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I'm so glad I read this message before my session today! I'm new at this and have only had a couple of experiences, but neither one really were what I was looking for. This thread helped me identify what might be missing and how to identify the right MA to meet that need. I joined CMJ today, and Alura walked me through the options and what not, and I used what I learned here to ask for the kissing and intimacy that I really wanted. I met many beautiful girls but then I met Strawberry and she greeted me with a warm hug and a kiss - so sweet. I asked a couple of other girls their preferences on kissing, but it didn't matter much because Strawberry created such a connection with me in 30 seconds that I chose her with no hesitation, and boy am I glad I did! I didn't lunge in and stick my tongue down her throat of course, but there was lots of kissing and wow - there was lots of kissing and she was so intimate that it was amazing. If you are not sure who to go to, I'd suggest one of the good places like CMJ where they will bring plenty of beautiful girls to meet with you. Based on how they greeted me it was pretty clear who might like that sort of thing. For any I was unsure about I just politely asked how they felt about kissing and they answered plus I got to watch their body language as they did so. It was quite clear. :)

You can stare at your bums they are all very nice. Don't mind I stare also.

Mistress you are a class act. Whenever I hear something underwhelming or critical I take the time to consider the source. Mr. H has only been on here for 2 months - hardly time enough to be happy - and 4 of his 5 posts are on this thread seeking info. I guess I hope he will be gentleman enough to pm you but you shouldn't be disappointed if he doesn't. Best Regards, waterat

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Been PM'ing with a MA that is going Indy and she is the midst of moving. I told her that she will be sore and would probably need a massage, jokingly :) And she replied that it was rare for a client to massage the woman. I was surprised at that, and often I would offer to massage the woman at the beginning of the session or at the end if time allows. Depending on chemistry, I love being able to massage and explore a woman's body. Giving is more fun then receiving. The experience should be about her too :). But some women do not like being massaged I guess? Question to the MA's, do you like being massaged also. I know that some guys may be a bit rough as they do not know how to massage properly. But I have had enough massages that I have been told that I am pretty good. I think I put a couple of the girls to sleep :) I do offer the BFE experience :) Question to the Guy's. Have you offered to give the girl a massage? Are you too shy to ask or you did not know if you could. Would you like to massage the woman. It's nice to be able to massage a woman, rubbing her body with oil and begin able to return the pleasure she gave to you. If you massage her first and she enjoys it. The massage she gives you may be better as she may want to return the favour. What is your opinion on this subject ?

Most of the time I have read reviews and the reviewer had mentioned that the woman was a great kisser. Usually when I go see a new woman I would have communicated with her thru PM or email or twitter. I usually ask if they allow kissing or not. Many women don't kiss and some just love kissing. It is a personal thing with them. It all depends on your hygiene also and chemistry. Many times upon being brought into the room. the woman would usually hug and give a little kiss. A few times the kisses are very passionate. A couple of times, they just brought me to the couch and we would kiss passionately for a few minutes. These are signs that I am going to enjoy myself. But a few times I have dropped in on women that I had no previous contact with and they don't know who I am. I find these sessions sometimes awkward as I am shy and don't like to make the first move. A good sign that they don't kiss is if you try and they turn away or let you kiss their cheek. Several times I've had no kissing during the session, but at the end I asked if they kissed, and they all said that they did, but that they were waiting for me to make the first move. Then they would give me some nice kisses at the end before we left. Several of these girls I have returned for many visits and had great kissing and cuddle sessions with them. So question to you woman? How do you let the man know that you allow or do not allow kissing? Would you perfer not to kiss during the session but will if asked? Or only kiss if you feel some chemistry. Or never kiss at all? Should they guy ask if he can kiss you, or should he pucker his lips and hope you kiss him? lol Guy's Have you gone thru this awkward experience, do you make the first move? or are you too shy to?

Everyone knows that as a Scotsman I love redheads! So when I found out that Daisy had recently gone independent, I jumped at the change to see her. After a bit of chatting back and forth, we managed to sort things out and get together. Since it was later in the evening, we headed out for bite to eat first and then back to my place to enjoy dessert. ;) Daisy is just a fantastic person! The ease of conversation and mutual attraction to one another, led to an absolutely spectacular evening! She's sexy, outgoing, playful, with stunning looks and a wild side that will leave you smiling. :) I'll have her over again without question. I don't participate as much as I used to in the hobby, but Daisy is worth repeating with!

