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A lot of SW type business do things like that- play off that the girls are the products, then turn around and try to cash out on the girls when there's not enough money rolling in. The disrespect... Short term- making money off your girls works in brief increments. Long term- I'd LOVE to see how a strip club or anything of the sort would flourish if they tried to invest IN their girls instead of scamming them out of a billion fees... how much happier the girls would be and in turn how that would affect dancing/clients... how the high turnover may slow down (and again, clients may appreciate that)... etc... But I can't say I'm fond of how strip clubs (or any general body house type deals) treat girls, and especially that stupid black girl rule.

Went to my MMA/Boxing gym at 7:00a.m. as I've been stressed, burning with rage and tension due to my Amazon BS company/supplier delivery screw up. But boy do I feel good and revitalized after a few rounds with a tough dude I always like to go up against and I knocked him on his ass a number of times, all 300+lbs of him. He's a good sport and I refuse to let him go easy on me or he knows i'll **** him up....:twisted: I have a few bruises on my legs but thigh highs will hide them:icon_wink: Mighty Mouse Lexy!!

I'm not sure if many of you know about the particulars of strip clubs but many of them tend to have a Black Girl Rule. A Black Girl Rule is basically the cap they put on how many woman of colour are allowed to work in an establishment. ( usually 5) There is no white Girl Rule and that is made very clear. There's something about this Rule that makes me feel as if we're in the mid 1900's. I had called the club I normally work at and asked if I could come in early ( I start at 6 ) however there is a friend of mine on here that I wanted to see and could make it in at 2:00. I asked if I could come in early and the response was we're full and have no room for black girls. However, a "white girl" does not have to call in as they will never be too full. Why should I feel sad, guilty for being who I am ? It really hit me today. Racism sucks! What are your thoughts on this ? Shouldn't we all be equal? I mean we are in Canada shouldn't I have an equal opportunity to work? Please I'd love to hear your inputs and thoughts on this touchy subject

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Rest assured, the ladies have got this covered. Word gets around.

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So glad I read this thread. I'm new to massage... well this kind of massage. Just did a full hour with an amazing lady (review coming up) Mya at Brass. Wow. As I told her - I'm more interested in her body than mine, and I really enjoyed massaging her. She seemed to appreciate it as well. Gentlemen - book a full hour with these gorgeous ladies so you have time to massage them. Ask them if that is permitted and/or enjoyed by them first of course, and be respectful and gentle, but there is nothing hotter than giving a goddess a relaxing and sensual massage.

I think this term came from necessity. BBW as defined by most of the clothing and advertising industries, starts around a size 12 and goes all the way up. A small BBW would be someone on the 12-16 end of the the range while a SSSBBW would be on the much larger end. The fact that they are using this term to describe most of the "normal" population and treating size 0-4 as "normal" just says how screwed up things are. Too many people get hung up on labels which in and of themselves are fickle. What is small, large, curvy, solid, voluptuous etc to one person, can mean something completely different in another. It's one of those things that requires too much energy to keep up with and even then you'd be wrong.

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That feeling of anticipation as I wait until the end of the day so I can leave for the strip club! Ha ha! Just kidding. I'm leaving now.

Thanks, Lexy. You're a doll.

Venus Envy in Ottawa is SP/Adult Entertainer Friendly, I know that for a fact and I can't see them not taking on or showing interest in your product as we have discussed your product in full detail.;) I haven't looked in to the one here in Halifax to see all they have to offer, besides what I've read on their website and toys but all the Venus Envy stores do hold numerous educational workshops and I'm due to go there next week so I will certainly see what I can find out and the Halifax staff here are so helpful, lovely and non-judgemental at all. Years ago I worked in an Adult Sex Shop so I am far from shy to ask any questions relating to sex, toys and/or products. I'll PM you after I go and re-stock some fun things!:D https://venusenvy.ca/ Hugs, Lexy

