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This actually goes both ways! I get worried about people I haven't seen or heard from in awhile but I realize that they have people in their life beyond our great connection and I must just trust that they are being taken care of! I know it doesn't stop you from worrying but I am sure she has support. I am pretty sure we all do :) I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way!

As mentioned by those who have already posted, there are so many reasons why you may not get a reply. From leaving the business to vacations, family emergencies and even new relationships. But another common reason is feelings. Not everyone is "out" when it comes to working in this industry. For some, it's a totally secret, hidden and separate part of their lives- I could see how feelings going in either direction could seriously complicate things, (in a life that might already be full of complications.) While I tell those I don't want contact with anymore why, some people just aren't good with confrontation.. and though I know you genuinely had the best of intentions, messages like "even if you don't want to see me, please reply" tend to make those who dislike confrontation even more uncomfortable. Just to be clear, I don't think there's anything wrong with caring about/for a companion, (I have clients I've become close friends with over the years.) I just feel that, in many instances, it has to be approached and handled different than with someone who you're not paying. You might get a reply in the future with apologies for the delay and making you worry, or you might never hear from her again.. Either way, the best thing to do is try to not worry or dwell on it. /hugs

Hopefully she is okay but it does sound out of the ordinary that she did not respond given the fact you would see her very regularly. There are gentlemen I have more exclusive arrangements with along with regular clients who I have grown to very fond of them and vice versa. If were going anywhere, I would certainly be letting them know because I wouldn't want them to worry. Given her silence, from what I can gather speaking ONLY from personal experience and other ladies I have known in the business who I've seen come and go, this could be more of a personal issue they are probably dealing with. It's probably best to leave it for now. I know that's not an easy thing but clients and SPs are only a small fraction of each other' lives and hopefully she has others in her life to support her. The possibilities are endless as to what's going on. If she has no ads, maybe she is worried someone has found out what she does for a living. Again, I don't want to speculate but... It's a shame that you will have to wait this one out temporarily or maybe permanent as we all like closure when someone exits our life. I'm sending you good vibes that she will contact you. My telepathy skills are very well honed. Lol.

keep in mind that she may not have gotten your message. eg many carry a work and a personal phone. She could just be on vacation or want a break and this includes turning work phone off

Jenn's ads are posted as "the Ultimate Companion" I wasn't disappointed in the least. Her pictures don't do her justice since she is even sexier in person. Met me at the door with a great smile and made me feel comfortable from the get go. A real nice lady, great body, personality and very easy to talk to. I had her undivided attention. You'll definitely leave with a smile on your face. Hope to see her every time she comes to town. Thanks Jenn :icon_smile:

It could be as simple as having her phone off. I have 2 phones. If I'm going on a trip my "work" phone stays home. If I want to take a break it stays off. Please let us know if you find out she's ok. hugs

Stay away. Trouble.

Katherine of Halifax is back.

There could be many reasons why you haven't heard back from her. Maybe she is just out of town, on a vacation or visiting family elsewhere. Ladies leave for a variety of reasons. Some, that have been putting themselves through school working as an SP find a job in their field of study. Some meet Mr Right, fall in love and move on. Although some have been back if the relationship doesn't workout. There could be many reasons as to why she hasn't replied. But you may just get a text from her tomorrow.

At least if you break up with a SP friend no one pays alimony. More seriously, for me meeting SP is not all about sex but a connection for the moment that is more intimate than just physical sex. I have had zillions of these connections over the decade with SP's and some have become non-client friends. But often they move to another city (not to get away from me but in the U.S. cities like my Phoenix are very hard to work in due to all the LE stings). Or, if become close friends find they have issues I just do not want to deal with .. like drugs. to the OP it is normal to be concerned about a SP (or Megs concern on the other side). But once you have made contact by text/e-mail you have to move on and release the emotions or you might be seen as a "pest". As "Shut up and kiss me" suggested (I love that title), she may reply later and surprise you and have a very good reason why she went "silent." Sadly we have had that happen in Phoenix when a SP is busted and LE takes their phone and identity such as for P411 and pretends to be the SP to do verifications with other SPs as references to sting, answers calls from clients who solicit for sex etc... At least you don't have that risk in Canada. Additional Comments: BTW I had thought "shut up and kiss me" was female.. oops but still a good title.