Out of frustration, I am hoping people can clarify to me what in the world is so hard to understand an ad that reads..." bedroom cuddles" !? or NO EXPLCIT LANGUAGE?? For many months now I have been struggling with this and is driving me nuts lol. I am getting questions of ...will we do this *** or will you do that**** My ad is as clear as can be, and now even easier to understand. So are ppl this cloudy in the brain or do they really not know what " visit in my bedroom" means? I also say things such as, NO DETAILS CHOICES ARE DISCUSSED ON TXT... then the next txt is ya, so can we do this****OR EVEN WORSE IS "safe service only" then I still get asked ...ok but can I get **** sigh...I am spending all day long dealing with these types of requests and can not understand how else I can be more clear while remaining in control of my comfort levels. It is starting to make me grouchy with enquiries lol, that's not good for business either lol.

Hi loves , I will start by introducing myself to you .. I am Kimora , passionate, flirtatious and absolutely adorable .. I like white wine, chocolate and of course great company. I also happen to be addicted to Victoria's secrete so I enjoy wearing lingerie all the time. Black laces, stockings and of course everything that makes my gorgeous D cup breast and my voluptuous bubble booty in evidence and what is lingerie without heels .. If you like woman in heels , I am the one for you .. By booking a session with me , you are not just booking an hour of relaxation, you are booking a way to heaven. I am the kind of girl that like to pamper you with love, snuggles and tons of kisses..My soft caramel skin will slide on yours , my freshly manicured nails will tickle you and my perfume will put you to a states of perfect happiness. We will slowly disappear in our world of sensuality and you won't be able to resist . You will want more and I will give you more. My perfect round booty against your chest , your hands massaging my breast mmmmm , how delicious .. My voice whispering on your ear " would you help me to take off my lingerie ?" My session is a perfect mix between a dream and the reality .. You will come back for more. My location Bliss is an upscale discrete location in the west end Ottawa. (Hunt Club/Prince of wales area ) The facilities have two very classy big rooms with natural light and professional massage beds with all we need to fully enjoy our session together. I am using natural / professional oil . We also have a wonderful lounge for the duos or just to sit and talk with a delicious glass of wine, also with a in room shower.. My duo with Alison Close your eyes and imagine two slippery gorgeous babes sliding their soft skin on each other .. Enjoying the moment and creating a bubble of sensuality in a lounge full of candles .. You would be our prey. Our two opposite personality would make the experience even more exciting .. Her delicate touch and my tendency to take control would lead us to an unforgettable encounter.. However, we have to warn you.. Our delicious duo is highly addictive .. You might never want to leave.. My schedule Monday to Friday 9am-5pm *Please book in advance to see me after 5pm or during the weekend)* My personal text line : 613-909-4547 Hope to see you soon .. Lots of love Kimora

Sorry to hear this Sophia. Alas it seems to be quite common now. There are some traveling SPs aren't bothering to come back to the area because of it. Hopefully the clients with a bit of tact outnumber the ones that don't. BTW, to those reading this, there is nothing about Sophia to make one think that you are not going to meet a classy sexy woman. There is a reason why she genuine SP. I am lucky enough to know how she likes her pillows. ;)

Hi Dear! I offer fetish/kink/dom services and would be happy to provide such an experience. Feel free to get in touch! xo Lilith

Greetings, Are you seeking a sumptuous encounter which captures the true essence of sensory relaxation? Please allow me to introduce myself, my name is Erin and I'm your fun loving partner in sensual gratification. I'm gracious in my mannerisms, with a mature demeanor that is instinctively tuned into your desires. Will you take a moment to seek shelter from the day and allow yourself to escape under the care of my warm hands and body? I'm privately located in a quiet location that is perfectly suited to your comfort and discretion. My schedule this week: Wed-Friday: 10:00am-8:00pm. Sat: 10am-1pm. My recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...t=sensual+erin Please feel free to introduce yourself for the rest of my information. I look forward to hearing from you! Yours, Erin xoxo

Ok no offense but damn, I should of gotten myself a job with the government. Must be nice to not answer your phone and to decide not to return a call until it suits you! Lazy bitch!!!!!

I now offer a 80$ basic massage rate. This will allow you and I to meet and you will experience my finnese and quality massage that you've have always wanted to experience! But it also allows you to choose as little as you like or as much! You can choose your add on services before you arrive or we can go with the flow and see where it takes us. I do hope this will be the end of continuous back and forth and play by play, minute by minute enquiry. Now you can feel confident to visit and pay a basic rate, enjoy your massage and we can discuss together how we shall move forward. Here is my Spa add on services. ENTRANCE/MASSAGE RATE: $80.00 PICK ONE OR ALL ADD ON SERVICES: Topless: $20.00 Full Nude: $40.00 ( top and bottom) Hot stones $20.00 Tantric Touch: $40.00 Bedroom Cuddles ( 30 min duration): $100.00 Jacuzzi: 40.00 Each additional 30 min : $60.00 I am hoping this has the versatility to allow everyone with different wants/needs and budgets to enjoy all that I offer! I book Monday to Friday. If you require a Saturday booking you will need to pre arrange it before Thursday and secure it with a small fee via E-transfer. I prefer if you txt me first, then we will voice chat to arrange a time together. SEE YOU SOON! 506 261 7313

I contacted this MA and asked about kissing. She said it's ok but to my surprise once I arrived and the session started she said no tongue. I Was disappointed, I was under impression kissing means tongue use.

