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This is not easy to write.This week we all lost a great woman,a great friend and provider.Summer had a special place in her heart for the friends she saw and made.She gave of herself right to the end,she will be missed by many friends and loved ones. Foveror loving you Summer xooxoo from all of us

I really feel genuinely uncomfortable with your post, stating that a large majority of us SP's are drug users and addicts. Being someone who just doesn't feel comfortable working a vanilla job and thoroughly enjoys sex, I am really offended. You may have had some bad experiences in the past but to lump all of us together as users and abusers just doesn't seem fair. I have student loans to pay off, not drug debts. I was in school to be a veterinary technician. Not a drug user. Additional Comments: I'm commenting again because I'm actually having a really hard time letting go of this horrible accusation. I do this line of work so that I can spend time with myself, my family and my dog. So that I can pay rent to live in a downtown apartment and pay off my student loans. I post on Lyla, and backpage multiple times a day, every day. That doesn't mean that I receive clients all the time. I've don't usually take more than a handful of them a week. If I'm lucky to even receive that many who are actually interested in seeing me without lowballing. I'm sorry that someone hurt you, I wish that I could fix it for you but you don't need to take it out on the rest of the girls who are just trying to make a living.

@ Leviathon31: I think you need to read this. Sadly, your misconception of workers in the industry stems from your bad experiences and is so far from the truth. (The saddest part is that I even truly believe you may not actually know this!) Please read this... http://news.nationalpost.com/news/canada/some-sex-workers-enter-the-industry-because-its-more-lucrative-than-low-paying-service-jobs-b-c-study-finds Honestly, I am sorry for the experiences you have dealt with, sincerely. I really wish you would of had more pleasant ones. There is nothing I or anyone can do about that. Stating that every SP that advertises more than 3 or 4 times a week is a drug addict, "Pardon the **** me but you're out of your mind!" For you to think that most SPs are not professional and are indebted due to drug or alcohol issues concludes that you have only experienced the worst kinds of experiences to post such a false field-study report. I almost could not believe what I was reading... For every SP that read this... I'm sorry you had to read a post from someone with such a negative perspective. Leviathon31, you obviously do but I have no shame with any of my 6 seconds of fame! Don't ever pretend that you know how I feel or what I have experienced with SPs!!! I hope Mod deletes that post so no one can ever read it that hasn't already.

i think he makes the common error of taking something from the sp world and assuming that the general public world is significantly different or not comparable. Some sps may be addicts or drug users, which are not the same thing at all. But then, what is left out of the discussion is that some non sps are also addicts and drug users, so why arent we comparing the number of the general population who use drugs with sps, and see is the percentage that different from the non sp world? because unless you assume, and stereotype, there is no evidence to support the accusation against even 'some' sps. And it is the same thing when we discuss the prevalence of stds, or even the number of trafficking victims. the general public is trying to claim that all sps are trafficked, and that sex work is all sex trafficking, and we know that is also not true. so why would we believe a guy who has seen a couple of dozen different sps, out of thousands, and 4 of them were unfortunate experiences, is the resident expert on drug using sps lol. Number of ad postings in a week is not a red flag or a sign of drug abuse. It should be a signal that the sp is a professional running her business. In this day post CL manic postings, most sps know that if they want to show their availability, they had better have an ad up every day they are either taking calls or wanting to be contacted. if they don't the assumption is they are not working that day, even if they are. bp especially have very little room to explain your work schedule, plus many clients are not always looking for right now, so an ad up even if you aren't available that day still reaches potential future appts, but of course most of us know that the lack of a current ad seems to indicate to regulars a lack of availability. so you either post daily, or run the risk someone will be making another assumption about you as an sp, in this case, not working that day. fwiw, gallery view is not a separate paid feature, only the ads on the side of the page are. viewers simply can choose how they view the ads, gallery or listed

I have seen her and will never repeat

Additional Comments: Never mind....Not even worth it....SMH

I agree, don't fear that connection. It enhances the experience. But don't expect it to last forever; one can only possess her for the moments you are together. My lady is a free spirit and has told me she is in this business because she didn't want to lose her independence. Didn't want a relationship or to depend on anyone but herself. When we are together she loves with all her heart... and then we part, after a passionate kiss, my free-spirit flies away... well, until our next date. I recently calculated that I've seen her about 40 times in 3 years... and that's roughly 80 hours of pure bliss, lol... and I've already booked my next two dates with her...