My prayers are with you. She will come back...100% trust me! It's just a matter of time. The rule of thumb like you and me, SPs have their own privacy as well and whatnot, the other side of her world to handle. Would that be something for better or worse? Well, that really bewildered us at some point. On a side note, we get perplexed because we strongly feel that she should text us back and at least, tells us what is going on. Once we know, I believe the best we can do is to wish her luck and we stop right there. We are big boys after all. A wonderful gent whom I got to know in lyla lately gave me wise words that we are here just to seek pleasure, but play safely and expect no more. For a newbie like me, it's kinda hard to do. The compulsion to show affection and to get emotionally attached is still very strong. And that potentially leads to, if not worse but the same complication as yours as well. How about well-decorated veteran hobbyists out there? Mind to share some of your thoughts in handling this kind of situation? Do I need to poke my finger with a needle everytime (to keep me sane, so to speak) when I ever want to text my fav lady trivial messages? :icon_sad:

I frequently visit Montreal and while there on my spare time I visit strip bars in downtown area as I love beautiful ladies especially if I can hug and kiss them and exchange affection. In my recent visits to Montreal I have been to the best known strip bars in Montreal and yes they are perceived as less expensive than Ottawa (in most Montreal strip bars dances are $10 per song) however the fun is much less than half of those in Ottawa. In some bars you have to tip on entry and sitting as well even during the day and also in some bars the first dance is always $15 whenever you choose a new dancer. The rules are pretty strict in most bars as underwear don't come off in the Champagne rooms at all no matter how many songs and in most bars no kissing is allowed (which is a very tough rule for someone named Hugs and Kisses). There are more dancers in Montreal so more choices BUT I did not find many with high quality of dancers I have seen at Barbarellas or Barefax or Pigale in terms of beauty and class. There is no free buffet as we have here in almost all bars some free lunch (like Barbarellas) and in some bars both free lunch and Supper as well during weekdays (like Barefax and Pigale). I find only in one Montreal bar the ladies are as friendly (Cloepatra) where they sit with patrons and chat and kiss but in most other bars I find dancers very business oriented. The overcharge happens there too especially if they find out you are visiting from Ottawa. Admittingly there are more dancers in all Montreal clubs so it is more enjoyable to watch stage dancing but the private dances even though perceived as half price but they are not nearly as much fun as in Ottawa. So appreciate your Ottawa strip bars and private dances and come out and support these clubs and the ladies so that they are not forced to close down or quit. The City of Montreal though is admittingly much more fun than Ottawa. You can just walk on downtown streets free of charge and enjoy the beautiful scenery (I am not referring to green scenery) with beautiful women of all ages from various racial backgrounds dressed some exotically (especially in summer time) and if you wish for more then there are dance bars all over on St. Laurent north of St. Catherines and East of St. Laurent on St. Catherines (if you love Francophone ladies) and Crescent Street (if you love Anglophone ladies) all lovely and friendly and with liberal friendly open French culture. Montreal is indeed the heaven on earth but the Montreal strip bars are no match for Ottawa strip bars as most of Ottawa strip bars still rock in quality Champagne room dances, Quality of dancers, free buffet and friendly atmosphere..

So.... I went over to Buffalo today and did some shopping. Saw the big Lindt chocolate shop and you can pick your own chocolates and flavors which I thought was completely awesome!!!! I discovered a new chocolate ball from Lindt. I'm not quite sure the name. But it's white chocolate with dark chocolate pieces inside it. It's soooo damn creamy too!!! *drools* It comes in a light blue wrapper.... Whats your favourite Lindt chocolate or chocolate in general if you arent a fan of Lindt? I love chocolate and strawberries in bed with certain men :D Should try it sometime... Gets pretty damn sexual! Goodnight all xoxo Additional Comments: NOBODY HERE LIKES CHOCOLATE!?!? What!!!!! Had some smarties for breakfast like a champion and they were amazing lol. Don't think I've had smarties since I was like 6 years old. Yummmmy

I am a Millennial. Although I have been in the industry for a few years now, nothing like this has happened before. I always enjoy visiting different women. When I meet someone that I connect and have chemistry with I will return to see them. Even though relations between punters and providers would be described as "superficial" by the normal public, I have to admit that with three women I have met as a punter that over time I have formed an unexplainable or undefinable bond with. Not feelings of love or anything like that but feelings of always wishing them well or that they are safe and that no harm will come to them, caring for them as a person. There is a woman that I have seen many times over the past two and a half years. We are "friends" and have always been honest and kind to one another. Sometimes we even message each other just to hi and share in some small talk, about anything. Getting to my point. I thought of her yesterday and realized that I haven't heard from her in over two weeks. I checked BP and noticed she hasn't posted her ad in just as long a time. When ever I message her she always responds within five minutes or if she's busy it's usually within an hour and a bit. I sent her a message this afternoon, "Hi ?. Haven't heard from you in a while. Hope you're alright." No reply. Sent another message over two hours ago, "Hi ?. It's been two weeks. Wondering if you're ok. Send me a message with "not interested" or "stop texting me" if this is the case. No reply. I'm seeking feedback from someone who is more wise than I am in this matter. I am not sad if she has moved on, even would be happy for her, but concerned for her well being. This ever happen to anyone?

