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A lot of SW type business do things like that- play off that the girls are the products, then turn around and try to cash out on the girls when there's not enough money rolling in. The disrespect... Short term- making money off your girls works in brief increments. Long term- I'd LOVE to see how a strip club or anything of the sort would flourish if they tried to invest IN their girls instead of scamming them out of a billion fees... how much happier the girls would be and in turn how that would affect dancing/clients... how the high turnover may slow down (and again, clients may appreciate that)... etc... But I can't say I'm fond of how strip clubs (or any general body house type deals) treat girls, and especially that stupid black girl rule.

Went to my MMA/Boxing gym at 7:00a.m. as I've been stressed, burning with rage and tension due to my Amazon BS company/supplier delivery screw up. But boy do I feel good and revitalized after a few rounds with a tough dude I always like to go up against and I knocked him on his ass a number of times, all 300+lbs of him. He's a good sport and I refuse to let him go easy on me or he knows i'll **** him up....:twisted: I have a few bruises on my legs but thigh highs will hide them:icon_wink: Mighty Mouse Lexy!!

I'm not sure if many of you know about the particulars of strip clubs but many of them tend to have a Black Girl Rule. A Black Girl Rule is basically the cap they put on how many woman of colour are allowed to work in an establishment. ( usually 5) There is no white Girl Rule and that is made very clear. There's something about this Rule that makes me feel as if we're in the mid 1900's. I had called the club I normally work at and asked if I could come in early ( I start at 6 ) however there is a friend of mine on here that I wanted to see and could make it in at 2:00. I asked if I could come in early and the response was we're full and have no room for black girls. However, a "white girl" does not have to call in as they will never be too full. Why should I feel sad, guilty for being who I am ? It really hit me today. Racism sucks! What are your thoughts on this ? Shouldn't we all be equal? I mean we are in Canada shouldn't I have an equal opportunity to work? Please I'd love to hear your inputs and thoughts on this touchy subject

http://newbrunswick.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/freddy-available-now-%D0%B3%CF%85n-%D1%95wee%D1%82-and-%D1%95e%D1%85y-%D0%B2%CF%85%D1%95%D1%82%D1%83-%D0%B2%D1%94%CE%B1%CF%85%D1%82%D1%83-s%CF%89%C9%9B/2273307 Not her in photos; not 128 lbs.

Rest assured, the ladies have got this covered. Word gets around.

Hey guys my name is Lexis I stand 5'6 140lbs b 34 26 38 long blonde hair blue eyes soft tanned skin i aim to please my skills will leave you breathless I'm a breath of fresh air to book a session with me call Paradise Spa 613 8208887 for more info txt 647 491 6136 ill be waiting for you in one of my sexxxy outfits xoxoxoxox

So glad I read this thread. I'm new to massage... well this kind of massage. Just did a full hour with an amazing lady (review coming up) Mya at Brass. Wow. As I told her - I'm more interested in her body than mine, and I really enjoyed massaging her. She seemed to appreciate it as well. Gentlemen - book a full hour with these gorgeous ladies so you have time to massage them. Ask them if that is permitted and/or enjoyed by them first of course, and be respectful and gentle, but there is nothing hotter than giving a goddess a relaxing and sensual massage.

I think this term came from necessity. BBW as defined by most of the clothing and advertising industries, starts around a size 12 and goes all the way up. A small BBW would be someone on the 12-16 end of the the range while a SSSBBW would be on the much larger end. The fact that they are using this term to describe most of the "normal" population and treating size 0-4 as "normal" just says how screwed up things are. Too many people get hung up on labels which in and of themselves are fickle. What is small, large, curvy, solid, voluptuous etc to one person, can mean something completely different in another. It's one of those things that requires too much energy to keep up with and even then you'd be wrong.

NEWS CENSORS: We have removed the censors from the site, this does not mean you can advertise sexual services as the law still is the same however words will not be censored by mistake this way. Nudity in Photos: We are going to allow nude photos that are tastefully done, no porn, no sexual acts and no closeup genital shops please. Post Titles: We are going to be a little less strict on the post titles. A word or two in capital letters will be overlooked but please do not post in the style of CL or BP it is just junky looking.