You a doctor now are you? That's just something you might want to write down and pin up on your bathroom mirror the next time you get the urge to hand over your prescribed medications to what is essentially a complete stranger. You have no idea if what you give them will cause adverse reactions with anything else they might be doing or abusing, and if something happens to them, you will be 100% responsible. Lock up your meds, and maybe stop doing outcalls. It is never ok to share these kinds of pills with anyone. not to mention the side looks you will get from your doctor when you go in to refill 10 days earlier than you should be. chances are your actions will end up getting you more couch time, or some other kind of investigation. But also, a little help, it is NORMAL to be nervous, especially when you have someone coming over to your own place. Allow yourself to be nervous, it's part of the entire experience, unless of course you are really experiencing severe symptoms. Far better to be straight and sober, in other words, and on your toes. :) the sp is a thief, and is probably lying about being pressured to get more. more likely she used them for herself, and just wants to see if you'll hand them over.

It was Saturday night about 10 pm. I may see if I can return this weekend just to check if she's there and try to get a dance. You definitely would remember if you ever laid eyes on this girl's body, you would pitch a tent.

I believe some people may get excited by the text of what will happen during their time. They may do this with no intention of meeting the SP in some cases I'm sure. On another note Sophia I've seen your add and believe there is not another way you can verse it to make more clear. I understand the annoyance of constant text/emails however mine buzzed several times while tapping this out (different industries but same disturbance). Hang in there Sophia I haven't had a chance to meet you yet since you came to Moncton but hopefully soon. Posted via Mobile Device

Yeah.. Run away from this one as fast as you can.

I now offer a 80$ basic massage rate. This will allow you and I to meet and you will experience my finnese and quality massage that you've have always wanted to experience! But it also allows you to choose as little as you like or as much! You can choose your add on services before you arrive or we can go with the flow and see where it takes us. I do hope this will be the end of continuous back and forth and play by play, minute by minute enquiry. Now you can feel confident to visit and pay a basic rate, enjoy your massage and we can discuss together how we shall move forward. Here is my Spa add on services. ENTRANCE/MASSAGE RATE: $80.00 PICK ONE OR ALL ADD ON SERVICES: Topless: $20.00 Full Nude: $40.00 ( top and bottom) Hot stones $20.00 Tantric Touch: $40.00 Bedroom Cuddles ( 30 min duration): $100.00 Jacuzzi: 40.00 Each additional 30 min : $60.00 I am hoping this has the versatility to allow everyone with different wants/needs and budgets to enjoy all that I offer! I book Monday to Friday. If you require a Saturday booking you will need to pre arrange it before Thursday and secure it with a small fee via E-transfer. I prefer if you txt me first, then we will voice chat to arrange a time together. SEE YOU SOON! 506 261 7313

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A sweet and lovely lady! Just hope that she continues to excel in her tennis career and not follow the footsteps of Anna Kournikova.

wow, taking anything that is not your own is a no-no in this business. There are more bs stories going around about 'I'm being pressured to get more' than I care to think about! Any time a girl takes anything of yours, and if she's on this board, report it to mod. I may go into the bathroom to freshen up as I arrive at a gentlemans home/suite, but never have I ever taken anything that is theirs! If she took those, the likelihood of her taking other things becomes more prevalent. It could escalate to wallets or other significant items you own. When a gentleman comes to my home, I make sure his belongings stay within eyesight of him. If he's taking a shower, I have an area where he can place his belongings in the bathroom just for that purpose. Some girls have and will take things, they are rip-off artists. They will take whatever they can sell on the street to get money. Those are the kind of girls you want to avoid. I am sorry this happened to you, it is so sad that some girls have to resort to that. You should feel safe in your own home. Hopefully you won't feel that way about all girls, we are not all alike.

This is wrong on several levels. I occasional have guests but it has to be after a while to gain trust. I wouldn't let her into your home again, as simply put she's a thief. Your reasoning that she's being pressured to beg for more pills may be an illusion, you aren't responsible for her well being. Also this is called a prescription drug for a reason. The doctor has given you the script for a reason which may not be safe or healthy for another person.

Venus Envy is an awesome sex store that I imagine would welcome your product with open arms :)

I prefer rubenesque or the best is Yiddish zaftig which not just speaks to size but a sexually attractive figure. You, Nicolette would be both.

