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Just booked my hotel for next weekend! Yay Burlington here I come! Havent been to Burlington in awhile now. So I was just browsing google and checking out some different hotel and condo options. Now I'm about to make some home made candles! :icon_razz: Makes me super excited and happy to plan my next new and improved candle. I also light them during my appointments and incalls. Makes the room feel more cozy and comfortable.

I asked the question looking for some other opinions and I got what I expected - various different positions ! (And not the fun positions I like to think about !) I think I will give it some time and see how I feel in a month. Is the irritation greater still than the desire to go back ? We'll see if time changes my perspective. Thanks all.

The day I met Kitty at Barbarellas many years ago was one of the best days of my life. She was a very friendly, very pretty. tall and slim brunette with big kind heart and still carries all these qualities more than 12 years later. She has the cutest face and the kindest heart. Kitty has always had a special place in my heart and will remain there forever. Kitty is the one dancer who has undoubtedly danced for me more than anyone else in all past 20 years I have been going to these clubs and I have had the pleasure of knowing her the longest. Kitty is well regarded and highly respected by her many long time customers and friends (myself included of course) and the day she left Barefax last year was a big loss for that bar because many former Barefax customers were coming to this club exclusively to spend time with Kitty. Kitty don't dance as often as she used to. She dances once every few weeks at Barbarellas these days and on Saturdays daytime only and usually on those Saturdays Barbarellas is relatively busy with Kitty's fans with party like environment (she also usually comes with her friend Cin who is a pretty blonde) so if you are lucky to be at Barbs when she is dancing and if you find her free (very rare as she is almost always busy with old friends/customers or dancing) then definitely I highly recommend spending some time with this true angel who by the way resembles very much the famous actress (and my favorite actress) Lily Collins. H & K

No offence taken. That's what civil discussions are about. I understand that everone has good days and bad days. This sounds a bit more like a pattern if I understand correctly. I just meant that once you start feeling like you have to 'work on the relationship', then it's time to move on. That isn't why I'm here. I get enough of that at home ;)

I'm not sure if many of you know about the particulars of strip clubs but many of them tend to have a Black Girl Rule. A Black Girl Rule is basically the cap they put on how many woman of colour are allowed to work in an establishment. ( usually 5) There is no white Girl Rule and that is made very clear. There's something about this Rule that makes me feel as if we're in the mid 1900's. I had called the club I normally work at and asked if I could come in early ( I start at 6 ) however there is a friend of mine on here that I wanted to see and could make it in at 2:00. I asked if I could come in early and the response was we're full and have no room for black girls. However, a "white girl" does not have to call in as they will never be too full. Why should I feel sad, guilty for being who I am ? It really hit me today. Racism sucks! What are your thoughts on this ? Shouldn't we all be equal? I mean we are in Canada shouldn't I have an equal opportunity to work? Please I'd love to hear your inputs and thoughts on this touchy subject

A pre-paid hotel room in Kanata for tomorrow night! :)

Personally, I'm glad if my recco's help others, weather they have contributed or not. I just don't believe that we always have to get something in return in order to help others. We are here to share information. Not trade it. I know I have had a lot of amazing experiences that I likely would have missed if not for the kind contributions of others. I am grateful for that. I'm happy to return the favour when I have something to share. Hopefully those who do read them will one day appreciate it enough to share their own experiences. Maybe not. Either way, I'm fine with that. There is another point that nobody has made: From a business perspective, lurkers are still measurable traffic for the site, which in turn helps the site sell ads, which in turn generates revenue, which in turn keeps the site that we all enjoy so much afloat. So even if they are not directly contributing, they are all contributing just by coming here.

Just time for me to rant. Some of us members are getting really irritated by other members who come on here and ask info on sp's without providing information back or sharing their individual experiences. Personally I will not give out information to a member who has not contributed in any way to this site. Please do us all a favor, if your going to ask for help, make sure you leave reviews as well.

I can't wait for the warmer weather to come, to see all those beautiful ladies in their summer dress/skirt.

When you're chewing on life's gristle

Happy birthday kilt boy hope you have many years to come !!! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Yes. We should be able to disagree without getting worked up about. My apologies, everyone.

Yes. See the recos. https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=239125

So i went and TOFTT and i am happy i did! I had such a great time but i had only took 10mins with her, now i am going to take at least 15 or 30mins and go for it! I am planning on seeing her tonight actually! I can't wait :) If you are thinking of going to see her please do, you wont be disappointed!

