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I would be reporting to mod! If I had someone take anything from my home and then 'blackmail' to feel sorry for them, I wouldn't hesitate to tell the mod. You are not the only one that she is going to do this to, and as for her asking you not to tell her name because she is 'on here and well liked' THAT is also blackmail! Everyone will be under suspicion that does out calls in your area now, as no one is going to know who did that, so we are all going to be looked at the same way. There is a reason for the 'Warnings: To Report Bait and Switch, Scam & Dangerous Encounters' section in each province area of forums, it is there to let others know of exactly these sort of things.

Out of frustration, I am hoping people can clarify to me what in the world is so hard to understand an ad that reads..." bedroom cuddles" !? or NO EXPLCIT LANGUAGE?? For many months now I have been struggling with this and is driving me nuts lol. I am getting questions of ...will we do this *** or will you do that**** My ad is as clear as can be, and now even easier to understand. So are ppl this cloudy in the brain or do they really not know what " visit in my bedroom" means? I also say things such as, NO DETAILS CHOICES ARE DISCUSSED ON TXT... then the next txt is ya, so can we do this****OR EVEN WORSE IS "safe service only" then I still get asked ...ok but can I get **** sigh...I am spending all day long dealing with these types of requests and can not understand how else I can be more clear while remaining in control of my comfort levels. It is starting to make me grouchy with enquiries lol, that's not good for business either lol.

there will always be the idiots that actually don't read the ad itself, they just take the number and text/call it. I don't know how many times I've had to say to people that my availability and rates are clearly in my ad, but they want every little piece of information that is on my website in a call or text sent to them! Some guys think with the wrong space lol. I saw your ad, and I think it's as clear as crystal as to what you offer.

Everyone has their different levels of boundaries and what they're willing to put up with but the fact that she stole and then lied...if I were a client, that would be enough for me to not have any more contact with that person. It's a learning lesson as we've all dealt with this at some point or another in the industry when someone betrays our trust. I think if you decide to have an outcall in the future where the SP comes to you, make sure all valuables or medications are nowhere in sight. When people come to visit me, I do not leave anything lying around that is personal such as my purse or anything that is valuable. It's like a hotel room. By doing so, you don't give them the opportunity. I also have a separate bathroom just for them as my bathroom is for my own personal use. I also agree with Raven and always tell gentlemen to bring their belongings with them when they take a shower. This way everyone feels safe and content. You need to do the same thing when someone visits you. Also never give them the chance to alone and be able to wander in your home. It's people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Sorry I'm not responding for so long. I forgot I even made this post. I ended up making an impulsive appointment with an escort that's normally in Toronto the same night. No regrets... gave me quite the confidence boost lol. Will definitely check out MsManda. Thanks guys.

I would like to share my personal experience with an MA who did not allow kissing on the lips and intimate areas. The trickiest part is that I asked her during the duo shower but my polite question wasn't explicitly answered. My first thought was that she was rather shy. As I attempted to kiss her gently, she would turn her cheek and her body. I took this as a no and I accepted it wholeheartedly. I felt a dilemma in her as she valued me as a good and gentle client. At the same time, she probably didn't want to "lose" me too soon. I read her mind to find out that she was hoping that I would still enjoy to receive some of her other`skills' during the session. This turns out to be very true! I put a serious thought and I decided to let her know how much I appreciated her. As I had the opportunity while she was massaging me in front, what I actually did was performing some light gentle kissing on her neck and shoulder (pecking) while making long inhale of deep breath like you were enjoying the smell of her body. Then, I brought my lips closer to her chin (don't kiss) while giving her another slow and long inhale. The next move is the most critical. I gradually moved my nose slowly to her lower lips and to the angle part and again, making a sensual slow inhale as long as you want (be careful not to touch your lips on hers). She seemed to enjoy what I did to her. I sensed that she felt more comfortable to know that I was respecting her boundary. She reacted to this by voluntarily open her mouth a little with a heavy breathing which allowed me to smell her entire lips and mouth with my lips closed. I loved the smell of her lips and mouth which was warm and moist. And these fun moments continued with a periodic soft moanings and whispering compliments. I can assure you that this experience is equally tantalizing. The best part, she gave me a wonderful compliment that I was one of her best "boyfriend" whom she have ever met. That was really sweet and lovely! Having this unique experience will definitely make me want to repeat with her again.

http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/exotic-asian-new-pics-pretty-face-and-petite-body-incall-418-317-4541/2551008 Had a good encounter with Jade recently. Pics are 100% real. She is very hot with amazingly smooth skin from head to toe. No hassle booking. Decent location. She plays it safe.

