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Last Sunday I made a mistake. I chose to inform members of something about an SP, thinking it was the "right thing" to do. I was wrong! I could have gone about it another way. I had befriended this SP, there is nothing wrong with that. After speaking with this SP after the damage was done, I came to realize she didn't even know a mistake had been made. Her Lyla account is suspended for 1 year. I can't take back what I did, I wish I could. I feel so guilty for this, I feel as though I stabbed her in the back. She is a kind human being, a sweetheart in fact and a really great provider. I'm sure she will be back and to her, "I am truly sorry! I wish you the best!" ***I want my account suspended for one year.*** P.S. I want to thank everyone who has helped me out and been kind to me since I joined Lyla. I wish you all the best as well.

Having the experience being single for 7+ years I have come to realize a couple of things. On-line dating is a waste of time because: 1, people are describing themselves as the person they would like to be, not who they are. Meaning that once there is any chance for an actual meeting, they freak out and drop you. Can also be because of old photos that doesn't reflect today's statue. 2, People seem to want what they can't have. The majority of both men and women in their 30's and 40's are looking for someone younger than them self, how will that ever work. I'm pretty content being single and enjoying the smaller things in life, but of course there are times where it would be great to have someone by my side to enjoy life with. My biggest problem meeting someone seems to be that a lot of women doesn't like the fact I travel for work. I was asked to change jobs to continue forward, don't think so lady. Anyway, today's society in general is "all about me" and to actually care for other people is seen as a weird thing.

GoinDown, I'm really not trying to start anything but you have to be able to see the humor with regards to your second post, "...seeing one's own words in print... quickest to 1000 posts etc. lol." It's your fifth post on this thread. I just find that funny.

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I have received comments from the ladies (MA/SP) that it does help them. Yes a little bit of it is saying hey "we did this" (fictionally of course), but it does help them prove they are real. A reco or two (3 tops!) per poster is nice, more than that I think get's shilly. Also the thing to consider about posting is that there are many lurkers out there. While they don't post, I believe we who do post, they use those recommendations, at least to some extent, and it provides some business to the ladies. That's my feeling anyway.

OP wasn't the one claiming reviews were a "race to 1000 poss" by posting 5 times in one thread about it though ;p (im assuming this is all in jest? lol)

BF & Barbs don't score high for me because of parking. I've paid too many tickets over the years-the beautiful girls make me forget. Pigales is my favourite, good parking, great food, beautiful girls plus very private CR. Many of the staff working there have been there for over 20 years. Playmate is my #2 primarily for the beautiful mature ladies there plus reasonable CR. Den is far too quiet (daytime) Taboo has lost my 2 favourite girls there.

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Had a chance to drop into the Mate this afternoon hoping to connect with Lana and lo and behold she was absent but Delicious was there. OMG, just the opposite of last week. She remembered me and I couldn't believe it when I spotted her and she spotted me. Not to sound like a broken record, but I find the woman totally intoxicating. Was a fabulous session. I feel like a kid when I'm around her and I'm a senior citizen, (at 65). Its ridiculous! Kind of a thunderstruck feeling. Awesome. Adora was there again and I got to enjoy her stage thing. She then sat with an older gent to chat and off they went to the CR. Nothing like "grey power"! Old farts rule!(lol)

I love the atmosphere of Pigales, once you get past the front door anyway. The servers and bartenders are great, such a vast range of girls, lots of alt girls, ebony, barbie blonds, I like that place. Also the CR is excellent, you get a nice walk down the stairs and get to know the dancer a bit more. The booths down there are just big enough to be comfortable relaxed. Of course the parking is great and there are cheap motels all along the road there if you are visiting the area and when you're done and slightly drunk and sticky you can go to the 24 hour Mcdonalds right across the road. I like Barbs a lot too, but I find the place a bit small and the CR is just too open. Barefax has awesome looking girls as well like Barbs and Pigales, but I just find it too much of a frat house and too touristy. Playmate I used to really like but haven't been in a few years, I ilke the neighborhood feel of the place and the less fake looking girls there but for some reason I'm not drawn back there.