If someone wastes my time just once , their number is blocked and I won't give them a second chance to waste my time again. They showed their true colours the first time. This is usually with potential new clients. Yes, life happens but a quick text or phone call takes a minute. If it was something serious then if he is a true gentleman, HE should offer to pay for her time wasted. I don't bother getting into it with time wasters who try for a second round because a) you don't know who you're dealing with and b) the waste of energy that it entails being upset about it is time you never get back. The problem with requesting a cancellation fee just gives these time wasters more ammunition to string the SP along and waste her time again. If one considers the source, they showed no regard for the SP and no showed her. Why would they pay a cancellation fee? This may be a good way to get rid of them for the short term but it is also a way for these people to keep the conversation going which is what they want. This is more time an SP won't get back by arguing back and forth as to why they feel shouldn't pay the fee. Two words- block them. While annoying and upsetting as it is, these type of guys at the end of the day just don't care so why should an SP? It's their loss and they shouldn't get a second chance. I've heard many excuses and things do happen in life but it is a case by case basis. If it's a regular and they are doing it more than once, I will talk to them about it and give them a second chance but if they keep cancelling, I will drop them as a client. These type of clients who are already friendly with an SP can be the worst offenders because you have already placed your trust in them but excuse after excuse just isn't believable anymore. Either the person isn't truly making the commitment to see the SP for various reasons or they like the idea of visiting in theory but just don't put it high on the list of their priorities. For me personally, I don't even bother to try and understand. There are many more clients out there who won't waste an SP's time.

Us girls have a lot to risk in putting face pics out there. Yes I can see the appeal but at the end of the day privacy trumps all else. Clients can face issues from showing their face, and I am not discounting that. But clients are not asked constantly by ladies to show their face before meeting. Ladies are the ones constantly scrutinized and pressured. As I wrote this I actually got a text asking for face pics. And my answer is and will always be "no". Some ladies show their face and are very open and that is their choice. Don't hold all of us to that since we all live different lives and have our own reasons for doing or not doing certain things.

Not sure how to address the "Biggest Baddest" part of your query. I've had some terrific sessions with Ms Roxie Luxxe .... very dominant, very sensual and completely on the same wavelength with regard to my session desires. Although I haven't seen her in a while (my bad), I'd also recommend Regent. I'm pretty sure she could do a good job of setting up almost any kind of scenario you're interested in.

Rigorous yoga teacher training means my body has some knots that certainly could be worked out! ;)������

At the very top of the Ottawa Recommendations section there's a 'Read this before posting' from the Mod which references the DNR list.

I think there is a misunderstanding where guys in this hobby think we want to date them and only the good looking ones such as the client #1 would be considered suitable as the ideal man in real life. Sure they were good looking but a few in that category turned out to be full of themselves and trying to score a f**k buddy. If I want that, it won't be with a client. Sometimes I feel as though we can't win either because some men out there have low self esteem and when trying to give them a compliment, I get the "Harhahrhar I bet you say that to all the guys" which I find to be very insulting and clearly makes the SP feel as though she is a bullshitter. Those are the onesie have found in my experience who are more likely to assume that we will only enjoy our job with the likes of client #1 and they have a really skewed outlook of who we spend time with as an SP. Sorry guys but you truly have no idea. Some of the best times I've had weren't with client #1 and there are also nice guys who happen to fall into the category of client #1 but I wouldn't call them an ideal guy I'd date in real life. One can't pin down a "type" because there are s many different combinations when it comes to men. I have so many great special relationships with regular clients and each one of them are nice in their own way. And I repeat, they are not client #1 I say this because most assume we want to be with client #1. A lot of women are not as shallow as you think. Well at least not me anyways. I tend to steer towards men in their early to mid 50's as someone I would consider dating. This leads me to believe that a lot of men I've personally noticed think we're just in it for the money period and if we get young hot men as clients who are well hung then we REALLY enjoy it and that we just put us with those are older or not in shape etc strictly for the money. Sigh..... Sure there are men out there who aren't Adonises but does that mean they're not worth spending time with whether as clients or personally? Does it not mean that they have other desirable qualities that can attribute to a great encounter? Does vanity now equal self worth? No! I'm in no way skinny Barbie myself physically speaking but I do have great clients who do find me very attractive and there is a connection there. They like me for me. They can see beyond someone's physique because it's not the be all or end all. The same applies to clients. I think this thread should be renamed to "Who is Your Dream Guy in Your Personal Life". I don't think you would get the answer to that. Client #1 does not exist in the way one would assume.

