used, to the body wash I had for my clients in the shower and then tried to guilt trip me about not going in the shower. Being the experienced SP that I was, I remained professional but no matter what, he would still find something to complain about. What he should of done was found someone else when I told him it's probably best but on the phone, it didn't seem like it was the be all end all for him. Boy was I wrong! Had I choose to lift that restriction because he was whiny about it, I wouldn't be staying true to myself. My advice is if someone first says something isn't available then it's best to move on.

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I know she has reviews on here and I know she is a member. That's exactly why I went to see her. U know how u get all excited mixed up with nervousness before u finally go see the lady. But when u get there, no more communications, u wait and think maybe she just need a few more minutes but after u called 5 times and she picked up one of the calls but only music playing on the other side. When this happened, it really leaves nothing but sourness, and if ur reading this I am trying to help u avoid this feeling with this specific girl. We talked last week and agreed to meet last Sunday night but then when Sunday came no more replies. Last night she txted me, great, I showered, went to the bank and drove 30 min to her motel. I txted her before I left and when I was on my way, but when I got there 4 mins before our set time 9pm, u know the rest. I went on backpage again and found that 20 mins before our arranged meeting time she posted on backpage again, there were a couple of people seemingly talking about and watching me while I was waiting. I had high hopes, but this is what happened. And the exact same situation happnened not once, but twice. First time was two weeks ago. Anyone who opened this link thinking "how can she be..." I know exactly how you feel, maybe u would have gone back the second time like me, and thats what this post is all about. I doubt she had any bad intentions, even tho it's hard to convince myself. Oh, she replied an hr later "hey sweetie", and then "Sorry I was waiting for u..." right after my countless "I'm here", "u need a few minutes?" and 5 calls. Ya, she gave me this bs the first time too lol I asked for the room number to come by, no more reply and that's the end of the story. Judge for yourself, I still wanna believe she is a good girl. http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/your-favorite-blonde-barbie-doll-forget-her-pick-me-specials-438-794-0567/2546210

Some of the options are all-or-nothing; for example, I don't want a free-for-all with ad titles (a la BP) but I would like to see the rules relaxed a bit.

Godwin's Law, also known as "reductio ad Hitlerum" postulates that any online discussion, if it goes on long enough, will ultimately end up with comparisons to Hitler and Naxism as a basis to invalidate whatever is being criticized. This is yet another Trump discussion that got there really fast. Respectfully, it's not a helpful argument for anything. As I understand the executive order that everyone is losing their minds about, it put a temporary stay in place for 90 days while a program is implemented for improved vetting for individuals arriving from those countries. Of the over 300,000 people traveling to the U.S. every day, apparently somewhere (as reported by the U.S. media) around 300 individuals where put in a very difficult situation as they were in transit when it happened, and that should not have happened. But that is being addressed now. It affects people arriving from seven countries; over 40 countries that are predominantly Muslim are not affected. Trump is (a rarity for politicians) doing exactly what he said he would do.

Being very new and inexperience to this hobby, I possess a very strong will to become an ideal client. I am not sure why, primarily to ensure a good experience and secondarily the need to build good reputation etc. I would not worry much about the most crucial part to be an ideal client, as I have a personal habit to appear clean and presentable. I was also born with a trait of being gentle and caring. I have not done many sessions to be called an expert, but I would conjecture that the small but the trickiest part to be an ideal client would be to reach a harmonious state, whether or not you and your partner can telepathize each other mind and to reach a balance syncing between your generosity and in receiving an exceptional service from an SP/MA. For example, I love to pamper someone as much as I want to be treated the same way. I refuse to receive certain *** acts but also hoping to get something extra like more intimate caressing, touching, kissing on me legitimately and sweet talking. If this doesn't happen, I feel that I am missing something. So far, the MAs whom I met satisfy most of these criteria hence I usually left them with a small token and wrote them a good reco afterwards. However, to be an ideal client, I also carry too much concern and always confused myself whether or not they work too much on me. Sometimes, I would stop them in the middle of massage and invited them to cuddle with me. The downside of this, I am not sure if some of the ladies I met would feel suspicious and pressurized! Is he too good to be true or is he expecting me to return him a "big favour" maybe not now but in the future? I think sometimes I was being trapped in a certain situation and I wished I would not have done that if I were given a fresh start of the session. So far I have not encountered this, but this could also potentially put me as a client who are easy to be taken advantage of. So based on my current experience, attempting to become an ideal client is good but also could bring harm to the client-provider relationship! In the end of the day, just remind yourself that both feeling of love and hate lie on the same boundary. To reiterate my points above, I guess it boils down to a question whether or not an ideal compatibility (loving each other in many special ways) and a mutual understanding (in giving and receiving) exist between SP/MA and client. It works both ways...

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