I see "Mya" is in town again. Her ad states "no disappointments or it's free". Just a heads up that she is leaving out a major detail in her ad. If that is your type of thing - go for it, but if you would rather have some sort of warning so your not surprised/fooled, here is a link you might be interested in..... :) https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?199521-Winnipeg-BRANDON-Estevan-x-MIA-x-Blonde-Bombshell-Barbie-36DDD-26

She, (as is her proper pronoun) is a very beautiful lady. Having received some very expensive surgeries to give her the body that she deserves and was supposed to have, doesn't make her any less of a woman. If it's not your cup of tea, now that you know, don't book with her. But I don't think she paid hundreds of thousands of dollars just to be misgendered or to tell every client that she may get that she was more male. She's not a male, so why is that information for pertinent? (Not trying to argue, just trying to get some insight.)

It's not awkward. Not every SP has this but if it is a female, like in your case, shouldn't be an issue. When behind closed doors say to them, "My female roommate is here just to let you know." Many SPs work together. Experienced punters are well aware of this. I wouldn't say/mention it before an appt. or even right at the door. However, once behind closed doors is a good time and will not surprise or worry your client the first time he/she hears a noise that isn't made by the two of you. I would think that 99.9% of the clients won't mind one bit if you do it this way. I know for me, I start thinking, is she cute too? Do the two of you ever...?

If it's someone I've developed an ongoing connection with, I'd have no problem with this exact scenario. Even if done on purpose as a security insurance

@Leviathan31 - You are a glass half empty type. I'm sorry your experiences haven't been like mine. I don't know you but I do wish they would have been better for you. I refuse to comment on this issue anymore.

That's disgusting. I can count the couple times I double booked and it took place during my introduction to then industry AND whole at a spa once upon time so it truly came down to too many cooks in the kitchen (doing my own advertising & booking at the same time as the secretary doing that job too) Now fully INDEPENDENT My mistakes aren't double booking but can be felt or affected by the same way- and that's when I am late due to allergy to clocks and that's great when you're with me but not if it happens to be when I'm eating chocolate Or in the shower or flipping a record and lost in my head or looking for it. WITH THAT SAID - I have NEVER ever made a mistake that I didn't offer attempts made to redeem myself and the entirety of that shit luck fuckery- whether by extending time, reducing rate/refunding prepay/rescheduling to suit their schedule/ etc etc . But keeping focus on the fact that a business is a business is a business you can treat even unfortunate circumstance as such business minded redemptions and at the end of the day - you have smoothed out a potential soured client and all the bad word of mouth that can come from just one negative experience OR worse- NOTHING EVER SAID OF YOUR NAME, and by taking ownership it can lead to a real possibility of a regular friend and a heightened appreciation/respect for yourself AS WELL AS THE CLIENT - IF IT AFFECTS YOUR INCOME/TIME /CONSCIENCE by making it right - YOU'LL MAKE BETTER MISTAKES TOMORROW! :) KK GTG .... he's been waiting for me while I write this. Bahahahahaha jusssst kiddddding...... {ish} ha! ;)