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I appreciate everyone who is sending me messages not to do this, really. My decision is made. It only seems fair...

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I like the Playmate because you can get all size and shapes and races. You can get young to mid-40. I am a gentleman who prefer a good looking woman over 29. And the stair well is easy to navigate. Barbs is my 2nd choice like Phoenix The Den is my 3rd but is very hit and miss and don't even have ladies sometimes. The one in Ottawa South too far. There is no way I can make it up the Barefax stairs . I would need an elevator! Don't like the Quebec side! too far for me now!

My vote goes to Barbarella's, but I'd rank BareFax as a close second. Certainly understand that many are less than thrilled with certain aspects of the CR at Barb's, but as has been discussed in the 'Barb's' thread, this is less of an issue at times when things are not especially busy in the club/CR. Everyone will have his (or her) own reasons for preferring one over another, but I have always liked the overall layout of Barb's with the club seeming not too small for comfort, but not overwhelmingly large, either. Have never been entirely comfortable with the 'grand staircase', 'stairway to heaven' feel ascending (and descending) from the CR area at the 'Fax - and can remember a time when there was a limited amount of CR space on the main floor but that was some time ago. Perhaps I should note that it's been a number of years since I've been in either of these clubs at night, so my ranking is based on day visits. The 'Mate deserves mention for its very casual (during the afternoon, anyway) atmosphere, but will strike many clubgoers as just too slow in general. To me, the 'Mate is best for either hoping for a particular encounter (i.e. with a fave dancer) or just 'hanging out' without particularly high expectations for.....well, for anything - certain kinds of dancers, frequency of stage rotation, large numbers of dancers etc. Most typical expectations should be discarded prior to entering the 'Mate and one should just hope for the best. I've had a very stimulating time there but, just as often, have left after a short while as things just seemed lethargic. Barbarella's (with some exceptions on certain Saturday afternoons) has seemed the most consistent of the venues I've frequented, but consistency may not be a characteristic valued by all. I hope some will post to give reasons for their own preferences, especially regarding the places with which some of us are less familiar such as Pigale and Taboo.

Losing being able to see a great provider.

I am not sure if I am posting this in the right section but avoid Alexa and Shannon on BP. If you want to know why then message me and also the ladies too if you like to know cause I don't know how to go about this in what I know.

I think the official policy here is that recos are works of fiction, as far as the law is concerned :) And I think that the reason there are fewer recos is that there are fewer people hanging out here generally. I'd actually noticed a significant uptick over the last six months or so, at least in Ottawa. And to get back to the original point of this thread: I think they're very much worthwhile. I use them myself when deciding who I might like to meet, and if I have a good time, I write them for others.

Here is a composite ad I came up with from various ads on BP and elsewhere: Mixed student in town. (How confused is she?) Exotic mix...super soaker! (Aren't those Japanese-Italian squirt guns fun!) Busty Mediterenaen Goddess. (Not sure which ship she came in from.) Slim-thick with amazing face to match! (Love those thin-thick faces.) 100,000% REAL PICTURES. (Sorry that's just too unreal for me!) 100% addicted. (Sorry, I don't do them!) Certified Freak. I'm well mannered. (My Mom would love to meet you!) I will be so wet, it will feel like you are in the falls! (Will I have to wear a raincoat?) Sizzling hot all menus! (I'll have a Mediterenaen stirfry please.) I don't dance the chocolate cha-cha! (I'm so glad, I can only do the vanilla twist) Thick, juicy, soft, smooth, creamy, caramel complexion!(Love those Tootsie-Rolls!) I have long Black and Green eyes. (Is your hair Red and White?) Bring beer, wine or booze, it makes me horny! (Just makes me droopy!) Searious inquiries only! (I take that seriously!) Loushious Lips! (Maybe just a bit too luscious for me.) My sexy eyes will eat you alive! (Do I get a discount if I die?) No stomach. Slim waste! (It is a waste, can they operate?) Are you looking for a real, sweet and sour experience? ( Real and Sweet will do just fine!) Hot inked girl ready for you! (Hot off the presses?) Allow me to pamper you with my limitless skills and talents! (I knew God was a woman!) It ain't easy being Sleazy! (Don't I know it?) I never leave a friend unsatisfied! (Wanna be my friend?) Chemistry is important! (So is Physics my dear!) Tight as a whistle! (And clean as one too, can I play you a tune?) Hygiene guaranteed and expected. No bullshit! (I would hope so!!!) Girl with a hot summer's tan, begin your spring with me! (Doesn't summer come after spring?) I have a magical tongue that will keep you dreaming for days! (And I have a magical wand that will make you say Ohhhhhhhhh again and again!)