My Sweet Lord, I love MeganDancer so much. A truly professional, career dancer. Her game is strong. Her physical charms are many, and I will list some of them for you here: - petite - beautiful round face with very edible ears and neck - nicely enhanced breasts with pronounced and thick nipples - lovely, medium length, dark hair that she pulls out of the way for the dance - her ass is on fleek - not too thin, but definitely not chunky (Goldilocks zone) - nicely trim and in terrific, athletic shape - very flexible In the champagne room, she is small enough to curl up in my lap and give a good show. She is just a pleasant woman to have spinning on me like a top. Her perfume is very mild and doesn't stick to me like some others I've experienced. That's very important to me. Yes, I've given her the sniff test before taking a tour in the back room. When I give her a hug, she hugs me right back. Hard. The first time we met, we took to each other easily and fell into chatting like old friends. She is very approachable, if she hasn't gotten to you first. She loves to wear expensive and classy outfits. That's not a bad thing. It shows pride in her work and that she is willing to invest in the tools of her trade. Her choices are always amazing, and her purposeful look as she struts around the club is as much a turn on as her fantastic body. She is confident, like a lioness and I am her prey. This woman is the entire package. I wish ... but, no. I'll live with her being my fantasy. [emoji7]

Out of frustration, I am hoping people can clarify to me what in the world is so hard to understand an ad that reads..." bedroom cuddles" !? or NO EXPLCIT LANGUAGE?? For many months now I have been struggling with this and is driving me nuts lol. I am getting questions of ...will we do this *** or will you do that**** My ad is as clear as can be, and now even easier to understand. So are ppl this cloudy in the brain or do they really not know what " visit in my bedroom" means? I also say things such as, NO DETAILS CHOICES ARE DISCUSSED ON TXT... then the next txt is ya, so can we do this****OR EVEN WORSE IS "safe service only" then I still get asked ...ok but can I get **** sigh...I am spending all day long dealing with these types of requests and can not understand how else I can be more clear while remaining in control of my comfort levels. It is starting to make me grouchy with enquiries lol, that's not good for business either lol.

Same girl I posted about before using different names, pics and Numbers all the time. But before sh always hosted in bedford. This time was no different (except ad stated halifax instead of bedford) as she had a new ad up with more new pics and a new name. Sucked me into showing up at her "hotel" near the commons, open the door and We just looked at each other. I said, why don't you just use the sam pics (real pics) and number, and she said annoyingly" well you got to keep changing them". Anyway like the other 3 times I just left. If I found the original lyla post about my previous experiences I'll paste a link her but for now here is her current fake ad! http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/?layout=gallery Additional Comments: Oh, her is the original thread

I now offer a 80$ basic massage rate. This will allow you and I to meet and you will experience my finnese and quality massage that you've have always wanted to experience! But it also allows you to choose as little as you like or as much! You can choose your add on services before you arrive or we can go with the flow and see where it takes us. I do hope this will be the end of continuous back and forth and play by play, minute by minute enquiry. Now you can feel confident to visit and pay a basic rate, enjoy your massage and we can discuss together how we shall move forward. Here is my Spa add on services. ENTRANCE/MASSAGE RATE: $80.00 PICK ONE OR ALL ADD ON SERVICES: Topless: $20.00 Full Nude: $40.00 ( top and bottom) Hot stones $20.00 Tantric Touch: $40.00 Bedroom Cuddles ( 30 min duration): $100.00 Bubble bath $30.00 Each additional 30 min : $60.00 I am hoping this has the versatility to allow everyone with different wants/needs and budgets to enjoy all that I offer! ****INTERACTIVE DUO'S AVAILABLE WITH A RED HEAD LEGEND**** ****30/30 MASSAGE DUO COMBO***** I arrive Tuesday evening, booking Wednesday to Friday. 506 261 7313

Venus Envy in Ottawa is SP/Adult Entertainer Friendly, I know that for a fact and I can't see them not taking on or showing interest in your product as we have discussed your product in full detail.;) I haven't looked in to the one here in Halifax to see all they have to offer, besides what I've read on their website and toys but all the Venus Envy stores do hold numerous educational workshops and I'm due to go there next week so I will certainly see what I can find out and the Halifax staff here are so helpful, lovely and non-judgemental at all. Years ago I worked in an Adult Sex Shop so I am far from shy to ask any questions relating to sex, toys and/or products. I'll PM you after I go and re-stock some fun things!:D https://venusenvy.ca/ Hugs, Lexy

