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Everyone has their different levels of boundaries and what they're willing to put up with but the fact that she stole and then lied...if I were a client, that would be enough for me to not have any more contact with that person. It's a learning lesson as we've all dealt with this at some point or another in the industry when someone betrays our trust. I think if you decide to have an outcall in the future where the SP comes to you, make sure all valuables or medications are nowhere in sight. When people come to visit me, I do not leave anything lying around that is personal such as my purse or anything that is valuable. It's like a hotel room. By doing so, you don't give them the opportunity. I also have a separate bathroom just for them as my bathroom is for my own personal use. I also agree with Raven and always tell gentlemen to bring their belongings with them when they take a shower. This way everyone feels safe and content. You need to do the same thing when someone visits you. Also never give them the chance to alone and be able to wander in your home. It's people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Gorgeous body. I will be a regular. Nuff said

I was told while I was down south on a trip that my eyes looked awesome with my tan and the clothes I was wearing.

checked my bee hives and I have only 3 possible dead hives. The rest are very healthy

I have never used this term myself either. I would suggest however, that the descriptive word "small" may mean height as bbw is in itself self-explanatory. A small bbw may just mean a bbw of 5' 2" or less, for example. Just a thought... ;)

Hey everyone, I'm new in this industry. I decided to stop dancing, and offer companionship instead. I"m learning a lot, and thanks to lyla, the process is easier. I dint know that the industry was this sophisticated. I cant wait to spend time with someone special, and get my first review.. Any tips and hints would be amazing :)

First time encounters are always a little nervous. Even after a few years of doing this, I still get butterfies when seeing anyone :-) The anticipation is exciting as the time gets nearer to the appointment. When I don't get these feelings is when I will stop doing this, because then it turns into a job instead of being an encounter between two insatiable adults.

Celebrating the new rules on lyla, here's Caprice (she reminds me of someone...) And Anastasia!

Sweetshay. Sweet. very sweet... And one of my fav lyla pics: Additional Comments: and one more in my favourite outfit :)

"I would date you." (meaning if both of us were single and lived in the same part of the country, etc.) It was a simple sentiment from an sp whose league I wouldn't come close to in the real world. (I am a realist.) Who knows? It may be a standard line she uses but it seemed sincere and natural at the time, and part of a long open conversation. Perhaps just good business sense. Either way it made me feel great at the time. ;)

"Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are. That is the difference between the sexes." Oscar Wilde Compliment is a part of any relationship short or long. I invite both Ladies and Gentlemen to share the best compliments you ever received. Here is my part. I was fortunate to meet very special Lady here who is my regular SP for a long time already and who I really care about. Over the time we became friends who can ask for help each other and who can discuss very private issues freely . Recently, we discussed our plans and she said that she was thinking about retirement from the business. Then she smiled and added that not seeing me is the only reason that keeps her from that decision. For me, it was one of the best compliments I aver had in my life.

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I would be reporting to mod! If I had someone take anything from my home and then 'blackmail' to feel sorry for them, I wouldn't hesitate to tell the mod. You are not the only one that she is going to do this to, and as for her asking you not to tell her name because she is 'on here and well liked' THAT is also blackmail! Everyone will be under suspicion that does out calls in your area now, as no one is going to know who did that, so we are all going to be looked at the same way. There is a reason for the 'Warnings: To Report Bait and Switch, Scam & Dangerous Encounters' section in each province area of forums, it is there to let others know of exactly these sort of things.

You cannot go wrong. Always exceeded my expectations. I am overdue for posting a rec for Venus Reign. Absolutely outstanding. New ATF!

First time meeting with the new Lady always remind me two things: - Spy movie: I usually need to call first time to get some instructions like street address, then go there and call again for new instructions... - One way blind date: I know something about that Lady - at least what she wanted me to know from her ad and website. And for her it is really blind date, she know almost nothing about me, especially about how I look like. On the other hand, one girl told me that waiting for surprise behind the door is one of the most exiting thing in this business. Not sure if many Ladies share this opinion.

Hi my name is Lexis I work at Paradise Spa I aim to please .My skills will leave you breathless I'm a breath of fresh air.I love working at the spa and enjoy it! I stand 5'6" 140lbs B34 26 38 long blonde hair Bright blue eyes I have the best hands in town! hands down!! hehe ill be waiting for you in one of my sexxxy outfits xoxox call Paradise Spa 6138208887 to book a sexy erotic session with me for more info txt 647 491 6136 Schedule this week Feb 14th 1-11pm wednesday 2-11pm friday 3:30 -11pm sunday 10-9pm

it was like she was saying... "and I would be the one to hold you down kiss you so hard I'll take your breath away"

She's a perfect 10 boys. Tiny. Tight. Bubbly. Amazing!