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

There's a lot of nice looking asses on bp but I'm just hoping if someone has a recommendation. Thanks.

I was introduced to this term "sapiosexual" by one Lady on this board (thank you, Talia). The meaning of it: " finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing" or in more remarkable words "seduce my mind and you can have my body" Does this type of attraction play any significant role in escort business on both sides? Can "sapiosexual" attractiveness prevail over the physical one? Does it work for the short escort session or it works in the long run only? Is it one of the factors which makes regular client? What is your opinion?

Alas, not everyone is a member of Lyla... I'd say there's a good possibility that a portion of your gentlemen callers may not even be aware that the laws have changed, and therefore are oblivious to the implications of C-36. While it would be ideal if everyone took it upon themselves to become well versed in the legal discourse of our times, it is likely wishful thinking. All you can really do is attempt to convey things in a manner which is comfortable for you, and if certain people don't get it, it will be their loss.

i just met with Kelly. I have known her for a number of years now and almost never miss seeing her when she is in town. I still surprised at how hot she is each time me we meet. She's about 5'-4" very slender with gentile curves. I especially like her tiny waist. She has a C cup, natural. I'm usually an A or B cup guy, but they are just so beautifully shaped and perky. I love them! She's got a pretty face for sure and has always been very friendly. Shower available upon arrival and departure Staying at a nice hotel in halifax and here till Sunday. If your going for the wow she's so hot factor, and I don't give that out easily, than she's your girl!

I now offer a 80$ basic massage rate. This will allow you and I to meet and you will experience my finnese and quality massage that you've have always wanted to experience! But it also allows you to choose as little as you like or as much! You can choose your add on services before you arrive or we can go with the flow and see where it takes us. I do hope this will be the end of continuous back and forth and play by play, minute by minute enquiry. Now you can feel confident to visit and pay a basic rate, enjoy your massage and we can discuss together how we shall move forward. Here is my Spa add on services. ENTRANCE/MASSAGE RATE: $80.00 PICK ONE OR ALL ADD ON SERVICES: Topless: $20.00 Full Nude: $40.00 ( top and bottom) Hot stones $20.00 Tantric Touch: $40.00 Bedroom Cuddles ( 30 min duration): $100.00 Jacuzzi: 40.00 Each additional 30 min : $60.00 I am hoping this has the versatility to allow everyone with different wants/needs and budgets to enjoy all that I offer! I book Monday to Friday. If you require a Saturday booking you will need to pre arrange it before Thursday and secure it with a small fee via E-transfer. I prefer if you txt me first, then we will voice chat to arrange a time together. SEE YOU SOON! 506 261 7313

First time meeting with the new Lady always remind me two things: - Spy movie: I usually need to call first time to get some instructions like street address, then go there and call again for new instructions... - One way blind date: I know something about that Lady - at least what she wanted me to know from her ad and website. And for her it is really blind date, she know almost nothing about me, especially about how I look like. On the other hand, one girl told me that waiting for surprise behind the door is one of the most exiting thing in this business. Not sure if many Ladies share this opinion.

Oh Moncton, how I have missed thee! I shall be in Moncton Feb 22-24 and available for incall to my upscale, downtown suite while I am in town In case we've not yet had the pleasure.. I'm a 5'6 true brunette, with a movie star smile and bright gorgeous eyes that you'll love to have look back up at you.. With a toned, and moderately tattooed all natural body that I love to show off and share with certain respectful gentlemen and couples, Let my body be your playground.. I offer my sensual, pampering attention for those who appreciate the sweeter, softer side of a lady; and a wild, naughtier experience for those with more... curious tastes :p Openminded and genuine, I love to indulge fantasies, from the vanilla to things a bit more intense, my true passion is pleasing my guests! With a wardrobe to captivate many tastes, and accessories for both of our pleasures, the possibilities for pleasure are endless, just share with me what you might enjoy, and I'll take care of the rest! Shower, amenities, and even a fresh pouf are available if you'd like freshen up before or after our date :p Please visit http://www.msmanda.com for details on what I offer, and more, or pm/email for more info! xx

I was told while I was down south on a trip that my eyes looked awesome with my tan and the clothes I was wearing.