i have to say that not all sps are like that, but also not all sps are actively organized with their booking/appt setting process. i have talked to some who don't even know the # of the person making the appt, because they received a few or did the texting, and finally one shows up to confirm to get the address so that is the one getting the address. never mind that maybe you called first , and arrived 5 minutes later for a pre set appt time. of course the alternative is have a notebook, write down time of call, #, time for appt, get their ETA and/or travel time, and promise to that time to that person, while the next caller wanting the same time is told he can wait until the next available, get called back, or call back in X amount of time incase guy #1 doesn't show up. but people aren't often that organized when they do short notice appts, so theyll just take whoever shows up at the 'go here' spot and contacts them first, rather than tell them a reasonable next available time. then there is the obvious, OMG SHE'S WRITING DOWN THE PHONE # AND KEEPING IT hysterical reaction to the very idea so many sps are super paranoid about even doing that much. but without scheduling, and making notes, and noting the ph#s, how else is this supposed to go other than pure chaos, wishful thinking, and good luck. especially if they are in hotels, they can't afford to not take everyone, and run the risk someone is sitting outside having just waited too long to contact her to say he was 2 minutes away rather than right in the parking spot.

I'm curious what the general knowledge is on Herpes/Hsv around here, as I've been with a provider in the past who was unaware of the prevalence of it and the ease of infection, which was quite surprising. There seems to be a lot of stigma surrounding hsv particularly directed at the unlucky individuals that actually show symptoms of genital herpes (sores). People seem to think that as long as they don't show symptoms they are "clean". Some facts: 1) Herpes (type 1) is present in upwards of 80% of the adult population, it's difficult to get a precise number, for the following reason. 2) Many people who carry herpes never have a full blown outbreak, they may occasionally shed the virus/infect others, but they never have typical symptoms such as sores. This is why it's difficult to get an exact number of infected individuals, when so many are asymptomatic carriers. 3) There are 2 types of herpes, hsv 1 and hsv 2. They were once thought to be localized to different parts of the body, with hsv 1 infecting the mouth/face region, and hsv 2 infecting the genitals. We no know the 2 are very similar, and hsv 1 can present on any part of the body with mucous membranes, including the genitals. 4) Condoms are minimally effective. The virus is transferred via skin to skin contact of mucous membranes, not fluids, so condoms only protect what they cover. Hsv can often present in areas that condoms have no effect on, such as inner thighs. So there you have it, odds are you have herpes and don't even know it, even as you pass it on. Hsv 2 is significantly less common, at about 20% of the adult population, but as the 2 are so similar I personally don't think it makes much sense to be alarmed about Hsv 2 while accepting Hsv 1 as minor. I'm sure most of the wonderful providers here already know this information, but I figure it doesn't hurt to put it out there, particularly for new hobbyists.

Last week I saw Tabitha's pictures that had been just been added to CMJ lineup. I read her description,which said that she was a mature sensual woman. Her pictures showed a very fit and toned woman. Her description and picture describe the type of women that I like to see. I find these days there aren't enough older women for us mature gentlemen. So I scheduled her for this afternoon. When I go there, the door opened and I was greeted with very beautiful sexy woman. She gave me a big hug and a nice kiss and brought me into the room. She closed the door and gave me a passionate kiss and more hugs. She started the shower and we undressed. She is a very petite but fit woman. She has a very athletic body, very toned and curvy. She was a lot of fun in the shower. Back to the table we go where she gave me a very firm massage. She is skilled in this area. Then she began with some very nice body slides. It was amazing to watch her glistening body slide over me in the mirror. Then came the flip where she did more body slides and began a long teasing finish. We cuddled and kiss a bit more and chatted. She is a very intelligent and interesting women. She told me that she preferred old men like myself. CMJ should hire more mature women to work for them. I find that they are more sensual and passionate and know how to please a man. And at the same time, like to be pleased themselves. They have a lot more life experience to share. I've had most of my best experiences with the older women. I think Tabitha is going to be very popular. She has it all, beauty a very sexy and firm body, she is charming and intelligent and skilled. I will be seeing her again, and hopefully she will have time to see me again. Today was my lucky day. Tabitha texted to tell me that she was at CMJ East today. Had tried couple of times before, but she was usually booked or in the west end. So I decided that she would be my last Massage session of 2016. She welcome me at the door and seemed very happy to see me. As we had not seen each other for a while. She looked very beautiful and sexy :). she took me to the room and took off her robe. She looked very fit and sexy. She is into fitness seriously and you can tell. She noticed that I had loss a lot of weight recently. And said that I looked great also :). Took a quick shower and got on the massage table. We chatted during the session. Catching up on what is going on with our lives. She remembers things from our previous sessions which is nice that she actually listens to what is say :) She gives a very good massage and some nice kisses along the way. We have great chemistry together and connect on several different levels. Her body slides are great. Then comes the flip where she is well experienced and knows what she is doing. We know each other pretty well now and know how to give each other pleasure. After a lot of teasing and touching, we soon had our release of pleasure. Then we cuddled for a while and almost fell asleep :). This is a nice way to end a session, cuddling and kissing in each other's arms. Another shower then more kisses and hugs then we said our fond farewells:) Can't wait to see what 2017 will bring. What a way to finish 2017. If you haven't had a chance to meet Tabitha, you should. She offers a different experience and has many regulars that can vouch for her.