I contacted this MA and asked about kissing. She said it's ok but to my surprise once I arrived and the session started she said no tongue. I Was disappointed, I was under impression kissing means tongue use.

In the next few days I will be having a whole new face lift on the way I have ny rates and service model! I feel it is a good way to accomidate the very vast and complex questions and budgets. This new modual will allow those who are nervous to meet for the first time, or perhaps those who are not sure what service they want yet. I hope this new method will be a win win for both of our bennifit. I AM VERY TIRED of this constant back and forth and being asked to " explain minute by minute playbook" So I WILL NO LONGER PROVIDE ANSWERS THIS FORM OF ENQUIRY!! It does not feel natural nor comfortable for me. So now.... You can choose a base rate with "ADD ON" choices. The ad on's can be choosen before you arrive or after you arrive. I hope this will limit the amount of back and forth style enquiry and yet allowing you to feel comfortable to book with ease without commiting to a high service rate before having the chance to get to me first. Will have my new rate structure in a couple days. Thanks for reading. Chat soon I hope:)

Spinner Alert..I will repeat and repeat and repeat.

I'm located in nepean now Gents and am no longer apart of brass or ALO pm me for details; )

I've never used small bbw myself, so I think your right. I agree with your order of terms, that's pretty much what I would use myself to describe someone. But thick would describe a certain type of person but not all. Another term I've used is solid. Someone who is bigger but say no belly or much extra skin, just solid/thick. I find this type attractive. So many they are classifying a curvy or thick as small bbw? I wouldn't do that myself.

meet new gentlemen as well as those I am already acquainted with. I will be available in Orleans Saturday Feb 18 ( 11 am - 8 Pm) and Sun Feb 19 ( 11 am - 6 Pm). I can be available on short notice with at least 30 minutes provided I can entertain your request. Please call or text. Texting apps or VOIP numbers will be ignored and I consistently check for them. Discretion is assured when booking with me. Should I miss your call or if I am in a session, I do not call back for your discretion so please try again. I will not text back after the 20 minute mark has passed. I see limited gentlemen on a low volume basis so please plan accordingly. About Me I am a cross between a voluptuous lady and a bbw with a proportioned hourglass figure, round behind and creamy soft skin with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with impressive 40 DD naturals. My beautiful, youthful looking baby face has been blessed with full sensuous lips and seductive captivating blue eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I am always well polished from head to toe from my coiffed hair to my manicured nails and feet. I am perfect for those who enjoy "thicker ladies". I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older looking to spend a relaxing time with a nice lady. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My Location My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unhurried, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 -45 mins $200 -1 hour Sorry outcalls are not available CONTACT 613-404-7*8*8*7 - Call or Text is the quickest way to receive a response Blocked calls/Voip/Texting Apps and payphones will be ignored [/center]

Hi Guys! I'm Katrina! ************ Your Sexy Blonde Bombshell Visiting The Ottawa Area Via Montreal! I'm A True French Beauty with Experience & I Hope To Meet You Soon! I'm a 5'6, Sweet & Sexy Women with Blonde Hair & 34C All Natural Curves! I like to take my time & make you feel like a King! Please Call 613 680 8059 to reserve your special time with me: I'm Available At Vibe: **ON MONDAY** Currently from 4pm until 10pm! ******************* I'm Also Available Next On: Tuesday from 10am until 4pm! & Thursday from 10am until 4pm too!! ********** xoxo Katrina

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Thanks for taking an interest in my ad. For Immediate Response Text: 613-884-3102 I offer Companionship with Massage as well as "Manscaping." I host at "Dungeon613" located in Centertown. It's now set up for BDSM play and Soft Sensual moments, to accommodate different moods and tastes. It's available for private rental. A SHOWER has been INSTALLED! I stand 5'7 with long lush brown hair. All natural DD38 breasts & a spankable derriere. My relaxed style will put you at ease. I'm a good listener and easy to talk with, I have an open mind & I'm sincere . I enjoy sharing a mutually satisfying experience that's are never rushed. It's all about having a good time Availability Friday Feb 17th: 9am-11pm Sunday Feb 19th: 7pm-11pm ***VISA*MASTER*AMEX*** ********************** Contact Info PM Ms. Samantha or Text/Call 613-884-3102 E-mail [email protected] ***************************** Manscaping: Trimming/shaving of a man's body hair so as to enhance our appearance . Available for private areas & torso Massage: Warm oil full body relaxation massage. Domination: Sensory play, Role play, Fem Dom Fetishes: Leather, Latex, Panty Hose, Foot *********************************** My Recommendations http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=S&t=68076 30mins/$150 1h/$200 90mins/$250 2h/$300 Couples 2hrs/$450 I can visit for an added $50 Downtown w/Free Parking Kisses & Spanks Ms.Samantha xox

I'm always a little nervous. Hoping I live up to your expections.