Yes, looks like she is back. Check her ads in bp.

Washing $20 bills after lubricant was not closed properly and spilled all over including on my iPod screen. lol

Hey everyone, I'm new in this industry. I decided to stop dancing, and offer companionship instead. I"m learning a lot, and thanks to lyla, the process is easier. I dint know that the industry was this sophisticated. I cant wait to spend time with someone special, and get my first review.. Any tips and hints would be amazing :)

Awesome everything! :)

I'd second Hope and Harmony at Brass Club, as well as the new Ren

Hello readers of Lyla. Another day, another interesting look. Does anyone have any info? PM if you like. http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/brand-tay-t-cole-harbour-in-service-gr-k-fr-k-and-i-will-come-to-you-902-700-5817/2630616

You have many amazing choices available locally. I just wanted to say I think it's amazing you are taking this step and grabbing your life and making it into more than it was. Being a virgin is NOT anything to be self conscious about and is a viable choice for some. Wishing you many pleasures and fun in your exploration. Make it great! *muah*

I'll take some bubble butt recommendations.

I always make sure I have breath mints when I see a gal. I find this discussion of the importance of kissing reminded me of Monty Python sex education scene... where John Cleese asks the students how do you get her juices flowing and after several suggestion, he says, a kiss... start her off with a little kiss. "What's wrong with a kiss, boy? ��? Why not start her off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy." and I think that's true for men too...

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Lately I have been asking the owner of the spa to recommend to me girls that are GFE and like to kiss. Most of them know me by know and my taste and just to make sure I have asked them to talk to the girls to tell them about me and see if they would be compatible with me. So far it has worked most of the time. Sometimes there is no chemistry or connection. That is understandable. Most of the time i get to know over twitter or PM first. But in some cases I can't as they may not have a online presence. It's with these girls that I sometimes get no kissing? It's hard to get that intimate sometimes with a complete stranger. Whereas getting to know each other online helps you get to know somebody first. And when you meet it is with anticipation and with someone you kind of know?

Remember the good old days when the cool guys used to wear pants and the girls would set up to actually take pictures IN the club? This was taken at Bare Fax around 20 years ago.

With all the fake ads being posted I was a little apprehensive about meeting someone on her first visit to our city but her ad enticed me to find out more about this beauty. From the minute we met all my concerns were erased. Standing before me in her expensive lingerie and 6" heels was a gorgeous tall and slim brunette. She introduced herself and followed that up with a passionate kiss and hug. This lady made me feel like a long lost �����. She explained she was all for conversation but that could wait til later. She allowed me the privilege of exploring her fabulous body and treated me with her amazing skills. Nothing was rushed and we enjoyed a wonderful session followed by some relaxing pillow talk. I almost want to keep this treasure to myself but know we need to make her feel welcome if we want her to come visit us again. Don't miss this beauty on her next visit.

The fake pics are from a lingerie catalogue. It was mentioned months ago. Always check pictures on backpage because so many are fake.

Her name is Tatyana, and she worked briefly at 335 Henderson before they moved. She's a slender redhead in her late thirties, I would say. She works out of a private residence. She is friendly and chatty, and provided a decent massage, I left happy. Her prices are commensurate with those at many other local places. I will probably place her in my rotation and repeat in the future.

It would be unwise to publicly reveal too much detail about this place. It's a private residence on an open corner, and it has a sign in the window saying massage is available. It's been there about six months. There were childrens' shoes in the entryway. Her husband believes it's straight massage that she offers. I wouldn't describe the older lady as "elderly". It's often hard for Caucasians to judge Asian womens' ages, but she might be 50, no more. She's very friendly and speaks only limited English. She giggles a lot during the massage. She's very skilled in all aspects - massage, buildup and finish. She also told me the young lady does only straight massage. There is an ad on the buy and sell board whose name starts with "k". Search for massage.

This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.