Two women are sitting in a reception area at a Dentist's office. One woman turns to the other and says,"It's so cold outside. I'm so happy my husband bought me these new leather boots." The other woman replies, "Well that's nice." The first woman then says, "This fur coat he bought me last year is the warmest and most comfortable coat I've ever had." The other woman replies, "Well that's nice." The first woman asks, "What did your husband buy you?" The other woman replies, "He payed for me to take a course on proper manners." So the woman asks, "Really, what did you learn during that course?" The other woman replies, "I learned to say, "Well that's nice" instead of "Hey listen! I don't really give a sh*t!"

She has been in Canada only a year but speaks fluent English with little accent and unlike many other Russians I have met in my life she is a very intelligent and very classy, very friendly, sociable and yes very pretty blonde Russian. She is very cute, short and sweet (she is tall at the bar though) with wavy long blonde hair in her early to mid 20's and loves hugs and kisses. She usually have regulars who come to Barbs to take her to Champagne room for a long time so whenever she comes she looks around for her regulars first before coming to me (I am a fan of variety. I see many and none really as a single regular for long time dance). Catch her while you can as she maybe in her last couple of months at Barbs. She dances daytime. Saturdays for sure.

Found this link, thought it was very interesting to say the least... http://healthpeoples.com/2017/02/eating-a-vagina-cures-cancer-according-to-cancer-treatment-studies/

Sensitive issue with a 100 different opinions. Even though she is now all woman, would I want to know? Yes!(my opinion)

I saw her once, and Cj is a hard one to define. She will provide the basics, and ensure your visit is complete, but I got the impression she wants her clients in and out in 2 minutes or less (no pun intended). She doesn't offer a gfe, which was dissapointing to me. Not very personable. Other issues as well, nothing to do with safety from my experience, but best to think of her as a very basic service provider. I'm in the would not repeat camp as well.

The New Sophia ;) Posted via Mobile Device

Fully agree. Name is number 1. For people who don't know you but are interested, many punters these days are doing research. If they start seeing different numbers or names, this is often a red flag. Name and numbers are key!!! As stated above, clothes and shoes are not the highest things on the list. Welcome back!

As an outside observer, I think a name change is dangerous if you have already a good level of name recognition. I personally feel it's a provider's personality and service that counts, and what she wears is way down the list

Again, sorry for painting with such a huge brush. I am obviously preaching to the wrong choir here. I will delete my post. I'm off to the Hot Dog Lovers Review Board where I will post recipes and video of how Hot Dogs are made. ....I suspect I will get similar reactions. :p Have good day everyone - be careful out there. :) :)