You a doctor now are you? That's just something you might want to write down and pin up on your bathroom mirror the next time you get the urge to hand over your prescribed medications to what is essentially a complete stranger. You have no idea if what you give them will cause adverse reactions with anything else they might be doing or abusing, and if something happens to them, you will be 100% responsible. Lock up your meds, and maybe stop doing outcalls. It is never ok to share these kinds of pills with anyone. not to mention the side looks you will get from your doctor when you go in to refill 10 days earlier than you should be. chances are your actions will end up getting you more couch time, or some other kind of investigation. But also, a little help, it is NORMAL to be nervous, especially when you have someone coming over to your own place. Allow yourself to be nervous, it's part of the entire experience, unless of course you are really experiencing severe symptoms. Far better to be straight and sober, in other words, and on your toes. :) the sp is a thief, and is probably lying about being pressured to get more. more likely she used them for herself, and just wants to see if you'll hand them over.

Well this is refreshing to know! I have has some boozoos who obvisouly were jokers trying to say my ads are never clear....or saying too much for 40+ lmao. Fools. I will keep eyes forward and push through. Thanks again:)

I believe some people may get excited by the text of what will happen during their time. They may do this with no intention of meeting the SP in some cases I'm sure. On another note Sophia I've seen your add and believe there is not another way you can verse it to make more clear. I understand the annoyance of constant text/emails however mine buzzed several times while tapping this out (different industries but same disturbance). Hang in there Sophia I haven't had a chance to meet you yet since you came to Moncton but hopefully soon. Posted via Mobile Device

Sorry to hear this Sophia. Alas it seems to be quite common now. There are some traveling SPs aren't bothering to come back to the area because of it. Hopefully the clients with a bit of tact outnumber the ones that don't. BTW, to those reading this, there is nothing about Sophia to make one think that you are not going to meet a classy sexy woman. There is a reason why she genuine SP. I am lucky enough to know how she likes her pillows. ;)

I now offer a 80$ basic massage rate. This will allow you and I to meet and you will experience my finnese and quality massage that you've have always wanted to experience! But it also allows you to choose as little as you like or as much! You can choose your add on services before you arrive or we can go with the flow and see where it takes us. I do hope this will be the end of continuous back and forth and play by play, minute by minute enquiry. Now you can feel confident to visit and pay a basic rate, enjoy your massage and we can discuss together how we shall move forward. Here is my Spa add on services. ENTRANCE/MASSAGE RATE: $80.00 PICK ONE OR ALL ADD ON SERVICES: Topless: $20.00 Full Nude: $40.00 ( top and bottom) Hot stones $20.00 Tantric Touch: $40.00 Bedroom Cuddles ( 30 min duration): $100.00 Jacuzzi: 40.00 Each additional 30 min : $60.00 I am hoping this has the versatility to allow everyone with different wants/needs and budgets to enjoy all that I offer! I book Monday to Friday. If you require a Saturday booking you will need to pre arrange it before Thursday and secure it with a small fee via E-transfer. I prefer if you txt me first, then we will voice chat to arrange a time together. SEE YOU SOON! 506 261 7313

Hey I'm Jessica... New to Saint John but here for awhile... Will be planning a visit to Moncton soon as well, where I worked last year under the alias, Julia. Looking forward to hearing from you all... Xoxo 5068013221

Everyone has their different levels of boundaries and what they're willing to put up with but the fact that she stole and then lied...if I were a client, that would be enough for me to not have any more contact with that person. It's a learning lesson as we've all dealt with this at some point or another in the industry when someone betrays our trust. I think if you decide to have an outcall in the future where the SP comes to you, make sure all valuables or medications are nowhere in sight. When people come to visit me, I do not leave anything lying around that is personal such as my purse or anything that is valuable. It's like a hotel room. By doing so, you don't give them the opportunity. I also have a separate bathroom just for them as my bathroom is for my own personal use. I also agree with Raven and always tell gentlemen to bring their belongings with them when they take a shower. This way everyone feels safe and content. You need to do the same thing when someone visits you. Also never give them the chance to alone and be able to wander in your home. It's people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

A sweet and lovely lady! Just hope that she continues to excel in her tennis career and not follow the footsteps of Anna Kournikova.