It depends. I have to wear one in public because my chest is very large at 40 DD. During encounters I usually wear a chemise that has some kind of support but if I'm at home bumming around, it's yoga pants, white t shirt or tank top sans bra. I once made the mistake of going in my backyard a few years ago to water my flowers in a white tank top without a bra figuring it was the middle of the day and no one was home. I went to water the flowers and the spray for the hose wasn't screwed on tight enough, and of course on a day I happened to be wearing a white tank top. I was soaking wet and see through! The back door was locked so I had to go around to the front. Who was there when I was trying to go back inside? Of course my neighbor who was just getting home from work and he saw everything!! lol I never made that mistake again!

Not to sound too SKETCHY, and maybe I'm the CRAZY one, but due to the terms of use for this forum, I can't comment on my visit with her. Totally unrelated life tip: Always wear protection.

Not sure how to address the "Biggest Baddest" part of your query. I've had some terrific sessions with Ms Roxie Luxxe .... very dominant, very sensual and completely on the same wavelength with regard to my session desires. Although I haven't seen her in a while (my bad), I'd also recommend Regent. I'm pretty sure she could do a good job of setting up almost any kind of scenario you're interested in.

I'd second Hope and Harmony at Brass Club, as well as the new Ren

I've only had a small taste of Roxie Luxxe's dom abilities but I was absolutely blown away. You should see her anyway if you enjoy BBW's because she's gorgeous and provides an incredible massage service, but she's also done professional dom work and could definitely scratch that itch for you.

Felina really gets into her Dom personality and enjoys every minute:spank::whip::whipping:

Roxie Luxxe is very good she has an add on Back Page. She is a sexy BBW...one of the best !! :)

I know that Felina enjoys her dom sessions as do her clients. I am not one to partake in those types of rendezvous but those who have rate her highly.

Kissing is a MAJOR turn on for me when the chemistry is there! I make my heart pound and my "junior" extra stiff. Then I don't want a massage anymore...I want what my raw animal instincts are telling me to do at a genetic level...in essence ensuring the survival of the human race!

Starting out a session with massaging the lady first is a great way to warm up the session, so that we get in the mood too ;), brings good chemistry to the massage atmosphere. Love it!

FWIW she's back in Ktown today. I didn't see her in November, but had my eye on her, at a time when she made a big to-do about her hair now being black while her pix were blond. I had texted her a few days ago asking if she might be back any time soon. I never heard from her, and wouldn't want to suggest I was the reason she's back now. She's back to blond - in her pics anyways. Sad to hear about the 'ho-hum'. She's ripping bloody gorgeous. Still tempted to do some independent research. Just wish she wouldn't show up on a Monday - of all days...

is it worth it? price seems pretty darn good

Hope and Harmony love to kiss at Brass also :) Plus Mia is a great kisser she is now independent.

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Every so often, the planets align, clouds part and birds start singing. That was my experience in a recent session I booked with Princess Velvet and Miss Roxie Luxxe (Dominant Exotic Fetish Kitten), both advertising on Backpage. If these two names ring a bell to you then you know I was after something a bit more exotic and unusual than the conventional fare. I set up the encounter through Miss Roxie (who, in fact, suggested the involvement of Velvet) and ended up experiencing one of the most ������, sensual, passionate sessions of my life. Through a number of emails with Miss Roxie, the session was lovingly and skillfully orchestrated to appeal to my favourite fetish activities. She paid attention to all my requests in surprising detail. The venue was carefully set up to enhance the sensuality of the whole scene. Both of these gorgeous ladies are very experienced in sensual domination and there was never any doubt about who commanded the session as they administered their various, delicious ������ torments. For me, it was an overwhelming experience of letting go, submitting and succumbing to two hours of relentless eroticism and passion. It's almost getting a little too distracting writing down these words as I remember some of the highlights! Of course, there was never any rush to finish and I was offered fruit and refreshments afterward. Not only was I treated to their dominant expertise but also to their lovely personalities. They are truly beautiful on the inside and out. Thanks to both of them for an exceptional time.

