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I personally believe that both of you must have developed a very precious and close client-provider relationship. To put an end to everything overnight could be a waste of your invested time and $$. I would say, give her one more chance! See her again and set your appointment during the most perfect time. If I were you, I will choose a rainy day when most of the business would be quiet! Set your mind empty, don't reiterate what had happened in the past and treat her as usual or better if you like. Be upfront about the unscented oil since this concerns you a lot. Keep it only to yourself that this session will determine whether or not you are going to see her again! If your budget and time aren't the issue, I suggest that you book her 2 hours to have an ample time for both of you. Especially if she realized the mistakes she'd made in the past and if she still appreciates you as a regular, I personally believe some "magical things" could happen. Like you, I am sensitive, shy person and I don't like confrontation either. I personally feel that some things are better left unsaid and see if situation gets better. All in all, during the session you judge her yourself and you shall have the answer. Best of luck! I would like to dedicate this song to you and your lady and wish that everything will be just fine: Neil Sedaka - Laughter In The Rain :

I learned from my good and bad experience over years that when you become loyal regular client it can develop in two directions. First one: Lady likes you to be regular client. She gives you small signs of appreciation like remembering all your requests and habits, booking at convenient for you time (sometimes even reserving this time for you), never moving your appointment, never booking other client close before or after you, etc... Second way: Girl considers you to be "close person", sort of "friend" who will understand if she is not ready on time, or if she moves your appointment at last minutes, or if she has to book someone very close to you. You have proved your loyalty and that you like her already. You are supposed to be happy to help her keep her business running by accepting some inconveniences on your side. Both approaches have the right to exist, it depends on provider's personality. And it looks like the second approach is OP's case. But this is just disrespect of both clients. I would not come back again in such a situation.(IMHO)

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I too have seen someone a half dozen times over the last two years. Nine days ago I left after visiting her and for the first time, I didn't feel as though it was a wonderful session. After speaking about it with someone who has more experience than me, he assured me that these things will occur from time to time. That it is not completely abnormal. Yes, to answer a question, you should speak about it with her. Seeing how she responds to your conversation will help you determine if you want to see her again. Reiterating things you don't want during your sessions is not impolite. There too, seeing how she responds will help you in making a decision. If you have had many good visits, why not put in a little bit of time and effort in trying to ensure that you can have more of them before moving on to someone else without even trying. I decided to not let one unpleasent experience stop me from seeing my provider ever again. I hope yours can really listen and hopefully provide you with more great sessions like you have already had. Good luck!

I saw her today. Bait and switch. Smaller and stocky, but nice. In and out in 15 minutes. Price right for the service.

I've been talking with this beautiful lady on twitter for a couple of months waiting for her to come to Ottawa when her trip could match with my schedule and finally yesterday we got together. I got to her very nice locations and when she open the door my jaw drop to the floor. if you think she looks hot on her pics on here and her website, wait till you see Janeway in person. she greeted me with some sensual kissing like we were long lost lovers, and damn Jane is a great kisser. I don't like to go in to much graphic details but I will say this about my captain(if you are a trekkie you will get this), she is like your girlfriend with a naughty side. She loves what she does and it shows. Nothing fake about her. My experience with Miss Janeway is among the best I've experience, I know I said that about my last experience also. the last one was with Jane's good friend and Ottawa local Jezebel Valentine, these two are among my all time best. Now all I need is two book a duo with these two, this would be heaven on earth. How can I best describe Jane: beautiful, sexy, sensual, funny, real. in other words a true gem. Thank you for an awesome time, I will be seeing you again.

Yes, Katrina usually works from 7 on, except for Sundays. I was fortunate enough to see her Wednesday night, after 11. Such a lovely woman, looking as good as ever, perhaps even better, nice and toned, difficult to find flaws. Her eyes are still as beautiful, her smile is still as bright and her laugh is still as sexy as always. But then, I've loved her for years, before the hurricane!

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I could stare into these eyes for hours.

This is by no means an attempt to argue or debate your opinion. An opinion is one's view or judgement formed about something, an estimation of the quality or worth of someone or something. It can never be deemed to be wrong. I'm simply curious if this is how you mean that... Every single session? Meaning, if you were to see an SP approx. 20 times over a period of two years(just an example), every session should have you feeling like you are on top of the world when you leave... If you should ever have one "not so pleasant" session, you should never see her again and find another SP?