I'm not the guy who pushes the limits in the back room. I'm the respectful one. I like to have a good time, but I don't go against club policy. That said, I know some guys and gals do. The owner has cameras in the champagne room to keep everyone safe, in theory, but I've been hearing some disturbing reports. I love new technologies and the idea that I can watch my security camera feed from my phone is welcome news. However, it troubles me that the owner (or manager, or whoever has access) is able to view them from home and/or show the video to their friends. You see, the video isn't just live. It is recorded for them to view. I'm sure it was intended to be used for safety, but I've had more than one person say that the owner has shown them past video of them ON HIS PHONE regarding some transgression in the champagne room that he wants explained. The angle of the cameras leaves much room for supposition on the part of management, and nothing at all in the way of evidence one way or the other. It could look way worse than it actually is. Of course, it could be exactly what it looks like, too. Still, these limited-line-of-sight videos are being used to punish the dancers. I don't know about you, but I don't want there to be recorded video of me getting lap dances. Period. I don't care if it's legal, or within his rights to do so, or not. I won't be returning as long as those cameras exist in the back. There are other clubs not too much further away that I also enjoy.

I have seen my share of SP's and in that time I've had my share of regrettable experiences, but nothing has ever compared to this. I have seen this SP before and never had any complaints. She's alright, not great, nothing to write home about. Maybe, maybe not worth a repeat. This time however was different. In recent history I saw she had an ad up, and decided to indulge for ONE HOUR. When I showed up on location she was straight up riding a rail, indulging in street pharmaceutical. After being paid, in full, for the ONE HOUR of service the odor of alcohol on her breath was noted. Half way into the session she notified me that if we were to continue it would cost an additional $40. She then told me that she had another client on they're way up and that I needed to go. Before I could protest she promised me she would get in touch with me later which of course never occurred. Like I've said I've seen my share of sp's and had my share of bad experiences but this kind of behavior and outright lack of professionalism, not to mention BLATANT disrespect of her clients is completely inexcusable and should not be tolerated by anyone. Most certainly will NOT REPEAT, take your business elsewhere. Additional Comments: http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/lexi-outcall-only-best-kept-secret/2771908

Perhaps I shouldn't have raised this whole thing and, as I noted in my post, I have no way of knowing who is behind the post on the (unmoderated) "other board" in question. But the tone of the post seems to suggest that it is someone associated with the club. It just seemed silly, in any case.

<rant> Sorry, this is over the line into "completely stupid" (not you, r__d, the situation). KiltBoy is one of the most thoughtful, sensitive people on this site, and I'm very grateful to him for his contributions. If I were gay I'd positively have a crush on him! I've chatted with him a number of times, and frankly the clubs in Ottawa need more people like him. Period! Yes, he did raise the issue of the cameras at Barbs, and I for one am very glad he did. A number of people, myself included, have chosen to not frequent that club due to our discomfort the fact of the video recording, and the uses that were being made of the recordings. Is it a "boycott"? That's in the terminology; if I frequent a restaurant because I like their pineapple and hot pepper pizza, is it a "boycott" if I quit going if they quit making the pizza? I liked Barbs, something happened, now I like it less. I hope club management soon decides to quit video recording in the CR, but that's not my decision. Of course KiltBoy designs and sells merchandise to dancers...it's on his Lyla signature, for God's sake! His activities were never disruptive, and as far as I can see the dancers were quite grateful to him for solving a problem. And I can guarantee that he made good use of the CR, which is to the benefit of the dancers, and the club. If someone wants to complain about KiltBoy, I'm an ardent supporter of free speech, and I support their right. But I don't respect their judgement, OR their motives, and I'm happy to say that I stand completely in KiltBoy's corner (just not too close to him...I don't want him getting the wrong idea.) </rant>

Mm fuck strawberries and creams is my absolute favourite Lindt chocolate. I'd eat it forever if I could get away with it lol. But I also very much enjoy those light blue ones? That are just hard she'll white chocolate and white chocolate inside. Mmmm.