Welcome to the Kat's Meow Massage Spa! I am so proud and excited to announce that I now have created a dedicated space for the perfect Gentlemen's private spa get-away! Situated at the lower level of my private home, will give you the sense this space was designed just for us! Newly renovated with all the luxury needed to give you the spa experience you have been searching for, but until now never found! Stepping into my Kat's den, you have your own entrance that opens into a spacious foyer, following through to a beautiful massage room. Using only the highest quality products to ensure a nice a slippery massage that is also great for your skin. Equipment and tools often found in high end spas such as a hot towel warmer to wrap yourself in after your shower. Shower conveniently located in my massage room. From there slink on over to my playroom! This space is cozy, with a quality mattress and bedding that is soft and luxurious! Here is what you may enjoy at the Kat's Meow Massage Spa: Puurrrrfect massage : 45 min session. Making grown men purr with my massage. Long connective strokes down your entire body, deep and yet gentle touch. Head to toe bodyworks. A great way to let go of stresses you have been holding within. Now you can release it with my loving hands. The Kat's Meow Spa Package: a Complete hour to enjoy ourselves! Begin with head to toe bodyworks massage. Introducing our bodies, relaxing and stimulating massage techniques. When you begin to purr, I will bring you to my playroom for warm cuddles and flirty chats. Wildcat fun: 30 min. Skip the massage? Perhaps let that inner animal out and just go by instinct! SPA HOURS: MONDAY TO FRIDAY 10AM-6PM unless otherwise pre-arranged. call or txt 902 456 8694

Guys haven't been fooled into thinking this is the 'norm', this actually is the norm. It changes the dynamic when the sp is afraid she is providing the service to someone (new or regular) who may not pay her. I am not sure how that 'dynamic' is going to be a good thing. An sp who isn't going to provide certain services, isn't going to provide whether you prepay or post pay, and what are you going to do if you don't get what you believe she promised? Not pay the fee you agreed to pay when you made the appointment? Are you going to have her shout and berate you when you decide you aren't going to pay her what she told you was the rate before you made the appointment? Are you prepared for her to follow you out of the building, take down your license plate, and post your name, # and car on the internet because you ripped her off? or are you simply going to pay her the fee in full. And if you are going to do that at the end, why not just do it at the beginning, and get an sp who is not tense and afraid that she is going to be, yet again, ripped off? I wonder how you think you can get away with that, when someone is charging for her time, and you spent the time with her in full lol To me, the only sps who are ripped off are the ones who accept post pay, and the only guys who are going to rip off sps, look specifically for sps who take payment after. One of the worst things any reviewer can do to any sp, especially if she is new, is mention in the review that she takes post payment. The only exception that i find acceptable to sps who do a post payment method are sps who work in a spa, massage parlour, with others, because the client comes in knowing she has backup, the place has security cameras, and so on. I still think it is a bad idea, and mp attendants still get ripped off due to this sort of policy, but at least there is more than one vulnerable sp in the place with a client who has decided to not pay. Additional Comments: Not every business is like this business tho, and for that matter, many estimates from a mechanic, for example, rarely matches what you end up paying even tho the work done is the same work agreed upon lol. It doesn't matter if they take and put away the payment. It doesn't always matter what they said (or texted or emailed) prior to the booking. You are meeting a new sp, and assuming she did the booking, it might not be true, or it might be she doesn't connect you with the questions she answered before. She might be confusing you with the guy who didn't want DFK. So what you do is face to face prior to handing over the money, is go thru that list of things that got you to the door. Most sps in your area have a money for time set up, not a money for specific services set up, so if you get your time, there is no opening to ask for a rebate. If you don't get your time, or there was an extra charge to go from GFE to PSE (which I take from accompanied showers, DFK and toys could be the case), then you could ask for that amount back. If she doesn't upcharge for toy show, then no, there isn't any amount you can ask back because you have not been charged a particular specific fee for that. you see where I am going with this? Communication gets you to the door, but once you are inside that door with a new provider that you don't know how credible her promises were, you just run thru them again face to face minutes before sessions starts. She can't avoid not providing something, if she promises it directly to you, she can't be confused about who she is seeing who was asking to do more, and who asked to do less, for example.

To be honest, this kind of thing is the main reason why I don't tend to request particular things in advance. Yes, there are particular things I like, and I'll definitely go and see someone who I think it likely to provide those things... but I much prefer to let any given encounter play out however it happens to go at the time. And yes, that does mean that I'm not going to tick all of my favourite boxes every time I see someone... but that's OK. If someone's good enough at X, then as far as I'm concerned she can keep me happy without doing Y and Z at all, even though Y and Z are things I generally like. And yes, I'll go back and see her.... again, and again. Unfortunately. If my mechanic left my car in as good shape as SPs leave me, life would be much better...