Be sure to leave the envelope/card unsealed so it's easy for the lady to discretely confirm the contents.

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Happy Valentine's Day! :)

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I've been a few times. will go again. PM me for details.

Don't need an excuse to gift some red lingerie. But 14th of Feb is as good as any other day. Although, I do not appreciate the commercialization of this day and the pressure to do "something" ...

While the duo was fun I think I prefer Lily by herself. Lisa cannot come close to Lily's energy and kind of dulled the session. Lisa is tight and has a great rack and pretty but skills were not anywhere near Lily.

I recently ran into a now retired SP at the grocery store of all places, someone I hadn't seen in few years. She walked over and said 'Hi' then engaged in the normal small talk before asking me if i wanted to join her for coffee at the local starbucks. She was genuinely excited to see me, pleasent conversation was had, we exchanged numbers. I'm looking forward to seeing her again in a strictly platonic manner. I basiclly made a new friend with an old aquintance.

What can I say? She is the absolute best experience I have ever had. The best body. I plan on making her my only choice. She is sweet, she is beautiful (her pics are ALL real). She is also very talented. I was not rushed at all. Looks: 10/10 Personality: 10/10 Skills: 100/10!!! She is going to be the only SP I plan on seeing for a very long time. Treat her well and she will give you a great time. I cannot recommend her enough!!

Khia-My neck, my back https://youtu.be/rDJu7r6OUvk

I know she has reviews on here and I know she is a member. That's exactly why I went to see her. U know how u get all excited mixed up with nervousness before u finally go see the lady. But when u get there, no more communications, u wait and think maybe she just need a few more minutes but after u called 5 times and she picked up one of the calls but only music playing on the other side. When this happened, it really leaves nothing but sourness, and if ur reading this I am trying to help u avoid this feeling with this specific girl. We talked last week and agreed to meet last Sunday night but then when Sunday came no more replies. Last night she txted me, great, I showered, went to the bank and drove 30 min to her motel. I txted her before I left and when I was on my way, but when I got there 4 mins before our set time 9pm, u know the rest. I went on backpage again and found that 20 mins before our arranged meeting time she posted on backpage again, there were a couple of people seemingly talking about and watching me while I was waiting. I had high hopes, but this is what happened. And the exact same situation happnened not once, but twice. First time was two weeks ago. Anyone who opened this link thinking "how can she be..." I know exactly how you feel, maybe u would have gone back the second time like me, and thats what this post is all about. I doubt she had any bad intentions, even tho it's hard to convince myself. Oh, she replied an hr later "hey sweetie", and then "Sorry I was waiting for u..." right after my countless "I'm here", "u need a few minutes?" and 5 calls. Ya, she gave me this bs the first time too lol I asked for the room number to come by, no more reply and that's the end of the story. Judge for yourself, I still wanna believe she is a good girl. http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/your-favorite-blonde-barbie-doll-forget-her-pick-me-specials-438-794-0567/2546210

I just wanted to say thank you for this thread, I have a stable clientele, at the end of every session I get a text saying how great it was..But i still don't have any recommendation on here...I am okay with that but it would be great to get one eventually lol. :)

I was in Toronto yesterday and was staying near Yonge and College. I had a bit of time so went for a walk and discovered, to my surprise, that that area is filled with Asian Spas. I hadn't stayed there for that reason. It was one of the only rooms I could get at a reasonable rate, probably because of the Jays game. Anyway, in a spur of the moment decision, I walked into iSpa which is on Wellesley, just off of Yonge. The look was just as you would imagine an Asian spa to be but the massage was great. There was only one girl, as far as I could tell, but she was goregeous, fun and provided a great massage. Menu and prices were standard for an Asian spa but this was a great find, at least in my view. If and when I'm in the area again, I'll definitely stop in. There were at least 4 others within a two block range. Anyone have any experience with those?