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Just texted her. I hope to meet up with her next week if she is still around. If I do I will post here.

"Most people have a guard. They don't let you in at first, they don't let you know them. But you're exactly the same as the first day I met you. You have no guard. You're just you." I took this remark from Phoenix, in the cr one day, to be a great compliment. Dancers always say the nicest things! :)

I saw her today. Bait and switch. Smaller and stocky, but nice. In and out in 15 minutes. Price right for the service.

Hi! I'll be available near downtown (just a step south) from Wed (12th) late-afternoon until Friday (14th) at 11am. I will also return next week from Wed-Sat as usual. As always, I'm in a discreet, smoke-free environment with ample street and lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking only, unless we already know each other.) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed (1hr if very early), unless PJs, bleary eyes and a teddy bear being dragged by his paw is your thing) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who wish to explore; the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a slim & athletic but curvy 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with long dark hair (Pls note my hair is now shorter than in the photos, although still long. The price of natural hair is it needs to be cut occasionally. New pix coming soon) and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones again! You can also view my new website http://www.JessyCeleste.weebly.com Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi: $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 90min $320 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste ( 438 ) 274-3853 (Now, finally on Twitter) @JessyCeleste1

Honestly, I can't say I agree with this. Respectfully, you don't owe her anything. The only commitment you have made to each other is for the duration of the hour or more of her time you have purchased. The whole point of this hobby is pleasure. If you are not 100% enjoying your engagements for whatever reason, then why go back? The fact that it is causing you this much stress is a sign that it isn't working for you. It simply shouldn't feel that way. If you aren't walking away from each session feeling like you are on top of the world, then why stay? Try some other ladies. You may find one that gives you the fulfilling experience you are looking for, without the stress of wondering where you stand with her. Just my thoughts on the subject.

I think it's just a language problem, and nothing to do with drugs. Probably meant something else. Many Asian agencies' posts seem completely nonsensical if taken literally. Fun to read tho' :icon_biggrin: Additional Comments: The webchat ID in the ad is the same as Candyland/Asian Angel. They have been around for a while. I haven't tried but I have heard that they are nowhere as good as Vipotg. I should give them a try sometime. Happy Hobbying! R

After a couple weeks of texting and discussing what would be involved in our session I finally was able to book a Domme sesssion with Mistress Aeris. She didn't disappoint the minute she walked in the room standing a statuesque 5'10" with beautiful beasts being held in so that I would be teased to no end and eyes the just radiant I'm in charge , I knew my position . I was ordered to kneel down and worship this beautiful lady , her skin was so smooth as I was instructed to worship her feet and toes. After what seemed like eternity to was told to stop as she walked behind me and blocked out my eyes with a soft scarf and that come the mouth ball gave as she wanted to muffle any noises I might make from the other guests. i now knew she was in total command . I was ordered to stand as she start CBT on my little guy , not know wear or when the punishment was coming from I stood and took all Mistress had to offer , I must say I was overwhelmed by the suspense. After a little while I was told to get on my knees as the session was about to take a turn in a different direction , I soon felt Mistress come in behind as she squeezed my balls the pleasure was unreal and said pet was now in her control , I then heard the snap of the glove a noise I had heard before at doctors but Mistress had other ideas in mind. I heard the squirt and knew a different inspection was about to take place. Soon I felt the pressure of Mistress butt plug being inserted in my virgin ass , as she slowly worked it finally all 6" of her plug was now deep inside me and I was ordered to enjoy it as she preppped me for her next surprise after being stretched for what seemed like eternity she removed the plug , up next was the main course as I was ordered to get up and turn around and open my mouth , to my surepise she had strapped on her 8" dong and ordered me to suck it and suck it until I took it all down my throat. After a couple minutes of lunging it up with my spit Mistress bent me over a slowly inserted her big strap on in my tight ass . She wrapped the session up as I exploded in her dog bowl and told to cleanup my present . Until my next visit with Mistress Aeris I wait in suspense as she prepares our next session . A great experience and one I will be returning for my next session shortly.

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don't expect anything other than a massage here. It may be a sensual experience, but look elsewhere if you are looking for a release. They do offer a variety of services, including massage, acupuncture, and general spa services such as waxing. (Women only for brazillian). I don't think they have that many attendents working there anymore either.

I love this! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Someone definitely TOFFT with me, and because of that, it got me a little exposure and the others knew I was a legit person because of it. And here I am today, happy as a clam. Thank you to those who TOFFT (after careful research and vouching prior to, of course!)