I've had it happen and they were told off. Very rare situations indeed but it happens. Usually these type of people have no boundaries and think it's perfectly acceptable to do this for whatever reasons in their mind. Would it be perfectly acceptable for an SP to go to a client's house and randomly ring the doorbell? Or hang around their house outside wondering if they are home? No, of course not. I won't see these people again and they know why. The trust factor is long gone.

tomorrow the club is giving away a 50 inch tv ! you just have to be present and buy a drink for a chance to win ! I hope to see a few of you there! Its also friday lunch mmm mmm !

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Meg. Here's the thing, even if I came to work on time everyday and created a schedule to work and built regulars do you not understand that if there is 5 of me then the 6th one would be left out? I will not always be the 3rd girl to call and make a schedule or the 4 th... sometimes I will be the 6th and therefore not be able to work. Do you get how that is unfair ? I started this post because I was scheduled and wanted to see a regular earlier than my start time. Which no offence Megan is something you would be able to do even though I cannot. -Chrissy.

Yes my comment was expresses awkwardly On a more positive note , why not taking advantage of that terrible rule for yoyrself? Establish a schedule where YOU are always in to build your regulars , so you re not left out having to ask to work . A girl that shows up on time on schedule and shows she is serious will have more privileges, use it ! I would be rich if there was a "white girl cap" thats for sure. Its a BIG advantage for you , use it ! clubs memtality are different than normal business, take advantage of what others see as a disadvantage

Thanks guys ! My website is " on the way " , i opted for a discreet design instead of something your wife could find "suspicious" I like the language idea im bilingual The blog ( one a week or so ) I like that you don't need to see my face, but if requested by a well known member HERE i don't mind I think the real strippers are dying and i want to keep this rare breed alive ( the real showgirls , costumes, glamour, the rare ones who make as much money as lawyers) I hope lots of girls will follow my lead , i am one of the veterans dancers at barbs as you call them .

hi gents I am Megan a dancer at Barbarella`s !

Like most gents here, I am a member of the kissing club. I can just kiss any girl for a straight 3 hours and could predict her future life. All I need in the process, is a glass of mild honey with a few drops of Bulgarian rose oil. Yes, I am a bad boy who will ruin her life. I think kissing plays the core part and a common type of communication between the two during a session, regardless different types of language you may speak. And kissing is a catalyst to develop intimacy, feeling, trust, etc almost instantly, mostly critical for the first encounter. And for a lady, this could be your magical spell to have more returning clients. I couldn't agree more that personal hygiene, sex appeal, personality, good vibes, chemistry and personal boundary/principle could be the main factors as well. If you think you "deserve" to be kissed and have fulfilled a standard criteria, asking is always the best policy! Expect the rejection, accept it positively if it were to happen and enjoy the rest of the session the best you can.

While I have not visited CMJ for a few months, I found the primary differences to be the following: At the Brass Club, I am always greeting by a smiling lovely who offers refreshment and pleasant conversation while preparations are made for me. From internet chatter, it seems CMJ is renovating but The Brass Club is newly decorated, stem to stern, and well furnished. I may not be in the majority but I have no compunction about meeting people at a spa, so I appreciate the discretion shown without feeling like a ten year old hiding in a closet. I have never bumped into anyone mainly through the vigilance of my hostesses, but I never feel like an ugly secret either.