This is wrong on several levels. I occasional have guests but it has to be after a while to gain trust. I wouldn't let her into your home again, as simply put she's a thief. Your reasoning that she's being pressured to beg for more pills may be an illusion, you aren't responsible for her well being. Also this is called a prescription drug for a reason. The doctor has given you the script for a reason which may not be safe or healthy for another person.

Venus Envy is an awesome sex store that I imagine would welcome your product with open arms :)

Welcome Victoria, you will love this site :-) There is a lot of informative information here, and a lot of witty fun. Best tip I could possibly offer is to never sell yourself short. Just because you may be 'new' to this,don't let that set your rates. Read other girls ads, check out websites and get a feel for what you are worth. Inquiries are great, but set standards as to how you want gentlemen to communicate with you. Whether that be calling, text, PM or email, you have the right to communicate in a fashion that works for you. Don't ever feel 'pushed' into receiving someone just because they asked to see you. Giving out location is the last thing that is given to any potential gentleman. I give them a general area that I am in, but not the actual address. I use a confirmation communication about 30 minutes before any said encounter, that way if there is any change, you are not out any of your time. No shows with/without communicating to you will happen. It happens to all of us. Don't let it get you down, no appointment is actually set until the gentleman shows up. Do not tolerate lateness, it doesn't give a gentleman the right to extend his time with you. You are ready, he was not, if they are 15 minutes late without letting you know they are running late on a one hour appointment, then they are cutting into their own time with you. You can set what you feel is a reasonable length of time to be 'late', but be consistent. Your time is just as valuable as a gentlemans, most of us girls have cancellation policies, just as other professionals have. If someone chooses to see me then doesn't show up, no call to let me know that, then they are still responsible for the time that I set aside for them. Don't let anyone 'bargain' with you, it is not tolerated on this site and to ask for a reduction is against the rules on here, the gentlemen already know that. :-) There is no such thing as a 'first time' special. If I had a nickel for every time I heard that it was someones 'first time doing this' I would be rich beyond belief lol. Consider what your time is worth, and remember that you are worth every penny. Set your rates as to what you feel that time is worth and stick to it. If you ever need to chat, feel free to PM me when I am on, there is no such thing as a stupid question, we have all been there. Welcome and have fun :-)

I tried t book a date.. got the following reply. When I declined she started telling me that I don't have a clue how things work... Candy Playboy <[email protected]> Feb 15 (2 days ago) ok now just need to know what kind of car you drive and the color please because im going to have to get in to get your donation from you i dont like to ask for it if you can just have it all in an envelop please i will bring my cell phone and purse to leave with you beacause my friend wants me to just give it to her takes me only like 2 mins tops not even she doesnt meet you and you dont meet her its very discreet shes actually mybabysitter to and will be doing that while i make calls at her place which it will only be me and you no worries

So I can resume using the (apparently highly offensive) word "circumstance"?

Us girls have a lot to risk in putting face pics out there. Yes I can see the appeal but at the end of the day privacy trumps all else. Clients can face issues from showing their face, and I am not discounting that. But clients are not asked constantly by ladies to show their face before meeting. Ladies are the ones constantly scrutinized and pressured. As I wrote this I actually got a text asking for face pics. And my answer is and will always be "no". Some ladies show their face and are very open and that is their choice. Don't hold all of us to that since we all live different lives and have our own reasons for doing or not doing certain things.