I'm disappointed and saddened that this rule exists. Thanks for telling us about it, Chrissy. I hadn't heard of that before.

I think this is a horrible rule, I am a white guy and I love ebony woman! They are the best. I can never see them too much. It is time for some people to get with the times, We are all people on the inside!

I worked at a new car dealership for 5 years. Don't be fooled by 0 % financing. 9 out of 10 customers bought from me because they wanted 0% financing. The price they paid for an SUV was 34,000 with 0% financing. The same vehicle could be bought for 27,000 without 0% financing (ie do your own loan or line of credit ) . One year later the vehicle depreciates to 25,000 dollars. For the guy who paid 27,000 thats not bad. For the guy who paid 34,000 plus all the fees and taxes(38,800) if he writes off his car it's worth 25000 and he still owes 32000 it really sucks.

Sooooooooooooo Twelve monks were about to be ordained. The final test was for them to line up nude in a garden while a nude model danced before them. Each monk had a small bell attached to his privates and they were told that anyone whose bell rang would not be ordained because he had not reached a state of purity. The model danced before the first monk candidate with no reaction. She proceeded down the line with the same response until she got to the final monk. As she danced, his bell rang so loudly that it fell off and clattered to the ground. Embarrassed, he bent down to pick up the bell, and all the other bells went off.

I couldn't care less about a rating for the gentleman, but to me it's a bad idea. First off on this site we can only have positive things to say and if you(the lady) don't have anything positive to say about the client(us men) then you can't say anything at all. So to complete the discussion everyone here will get something positive on their recommendation or nothing at all. We are all winners.

P411 is not rating system. It is strictly a screening process for ladies safety. The gentleman will have his profile filled out, pay for his yearly membership there is more personal questions about yourself within this system . Within your P411 identification there is part of your real identity. The ladies look at your profile, if you are preparing a meeting. Gentleman will have what they call oK's from ladies that you have met previously, (you must get their permission and they ok you as a client) the list of okays are readily available on your profile for other ladies to view. That said, now the date, well the lady you're wanting to see will contact other ladies that given you an ok, to ensure their safety. No different then our ladies private section here. This just cuts the chase for the gent getting screened rather quickly. I've used it many times for traveling abroad.

Isn't that interesting? Good point. I guess the closest analog to that on this site would be when a lady pushes the 'thanks' button on a reco about her or posts to your wall.

i don't know if this is covered already, but my #3 is that there are FAR TOO MANY GREAT, GOOD AND OK clients, there is no way I'm writing up a blurb on all of them, let alone the discretionary reasons for not doing that, like EVER. Another site is very big on the referral system (avoiding LE bylaw stings being the #1 reason). So clients post their review, and the sp replies in the review. That is the extent of her 'reco' so to speak lol The reason for the reply is to confirm that this is a legitimate client, not LE looking to give out tickets for not having the city escort license, for example. also, by implication that this is a guy who makes the appt, and shows up, and by replying she can confirm (or refute) the info in the review, meaning that other sps can either avoid him (due to what or how he wrote his review) or see him, as they wish. Of course this means initial contact with sps will be via pm to book by the same handle that the review was written with. in most cities, in most situations, it is unnecessary to do this. If an sp wants to screen a client more thoroughly, she will ask him to provide references, contact the sps to let them know she will be asking about him, and wait for them to reply. All behind the scenes, all discreet, all private, and no other clients viewing the comments. Not even the client himself. Here sps are not permitted to reply in their own recos, so having that as a public 'referral' method isn't going to happen.

One other thought here. Yes we are all, ladies and gentlemen alike part of the same lifestyle, opposite sides of the same coin if you will. But for the ladies, it is their livelihood For men, it is their escape The reason for writing a recommendation on a lady is to help her business, her livelihood Why would I as a client want to be rated/judged in comparison to other clients for what is supposed to be a private escape And what gets rated/judged. Isn't part of the reason for the escape to be in a judgement free zone if you will Also doesn't this open the door to a client telling a lady "give me a good public recommendation and I'll write you a good recommendation too" A rambling RG

Public client recos are kinda redundant: 1. We already have a bad-date section. 2. There is also the note feature. Also, it feels weird to me to reco a client. I mean, as far as I'm concerned, as long as you did nothing to warrant being black-listed, and your hygiene is good, you're ok by me.

it seems pretty obvious from the lack of SPs that have availed themselves of this have not brought it to fruition that it is indeed a dead issue. I personally don't want to 'rate' clients. If a lady asks me about a client that has used me as a reference, I will tell if I have or have not seen the person. I don't go into precise details about the tryst, I may say enjoyable, punctual, courteous, etc. But, only if a lady has asked me. Like Tempted Monk states, I wouldn't want to put clients on the edge by 'rating' them, as it seems. Best to leave the recommendations to the clients themselves.