I just love heels, they make a ladies legs look longer and slimmer which can be very hot.

Does she have a sister?

I have the most amazing younger sister ( 28 ), from the day she was born she has been my joy and best friend! We have a true unbreakable bond and I'm just so proud of her and her accomplishments. She never lets a day go by without making me smile, feel loved and appreciated. She's quite amazing! I make sure she knows this everyday:icon_smile:

I read, use and highly appreciate recco's. Yes, of course YMMV. Not everyone is going to have the same experience. It does tell you that the girl is real, not a scammer, and gives some idea of the type of experience to expect. I also have gotten to know some of the posters tastes which gives the recco from them more weight. There are a few members who I've learned to trust them when they give thumbs up, and that it's worth listening to. I have had many great experiences that I might not have if not for the recco of other members. I totally disagree with that statement. I'm here to find the good experiences. Not the bad ones. There are many sites that will help you find those. Not sure why you'd want to though. Just my thoughts

When people try to read into what you are saying and then comment about something you are not even talking about or that it is far from what you were actually saying.

I guess if I've covered all the basis correctly. .. and then just for sureties sake- 2 more times again after that lol... it apparently leads to becoming completely speechless for all those who have experienced this mysterious ROAR ;-) Plus .... i think that some things just can't possibly be put into words.... you must see ....hear ... touch and taste... to believe ya know? (Don't worry you don't need to smell anything!!! :-)... ) YEP. I just said THAT. Quirrrky ...Slurrrpy and Rrrroarrring

I think the 'ideal' client, at least for ME, would be similar to the ideals of a sugar daddy relationship. I'm an old romantic at heart, I suppose, and I love sweet and intimate gestures... like flowers, well thought out gifts, even poetry. I really enjoy dates where it feels like two old lovers reconnecting, as I find that's half the fun of this- the fact that I get to have such deep relationships, on multiple levels, with varying people. I find it all so interesting, like I'm getting snippets of stories from all my clients... and so the ones that cater to my preferences i.e; clients looking for an experience and not a menu, are ideal. So yes, my ideal client would be something akin to a "secret lover", who was affectionate and understanding (and allowed me to be the same!), rarely booked last minute ( ;) ), was courteous in our conversations, loved to plan trips/thoughtful dates/give considerate gifts... etc. But, this would just be my ideal. I'm sure the opposite could easily be true for someone else- so to speak, a man who wastes no time over frivolties, gets his menu, is courteous but he pays and goes. Wham, bam, thank you ma'am. I suppose it all depends. :)