Rigorous yoga teacher training means my body has some knots that certainly could be worked out! ;)������

I think there is a misunderstanding where guys in this hobby think we want to date them and only the good looking ones such as the client #1 would be considered suitable as the ideal man in real life. Sure they were good looking but a few in that category turned out to be full of themselves and trying to score a f**k buddy. If I want that, it won't be with a client. Sometimes I feel as though we can't win either because some men out there have low self esteem and when trying to give them a compliment, I get the "Harhahrhar I bet you say that to all the guys" which I find to be very insulting and clearly makes the SP feel as though she is a bullshitter. Those are the onesie have found in my experience who are more likely to assume that we will only enjoy our job with the likes of client #1 and they have a really skewed outlook of who we spend time with as an SP. Sorry guys but you truly have no idea. Some of the best times I've had weren't with client #1 and there are also nice guys who happen to fall into the category of client #1 but I wouldn't call them an ideal guy I'd date in real life. One can't pin down a "type" because there are s many different combinations when it comes to men. I have so many great special relationships with regular clients and each one of them are nice in their own way. And I repeat, they are not client #1 I say this because most assume we want to be with client #1. A lot of women are not as shallow as you think. Well at least not me anyways. I tend to steer towards men in their early to mid 50's as someone I would consider dating. This leads me to believe that a lot of men I've personally noticed think we're just in it for the money period and if we get young hot men as clients who are well hung then we REALLY enjoy it and that we just put us with those are older or not in shape etc strictly for the money. Sigh..... Sure there are men out there who aren't Adonises but does that mean they're not worth spending time with whether as clients or personally? Does it not mean that they have other desirable qualities that can attribute to a great encounter? Does vanity now equal self worth? No! I'm in no way skinny Barbie myself physically speaking but I do have great clients who do find me very attractive and there is a connection there. They like me for me. They can see beyond someone's physique because it's not the be all or end all. The same applies to clients. I think this thread should be renamed to "Who is Your Dream Guy in Your Personal Life". I don't think you would get the answer to that. Client #1 does not exist in the way one would assume.

Lexy I have had someone do that to me yearss ago and I was so pissed off, my family was actually at my house luckily I answered the door but holy did I tell him about himself, I never heard from him again That is defiantly a big No No for me as well...omg!

I get tipped every now and then of course i like it , but ill never ask I'm suprised too , as a dancer i want my friends to come back , not to be broke

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Chrissy here. Missed you guys. There's some pockets I plan on emptying tonight, any takers? I'll be at barbs for 6 o clock everyday until Sunday. I wanna meet all you guys, so here is the deal. If we've never met and you mention ChrissyBaby from Lyla for every 4 dances I will give you the 5th one free. Just an incentive to meet you guys. The offer is open all week. -Chrissy

Thanks guys ! My website is " on the way " , i opted for a discreet design instead of something your wife could find "suspicious" I like the language idea im bilingual The blog ( one a week or so ) I like that you don't need to see my face, but if requested by a well known member HERE i don't mind I think the real strippers are dying and i want to keep this rare breed alive ( the real showgirls , costumes, glamour, the rare ones who make as much money as lawyers) I hope lots of girls will follow my lead , i am one of the veterans dancers at barbs as you call them .

I must admit I've never been to CMJ. That said, I unreservedly give two thumbs up to Brass Club in terms of location (10/10), facilities (10/10), management (10/10) and of course the awesome ladies (11/10)!

While I have not visited CMJ for a few months, I found the primary differences to be the following: At the Brass Club, I am always greeting by a smiling lovely who offers refreshment and pleasant conversation while preparations are made for me. From internet chatter, it seems CMJ is renovating but The Brass Club is newly decorated, stem to stern, and well furnished. I may not be in the majority but I have no compunction about meeting people at a spa, so I appreciate the discretion shown without feeling like a ten year old hiding in a closet. I have never bumped into anyone mainly through the vigilance of my hostesses, but I never feel like an ugly secret either.

I've been going to CMJ for years now. More the CMJEast now as I live in the east end. But I had gone the CMJ southend one quite a few times. But traffic at lunch is pretty bad. Brass Club is only 5 minutes from me. So I have recently started going there now as it is easier to get to. Brass Club is brand new and has a bar and serves food also. Great girls that have been hand picked and trained by the famouse Jessica :) They are all great clubs, run by great management. I have favourites at both clubs. So it depends on who I want to see. You can't lose wherever you go :)

Isn't the choosing the best part of the fun? It's like wine or chocolate... need to try them all, multiple times if needed, to make sure your favorite really is your best? Mmmm...:icon_mrgreen:

I can't really compare the different clubs since I have only been to Brass but I can certainly give my perspective on my experiences there. I first started hearing about Brass in the forums over the summer. Intrigued, I decided to stop in one lunch hour and sign up for a membership. The process couldn't have been easier. Fill out the paperwork which covers discretion, security, and expectations, and pay the membership fees in cash so there is no transaction record. I was met by the lovely and infamous Jessica who was sweet, warm, and welcoming on that first occasion and every visit since. She put me at ease, made me feel comfortable, and treated me as if I was the most important person in the club. The facilities are top-notch. You arrive at a discreet, unmarked building, conveniently located in the heart of Ottawa, and can access the club on the top floor by either private elevator or a secondary staircase. The club receptionist may guide you to choose one or the other to ensure of the privacy of other members. Once you enter the club, you are immediately aware of the upscale facilities. There is a lounge area with a comfortable seating and a licensed bar, and food service is also available in case you need sustenance to fuel the activities to come. The most difficult part of the whole experience may be choosing the lovely lady to attend to your massage. Jessica has assembled a wonderful team of ladies to suit most every taste. In fact, it's hard to keep up because there seem to be more beautiful new girls almost weekly. Once you are escorted to your room of choice, you will immediately notice the high-end shower facilities that you will soon be sharing with one of the Brass beauties. Each room is well-appointed with shower, massage table and mirrors. The Brass VIP suite also includes a sofa to cuddle up on and a king-size bed where playtime can easily accommodate multiple participants. From my perspective, you can't go wrong by choosing to visit Brass Club. The difficulty I have, is choosing between repeat visits with the wonderful girls I have already seen, or sampling the rest of the roster of beauties available on any given night. Whatever you choose, I'm sure you will enjoy yourself at Brass Club!

To me, not much. They are both great establishments with great management teams and an all-around fun time. The only difference is that one is downtown and the other is in the west (with a second location in the east). Each one does a good job in serving its' own area of town.

Some asked how do you find out if she allows kissing or not, I try this from the movie Hitch, I go 90% of the way and let her come the last 10%, if she does not go then I know there is no kissing. Here is the scene from the movie if you never seen it Is it fair to say that if she advertise GFE that kissing will be allowed, I would say yes.

I love kissing but because I advertise primarily massage, the kissing activities are kept for those I have built a rapport with in my companionship services. I have noticed a trend where men I have met for massage tend to set boundaries with intimacy..many aren't that comfortable with those activities so I prefer to build a rapport with people first and then if it happens, it happens. But I do love kissing....

I know this has been covered, but without kissing, what's really the point of all the rest. For me, this hobby is about intimacy. I realize that this is precisely why some providers would prefer not to kiss, but for me it really is crucial. Without it, no matter how great everything else might be, I'll be disappointed with the session. It doesn't rule out a repeat, as I've found with some providers kissing gets better over time, but it definitely makes it less likely.

Escorting is a business, maybe specific one but still business. And pretty standard business rules should be applied. If some client wants to book again after "no show", he must pay some reimbursement for that, let say 50% or more (???) extra. I think it would be fare. If "no show" second time, he should be blocked and included in the any possible black list. Just my opinion.

This is absolutely true, but... most of the ladies I've met in this industry have agreed to see me without having seen any picture of me at all, never mind a face pic (full disclosure: I don't look like my avatar). Given this, I'm hardly in a position to complain if they choose to retain some vestige of anonymity. As you said, this is a harsh industry.

I think if we were being totally honest both ladies and guys would prefer to see the face of someone that are going to meet... I don't think it's only about seeing how attractive the person is because like others have said I think you can tell a lot about a person by seeing their face... the eyes and facial expression are the most expressive part of a person. All that said I have come to clearly understand over the last few years just how hard and mean this industry can be... I know ladies who have gone through horrendous situations in their lives because some asshole decides to ruin their life or the lives of of loved ones.... because of this I Have no expectations about any lady using her face picture as I understand exactly how risky that can be... as clients we need to be respectful of the balance ladies have to make between their personal an business lives and frankly until society stops making moral judgments on this industry we need to just accept how the lady wants to present herself. Just my Opinion