This is a difficult topic as there are good points on both sides. I can see how it escalated so quickly though. I saw it coming with a cringe when I read the original post. That is why I avoided weighing in at first. Sadly, that isn't in my nature. ;) I always disagree with any perspective that tries to paint whole groups with the same brush based on a small sample. It's not only discriminatory, but it is simply bad science. Also, the 'if she does this, she is likely that' approach can only be opinion and are likely to be just wrong. It is also easily disproved by pointing out the many times it is incorrect, as we have seen already. But........ (and I always get myself in hot water when I add that word to a post ;) ) There is a serious topic that he has brought up, that should be acknowledged by anyone involved in this industry here. I don't know the statistics on how common drug abuse and exploitation is, and the incomplete article that was posted here is the closest I've seen to anyone even attempting to find out. I will say that it seems as if there is a greater than average problem with it here in HRM, and particularly lately. (And I could go on for hours on how this can all be traced back to Harper and MacKay's quest to legislate their religious morals and drive the industry underground, but that is a topic for another post.) On bp, there seem to be an increasing number of young girls who pop up for short periods and then disappear, often posted from accounts that post multiple different yet similar listings. They normally advertise being 18-20 years old (real ages often exaggerated from both directions, which is another reason for great concern). Drugs are often a means for their 'managers' to both lure and control these young ladies. It is a real issue and likely more common in this city than many realize. I do believe Leviathan when he states that this has been his personal experience. That said, assuming that the whole group can be painted with the same brush based on this experience is wrong, particularly when stating that opinion here on this site, where the majority of ladies do not fit that profile. I say that not to imply that this is a superior site and that we are above that sort of thing. It is simply the nature of this type of site. Short term ads for quick payoff are much more effective and lucrative in places like bp. Ladies that are attracted to this site (at least the ones that stay) typically are interested in building a business based on establishing a reputation and a presence. It's a slow approach that takes time and dedication. The ones who need a quick payoff and don't care about reputation often move along from this site quickly. (Again, a generalization of my own for which I apologize, but this has been my observation.) I really don't know how prevalent this sort of thing is, but it is definitely there. We should all acknowledge that and do our best not to knowingly support any type of exploitation. It's easy to do if you are paying attention. There are so many great ladies around that are obviously not in that category. Just some food for thought.

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The first thing I thought about when I read your invention was a floss string container that as the little cutter in it. It is plastic so the noise would be down and it will have a cover that keeps it water tight. Of course it will be a bit bigger then the original container but it can be designed easily.

I don't go to Pigales much and that is because my day out is mostly Saturday daytime and they are closed and for Friday I prefer Barefax than anywhere else not only because the buffet is best but also because it is a cozy bar with most private Champagne rooms in Ottawa area. That said I have been to Pigales a few times past year and my favorite there is Tasha. Tasha is a very cute natural blonde with a very pretty baby face and small body. I know her for several years since the time she was dancing across the street from Pigale and I recommended Pigale to her 2 years ago to be a more suitable place for her. She is very friendly and very compatible with me as she loves hugs and kisses in the Champagne room.

** Available this week! Email me to book through daisydukes.me/contact ** I'm Daisy, an independent, 21 year old student in the Ottawa area. I quite adore all people, old, young, any and every ethnicity, and so this general adoration of people and their own personal qualities and talents helps me to provide sessions tailored to each clients unique needs. I am a friendly, well-read and affectionate young woman, currently in the midst of my university schooling. I strive for the best in all areas of my life and particularly so in matters of my private companionship. My description, rates, more photos & contact information can be found on my website daisydukes.me Recommendations (up to date) can be found here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=246768 Now, you may question the lack of a definitive list of services via reviews or my own description... I understand you may seek some kind of assurance that we won't just sit there and play chess for an hour... and about that, I have to add,, don't be silly . ;-) I want to carefully sculpt each of your experiences, and find I know room in my play style for lengthy, descriptive lists of each tiny thing I did. Let's keep our play discreet... and leave my sessions to their privacy. You'll understand why when you meet me. See you soon!

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I second you completely on that. She's a lovely and delightful young lady, I happily take her for dances whenever I see her, which isn't that often. She seems to consistently be in on Saturday afternoons. Great recommendation, H&K!