Honestly, I can't say I agree with this. Respectfully, you don't owe her anything. The only commitment you have made to each other is for the duration of the hour or more of her time you have purchased. The whole point of this hobby is pleasure. If you are not 100% enjoying your engagements for whatever reason, then why go back? The fact that it is causing you this much stress is a sign that it isn't working for you. It simply shouldn't feel that way. If you aren't walking away from each session feeling like you are on top of the world, then why stay? Try some other ladies. You may find one that gives you the fulfilling experience you are looking for, without the stress of wondering where you stand with her. Just my thoughts on the subject.

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Wish I could be there...I'll have to owe you a birthday beer. I'll watch for reports on CNN...should be legendary! Have a good one!

It sounds as though she is booking her appointments too close together, maybe the previous client showed up late which threw her off track and this can be stressful. While clients do understand that we may take more than one appointment in a day, the goal with each client is to make them feel as though they are the only one at that moment in time with no client knowing that another one is going to be there any minute. It happens to the best of us but it can be done in a way where it's not as obvious and abrupt. I would speak to her and let her know that you could book a time where she isn't rushed. Explain to her that you're not looking to take advantage of her time but more so that she can relax which will make you relaxed. Tell her you were concerned because she seemed very stressed out and affects the flow of things during your time together. The stress of booking appointments back to back can be rough. Sometimes there is no choice and we have to deal with it but you are the customer and if she wants you to come back then this has to be addressed or she will soon find out why you are no longer contacting her. Hopefully this was a one time bad scenario where things were lagging behind that day. As for the scented vanilla wax, simply tell her you are attached or whatever the situation may be and that you cannot afford to have this sort of indiscretion. Do it in a nice, calmful manner as opposed to being accusatory and I'm sure she will make things better for you.

Thank you WhereIroam for you to care. I don't ask generally deposit. I did in few cases: 1-When I participated in Libero Paradiso, my gentleman has to confirm in advance and he made it through me. 2-I did ask, not for a deposit, but for an entire prepaid encounter to someone who did many, but when I say, many times cancelled last minute few years ago of that... I have been very patient with him because he used to be such a sweet heart to meet with, but suddenly it became totally unreliable. And this, even with other ladies. He had the idea to ask me few months of that if I pardon him, and if I would like to meet together again, we had so much fun... And I said, yes, certainly, that will be fun, but please this time, I will ask you to pay entirely in advance. He never came back to me, so again, he wasn't sure of himself maybe? I'm thinking to ask maybe, sometimes, for a little deposit when I am touring. Some cities have reputation to have a high level of time wasting or no shows. And that's not always from "real clients"... So will see. :)

I first saw Lilith while having a drink at the bar at The Brass Club. She seized my attention because she was so attractive. Her raven hair and coffee cream complexion was accentuated by a tan coloured shorty pyjamas with black lace trim. She was so polished and staid I decided right then I had to know more. We tweeted back and forth a bit and arrangements were made. I arrived for the anticipated event and was joined in the elevator by four gorgeous and giggling ladies. The Brass club is crammed with beauties but Lilth stands out and there she was in the corner of the elevator making eyes at me. My insides liquified. She was in pig tails and looked like a graduate of the Shirley Temple school for the terminally cute. I was escorted by the ever-lovely Jessica to the Brass Room and momentarily Lilith met me, still in pig tails. My stomach became full of attack butterflies. This polished, elegant lady suddenly became a wonton, willing predator. My wish was her command (within MA limits) except she couldn't help me catch my breath. In a flash, the wine was gone, the ninety minutes was gone and we were kissing good bye. I don't have to worry about returning, my heart is still there. I don't just recommend Lilith, I urge you to visit her. It is well worth it.

I messaged Larissa yesterday. She told me she is no longer in this field of work. Just wanted to let anyone know if they were curious.