I think there is a misunderstanding where guys in this hobby think we want to date them and only the good looking ones such as the client #1 would be considered suitable as the ideal man in real life. Sure they were good looking but a few in that category turned out to be full of themselves and trying to score a f**k buddy. If I want that, it won't be with a client. Sometimes I feel as though we can't win either because some men out there have low self esteem and when trying to give them a compliment, I get the "Harhahrhar I bet you say that to all the guys" which I find to be very insulting and clearly makes the SP feel as though she is a bullshitter. Those are the onesie have found in my experience who are more likely to assume that we will only enjoy our job with the likes of client #1 and they have a really skewed outlook of who we spend time with as an SP. Sorry guys but you truly have no idea. Some of the best times I've had weren't with client #1 and there are also nice guys who happen to fall into the category of client #1 but I wouldn't call them an ideal guy I'd date in real life. One can't pin down a "type" because there are s many different combinations when it comes to men. I have so many great special relationships with regular clients and each one of them are nice in their own way. And I repeat, they are not client #1 I say this because most assume we want to be with client #1. A lot of women are not as shallow as you think. Well at least not me anyways. I tend to steer towards men in their early to mid 50's as someone I would consider dating. This leads me to believe that a lot of men I've personally noticed think we're just in it for the money period and if we get young hot men as clients who are well hung then we REALLY enjoy it and that we just put us with those are older or not in shape etc strictly for the money. Sigh..... Sure there are men out there who aren't Adonises but does that mean they're not worth spending time with whether as clients or personally? Does it not mean that they have other desirable qualities that can attribute to a great encounter? Does vanity now equal self worth? No! I'm in no way skinny Barbie myself physically speaking but I do have great clients who do find me very attractive and there is a connection there. They like me for me. They can see beyond someone's physique because it's not the be all or end all. The same applies to clients. I think this thread should be renamed to "Who is Your Dream Guy in Your Personal Life". I don't think you would get the answer to that. Client #1 does not exist in the way one would assume.

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An ideal client is similar to a nice dream...a nice peaceful sleep being equivalent to having a good flow with a client where conversations or intimacy is not awkward, demeaning or troublesome in any way. Just like you wouldn't want to wake up out of a nightmare in a panic or upset. Having a nice dream, you almost don't want to wake up but know at some point it will end. Being awake, you will long to have that same dream again at some point. If they actually put me in a great mood during and after they leave, they are aces in my books. That says it all. If I find I have to mentally psyche myself up to see them because of their attitude towards me over time, I stop seeing them. Some SP -client relationships can eventually run their course. If I have a few less clients and instead have great quality clients, it leaves me in the mental head space to attract more great clients if I'm feeling great. I quickly get rid of the presumptuous, condescending fools who think they know who you are after a few visits and because they are paying you, they can give you unsolicited advice, make backhanded insults or treat you like a toy. I was told not too long ago that SPs should be spending more time with their families because we don't do much other than work. Ha! You are the weakest link...goodbye!

My best would be like my first: he was on a business trip and staying at a nice hotel. He was courteous during our texting, did not haggle, and had a pleasant sense of humor. Before my visit he went for a swim and hot tub, so when I arrived he was clean and relaxed. He gave me my donation right away, we had a nice chat and took our time. He acted like we were pals and he was enthusiastic, appreciative, very respectful and conscientious of my well being. And he was... skilled :)

I don't want to be the asshole who thinks he knows how you should run your life better than you do, and I know I'm about to sound like that guy, but... that distinction really doesn't exist. If you post stuff online - anywhere - then anyone can find it, download it, and republish it... and you have no idea whether that person is on the other side of the planet or the other side of the road. Whatever you do or don't decide to publish, be aware that once you put it out there, it's out there forever. You can't call it back, you can't control where it goes, and you can't control who does or doesn't see it. The decision to publish face pics is irrevocable; once you've done it, it stays done. Forever.

I understand both sides, to Just see a ladies eyes, or lips gives a sense of mystery-which can cause even more Anticipation to meet! For myself I show my face on some sites, such as Lyla and Twitter, others I would not-as its too close to home! I must Say for the ladies That do take the Plunge to show their face- it takes alot of guts - way to go!

I mean sure it's nice to see her eyes and lips and it's a plus to see the whole package but some of us ladies prefer to not show our face for discretion purposes Being private is very important to me as I'm sure it is to you as well, sometimes I may show my lips but that's about it

How often are you getting outbreaks? Can you take Valtrex or other medication to control your outbreaks? If you use a condom and you are not having an outbreak, the risk of transmission is very low. I don't understand the mentally of "I won't sleep with someone who has an STI" because when you are sleeping with strangers, you never really know. In my work, I pretty much assume everyone has every STI/D on the planet, until we get to know each other. This is one of the key reasons I chose to do massage rather than escorting. That is my personal choice, and I respect the choices of others.