I have heard back from this MIA SP. She is alright and assured me that I don't need to worry about her.

** Available this week! Email me to book through daisydukes.me/contact ** I'm Daisy, an independent, 21 year old student in the Ottawa area. I quite adore all people, old, young, any and every ethnicity, and so this general adoration of people and their own personal qualities and talents helps me to provide sessions tailored to each clients unique needs. I am a friendly, well-read and affectionate young woman, currently in the midst of my university schooling. I strive for the best in all areas of my life and particularly so in matters of my private companionship. My description, rates, more photos & contact information can be found on my website daisydukes.me Recommendations (up to date) can be found here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=246768 Now, you may question the lack of a definitive list of services via reviews or my own description... I understand you may seek some kind of assurance that we won't just sit there and play chess for an hour... and about that, I have to add,, don't be silly . ;-) I want to carefully sculpt each of your experiences, and find I know room in my play style for lengthy, descriptive lists of each tiny thing I did. Let's keep our play discreet... and leave my sessions to their privacy. You'll understand why when you meet me. See you soon!

As a longtime customer I take everything I hear with a very large grain of salt, but last night I heard - from a reliable girl - about a recent, petty incident involving a member of the staff, not a dancer. Now the cameras have been there a long time, and I've gotten away with a lot of shit. But now I have confirmation that yep, someone seems to be obsessing over even the least little things these days.

Good to hear about a fun and quite busy Saturday afternoon at 340. Even when one is not able to get in very regularly (or recently), it's always great to read reports about the ongoing situation at Barb's. As a clubgoer who was almost always stopping by Barb's in hopes of an ATF encounter, I've been thinking about this aspect of the SC experience in light of the "loss" of the ATF in question. It strikes me that not only does one miss an ATF for all the obvious reasons (i.e. those qualities leading to someone becoming a fave in the first place, if that isn't too circular), but also for the sense of familiarity that is built up after a number of years. Certainly, it's understandable that many clubgoers prefer variety and the sense of adventure and novelty that comes with meeting and trying CR encounters with new and/or different dancers. On the other hand, there's something nice (at least to my mind) in knowing what to expect (and what not to expect) with an ATF. Maybe I'm not adventurous enough, but I can't help but feel a certain very slight tension when going to the CR with someone unfamiliar. Even when one is by no means looking for 'high mileage', the uncertainty regarding how the experience will unfold tends to promote a certain nostalgia for the trusted ATF encounters. Guess it's important to remember that everyone is at least somewhat different and experiences of this nature are unlikely to be precisely replicated. Barb's continues to be the venue in which I'm most comfortable and with which I'm most familiar, so it may be that it's the place to begin to seek a more diversified experience - or find a new ATF.

It was a fun afternoon. I am a daytime guy and really on a Saturday afternoon there aren't many options as far as strip clubs are concerned. Barbarellas is the best option on a Saturday afternoon. Barefax is dead, Pigale is closed and so is Playmates until 4 (and dead until 8 pm on Saturdays) and NuDen you need a binocular to see the stage not to mention the very open Champagne rooms at NuDen. In addition nothing short of a massive earthquake or a global nuclear war can keep me away from going to this club. Not road closures (btw, Lyon is now totally closed south of Queen to Albert) and not cameras (I counted about five in the backroom where Private dances take place) as I have been going to this club past 20 years and some girls are like family. Anyhow it was above average for a Saturday afternoon. They also had stage dances one after another (between 3 and 6 when I was there) and maybe this was a factor for the relatively large number of patrons deciding to stay on and order drinks instead of leaving soon. Also maybe because my all time favorite Kitty was there and so were her fans. But also a dozen other ladies and among them I recognized Harley (blonde cutie with love from Russia), Natasha, (sexy ebony with slim body and sexy nipples and bum) Blonde Juice, former blonde Brandi (with new hair color and style), Brunette Anna (soft fair skin coming at 4), a new blonde Portuguese girl named Vanessa (she is very friendly and doesn't mind hugs and kisses in the Champagne room), Jenna (pretty baby face and recently moved from Barefax) and last but by no means least the very cute lovable brunette Kitty Kat (Lily Collins) and a few others I didn't recognize. The following were not there and I missed them all. Bridgette (needs no introduction), Megan (now at NuDen and needs no introduction), Cin (Kitty's friend), Samantha (cute soft brunette), Very cute lovely very friendly brunette with spinner body Phoenix (I think she dances evenings only nowadays) and Layla (cute Lebanese) and last but by no means least I was hoping to see Sammy (the very friendly and compatible with hugs and kisses and very pretty long blonde/brown hair). Staff were especially friendly (to me at least!!!!) today. I had a fun afternoon. At one point I counted about two dozen patrons. Keep it up gentlemen. Please come out and support your local bar and support the ladies who btw are there to show you the gateway to heaven.