I've been going to CMJ for years now. More the CMJEast now as I live in the east end. But I had gone the CMJ southend one quite a few times. But traffic at lunch is pretty bad. Brass Club is only 5 minutes from me. So I have recently started going there now as it is easier to get to. Brass Club is brand new and has a bar and serves food also. Great girls that have been hand picked and trained by the famouse Jessica :) They are all great clubs, run by great management. I have favourites at both clubs. So it depends on who I want to see. You can't lose wherever you go :)

I can't really compare the different clubs since I have only been to Brass but I can certainly give my perspective on my experiences there. I first started hearing about Brass in the forums over the summer. Intrigued, I decided to stop in one lunch hour and sign up for a membership. The process couldn't have been easier. Fill out the paperwork which covers discretion, security, and expectations, and pay the membership fees in cash so there is no transaction record. I was met by the lovely and infamous Jessica who was sweet, warm, and welcoming on that first occasion and every visit since. She put me at ease, made me feel comfortable, and treated me as if I was the most important person in the club. The facilities are top-notch. You arrive at a discreet, unmarked building, conveniently located in the heart of Ottawa, and can access the club on the top floor by either private elevator or a secondary staircase. The club receptionist may guide you to choose one or the other to ensure of the privacy of other members. Once you enter the club, you are immediately aware of the upscale facilities. There is a lounge area with a comfortable seating and a licensed bar, and food service is also available in case you need sustenance to fuel the activities to come. The most difficult part of the whole experience may be choosing the lovely lady to attend to your massage. Jessica has assembled a wonderful team of ladies to suit most every taste. In fact, it's hard to keep up because there seem to be more beautiful new girls almost weekly. Once you are escorted to your room of choice, you will immediately notice the high-end shower facilities that you will soon be sharing with one of the Brass beauties. Each room is well-appointed with shower, massage table and mirrors. The Brass VIP suite also includes a sofa to cuddle up on and a king-size bed where playtime can easily accommodate multiple participants. From my perspective, you can't go wrong by choosing to visit Brass Club. The difficulty I have, is choosing between repeat visits with the wonderful girls I have already seen, or sampling the rest of the roster of beauties available on any given night. Whatever you choose, I'm sure you will enjoy yourself at Brass Club!

To me, not much. They are both great establishments with great management teams and an all-around fun time. The only difference is that one is downtown and the other is in the west (with a second location in the east). Each one does a good job in serving its' own area of town.

Some asked how do you find out if she allows kissing or not, I try this from the movie Hitch, I go 90% of the way and let her come the last 10%, if she does not go then I know there is no kissing. Here is the scene from the movie if you never seen it Is it fair to say that if she advertise GFE that kissing will be allowed, I would say yes.

I'm sorry but if I were to schedule an appointment with a lady, and had to miss that appointment due to "my" unforseen circumstances I would expect to compensate that lady for her time regardless. Most businesses have cancellation polices in place; which can be up to the full rate for the service with cancellations made in less than 24 hrs of the scheduled appointment. For example, when one of my clients schedules me to go to the project site; I go to the project site to find out that they are not prepared for my visit and leave, they still receive an invoice for my time and will subsequently pay for a second visit to the project site.

Escorting is a business, maybe specific one but still business. And pretty standard business rules should be applied. If some client wants to book again after "no show", he must pay some reimbursement for that, let say 50% or more (???) extra. I think it would be fare. If "no show" second time, he should be blocked and included in the any possible black list. Just my opinion.

This is absolutely true, but... most of the ladies I've met in this industry have agreed to see me without having seen any picture of me at all, never mind a face pic (full disclosure: I don't look like my avatar). Given this, I'm hardly in a position to complain if they choose to retain some vestige of anonymity. As you said, this is a harsh industry.

I think if we were being totally honest both ladies and guys would prefer to see the face of someone that are going to meet... I don't think it's only about seeing how attractive the person is because like others have said I think you can tell a lot about a person by seeing their face... the eyes and facial expression are the most expressive part of a person. All that said I have come to clearly understand over the last few years just how hard and mean this industry can be... I know ladies who have gone through horrendous situations in their lives because some asshole decides to ruin their life or the lives of of loved ones.... because of this I Have no expectations about any lady using her face picture as I understand exactly how risky that can be... as clients we need to be respectful of the balance ladies have to make between their personal an business lives and frankly until society stops making moral judgments on this industry we need to just accept how the lady wants to present herself. Just my Opinion

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