I would have to say that some of the things I like least about my work have to do with stigma and judgement....as some of the other lovely ladies have already spoken to on this thread...but, in particular, for me, I find myself most impacted when it has unfolded during sessions with certain clients over the years....thankfully, not frequently enough to remotely make me stop loving my work...but there have been certain moments, often in the unsaid, the subtle glances and words where I can tell that it has been important for a client to maintain a sense that he is above me; somehow morally superior, more knowing and able to remove himself from some sense of the 'unsavory' he finds about my work. I suppose I am most impacted by this because, despite the obvious fact that there is a sacredness in sharing myself in pleasure and intimacy with my clients, and clearly something about those experiences that are ultimately valued even by a client who would engage in this behavior, that it is even an option to to judge and patronize...that there is a currency to it, is bothersome....hurtful The other judgement piece that irks me is when it's been inferred that my expiry date is about to come up, as though being anything past thirty puts me in a danger zone of becoming spoiled milk, lol! Interestingly enough, I have experienced this with a number of with clients who would find me to be on the younger end of the age range they prefer in an SP. So, the judgments, the inferences, don't even have to match up with the reality (of course they don't)....but there is a sort of paternalism there...and, I've noticed that it sometimes has occurred in contexts where a client is expressing romantic interest in me, and uses that as a card to discredit the idea that I should chose this as a longer term vocation.....to somehow make it seem unnatural. Odd! Sometimes the opportunity presents itself for me to have openly challenged such crap, but sometimes, there is no space for that...and then I chose to exercise the privilege of declining a repeat 'playdate', because there is no replacement, no price tag that can stand in place for dignity and self-love. Great thread Summer! Thanks for starting it :) Ox

To the OP...Sorry if your experience wasn't rewarding, but imo your only prerogative is to not see her again if you didn't fully enjoy yourself. I do hope you did enjoy your rendez vous based on the service you did get though...go with the glass half full... As for the money issue, if it helps, I have rationalized it with myself that if I ever seem to place an actual $ value on the pleasure I enjoy with an SP, then perhaps this whole thing is not for me. I forget about the $ the minute I make the booking..it has no value then....it's just paper....so I can never have a resentment that way. That is not to say that I dont have a top $ limit I will go, cause I do, and even then I bargain with myself over some ads I consider. As well I dont break down my experience by each service...rather more as it relates to my pleasure in its' entirety. I get that you discussed, and were promised certain services, but I dont think there is much you could've expected refund wise or can do now, besides not see her again, and as another post mentioned, possibly review her on another board.

Mighty Pen's words speak truth. There are times a provider hasn't prepared for the appointment by keeping track of requests. That would require keeping records and that is something quite discouraged by hobbyists. I don't provide a menu or promise a single service when I book my appointments for this reason. If a guest has a check list of activities that must take place during the playdate, I'm not the provider for him and I'm clear about this upfront. If a guest let's me run the session the way my intuition tells me he will leave smiling and completely satisfied. Walk thru my door with specific services demanded and you will be shown the door but I don't keep the envelop. I think it's dirty money at that point and brings no good to my life from a karmic level. A good provider trusts her instincts and if her spidey sense is tingling, the agreed upon services are at her discretion. She needs to be honest about why she won't provide the agreed upon services if she wants to make the appointment work. Won't kiss? Probably a hygiene issue at hand. No shower? She has probably booked appointments after you that weren't on the books when you set up your appointment and won't have time to redo her hair after you leave; or she feels it's a bad judgement call from a safety perspective. There are a 100 reasons the menu will change. Has the contract been broken? Yes. Is she required to give you a refund of some sort? No but if she's smart she will make it right. It's good business to be honest and keep clients happy. This business is only viable if you can build repeat business and violating the agreement doesn't accomplish that... cat

The first thing to do is communicate well during the appointment. Maybe she's forgotten some of your favourite details. No problem; bring up the topic of the missing bits with a smile and a laugh, and guide her and the session on the course you had discussed. If you haven't established friendly, positive back-and-forth communication with your provider, then that's your first problem right there. Then again maybe there's some reason why, now that the moment is upon you both, she doesn't really feel comfortable following through. Again, communication during the session is key. Raise the subject in a friendly way to make sure she hasn't forgotten, and if she's not comfortable with X, work together to find another way to have fun that works for both of you. But ultimately, if all of your discussions to resolve the problem fail, then you need to remember that the contract between the client and provider is solely for time spent together in which things will probably happen, but there's never a guarantee. She's a human being, not a vending machine; your money gives you no claim over her body. So all of those details you discussed are requests, but there's never an ironclad guarantee they'll be fulfilled. If you ultimately aren't satisfied with a session, and your conversation with the provider hasn't resolved that to your satisfaction, then just don't go back. Chasing after your money with "but you didn't do X! Give me Y dollars back!" is crass and fruitless. And, last of all: don't compare sex work to other industries. The comparison is always misleading when it comes to these types of up-close human interactions. Your SP is not your mechanic.