Apparently someone on another board has claimed that customers are "boycotting" Barb's and this would appear to be true in a few cases as indicated by some of the posts in this thread. Then there is a very strange reply (on the relevant thread at the "other board") suggesting that our friend KiltBoy had been seen to be causing a "problem" by selling his "wares" in the club and not giving Barb's a piece of the action. Now I haven't been in to 340 recently, but whenever I saw KiltBoy at Barb's he never appeared to have a flea market table set up to do business, nor did he ever try to sell me anything. I mostly noticed him going to or coming out of the CR, which one would presume would meet with the approval of management. Some of his posts would indicate that a dancer or two might have purchased a few of his "wares", but it's difficut to imagine this being especially disruptive. Is management annoyed at his opinions regarding the main subject of this thread (i.e. cameras) ? Of course I'm not sure who is behind the post. It's a bit difficult to know what to make of this but the reaction (against KiltBoy) seems to be a bit extreme, all things considered. Especially if KiltBoy is no longer frequenting the establishment.

I just spent a couple of lazy hours with a lovely lady I met here, chatting and having a merry old time on a cold, rainy April afternoon. Thanks, babe. I really needed that. I needed an adult conversation with someone who really gets it. #mentalstimulation #feltsogood

While it's hard not to want to worry about her, it's likely your best option to sit and wait. Pressing for an answer may worry her about your intentions (not an insult to you or anything, just we SPs tend to always have our backs up) but the few messages you have sent, if she returns, will come across as kind and caring. You have done all you can, at this point, just wait :)

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I saw Claire again last week and kablooey! Bam! Ha-cha-cha-cha! The girl is the uber bomb and I can't wait to get back there. Damn, superfine. A wicked sense of humour, too There are not enough hours in the day...

*googles icy squares* I love white chocolate anything, especially white hot chocolate mmm! Some of my favourite Lindt flavours are: White Citrus Milk Coconut Candy Cane & Strawberries & Cream

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Icy Squares - so damn good.

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This being the first for me, it just majorly sucks and not in a good way!

I suppose you could always ask a provider if they are open to using them and then bring some of your own? They're pretty expensive, but can be obtained for free from some places (I could provide suggestions for Winnipeg but I'm not familiar with other cities.) Though they are better once you've had some time to experiment and get used to them, so I could understand not wanting to try them for the first time with someone who is also trying them for the first time, particularly with an average length session.

These pics are from various sites, a Russian gal, not real. Posted via Mobile Device

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I have travelled far and wide in the U.S. and Canada and always make an effort to check out tbe local "establishments". For those many reasons as outlined by Mr H &K, I have told many people ( who don't always believe me): Ottawa has the best strip clubs!

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Hey minsamir im not sure how you saw me before your post was written (due to my knowledge of schedule...) but I feel badly that you had potentially a less than awesome time If I was acting a little bit (or alotta bit) funny or strange then Id say that I am EXACTLY the same as 'before'(?) Lol... jk... ish. But I AM definitely NOT 20 anymore.... (Boooo) In any case - I suggest A TRY ANYTHING 3 TIMES RULE ..... First time is uncomparable Second time is only fifty fifty Third time. .... now THAT'S an informed decision. With THAT said .... sometimes. ... you just KNOW immediately if you don't like something. But I'm a victim of the mere exposure effect. .. the more I try the more I likey. Hopefully you find the right kinda wrong for ya .... or lemme make amends for your odd experience .... Rrroarrr!

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I had the privilege of meeting with the beautiful and sensational Briella this week (In April of 2017). I was very nervous about our meeting because of the uncertainties involved and risks, and this being my first time to do something like this, however I was at ease as soon as I met with Briella. Besides being absolutely stunning and incredibly attractive, she was easy to converse with and made me feel very comfortable. Her pictures are accurate and she's more than you can hope for. I'm not one to kiss and tell, but I guarantee your time with her will be enjoyable. She is very professional and I'm sure if you are respectable you will have nothing but good things to say about her and your encounter. Please treat her good and be thankful as she's 100% real and someone you can count on to have a good time and be safe doing so. She's also intellectual and if you find yourself with some time to talk with her than you'll enjoy that too. I enjoyed talking with her about things in general a very enjoyable experience in itself. I'm very particular in nature and have high standards, so I guarantee this girl is the best. I'm extremely happy I went to see this girl, and I can't wait until she's in my area again. I'll certainly be looking out for her and I hope I don't miss her. Briella is the girl to see! If you have any questions or still aren't convinced, feel free to message me privately.

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Looking forward to meeting this beautiful lady!!!

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