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So, I have a question. There is a girl I have seen about a half dozen times over the past year and a bit. We had a session last week and I was less than satisfied so I am looking for other opinions about this. She has not been ready at the appointed time once in my experience but we have gone over by a few minutes so I understand that may be why she often runs late. She texted me about 15 minutes before my hour appt and pushed me back 30 minutes. OK I understand that and I was ready for it. That time comes and she still needs about 10 more minutes. As I getting close to the finish line, I see her looking at the clock. I have now been there for an hour. She blurts out that "I have a new guy coming in for 2 hours in 10 minutes !" I got dressed and left - time management is not her bag. But I have another issue. Our sessions are BDSMish. THe prior time I specifically said - unscented please ! Yet she used a vanilla wax on me - I didn't realize how strong it was until I got home. This time I went home with noticeable welts and bruising on my ass. I don't mind the bruises but I had no idea til later ! I am not a complainer and I don't like confrontation so I didn't say anything. I am leaning towards not going back. When I write it down, it makes me think I should definitelty not go back. But I do enjoy our time. Should I let her know my issues ? Should I just not contact her anymore ? Suggestions ?

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"Wow - you you have some god damned SKILLS! I'm going to need a minute to just lay here and quiver before I can stand up."

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Congrats on the posting! I'm newer to this forum and I'm really enjoying it. Super positive and awesome place to be! Enjoy xoxo :D

Even though this is a small milestone as compared to so many of you. I thought I would use my 200th post to express my acknowledgement and gratitude to those I have interacted with during my somewhat short time since joining Lyla. These people have shown me what a great community Lyla is! Cato- For answering all my, probably too many, questions I have asked him. MaverickPunter- For sharing our info and recos about many SPs. Peachy- For her kind words and motivation at a key time. NotchJohnson- For all his pic-posts which I so enjoy viewing. SPs- All confidential. 50 Shades Raven, Lady Sophia (hope your foot is better), Prufrock Cummings, splitz, opentoknew, casey, MeganDancer, Kilt Boy and so many others... - For all your posts and sharing of insights, views, opinions, knowledge and postings in "fun threads". The aforementioned, along with so many more, help make Lyla a positive site and the great community that it is. I have posted this thread under, "New to this? Things you should know...", because if you are new to this... This is something you should know!

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Lol, thanks. I'm glad you understood. I know tone can be shifty via the internet sometimes- I wasn't at all mad FYI. I hope that's super clear :(

Daisy Mae, I'd give you a hug right now if I could! I know by reading your posts that you're a pleasant and wonderful woman.

Emma is younger and prettier than most here. She was a bit restrictive at first but I think mamasan had a chat as things were way better second time. She is snug and worth at least a half hour try to see if she is for you. While not as experienced as Kelly she has a lot of positives.

I will be in Moncton on Wednesday, Thursday & Friday. Text or call for schedule and details. XoX

Nicole is frequently there in the evenings. I think I've seen Katrine recently but not 100% sure.

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Visited Cab first time in ages and didn't see any of my favorites but there was a great selection of girls with big beautiful butts. First was EE Julia, big boobs big butt, sweet, might dance her again sometime. Second was beautiful Tia, a tall brunette with moddest boobs and a fantastic ass, nice smile, wished she'd been a bit more hands on but I enjoyed her dances and great body. Third was chocolate Mary another award-winning but, nice thick body all round, pretty face, another sweet girl and a lot of fun in the vip. Was curious about another dancer who I didn't get a chance to see in the vip, older redheard with very short hair.

I recently started to ask for deposits and a cancellation fee. I do not required a deposit for each meeting tho. I have been pleasantly surprised by the positive response I get.

Hi , I just saw this girl and I'm blown away . She's the best looking Sp I've ever seen . Her body is really toned and she has a great personality. I would recommend her 100 % . I'm my opinion she's top shelf !

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I would add that Miss Kyliejane is a fabulous kisser.

You bash me on Terb and now you are trying to do so here . Wow seriously get a life . I gave a bad session cause of hygienic reason . And now you want to spread false lies about me.

I'm wondering if there is or will be an introduction thread for new members to introduce themselves, either before or after they have passed through moderation? I introduced myself in one of the social groups I joined but now I feel that wasn't the greatest choice of placement (it was also a bit wordy, lol). Hope this is an appropriate spot to ask this question. Thank you, Jane