As mentioned by those who have already posted, there are so many reasons why you may not get a reply. From leaving the business to vacations, family emergencies and even new relationships. But another common reason is feelings. Not everyone is "out" when it comes to working in this industry. For some, it's a totally secret, hidden and separate part of their lives- I could see how feelings going in either direction could seriously complicate things, (in a life that might already be full of complications.) While I tell those I don't want contact with anymore why, some people just aren't good with confrontation.. and though I know you genuinely had the best of intentions, messages like "even if you don't want to see me, please reply" tend to make those who dislike confrontation even more uncomfortable. Just to be clear, I don't think there's anything wrong with caring about/for a companion, (I have clients I've become close friends with over the years.) I just feel that, in many instances, it has to be approached and handled different than with someone who you're not paying. You might get a reply in the future with apologies for the delay and making you worry, or you might never hear from her again.. Either way, the best thing to do is try to not worry or dwell on it. /hugs

On lyla, there are certain rules. In the header it has a warning concerning certain things. This is perhaps why no one has replied.

This actually goes both ways! I get worried about people I haven't seen or heard from in awhile but I realize that they have people in their life beyond our great connection and I must just trust that they are being taken care of! I know it doesn't stop you from worrying but I am sure she has support. I am pretty sure we all do :) I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way!

Well NOW I am sad for MULTIPLE REASON'S! !! The grim reapers list above AND SANTA CLAUSE Obviously fucken told the goddamn Easter bunny about ME AS I DIDN'T GET ANY CHOCOLATES. What the shit. I didn't even pull the fire alarm anywhere THIS weekend. I got someone else to. ;) I gotsta go check my stew. Rrrrabbit stew wootwoot

Yes, Katrina usually works from 7 on, except for Sundays. I was fortunate enough to see her Wednesday night, after 11. Such a lovely woman, looking as good as ever, perhaps even better, nice and toned, difficult to find flaws. Her eyes are still as beautiful, her smile is still as bright and her laugh is still as sexy as always. But then, I've loved her for years, before the hurricane!

My personal preference is definately Kept clean but not necessarily completely shaved (intimate area ) ... But I really enjoy chest hair.. I have a soft spot for hair .. It look manly and it is so attractive to see a nice beard and a chest covered with hair .. It is like an invitation to slide your fingers in it ... The only thing that bothers me , would be that famous smell when I am massaging around the botox area ;) This would be my only recommendation to the guys that like a great massage .. Clean deep and scrub that bum so your Ma might be more open minded to give you a great bum massage ;) Hahaha ! Ali

Bad apples exist on both sides and I am sorry to hear that you were treated like a reserve player or something like that. I gather there must be something wrong if same thing happened to you more than once. What's the other side of the story? Did you give them a chance to explain? Are these SPs your regulars? Or your first time with them? If you are good and shiny, the world is always wider out there. Don't let this bothers you and find others who appreciate you as a good client. Live life cool!!!

No debate after this :)

If I had to choose...I'd prefer a clean shaved gent :)...I think it's only fair, since i am always completely shaved as well :):)