I did my home work (thanks to Gabriella's recommendation) and came to a couple of conclusions. 1) There are 71 posts altogether in 3 threads from different years on this topic. Only 9 of them are posted by SPs. It looks like Ladies are not interested in this idea at all, even in the discussion of it. Obviously, without Ladies support, this idea is dead born regardless of any reasoning or "grey" legal area. So, nothing to discuss here and probably additional explanations are not required. 2) The style of discussion (based on the same subject) evolved over years. Nowadays it became more informative and multidimensional: OP has the opportunity to learn a lot of new things about him/ her-self based just on the suggested subject :-)

If this is being thought of because a client would like to know how he rates in comparison to other clients, my question is this. Who cares. The lady's other clients are likely not even known to him, or at the most, known only as a board handle and vice versa. If that is the case, that someone is concerned about other clients, kinda comes across as a tad insecure A good client wouldn't want to be part of this "recommendation" pool, because he wouldn't want to put a lady he's seen in the unenviable position of ranking her clients And a recommendation from a client about a lady is not the same as a reference from a lady about a client. Although I'll grant you, while it may appear analogous, they are not the same. And yes, it has been brought up and discussed before. But more importantly, not accepted. That in itself should be an indicator that it isn't going to be accepted now And since now clients pay a companion only for time and companionship what criteria are men rated on. Is the lady going to say he played a good game of checkers LOL. Any discussion, by lady or gentleman discussing a paid sexual encounter now (thanks to MacKay and the CPC) is verboten. We only see companions for time and companionship At the end of the day the only thing that matters (besides the lady and myself having had a wonderful escape) is that she was happy with me as a client and I was happy with her as a companion. Being put in some recommendation pool won't change that An after lunch rambling RG

I think there is something to the idea that some gentlemen would like a reco section for hobbyists because they'd like to know how they "rank", for lack of a better term, but they would probably be disappointed by the criteria most sp's would use to grade them as clients. Things like hygiene, willingness to submit to screening, not haggling on prices, not insisting on a menu, etc, would be much higher on their lists than say, prowess between the sheets. I don't want to pull back the curtain on the wizard of oz for anyone, but I don't think a hobbyist's skills are of much concern to the average sp. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they think it's a lovely bonus when you show some level of competency in bed, but it's hardly a dealbreaker if you're all thumbs. If recent board subjects are any indication, not sending a d**k pic puts you in elite company :p

I have a theory about those who ask for this 'feature'. I don't think it's REALLY because they want to help the ladies screen or otherwise choose men. As has been pointed out, they already have ways to do that. Also, there are already things like P411 and such that have rating systems for clients. So OP, I'm about to cast aspersions on your motives. I hope you don't take it personally but what I think you and others who have lobbied for this in the past REALLY want is to know is what the ladies think of them. They want to know how they rank, are they actually good in bed, are they attractive, do they have something about them that makes them better than the other guys, etc. It's a competition thing. He who gets the most positive recos wins. Thing is though, think about the position it puts the ladies in. As soon as they write a reco for one client, other clients could potentially be put off. Maybe they don't want a reco written. Maybe they're jealous if one guy got a reco and they didn't. Besides, could a lady ever really write down a true opinion? Their position in the relationship is very different than yours. They will be sexy and intimate with all manner of men, some of whom they might never touch with a ten foot pole in 'real life'. Because they are professionals, they will give their best effort to make that man feel special and enjoy his time with her. Perhaps you're a great client. Maybe you rocked her world. Or maybe you're just ordinary and she faked it. Would you REALLY want to know? This is about fantasy, about believing what we want to believe. There's no room for truth here because, if truth be told, by definition most of us are pretty average. The business model depends on making you feel special. If the ladies were to suddenly develop a case of truthiness, we would probably be dismayed to find out just how forgettable many of us are.

The idea has been brought up several time before here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126558 and here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=8728&highlight=reviewing+client Privacy, discretion and confidentiality were often brought up against. Addendum; References and it's alternatives (when offered for new clients to the business), is an option.